speaking women

ATRP2019 · 2019-07-23T16:48:50+00:00

I usually build comfort and rapport by being honest and sharing my stories and life experiences with a woman for the first hour or two.

Then I begin to gradually become more mysterious and vague. This is the exact OPPOSITE of what most guys do. The more time they spend with a girl, the more invested the guy gets and the more needy he gets.

Once I know she feels safe enough to fuck me 1-2 hours, then the deal is already done and she's made up her mind. Why blow it by talking too much or ruining the mystery for her? She gets to build this picture in her head about who I am and my life. Meanwhile I've just out manoeuvred her like a game of chess and beat the game.

TFWnoLTR · 2019-07-23T19:11:10+00:00

There are a lot of different ways to talk to women and it's just a matter of finding out what suits you best.

I see most of my success from talking about my passions and occasionally being goofy in between. Seems to take them from serious to silly and back and they like that. This works because I have some passions that require a lot of in depth description and explanation, as well as a lot of shitty dad jokes.

I'm weird. I've had several women say they like me because I'm weird in a good way. That's me, and I seem to like women who lack personality so I can take them over with mine. That's based on what I've been told by others, not really how I see it. The more I think about it the harder it is to deny though.

I have a friend who literally just insults women he wants to fuck, than later he will have his arm around her whispering in her ear and eventually be fucking her. That's his game. He likes aggressive women and is an aggressive dude.

The things both of those methods have in common is that they turn up her emotion, be it positive or negative. You just need to figure out what works for you, and that takes experience. Just keep talking to women and make notes of what worked and what didn't.

Above all, keep in mind that there will always be women who just aren't that interested in you. Don't read too much into that.

latinasonly · 2019-07-23T17:04:48+00:00

it is critical that you evoke emotion in others. this is what makes you an engaging person to interact with. to do this you need to show emotion yourself.

what couch redpill (he has many great points but is a bit of a nutter) is reffering to is avoid showing ( or better yet having) weak emotions.

FieldLine · 2019-07-24T02:25:49+00:00

Try both and report back.

Todd says

Who the fuck is Todd?

coach red pill

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Title	speaking women
Author	Ela7mer
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Date	July 23, 2019 2:56 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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