I found a question on the rational male website. In Rollo Tommasi's post regarding a plate theory I found an interesting question and couldn't see any answers for it.

Does anyone has an answers for the following questions?Please let me know a comment section

Here the question:

"I’m not clear on a few things:

If the man is of high quality, I’m assuming the woman are too (unless only men can be of high quality). What would make them stay %100 IL if there will likely be high quality men competing for their attention as well? It seems as though you only take into account the competitive plane for the men. Hypergamy is vast and it is rampant nowadays, need I remind you.

In practice, the highest quality women, ie most attractive and feminine, would be the least patient in this entire ordeal especially if they are capable of attracting men of equal or higher quality men than the plate spinner that would otherwise commit to them. Doesn’t this present a problem to the interests of the spinner?

Isn’t it a bit facetious that you’re asking men, who are still human beings btw, to completely renounce any modicum of desire and eventual “goal” to romantically bond monogamously to a woman whom they care about and love? The desire to eventually settle down and perpetuate the species with a woman worthy of carrying your offspring is still an inclination most male humans share.

It seems a bit hasty to categorize men who eventually would like to achieve a LTR as automatically lower quality or cowards. (Especially when the majority of high quality men have and still do want to eventually settle down.) Humans are kind of programmed to seek out the best person who they can attract that likes them back. Life is only so long and we have a biological imperative to reproduce , yet it seems that you tend to downplay this imperative when it comes to male humans.

Lastly, and this ties along with the whole renouncing of human emotions thing, people are prone to develop favorites. There will be women that the plate spinner will be more fond of and compatible with than others and will likely be a lot less willing to see them go. Being high quality as a man isn’t insurance for falling in love with a woman, is it?

What if one of those women were to push for commitment, you’re suggesting that all men have the resolve to drop this woman and start anew because if he were to succumb she will then look at him as a lowly loser that has no other options? This is nihilism.

All in all, I see where you’re going with this and I essentially agree with it in theory, but in practice, there will be real life events and human emotions that will prevent this from as smoothly as you describe especially in this current dating environment."