I don't understand how women can have such high standards and reject all these guys to end up with some nutter that leave his kids as bastards? The level of fatherless kids in America and the UK is absolutely heart breaking to see.

It just makes no sense that men like us who are improving ourselves, independent, able to look after ourselves, good civilised and educated men are stuggling to get females attention yet some loser from the block down the road is got 6 girls on rotation and doesn't give a damn about any of them.

It really feels fucked. My problem is that women have sooooo many options yet they go for the worst most likely cheatable, most cold most stupid dude they find? I'm not just saying that, it's true and it's happening everywhere in the west. The dudes that are worth it ain't getting shit, yet the dudes with zero qualities are getting multiple women..and the number of fatherless babies in the west is proof of that.

Could it be we are doing things wrong? Why not be a loser, do nothing, not shower or look after yourself and walk round like a phsycho and maybe we would get somewhere? Rather than improving? Because honestly it feels like the more you've got your life together , the less attractive you become.

I improve for myself but I don't feel like women these days are attracted to it? They seem to want things in chaos rather than order. Order Is boring to women.