I will be a good 7-10 years older (assuming) than the average chick in the program. Recently returning to school I found the following interactions to be true.

  1. If I am out going, women saw this as a direct come on, often met with a dear in the headlights look, resulting in a deflect and redirect attitude. And certainly 110% effort to show disinterest. This made a coffee /lunch dam near impossible.

  2. If I am helpful, this resulted in a blatant/abusive situation where my services would be consumed in large volumes (got me laid, but I sure as shit paid for it in doing double duty in the long run). It was sobering/sickening as fuck when I figured this out and watched dumb bitches throw their arm around me/bat their eyes in order to "buy" additional help.

  3. If I act disinterested and busy then I am not a "threat" I go my way, they go theirs mentality. Kept the users at bay and made things tolerable, I always had some where "to be" (not really) as I could duck out if they were disinterested.

Then at the same time I need to stop shitting where I eat, and if thats the case I should not have any issues with the ladies, but social acceptance/ normal human interaction would be nice, if they could get over themselves for 5 minutes to engage in normal human conversation.

Thoughts on this?