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Staying "positive" through all this learning?

SwallowRP · 2015-04-15T20:47:35+00:00

I've been seeing a therapist for a little while now just 'cuz I wanted to figure out how to motivate myself better. He's saying that negative...

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April 15, 2015

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Title	Staying "positive" through all this learning?
Author	SwallowRP
Upvotes	3
Comments	1
Date	April 15, 2015 8:47 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/32q6r2/staying_positive_through_all_this_learning/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/staying-positive-through-all-this-learning.191054 https://theredarchive.com/post/191054

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[–]waylandertheslayer8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Women aren't worse than men." Say it with me.

Women are different. Women have aspects that are horrible. Women can fuck you over, fuck up your whole life, and still blame you. Women can be the worst thing in your whole life. But they can also be the best.

What you are feeling right now is natural - you've been fed lies your entire life about what women are like, and now you find out the reality is way below that. But in reality, women are like men. They don't act the same, talk the same, think the same. But they are just as good, bad, kind, cruel, happy and sad.

Do you wish that male and female roles were reversed? That you only had to look good and decide which person that approaches you you want to sleep with? That there is always a safety net for you? That people were nice to you for no other reason than that you're a young man?

What about hamstering or hitting the wall? Being more emotional, less rational? Being on top of the world from 16-30, then falling to the bottom?

At the end of the day, women have it just as bad as men. They are unhappy with the current system, it just takes a while for it to hit them. You have it better than women because you can improve yourself, continue to build yourself up and make yourself attractive in ways other than being or looking young.