Went on a tinder date yesterday. We had coffee, I paid, then we went to a park nearby. She was acting aloof at first, but after some laughs and lots of kino, got more comfortable, but I didn't feel enough connection to go in for a kiss. She was avoiding eye contact most of the time, I made jokes about that and challenged her to a staring contest. Her dorm was nearby - it's a single room with roommates though. She told me about her other tinder dates, how they walked her to the door, and I guess assumed I would do the same - so I did. Midway though I suggested we take the scenic route, but she wasn't for it, so we started to part ways slowly and I peaced out. I had her hat in my hand the whole time. She thought I'd follow her and I guess she was surprised, she stared at me in the distance as I was walking away, then she kept on going her way. She then texted me 3 times. 1) "Not fair.", 2) "I'll miss my hat" to which I replied "Earn it" (sorry if cringe), and she replied back with "It was very strange", 3) "Soo if you're Went on a tinder date yesterday. We had coffee, I paid, then we went to a park nearby. She was acting aloof at first, but after some laughs and lots of kino, got more comfortable, but I didn't feel enough connection to go in for a kiss. She was avoiding eye contact most of the time, I made jokes about that and challenged her to a staring contest. Her dorm was nearby - it's a single room with roommates though. She told me about her other tinder dates, how they walked her to the door, and I guess assumed I would do the same - so I did. Midway though I suggested we take the scenic route, but she wasn't for it, so we started to part ways slowly and I peaced out. I had her hat in my hand the whole time. She thought I'd follow her and I guess she was surprised, she stared at me in the distance as I was walking away, then she kept on going her way. She then texted me 2 times at night yesterday, and 1 time this evening. 1) "Not fair.", 2) "I'll miss my hat" to which I replied "Earn it and I'll give it back" (sorry if cringe guys), and she replied back with "Ok so that was kind of strange", 3) "Soo if you're willing to give it back I'd be pretty happy". I understand she wants her shit back, but is it possible to turn this into a win for me? If not, I'd be glad to keep the thing because I find it all very amusing.