Fellow pillers,

Got myself in a predicament. This girl I've been texting on a local groupchat seems to be rejecting my attempts to escalate and engage. The 3 shit tests in question I fail at is -You don't have to, it's fine-. Some variant of her inserting her independence "I don't need you, I fully got this under my belt or intend like that etc.). Or 3rd, she brags about her recent accomplishments. Any tips to pass these shit tests, especially the first?