Stood up at bar

RPthrowaway123 · 2014-05-10T00:38:49+00:00

Next her. She obviously has no concern for your time, why would you even want her?

qstnnblmtrl · 2014-05-10T01:09:27+00:00

1.5 hours late? Jesus christ, maybe if she was like 10 mins late a text would have been appropriate, now it would just look desperate. On to the next. Why don't you approach some women at the bar?

[deleted] · 2014-05-10T03:11:33+00:00

Dude don't even fucking bother. Approach some women and fail to pick them up. Feel alive. Have a beer. Fuck her yo. Not literally, though. Next the shit out of her. I mean what excuse would rectify this? she forgot? too bad. her car broke down? too bad. the noshow is one thing but no text to you or anything? fuck that.

[deleted] · 2014-05-10T02:16:50+00:00

Move on.

I'm no alpha myself, but even I can recognize a girl who doesn't care or isn't interested.

stillnoturday · 2014-05-10T02:35:52+00:00

lol next... you kinda knew the answer to this.

[deleted] · 2014-05-10T03:34:43+00:00

Its called a soft reject. If her IL were higher and she truly couldn't make it she would damn well let you know.

a_nus · 2014-05-10T07:08:22+00:00

Most I've waited for a girl is ~15 minutes, and I consider that pushing it. 90 minutes is way too much. She didn't even bother to give you a heads up about being late. Have some respect for yourself and next her.

lost_2_apathy · 2014-05-10T15:53:25+00:00

Meet up at a bar? A solid place to get flaked.

Talk up there nearest people and have a good time. Don't sit around sulking that someone flaked on you. Flakes are becoming more and more common. It's now even acceptable for women to be late. Fuck that.

To prevent this shit from affecting you, either be purposely late yourself or have conflicting plans and choose one yourself (this leads to you flaking on someone, oh well). Alternatively, you arrive at the bar get your drink and start meeting people and chatting. Don't sit around and wait for people, it's boring and doesn't keep you in the right mindset.

freefire137 · 2014-05-10T06:05:14+00:00

If she apologizes, tell her you forgot all together. Next her as well, women who care will at least try to reschedule.

caxica · 2014-05-10T12:02:48+00:00

rape her

rockmasterflex · 2014-05-10T02:42:30+00:00

Your post history claims you are 7'6". If this were true, you would literally be prying women off you at a bar.

But either way, 10 minutes is more than enough of a threshold to hear nothing. Once 10 minutes hit and you had NOTHING, you consider the date a wash, and do whatever you want with your reclaimed time.

Title	Stood up at bar
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	9
Comments	13
Date	May 10, 2014 12:29 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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