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Red Pill Theorya_nus/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 06:54 AM
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Ask Red Pilla_nus/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 06:24 PM
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a_nus/r/PussyPass10/05/14 05:55 AM
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a_nus/r/seduction07/02/14 10:10 AM
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a_nus/r/askTRP31/01/14 03:19 AM
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Ask Red Pilla_nus/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 11:33 AM
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Ask Red Pilla_nus/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 03:42 AM
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Ask Red Pilla_nus/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 08:26 AM
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a_nus/r/seduction14/03/14 06:01 AM
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a_nus/r/askTRP19/04/14 12:20 PM
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a_nus/r/askTRP16/03/14 06:31 AM
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a_nus/r/seduction12/03/14 07:59 AM
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Ask Red Pilla_nus/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 06:00 AM
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Ask Red Pilla_nus/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 03:06 AM
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a_nus/r/askTRP05/07/14 07:29 PM
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a_nus/r/askTRP31/05/14 01:48 PM
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a_nus/r/askTRP04/02/14 08:57 AM
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a_nus/r/askTRP10/03/14 09:24 AM
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a_nus/r/askTRP24/02/15 02:08 AM
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I think TRP appeals to men who are socially inept. This is a superset, of which autism is a subset. Not all awkward men are autistic, but I assume all autistic men are awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:29 PM
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Hell yeah. Similar hobbies, health & fitness conscious, and decently attractive is all we'd need. Would be a bit strange if we looked too much alike though...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 02:20 AM
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There would still be subgroups of socially awkward men who congregate online to talk shit about women yet use prostitution to fulfill their sexual needs. Will there be less of them than there are now? Probably. But I don't think they'll completely vanish. Note - not claiming TRP, incels, or MGTOW are groups dedicated to talking shit about women. But within all those groups there does exist a subset that seems to do that. Those are the ones who I'm referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:24 PM
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I disagree. College/University is by far the easiest place to date (assuming Western culture.) Similar to highschool in terms of hormones and maturity level, more freedom, exposure to more people, exposure to more drugs, everyone's more open to experience things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:19 PM
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Dudes being ripped as fuck because they take steroids for the film. The mainstream is incredibly ignorant on fitness and steroid usage and ends up thinking that's how you should look if you just hit the gym and have a good diet. Similar to models of any gender being photoshopped on instagram and magazines.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:42 AM
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I don't know what FDS is (I haven't followed any of this stuff for too long apparently), nor am I arguing whether or not TRP is moral. I'm addressing this topic's strawman about TRP condoning cheating, and the question in the comment I replied to. great bastions of society over there telling men to spread STDs... And TRP are such losers there aren’t enough women for men to have harems lol so these dudes are literally just swapping hos at best I don't understand how you made the jump from "have m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:02 AM
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I haven't followed the sub for a while, but if it's anything like it was 2 or 3 years ago, it doesn't condone cheating. I was pretty active and don't recall a single instance of cheating advice being upvoted. It's all about having multiple women (while remaining single) and about breaking up with your LTR, or not getting into one in the first palce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:26 AM
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Both are important. Even for very technical martial arts like BJJ or Judo strength matters a lot, and can often times override technique if the size/strength disparity is large enough.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:25 AM
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Relative is the keyword. In an average American city, OP is a buff fit guy. In a city full of young athletic people (think Denver, Boulder, Austin,) OP looks like a soft dude who casually hits up the gym every once in a while.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 04:15 AM
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You're way ahead of 99% of people if you started your self-improvement journey at 15. Props to you on that, and nice summary.
/r/seduction03/08/19 04:05 PM
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Surgery!? Bro you're at 20bfp. That's still pretty high. Keep losing fat.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 06:35 AM
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Even the guy testing me said if it wasnt for the fluke mistake (i didnt see a poorly paintef crosswalk) he wouldve passed me. Im getting stressed. If you're being honest, then it sounds more like bad luck than poor driving skills. If that's really all there is to it, then "keep trying" is all you need to hear even if you don't like it. From the sound of your post though I get a feeling there's more to your story than failing to see a poorly drawn line... not sure what advice to give you without …
/r/askTRP08/07/19 05:38 AM
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I'm not assuming or asserting she's paid equally. You see the word "if" on my comment? Nuance buddy. Words matter. I'm suggesting it as a possibility, just as you're suggesting your scenario as one.
/r/PussyPass08/07/19 05:32 AM
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I totally understand female security not having the role to intervene physically. But if she's paid equally, or more than, someone who is expected to intervene physically, then it's definitely a pussy pass.
/r/PussyPass08/07/19 01:40 AM
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I'm confused as to how you supposedly had a strong frame and IDGAF mentality but failed to flirt with a girl you're attracted to. If you hung out and kept the conversation trivial and non-flirtatious, you were obviously holding yourself back at some level, which to me says you were slightly anxious or out of frame. That or you weren't all that into her.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 10:05 PM
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The notable difference between a sales bro and a brogrammer is that the latter is much, much more likely to be socially retarded.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 09:19 PM
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Not necessarily a dealer. If you don't know skinny, average looking dudes with good game who can lay hot girls, you need to expand your social circle. There's plenty out there. They're prime example of why lifting isn't essential to attract girls. Lifting is for your body, not hers. I agree, but we're clearly talking about sexual attraction here.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:51 PM
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“I had a good time last night, we should do it again sometime” This is my go-to, non-autistic, non-try-hard message after I hookup with a girl I'm really attracted to. Hasn't gotten me anything but positive reactions in my years of using it.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 01:53 AM
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Confidence, social awareness, good dick. These are musts to keep girls wet. Unpopular opinion on TRP, but not only is lifting not necessary (yes, it helps, but it's not essential,) to attract a girl, but it's less important than what I've mentioned above. Next time you see some skinny hipster with a hot girl you know why.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:51 AM
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When one person likes the other enough to commit, but the other doesn't, and there's no communication about it, then getting strung along happens. I've been the person who's not ready to commit before. I've strung along girls when I was younger because I didn't know how to communicate. Nowadays I always let them know a few dates in that I like them as friends, and am open to FWB if they are, but that I'm not looking to commit. Has saved me and other people a lot of headaches and time.
/r/seduction31/05/19 02:34 AM
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No one's saying don't go on a date. Just don't open with "Hey we matched let's go on a date" because it's stupid as fuck. Try that and tell me how well it works out for ya. If it works better than short 5-10 message convos I'll eat my socks.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 02:43 PM
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Being different isn't necessarily good if you're being autistically different. You don't need field reports to give good advice lol. I've been on these subs for over 5 years now. I don't keep track of my tinder n count. Probably in its 30s.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 02:41 PM
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You gotta be kidding me your post almost reads like satire.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 05:44 AM
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Hey. We matched. Meet me at The Bamboo Lounge tomorrow at 7 so we can continue this conversation in person. That's stupid and won't work unless you're ridiculously good looking, or matched with some hambeast i.e. if the SMV delta is big enough. "Continue" what conversation? You just matched, there is no conversation going on. You need to create an interesting conversation before suggesting to continue it in person. It's Tinder and she finds you attractive. So she either wants to fuck you or she …
/r/askTRP28/05/19 04:25 AM
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I’ve tried pushing 5000 calories once Once as in one day? How long did you maintain this for? Weight gain doesn't happen that fast. Most people who say they "get fat" in a few days are just witnessing water weight.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 04:17 AM
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What you're describing would fit under the confidence umbrella.
/r/seduction28/05/19 02:17 AM
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Once you hangout/fuck enough girls with personalities that aren't a good match for you, you'll start caring more about that. That said, you'll never stop caring about looks. I do care a great deal about personality, but looks are still more important to me, even when talking about a relationship.
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:27 AM
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Also, number leads to social media easier than the other way around. I'm usually reluctant to have a potential date who I don't even know if I'll like or not, on social media. Snapchat might be an exception. I've used it to rule out catfish. e.g. "Send me a snap holding a peace sign on your forehead."
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:09 AM
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They should use accurate pictures. I don't think they need to use pics that make them look worse. But I agree in that "catfishing" with filters and perfect angles wont do them any favors. Sure, it'll get them more matches, but when it comes time to meet in person (the ultimate goal) it's just a recipe for disappointment. Same goes for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 11:14 PM
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Agree. A reddit meetup is a pretty low-SMV biased sample of the reddit user base. This site's mainstream enough to where you have all kinds of people using it. Maybe 10 years ago you could say reddit users were mostly low SMV. Not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 04:25 PM
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I think that used to be true of reddit in the past, but it's become mainstream enough to where all types of people use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 04:19 PM
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I don't usually give compliments/validation on Tinder. It's a losing battle to do so. Also ask for their numbers about 10 texts in.
/r/seduction27/05/19 04:12 AM
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An ex gf wanted to put me in friend zone. I told her I'm not going to be friends, we're either romantic or not. Call me when you actually want to give things a try. My friend says no, just be cool, be a friend, and weasel your way into her pants. That every girl that he is "friends" with he has banged. I can vouch for this one. You setting an ultimatum of either romantic or not kind of makes you seem a little too serious and intense. If you just be chill "sure whatever, we're friends." and have …
/r/askTRP26/05/19 05:49 AM
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This is what I think happened. She noticed you were semi-soft, which is a sign that you weren't that all into her. She took offense to that, and decided to turn it around on you and call you small. I.e. You "offended" her by not being super into sex, so she tried to offend you by saying she can't ride your small dick. I've had similar situations happen before. Where I'm not into the girl, so I can't get hard properly, so she proceeds to say some bullshit to try to get at me. Move on. Not worth y…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 05:29 AM
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What did you say when you approached her? Straight up asking for someone's number without any sort of meaningful interaction comes off as lacking tact and social awareness. If she's giving you IOIs in class, you work towards establishing a basic relationship within class. Then you ask for her number.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 12:57 AM
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Only works if you are already confident, charismatic, and socially aware.
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:08 AM
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It's just the culture of NYC. I wouldn't pretend to be someone I'm not just to get matches on Tinder. Do you fit in well in that city? How's your social circle?
/r/seduction06/05/19 01:14 AM
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Humans in general can tell if another person is not being authentic. I'm a guy and have met dudes that come off as really try hard and weird in social situations, even if they were doing and saying "normal" or "the right" things.
/r/seduction04/05/19 05:36 PM
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You sound extremely insecure. Your looks will likely be the least of your problems if you do meetup. Work on your confidence.
/r/seduction27/04/19 11:33 PM
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For sure. I'm not denying the benefits of lifting. But having social charm, charisma, and self awareness are far more important. You can't out-lift those shortcomings.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 04:57 AM
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I'd argue that if your confidence solely comes from your physical attributes, you're missing a big piece. It's not bad to improve your confidence with lifting, but to have it "serve as a base" for the rest of your confidence is, in my opinion, misguided.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 11:24 PM
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Yup. I'm a BJJ brown, but acknowledge that at a certain point strength does trump technique. Specially in no-gi. If you're wearing the PJs then it's a lot easier to slow a stronger opponent down and wrap them up.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 04:20 AM
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Broken glass on the ground is literally a meme in the BJJ community. Broken glass, needles, and lava. Getting kicked by other people is a legit concern though.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 04:16 AM
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I started acting very disinterested lately, which I was haha... what would make my GF suddenly want to do that?! You know why. Are you looking for validation? haha...
/r/askTRP13/04/19 04:14 AM
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I've a hard time with dopaminergics. I can't seem to give up weed and caffeine at the same time. At least these drugs allow me to do other stuff while I'm under the influence, as opposed to watching porn which is an activity in itself.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:30 PM
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The wall isn't about not being able to find sex. A 30+ year old who snatches some beta chump will still be salty inside, longing to be fucked by a true man. Any girl knows she can get beta cock any day of the week, but that's not what they're after. You think women are satisfied letting a 5'5 balding, awkward 27 year old put his dick in her? Not even an 85 year old woman would feel good about that. The wall is about a woman coming to a realization about the fact that her SMV has been declining s…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:32 AM
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Sun exposure promotes wrinkles. It's also good for getting vitamin D, and is associated with lower CVD risk, less depression, and a host of other good things though.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:05 AM
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You're acting needy. You should've stopped texting after she ignored the portion of your text asking if she's free.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 01:53 AM
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Only downside to a girl that's taller than you is that you can't fuck properly standing up.
/r/seduction10/02/19 04:18 AM
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Well, you've seen what's physiologically possible within your brain. Could you, theoretically, train your brain somehow to achieve that state without drugs? Sure. Will it be damn fucking hard, and take a long ass fucking time and some serious dedication/insight? You bet. It's akin to monks who dedicate their life to meditation achieving mental states a normal dude could only achieve with a heroic dose of shrooms. Drugs give you a sneak peak of what the brain is able to do in the most extreme cas…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 02:30 AM
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Call him out on it. Make him look like racist loser. Extra points if he keeps repeating it and you get it on video. Put it online so he can get shamed to death by the online mob.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 03:20 AM
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I might brag to my friends after I lay a beautiful girl, but bragging about a specific count is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:25 AM
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I've several friends like this back in my hometown. They're pretty much failures at life, so far. I treat them as "family." Meaning, I don't hangout with them on a regular basis, but I don't delete them from my life entirely. I do care about them as people since we share a past and good memories, but we're just at such different stages in life that hanging out on the daily just isn't possible without me feeling like I'm wasting my time and/or getting frustrated. Occasional catch ups to see each …
/r/askTRP11/01/19 05:30 AM
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I have tried Tinder but my SMV is not high enough. What do you mean by this? If you're 185cm, you've the height advantage. As long as you're not brutally ugly in the face, you can make Tinder work. Assuming you don't completely fuck up the messaging.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 02:02 AM
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Tall and average looking. I've seen girls fall head over heels for really tall guys even when they looked like squidward in the face.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:42 PM
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Depends on the bunghole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:33 PM
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You gotta be a troll. As someone who's more "red pill," this post is stupid as fuck. What type of conversation is supposed to come out of this? It's just a terrible attempt at insulting the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:05 PM
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I don't block her or erase her number, but I do mentally move on. Reason being that sometimes they flake as a sort of shit test, and by not reacting to it, you pass. I've laid girls after they initially flake.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 10:54 PM
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Take her somewhere close to where you live and suggest she comes check your place out to chill or watch a movie after you're done doing whatever it is you're doing during your date.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 10:40 PM
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If you message a random girl on FB, you're basically telling her you're a desperate loser. Don't do that.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 05:39 AM
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Yes. I have female friends. I've even hooked up with some back in the day, but we're strictly platonic nowadays. They have their own partners, and we're not sexual/flirty in the slightest. We've all grown up and are good friends now. I can see how it'd be hard for teenagers though. I definitely wouldn't have been able to strictly be friends with a girl as a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 05:32 AM
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Most straight guys your age don't know how to dance either. Just move around. Enjoy the music. You'll pick up some moves and develop your style over time. It wont happen after one party though. Give it time. But don't shy away from dancing, else you'll never allow that part of you to develop and by the time everyone else has actually learned how to dance you'll still be clueless.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 05:25 AM
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As you said, you're overthinking this. One tip, just focus on being confident. Don't worry about the details. Over time the details will flesh themselves out.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 05:22 AM
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The way I see it, anyone who identifies fully with one side all of the time, is probably a loser who can't think for themselves. It's impossible for one side to be right on absolutely everything. Both sides will have good and bad ideas. If you can't recognize this, you've probably fallen victim to tribal mentality. The hard part about thinking this way is that you'll be the enemy to both sides. People like Sam Harris come to mind. He's basically criticized by both sides because he isn't afraid t…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 05:01 AM
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Too vague to answer. Give us some examples of interactions/relationships you've had that you suspect went south because of your neediness and/or intensity so we can give you appropriate advice.
/r/seduction22/12/18 02:58 AM
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Can you give a concrete example?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 02:51 AM
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Likes to give up control, to different degrees. On one extreme of the spectrum, something like enjoying decisions to be made for them. On the other extreme, being a literal BDSM 24hr slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 12:17 AM
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What do you feel you missed? Apart from going out with younger girls (even that's debatable), a healthy dude in his 40s should be able to do anything a younger guy can. I'm in my late twenties. I climb, lift, and do jiujitsu. I see dudes in their 40s doing that shit all the time. Some of them are even better/stronger than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 02:01 AM
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If the man who's doing the teasing is high SMV, it's usually just playful banter. If the dude's a beta, as you say, they're usually trying to sabotage you to gain an upper hand.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 01:20 AM
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Most people fuck to boost their ego. Really? This is news to me. I don't think I've gotten an ego boost from fucking since I was a teenager. I know fucking (as a side-effect, and depending on how well it goes), can boost your ego. But I didn't know most people fucked to boost their ego.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 09:04 PM
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This will sound kind of sad, but it works for me. I setup my camera on a tripod and take pictures of myself. I make them look "candid" lol. I get multiple matches per day.
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:22 AM
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You don't explicitly ask to date just like you don't explicitly ask for sex. Girls like it when it "just happens."
/r/askTRP02/12/18 03:43 AM
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What happened to your friend has happened to me countless times. I'm on top of my game, girl's attracted to me. We start going out and fucking. I get comfortable, insiduous beta behavior starts seeping in. Slowly but surely she starts distancing herself. It took a couple of times for me to realize what was going on. You can't get too comfortable. It's akin to a girl getting to comfortable with you and starting to gain weight, not shave, etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 03:59 AM
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Girls are also way pickier in online dating. I've gone out with girls I've approached in real life who wouldn't match with, or ghosted me, online.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 08:14 PM
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Because there are a lot more better looking and/or wittier profiles than yours. It's that simple. They're fat, so they're more desperate and swipe right on lower tier profiles (yours.) Your question should be what's wrong with your profile. It could be your looks, your pics, your bio. Probably all of the above.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:43 AM
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Where there's a will, there's a way. You're not watching porn because you don't know where to fuck, who are you kidding lol. You're watching porn because you probably don't have game and are too anxious to close on a date. Since when did not having an obvious place to fuck prevent a dude from going on dates and force him to jackoff at home watching porn? Unless you're gay, that really doesn't make any sense.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:33 AM
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Not to mention it takes a toll on your health. I don't know about OP, but living the party life might sound appealing to a young 20 some year old, but as someone approaching thirty, I don't care how many girls I get to fuck in the ass, living that lifestyle doesn't sound appealing at all.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 12:07 AM
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In different states, you still don't have social proof or charisma. Results don't change because the situation doesn't change.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 09:27 PM
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Social proof and charisma matter a lot more than how much money you have or your fitness level.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 08:43 PM
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That's true, but if the girl ever moves around different settings (most people do,) then that's when "overall 20%" applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 05:19 PM
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Anyone who's been a BP chode can understand. The oneitis is so great, she's so high up on a pedestal, no mileage of cock will matter. She's still up on that pedestal, so as long as you can have some of her attention, any, you feel accomplished, as if you've won the greatest prize. Even if you have no sex, you've pedestalized her so badly that a hug, or "cuddling" will be enough. It's okay, you'll jackoff in the shower after your cuddle.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 12:26 AM
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If there's something to lean onto, I'll usually do that after a while. If not, arms by side.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 02:23 AM
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You don't need fancy moves. You can grind and flow, make it "classier." Yes I know the irony in calling grinding classy. But there's grinding, then there's fucking with clothes on. They're different. One is dancing and the other is pure filth (which has its place, just usually not with a stranger you just met.) Keep it simple. Don't move abruptly. Hand on waist, other hand maybe grabbing hers instead of her shoulder. Don't thrust as if you're fucking, just flow with the music. You want to make i…
/r/seduction30/09/18 04:39 AM
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If she wants you to grind, do it confidently. So I went full on low inhibition animal on her - put my hands on her waist and shoulders and tried grinding on her. Grinding confidently doesn't mean going full animal. You were likely too aggressive with it. Hand on waist and shoulder is like you're fucking her right off the bat. That will only work if they're super drunk, or if they're kind of trashy.
/r/seduction30/09/18 04:14 AM
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Brazilian Jiujitsu & climbing are what keep me active and fit. I feel you on struggling to get motivated about weights and machines.
/r/seduction30/09/18 04:05 AM
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Sorry I'm busy today, love you! Optionally suggest time when you won't be busy.
/r/seduction29/09/18 11:43 PM
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Man, I've been on this sub for five years. It does have its bad sides, just like every other sub. The positives far outweight the negatives, though. People who haven't browsed this sub extensively see it in line with the "incel" movement, which couldn't be further from the truth. They're doing young men a disservice doing this and they don't even know it from ignorance.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 12:18 AM
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With enough sleep, everything else is better. Without it, everything else is worse. Good sleep is one of the best investments you can make.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 02:19 AM
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Yeah, as I said, common sense always applies. If OP is interested, he needs to verify she's real and meetup, before agreeing to anything.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 04:55 PM
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It's a pretty common fetish. It helps that one of my fetishes is being a dom, so I'm into tying, choking, etc. I straight up put it in my Tinder description and got a lot of attention. It did get my account banned after a while though. There's not much story. Met a girl through Tinder who wanted to be my sex slave. I was into it, she was into it. All the fear mongering comments in here have no idea how common it is for the average girl to have a rape fetish. The girl OP is talking to was probabl…
/r/askTRP22/09/18 12:40 AM
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Do it if you're into it. Keep all evidence that she gave you consent. I've done taht with a girl on Tinder. Was legit. Was awesome.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 08:37 PM
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Assuming you go to a generic club, and not one that plays the type of music you know you like: Shitty mainstream music. Girls who think they're hot shit, more than usual, because alcohol. Dudes who think they're hot shit, more than usual, because alcohol. Expensive ass drinks. Come home smelling like shit. I do enjoy clubbing, very rarely. When you're with a group of friends and everyone's in that "fuck it" mode and you just feel like joining the cesspool that is clubbing, it can be fun. But I w…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 12:53 AM
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From the sounds of it, you're framing yourself into being boring. Before talking to someone you're already "afraid they might get the feeling you're not interested in having a conversation with them." Even if you are interested in talking to them, you thinking like this will automatically reflect in the way you act. Sounds to me like a self-esteem issue, more than a lack of energy.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 09:37 PM
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The real challenge starts if and when you bring her back to America. Sooner or later, she'll likely absorb the culture and embrace it.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 03:07 PM
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Bro, my dad lost 7 toes in an accident. He was still alpha as fuck back in the day and cheated on my mom plenty. Not saying that's good, but putting it out as an example that your toes are not part of your SMV lol. Specially not one toe. He still runs and works out. You're not disabled.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:32 PM
1

What hobbies do you have? I recommend taking up climbing/bouldering. Keeps you physically active. Low barrier of entry. Tons of cute girls. It's also popular all over the world.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:23 PM
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Just don't get wasted. Drinking is fine. Learning to control yourself is more valuable than straight up not drinking. Also, being the guy at the club that doesn't drink might make you seem uptight or strange, specially in college. Not particularly attractive.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:16 PM
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Smoking pot and gaming can help, if not done in excess. What I mean is that even the gym crowd, "foodies", and people into other sports, can occasionally indulge in a bowl or some video games. If you already had friends before then you do have the social ability to make friends. Now you just have to choose a hobby and get consumed by it. Assuming you've some social awareness, you'll eventually meet other like-minded people.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 04:40 PM
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If you can't get a group of friends, work on that first. Without being able to connect to people, you sure as hell won't be able to form sexual attraction between you and a girl. Do you have any ideas as to why you can't make friends? Are you too shy? How old are you?
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:37 PM
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Get some friends. Get some interesting hobbies. You want a girl to put out, right? What do you have to offer in return? Dick doesn't count. No girl wants to waste their time with some desperate stranger with no friends.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:41 AM
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You can go by definition all day to justify yourself. In practice, though, you're being cucked.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 11:21 PM
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You don't have to talk to everyone. You can acknowledge everyone, and be friendly to everyone, but talking to everyone is an overkill and not necessary. Scope out the people who you deem of value in the room and talk to those. If you talk to them, everyone will eventually know you.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 07:20 PM
1

"I was just going to take your kidney, not murder you."
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:13 AM
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Party girls are a no-no for LTRs.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 02:28 AM
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What would you mean by spending time on weather? Looking up the weather and/or traffic to anticipate and plan is never a bad idea. Anyone care to elaborate isntead of just downvoting? I'm genuinely curious. "Spending time on weather" makes no sense to me.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 02:27 AM
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Funny you post this, yesterday I went clubbing for the first time in months. Reminded me of why I avoid that shit. It's a waste of money and time. Music sucked, drinks were bad and overpriced, women were ugly and bitchy, ruined my sleep schedule.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 12:53 AM
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I haven't met a girl who can control her emotions and fluctuations, but I've met a few who are aware of the fluctuations, of RP dynamics, etc. They're quite rare.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 12:21 AM
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Videos on social media about "cute" sassy little girls annoy the hell out of me. It's not cute at all, it's just a foreshadowing of the incredible bitch that she'll eventually become. There's a difference between being self-respecting, and being a bitch/sassy. People conflate those two too often.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 01:02 AM
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Damn and I thought being on call for my job sucked.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 12:32 AM
2

Stop relying on alcohol as a crutch and overtime you'll develop the skills to game sober.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:38 PM
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Girls are pickier on Tinder than real life. I've been blown off on Tinder by girls I've picked up easily in person.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 01:28 AM
1

I've done this. It works.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:37 AM
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Depends. If you feel like you're not socially competent enough to get girls without paying? Then yes, it's bad, since it'll give you no incentive to improve.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:15 AM
1

Gewt her snapchat and forget about her for 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 11:36 PM
2

It’s a test. Don’t react beyond laughing. It'd be my natural reaction. I'd find it pretty funny if a girl said "you're not handome." Who the fuck says that lol.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 11:32 PM
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If you can't limit your usage, and are relying on it solely, then you should delete it for good. Deal with it as you'd deal with any other addiction. If you can't moderate, quit.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 01:49 AM
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She's lying because she cheated on you, or is thinking about it. Why else would she lie?
/r/askTRP11/08/18 11:01 PM
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One thing you'll learn after you gain more experience is that there are no clear-cut rules. Texting isn't always bad. Paying for the girl isn't always bad. Sometimes you can break the rules, but this is once you're very, very experienced (or a natural.) Most people on this sub are not, hence the urge to stick to these rules until they know any better. I've been following TRP for about five years now, and can say that I've only recently gotten to a point to where I can hold my own against "natura…
/r/askTRP11/08/18 08:07 PM
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He's probably decently physically attractive, has a chill, confident personality, and isn't socially awkward. That's honestly all you need to pull girls. Most guys lack at least one of those attributes.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 07:47 PM
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You, and the other guys at the hostel, were probably coming off as needy. She was attracted to the guy that seemingly wasn't trying. Attraction 101.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 07:35 PM
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I hadn't heard that term before, that's perfect. It's still game, just a beta version.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 04:17 AM
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Being alpha is not mutually exclusive with taking care of people and being a decent human being, i.e., doing chores. Those activites are not mutually exclusive from giving your girl the "tingles." What RP argues is that tingles are more important, as far as attraction goes, than the other stuff. That's why you see women stay with abusive partners. This popular article by Matthew Fray asserts that a man's wife divorced him "because he left dishes by the sink" instead of putting them in the dishwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 06:44 PM
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Laugh it off. As long as your keep her wet you've got nothing to worry about.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 12:50 AM
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Very true. In a similar situation as OP here. Casual sex has become quite pointless as of late. Deleted Tinder. Stopped drinking. Talking to girls at the climbing gym is a lot more rewarding.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:27 AM
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Lol a black belt in anything other than brazilian jiujitsu doesn't mean shit. Eight year olds can get a black belt in karate.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 04:43 PM
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What the fuck does "beans" mean? Is it pills? Why doesn't the article just fucking say pills?
/r/PussyPass24/06/18 12:07 AM
1

I use similar openers on Tinder. And not as jokes, I'm open about it. It's definitely helps weed out girls who aren't down to get weird really fast. I'm actually into BDSM, so that shit matters to me.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 12:16 AM
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Might be a genetic preference. I don't know many girls who are explicitly into Asians (specifically Koreans), but the ones I do know, are Mexican.
/r/seduction22/06/18 11:41 PM
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Probably like Justin Beiber and Jake Paul and those dudes. Not the same style of effort, but a shit ton of effort either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 02:20 AM
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Whether or not a girl confuses you depends on both you, and her. You can't reduce a girl liking you or not to finding her confusing or not.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 02:46 AM
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I've got a much better match to hookup ratio than you. That said, I've also decided to stop using the app. Started getting too comfortable with relying solely on Tinder to meet girls. I can't really say that that's bad objectively, but something in my gut tells me it's not the right way to go on about it.
/r/seduction07/06/18 12:22 AM
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Normal, though many people will try to shame you for it. Men who deny being physically attracted to younger girls are either genetic outliers or lying. There's no other way around that.
/r/seduction03/06/18 11:53 PM
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Very cool challenge! A rule of thumb I go by is that if I find myself contemplating whether I should just say #fuckit and do something, I have to do it.
/r/seduction03/06/18 11:51 PM
1

True. No regrets. Social norms are overrated. As long as you're not hurting anyone, do what you want.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:46 AM
1

I've hooked up with my cousin. I honestly don't give a fuck. She's super hot, we barely see each other, and we're both consenting adults having a good time.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:54 PM
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Yes. The betas in a relationship usually get oneitis, no matter the sex.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 05:53 AM
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No, you can approach a woman in a completely regular setting, and if she perceives you as awkward, she'll get creeped out. You might not feel awkward, but that's the thing about lacking social awareness (which unfortunately, many people on this forum suffer from.) You don't know how other people are perceiving you. Good news is that just like confidence, it's something that's trainable.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:51 AM
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Social awareness is key. You can be as daring and bold as your want, but if you lack charisma you're going to creep them out.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:37 AM
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That doesn't sound normal. Go see a doctor. Just because you're a virgin doesn't mean you can't have infections. They just wouldn't be sexually transmitted.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:58 PM
1

It's both a symptom and a cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:44 PM
1

Sweet and fat are high calorie foods. Evolutionarily, we're wired to be attracted to that since calories used to be a luxury until very recently. That's the generalization. This is a well known, undisputed fact. Capitalism and/or modern society exploits this fact, it doesn't cause it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:50 PM
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You're not saying much. That's like saying different people like different foods at different times of their life. No shit, but there are generalizations you can make. For example, for evolutionary reasons, most people like fatty, sugary foods.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:19 AM
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Peaking at 35 is an average. Some men peak at 20, others at 40. You have to look at your individual situation, not as if dating were some kind of formula.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 02:08 AM
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I majored in Computer Science. I had female classmates who I'm friends with. They're awesome people, and I consider them good friends, but to be honest they're all average engineers at best. But what'ya know, female only recruiting events, offers from companies left and right, promotions faster than other, really talented engineers I know. It's extremely easy to do well as a woman in STEM if they choose to be in STEM. It pisses me off when people say the unequal representation is due to discrimi…
/r/PussyPass24/04/18 02:09 AM
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TRP says to make a lot of money because money is attractive to girls. You make a lot of money to increase your freedom. If you're making money to attract girls, you got it all wrong.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 08:07 PM
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Get a hobby that involves interacting with other people, including girls. A great one is climbing. Find an indoor climbing/bouldering gym in your area. Great to kep you fit, and for some reason, a lot of hot girls like to climb. You'll start meeting people and eventually make plans to hangout outside the gym.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 04:49 AM
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If you're confident, your walk will reflect that. Confidence is the root of it all.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 02:50 AM
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You like it when the right guy chases you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:52 PM
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There are areas in the world where women still have very real struggles to overcome, but third wave feminism in first world countries is a fucking joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:25 PM
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If her pussy is wet, she wants the D. If it's dry, you're failing to turn her on. Leaving aside edge cases, it's honestly that simple. It's sad that the current state of affairs has people worried about having to get explicit, verbal consent. Moreover, even if you get it, it makes no difference if she decides, after the fact, that she wasn't feeling it. Unless you literally held a camera to her face and recorded her saying it.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 01:02 AM
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If you're in your twenties, you don't have any physical conditions that'd cause ED, and you still can't get it up, then you're not attracted to the girl enough. That's the only answer. You can think and recognize she's objectively attractive, but that's not enough. If you don't feel the urge to fuck her guts out and use her like your fuck doll, your hard on is going to be mediocre.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 06:52 AM
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I've a girl that when I suggest hanging out, she always responds with "what are we doing?" I always say something that demonstrates I don't really give her comment much thought/importance: "Don't worry about it" or "we'll figure it out"
/r/askTRP04/02/18 06:49 AM
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Most girls I've been with have enjoyed being submissive i.e. getting choked, spanked, and overall dominated
/r/askTRP04/02/18 06:41 AM
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Not completely sure what you're asking. But if you're asking if you call people you met through online dating and setup a date, the answer is usually no. For the first date, you do it all through text or an app like Snapchat.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 06:40 AM
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Get some hobbies that involve interacting with other people, regardless of gender. A good place to look is on meetup.com
/r/seduction03/02/18 06:30 PM
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If your social skills overall are terrible, I would focus on improving that overall first, without necessarily focusing too much on romance. If you improve your social skills and awareness, the rest will come much, much easier, and it might even happen completely organically. Diving head into "game" when you're socially inept is a recipe for disaster.
/r/seduction03/02/18 12:47 AM
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Those sound more like acquaintances than friends to me.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 02:00 AM
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after you have reached that stage, this place becomes redundant Very true. I discovered this sub more than four years ago. After fully internalizing the concepts, I noticed I wasn't learning anything on here anymore. It's all the same concepts, over and over, with some examples here and there. I stopped posting for a while, but now I still enjoy coming here to help others.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 12:07 AM
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Agree with your point. However I don't think they're incapable of seeing objective attractiveness, rather it's a lot easier to override this in women using your charisma. As guys we don't care if the girl is a bit awkward or lacks charisma (some might even find it hot), as long as she's physically attractive. Women, on the other hand, do care. A lot. So much that it's possible to completely override her measure of objective physical attractiveness based on how you act. This can be good and bad. …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:53 AM
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In hindsight, as someone who's years out of college already, I'd advise you to focus on socializing first and foremost. Yes, it's even more important than lifting. Get a good group of friends that's a mix of guys and girls. The rest will happen organically. You'll meet people through your friends, get invited to parties, etc. If you don't get a good group of friends though, you're fucked. Don't be the guy whose group of friends are dudes who play LoL all weekend. I was completely beta in college…
/r/askTRP25/01/18 12:21 AM
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I guess my first problem is I don't know how to talk to people. Good, you've identified your problem. Before trying to date, I'd encourage you to learn how to socialize. Join any meetups or clubs on something you're interested in. It could also lead to you meeting a woman.
/r/seduction25/01/18 12:10 AM
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Lol. Yeah I don't get this post. OP is overthinking this.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 03:18 AM
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If a girl flakes on you, you do whatever you'd do on your own time if that girl didn't exist. Be it self improvement or what ever the fuck else, it doesn't matter as long as you're not altering your behavior because of the flake. Not to mention crying afterwards...
/r/seduction23/01/18 03:08 AM
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It's genetic. Unless she's putting watermelons up her pussy, what goes in it won't change how tight it is.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 09:54 PM
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If you had well established habits and sex life, then... yeah perhaps. If you didn't? No. And you're assuming I don't have well established habits and a sex life? A porn addict definitely can't enjoy porn in a non destructive way. Because they won't really ever be the same again. You don't quit crack and then go on to enjoy it in a "healthy" way. Never did I suggest a porn addict should try to enjoy it in a healthy manner. I explicitly said that if OP is addicted, they should stop. I can find ab…
/r/seduction10/12/17 06:03 PM
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Currently seeing three girls. Have sex about once per week with each. Honestly it feels like a bit much at times, and I'd say frequent sex is overrated. Of course once a dry spell hits I probably won't be saying the same thing.
/r/seduction10/12/17 03:08 PM
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Some girls do see any sign of potential nervousness (sweaty hands, fast heart rate, stuttering, etc.) as a turn off. That said, it wouldn't surprise me if she was just overthinking it given that you two smoked weed. I used to go out with a girl who was super into me but the minute she got high she'd get very closed off and strange.
/r/seduction10/12/17 03:01 PM
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Not sure what you mean by me being defensive or getting pricked. I'm providing a different view on how enjoying porn in a non destructive way is completely possible. Sounds like you've dealt with unhealthy porn habits and I've hit a nerve.
/r/seduction10/12/17 02:50 PM
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Porn enhances my sexual life. I'm not even kidding. These kids who are completely against porn have some serious mental issues, unrelated to porn. Their porn addiction is just a symptom of their problems.
/r/seduction10/12/17 07:06 AM
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Not cumming unless you're with a girl can do wonders to your sex drive/life.
/r/seduction10/12/17 12:26 AM
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I feel like there's a lot of porn addicts on reddit vilifying porn. If OP is literally addicted to porn, I agree, stop jerking off to porn. Otherwise, there's nothing wrong with jerking off to porn. I do it occasionally, like once or twice per week. It has actually helped me in the sense that it introduced me to the whole world of BDSM and I get a lot of ideas from watching porn. There are so many positions and techniques I use in my RL sex life that I would've never discovered without porn.
/r/seduction10/12/17 12:24 AM
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Only happens to me if I'm shitfaced. OP says he was literally shaking from anxiety. I don't think boners and panic attacks are compatible.
/r/seduction10/12/17 12:18 AM
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I’m 6”5 with a muscular build There you go. EZ mode.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 06:08 AM
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I’ve explained TRP to numerous friends and lovers over the years and they usually shake their head in agreement. As long as you don't use "TRP lingo", most people will agree if you simply explain the dynamics of the sexual market.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 12:36 AM
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Late twenties here. Last couple of girls I've fucked have been between 18-20. When men look best? Depends on the individual, and depends on how you define "best" which would probably depend on each girl as well.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 04:41 PM
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I thought OP was referring to young kids as lil peeps.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 12:18 AM
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Reminds me of the "sex is overrated" comments. It's only true for those who've already had plenty of it.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 05:03 AM
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I used to think paying was for chumps. All my last lays have been from matching on boost or superlike so I'm not complaining. It's not that much money either.
/r/seduction19/11/17 04:52 AM
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If you're into climbing, tons of hot, fit girls who aren't into the typical clubbing nightlife bullshit.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 04:30 AM
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Fucked up part is that if at any point in the future they stop being attracted to a man that gave them attention, they can claim harassment.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 04:23 AM
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Being dominant isn't just about "moving them around." If you're both into it, look into choking, slapping, etc.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 12:26 AM
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I didn't know people actually took notice of Snapchat streaks and shit like that.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 04:22 AM
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I never set up dates on the app itself. Always get their number, or better yet, Snapchat. Exchanging a few pics and communicating off Tinder greatly increases your chances.
/r/seduction11/11/17 12:37 AM
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Easiest way to fix text game and shift the chase, after already having been so needy, is to not text. If she doesn't take initiative in texting you, she's not into you. Anything you send right now will seem needy unfortunately.
/r/seduction23/10/17 10:37 PM
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OP blanking when he sees a girl is guaranteed to be due to anxiety. That's what I mean by being scared. Having a hard time making eye contact is also based on anxiety. The more you do it, the more your brain gets used to it, the less anxiety it induces, the easier it gets.
/r/seduction21/10/17 09:05 PM
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Yes, it's basically exposure therapy. If you're scared of X, you expose yourself repeatedly until your brain desensitizes itself to it. Does it take a long time? Yes. Is it proven to work? Yes. There are no shortcuts to this (technically drugs and alcohol, but I wouldn't recommend depending on those as they can become a crutch.)
/r/seduction21/10/17 08:22 PM
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ok have fun😊,text when you have spare time. For future reference, the latter part of your text makes you look like a needy chump.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 05:05 PM
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You could argue that it's also genetics that gave you the motivation to improve your SMV in the first place, but that's a whole other rabbit hole to go down.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 09:57 PM
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Numbers game implies that given a sufficiently large number (of messages in this case) they'll find a girl willing to fuck. Unfortunately for these men, the number is likely infinity lol.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 04:56 PM
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I recently started browsing TRP again after a year-ish long hiatus. What happened with GLO? Ever since I first started browsing this sub four years ago I've thought GLO was a try-hard quack, but everyone on here had his dick in their mouth. Is this not the case anymore?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 04:49 PM
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For deeper subjects (politics, philosophy, sciences, etc.) it's definitely hard to find common ground with a younger girl. It's also not a bad idea to teach them. I find pleasure in correcting them when talking about those topics and teaching them a thing or two. But you can definitely have similar interests when it comes to hobbies. Any physical hobby is pretty much open to all ages. I'm in my late twenties and have two 19yo plates. One of them is into nutrition, hiking, and lifting. The other …
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 12:59 AM
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Nice dude. My sister has made comments about how gross men are for dating young women. I just nod and ignore her. Little does she know I'm fucking two 19 year olds right now. She's in her 30s 😂
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 12:42 AM
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Found myself in a similar situation a few years ago. Get some hobbies that involve interacting with others (preferably coed) in real life. Meetup.com is a great place to start if you're completely lost. A good physical hobby with a nice mix of genders is climbing. For some reason a lot of hot girls like to climb too. Great way to meet people.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 03:17 AM
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Until they're completely indistinguishable from real women, they're basically evolved fleshlights.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 03:15 AM
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For every moment, hour, day, or even week you don't meet/close, your chances drop exponentially. Fucking this right here. I had a 10/10 Tinder match recently willing to come over, but I had to go on a trip. I knew right there and then that my chances of fucking her would drop tenfold when I got back from the trip. While I'm gone she'd probably have 10 more potential dates queued. Lo and behold, I come back, and I can definitely notice she's not that interested anymore.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 02:37 AM
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No, it's just a "ping" basically. Lots of girls find it funny and it only takes a second to send. It's low effort and doesn't really show I'm emotionally invested, as opposed to something like "Why aren't you responding??" which reeks of desperation. Just realized I had a typo. I meant "Or nah" not "Oh nah"
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 01:27 AM
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Fellow Tinder veteran here. Have laid plenty of girls from it. I'll give my advice and share what works for me. Situational. There are some times where you can tell she's definitely not fat, yet she still only has face pics. This is the biggest piece of advice I see thrown around that I simply don't agree with. I find it a waste to get matched with fuglies, landwhales, and trans dudes only to have to sift through them and unmatch those who I'm not interested in. I'd rather do the sifting up fron…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 12:31 AM
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The reason she’s writing that is because she’s probably had so many one night stands that she thinks she now has to block against it. Had a ONS off Tinder recently. Checked her profile a few days later and she'd added "If you're looking for a hookup, swipe left!" lol
/r/askTRP12/10/17 12:54 AM
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Also, is developing social intelligence=game Not quite, but social intelligence will make it much easier for you to "game" girls. I have some very witty, charismatic friends, who still lack game because they don't know how to express their sexuality and/or be dominant. What do I do? Expose yourself to situations where you have to interact with others, specially girls that you're attracted to. After that it'll be mostly trial and error. AKA practice.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 05:57 AM
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Late night (close to closing time) is when people are the drunkest. Couple that with decent looks and some charisma and pulling a girl at closing time is not magic. I'd argue it's much harder to build attraction when you're sober and maintain in throughout the whole night than to build attraction when both parties are drunk and looking for leftovers.
/r/seduction01/10/17 03:09 AM
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You don't. She's not interested if she's just giving you dead end one word answers.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:31 AM
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As I said, lifting does help. But it's not strictly necessary for success with women. I'm not saying don't lift. I'm saying don't prioritize it over social skills, as I see some people do on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 03:32 AM
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That's one of the only things I disagree with, with most people on TRP. Everyone advises noobs to lift as if it should be priority number one to get women. Priority number one should be charisma and social skills. As you say, being muscular does help, but it's not necessary. Having social skills, on the other hand, is very necesary. Being muscular will pike a woman's interest initially, but once you open your mouth, what comes out of it is all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 02:59 AM
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You keep proving my point
/r/askTRP08/08/17 08:40 PM
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Just pointing out you seem like an idiot. Not sure how that relates to hiding behind a keyboard lol. Good job deleting your post buddy, glad you realized it was stupid.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:47 PM
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You sound like a dumbass. That's probably why he's being aggressive towards you.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 03:02 AM
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This post is strawman. It's rarely argued that women don't do dirty (a very vague term in itself) jobs. Rather, it's usually argued that throughout history (including present day,) men have always greatly outnumbered women in dangerous jobs. Dangerous meaning jobs where risk of dying from a work related incident is very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 04:41 PM
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Right, the first part of my comment is completely relevant to this post. The latter half is simply explaining part of the first half, which some might find confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 03:39 PM
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Of course they do, and so do men. The thing that I would argue is that, within the scope of the US, women don't often do the dangerous jobs that have a higher death rate. I limit the scope to the US because my views on whether feminism and social movements are necessary and/or productive change drastically depending on which country or region you're talking about. I believe for example that third wave feminism within the US is mostly toxic, while it's greatly needed in a lot of third world count…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 03:16 PM
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A man's salary has little to no effect on the moistness of pussy. It's all charisma and physical appearance. Most of these Asian and Indian guys are socially awkward engineers. Doesn't matter how much money they make, if they're awkward and frail, that pussy is staying dry.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 06:29 PM
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It's amazing how your inner beta can convince yourself that replying is a good idea, despite all the evidence telling you otherwise.
/r/seduction14/05/17 07:00 AM
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Don't pursue her, but don't go out of your way to ignore her. In other words, act normal and don't make a big deal out of it. If you run into her for any reason, just be cool. In most situations, this is usually what should be done rather than ignoring someone at all costs.
/r/seduction14/05/17 04:49 AM
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I've had both functioning fuck buddies, and nonfunctional "fuck buddy" disasters. As you mention, though, the disasters were all when I was younger. As I've grown older and acquired more experience, I've seen no downsides with having fuck buddies. We're both mature enough to talk about it explicitly rather than it "kinda just happening" as it did when I was younger, which lead to confusion, and, as OP stated, "[quasi] early stage relationships."
/r/seduction14/05/17 04:36 AM
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I've thought about the topic of caring about what others think of you, often. I used to think the goal was to not give a fuck, but as I've thought about it more, I've concluded that the goal is not to stop caring about what others think about you, but to care about the right things, at the right times, and at the right amount. You must not care to a degree that it'll make you anxious, therefore rendering the care counterproductive. But you must care intelligently as to be able to guide your acti…
/r/seduction14/05/17 04:28 AM
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I've thought about the topic of caring about what others think of you, often. I used to think the goal was to not give a fuck, but as I've thought about it more, I've concluded that the goal is not to stop caring about what others think about you, but to care about the right things, at the right times, and at the right amount. You must not care to a degree that it'll make you anxious, therefore rendering the care counterproductive. But you must care intelligently as to be able to guide your acti…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 01:56 AM
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I keep putting myself out there and forcing myself to face any situation but I still blush and I can't control it. It'll take years to override. That's the only way, exposing yourself more and getting into those situations more.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 09:17 PM
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I'm just too shy At least you know what your problem is. Start working on your confidence, yesterday. Socialize everywhere, eye contact, posture, no fidgeting, hit the gym, get interesting hobbies, never stop learning. Become a great man, one step at a time. It'll be hard work. It'll take years. So get on it.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 06:26 AM
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Speak with confidence. Doesn't matter if you have an accent or use the wrong words. If you speak less, or lower your volume bc you're ashamed of it, it's off-putting. Just speak man, don't worry about how well you do it.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 08:31 PM
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It depends how often you're moving around. I was traveling from city to city in a matter of days, so I resorted to night-game at clubs and was successful that way. Also tried Tinder, but it was way much more effort and time consuming. Texting back and forth, setting up a date, and likely a second date to get the lay. Night clubs were straight and to the point. Approach, get to know each other while drinking, and begin escalating immediately. Escalating at a night club where there's music, it's d…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 03:29 AM
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I don't visit this sub nearly as often as I used to because so much of the ground has already been covered Same thing for me. Discovered this sub a little more than 3 years ago, but rarely come here anymore. After you internalize the core concepts there's really not much this sub can offer other than reinforcing them.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 04:08 AM
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Because there's no such thing. An alpha doesn't have to be a jacked asshole. That skinny hipster kid who has mad game is still alpha. You people are too obsessed with the "just lift" shit that you forget personality/confidence is the real alpha's attribute. Everything else is a nice extra.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 03:43 AM
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That's the real red flag here
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:40 AM
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I haven't encountered gender neutral bathrooms that aren't single person. I agree it does seem kinda awkward though to have a multi-person gender neutral bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 02:00 AM
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Second this. Every big city has at least a couple of bars known to attract MILFs. Some will even approach you as long as you got pretty skin and smell nice ;)
/r/askTRP20/03/17 01:10 AM
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I think there's a sweet spot in terms of how drinking affects your SMV. The guy who can drink two or three beers and just chill, in my experience, is perceived as higher SMV than the one who refuses to drink at all costs, and the other one who gets shitfaced. It boils down to: not drinking at all means you care too much. Drinking too much means you don't have self control.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 08:34 PM
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You sound like me three years ago. I am a completely different person now, in a better way. Welcome and enjoy the journey.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 06:24 PM
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You're not ready to date. Go work on yourself. Get friends, hobbies, work on your confidence.
/r/seduction15/02/17 11:25 PM
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Came here expecting to see a link to a clickbait PUA blog. Glad it's actual advice. Grab your balls, ask her, and find out if it's a no or a yes.
/r/seduction15/02/17 11:24 PM
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No. He has red pill traits for sure. Parts of his personality, like confidence and charisma (pretty much what got him elected) can be admired, but he's very lacking in other departments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 12:03 AM
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Yes, it's more convenient. The problems generally require more strength as well, so you'll likely get stronger bouldering.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 04:55 AM
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Why not just marry an in-shape bloke with an alpha mindset? That's like saying: why do men settle and marry a 5, or a hot but crazy girl? Why don't they just marry a perfect 10 that isn't crazy, and is intelligent? You don't just do that.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 03:31 AM
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I feel like I'm the one who's insane these days by agreen with some republican points, some democrat points, and not all of TRP's points. Seems like everyone is tilted to an extreme now.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 02:32 AM
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Get some hobbies dude. Not only for the girls, but it's mentally healthy.
/r/seduction29/01/17 04:32 AM
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Immediately, girls who knew me from back in college that would not have slept with me back then were all into me I graduated three years ago. Have been improving mentally and physically non-stop since then. It's so funny to see, 9/10 girls I run into from college, are now into me. I think it's a combination of the self improvement and them realizing the wall is getting closer.
/r/seduction22/01/17 01:02 AM
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Funny you mention this, a female coworker offered me some candy today. I don't eat refined sugar though. Threw that shit away. I used to be addicted to sugar, now it grosses me out. At this point I'm not even using self-control to keep myself away from it. It literally grosses me out. The more you inform yourself about its effects on the body, the less you'll want to eat it.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 12:38 AM
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This always works for me too. Unless they're already coming over to your place (almost guaranteed DTF), it's always better to keep the first date simple and build some trust. If you're attractive and socially competent, most girls are DTF as long as they trust you. A vanilla first date where you show her you're not crazy will usually do the trick.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 12:32 AM
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If missionary, eye contact. Fuck her with your eyes too. This isn't limited to having sex.
/r/seduction22/12/16 12:32 AM
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This is what I do. Never failed me, and don't see why it would if the girl's into you.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 12:07 AM
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If you're disciplined and/or motivated, a home gym is the way to go. I had one when I lived with my parents. Now I live in an apartment complex with a shitty gym (no squat rack, DBs only up to 50lbs) and have to pay for a membership where I get to wait for the rack and be surrounded by meatheads and shitty music.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 04:15 AM
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If they're in a group, yes, many. If they're alone, no, unless they're mentally ill or really comfortable with you (family, close friend, etc.) But if you're FB friends you can absolutely tell which girls will be the ones that are annoying and in your face about it by the type (and frequency) of related posts they share and comment on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 06:53 AM
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Depends on the strain and your mindset at the time. It usually just makes me more anxious and shy, but there are certain strains that makes me socialize better (these are the minority, though.)
/r/seduction05/12/16 01:38 AM
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Unpopular opinion, but it's because you don't need to be alpha to be happy/content in life. I lead a pretty happy life when I was a beta. It's better now that I've dug myself out of that hole, but being "alpha" isn't a requirement for happiness really.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 12:03 AM
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That bonus cringe tho... well, at least you have the self-awareness to know you fucked up. It means you have the potential to improve.
/r/seduction03/12/16 11:13 PM
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Find some hobbies. If they involve physical activity, better. If they involve socializing with others, even better.
/r/seduction03/12/16 11:09 PM
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The most BP men I know don't interact with women outside their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 02:47 AM
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Is it okay? Yes. Is it attractive? No.
/r/seduction12/11/16 02:09 AM
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Some do it because it's fun. Others do it because it allows them to forget painful realities. Others do it because it helps them gain a transient state of confidence. I don't binge drink often, but when I do, it's because I find it fun and because it gives me a temporary boost in confidence. Mostly the former though. Using alcohol as a crutch can lead you down a slippery slope.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 12:57 AM
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Yes, not overdoing it is a crucial point. Posting stories too often makes you look like an attention whore, which is not attractive.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 10:28 PM
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Man I remember having friends who are the hibernating type stay over. Having gone to sleep at the same time, I'd always be awake for hours doing shit while they were stil aslep.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 11:17 PM
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Usually the beta of the relationship will adopt the interests of the alpha. It just so happens that most relationships that make it to the light of day have a dude that's more alpha than the girl (for obvious reasons.) But have you ever met a couple where the girl is obviously more alpha than the guy? I have, and in those cases, it's usually the guy mimicking whatever the girl is interested in however bland she may be.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 11:30 PM
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Lol. I know just as many dudes, if not more than women, that take food really seriously. This sub is fucking delusional sometimes. Stop overthinking shit.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 02:48 AM
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What do you the the answer is? Of course people who are tired of living have considered assisted suicide. It sounds like you're an example. How old are you, and why do you think your life is worth ending?
/r/askTRP15/10/16 04:39 PM
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Not sure what monk mode even means now, but what I'm referring to is just a simple break in contract. For example: say she last saw you 2011 when you were a beta scrub. You then went to study abroad. During that time you learned how to socialize, groom yourself, and have started lifting (doesn't even have to be impressive #s, just the sense that you have a fitness goal.) You barely had contact with her during this time. When you come back on 2012 or 2013, you'll inevitably meetup and she'll see …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:24 AM
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Leaving the Friend Zone is Nigh-Impossible I've done it plenty of times. You always need to take some "time off" though. Like not seeing them for a couple of months or years, then having a re-encounter.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 02:25 AM
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I knew I was missing one.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 02:48 AM
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Free upvotes for: don't get married spin plates just lift bro
/r/askTRP09/10/16 11:45 PM
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Yes, you start by pretending. Over the months/years, if you're honestly trying to connect with people, you'll get there. It's a slow transition.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 04:57 AM
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I cringe so hard at the times I leaked I knew about TRP. This was two years ago, and TRP wasn't that popular, so no one knew wtf I was talking about. Still though, bad idea.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 02:51 AM
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The main drawback to doing it solely for the pussy is that you can fall off the boat easily. Start getting easy pussy or start dating, and you'll lose most of the motivation you had to be fit. I've seen it happen a lot. But yeah, ultimately, personal preference.
/r/seduction20/09/16 01:29 AM
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I got a hairy opinion.
/r/seduction20/09/16 01:24 AM
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I know a bunch of introvert, quiet guys who have no trouble getting quality girls. The girls do most of the work usually. Thing is, these guys aren't shy and anxious. They're simply introverts. There's a big difference. Most introverts on reddit have social anxiety and other anxiety issues, which is ultimately what hinders their progress with women. Being introverted alone isn't what's holding most back. One can be an introvert, yet confident and attractive.
/r/seduction18/09/16 02:55 AM
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That's a whole rabbit hole that can take years to perfect. I can't simply tell you how to flirt with a girl in one comment.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 02:54 AM
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It's all about how you interact with her, not whether or not the meetup is labeled a "date." Flirt, escalate, show her you're sexually interested.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 12:45 AM
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Abundance, knowing you have more options. Meaningful hobbies, keeping yourself busy. Friends, interacting with other people.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 12:43 AM
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don't start smoking weed regularly take lifting seriously (i.e. don't only do bench and bicep curls) focus more on your social skills learn how to be excited about learning. It'll help you not only in school, but also in adulthood.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 11:27 PM
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A lot of male friendships are based off giving each other shit. Don't take it personally.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 04:33 AM
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How did they shit test you?
/r/askTRP11/09/16 01:39 AM
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So much strawman here I can't even... this post is a perfect reminder of why I don't frequent this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 12:33 AM
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GTFO dude. It's done. It's been done for a while.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:42 AM
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I wouldn't say it's a guarantee. Every socially awkward guy will have trouble approaching women, but not every guy who has trouble approaching women is socially awkward.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 02:48 AM
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You don't drown in pussy if you look like JJ, you drown in pussy if you're a successful, famous MMA fighter.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 05:40 PM
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Don't underestimate flexibility then. I know plenty of old guys who are strong as hell (lifetime of lifting) but you still walk like sticks because they never stretched.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 03:55 AM
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Blow her mind with foreplay and finish it off with intercourse.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 07:57 PM
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Don't give a fuck. Your attitude speaks a thousand times louder than your body. I've seen fat dudes at the beach that ooze more confidence than athletic guys who seem to be trying too hard to look good (flexing their abs, only moving in certain ways, etc.)
/r/askTRP23/07/16 03:56 AM
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For me, at least, it was a phase. I was infatuated with TRP when I discovered it because the ideas were so amazing to me. There's honestly only so much to learn about sexual strategy though. Once you truly get it, aren't angry at women, and successfully apply it to your life, reading stuff on here is mostly confirming what you already know.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 02:14 AM
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Correct. Being aloof adds fuel to the fire. But if there's no flame to begin with, adding fuel is useless. And adding to /u/CQC3's comment, I'm not a big fan of getting used to "acting" a certain way to get girls. The end goal should always be to be a natural, without having to think about it consciously. Quoting a comment I've made on a similar topic: This works because you're portraying that she's not your top priority. You got other shit to do. You're not a chump that just sits around and thi…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 01:29 AM
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Ironic how the one who's doing the bitching is complaining about "little fucking bitches."
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 04:27 AM
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I could care less. Apparently not since my comment obviously hit a nerve.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 03:26 AM
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Try minoxidil.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:41 AM
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Yup. Reading through the post I actually got a neckbeard trying too hard vibe from OP.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 04:41 AM
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There are better ways of "being a dick" than simply refusing. Take her bag and set it down on the nearest couch. Take her beer and drink it.
/r/seduction06/07/16 05:32 PM
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You're still bench pressing. You can bench press with dumbbells, or a barbell. I actually prefer dumbbells for bench.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:52 AM
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How's your diet and lifestyle? I usually eat very healthy and exercise daily. But I've been traveling Europe this past week and my diet has gone to shit. Exercise has been limited to walking too. My skin health has dropped significantly.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 08:45 PM
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That bit gave it away that OP doesn't have a proper understanding of attraction. The rest of the write up is fine, but nothing new.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 08:34 PM
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I do MMA and lift. Yoga is a great occasional addition to my routine. It's great for flexibility and injury prevention. Yoga butts are a nice plus too.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 08:25 PM
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You were doing okay until the last text. You weren't being too stoic. Quite the opposite, you literally admitted your feels were hurt by her not showing up. Being stoic doesn't mean being serious. That's a mistake I see a lot in these subs. Being stoic means not being affected by stupid things. Things like a girl not showing up to the gym when she said she would. You can laugh, smile, use "lol", what ever, and still be stoic so long as you demonstrate you don't give a shit about trivial stuff.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 05:57 PM
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Where did I fuck up? Impossible for us to tell you specifically unless we get a play by play description of your whole date. But you definitely fucked up somewhere during the date if she stopped replying afterwards.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 08:30 PM
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Superfluous wording aside, what did your text add that you both didn't already know? If you weren't chill with her hanging with her friend, it'd be a red flag. So being chill with it is the only option to begin with. No point in explicitly saying "I mean, it's chill if you hang with your friend." And you both already knew you're down to hangout, so no need to say that either. So your text was basically a passive one with no real content. Plus the superfluous wording makes it seem like you're ove…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 07:54 PM
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Your text reply was a bit awkward, and you badically said nothing in it. No point in mentioning you're chill with her hanging with her friend, and you both already know you're down to hangout, so why say it again? Also, get rid of unnecessary wording like "I mean,". And that "hoes" snap story is cringeworthy. Move on.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 07:23 PM
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You must be in the top 10% looks wise then. So if you're not getting results, your text game probably sucks ass. Keep it playful, don't be autistic, and don't wait too long to setup a date.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 06:19 PM
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Whether or not they've had sexual tension before, being in a car with someone attractive of the opposite sex for a long time will create sexual tension. Unless your gf is ugly, or he's got a messed up libido. Not to say they'll necessarily act on it, but chances are the tension will exist if not already.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 08:12 AM
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Probably the simple act of being approached by a cute girl made OP feel anxious and subconsciously threatened. Got caught off guard so to speak. I know that personally, I'm pretty great at flirting if I'm ready for it, or if I initiate contact. But sometimes I'm caught off guard and my old, anxious self takes over momentarily.
/r/seduction15/06/16 08:35 PM
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Two things come to mind for which FB is extremely useful for, and which don't have an acceptable alternative. One if keeping in touch with people. I recently reconnected with an old friend from highschool who's now in Sweden. Now I have a free placw ro stay at next week when I visit, someone to show me around, and to invite me to parties. I've also reconnected with girls who I ended up fucking. Second is events. For better or worse FB provides a centralized hub for events. A lot of them only adv…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 06:36 PM
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As long as you're not relying on it completely, it's a good tool to have for sure.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 04:33 AM
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Nothing. I'm in a similar situation in that an old friend, who I'm interested to be in a LTR with, has told me she's moving to my city and I'm positive I'll be able to get her once she's here. There's no reason to overthink this and try to play a "long game." Live your life normally, and when the time comes (whenever she's available,) do your thing.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 02:17 AM
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Do very light texting/snapchatting just to keep her warm. Keep it causal and funny, better if it's related to something that happened during your first date. Don't overdo it though, keep it very light. Despite many people here swearing by "texting only for logistics," there is definitely a time and place for casual texting.
/r/seduction01/06/16 12:47 AM
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This is not confined to TRP, or men for that matter. Subconsciously, many people focus on self-improvement and fitness solely to find a partner. Look at all the girls and guys who gain a significant amount of weight and stop doing things outside their comfort zone once they enter a relationship. I'd say more than ninety percent of people who start working out in their teens or early adulthood are doing it, consciously or unconsciously, to be more attractive to which ever sex they're interested i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 11:41 PM
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I'm sure it has happened. So that answers whether it's possible or not. It is, though, very rare. Also, define love.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 03:26 PM
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Well there you go. Sounds like you know what your problems are. Experience is the only way to become less awkward. Not talking only about game, but social interactions in general. Put yourself out there. Talk to strangers. Awkwardness is a product of being afraid to express yourself. Exposure is the only true way of overcoming this. Drugs (alcohol and other anxiolytics) might help in the short term, but they won't fix you in the long run and may actually cause more harm if used as a crutch.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 03:39 AM
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Despite the bouncer brown nosing going on in this thread, there are many bouncers who are merely meatheads power tripping on the only source of power they'll get in their entire lives. Not to say all bouncers are like this. Evidently the ones posting here are not. But a big chunk of them are.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 02:14 AM
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I have a friend who went on some sort of Buddhist retreat. People there spent one whole month doing nothing but eating simple meals (white rice and vegetables) and meditating. I suspect this type of abstinence from everything is therapeutic in that it lowers your tolerance to every source of pleasure you're used to in everyday modern life. This would be analogous to a tolerance break from a drug. That drug being regular life. When he came back he said everything was more vibrant, and he found a …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 12:37 AM
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There are "natural" times when breaking eye contact is normal, and not necessarily a sign of anxiety or submissiveness. For example, when thinking about or recalling something. This can even happen mid convo when you suddenly find yourself describing or imagining something. Honestly, it's a thing that comes with practice. A couple of years ago I was super awkward about eye contact. When I first started forcing myself to hold it a bit longer, I felt anxious and uneasy. No doubt sometimes I held i…
/r/askTRP23/05/16 01:12 AM
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Which muscle groups you should workout depends on which position you frequent most. Honestly, if you want to get better at sex, the best way is to have more sex. As far as 'heart resistance', cardio is your answer.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 01:05 AM
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TRP is an online forum about men's sexual strategies with women. Many posts are about women. What's so surprising? That their posts are on topic does not equal their lives being "consumed with women" lol. I don't get the point of your post, other than to try to ridicule a group of people you dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 06:53 AM
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I've gotten less flakes when moving conversation to text. Also, some girls might be fickle and delete their Tinder out of the blue.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 05:44 AM
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I treat everyone from C-level people to the janitor as equals. No reason to overthink it or act a special way because someone's your superior. No one respects an ass kisser. I've seen plenty of those, and it's cringe worthy.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:08 AM
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Yes, did it for about a month. The first few days I was so horny I could've fucked anything resembling a human. After that, though, my libido steadily declined and by the end of the month I was almost depressed. For me, masturbating every 2-3 days is the sweet spot to keep my libido stable.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:02 AM
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Diet related. Learn about nutrition for yourself instead of relying on "a guy you trust." Working out does not guarantee being ripped. There's a lot more to it.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 11:26 PM
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No. It probably means she just likes to try many new things/experiences, as opposed to just playing it safe and sticking to a routine. Many who say this aren't even adventurous, but they just like the idea of it and how it sounds.
/r/seduction13/05/16 12:56 AM
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Check out my comment. OP's strategy is basically pretending to be alpha. Many girls won't be able to tell the difference immediately, but once she starts to get to know you better she'll read right through the "ignoring her" bullshit if you're really just a chump.
/r/seduction10/05/16 12:53 AM
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This works because you're portraying that she's not your top priority. You got other shit to do. You're not a chump that just sits around and thinks about her all day. Funny thing is that even if you are a chump thinking about her all day (let's face it, many of us on this sub), you can still consciously ignore her and it'll still work for a limited time, until she reads through your bullshit, which she eventually will. The main takeaway should be that you should get to the point to where you're…
/r/seduction10/05/16 12:49 AM
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Yes, just don't overdo it. For example, I've seen a plate of mine three times now and she's stayed over all of them (meaning we've interacted at least 12 hours each time. I've only told her something she's doing is cute once though.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 05:32 AM
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You show her your sexually interested by your attitude and escalating in person, not by immediately demanding nudes and sending "pictures of handcuffs." That guy's advice is fucking terrible lol. If you're on Tinder and you already matched, the sexual interest is implicit. All you have to do on Tinder is show you're not autistic, and you're a fun dude. After a few texts, invite her somewhere public. Most girls will be reluctant to meetup anywhere private with a stranger. Make it somewhere public…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:18 PM
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I can see facial expression being a big part of it. But not being big or not.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 05:15 AM
1

People don't usually get intimidated just because someone's big. It's usually something about your personality.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:11 AM
1

Could be your posture, the way you walk, talk, your hobbies, etc. Honestly no way to tell without knowing you. Ask some of your guy friends for their honest opinion.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 11:58 PM
1

If you have to actively flirt and make sexual jokes for people to not perceive you as gay, you're doing something wrong. You shouldn't need to do those things to come off as masculine.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 11:53 PM
1

Don't know if repulsed. But it usually implies the man's value wasn't high enough to obtain sex "organically" so he had to resort to paying for it, which is not the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 05:41 PM
1

There's a ton of guys who don't lift, don't have hobbies other than socializing and drinking, and who don't know shit about meditation. But they still get laid. The most important aspects are confidence, and game. The other stuff helps you gain confidence, and confidence in turn helps your game.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 10:55 PM
0

Low carb count. And don't eat anytime you're hungry.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 06:33 PM
1

Clickbait that gets thirsty chumps excited with possibility that this is the video they need to watch to finally get laid.
/r/seduction03/05/16 12:17 AM
0

Even going out to bars, last night I got my first ever compliment in about ten years. Don't go to bars expecting to get compliments. You're complaining about only a hambeast being interested in you in 10 years. Why don't you take matters into your own hands and approach girls you do find attractive? In 10 years, I guarantee more than one will respond positively. AS for tinder, they respond 3-4 times, that's it. Then your conversation is fucking boring. If they matched and replied at all, it mean…
/r/askTRP01/05/16 06:46 PM
2

They're not isolated, but you have a significant greater amount of exposure to them than when you've graduated (in class, college parties, school clubs, etc.) which increases your chances drastically.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 10:34 PM
2

I'd argue that sex is healthier. You get more physical activity out of it, and you also get the benefits of ejaculating.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 12:28 PM
1

While having player friends isn't an automatic guarantee you'll become a player, you're still a million times more likely to become one than if you have awkward friends. In short, no one can predict the future. Maybe you're so fucked that even hanging with Brad Pitt won't get you laid. But it doesn't take a genius to know what type of friends will at least increase your chances.
/r/seduction26/04/16 05:42 AM
2

I assume OP means characteristic that can be generalized to most men, regardless of their personalities, SMV, etc.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 04:05 AM
6

A woman can't get a lifetime of alpha males. It starts getting exponentially harder when their tits start to sag.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 11:10 PM
1

Have good sleep hygiene. Dim lights one or two hours before bedtime to signal your brain sleep time is coming up (hard to do nowadays with all the lights and screens we have.) No caffeine after lunch. Believe it or not, caffeine can affect some people's sleep even if they took it during the morning. I'm one of them. There's plenty of stuff that goes into sleep hygiene, read up on it. Melatonin also helps fix your circadian cycle. Don't expect it to be a sleeping pill that knocks you out though. …
/r/askTRP25/04/16 11:07 PM
1

They're still people like the rest of us. Being a therapist doesn't make them immune to societal brainwashing, so I'd say your chances of having a positive response trying to talk TRP concepts with a therapist are about as good as those you'd have with a random person.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 11:03 PM
1

No. You fucked up with the "I miss you" part. And you fucked up even further using "shit test." You're lucky she just went to sleep and has probably forgetten what you said. Explaining it would be committing relationship suicide.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 08:32 PM
2

It took some trial and error for me (a couple of mad girls and broken hearts) but I've been using this one lately, and it hasn't failed me: "I want to be straight forward with you. I'm not looking for anything serious right now, but I do enjoy your company and am down to keep hanging." I've gotten nothing but positive responses telling me how they appreciate my honesty and how they'd love to keep hanging out casually.
/r/seduction25/04/16 05:33 PM
3

Learning to maintain eye contact has been so far one of my biggest milestones since getting into seduction. It's not only useful for pickup, but for any kind of social interaction (work, everyday, family, etc.)
/r/seduction24/04/16 04:29 AM
1

Absolutely a hindrance. Not to say you can't be successful without a social circle, but it helps a lot. Specially if you find the right type of friends.
/r/seduction24/04/16 04:27 AM
1

Well, what did you respond to those girls when they stopped replying? Both your screenshots don't show your last message.
/r/seduction24/04/16 04:25 AM
2

I discovered TRP my last semester of college, towards the end. By the time I'd internalized shit properly, I was already graduated. Anyone who discovers TRP at least a year before graduating college is a lucky mother fucker. I was BP and still got pussy. But I die a little inside whenever I playback all the missed, easy opportunities I had with super fucking hot chicks.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 11:16 PM
1

As long as you don't use them as a crutch. It's easy to say don't become dependent or an addict. But harder to do in reality when a substance takes you from neckbeard to godlike in a few minutes. Tread lightly. Do your research. Learn about tolerance, withdrawal, rebound effects, etc. or addiction/dependence could sneak up on you. Also, a warning about weed: a lot of us are anxious people (on of the main reasons of why we're here). Generally, for people already prone to anxiety, weed will make i…
/r/seduction22/04/16 10:45 PM
2

There's nothing wrong with enjoying video games, if and only if you're first taking care of the obviously more important things in life.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 11:19 PM
4

Women don't just want to get laid though. They want to get laid with someone they perceive high value. And while they'll always be able to get some thirsty guy, they'll have a hard time landing a high value dude after they've hit the wall. Unless they really take care of themselves, but it's still a guaranteed downhill battle.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:16 PM
1

You're focusing on the wrong thing man. Instead of trying to figure out what to say to cold responses, work on not getting cold responses in the first place. i.e. work on your openers. Honestly, "What are you doing on here? Not meeting guys in X?" is fucking boring. I wouldn't even reply to that if I were a girl. Entertain them.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:57 AM
1

That won't get you shit unless you've got a six pack and are 6'2. For average dudes, that'll make you seem autistic. Specially after a shitty opener like OP's.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:55 AM
2

You meet people in non-RP specific ways (however you'd like to meet them) and through interaction you find out if they're alpha or not. From there you can choose to take the friendship further or bail. Good way to find out their views on women is to go for a night out. See if they take the lead hitting on women, or do it yourself and see how they react. After a few drinks, see how they talk about women as well. I went to a club with a group of guys who seemed alright once. But quickly realized t…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:48 AM
1

Damn, you're good. Good game. If you care so much about losing that you don't know how to react, you probably have to work on not having such a fragile ego.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 10:52 PM
4

at LEAST an hour or two a day masturbating to porn online. Holy shit dude. That's mental disease/addiction right there, not an average situation. For most of us who don't have ED, and enjoy some porn now and then, I don't think it's a problem. But if someone finds themselves in a situation similar to yours, (ED at a young age and watching porn for hours daily) then they need to quit for ever.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 10:45 PM
3

Yup, and when you're trying to make things work, you fucked up a long time ago.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 06:47 PM
0

If you're balding, just shave it clean off and add a little shade of pink to your scalp. Your head will now resemble a huge dick-head and it will get women moist. Guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 04:41 AM
0

Agreed it varies from place to place, depending on the culture. And even in the US you'll find the occasional desperate non-slut on Tinder. These kids on TRP just read something and take it as gospel. Probably virgins themselves.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 06:19 PM
1

Same. Being horny helps my confidence. That's why I do nofap from time to time. Gives me that motivation to be extra flirty with girls.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 12:03 AM
2

Is there a way to get rid of this feeling? Immediately, without the aid of drugs? No. In the long run? Yes. You do it a lot and you become used to it.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 11:58 PM
1

No matter how strong you were before the injury. Man, no wonder you blew 3 disks. Putting on any additional weight after surgery is a no-no. Even for professional athletes. Instead of avoiding certain exercises because you messed up years back, try starting with the least possible resistance. Then work your way up. For squats, this would be body weight. For other exercises, probably 5 pound dumbbells, or resistance bands. I had shoulder surgery a while back and was out of BJJ/lifting for more th…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 11:55 PM
4

we chatted for a bit but no number close because her guy friend was there Unless he's her boyfriend or date, that shouldn't stop you from getting her number.
/r/seduction24/03/16 11:08 PM
1

After surgery/rehab you start with the lowest resistance possible. No matter how strong you were before the injury. Unless you worked your way up to 135 pounds over time (starting with body weight and physical therapy), 135 pounds is not by any means a "warm up."
/r/askTRP24/03/16 11:02 PM
3

Nothing teaches humility than being made to look like a bitch in front of a whole class. That's the beauty of learning real, applicable self-defense. By applicable, I mean where you actually put it to the test with fully resisting opponents on a daily basis. None of that McDojo bullshit. Your first few weeks, you'll be getting smashed even by people who look "weaker" than you (let alone the dudes who train and lift). It'll force you to come face to face with your ego and the reality of the situa…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 04:32 AM
17

If you have a couple months of grappling experience, you could probably tool anyone your size, a little bit bigger, and anyone smaller of course. If you have years of experience, you can tool most inexperienced people. Unless they're super strong, athletic freaks. -- Lol at downvoters. I started grappling and MMA over a decade ago. Not talking out of my ass. I've seen a lot of ignorant comments in this sub regarding self-defense and martial arts in general. I'd really like to hear what one of yo…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 12:44 AM
19

There's a vid of her grappling Gerard Mousassi (probably fucked up the spelling) where he's visibly tsking it easy while she's going balls to the wall. He still easily ragdolled her.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 07:01 PM
0

"you know it, not as cute as you though" and pull her closer to you.
/r/seduction19/03/16 05:14 AM
1

I'm 26 and go out with 18-21 year olds. They love it. "You're so old" "Old, wise, and experienced" while smirking, and grab them by the hip. Never fails.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 04:35 AM
5

A number means nothing. Never acknowledge or complain about women being flakey. If you feel like doing it, just forget about it and soft next. Complaining about them not being receptive is 100x worse than just forgetting about them.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 03:35 AM
2

If you're not attractive, you still got a chance as a dude if your pics show you know how to have a good time
/r/seduction15/03/16 07:35 PM
1

Women at night (or generally speaking, in a party scene) can be very different than during the day time. It's another world. You might makeout with a girl at the club and get her number, then she'll go cold the next day. Night game is a lot more fast paced. You have to be more assertive. Honestly, I don't like night game. The average quality of women goes way down, and the ambiance is just not appealing to me. But it's good to experience a few times. It's also good if you're just looking for a q…
/r/seduction12/03/16 01:20 AM
2

Stable income, hobbies, friends, and being relatively healthy. That's all you need to be happy. Women are a bonus. If you haven't gotten laid in a while, sure you may feel frustration at times. But frustration does not imply unhappiness. Also, if you got all the elements I mentioned in check, having women in your life should be no problem.
/r/seduction12/03/16 01:16 AM
4

I discovered TRP about two years ago. I still have to consciously slap myself out of beta mode once in a while, but it's definitely rarer now than what it used to be. Honestly, I think a "full transformation", as in you're truly alpha 100% of the time, can take many years. Enjoy the journey dude. Just be less of a bitch one day at a time.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 03:07 AM
5

The issue is that I don't have the time nor the patience to deal with these chicks Stop putting the blame on them. They're going cold on you because your text game sucks. One the one hand is ok, because until wednesday my schedule is pretty busy as it is, so I don't have time for BS Again, I think you're protecting your ego with this "I don't have time" shit. Tinder is as low maintenance as it gets. If you have time to take a shit, you have time to send a few texts. There's only a few reasons wh…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 02:46 AM
1

Matching with someone on Tinder is far from hooking up btw. Get out there and talk to people. Anyone. Go to a show, or the store, and talk to the people in line. The cashier. Anyone. Practice and exposure are the only way to overcome this. And it'll take time. There's no "trick" (excluding alcohol or other drugs) to make this go away.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 03:20 AM
3

Right. It's a numbers game. I have a friend who's really into pickup, and he's pretty fucking good at it. He still gets rejected a ton.
/r/seduction27/02/16 08:40 PM
-1

AKA: Be confident in the way you handle yourself. No need to be sorry for wanting to talk to a cute girl.
/r/seduction27/02/16 08:36 PM
2

Yes, just don't expect to find them at the local bar/nightclub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 08:27 PM
1

Spanish and Mexican are different mayne.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 04:28 AM
1

Unless you're dealing with injury. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 07:11 PM
0

It's just a prank!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 05:47 AM
1

If you've met and talked for a while face to face. Call. If you only met briefly, or have only met online (dating sites, Tinder, etc.) definitely text.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 11:21 PM
6

Look at him like he's crazy, and continue talking to the girl.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 11:20 PM
5

Admiring isn't idolizing, nor does it imply their qualities are all encompassing of being "alpha."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 07:12 AM
1

Tinder's good enough. Low investement, easy, quick. I get at least one hookup per month. Not a huge number, but it's not the only way I meet girls. It's just super convenient. Other shit where you have to formulate your profile and all that is too much investement IMO.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 05:00 AM
1

Are you not doing it out of anxiety? Or just lack of interest?
/r/seduction15/02/16 03:43 AM
2

and block her on Facebook. lol
/r/askTRP14/02/16 02:37 AM
1

Depends on how you say it.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 12:01 AM
2

Yup. If you've already met before, calling is fine. Else, save the talking for when you meet in person.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 11:59 PM
3

She doesn't want to be bored.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 11:55 PM
2

It will result in sexual frustration, which is not healthy for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 03:05 AM
1

Because there are some people on here who legitimately hate women. Not the majority, but enough for other users to cherry-pick and spread that image.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 03:58 AM
1

Plate? Sure. Date? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 01:19 AM
1

I suspect alcohol is a major factor. Try not drinking on a night out and report back.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 08:10 PM
10

China is communist only by label. The reality is, the country is operates on capitalism. You're being ignorant.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 05:51 PM
1

I like to check her oil when I'm on top side control.
/r/seduction28/01/16 12:46 AM
9

BJJ in a kino/seduction mindset? Nah man that's just wrong lol.
/r/seduction27/01/16 05:50 AM
1

high SMV and being social savvy is all you need.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 03:58 AM
3

You can state your position. Just say that's wrong and there's facts to back it up. They can do their own research. No need to get into an argument though. If they don't want to listen don't continue pressing your point.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 08:13 PM
1

Not medik, but I'll chime in. I've been training MMA for about a decade. how did you get started I was always into martial arts as a kid. I did the typical ones: karate, tae-kwon-do, kungfu, etc. I don't remember how, but I came to the conclusion traditional martial arts were full of shit as far as self-defense goes, so I naturally transitioned to MMA. how do you train An average of 3x per week (sometimes more if there's a competition coming up, sometimes less when life gets in the way.) what ev…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 01:54 AM
2

BJJ in particular broke down a lot of my barriers Yeah. Once you're used to going full force against someone trying to choke you, or break one of your limbs, it's hard to find physical confrontation weird or intimidating.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 01:46 AM
1

I no longer need to hold on in trains Funny, I've always attributed this to my training too.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 01:43 AM
1

Shows the average age (physical or mental) of this sub is lower than you think.
/r/seduction21/12/15 06:53 AM
12

It's more about the context and your attitude than the actual words you use. The fact that you're analyzing which specific words you're using already tells me you don't have the right mindset. Stop caring so much and the rest will probably take care of itself.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 05:03 AM
1

Even then, if you're still thinking of it as "revenge", you're still not over it.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 01:02 AM
-8

Cool story.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 03:35 AM
2

In my experience, very intelligent girls who actually analyze their own behavior catch on to this, and do do it consciously. I've talked to a few friends of mine who admit they do this. Like how we never think about why we are drawn to eat chocolate There's very few girls who analyze their own behavior (hence why I said the intelligent ones.)
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 03:46 AM
0

99% of the time, the specific idea doesn't even matter. It just matters that you put some thought into it and you have a plan. Girls appreciate that. That's only true is she's already attracted to you. If she isn't yet, the specific idea very much matters.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 07:05 PM
2

You approach people the same whether you have backup or not. Assuming you know how to generally approach people, it's sounds like its not a matter of logistics, but confidence. You don't feel confident going out alone.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 08:44 PM
1

I meant start one from scratch. That's how I learned when I was 12. Before codeacademy or any of those services existed.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 03:52 PM
1

If she's been drinking and would still rather pass out than meetup, she's not into you. When a girl's into you she'll make any excuse to see you. Specially if she's been drinking. Next her.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:15 PM
1

Depends. If they say it humorously, it may be just a teases or a shit test. If they genuinely believe you're gay, then that's pretty bad.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:11 PM
3

if I were you I'd probably look for love over there, where your status will carry you much further, and girls will be used to shorter Indian guys. One of my coworkers was in the exact same boat as OP. He recently went back to India for vacations, and came back engaged. He found a pretty young Indian girl that doesn't party and doesn't carry any of the American girl baggage.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:09 PM
1

It's sad that it has to. It should be common sense to research shit you want to know.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 12:25 AM
4

You'll have better luck in /r/fitness for fitness specific questions. As for a 9 day vacations. I say chill the fuck out and enjoy it. You won't lose all your gains from not working out 9 days. Watch your diet if that's a concern.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 03:53 AM
3

What if someone really wants to have a family? Then they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 03:49 AM
9

To get an interview with a "big 4" tech company as a dude, you need credentials. A really good GPA, challenging classes on your resume, personal projects, etc. From what saw with my female classmates though, all they had to do was attend one of those "women in tech" events and mingle around with the recruiters. Source: I busted my ass to get interviews and offers with top tech companies while I watched my female classmates (most of which don't even like engineering) receive the same benefits sol…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 06:47 PM
3

Whenever we hire we always hope that a woman will be qualified for the job since it's a sausage fest at work That's part of the mentality that sets the bar lower for women and allows them to get the job easier.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 06:32 PM
2

I feel like that when I'm with a girl I'm not really attracted to. Maybe you need to raise your bar and fuck girls that you actually find hot.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 05:25 PM
3

The only place on the Internet I keep my real name is my professional email, and my LinkedIn. Facebook has a nickname. So do all other sites. I don't like the idea of someone Googling my name and finding a bunch of shit about my private life.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:46 AM
3

That's why you use a separate FB for Tinder and use a shortened/fake name.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 03:49 AM
2

I went through this stage about a year ago. Makes me cringe almost as hard as my preRP days.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 08:33 PM
1

If what you mean by "reality" is talking to a girl, sure. But to get a girl to actually be attracted to you, and to maintain that attraction, is a lot more work than getting over approach anxiety. If what you said were true then 99% of approaches would end up in success. But if you're like most men, and not a naturally gifted "Don Juan," you'd know the opposite is true.
/r/seduction01/10/15 10:40 PM
15

Agree with the "just do it" message. Completely disagree with "approaching is 99% of the work." For most of us who aren't "naturally quick witted and funny" there's much to do after you approach.
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:53 PM
2

I've always believed there's a very fine line between situational anxiety and excitement. Recognizing this is key to being able to switch mindset.
/r/seduction23/09/15 06:51 PM
12

But when did I say that I never said you did. how can you argue that I described the wall perfect without including those claims? You must be confusing me with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 03:52 AM
19

Nope, different. In the red narrative, the woman only settles for the beta because she can no longer get alphas. Blue narrative is that the woman gains a deeper understanding of dating and realized the flaws in her past relationships. It's really not either or. Both scenarios aren't mutually exclusive. Women's understanding of dating can, and will, obviously change. All humans learn from experience. What doesn't change, though, is the fact that they will never be sexually attracted to men who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 03:16 AM
10

I joined TRP a little over a year ago. I believe in most of the core concepts, and apply them to my life with excellent results. But in the past few months, the community has gone down the drain. TRP loves to use the phrase "feels over reals" to criticize SJW mentality, but there's honestly a lot of that going on in TRP as well. SJWs circlejerk over "good feels" and TRP circlejerks over asshole attitudes and being "blunt" or "stoic." I have no problem with someone being blunt if they have the lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 03:48 AM
-3

That's irrelevant to my point.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 04:51 AM
1

Not an MMA fight, but probably the closest well get. Mousasi is taking it notably lighter than Ronda is, and he's still dominating her.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 04:04 AM
3

Same thing in Mexico, and as far as I can tell, also in the US.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 08:16 PM
4

It's all about how you make them feel afterwards. If they leave the experience with a negative feeling, they'll be more likely to call rape. Don't kick her out the morning after. If you make breakfast make some for her. Offer coffee, some water, or any hangover remedy. Basically, just be a pleasant dude that she remembers in a positive way, and unless she's mentally ill (see, don't stick your dick in crazy), she probably won't call rape.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 06:54 PM
1

Drinking is a lot less subjective than weed. Alcohol is a GABA b agonist, which means it'll reduce your anxiety. So as long as you don't go overboard to where you're stumbling, can't speak right, etc. alcohol will help you be less nervous. Weed on the other hand affects people very differently. And depending on how much of which cannabinoid the strain you're smoking has, you can feel very relaxed, or extremely anxious/paranoid. If you have access to a dispensary it's easier to know what you're p…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:32 PM
1

It depends on the person. But as someone who was a stoner for almost a decade, I can assert a good 90% of my fellow stoners back in the day came to the same conclusion as I after years of frequent usage. And most of us advise moderation, as in a couple of times per month. /r/leaves for more on people who quit weed because it was holding them back.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:16 PM
-1

Smoking weed in the long term prevents personal growth. It makes you stick to your comfort zone even more than you would sober. It decreases confidence and mental clarity. That being said, I have nothing against smoking a few times per month. The trouble starts once it becomes a several times per week thing.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 02:01 PM
2

It's probably the way you said it. You likely came off as too serious, nervous, or offended. Keep at it, you'll get better at coming up with natural responses each time.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 01:12 AM
5

What did you say to fail? I'm not one to play along and try to be clever to a dumb comment like that one. I would just grab her face, look her in the eye, and while smiling say "No, you're not a lesbian and I'm not gay." Maybe go for a kiss from that.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 12:42 AM
1

Just tell her to use a condom.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 06:42 PM
–

Wow. My mother left my sister and me home alone for about three months at a time, as she had to go on business trips. We had a maid though so our basic needs were kept in check at least.
/r/PussyPass07/08/15 08:33 PM
2

We must have a different definition of asshole then. What you call a "bitchy asshole" is probably what I mean when I say asshole. When a girl says "You're such an asshole" in an positive way, doesn't mean you're actually being an asshole. Which is what I think you mean. It just means you're playing the tease card right.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 12:47 AM
2

A lot of noobs get the wrong message when they read "girls like assholes" or "assholes can get girls." It doesn't mean "be an asshole." It's only to illustrate how, despite being an asshole, a confident/assertive man will still be able to get women.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 11:57 PM
6

It's one of the reasons I started losing faith in this sub. In recent months I've seen an increasing amount of asshole behavior circle jerking. I understand being an asshole is not mutually exclusive from being right, but a lot of circle jerking here takes place solely for being a little cunt.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 06:34 PM
3

Not to be a dick, but this is just a feel-good post that might help making some approaches easier in the short term, but won't help much in the long run as you're just trying to trick your brain into thinking no one is watching. The truth is some people may be watching. Some might be judging you, or even making fun of you. Despite this, the ultimate goal is to condition your brain to not care about people judging you, etc. The only way to do this is exposure. Lots and lots of it. Approaching des…
/r/seduction02/08/15 09:19 PM
1

Yup. This sub is pretty pointless. It's either "I'm right." "No, I'm right!" back and forths, or anti-RP people trying to ridicule TRP by using RP vocab satirically. Very rarely is there actual debate devoid of fallacies here. This guy has the right idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 04:33 AM
1

If you want to. There is no "should" or "should not." By the looks of your understanding of TRP, you shouldn't take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 11:20 PM
1

Scenario 1: 3 months is not nearly enough time for someone to change their personality from anxious and awkward to confident and outgoing. I'd give him the basic general tips to increase social confidence (improve eye contact, talk to more people [girls], body posture, etc.) But as I said, 3 months is not enough time to really internalize confidence. For this scenario, I'd honestly just tell him to have a few beers beforehand or take a bar or something. Scenario 2: Make him identify the mistakes…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 11:17 PM
40

Naw man. Studying seduction isn't mutually exclusive from "playing" and enjoying your highschool life. Unless you're a complete dumbass about it, it'll only enhance your experience. I'm 25 and I wish I had known a lot of this shit earlier.
/r/seduction29/07/15 08:39 PM
2

There is indeed a lot of circlejerking that goes on in here, just like any other well established sub.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 10:19 PM
1

Assuming that by "win over" you mean make her sexually attracted to you: Possible? Yes. Likely? No, very unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 05:44 PM
1

I agree there's a lot of rude, borderline misogynistic comments on TRP, and it's also hard for me to identify with TRP because of it. But you have to remember being rude, or even being blatantly misogynistic, isn't mutually exclusive from telling the truth. And the truth is ultimately what I identify with. There's a lot on the "emotional side" of TRP I don't identify with, and I choose not to focus or participate in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 04:31 PM
7

It's implicit that everything is, to a certain extent, a generalization. Except mathematics or pure logic. "All men have a penis" - but what about special cases? Medical anomalies? Amputations? Trans people? That's how I read any absolute statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 12:47 AM
-1

Good you didn't text back, because there's no need to really unless you're still interested in plating her. But there's really no need to text back in a few weeks pretending you don't know her either. That's just immature. No point in playing back and forth games to make her feel bad. Just forget about it, you got better things to do.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 05:46 PM
10

part of the problem is our own fault Sure, if you're a white knight. I'm not. Also pussypass doesn't mean it's women's fault. Women use it to their advantage, and white knights/other women enable it. So if we want to speak purely about genders, both are at fault. But not all males are white knights, while most women do play the pussypass if/when they can.
/r/PussyPass09/07/15 12:49 AM
1

I'm done trying to impress. This should be the biggest takeaway. Once you truly internalize this, the rest will fall into place a lot easier. Impress yourself, don't do it for others' validation.
/r/seduction06/07/15 06:38 PM
3

I don't really see any relation between TRP's anger phase and your example of getting angry in the gym. What you described could be caused by so many things.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 02:27 AM
12

Poor guy is gonna get a bunch of shit advice in that sub and take it to heart.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 06:11 PM
6

You can't talk about men losing their virginity and compare it to girls being offered commitment. They're not the same thing, and you can't use one to disprove another. Meanwhile most average looking girls I know don't have tons of guys begging to date them. Sure they can get hookups more easily but most girls prefer relationships in my experience. You've said it yourself. If you take two hypothetical people, a guy and a girl. Both with equal ambitions meaning they're equally interested in hooki…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 11:46 PM
7

Your title says women are not attracted to douchebags, then you go on to explain why they are attracted to them. Yes, I understand it's not solely because of the douchebag part. When we say "women are attracted to douchebags" it's an example of how, despite negative qualities (asshole, manipulative, violent, etc.), women oftentimes cannot help but be attracted to a man (charisma, confidence, masculinity etc.) The most extreme example being men who physically abuse their partners, yet the women c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 11:39 PM
1

Yes I train at an MMA club, so we do wrestling and judo as well. I just mainly train BJJ and Muay Thai. Don't get too caught up on the "8 limbs" part. Muay Thai is the most effective striking art out there. Yes you learn how to throw knees, elbows, etc. But it's not like that takes away from your fists and kicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 11:31 PM
1

martial arts related? Muay Thai and MMA
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 10:39 PM
1

Depending on my mood, I prefer working out, video games, brazilian jiujitsu, and lots of other things over sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 10:36 PM
1

A strong physical frame is a sure way to gain respect. It's not the only way though. And it's not as important as an alpha personality. A beta personality can override being built.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 06:44 PM
0

To get rid of FB completely is honestly an extreme measure and not necessary unless you consider yourself addicted to it. It also displays a lack of self-control. FB obviously has pros and cons. Best case scenario is you learn to only use it to your advantage (getting in contact with people, knowing about events, etc.) One thing I would stay away from is constantly posting pictures and updates. That all really boils down to attention/validation seeking. A real man has no interest in that BS. One…
/r/askTRP17/06/15 09:02 PM
15

Gender equality isn't bad. It just isn't a thing. Genders are not equal. I totally support equal opportunity, and am against discrimination based on gender. But when people try to jump through mental hoops against the idea that there are physio-behavioral differences that arise from gender, that's when I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 08:51 PM
2

Sexual attraction is a very important piece of romantic relationships as well. TRP not being an all encompassing philosophy for all types of relationships doesn't make it mutually exclusive from them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 07:41 PM
4

Oh, I was talking about promiscuity specifically. But in regards to cheating, I agree it's equally wrong regardless of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 07:08 PM
4

It boils down to the dynamics of the sexual market place. It's far easier for women to obtain sex. For a man to obtain sex, it's necessary he has at least something of value, be it looks, charisma, confidence, success, social status, etc. (for women it's biased more towards looks, and even then the threshold is a lot laxer than for men) Hence promiscuity in women implies nothing other than "I have a functional vagina and I don't look like a monster", while promiscuity in a man pretty much implie…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 07:01 PM
7

The word superior holds many implications. I'd describe a RPW to be a woman with a better understanding of interactions between genders and how that applies to her. But saying she's superior would be like saying someone who knows something another doesn't is superior, which I wouldn't agree with. AWALT should also translate to most (yes, I believe there can be very rare exceptions [such is evolution and random mutations]) women sharing a set of common characteristics. I also believe the opposite…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 03:12 PM
10

You're pretty active on here. Evidently quite invested in this yourself lol. It'd be nice to have meaningful discussions instead of "it's dumb because I say so" type responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 06:02 AM
15

It's just a label that makes discussion of certain topics easier. There's not much to label as "dumb" in that lol. Your just hating unecessarily because you're presumably against the ideals of people who use those words.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 04:57 AM
2

Same. I do MMA and lift 2-3 times per week. No problems, it actually helps prevent injuries you get from having unbalanced strength.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 11:16 PM
4

It shouldn't matter if she's just a plate. Unless he's actively threatning you or some shit, then get away from that mess.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 11:01 PM
20

My school, and I assume many others, had some bullshit rule where anyone involved in a bullying incident would suffer consequences. This meant the bully, the victim, and any witnesses.
/r/PussyPass08/06/15 05:28 AM
48

Reminds me of getting suspended in school for being bullied.
/r/PussyPass08/06/15 01:47 AM
7

It annoys me that she didn't offer another time, like I'm supposed to jusy keep asking. Rule of thumb: if they don't offer a reschedule, they're not sufficiently interested. If she contacts you later on, great. If not, it's all good too, just move on.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 09:03 PM
1

If you're not invested in her, sure. Not hanging with her would just be your ego not wanting to take a hit.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 12:56 AM
2

Despite popular TRP opinion, yes, you can be friends with girls. Just not the same type of friendship you get with dudes, but friends nonetheless. All of my exes are still my friends, and if they visit (I don't live in the same city as any of them anymore) we always end up fucking and having a great time without having to be romantic and shit. If and only if you know you don't have oneitis (iffy from the sound of your post) and you're level headed about your relationship with her, you can keep h…
/r/askTRP02/06/15 12:45 AM
1

Been there, done that. Weed, when abused, does hold you back from your potential. /r/leaves is your friend.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 05:29 AM
4

Taking that further, how to you separate physical differences from other types Nothing really, unless you take into account the "mind" or "soul" and separate it from science, in which case you'd be arguing out of your ass basically. The brain, which controls all our thoughts and actions, is also a physical organ confined to the rules of physics. Why isolate one organ specifically and exempt it from being subject to biological (specifically gender) driven differences?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 02:08 AM
1

Look for bars that are known to serve underrage people. Most cities have a couple.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 10:55 PM
2

Because they don't have to
/r/askTRP27/05/15 10:53 PM
3

Any non-autistic man with a healthy self-esteem would not fall trap to such trivial manipulation attempts. If a woman honestly believes her husband to be manipulable like that it's safe to say she doesn't admire him. Probably isn't attracted to him either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 05:52 AM
1

I've read some of the conversations. That's what she shows you and/or wants you to read.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 03:40 AM
3

I don't know exactly what it's called, but there are some "free-lance" type yoga classes where everyone's doing their own thing and the teacher just walks around giving you tips. I can see room for socializing there, but not in a structured, teacher-lead class.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 01:00 AM
5

My class is about 1/3 - 1/4 dudes, depending on the day. No one socializes during class, only before or after. I actually consider the gym to have a lot more room for sociability since everyone's working at their own pace and have the luxury to stop and socialize if they choose to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 12:26 AM
5

Yoga has worked wonders for my MMA game and general body health. Don't let the "yoga is for girls" stigma stop you. Who ever still thinks like that needs to go back to junior high.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 11:44 PM
13

Having a taco food truck on the beach actually sounds badass. I might have to reevaluate my career.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 06:14 PM
1

Yes, there's a potential for dependence with SSRIs too. But it's far lower than for benzos, and the withdrawals aren't as bad.
/r/seduction19/05/15 06:05 AM
1

The term crossfit is so overused and mainstream that two crossfit curriculum at different schools could be completely different things. The whole image crossfit has brought onto itself makes me cringe, but I don't deny I've met some monsters that got in shape by "doing crossfit."
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 01:47 PM
1

I hope you're being sarcastic.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 01:40 PM
3

This sub has spilled over to other subjects too much. I appreciate people giving general fitness advice on here, but for detailed specifics, you should really be looking into other fitness specific subs. There are so many different fitness goals anyways that you're better off looking for a specific sub with experts and FAQs that can clarify your doubts. You're bound to receive better quality information in a fitness specific sub than on TRP, even if there is some user overlap.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 05:03 AM
2

That's the problem. People who lack the knowledge about these powerful drugs are prescribed them without much information other than "it'll help your anxiety" They start taking them and suddenly their life is anxiety-less. Too good to be true? You bet. There's no such thing as free lunch. Your brain will owe back any benefit a drug gives you. First few times you take it will be alright. Slowly you'll start needing more because tolerance builds up. You started with 5mg and now you need 10 or 15 t…
/r/seduction18/05/15 01:17 AM
7

I second this guy. Careful with benzos. My friend's mother committed suicide from anti-anxiety medication withdrawals. OP sounds a little too excited about the change these drugs have made on his life perspective, which leads me to believe he's new to this whole benzo thing. You can gain tolerance fast and before you know it you're full blown addicted and dependent on a pill to be able to socialize and interact with others.
/r/seduction17/05/15 06:32 AM
2

Even if you still care for getting a shot at her (which you shouldn't), your best bet is to cut contact. Any attempt at further contacting her will only decrease the little attraction she might have for you.
/r/seduction14/05/15 02:07 PM
4

You're basically saying you just have to will yourself to stop doing something. When did I say that? Desensitizing yourself to something is psychology, akin to exposure therapy. Nothing in my comments implies we're machines, stop trying to make me sound ignorant with false assumptions. I believe in not taking the "feel good" path in order to reach success faster. Not denying OP's advice might also work to put you in-state to approach, but in my experience, it didn't actually help to make me bett…
/r/seduction12/05/15 01:13 PM
0

Yes, and my opinion still holds. I believe straight up approaching even when you're having a panic attack works better in the long run than on mental tricks. You gotta just face the reality of the situation and desensitize your brain to it.
/r/seduction12/05/15 04:38 AM
4

What line of work are you in? If someone wears a suit and tie everyday to my workplace I'd consider them a try-hard. I think it's a bit ridiculous and over the top. But depending on your company culture and your line of work it might be beneficial.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:14 AM
-5

This is a good idea, but I'd rather steer away from advice that supports "tricks" and "easy ways" to do things. Ultimately, the only true way to get over approach anxiety is to hit the brick wall straight on. Approach when you're shaking in fear. Butcher your first 20 approaches, and you'll slowly start to train your brain to not see these situations as "threats." You can try all the tips and tricks you want, but at the end of the day, if you want to internalize the confidence to be able to appr…
/r/seduction12/05/15 12:39 AM
1

I've been going out solo lately. It's so much better. At first I felt a little weird and I even opened dudes at the club telling them I was looking for wing men. But quickly discovered most dudes just drag me down. Ninety percent of dudes out there are too pussy to approach and are of no use to me as wing men.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 12:33 AM
3

Having fear that im not going to read every "good" or "smart" post here, that im not going to copy some sentence or whole post Seems like you study this with a passion, but it doesn't seem to me like you're internalizing any of it with your attitude. Being afraid to miss a good post sounds like a symptom of being insecure with yourself. Sure, TRP will wake you up to many truths. After you got the basics down solid, no amount of reading will help you become a better man. Understand this, and mayb…
/r/askTRP11/05/15 10:21 PM
22

Even if you didn't get any kind of closure out of it, you're still already ahead of 90% of men out there. Keep at it.
/r/seduction11/05/15 04:37 AM
1

No, they don't. They couldn't give less of a fuck about guys on death row, hence, they're "invisible." I approach after chilling at the death row all the time and have a pretty high success rate. I'll bet you my balls they don't even know I was standing at the death row before I approached them. And if they do, then it's irrelevant since they were still receptive to my approach.
/r/seduction10/05/15 04:26 AM
3

Exactly. Girls aren't paying attention to chumps sitting against a wall. If your social value is low enough, you'll likely end up in the death row. But that doesn't mean the death row is the cause of your lack of social value, that's inaccurate. But I can see how it might seem so since most of the low value guys usually stay there.
/r/seduction10/05/15 03:01 AM
5

Sometimes, even if it's just a few minutes, I just like to kick back and people watch. Of course staying there the whole night isn't the plan. But forcing yourself to pace around the club and open people the whole time is treading a thin line with being a try-hard. Most girls aren't really paying attention to the death row anyways. As I said, it mostly just makes you invisible.
/r/seduction10/05/15 12:39 AM
1

I was watching video after video last night, until I came across one that said something along the lines of "stop fantasizing and watching videos and make it reality," which really hit home since it pretty much described what I was doing. Went out after that video lol.
/r/seduction10/05/15 12:27 AM
2

I can see that. But I don't see anywhere else at a club with no tables where I could chill and sip on my drink for a bit. Standing in the middle of a crowd is worse IMO. Being on the death row makes you invisible than anything, which I'm fine with.
/r/seduction09/05/15 11:13 PM
16

Lol first time I hear the term death row. When I go out solo I'm usually there at some point during the night. Not because of approach anxiety, but because I don't like socializing and/or approaching every single moment of the night. Sometimes I just like to sit back, sip on my drink, and people watch.
/r/seduction09/05/15 09:07 PM
19

Stop trying to get in her head and know what she's thinking, no point in that. Next time you make eye contact, smile and wave at her then introduce yourself. Or if she avoids eye contact, tap her on the shoulder, shake her hand and introduce yourself. If she's not receptive after that then at least you gave it a go and aren't wasting your time analyzing the situation anymore.
/r/seduction09/05/15 09:04 PM
1

Hide, or demonstrate you aren't phased by, your problems from girls. You can vent about your problems with close friends/family, that's natural to a certain extent.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 12:48 AM
55

"You can become a member of the red pill" Lol, this dude trying to commercialize the red pill, selling shirts and shit too. I'm all for some of the ideals behind "red pill" but it's been taken to cringeworthy levels. Otherwise good video.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/15 12:41 AM
1

I had Central or South America in mind as well. But definitely not a big city. In my experience, big cities are far more contaminated in bullshit ways of thinking like extreme feminism and all that crap.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 03:25 AM
5

I wasn't born here, but the only reason I remain here is because I get a fatter paycheck compared to anywhere else. Other than that I don't think his country has shit to offer that you couldn't find amywhere else. And as far as women and social issues, this country is fucked. I'm staying here a few more years, saving up, and GTFOing.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 06:08 PM
10

For sex, for self-defense, for practical reasons (just lifting stuff in everyday life), for health, for aesthetics. So many reasons to lift. No excuses to not lift!
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 09:36 PM
25

Too confident? No such thing. Coming off as a try-hard, PUA, cocky, asshole, or a combination of all those things? Definitely possible.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 01:32 PM
1

In my opinion the only thing that works (other than medication, but that's not a permanent fix) is exposure therapy. Nervous of hot girls? Approach many hot girls and talk to them. You will fuck up many times and feel nervous as fuck, that's expected. Your brain will naturally start to get used to it after a while and being seeing it as less of a threat, so over time you'll get less and less nervous. Yes, other indirect things might help (CBT, meditation, lifting, etc.) but at the end of the day…
/r/askTRP24/04/15 05:26 AM
8

Mirror time. Might seem narcissistic but it's awesome when you start seeing results.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 12:57 AM
0

My mother is an pretty successful entrepreneur and holds many social positions of power, yet she's quite irrational and her hamster is on overdrive day and night. She has a skill in bullshitting paired with relentless motivation. Don't be fooled, being in a position of power nowadays rarely depends on being rational. It depends on how well you can transmit emotion and appeal to others. Most people don't choose and allow things based on logic. Feelz over realz is how most of the world functions, …
/r/askTRP20/04/15 06:40 PM
13

The praying mantis just randomly developed the instinct to eat the male after sex, and since the genetic legacy was already passed (and the male mantis sticking around provided no advantage to competing strategies), that behavior stayed. Right. It's a common misconception that natural selection is some sort of intelligent force that "selects" and chooses evolution's direction. It's all random mutations, and ones that happen to improve chances of survival are more likely to stay. But that doesn't…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 10:50 PM
3

Holy fuck I miss Latin American women so much. I moved to the US about 5 years ago. The only reason I'm still here is because I get a phat pay-check compared to back home. But as far as women, they're so mentally fucked up here that I've lost hope. It doesn't help that I live in a "liberal" type city. I'd never lived in the US before, so I thought it might be the "American dream" the media portrays, but honestly, everything about gender culture here is a disaster, and it's only going to get much…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 03:08 AM
2

It's the positive feedback he gets. It strokes his ego, even if the events are fabricated. It's similar to the reason why people submit reposts. Validation is validation, regardless of the reason :) And I agree, anyone who's ever gotten laid more than a lucky once will read right through this post's bs. Getting laid with 3 randoms in 24 hours isn't even as pleasurable as virgin teenagers think it is. I got shit to do ya know? Maybe I'm just too old for this ultra high libido fantasy story crap.
/r/seduction07/04/15 08:27 PM
3

Agreed, but remember: if you're not getting a good deal, it's most likely on you. In her eyes, you're inferior to other men she's been with. Can't blame the girl for not letting a relative beta chump stick his dick in her ass. This should be a reminder and motivator to keep improving as a man.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 06:42 AM
2

Women who lack a strong male presence early on in life. Usually develop slutty and/or ratchet behavior.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 08:13 PM
7

Click bait. Good marketing ;)
/r/seduction01/04/15 08:12 PM
1

You mention you're a progamming manor so I assume you're in college. This is the best setting to get exposure to other women. Join clubs (preferably ones that hold social events) and meet people there. You'll meet men and women. Eventually you'll get an offer to go clubbing or hit up a party. Take it. Have some drinks, relax, and meet more people. Rinse and repeat. Do this and in a couple of months I wont guarantee you to have lost your virginity (although it's totally possible), but I will guar…
/r/askTRP01/04/15 08:10 PM
1

I hope you only met her once and nevrer again. If not, why the fuck are you even hanging out with her? 2/10 and a radical fem
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 06:17 PM
4

It's such a breath of fresh air to see someone in such power have such logical views.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 02:09 AM
11

And it happens to girls too. That's why you see so many people go out of shape and let their guards down in terms of health and motivation once they're in a relationship. Most of the shit they were doing was solely for attracting a mate. I used to be like this. If I was currently getting laid frequently enough, or had a LTR, I would lose most motivation to lift, pursue challenging hobbies, and get out of my comfort zone in general. Glad to say I'm not like that anymore. I love improvement and ch…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 02:05 AM
1

Be present and constant in his life. Instill the confidence and mindset he'll need to develop into a man. If you have a RP mindset you'll do fine, as will he. My father was absent for most of my childhood. I can tell you with certainty I would've had no need to browse this sub if that hadn't been the case. Congratulations on having your own little human btw!
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 12:54 AM
1

If he's interested in not only raising his SMV, but self-defense and respect "on the streets", I couldn't recommend wrestling enough. I've done MMA for almost a decade now, but I never wrestled as a young teen. Wrestlers that have been doing it since they were young are just at another level of grappling and body awareness. They're literal beasts. And the fact that so many up and comers and champs in the UFC have a strong wrestling background says something about it. Yeah, football's good to rai…
/r/askTRP21/03/15 05:38 AM
1

Send her this pic
/r/askTRP19/03/15 04:46 AM
1

Girls gonna girl, don't sweat it. Three rejections is nothing compared to other shit life can throw at you. No homo, but you're not bad looking. A bit irrelevant, but I recommend working on making your neck stronger, which is way too often overlooked in lifting. I can't tell how big your body frame is, but from the picture you look like a skinny dude.
/r/seduction19/03/15 01:10 AM
2

Correct. And doing something about it will show you're insecure, which will further increase her probability of cheating. So whether you give a fuck or not, it's best to not act on it.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 01:01 AM
3

Mistakes: telling her you wanted to kiss her, admitting your nervousness (being nervous is one thing, but never flat out tell a woman you're nervous, let alone describe your nervous manifestations), and not being sexually assertive. I cuddled with her and felt her up a little (she may have been asleep for that, idk, her breathing got heavier when u did that) Been there. Of course they know what's going on, specially if breathing gets heavy. I've initiated sex with girls who were "asleep." Cautio…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 03:15 AM
29

I've been through a "got to comfortable" phase. I'm surprised it's not discussed more, I suspect it's quite common. You're pumped because you just started and you start seeing results. You get numbers every night and get laid a few times. You acquire one or two fuck buddies, so you start going out less because why waste money and energy on going out when you can get laid without it? One of your FWBs drifts off, and eventually, if you don't commit, the other one does too. You haven't been practic…
/r/seduction18/03/15 02:30 AM
4

I'm eating lunch and gagged reading your last paragraph.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 06:29 PM
1

Lol. This is how I got into my forst relationship after countless hookup only situations
/r/seduction11/03/15 05:42 PM
1

Whether she's attracted to you or not depends on many things, including your approach. "Being attractive" is an over simplification of a lot of things. You don't have to obsess about every single detail, but some analysis is necessary especially for dudes browsing this sub.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 06:06 PM
1

Same here. I can deal with weird ears, but an ugly nose is most definitely a deal-breaker of the biggest kind.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 08:08 PM
1

Congrats, you did exactly the right thing to dry up that pussy! Give her a breath of fresh air and instead of talking about your feelings, fuck her. You win, she wins.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 11:40 PM
1

What I mean is be flirty. Let your intentions be known, implicitly, through your actions.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 10:59 PM
2

Last time I was in a sticky situation I set my phone to record sound and make sure it was obvious there was no wrong-doing involved. Even with this, though, the pussy pass has a chance of winning.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 03:02 AM
1

Follow these simple steps to avoid being "nice guyed." Does not mean all girls will be your lovers. It just means you won't ever be in the friend zone. First, don't be ashamed about your sexuality. Express that shit. You might overcompensate and come off as a creep at first, but with practice you'll calibrate your behavior and will get better at it. Unless you're a natural, practice with this is the only way you'll get better. <--- Don't do this shit through Facebook. Second, If you've clearly b…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 02:52 AM
1

It's assholes all the way down. Shit gets blurry at a certain point because what's considered an asshole is subjective.
/r/seduction27/02/15 02:44 AM
14

They can't help but be intruiged by rejection. Went out this weekend and a girl asked me to buy her a shot. I said no, and she asked if I didn't have money. I said I did, but none to spend on her. Didn't see her for a couple of hours until the bar was closing, she comes over amd kisses me (she was wasted.) It's almost funny how little effort I put to receive a kiss when I could've dried up her vagina by buying her shots.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 10:51 PM
4

My mom's 50 y/o and single. She has such high expectations from men it's ridiculous. She's dated millionaires and ripped guys, but never a ripped millionaire (which is what she's waiting for.) Well her time is running out exponentially. I told her the other day straight up that no one her age is going to be attracted to her, let alone a younger, ripped millionaire. I told her her best bet is to find an old dude with money.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 09:22 PM
4

Regardless of gender, she sounds like a shitty person. I'd avoid being her friend unless she's sucking my dick.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 08:48 PM
3

And once you've committed to saying something, speak it loudly and clearly.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 12:46 AM
2

Yes it's a song
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 11:44 PM
4

The way this guy interacts with his woman makes me cringe.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 11:40 PM
6

I'd argue female behaviors may also easily facilitate criminal behavior (see pussy pass.) It's just that male behavior turning criminal is easier to spot since it's pretty straightforward.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 08:55 PM
4

For me it was mostly anxiety. My T had always been healthy, even in my peak BP years. I've always enjoyed competition, had a strong sex drive, etc. But my anxieties were what was holding me back. But I agree plenty of people on this sub might suffer from low T.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 08:50 PM
1

Eh, the married question if the grass would be greener on the other side (the single life), and vice versa. For some, having a partner makes them feel "complete", for others being single and having hobbies does. Some never feel complete, and some do no matter the situation. I really don't believe there's absolutes to this one. It depends on the individual and many other factors.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 07:13 AM
4

I've already been through started the anger phase months You're still not out of it. You don't just get to self-proclaim yourself to be out of the anger phase. Specially when you get angry at a girl for looking for better options when you're making a shit-ton of mistakes yourself.
/r/askTRP14/02/15 04:08 AM
5

Get her on a diet if you want her to lose weight. The gym can be a nice compliment, but the six pack is made in the kitchen.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 10:32 PM
9

I've seen some 15 year olds I'd fuck if it were legal to. Not all 15 year olds, but definitely a few are pretty hot. Anyone who denies this is lying to themselves to ease the cognitive dissonance.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 10:04 PM
1

While I agree with you that "blunt game" should be the end goal, it's not practical to simply describe it and expect people to be able to adapt. In order to get to the point of being able to exercise blunt game, unless you've been a natural your whole life (which I suspect most of us om TRP weren't), you're going to need to be "technical" for a long time. With enough technical practice, it'll eventually turn into second nature. For someone who's not a natural, simply exercising "blunt game" woul…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 06:06 PM
5

I had a self-proclaimed, proud feminist FWB before. Easiest and craziest sex ever.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 08:20 PM
0

Anger is acceptable. But it's one thing to be angry at women, and another to be angry at the status quo of the sexual market place. It isn't as common as outsiders make it to be, but I have encountered hostile comments towards women on this sub. Then again that could be said about any subreddit. Some amounts of hate, retards, trolls, etc. will always exist. What troubles me is when I see them being upvoted.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 01:00 AM
2

Resentful demoralization?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 05:05 AM
3

Women who are conscious of it feel guilt. The rest just feel frustrated. I've witnessed women openly admit their guilt and cognitive dissonance. Needless to day it was usually the less basic ones.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 10:49 PM
9

and never do anything with your life You're assuming that having a "non-productive" hobby, in the sense of self improvement, is mutually exclusive with being productive at all. Not the case. I see this shit argument thrown around here a lot for video games, fapping, and now watching sports. If you got your shit together in other areas of life, do whatever the fuck you enjoy doing as long as it's not negatively impacting other areas of your life.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 09:15 PM
2

Yes. It honestly doesn't even feel as good as I fantasized it to back when I still liked the girl. I just felt sorry for her, and a little bad inside. The key is that I don't have oneitis enough to give enough of a fuck to celebrate rejecting her. I actually don't give a fuck anymore.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 06:28 AM
6

He's focusing on himself and getting a positive reaction from her? Abuse!
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 07:42 PM
2

Same way you become manly with a chin. Factors out of your control are not worth dwelling upon. Go read the side-bar.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 03:10 AM
2

I feel ya. I saw a post on /r/seduction once that was suggesting dudes to wear a suit to the club to stand out and make all the other guys looks like chumps. The amount of upvotes it had... fuckin' a.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 02:20 AM
10

All within context. In my college days I knew several try hards who'd force tha fancy look in casual parties. It honestly made everyone, including the girls, cringe.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 07:48 PM
41

Poor lad, she was probably so oppressed and had no other option but to inject shit into her husband!
/r/PussyPass22/01/15 02:25 AM
1

It's what happens with the large influx of new subscribers. I don't see it slowing down anytime soon.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 01:08 AM
2

Female friends are a great link to more pussy. Yes, male/female friendship can mever replace a male/male one. But limiting your social circle from girls who aren't suitable fucks is unnecessary.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 04:47 AM
1

Sounds like low libido. My own is very unstable. Some weeks, I can relate to you in having sexually attractive options to put my dick into, but not being all that interested. Other weeks, though, I want to fuck all the time. There could be a million factors in play here. But low libido will definitely diminish your interest in women. Do you jack off? Try not masturbating for 2 weeks and see if your interest in women rises.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 03:36 AM
2

Sounds like you have a scarcity of women. Once you start having success with women on a more regular basis it'll naturally lose its novelty and I guarantee you won't be thinking about them 24/7.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 09:06 PM
9

It's about having people know how hard your work is, without you having to tell them. The moment you open your mouth to say "hey, look at how hard my work is", you lose. Just focus on your hard work, shut up about it, and if done properly sooner or later people will find out how much of a badass you are on their own. They'll respect you much more this way than you activrly trying to shove your "awesomeness" down their throat.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 07:54 PM
1

It's been discussed a lot. It always comes down to personal preferrence. Some people swear by it, others not so much. Try it and see if you gain any benefits.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 06:17 PM
2

This should be a breathe of fresh air considering all the girls nowadays wasting daddy's money on useless shit. Definitely a virtue.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 01:35 AM
-1

I haven't been lucky enough to find plates that enjoy BDSM, DP, and anal. Yes, they let me try it, but they don't like it. The search continues...
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:04 PM
7

First thing I noticed is he's 8 years older. That alone is a huge advantage in having higher SMV for a younger woman's eyes. Just because he's addicted to games doesn't mean he has a "geek" type personality. This sounds like a classic example of "girl in love with the junkie" type of deal, except this addiction is to video-games, not drugs. This guy probably puts video-games before her, or even sex. This guy might have just enough IDGAF characteristics in his personality that they've kept the yo…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 02:15 PM
8

Stop being a little insecure bitch, the dildo's a piece of plastic and you're already acting like it's some other dude your girl loves. If she stops being attracted to you it's going to be because of your bitch mentality, not the size of your dick. If she's really that into being filled, fist her. No dick will beat knuckles and a forearm. Make her relate those experiences with you. Make eye contact and hold her by the neck while you fuck her with the dildo. Take control and be dominant.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 04:42 PM
1

Mostly hand/feet positioning and movement. Also how to block strikes and kicks. I've practiced Shaolin kung-fu, 5 animals style (shit honestly makes me cringe now), and "traditional" wushu when I lived in China.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 12:15 AM
1

Mostly agree. But there's a degree of giving a fuck about what others think that's natural. Be alpha or not. I see a lot of people on here go from on unhealthy extreme of giving too much of a fuck, to the other of not giving a fuck at all (or trying to, because let's face it, the attempt is mostly a manifestation of actually caring too much.) Just try to fall into a healthy balance.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 08:07 PM
112

Wrong. I buy my girlfriend flowers, rub her feet, and cook dinner for her every night. She even has sex with me once per month, sometimes. That's not manipulation, it's called love. Lol I feel sorry for you "alpha" "bros" /s /bp
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 06:29 PM
1

All of your scenarios for engaging with feminists have one thing in common: taking her seriously. It's impossible to win that way. I've had female feminist friends who I've fucked on and off during many years. The only way to "win" with them is to not take them seriously, and simply acknowledge their feminine side and use it to your advantage, even if they themselves don't even acknowledge it. I can even say I'm relatively good friends with some "feminists." Sure, they rant sometimes, but I don'…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 06:41 AM
2

You sound a tad bit too excited off your new found liquid courage. It's great and all, but don't use it as a crutch as most guys end up doing.
/r/seduction13/01/15 05:28 AM
0

It wires your brain differently, and it in no way enhances your desire for real woman. Unless you're only into amateur porn ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 04:49 AM
1

My family (father and uncles) have always been into martial arts, so naturally, I've been in some sort of martial arts/self-defense system since I learned how to walk. Not to sound like an affliction wearing, MMA fanboy, but you will gain the most, self-defense wise, from doing MMA style training. Which means ideally some sort of ground-fighting: wrestling and/or BJJ, some sort of stand-up grappling: wrestling and/or judo, and some sort of striking: Muay Thai and/or kickboxing (but ideally Muay …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 04:36 AM
5

I rather not let it become an addiction and a source of constant validation. I've come in contact with acquaintances that opened new oportunities through FB. Come across events that are only announced on FB, small businesses that only have a FB presence, etc. As for posting, sharing, liking, commenting, and all that other bullshit, I keep it to a minimum. I post something with a frequency of once every 3 months maybe, if at all. Completely opting out, IMO, is not the most practical thing to do t…
/r/seduction06/01/15 06:47 PM
1

Assuming what you said about having a good job, hobbies, friends, and being fit is true: only thing left is your social skills/game. You probably suck at that. If anything, use your 'monk mode' to focus on improving social skills. Not visiting new restaurants.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:55 PM
2

I'd learn how to longboard if you want to ride something to near places. Personally, I don't give a fuck what people use as long as it's an effective means of transportation. But I remember back in college people speaking negatively about scooters. I've even used longboarding lessons as first dates for girls. Lots of chance for kino, plus it's something fun.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:03 AM
9

I'm sure there's both kind. Those girls that are not aware of their actions, and subconsciously go through the whole deal, and those who are very aware about their feelings and how to manage them. This girl is the latter. She knows exactly what she's doing, and kudos to her for being smart and planning ahead. I ain't even mad bro :) Too bad for her, I found out about TRP before she could lock me down. But I'm sure she'll have no trouble finding another BB to replace me. I can already name two of…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 08:44 AM
21

On point. I can relate 100% because I went through the exact same situation, except thank god I only knew the girl for 3 years, not a whole fucking decade. In my situation: we "gave it a try" because I was smart and cared about her. She dumped me about 4 months in because "she didn't feel a spark between us" I lacked the alpha characteristics that make women moist. It's been about two years since, and she still contacts me every once in a while. Probing my existence, trying to keep me orbiting l…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:48 AM
1

Is it a date or a hangout? Depends on your mindset. If you want it to be a date, make it one. Escalate, don't be shy about being sexual/touchy, etc.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 06:09 AM
1

If you want to get serious you're better off going to a subreddit dedicated to lifting and nutrition.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 06:00 AM
8

If you consciously know someone's walking towards you in the same exact line, it's expected you both move a bit. I've found that when I bump into other people, it's usually because either of us was distracted and genuinely didn't know the other one was there. It doesn't mean one's alpha and the other is beta. Or that one lacks confidence and the other doesn't. It's a simple social dynamic that most people follow simply because it makes walking down a side-walk you share with thousands of other p…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 05:46 AM
2

I have a top .01% looking friend as well. But he is beta as fuck, and very awkward. I'd even say he might be a little autistic tbh. Same as your friend, girls approach him, etc. He always gets laid, but rarely more than once with the same girl. No girl wants to stay around him for long. They just want to kiss his pretty face and touch his abs for one night then get the fuck away from him because he's so socially awkward. He's like a slut to women. They pump and dump him because he's beta as fuck…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 09:24 AM
12

I would also add choking, and intense eye contact to the list.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 11:55 PM
2

There are two main types of OCD. What you're describing is the widely popular, "normal" OCD. Then there's primarily obsessional OCD, also known as "Pure-OCD". This is purely obsession/thought based and has little to no physical manifestations. It's very hard, almost impossible, to notice someone has this type of OCD unless they describe their though process to you, as OP is doing.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 11:18 PM
1

I'm on my phone and don't hve a link to my sources. But I also recall reading that frequent water intake acustoms your body to get rid of water faster (since it always has abundant supply), therefore lowering your water retention as well.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 08:42 PM
3

You're right about it being OCD then. You have an irrational fear and it's creating intrusive, anxiety-provoking thoughts. You're better off addressing that, than caving into your OCD and getting a vasectomy.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 06:02 PM
2

Wear a condom and pull out. Use your own condoms, don't take them from her. If you haven't been wrapping up, you're better off worrying about STDs and giving them to your LTR as well than about getting a girl pregnant.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 05:55 PM
2

I've been out solo and have been questioned about it. The unfortunate truth is people do judge you if they find out you're out all alone. So when I get asked where my friends are, I say I lost them. It happens often enough, so it's believable and takes care of that.
/r/askTRP01/01/15 03:05 AM
69

I repeat: NO ONE WILL JUDGE YOU IF YOU FAIL DURING AN APPROACH. This is feelgood bullshit. Some people will judge you, others won't. That's just the reality of it. If you walk around believing no one will judge you for approaching, the moment you find out someone was making fun of your failed approach (believe me, it happens), you'll want to die and your whole mindset will collapse. Get into the mentality of approaching anyways and not caring if people judge you or not. Of course in the beginnin…
/r/seduction01/01/15 03:02 AM
1

Date a nurse, they're more fun. Agreed. I'm not in med school, but I've dated nurses and to-be doctors. In general, girls in med school I've met are smarter, but crazier. More stuck-up, definitely. Less feminine. More of the feminist kind. Nurses, in general, have been more feminine, simple minded (not necessarily bad), and easier to get along with.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 09:19 PM
21

The last oneitis I had, 2 years ago, once told me that I would make a great husband. That she could see herself having kids and marrying me when we were older. I took this as a compliment. My heart dick felt so good. Meanwhile she was fucking her weed dealer. What a dumb fuck I was.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 04:27 AM
3

I knew SE would come up because it's an up and coming good paying job. I'm a SE, and while it's true that you can get by without being too social in this field, you still need to be able to work your way smoothly through social settings if you want to be social proof and attractive to women. Getting paid 120k per year means nothing if you're an awkward fuck. you will be classic beta bux and get used for your money. A girl would rather fuck a charming janitor than an awkward software architect. H…
/r/askTRP28/12/14 10:26 PM
1

To be successful you generally have had to successfully navigated your way socially one way or another.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 10:04 PM
2

Social proof does not mean seeking other people's approval. It simply means being able to effectively navigate yourself through social settings and having/utilizing your network to your advantage. You don't need to be a social butterfly to achieve either. Hell you don't even have to like socializing. As long as you can perform and use it to your advantage.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 08:58 PM
2

Don't declare your manhood explicitly. That shows you're more of a try-hard than anything, and is honestly quite cringeworthy.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 12:29 AM
1

To each their own. I'm not replacing his post. Just made a short, complimentary summary of OP.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:45 PM
118

In other words, bring your sexuality to the table. Don't suppress it. Don't be ashamed of it.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 08:11 PM
5

It's not something worth dwelling upon to come up with a perfect, clever response. As long as you show you're not taking it too seriously and being insecure about it you should be fine. I would've said something like "At least he cares about safety ;)"
/r/askTRP21/12/14 11:30 PM
14

Fast-paced game. No time to lose. Escalate fast on cruises. Not sure where you're going to but most last around a week. I've made the mistake of taking several days to escalate sexually woth a girl on a cruise, and by the time we were both ready for a potential hookup it was already time to leave.
/r/seduction20/12/14 09:21 PM
2

I'm half Asian and grew up with Asians in my household my whole life. I'm not sexually attracted to Asians, which if fine. The fucked up part about Asian girls is all of a sudden going for their same race when the wall is approaching.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 04:52 PM
7

Think about it. A girl's sexual value comes mainly from her physical appearance. If her face is fucked up, she might as well try her damn hardest in any area she can improve: her body. I feel for them, but kudos to them for taking care of their body.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 04:24 PM
26

it's pretty fucking atrocious and enables abusers to be abusive, and convinces men who aren't getting laid that the problem isn't them but women Where do they get this info? I'm genuinely curious. The only two sources I can think of are other comments, or they make it up. I've been browsing this sub for over a year now and I have never come across anyone condoning or "enabling" abuse. I guess if you define game as abuse then you could claim that. But in that case go nuke /r/seduction before this…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 06:15 AM
5

higher SMV. Older men are generally more experienced all round (fitness, strength, socially, financially, sexually etc.)
/r/askTRP19/12/14 04:25 AM
12

From what I understand keeping frame involves being a charismatic asshole that finds everything amusing. No, keeping frame involves being true to your will and not bending it for other people. The basis of having frame has nothing to do with being charismatic or being an asshole (although these two traits aren't mutually exclusive with frame) Now, to address your negative emotions, there's no shortcut. You have to grind through the negative experience without exploding, crying, having a panic at…
/r/askTRP18/12/14 03:51 AM
1

Women are biologically attracted to dominant men. He doesn't have to treat you like shit though. But yeah, an asshole is not mutually exclusive from a dominant man.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 07:35 PM
1

If you want to talk statistics and maximizing your chances of getting laid, unmatching girls that use classic slut-defense lines is hurting your chances. That's what I've been addressing all along. Never did I deny that maximizing matches is a bad strategy. If she says I'm not looking for a hookup then unmatch her immediately the greater amount of opportunities you have to ask "so what are you looking for on here?" --> the more women who will respond to that question favorably The problem here i…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 10:51 PM
2

Yes, keep the fact that you browse this subreddit private. But you don't have to keep the ideals of this sub a secret. Just be smart about how you present them.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 09:30 PM
2

An alpha will always know how to move his way through social situations smoothly, regardless of whether he enjoys them or not.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 09:26 PM
1

Yeah, there's exceptions to everything. This isn't the exception though, it's the norm. A girl saying she doesn't want to hookup on Tinder is almost guaranteed to be using it as slut-defense only. The exception would be a girl saying that and meaning it. If she was ugly, why waste your time talking to her? Lol Wanted to see how desperate an ugly girl could get. Suspicions were confirmed. She's the only one who didn't use slut-defense and straight up agreed to fuck (which I didn't) You're right. …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 03:02 PM
20

Good advice overall, but Filter her This is huge. I ask every match so what are you looking for on here? If she says I'm not looking for a hookup then unmatch her immediately. In those cases, the girl is just using the app to adopt a Beta pet who will give her his time and attention for free. my experience has been very different on this. I've gotten ONS with girls who "aren't looking for a hookup" on Tinder. It's classic slut-defense and shouldn't be taken seriously. They're on Tinder FFS. They…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 04:19 AM
1

I'm curious as to what reasons he gives for scolding you for lifting weights?! Sounds insane. I understand if he's BP and scolds you for cutting contact with girls, since he might find this disrespectful. But lifting? Something that's healthy for you? Seriously?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 04:10 AM
12

I wouldn't call that dominating an interview. Seemed like an okay interview. He didn't fuck it up or anything but I didn't see anything super impressive except good public speaking skills, which most celebrities have. But I do agree with you. Being a good conversationalist if you're not a natural is hard. It's just like lifting in the sense that it requires lots of practice, but the difference is practicing conversations means fucking up and soaking in those awkward moments. Just like approachin…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 12:37 AM
3

Right. If this was a random dude, fuck him, and fuck the girl. Not need to confront anyone just forget about them both. But if this was actually your friend ("friend"), then I'd have a talk with the guy.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 05:36 PM
1

Correct. At the end of the day, it's feelings we're communicating with someone else. Even if we're communicating concepts, ideas, or facts, there's always a feeling attached.
/r/seduction12/12/14 04:47 PM
1

Lol. What? If she's hot, play with it and fuck her. She sounds kind of crazy though.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 04:09 AM
10

just completely ignore his existence and game her like any other girl? If she's giving you all the signs, and her boyfriend is not around or your friend, go for it. It's on her to be loyal or not. It's very possible she doesn't even have a boyfriend, or is about to break up with him.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 03:10 AM
4

To truly back away, though. Not to walk away looking back every 2 seconds in hopes that she comes back to you. I made this mistake when first starting to exercise "no contact". It was merely a facade I used to make it seem like I didn't care, when in reality I'd still get a boner if she texted me.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 06:47 AM
1

You're saying it helps you get one night stands. How is it potentially hurting you? If it works for you, use it. You don't need our approval, have fun. If you're liking picture of girls left and right and never getting laid then that'd be another story.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 06:39 AM
1

Cool, your edit makes sense. I was getting the impression you were using red flag as an abort mission kind of thing.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 03:24 AM
1

They don't want to feel like sluts. They want to feel like "it just happened" It's not a huge red flag. It's just girls protecting their ego/image. I've had perfectly good sex with girls that claimed they were not in it for the sex.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 05:54 PM
1

That's really interesting dude. I have a similar experience /u/widec has, and so have my friends who tries nofap. If I abstain even just a few days my sex drive increases exponentially and I get turned on by situations that wouldn't have previously turned me on. The best I can describe it is I get some sort of "beer goggle" distortion and get turned on by girls that prior to nofap wouldn't turn me on. And the ones that already did turn me on are an insta-boner with nofap. Super passionate sex to…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 07:36 AM
3

This is why I enjoy doing "no-fap". I'm not one of those dudes who religiously preaches how no-fap will change your life. But what is undeniably true is that it keeps you hungry, and keeps that mojo flowing.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 08:36 PM
1

There isn't a specific reason. It doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 10:05 AM
1

You can still have people perceive you as smart and have those benefits you list.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 03:34 AM
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Once convinced of this, they will never suspect that you may have ulterior motives. Why the fuck even care about this?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 03:32 AM
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If they know how to gleek, they'll always get away with it :)
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 08:30 PM
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I would also add, you don't have to state you're being direct, as you did in your example. That's akin to saying "I'm sexually attracted to you", then going for the kill. It's a little awkward. Let your actions speak for themselves.
/r/seduction03/12/14 07:46 PM
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That's great, but most men don't think like you. Also, that's easily said when reading a post objectively. Harder done when hormones are clouding your judgement in real life.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 07:08 PM
2

Remember, girls don't want to feel like sluts (even if they are). They want to feel like "it just happened". The example you posted looks like typical slut defense. If she "gets crazy" with a stranger, she feels like a slut. If you get to know someone and "it just happens", she's not a slut in her mind. Even if all they want to do is hookup, they'll go as far as saying "I'm not here to hookup". So warm them up. Get them comfortable. Then you can be as direct and sexual as you want to. As for wha…
/r/askTRP03/12/14 04:39 AM
3

With something like Tinder? Sure. It's low maintenance and can provide easy pussy. Shit like OKCupid that requires more effort, probably not.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 12:52 AM
3

Exactly my feelings right now. You can also befriend bros from different frats and have them invite you to parties, this is what I did my senior year (when I discovered TRP) This way you'll have access to more frats and don't need to be confined to specific events, dues, etc. I'm jealous of OP having discovered TRP as a freshman. Enjoy the girls man, college is a pussy fest.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 10:09 PM
3

Yep. I've tried cutting it cold turkey and doing the fade. Both result in some drama, but the sudden cut is a lot more dramatic. The fade isn't such a hard blow.
/r/askTRP01/12/14 09:46 PM
3

I wanna learn both. You shouldn't need our validation or advice on how to read a book at a coffee shop. So i'll assume game is your main objective. You should have some business to do. Because being at a coffee shop just sitting around making eye contact with girls and doing nothing else is quite odd. Go do your thing as your normally would, but be more aware of your surroundings. Sit strategically so you have good eye contact opportunities, or even opportunity to sit next to a girl. If the coff…
/r/askTRP01/12/14 05:29 PM
1

If you enjoy it, do it. As long as it doesn't interfere with other things which should take priority such as health, finance, fitness, sex life, etc. Don't fall into the "videogames aren't RP" mindset. It's a hobby and if you enjoy it good for you.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 11:32 PM
2

I'm in my mid twenties, and personally waiting to get to my late twenties to settle LTR style with a lower twenties girl. No rush. Spinning and having fun in the meantime.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 08:53 AM
1

Lol. One of my plates is going to the military in 2 years, or so she says. I better fuck the shit out of her before she gets it in there.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 07:22 AM
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Awkward silences happen to everyone. The difference is how much importance you give it and how much you let it affect you. It literally burns my insides until I reopen conversation Also keep in mind it's not always on you to re-engage conversation. Sometimes you leave it up to the girl, and if she's interested enough, she'll reopen.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 02:36 AM
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I can only see myself calling my girl a bitch in two scenarios. Either playfully, as a joke. Or perhaps during sex as part of dirty talk. Calling her a bitch in normal situations though seems unnecessary.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 05:25 PM
1

While I don't disagree there might exist a difference in how we perceive money in cash and in credit, I think that difference is small enough that it's not worth investing time into, unless you're doing something amazing after the transaction. Like make a bed out of cash and fuck her on it.
/r/askTRP23/11/14 05:00 AM
1

I'll assume you're not trolling. You're over-analyzing this. No one worthy enough gives a fuck if you pay something with cash or credit, granted you're not publicly broke. Pay however you feel like paying.
/r/askTRP23/11/14 03:27 AM
1

Bring beta and being human aren't mutually exclusive :)
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 08:53 PM
2

This is the vibe I got from OP as well. But I'll give him the benefit of doubt for now, and assume he really is too focused on himself that there's no time/motivation for going out to meet women, as I'm in a similar position. For me, Tinder was the perfect answer. Its almost like I'm cheating at pickup. I don't have to go anywhere, saves me tons of time and energy, and I can politely ignore women who don't fit my bill. Now that it's winter, it's also much easier to setup dates at my place of her…
/r/askTRP21/11/14 08:44 PM
1

In my experience, yes. But as you said, all humans (specially girls, AWALT) have some physical insecurities, so they're not exempt either
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 08:34 PM
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I know a ton of average looking females, and less, but still a fair amount of 10s to make a fair comparison in behavior. All the 10s I know are a lot more level headed, cultured, and overall intelligent. Having been attractive since a young age, they get used to it and crave attention much less than a 5-8 (comparable to TRPs abundance mentality, but in female form of attention). Moreover, 10s have little to no reason to be jealous of other girls (physically), therefore, less drama/hate towards o…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 08:04 PM
1

You're placing too much on his field of work. Yes, it helps your SMV, but its rarely the deciding factor of whether you get a girl or not. There's much more at play including his game, confidence, etc. Unless you're very famous, without the right masculine, confident mindset, you aren't making any pussy moist regardless of what your line of work is or what hobbies you have.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 06:37 PM
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Either this, or abort. Not even worth analyzing the situation.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 05:54 PM
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I used to be like OP, now I can relate more to you. The main change was learning how to use my emotions (sexual drive) to my favor. Before, I would feel horny but not know how (or not have the confidence) to get what I wanted, sex. So I just lurked around it (orbiter), and idealized it to the point of insanity (oneitis/pedestal) without ever doing anything assertive about it (BP mentality). Taking the easy path like being a nice guy, and hoping pussy would somehow land on my dick. Let's face it,…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 08:48 PM
0

Yes, there will always be a risk for STDs. The more plates you spin, the higher the risk. The only things you can do are choosing plates wisely and wrapping it up. Other than that you'll just have to accept the risk.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:59 PM
6

I second this. I've looked over old pictures I have with exes I used to have oneitis for. Honestly, once you get over the oneitis, you'll value the memories.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 05:58 PM
20

Now I'm humble and don't look down on people from other walks of life. This is one of the most liberating things that has happened to me in the past few years. Judging everyone's self worth based on their circumstances slowly created a narcissistic little shithead in my brain. I now realize everyone is trying their best to enjoy life. Even the guy who's about to commit suicide. Even the heroin junkie. Even Bill Gates. Of course some people's lives are objectively better than others', but that me…
/r/seduction11/11/14 06:23 AM
2

Just got on the Tinder train. Used this on my first match, a 9, and got a nice conversation going. Thanks bruh.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 02:53 AM
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Somewhat relevant. When a girl compliments my arms, I tell her to show me her own guns. Gives me the chance to make kino by touching her arms and sets her up for some good ol neggin
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 05:47 PM
6

I'd say beta males don't have to balls to cat call. Those guys are likely "alpha" within their social class.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:42 AM
5

Be glad you're not a chick. Your face is only one of the many variables men have that can increase their SMV.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 04:44 AM
1

Broscience, bruh.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 08:15 PM
6

Most notably, women have less incentives to change slutty behavior. Moreover, when presented with a "defect" in her character (slutiness), a woman will most likely get defensive and hamster away on why it's actually good (see feminism and the rising trend of slut acceptance, fat acceptance, etc.) While men are more likely to recognize their fault and do something about it, in comes TRP.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 06:01 PM
1

What do you mean other options? BJJ is a martial art most MMA fighters practice, but it's not MMA. You say you want to get into MMA, so find a couple of local MMA gyms and try out their free classes (most have a few free lessons so you get to feel it out) You might find you're more into the grappling aspect, which will lead to BJJ, wrestling, judo, sambo, etc. Or maybe you find out you like stand up more and venture off to muay thai and boxing. Or perhaps you enjoy everything and join a gym that…
/r/askTRP04/11/14 07:44 AM
2

In my experience, water's not viscous enough. I prefer honey. On a more serious note. You got the gist of it. Be dominant. Be a man, bitches love that shit. As for what those entail, that's years of study and self improvement. Go read the side bars and top posts.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 05:12 AM
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When I was younger, my grandmother had walked on me fucking a girl once. She witnessed multiple times how I brought girls to my room and they stayed the night. But I've never had a LTR, so a few months ago she sat me down very seriously and asked me if I was a gay.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 03:25 AM
1

Depends on the style, and other factors (if it suits your face, it you can grow a beard, etc) I see a growing trend of "man buns". Seems like girls like it.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 10:52 PM
6

I'm no personal trainer nor expert, but I fixed all my posture issues by lifting. Didn't do any 'posture correcting exercises' before. I simply started lifting (pushing and pulling exercises equally) and my posture corrected itself.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 08:21 PM
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I've had plates do similar things, trying to get my attention. If they're really plate status, I don't see why you give a fuck. Ignore it. And wrap up because she's most likely fucking them as well.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 05:48 PM
2

Being 5'6", buff, and well dressed will always be better than being 5'6", skinny, and dressed by your mom.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 11:51 PM
3

I wonder what would've happened if Eliot was subscribed to TRP yet still did what he did. Even if he didn't actively browse the sub, if anyone found a connection between a killer and TRP, shit would hit the fan. It's bound to eventually happen given the growth. Some lunatic stuck in the hate stage will twist RP ideals and do some crazy shit. Even if there's no direct link, reporters will give up a nut trying to link whatever happened to TRP. Akin to violence and videogames.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 05:25 PM
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In my beta years, the only women I dated were ones that left other chodes for myself. All of them, when they left me, magically already had another man by their side. It just wasn't made public (or known to me) until we officially ended things. At the time it felt good. It made me feel special. "She's willing to leave another man for me!?" That alone made the oneitis that much stronger. At the time something in the back of my head told me it was a red flag, but I chose to ignore it. Never again.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 03:26 AM
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I used to go on r/seduction but that was full of shit after a while. A lot of "advice" on there gives me the impression it's written by kids in highschool or younger. There's the occasional gem, but most of it is shit.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 03:45 PM
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I check my phone if I got any texts only when I'm stuck in serious traffic or the beginning of a long, red light (and I'm not the first car in line) If anyone great foolishness in this, let me know why and I'll reconsider my choices.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 03:42 PM
1

Hell, if I believed that speaking up for cheetleaders would lead to me having a chance at fucking them all, I would do it too! This poor dumbass has his sexual strategy completely skewed. But in the end, he's just trying to get some hot cheerleader pussy, so I'll have some sympathy.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:46 PM
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I do the same. One night stands are overrated anyways. I enjoy sex a lot more if I at least know the girl a little bit, and I'm not all shitfaced and/or tired.
/r/seduction29/10/14 04:35 PM
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Your logically describing how to use emotion, and why it works. Logic and emotion work together, great post.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:28 AM
8

I say we teach murderers not to kill. Why are we wasting time teaching people how to be safe and avoid sketchy people/situations when we could just teach murderers not to kill? omg u guys r so illogical
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:59 AM
1

If the only source you derive happiness from in from being in a romantic relationship, then yes, perhaps it's a depressing way of life. But if that's true, you got other shit more important than women to work on.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 11:05 PM
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IMO it depends on the communities within countries. Any modern country today has been westernized to some degree. I lived in a foreign country for a few years, and interacted with different communities and social classes. The most LTR worthy girls came from rich, conservative, religious families. They don't ride the cc, are super hot, and will be loyal to their man once commitment is achieved. Middle class girls from "normal" families though were a bit more slutty, but still, to certain degree, …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:58 PM
2

Correct. Not respecting someone is not the same as actually disrespecting them. It's more of a neutral state. Although it's not mutually exclusive either.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 06:44 PM
2

That's right. Take what's useful and ignore what's not. Understand how your sources of info work and go to your desired source to get what ever it is you're looking for.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 05:14 PM
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As a male who's been sexually assaulted, I've learned to just shut up about it and move on One of my best friends was sexually abused by his nanny when he was young. He's made the mistake of telling some people who he thought were close to him. All he got was ridicule and people talking shit behind his back.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 01:41 PM
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She must be a fucking monster in the face, especially if what she says about "being in better shape than most women her age" is true.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 10:20 PM
1

I wish I could have gotten access to this kind of knowledge when I was your age. You're far ahead of the game. Keep it up and you'll be a master when you're my age. And before you get sucked into the party culture (if you haven't already), alcohol will seem awesome, almost like a superpower. But don't ever use it as a crutch to approach. I did this for years, and realized almost none, if any, of my skills "practiced" during my drunken state actually registered into my sober brain.
/r/seduction21/10/14 04:38 AM
2

Now, I can handle my highs decently Not to justify her actions or anything, what she did was fucked up, but edibles (especially ones that are made with quality weed) are a whole different monster. I'm a regular toker so I know how to handle my highs as well. But with strong edibles I've hallucinated, puked, and become unable to communicate properly. I wouldn't jump to conclusions on it being laced with something else just yet.
/r/seduction19/10/14 08:29 PM
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Haha, it's the cop out answer for when the hamster has hit a brick wall: communication
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 06:38 PM
3

I've lived in Asia, Latin America, and the US. Generally speaking, it works everywhere. I do find myself fine-tuning my game for each individual culture though. For example, girls in the US are generally more receptive to sexual/dirty speak.
/r/seduction15/10/14 09:02 PM
1

They can't help liking being dominated, but they don't like the idea of it.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 07:03 PM
3

Do not get cut to get a stupid cunt in bed with you. I've never been rejected for my foreskin. Most I've gotten is a "wow, I've never seen an uncircumcised penis before!" Don't act all shy about it either. Put your dick on their face and be confident.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 05:11 PM
1

If you're really effective at communicating, you should be able to convey your messages one or two sentences at a time. This might not apply to deeper topics of debate, but if you're doing that through text then you fucked up a long time ago. So to answer your question, yes, it's "unsexy."
/r/askTRP09/10/14 04:13 PM
1

This is an excellent opener for any social setting. Doesn't even have to be related to seduction. I use something similar at my workplace to meet coworkers I sit close by but haven't had the chance to meet.
/r/seduction08/10/14 07:00 PM
1

Having a computer science degree nowadays is very valuable. How long ago did you earn it? Perhaps you can start working at a startup, gain knowledge on how things are run, then try starting your own business.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 03:42 PM
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People get offended by RP ideas, and label TRP as a hate group. People naturally dislike who offends them. Hate groups are seen as socially acceptable groups to display hate against, so people find it easier to display their hate against TRP. On a separate note, don't go around telling people you're "a redpiller." Apart from the cringeworthiness, you're putting a target on your back and it could hurt your professional/social life. Learn the material and utilize it. Don't announce and argue, it's…
/r/askTRP07/10/14 06:07 AM
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I've noticed smoking weed makes me less motivated to go out and game. And when I do, approach anxiety is much worse than if I were sober or drunk. It essentially makes me want to stay in my comfort zone a lot more, which is okay once in a while, but if you're doing it daily or every weekend then it will definitely hurt your game.
/r/seduction06/10/14 05:53 PM
2

Don't be explicitly sexual (e.g. genitalia jokes, sexual comments, etc.) Get in a sexual mindset (which for me is a must when I'm on a date) and implicitly express your attraction. Eye contact, the way you talk, your posture, and all that other seduction things you've learned, when expressed in a sexual context, will make her subconsciously feel your sexual vibe. If she's receptive, good. If she's not, then you'll be labeled a creep.
/r/seduction04/10/14 09:06 PM
2

Great post. I was just thinking about this recently. Do you people think it's possible to achieve a state of mind where you can feel the same high you did as a beta, but still fall into the deep end once the high (girl) is gone? Or would this be like trying to cheat nature itself?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:59 PM
2

Any elite MMA fighter does weight training. It complements the sport perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:54 PM
1

I believe that men and women have completely different strongpoints, and I don't see men and women as equals. Yes, this is simply the way we are. It doesn't imply one's better than the other. People who fight for "gender equality" are fighting against nature itself. You can't change your biology (yet) at such intricate level to make both genders think and act alike. Now, equal gender opportunity is something first world countries all already have. But SJWs aren't satisfied with this. They want t…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:50 PM
2

Excellent explanation. Conveys truth perfectly without being biased towards any side.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:46 PM
1

but how would I start acting alpha without alienating the people I'm already friends with, if that's possible. Are you asking this because you feel your friends are beta?
/r/askTRP04/10/14 01:33 AM
5

Exactly. Even if it does pickup, they've effectively created an app that weeds out alphas. No self-respecting man will endure this whole app's process.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 08:19 PM
2

Yes. This happens when your pushing muscles are relatively stronger than your pulling muscles. I used to have this problem before I became addicted to pullups.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:34 PM
1

I know where you're coming from with double checking if it's a flake. If you need to double check, it's most likely a flake. Think about it this way: regardless of whether it's a flake or not, double checking won't change it. If anything, it'll make the matter worse by making you come off as needy.
/r/askTRP03/10/14 04:22 PM
1

She's not interested and didn't givr you a legitimate excuse or make any effort to reschedule on that initial flake text. After that you're coming off as trying too hard. Move on. Also, don't tell her you're going to meetup with an old friend instead. It's unnecessary info she doesn't give a fuck about. Leave it at "cool, let me know if you're free next week" or something like that. That leaves you with the freedom of not having to "chase her" with texts which comes off as needy, and if she's re…
/r/askTRP03/10/14 03:52 PM
7

Haha, so true. Fuck cake with depressing coworkers. Cheat day with a steak, mashed potatoes and a cold beer with friends is more like it.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:43 PM
2

It's not so much if you text her or not, but what you're texting her and your interactions with her. If you want to keep her a plate, you can text her, just don't fall for beta-bait. Keep texts short and concise. Don't start paragraphing back and forth.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 09:54 PM
1

If she has a cute face (one of those "you'd be hot if you lost weight" kind of fatties), most I'd go for is a blowjob. Other than that I don't think so...
/r/askTRP02/10/14 04:34 PM
4

she asks me to apply to a job with her Don't. You'll be following her around like a puppy dog until she gets bored. She'll eventually (if she's not already) just move on to fucking other guys and giving them BJs.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 07:37 PM
3

When my friends give me shit, I give them shit back. All in good fun though, no one gets angry. It just might be their sense of humor and yours not matching. Or they might just be assholes.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 04:35 PM
2

So do you want to tutor or not? You say it's "not a big deal" since you're learning in the process, but then you describe it as a waste of your time. It sounds to me like you're more into tutoring because you want to gain people's approval than because you're genuinely into being a tutor. There was a girl in my highschool who used to help everyone out with everything. There was an implicit vibe, however, that she was thirsty for everyone's approval. She consequently was labeled as "so nice that …
/r/askTRP29/09/14 04:20 PM
14

I sent a picture of my dog to the last girl who requested a nude.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 04:14 PM
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I'm taking a shit at work and just laughed out loud in my stall.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 04:11 PM
10

I suspect either haven't entered the professional world or you're self-employed. As OP mentioned, having your personal identity tied with this sub (which is viewed as a hate group apparently) can cause problems in seemingly unrelated areas of your life, such as your job. If you've ever worked in a corporate environment, you know HR is dominated by females. It's not about protecting the rest of reddit or your family, it's about protecting your own interests.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 12:28 AM
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Just like there's a lot of valuable insight on sexual strategy on this sub, there's a lot of valuable insight on different topics in other subs. If you have a hobby/passion/interest, there's likely a subreddit for it with people a lot more knowledgeable than yourself in the area which can help answer questions and provide good information. Forget that front-page, default subreddit bullshit. Un-subscribe from the stupid shit, find some good subreddits, and this website's value will increase hundr…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 12:23 AM
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If people get offended by something, they consider it hateful regardless of whether it was actually hostile or not. Terms like hamstering, for example, I wouldn't consider as hate. But a women/whiteknight who reads it will get offended and say we're hating, when in reality we're just discussing amongst ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 09:14 PM
2

I dislike the fact that society assumes people of age must be wise. They surely have more experience than young people, but it doesn't mean it's useful experience. They could very well be experienced BPers. I've heard some really stupid shit said by elders, as well as some very wise ideas. Same thing goes for young people. So takeaway is don't take a bias based on age, just listen and judge after you heard what the person has to say.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 08:02 PM
0

Yes, for real. I'd recommend the cotton ball solution though. Seems less painful and more practical. I had just read somewhere online that vinegar helps and I was desperate. Hence my dick got pickled.
/r/seduction24/09/14 07:56 PM
3

Indeed.
/r/seduction24/09/14 07:55 PM
8

A group of girls I hangout with were saying Drake is hot. I told them to pretend he wasn't famous for a moment. Picture him not being a celebrity, is he still hot? They all said no. Some even said "hm, interesting" after consciously realizing their own subconscious. Others just hamstered away.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 06:56 PM
4

Vinegar works. I actually dipped my dick in a bottle of vinegar. Stung like a mother fucker. Warts turned white. Repeated for a couple of days and they disappeared. This was over a year ago and they haven't been back.
/r/seduction24/09/14 05:48 PM
1

I agree that most TV shows are mind numbing piles of turd. But if you've been keeping up with your shit in life there's nothing wrong with shutting your brain off and watching some shows once in a while. It's even therapeutic. In theory we could always be doing something better with our time. Even if you're being productive, you could always be doing more.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 06:23 PM
2

You played it well, except announcing your kiss. They need to feel like it "just happened". If you make it feel planned then you'll get resistance. Mostly the same with sex.
/r/seduction23/09/14 03:14 PM
1

You don't have to be bitter to understand TRP. You don't have to ignore what women want because you're RP. Some here prefer to be single and spin plates, others pefer LTRs. None of this implies loneliness. But if you feel like you need a LTR to be complete, then that's a different problem to address. If you're new to RP, I understand why you might think it's about feeling contempt towards women, being bitter, and never wanting a woman for anything other than sex. But as you understand this topic…
/r/askTRP19/09/14 04:43 PM
2

Having lived in many countries including the US (my current location), this is the most comfortable and lazy country I've lived in.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 10:09 PM
1

Hah. All jokes aside, don't look to move them a lot, or keep them still. Do what comes naturally. Unless you're obviously fucking flailing your hands everywhere or being as stiff as a board. But anything between those two extremes should be fine.
/r/seduction18/09/14 02:18 AM
8

It'll sound counter intuitive, but don't think about your hands. Trying to do something with them consciously will come off as awkward. Just focus on the conversation and your hands will naturally do whatever they were meant to do.
/r/seduction17/09/14 04:48 PM
2

The effects a higher SMV have on your life are the rewards.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 01:07 AM
1

Extremely dominant man here. I like to choke my partners and man-handle them. They love it. You're approaching it wrong. Don't think about what they want. If you like choking, get her consent and do it (many times they'll straight up ask for it) You can't fake that kind of shit though. If you're not into it it'll come off as forced and awkward. It's not for everyone. I have friends who say being dominant and/or kinky doesn't appeal to them. And doing it just because their partner is into it isn'…
/r/seduction17/09/14 12:04 AM
1

Congratulations man. If you think of it (I'm assuming you're some kind of teacher) of course people want a confident instructor. If you're going to let someone guide you in any area in life, you're going to look for a person who seems confident in what they're doing. Note "seems". Many times you don't even have to be all that good for people to eat it up, as long as you give off that vibe. Not only with women, but with the general population: feelings are what matter most, not facts.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 11:55 PM
1

True. Even if she were OP's LTR, same rules would apply. If you got to a social gathering, you don't stick around her like gum. You do you, perhaps she'll follow, perhaps she won't.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 08:44 PM
15

Agreed. Sounds like a choice he put much thought into, and not one that he could have predicted 3 years earlier. Sometimes it takes years to develop a solid opinion on something.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:23 PM
2

Happens when attraction isn't sufficient. It happens to me when I "settle" for a less hot girl, or if I go for 100% looks and the girl has a boring/shitty personality.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 05:22 PM
0

The idea that "real bodies" for women can't be fit and skinny is so fucking stupid. #fatlogic #hamsterlogic
/r/PussyPass12/09/14 05:13 PM
1

Consciously treat them as you treat women who you aren't attracted to. It won't feel natural, you'll surely come off as forcing it and fuck it up more than a few times. But that's part of improving. Once you start making your brain used to acting such way regardless of the girl's attractiveness, you'll start getting results.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 07:48 PM
3

You need to set your own pace. Regardless of whether you're fucking her or not, she's in control here. She flakes at her will,.reschedules when she feels like it, and you're just going along for the ride. You need to establish your schedule and make her work around it.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 07:27 PM
1

I'm not arguing that bars are useless, I own an olympic bar myself. Any quality bar by the way will be no where near cheaper than a weighted vest. I'm addressing your original point about hitting a plateau with calisthenics. Assuming you can do the most challenging moves out there, you won't hit that plateau. If you do, as I said, you can always add weight.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:12 PM
1

Having a bar is useless if you're trying to do calisthenics. You don't do weighted dips, pull ups, or pistol squats with a bar. By extra weights, I mean weights you can wear on your body while you do calisthenics. Weighted vests are good. A backpack filled with rocks isn't a bad idea either actually.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:06 AM
1

If what you're after is measurable improvement, you can wear a weighted vest or other weighted EQ to add to your calisthenic movements. You get the best of both worlds. Volume maximization from adding weight to your body. Easy, numeric measurements of progress. And the functionality of calisthenic style exercises and strength.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 11:11 PM
1

There's nothing preventing you from wearing extra weight while doing calisthenics.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 11:08 PM
3

Pushups don't require you to move your whole body weight. Pull ups do.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 09:42 PM
3

I'm surprised you didn't link /r/bodyweightfitness I really enjoy calisthenics. It's all I do. I have friends who lift weights and as far as size, we look very similar (might be genetics, because I know calisthenics is not optimal for size). But when it comes to functional strength, such as grappling with my friends or messing around the bars and climbing shit, I have a significant advantage over my friends who solely weight lift. The best, in my opinion, is to do calisthenics and wear extra wei…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 09:40 PM
4

I'm sure there will be girls who will try this, but I agree, the digital tracks are easy to trace. Unless she's tech savvy, or clever enough to use your computer or do it from your network (oh shit!)
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 04:28 PM
1

Telling a woman you write software is a lot like telling her you're an accountant. It screams beta provider. Here you imply telling someone you write software makes you seem like a beta provider. It's how you sell it, not what you do. Now you say it depends on how you say it. So you're saying your first comment only holds if you're already beta. Since you must have sold it in a beta way. I never said any profession was masculine either.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 06:16 PM
0

You're not selling it right. Regardless of the stereotype people who program have. I've gotten women interested/talking about software, and had sex with them later. Specially nowadays where Computer Science is becoming some trendy bullshit fad it's easier than ever to present programming in an attractive way.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 03:41 AM
3

A1
/r/askTRP07/09/14 01:23 AM
1

Yes. Had a girl being annoying as fuck, but when she saw my audi she "that's impressive" and offered to come for a ride. Got a BJ in the car.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 07:14 PM
14

I didn't downvote you, but I find your statement hard to believe, unless you attend an elite gym dedicated to professional body builders. Maybe if your definition of "better" means smaller and less cut.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 04:53 AM
28

I'd thank he-man for inspiring me to get ripped. Maybe though, if I were a lazy fuck, I'd be jealous of him. A deep kind of jealousy. Fueled by the disparity between my ugly ass body and his. This truth would be impossible for my ego to conceptualize, and it would subconsciously manifest itself as hatred towards the responsible for such perfect body.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 04:20 AM
0

after a bit too much texting There's your problem. Stop trying to have full blown conversations through text. Keep them short and clever. Save the meat of conversation for when you're in person. It's not a bad thing not to reply to all their texts either. If it's true that you can seduce in person but once you text she loses interest, you're somehow coming off as needy.
/r/seduction04/09/14 04:26 PM
2

You're over thinking this. Just do eye contact as normal and smile casually. Shades don't change the game.
/r/seduction03/09/14 06:59 PM
55

Not a flaw in TRP itself, but more in the popular interpretation of it: that being a decent, nice person is mutually exclusive from being alpha.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 05:01 PM
2

Expanding on your point. Observe the current booming software industry. So many rich engineers, yet they get less pussy than a broke, drug addict musician. I read an article a while ago about escort services booming amongst software engineers. Makes sense. Stereotypically (they're beta), they got the money but not the social skills to attract pussy.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 06:24 PM
1

You're excited because this is new for you. Similar to infatuation.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 10:48 PM
1

Yes, it's worth it. I've been doing it for more than 6 years. It has definitely changed my life. Be wary of McDojos. Read reviews on the schools you're thinking about, and go to their try out classes. /r/bjj
/r/askTRP30/08/14 12:20 AM
3

A mix of genetics and environmental factors, most notably how you were raised.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 08:51 PM
1

Give her a massage. Move on to more intimate parts: neck, chest/belly, etc. It should flow naturally from there.
/r/seduction27/08/14 10:11 PM
1

Sit alone when you feel like it. You don't need our or anyone else's approval.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 09:49 PM
1

Did you ever, or do you take medication for anxiety?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 08:03 PM
3

I went through a phase of abusing alcohol and weed, having a shit sleeping schedule, and doing bad in school. I can say it would've definitely not happened if I'd lived in the same household as my father.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 05:13 PM
4

He's shady because your his competition to get a mate. And you're clearly better than him. If you two are really good mates, I'd help him out if I were you. If you really hookup that easily, it shouldn't be a big deal to throw one or two chicks and tips his way.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 06:27 AM
1

In a nutshell, many things that would've made a woman think I was weird, stupid, gross, creepy, rude, or boring, turned into her thinking I was either cute, hot, funny, confident, or interesting.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 05:05 AM
2

B: She starts crying to get her way, that sounds like a scary precedent Yep, like a child.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 05:01 AM
2

No. She's either ugly or has some sort of mental problem.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 04:31 AM
1

You mention most men on here must have had bad luck with women, therefore not believe in unconditional love from them. So I thought, assuming you do believe in unconditional love from women, that you had a history of good luck with women. That's what I meant by following your logic. I personally don't believe in unconditional, romantic kind of love. I do believe in life-long bonds in the form of friendship with either sex.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 03:53 AM
1

What type of business are you thinking?
/r/askTRP23/08/14 03:50 AM
1

So many people moving here! I wish I had the money to buy a house here a couple of years ago when the bubble hadn't grown so much.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 03:50 AM
1

Are you looking to create music through code or make music software or why the need to become a better software engineer?
/r/askTRP23/08/14 03:48 AM
2

You sound insecure. That's more likely to be the problem and it's reflecting in the way you act. 5'9 here and worrying about my height doesn't even cross my mind.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 11:16 PM
2

By actually moving on, and then contacting them if you're even interested anymore.
/r/seduction22/08/14 11:06 PM
3

Yup. OP got played, with "clever" wording.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 08:14 PM
3

If you contact her with the right mindset there's nothing wrong with it. You, however, did it in a needy, completely unattractive way that showed you are unable to move on. So I'd say the rule is: don't contact your ex if you have a lingering case of oneitis. I've contacted exes many times. I'm good friends with many of them and sometimes we still even fuck.
/r/seduction22/08/14 05:27 PM
2

It's not some sort of spectrum where nice is on one end, alpha is in the middle and asshole is on the other end. You can be alpha while being a pleasant human being. You can also be alpha while being an asshole. None of these terms are mutually exclusive. I like to tease because that's my sense of humor, even with guys. I like to playfully fuck with people, and don't mind if they tease me back. But if you're doing it solely to make someone feel bad then you're just being an asshole.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 03:38 PM
2

I agree with you. But read my update. In this case, my fear was warranted.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 08:14 PM
2

Do you also enjoy being dominant, or are you exclusively submissive? If you do enjoy sexual dominance to a certain degree, I'd advise practicing it more, perhaps to the point of preferring it over being submissive. Other than that, best I can come up with is to be confident in your sexual submissiveness rather than ashamed of it. I don't see any scenario where a normal female would find this attractive though. This is a tough one, since sexual desires aren't really a choice. I'm very dominant du…
/r/askTRP19/08/14 06:26 PM
2

I got this recently. Responded "life would be boring if I were easy to please" Had anal sex, so it must've not been a bad response.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 06:08 PM
1

Guilty myself of assuming Unempathetic's attacks were meant to prove InternetFree was wrong.
/r/PussyPass16/08/14 12:21 AM
1

While we're on the subject, another good skill to have is to differentiate between a girl having a real orgasm versus a fake one. So many guys assume a girl enjoyed herself during sex because "she moaned"
/r/askTRP15/08/14 10:33 PM
2

Without taking sides here, I'll state that your comments seem fueled by emotion, are mostly ad hominem fallacies amongst others, and contain false assumptions. I'm all for debating, but we need actual content for it to be of any use.
/r/PussyPass15/08/14 08:03 PM
34

In our daily lives we are surrounded by people who try to manipulate us by activating our anxiety. It’s not about fighting back – it’s about refusing to engage at all. I have a male friend who's an active supporter of feminism. Needless to say he's BP as fuck (low confidence, unemployed, college dropout, never had a girl in his life, etc.) Every time I say something "sexist" he would start a huge argument. It usually started as a civil debate, to which I followed along. But slowly he would escal…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 12:12 AM
1

There are plenty of examples in nature of races or sub-groups within a species biologically developing propensity to physical and mental conditions. I'm not disagreeing that cultural factors are a huge part.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 07:29 PM
2

I agree. I'd also like to add there might be a genetic component too. I'm half asian, and have lived in asia and interacted with many asians throughout my life. I have noticed that in general, asians seem a lot more susceptible to have high levels of anxiety than other races. Anxiety disorders, if not handled properly, will ultimately manifest themselves as some form of 'betaness'
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 05:40 PM
3

You went to pee and she left? Did she leave the building or just the room? Sounds like she didn't even want it in the first place and used the first excuse she could to gtfo.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 02:54 PM
11

I don't know dude... I currently don't masturbate, as an experiment. But I used to masturbate a lot, watch porn, and play video-games (I still play a lot of video-games). And those activities never deterred me from accomplishing any of my other goals. You must be assuming everyone who plays video-games or masturbate is addicted to the activities. I've seen many posts on TRP claiming video-games, maturbation, and other "beta" hobbies are inferior activities which will harm you... but honestly, if…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 06:00 AM
12

I honestly find working with Windows harder :) The company I work at has about 1 woman for every 10 male engineers. Surprisingly they're attractive women too! In university 90% of my female classmates had some sort of deformity in the face.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 11:46 PM
4

Perhaps something more like: 20% of men get all the women who are above a 7 (and below, if they want to) and the rest can get some of the women below 7 if they get lucky. I just made the 7 up, and of course there will always be overlap and exceptions, but you get the point: high SMV men will get all the quality girls while low SMV men will get the left overs, if at all.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:55 PM
2

If you decide to text again (which I wouldn't), I would copy-pasta the last text you sent her. Perhaps send it 2 or 3 times just to make sure it gets through despite the phone glitch. If she asks why you texted her the same thing 4 times tell her you just got a new phone and it's probably a technical glitch. See, this: let's grab a drink at The Bar tonight let's grab a drink at The Bar tonight let's grab a drink at The Bar tonight can pass as a believable technical fault, but something like this…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:47 PM
1

You never get over it, it'll always be there. You just get used to it. "Just do it" is the right approach. The more you think about it, the more your anxiety will snowball.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 09:19 PM
1

Depression, and mental illness in general (hell, any feeling in general be it from illness or not) is rarely logical. There might have very well not been a specific reason. My life, on paper, is pretty much perfect. Yet I'm depressed as fuck. Most people I've met with clinical depression feel the same way. I understand people trying to find an explanation, specially since this guy was famous and liked. But sometimes your brain just fucks you over for no particular reason.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 07:10 PM
1

I reckon its mostly youngins from /r/seduction who ask these sort of questions.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 04:01 PM
3

When I lived with my parents, I used to simply lock my door and fuck girls in my room. Put a pillow up to their face when they're cumming. As with many other things in life, since you're doing it "secretly", it can actually make it more exciting. If, worst case scenario, you're parents get suspicious and ask wtf you're up to, just admit you were having sex. Assure you were using a condom, and if they care about you they'd most likely rather you be doing that safe at home than out in the middle o…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 03:56 PM
1

Money isn't the only thing that matters for creating attraction. But does it matter? Fuck yeah, it does, in many areas of life. There are so many other factors to attraction though. That's why the drug addicted retail worker can somehow get more pussy than a senior software architect making 6+ figures. The takeaway for me is: being rich does not necessarily mean you're attractive, RP, or alpha. If I had to choose between being rich and BP or being middle-low class and RP, I'd go with the latter.…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 07:27 PM
1

Hey man, you're lucky to have discovered TRP before starting college! I discovered it late into my senior year, and while it was late, I still reaped some of its benefits during my final moments of my college career. I can only imagine how much more badass my time at college would've been, had I known these principles sooner. Enjoy the journey, maintain frame (with everyone: teachers, males, females), focus on your grades/career paths, and wrap it up!
/r/askTRP10/08/14 07:58 AM
1

In the peak of my oneitis, I was at a party following a girl around. She straight up told me "you don't have to follow me everywhere, you know?" I had a little bit of RP insight that night, but was too stupid to process it.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 06:20 AM
1

Good thread. I actually commented on it.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 05:47 AM
2

I haven't been masturbating or watching porn. I've been limiting my orgasms to be with females IRL.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 05:44 AM
5

I'm all for RP knowledge, but the idea of having "TRP meetups" makes me cringe for reasons I can't explain.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 02:43 AM
4

I'm not kidding one of my plate's friends just said "omg I hooked up with Kyle last night. We chilled at his place and did coke."
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 03:20 AM
2

Your whole post is basically based on your anxiety about losing a specific girl. If we can sense your neediness, she sure as hell will too. She's 21 dude. She probably enjoyed a good fuck with you and has since moved on to other cock. I understand you've just begun with TRP, so I'll cut you some slack. But your mistakes are obvious here. Go read the side bar and forget about this chick.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 03:56 PM
2

You've described exactly how I've been feeling lately. Every time I go out in public (or anywhere I encounter women) I've been consciously noticing these types of comments that make me, at the very least, sigh and 'smh'. We just see things differently now. I don't think it's a phase.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 05:50 PM
2

Consciously or subconsciously, you're insecure of your sexual abilities. Have more sex.
/r/seduction04/08/14 09:30 PM
3

I love it, and I haven't been with any girl who doesn't love it either. Check my history I made a post about choking/holding a girls neck during sex. It's one of my favorite things to do during sex and completely shows your dominance over her in a very instinctive and sexual way.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 08:50 PM
2

My favorite way to be dominant in the bedroom is to hold her by the neck while I stare into her eyes. Not romantically or smiling. Do it with lust; hunger. Grab her by the neck and look at her like you want to sexually destroy her. I've had nothing but positive feedback from doing this. Some girls have had me actually choke them, others just like it light (me holding on to their neck/throat). But they all love it. I fucking that shit too.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 03:46 AM
1

Your choice of grappling (I'd choose BJJ and wrestling) and your choice of standup (I'd choose Muay Thai) to be a well rounded fighter. I've done a variety of martial arts throughout my life, and these are the two I've found most applicable. An easy way to spot a McDojo is to see if they do substantial live sparring (most McDojos don't). Also (this applies more to BJJ), be suspicious if the place charges for belts and has time based promotions as opposed to skill based promotions. Google the ins…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 07:06 PM
1

I lived with 3 women in an apartment my sophomore year of college. It wasn't a big deal, I actually enjoyed the benefits of fucking their friends they brought over. Don't become a whipped bitch. Make them respect you. Get angry if you have to. This would also apply if your roommates were to be male. I never got sexual with my roommates, though. One little mistake and everyone could quickly go downhill.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 01:37 PM
4

I agree with you. I don't suggest changing your entire persona either (it'll probably come off as fake and/or try too hard anyways). I do, however, suggest against talking with potential partners about your insecurities that will paint you in an inferior light. That, at an instinctive level, is a turn off for women. As another post suggests, if you need to get shit off your chest, use platonic friends, family, internet, etc.
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:00 PM
4

If you don't focus on maintaining a confident frame (aka: being alpha), your LTRs and sexual/romantic relationships with women will suffer. I'm not saying become a complete alpha silver-back gorilla all the time, but appearing weak and insecure, at a primitive level, will turn a woman off. I'd love to just be myself as much as the next person. But in some situations, specially with women you want to be sexual with, it's just not a smart move. More so if being yourself includes talking about feel…
/r/seduction29/07/14 03:49 PM
7

I'm not from the US and I have lived in several different countries. I can confirm the rest of the world, both men and women, view American women as slüts.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 09:32 PM
1

Where's a link to this story?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 06:05 PM
1

True. But I'd add that for females, male personality/behavior are more important than looks.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 05:29 PM
1

Dude, talk about it with pride. Your mental image about physicists sucks, and it'll definitely show when you're talking to a girl. "Oh, I hate physics... " You: "Because you don't understand it" I'm not a physicist (computer scientist), but honestly physics is awesome and there are many ways to use that to your advantage. If communicated correctly, girls will automatically assume you're smart. Same goes for computer science.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:12 PM
7

No one said it's the children's fault. Teachers are predominantly female and comprised of the bottom third of their college graduating class. The people, who are least capable of critical thinking, are in charge of teaching our kids critical thinking skills. His example was an example of a female dominated system prioritizing and praising irrelevant, female biased skills, in a class that's supposed to be focusing on problem solving and critical thinking.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 02:44 AM
28

In fourth grade, my teacher screamed at me and wrote a note to be taken home to my parents because I forgot a red pen to underline my note titles with. Punished and made me feel like shit as a little boy for something completely irrelevant to actual class material and academics. Guess who were the best at using different colored pens to underline, criss-cross, and doodle-fuck their notebooks?Girls and the two dudes that ended up coming out of the closet in highschool.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 01:48 AM
1

Not looking to win or lose, I just felt like clarifying my potentially misinterpreted post. Sorry that got you so worked up bruh
/r/askTRP22/07/14 09:36 PM
1

Of course it's not the coffee by itself that creates attraction. That would be ridiculous. To get my point across, imagine two guys that are 100% identical physically and psychologically, except one needs sugar and cream on his coffee and the other one prefers it black. A girl who finds the act of enjoying black coffee masculine or attractive (as ridiculous as this sounds, I can tell you from experience they exist), will choose the black coffee drinking man over the other one.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 08:17 PM
0

I'm not trying to imply that a woman will get dry if you don't drink your coffee black. But some do consciously or subconsciously get a slight sense of masculinity from it as opposed to going for cream and sugar.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 07:27 PM
1

I think it's ridiculous to be concerned about your drink too. But to be fair, I have had girls shit test me about not drinking coffee straight up black.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 07:17 PM
31

As some who's lived in several Asian countries, I agree with you. This is much easier to pull off in Asia. OP cares way too much. Keeping eye contact forcefully is annoying and useless. Look away because you'd rather look at your destination than be staring into a stranger's eyes (unless you're actively trying to flirt or intimidate). Don't look away out of anxiety though. Also what the fuck do you want to prove by bumping into people? I like some of your advice, but having to forcefully hold ey…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 07:26 PM
1

How she walks, stands, and talks must convey femininity. I guess that's also physical... Assuming equal physical attractiveness. I find girls with healthy hobbies more attractive than the new-age hippy, music festival, party animal.
/r/seduction17/07/14 03:52 PM
2

OD on RP
/r/askTRP16/07/14 04:19 PM
1

There are plenty of girls who don't drink as well. You can also join clubs. Most universities have a variety of clubs that attract both sexes. IMO, you're more likely to find "quality" girls in University clubs than in a party/nightclub drinking.
/r/askTRP14/07/14 03:52 AM
1

I've encountered this problem too. My best solution has been to text them their name. For example: "Megan..." They always reply to their name. If they reply with your name, or something funny, you're golden. If they say something like "who is this?" Just delete the number and forget about her.
/r/askTRP11/07/14 09:17 PM
3

You're addressing two different issues here. Dissatisfaction with following a "conventional" path of academics -> degree -> job, and having a good network of contacts. These two are not mutually exclusive. I agree that you'll always be a girl's plan B if you're socially retarded. A girl would rather fuck a janitor who has game and knows how to have a good conversation, than a socially retarded senior software engineer (who she would live with, however...) But the other issue you're addressing, o…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 11:39 PM
2

I only buy rounds if I'm with close buddies, and if everyone is having a hard time getting to the bar to pay/order. At a crowded club, it saves a bunch of time and energy to have one person buy for everyone, then the next person buys the second round, and so on... I wouldn't do this anywhere that's not crowded.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 11:18 PM
10

Now do that completely sober and I will be really impressed.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 05:32 AM
4

I've exchanged hugs with every girl I've had sex with. I never ask for them, I initiate it. I always hug girls. It's a good chance to get physically close in a socially acceptable way, if they're not yet totally open to you. Of course a hug I give my mother is not the same as one I give a potential lay. Maybe OP's indifference is making him come off as a cold, not attractive or welcoming.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 07:28 PM
2

I'm sure at least one of those dudes was drunk, and regretted letting his dick touch that slut's mouth. So this is definitely rape!
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 09:44 PM
2

I figured. But what is she supposed to achieve with this shit test. Was I potentially supposed to break frame and start talking about her boyfriend? Or stop talking to her because she has a boyfriend?
/r/askTRP05/07/14 08:01 PM
16

you got this dude. I'm in my early 20s and am at about the same level as you when it comes to women. Any other young guys reading, start ASAP!
/r/seduction30/06/14 06:23 AM
4

I'm a programmer. The easiest field in programming by far is web dev/design. Design specially. I started on my own and then got a computer science degree. But it's definitely doable on your own. There's tons of resources online. Google, /r/learnprogramming (and other related subs), and Stackoverflow are your friends.
/r/askTRP21/06/14 02:34 AM
6

Are they really as common as psa much them seem? No Even worth worrying about STDs? Yes
/r/askTRP09/06/14 12:04 AM
3

This also goes back to a previous post made yesterday (?) about social media and how you shouldn't be part of the whole "sharing how cool your life is" thing. It shows you have a craving for other people to pay attention to you.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 08:30 PM
3

Coincidentally I was at a pool party yesterday. One of my female friends told me she noticed I was bulging. I told her "that's very observant of you" and she said "Yeah. One of the first things I do meeting men at a pool party is check out their bulge (or lack of)" This girl is pro RP and admits many RP principles. Needless to say she's quite alright to hangout with ;)
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:37 PM
1

When we see people compulsively pursuing pleasure (making themselves fat with too much sugar, feeding drug habits, trying to have sex with as many new women as possible, working like slaves trying to become rich, gambling, compulsive spending, etc) I see, and agree with your point, but how does working like a slave fit into wanting to get immediate pleasure? I see it more analogous to weight lifting (suffer now, benefit later) than to eating cake if anything...
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 02:40 PM
3

If she's giving you such clear signals, do something about it. I don't know the full story but it sounds like you're being too passive.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 07:52 AM
2

Tricking people into thinking you're cool has several problems. It might temporarily work, but it will be a bitch to keep up with, and sooner or later people will find out you're faking it. It also shows that you value other people's opinions more than you value yourself. I'm not full proponent of "don't care what anyone thinks about you", but caring too much is detrimental too.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 03:07 AM
11

"It was really nice spending time with you, I mean.. I really liked just spending time chatting with you, not just the physical part, lets meet up again?" Shouldn't have opened up so soon. And if your quote is completely accurate on how you said it, that upward inflection at the end didn't do you any good either.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 02:16 PM
3

True. My pushing and pulling strength used to be very imbalanced. I could only do ~3 pullups but I could do 50+ pushups. After giving my back and pulling more attention, my posture has dramatically improved without me having to consciously be thinking about it.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 02:00 PM
1

I've met girls at MMA clubs, climbing, hiking, the list goes on. Depends on what you consider dumb.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 08:02 AM
4

the standard alpha attitude would have been smashing a glass on his face without even hesitate a bit No. Being alpha =/= being a brute meathead, unless you're a silverback gorilla. My respect cannot be damaged If you really think he's just a fat idiot, why would your respect be damaged from him laughing at you? Don't let petty shit like that phase you. I told her I though his boyfriend (a fat guy with a stupid haircut) was a dick I told her he was a f***ing idiot and left Unless it comes up in c…
/r/askTRP29/05/14 03:47 PM
3

Don't go into an argument if you're solely fueling on emotion. If you have good points to make, make them and try to be as logical as possible. This goes for arguing with anyone, not just feminists. Also don't let yourself be sucked into an argument and play their game when you'd be better off just ignoring the person.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 01:33 PM
2

Right. Since you actually don't care anymore, you might actually be coming off as confident even if you're going over the top with the flattery and romanticism. If you really want to turn her off, do what draketton said. Those little actions are the real giveaways of someone who lacks confidence and is not capable of handling himself like a real man.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 06:50 AM
7

That's why I prefer meeting girls doing some interesting activity during the day (any kind of club, coffee shop, hiking, etc.) over the night-scene. I find the interactions a lot more genuine and stable, probably because none of us are intoxicated. Also, for those of you still in college, it's the perfect time to have easy access to good girls (and even easier access to sluts). Join some clubs. Get to know your classmates.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 10:27 PM
1

Another eye contact example: I locked eye contact with a date I was on for a while, then smirked when I could tell she started getting a bit nervous. She then says "It makes me horny when you do that. Just look straight into my eyes." I was also very horny myself. I'm sure this changes the way I was looking at her and she could perceive that. If anyone has any more info on how (if at all) humans can perceive mates as being sexually aroused through eye contact alone, let me know. I'm curious.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 03:01 AM
4

Women are by nature, the weaker sex. This is obvious and well-known, in both physical and mental sense (iq, reasoning and emotional stability). I can definitely see the physical aspect of it, and also the emotional stability with their monthly bleeding and higher tendencies to have anxiety and other mental disorders. But are there any good sources for men, on average, having a higher IQ and logical reasoning than women? When I studied Computer Science in school, most of the female classmates I m…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 10:28 AM
1

Third would be back-sliding...They read enough crap to figure out how to attract a new girlfriend, but not enough to actually understand why their last relationship failed, or why what they did this time around was able to attract a new one. Unfortunately, I can identify myself with this. But hey, the first step in fixing something is being conscious about it.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 10:21 AM
1

Thanks. I've actually been training MMA for over 8 years! BJJ purple belt too. From what I've seen, more experienced fighters get in less fights. The bar brawlers are normally the dudes who have been watching the UFC for over a year and think they can replicate what they see on TV. A close mate of mine was out for a few months from a badly placed kick in a street fight (adrenaline and alcohol will do it, even if you're experienced). I've also dislocated someone's shoulder in a grappling tourname…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 06:58 PM
1

I've gotten sex out of a back rub. You just have to start rubbing different places. If you're not met with resistance then sex is easy from there.
/r/askTRP11/05/14 12:54 AM
1

Try getting taken down or slammed on concrete. I'm talking fucked up knees, shoulders, shins, neck, etc. that take at least a year to heal. Out for a year, rehab and possibly surgery, because I wanted to "prove my manhood" to a bitch at a club? Be my guest. Congratulations on having bottles broken on your head and getting that scar. You must be quite intimidating.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 05:18 PM
2

Most I've waited for a girl is ~15 minutes, and I consider that pushing it. 90 minutes is way too much. She didn't even bother to give you a heads up about being late. Have some respect for yourself and next her.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 07:08 AM
2

I agree. A few weekends ago a girl who I was hitting it off with at the club started getting hit on by another guy. This guy even went as far as to physically put his hand on my chest to prevent me from getting close to them. Of course my blood boiled, but having witnessed street fights and knowing how often those end with long-term injuries (I'm an avid martial artist, long-term injuries often mean significant setbacks in your martial arts career), I decided to walk off and socialize with other…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 05:54 PM
1

I feel you. I've been finding myself attracted to religious, conservative girls recently. I'm trying to get one as an experiment atm. Got a study date at a coffee shop right next to my place tomorrow.
/r/askTRP29/04/14 08:55 AM
14

Remember she is essentially a teenage girl. Don't be fooled into thinking she's your 'equal' or on your level. She's not. Any impressions otherwise are just an act. I went through countless relationships with girls trying to fool myself into thinking they could be my equal or "soulmate". It's unbelievable how fast they lose attraction when you do this.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 03:39 AM
1

About the text. Ignore it. Regarding other posts mentioning Facebook: This might be an unpopular opinion, but I think you should keep her on your Facebook. If for the moment you feel it's hard because her shit on Facebook makes you feel bad, just unsubscribe and you won't see her on your news feed. But deleting someone on Facebook, in my opinion, shows weakness. You went out of your way to delete someone because you can't cope with knowing about their life. Keep her on there and once enough time…
/r/askTRP29/04/14 03:22 AM
2

Girls (and people) notice when a "haha" or a "lol" is genuine and versus when it's being used as filler because you're nervous. It's somewhat like a nervous laughter in real life. You're basically laughing out of nervousness.
/r/seduction29/04/14 02:00 AM
1

I get off on being dominant. I carry them and move them around. I fuck them while I look into their eyes as if re-affirming the fact that I'm inside them. I hold them by the neck. For men and women, pleasure from sex comes from the act/idea of what's going on as much as from the actual physical act of it.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 02:26 PM
2

If you're forced to see her again, as others have said, act indifferent. You're the same person you were before rejection. You got a lot more important stuff to worry about than to let a simple rejection change your behavior. She might even find your ability to remain unfazed by rejection attractive.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 09:36 PM
1

One of Adderall's side effects is anxiety. It can come in any form, including social anxiety. I turn beta if I get too high off weed. I'm fine if I only take a few hits though.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 05:01 AM
1

On the "How to Hold Conversation Like a Man" video, he mentions that in a conversation you should not aim to be interesting, but to be interested. I'm liking what he has to say, but I can't get myself to agree with that point. I think both are very important ingredients to a successful conversation.
/r/seduction25/04/14 02:22 AM
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A girl I used to date at the height of my betaness (who left me to go ride other cocks) texted me last night saying she missed me and that we should grab a drink and hangout. This is exactly what I'm going to do.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 10:09 PM
3

I have a female friend who refers to me as her best guy friend. We've known each other for about 8 years. I have the power to make her cheat on her boyfriends with me (which I've done whenever they do something to piss me off) Be careful. But as others say, analyze the situation, and if necessary do a little spying just to be sure. I think it's warranted in this case.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 09:39 PM
1

It's a direct approach instead of having to come up with something "clever". It's given me very good results. I don't compliment them all night long.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 01:47 PM
10

I've used "there's nothing wrong with being sexually attracted to a friend." It's worked.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 08:54 AM
0

"You're very attractive, what's your name?" then work from there. Straight and to the point. I've had a 1% failure rate with this one. Has worked nearly every time.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 03:23 AM
1

I've read all kinds of "studies" with contradicting evidence. So far I've found it to be more of a personal, subjective thing. Try it out and see if it works for you. Even if it's placebo, if it works, it works. I don't feel much of a difference, but I have friends that swear by no-fap. But I do know that alcohol intake decreases testosterone levels during the hangover period.
/r/askTRP21/04/14 10:38 PM
1

Decided to abort mission. Not going to lie though, my dick's regretting it a little since she's a 9.
/r/askTRP21/04/14 08:28 AM
1

I second practicing day-game. It'll fine tune your skills. Day-game is a lot harder since people aren't explicitly looking to find a partner. And as you mentioned, nigh-game gets sexual a lot faster. So for night-game just be ready to escalate a lot faster or else you'll lose the girls attention.
/r/askTRP20/04/14 07:02 PM
2

Right. It's mostly a subconscious process. That's the most natural way to build a naturally flowing conversation.
/r/seduction20/04/14 06:48 PM
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They both have their pros and cons. With shy girls I've found that calling comes off as too threatening. They rather receive a text, be able to think about their response for a minute or two, then text you back. But I agree in that calling is a lot more personal.
/r/seduction20/04/14 06:46 PM
4

Ada Lovelace is described as the world's first computer programmer.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 06:07 PM
1

I come from a country where nobody apologizes (unless you obviously hurt someone) When I first arrived to the US I found it weird that people said "sorry" when they walked past me. It's kind of funny. I tried to get into the "saying sorry" thing for a few days but I just couldn't do it. I've had 2 girls tell me they like how I don't apologize or say "you're welcome" (I just say "mmhm")
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 05:45 PM
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No matter how fit, rich or funny you are, if you don't take action towards getting a girl (asking one out, showing sexual interest, etc.) you're not going to get one. It'll be very hard at first, but force yourself to do it. Assuming what you said about the rest of yourself is true, you shouldn't have a hard time finding dates if you're proactive about it.
/r/seduction17/04/14 07:47 AM
19

Same. Cried over a girl I wasn't even dating. Major cringe.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 06:31 AM
1

That's why I really enjoy day-game. A lot more challenging and rewarding since alcohol isn't involved and the majority of people aren't explicitly looking to find a partner.
/r/askTRP14/04/14 01:08 AM
1

She's fading and using the exams as an excuse to not make it seem so obvious.
/r/askTRP13/04/14 11:46 PM
2

Saving this post for when people hate on my for being subbed to TRP. I always say I'm on this sub because of self-improvement posts, that simply acknowledge the difference between sexes without hating on either. No one believes me because I always fail to dig up the posts I've read.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 11:28 PM
3

I used to do "thanks" all the time. But today I started using "thanks for noticing" (I got a new haircut and a girl said it looked good). Seemed to work. She was a lot more engaged than usual... might have been the haircut though.
/r/askTRP10/04/14 07:25 AM
3

Yes. About half of my friends are female. Some are attractive and some are not. I've had sex with some and I'd never have sex with others. Independently from all that, I appreciate them as my friends.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 10:42 PM
8

Be too serious and you might give off a boring/negative vibe. Be too humorous and people will see you as immature.
/r/seduction09/04/14 07:11 AM
14

I appreciate your attempt at dealing with rejection, but as a former expat who lived in China, I met way too many of your kind. Expats who wore their skin color as a status symbol and therefor acted differently than they would in their home country solely because of it. Being white in China was kind of cool in the 90s. But it's 2014 man. The Chinese are sick of this kind of BS (specially in big cities), and so are fellow seasoned expats. Be careful. You might press the wrong buttons on someone w…
/r/seduction02/04/14 07:03 AM
0

Don't react to it. If her attitude becomes too big of a problem, next her.
/r/askTRP01/04/14 01:58 AM
1

If you don't like CS, switch majors. But if you're switching because CS isn't "RP enough" you're making a mistake. 90% of girls I talk to are "impressed" because I'm a CS major. Apparently it implies I'm smart.
/r/askTRP30/03/14 08:01 AM
1

From the tone of your post I feel like you're lacking confidence to express your sexuality with women. If you find a girl sexually attractive and want to put your penis inside her, you have to send that message. Being a friend, or just a nice guy, is not enough to give her the message "I'm interested in having sex with you".
/r/seduction28/03/14 08:35 AM
6

Deep conversations with girls are great pantie moisters if you choose the right topic. Don't choose to talk about how you can relate to her daddy issues because you have them too. Or about how you totally feel her on her breakup because a girl treated you like shit too. These will make a vagina very dry. Choose a topic you're knowledgeable on and that can involve a nice two-sided conversation. Even if it's just her asking you questions and you answering. Also choose something you're almost sure …
/r/seduction24/03/14 07:14 AM
3

I feel like we're pedestalizing business-owners/entrepreneurs themselves. Aren't the majority of entrepreneurs not even rich?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:37 PM
6

Economic success is part of sexual strategy. So economic theory is, indirectly, still relevant to sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 05:46 AM
3

There is no why other than because they want to. If someone loves lemonade you could infinitely ask them "Why?" But there's no satisfying answer. Some do it for physical pleasure (I'd say most), some for validation, some for an ego-boost, some for a combination. There's an infinite amount of reasons behind reasons. It's turtles all the way down.
/r/seduction18/03/14 09:09 PM
1

At the cost of potentially coming off as needy, you could send her a text in a couple of days. But after that if she doesn't respond just drop it.
/r/seduction17/03/14 11:16 PM
5

Wait. If I was really digging her, send a second text a few days later. After that it's game over if she doesn't respond. I usually just forget about her if she doesn't respond after the first text though.
/r/seduction17/03/14 09:46 PM
1

Interesting! I'd think that using "because" would make you sound less sure of yourself. In my experience, people who feel the need to explain themselves with trivial matters are usually not confident in what ever it is they're asking for. I have no numbers to back up my claims though.
/r/seduction17/03/14 09:43 PM
8

Same. The few girls I've found that are different, though, are usually not very sexually attractive. To find a wise girl with direction in life who also makes you have an insta-boner is like winning the lottery.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 12:23 AM
2

If you get a rejection this way it's not game over yet. Judging by how she rejects you, maybe she still appreciates your confidence and you could work from there.
/r/seduction14/03/14 07:41 PM
1

Yes, assuming there's been some conversation already.
/r/seduction14/03/14 07:39 PM
8

When girls tell me to hold their drink I do, but I drink it all.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 03:55 AM
4

Yes. But change "Grab a drink tonight?" to "Let's grab a drink tonight"
/r/seduction09/03/14 05:13 PM
0

Disagree. I went out alone last night. Got a milf's number, kissed a HB7 and took a HB8 home.
/r/seduction09/03/14 05:03 PM
1

<\sarcasm>
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 02:53 AM
0

Creep by Radiohead
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 08:28 PM
0

There's a certain amount of "not giving a fuck" stoners portray when they smoke and can control themselves. I bet you the newbie who tokes up and laughs uncontrollably for hours, empties out his friend's fridge, then passes out isn't getting any poon thanks to weed.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 08:28 PM
1

Is it not enough to flair it?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 09:09 PM
1

making her choices for her is exactly like a white knight saving a girl who doesn't ask to be saved. Can you elaborate on this? I don't understand what you mean by "making her choices for her"
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:06 PM
3

I'm sure it can work. When she said I'm so attracted to you! Why can't you just say something stupid like all the guys that turns me off?! I translated it in my head to Why can't you just be BP so I don't have to be attracted to you?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 01:01 PM
6

It is only one class in school. The worst that could happen is that our interactions in school become awkward and she gets butt-hurt. I wouldn't have done this if it meant risking an actual job. My main concern right now is not crushing her feelings.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 12:57 PM
1

If you're going to drink, see it as an enhancer (to socializing), not a replacer. This is a good rule to follow with any substance you think you might be abusing. If you're using it as a replacer to other activities you know you're in trouble.
/r/seduction06/03/14 10:32 AM
9

SIGN #3: “YOU’RE LIKE THE BIG BROTHER I’VE NEVER HAD” I've had 2 girls tell me this before. I fucked both of them. One of them said "I like having sex with you because it feels so wrong in a good way, because you're like my brother"
/r/seduction06/03/14 10:29 AM
3

If OP is pretty green and inexperienced, trying to get out of a friendzone reeks of pedestalization/oneitis/beta-orbitership When I've caught myself thinking about how to get out of the friend-zone with a particular chick, I realize it's just a manifestation of oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 09:20 AM
1

This really helped
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 05:09 PM
3

The six pack is made in the kitchen though. EAT LESS
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:52 AM
0

I understand. I've just never spun plates in my life and decided to do something new. Only time will tell if it's for me or not.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:31 AM
0

Haven't told them explicitly we're not exclusive, but I don't take them on "dates" or anything and treat them like I would any other friend... except with a hint of sexuality in there. I should probably tell them directly to avoid any confusion.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:25 AM
0

Thanks, solid advice.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:24 AM
40

I know plenty of dumb fuckers who just happen to have the will-power to do well enough in high-school to go to a good college.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 10:54 AM
9

A few weeks ago someone posted asking a question about being more beta when sleep deprived. I commented that it was the opposite for me. Sleep deprivation has the same effects on me as on you. It greatly reduces my anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 07:01 AM
5

If she took your hand and led you somewhere with no crowd you need to capitalize. Turn her around and if it feels right, kiss her. This exact same thing happened to me this past weekend. Girl at party is noticeably attracted to me. Grabs my hand and leads me somewhere (why is this so common? The girl grabbing your hand thing). I grabbed her by the hips, turned her around, looked her in the eyes and judged her facial expression. She looked receptive. I went for it. 10/10 would do again.
/r/askTRP27/02/14 07:24 PM
1

Nothing special. I haven't gotten her number because I'm still not confident enough to do it without thinking about it too much. But I will soon. Class was canceled today so I haven't gotten to see her.
/r/seduction27/02/14 07:58 AM
3

Is there any strategy to capitalize that small window of opportunity when they're all of a sudden attracted to you again?
/r/seduction27/02/14 04:29 AM
11

From a comment on that page Very true. To be the player you have to really not care and it's not something you can fake. Once you're emotionally invested you're toast. This really resonates with me. I've tried the whole "be a player" when I was still emotionally invested (oneitis), and she would read right through me. The subconscious acts as a platform for the conscious. If the subconscious is unstable (emotionally invested), the conscious will inevitably show it and she will notice. You could …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 10:48 PM
1

I agree with you. I have been applying RP to my life in general, she just happens to be a side-quest. A sort of experiment if you will. I'm not putting too much energy into it. I'm just treating her like any other person when she contacts me, and I don't initiate contact at all. She's just so used to me being BP with her (just like OP: inviting her out, paying for shit, etc. and receiving very little sexual compensation) that she's been acting overly friendly with me lately. If it works, great! …
/r/askTRP26/02/14 10:14 PM
5

I did this to my former oneitis and I went full beta in less than 30 seconds. Hahah. Been there too. I'm currently in the same boat as OP. I've been applying RP on my former "one". She's unsurprisingly been reaching out again. At this point I've gained the upper hand in our friendship/relation. I've been keeping my frame nice and strong, but I know it's a slippery slope and I could end up full beta before I even realize it. Being RP with a former "one" is a big risk. But to each their own. I see…
/r/askTRP26/02/14 01:42 PM
4

"Uh-oh," I said to myself. "They're totally going to know I ate McDonald's before going to bed last night. Why'd I have to get the large fries? Why can't I just eat salads like a normal person?" She's trying to justify her nasty gluttony by saying that the only way to be "normal" is to eat salads, therefore it's perfectly reasonable to eat the way she does because who in their right mind eats salads all the time?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 10:46 AM
17

That actually made me lol. I'd give you a chance if you tried that on me ;)
/r/seduction26/02/14 07:54 AM
5

I've done BJJ for over 6 years and I've cross-trained with wrestlers and judokas. They each have their strengths and weaknesses. On average wrestlers are the ones that are willing to grind it out with strength and explosiveness. They are beasts and will go 100%, brute force mode. BJJ guys like to train at 80% or less, focusing some energy on technique. Judo guys are very explosive but only go for a short amount of time, and depending on their experience, they lack ground game. I'm not here to ju…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 07:46 AM
44

I thought that worrying about the girl's reaction was bad enough. I made an effort to meet a girl in class the other day. I sat next to her and realized she had huge, awesome pearl earrings. I said "Nice earrings!" and introduced myself. Some guys sitting in the row behind me started to laugh and I heard one of them whisper something about "earrings". Despite my best attempts not to give a fuck, I did give a fuck and it made me feel embarrassed. I ignored them though and continued talking to the…
/r/seduction26/02/14 03:50 AM
8

I knew that looking down was submissive but I'd never put thought into looking up... now that I think about it, it does seem pretty weird haha
/r/seduction24/02/14 10:50 PM
1

Also, pullups. If you have a hunched in, shoulders forward kind of look you're pulling muscles are probably a lot weaker than your pushing muscles. Pullups and horizontal pulls fixed my posture.
/r/seduction24/02/14 02:02 AM
1

About 5 hours. Haven't managed to recreate that situation though. I consider myself a beta. That was a very lucky time for me.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 09:13 AM
0

a few years from now when she comes crawling blow your load in her throat and walk away...
/r/askTRP22/02/14 05:28 PM
2

You can improve socializing skills, physical strength, fashion, academic achievements, economic situation, and many other things.
/r/askTRP22/02/14 10:04 AM
2

She may or she may not give him a second chance. There's no set probability or right answer here. I've fucked girls after they've proven me beta in the past. Usually cutting contact for a while, improving yourself, then coming into contact again does the trick (given you've really improved yourself) The thing I want to point out is that if he starts lifting, meeting more people (woman too, of course), and leading his own life in the US, he should be doing it mainly for himself. To improve as a m…
/r/askTRP22/02/14 01:07 AM
2

I'm not impressed with your performance
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 01:56 AM
6

I'm new to the United States. I've lived in Asia and Central America before. I've witnessed this in women from all nationalities, but I'd say on American girls are significantly more unstable. So I'd say there must be some cultural aspect to this
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 09:15 AM
19

Today in class we were assigned to sit in groups around a table to debate a certain topic. A really attractive girl was left without a seat. I still have some beta instincts, so first thought that popped into my mind was to look around for a seat to get her, or to give her mine. I caught myself thinking beta and just sat the fuck down and ignored her. The guy next to me got up and went plenty out of his way to get her a seat. She thanked him. During our group discussion, the guy that got her a s…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 03:51 AM
1

So not only do betas have behavioral patterns that make them beta, but they're also physically, in a more primal sense, also beta. Interesting. Further proves these concepts are not just subjective ideals but are in our very nature as animals.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 03:31 AM
2

Wake up call for me (I'm a senior in University)
/r/askTRP10/02/14 09:15 AM
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Although counter-intuitive, I agree on the fact that there's no free will. If you haven't really studied and thought about it you will think this statement is nonsense, and I don't blame you. But do us all a favor and before bashing the "there is no free will statement" with arguments like "I do what ever I want. I choose what I want to do", do some research on the subject. From a logical perspective free will is impossible. On a more intuitive level, this guy explains it pretty well.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 09:28 PM
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however the last text I sent she didn't reply to, it was asking what she'd like to do on this date /facepalm the worst is how oblivious he is about how his own behavior is driving her away.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 11:15 PM
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Before discovering TRP I admit I have slept with girls w/o having sex. An unhealthy amount. This past weekend, though, I was turned down while already in bed. She still had the nerve to say "are you still staying over?" Needless to say I GTFO'd. She has been desperately contacting me everyday since. Note this was a girl that before this ignored my texts when she felt like it and kept me around as a comfy orbiter. Feels good to be in control for once. Thanks RP.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 09:44 AM
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Advice taken. Will do.
/r/askTRP05/02/14 12:09 AM
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Right, I see what you mean. I should've mentioned I'd like to keep her as a FB/FWB
/r/askTRP04/02/14 06:01 PM
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/r/outside
/r/seduction04/02/14 10:46 AM
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Are you relying on alcohol?
/r/seduction04/02/14 10:46 AM
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For the ones on the heavy side, remember, the six pack is made in the kitchen. Just want to emphasize that since I see the word gym being thrown around so much in this subreddit but not too much about dieting.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 08:35 AM
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I get the "you're weird" all the time, even from friends. With close friends I try to get them to explain it to me. With women I want to have as potential mates I just say "The good kind of weird"
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 08:29 AM
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He's scared of losing the imaginary interest of the girl. I can definitely relate to OP, but lacks_tact has a point. You don't have her interest just yet. You could satisfy the little craving she has (if at all) by initially caving and agreeing to her date, or you could starve her and once she does see you she'll be ready to FEAST on you. But as always it's a gamble. You might starve her so much you kill the attraction all in all (what you're afraid of). Try starving attractive girls. Do it at l…
/r/seduction03/02/14 07:54 AM
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I played truth or dare with a couple of girls at a club this weekend. Got everyone laughing, including myself, and plenty of kino opportunities.
/r/seduction02/02/14 08:49 PM
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Hand her your phone and say "Here, call yourself so I can get your number"
/r/seduction30/01/14 02:31 AM
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When you’re on a date, instead of asking “what should I do next?” Ask, “What do I want?” I needed to hear that
/r/seduction28/01/14 06:06 AM
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Unless it's "I probably shouldn't send this because it makes me sound needy" :)
/r/seduction27/01/14 06:25 PM
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Fake it till you make it. Worked for me. I used to be shy to the point of getting anxious about ordering a meal at a restaurant. I can definitely relate with you on being boss at writing and texting only to find myself poker faced in real life. It doesn't happen to me anymore.
/r/seduction27/01/14 11:08 AM
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How do you initiate sex? If you're back at her place chances are high she knows what your objective is. So give us some details about how you try to go on about initiating.
/r/seduction27/01/14 12:21 AM
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Serious eye contact. No "looking away because I was nervous" shit. Eye contact that shows what you feel. When she looks into your eyes she has to feel how badly you want to fuck her brains out, yet not be intimidated by it. Smile, but don't overdo it. Smile when you mean it. Don't smile "to be nice" Touch them in dominant, confident ways. Hold their back, then travel to their neck and hold their neck from behind. Grab them by the arm when you're going somewhere and lead them by the hips. I did a…
/r/seduction26/01/14 10:53 AM
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This is the problem. Guys who are nice and don't have the balls or skills to show their sexual intent. You can be nice and also be very clear about your sexual intent.
/r/seduction26/01/14 03:09 AM
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Think of everyone as humans, just like yourself. Some people you approach might even have as much or more AA than yourself! Don't look at anyone as 'superior' to you, because no one is. Some of us naturally have more AA than others. It's not our fault, we didn't choose to have it, it just is. So don't put yourself down for it either. Practice and expose yourself. The first 100 times might be hell. However slowly but surely you'll condition your brain to not be intimidated by approaching women.
/r/seduction24/01/14 08:46 PM
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Hands on the hips, as other have suggested. Also open up your shoulders and lean your hips forward just slightly.
/r/seduction24/01/14 07:14 PM
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Hadn't seen these guys, but yes, this is what I'm getting at!
/r/seduction23/01/14 07:03 AM
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I like to read and learn during week nights. Apply what I've learn during the daytime (in school) and weekends.
/r/seduction23/01/14 02:57 AM
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I completely agree. It's like those "prank videos" where guys blatantly go up to girls and say some stupid (often sexual) shit and they get their numbers. I forget the exact name of the video(s), but it's always surprising how many HBs actually react positively to this! Well not so surprising once you know they're simply appreciating your directness, confidence, and honesty ;)
/r/seduction23/01/14 02:49 AM
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Their major Why they chose it If they're enjoying it What would they study if money weren't an issue Their hobbies What do they like to do (excluding the obvious listen to music, friends and partying) If they blank on this, suggest hobbies you have and try to relate them to the girl Geography and locations Why did they choose to stay/move Where are they from Where would they like to travel to and why
/r/seduction21/01/14 07:04 AM
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Two questions: Via text, is it better to invite a girl using a question (Would you like to do X tomorrow at 9?) or a suggestion (We should do X tomorrow at 9). I also thought about a combo like "We should do X tomorrow at 9, what do you think?" but I think this sounds too wordy. If, for any reason, I happen to setup a date more than 4 days in advance, should I periodically text the girl during those 4 days? Or should I just wait for the confirmation text a day before the date?
/r/seduction21/01/14 04:48 AM
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What has worked for me without failing once is starting out with a basic back rub. From there bring her closer. From here she generally leans on me or puts her hands on me legs or grabs my free hand (at this point I'm only rubbing her back with one hand). Next I rub higher up her neck and work my way up. I grab the back of her head to lead her into the kiss (this way she doesn't feel the pressure/anxiety of having to turn and face me herself). After you've got the lead on her head you're 99% the…
/r/seduction21/01/14 02:11 AM
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Interacting with other men is a whole skill in itself. Sounds like you have no problem being charismatic with women, now work on being social with men.
/r/askTRP
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Your question is way to vague. What type of mental illness? I wouldn't think the core ideas of how to become alpha would change at all with mental illness in the picture. It would simply make it harder, as you would have to be spending energy in treating your illness and become more alpha.
/r/askTRP
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What advice are you seeking exactly? You want your friends to think about you while you're not with them? The fuck are you on dude... When a girl likes you she'll think about you, and vice versa. But that's the nature of being attracted to someone. I doubt your friends want to fuck you so why would they spend their day thinking about you? It's not normal to spend your time thinking about people you're not with. And it's definitely not normal to see this as a problem. Get your head out of your as…
/r/askTRP
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Lol take your head out of your ass. Good for you on having a profitable business and knowing how to work that industry. But your credentials don't mean shit as far as your views on consumer behavior and socializing. Bonding is not mutually exclusive from consumer behavior.
/r/askTRP
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Mind explaining what's the view you have of TRP advertised behavior? In my experience people who think TRP is useless generally have an inaccurate idea of what "acting TRP" is. Core ideals of TRP don't target one night stands or relationships especifically. They deal with sexual attraction, which is very important whether you choose to pursue casual sex or a serious relationship.
/r/askTRP
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Best way to learn is to pick a small project and work on it. When you get stuck, Google your way out of it.
/r/askTRP
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You're overthinking this. There's no use in changing your approach because her ex has a dad-bod. If anything, you have a better chance at impressing her with your physique since she's used to seeing chubby.
/r/askTRP
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Women are more likely to retroactively withdraw consent when they don't feel comfortable the morning, or days after the experience. When you get yourself breakfast offer her some, make small talk after sex and/or the morning after so she doesn't feel "used", etc. You don't have to go over-board and kiss her feet, simply be a decent dude and make her feel comfortable during and after sex, and you shouldn't have to worry about this too much.
/r/askTRP
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Also it feels like me and my friend's relationship is kinda going side since I barely hang out with them anymore on the weekend If you only see them when you go out drinking, you don't have a solid friendship going on with them yet. You got any interests outside partying in common with them? Since you're presumably into fitness, maybe you can hit the gym together. I was thinking of going there and taking some benzos Haha. I've done this before, for similar reasons (making weight for a tournament…
/r/askTRP
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Reading your comments on here it seems like they enjoy hitting you for no specific reason. they're flirting with you. That or your not telling the eholw story, or are autistic and not reading their social cues properly. In my experience, girls like to "hit" strong guys in a playful way. I've gotten it a lot, specially if the topic of me training MMA comes up. Go along with it: "is that all you got? ;)"
/r/askTRP
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Ask to take pictures of her nexy time you're fucking. See how she reacts
/r/askTRP
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Post a mirror pic, brah
/r/askTRP
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Go "study" at her place, it'll be fun ;). I doubt her parents will be keeping an eye out every single second.
/r/askTRP
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Depends if your definition of partying includes drugs, alcohol, or having a fucked up sleep cycle. If any of these is part of your daily lifestyle then you're fucking yourself over. If you make a career out of the party scene, play it smart and don't form reckless habits, rather use them to your advantage.
/r/askTRP
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Yes. Unless you get lucky. That's not to say a beta man can't improve his SMV to the point of getting an attractive girl though.
/r/askTRP
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The majority of the people of the red pill has just been unlucky with girls, and then try to think up reasons why, and think "girls cant truly love anyone, and they also biologically want to make fun of your weight, and make you sad!". Do you have proof on this? Also, following your logic, would that mean that believing in unconditional love from a woman means that you've had good luck and experienced it before? If so, she better still love you, or else it was conditional. If not, then is your b…
/r/askTRP
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This puts it into perspective nicely. The alcohol in me certainly wasn't helping my mindset either. I would've probably reacted how you said had I been sober, but that's a whole different topic in itself.
/r/askTRP
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You need to improve your texting my friend.
/r/askTRP
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If you have too much of something, it'll start to seem dull. Specially if you know you can get it anytime. It happens with everything in life, including sex. Eat too many burgers and you'll get tired of them. Even if you have free access to the best burgers in town, you won't want them. As cliche as it sounds, balance is key. Abstain for a while and I guarantee you the next time you have sex it will be a better experience.
/r/askTRP
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In the case of texts where everything is so obvious, what would you say is prefered: mirroring or being mimicked?
/r/askTRP
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I don't give a fuck much easier when I'm sleep deprived. So you could say I become more confident.
/r/askTRP
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Alright, I'm going out solo. I'll surely make some cringe-worthy mistakes, and some admirable progress too. Wish me luck.
/r/askTRP
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