Feeling guilty for spinning plates

2comment · 2014-03-04T04:16:11+00:00

Like with feminists, I don't try to argue against my subconscious with logic. That part of the brain doesn't use logic, it's imprinted with instinct so I use emotion. Whenever I have urges I don't logically want (don't feel like excercising, want to eat too much, want to smoke), I imagine that nagging craving not manifesting within me but in an exaggerated caricature of the end result of that longing trying to goad me.

For example, like with overeating, I imagine a 500lb man in a wheelchair because of an amputate diabetic foot wearing a mustard-and-ketchup stained wifebeater wheezing for me to go out and eat whatever I'm having a craving for. Or for a smoke, my (now dead) neighbor with emphysema hacking and wheezing telling me he's never been healthier (he actually bullshitted me his doctor told him he would die if he quit, 2 years before he died of a fast acting cancer) and I should go out and get a pack because I need it.

I find that externalizing the immediate urge/argument of my subconcious and then putting it in the most disgusting package pretty much kills it for me.

In your case, you can imagine up a stinking middle-age neckbeard virgin brony telling you that you're going about thing the wrong way and that you need to find "the one". Or have some bearded cuckold munching on his wife turn around with face smeared with some other dude's semen telling you to go back to the blue pill.

Whatever works for you. The more repulsive, the better.

KentuckyFriedColonel · 2014-03-04T05:18:25+00:00

Being red pill doesn't mean you have to follow some sort of dogma, you can do as you like. That's the point of red pill, if you're a one-woman at a time kind of man then so be it. Just apply yourself in such a way that your relationship is a natural expression of your innate instincts and desires instead of a paranoid misery where you worry about whether or not you're straying from some guilt-based rulebook of political correctness. Do what feels good and right for you and find a woman who supports you in that.

chimpichanga · 2014-03-04T03:49:07+00:00

As long as none of them think you are exclusively seeing each other you are doing nothing wrong.

the_depressioning · 2014-03-04T04:02:41+00:00

Honesty is the best course of action. Tell the women you're not looking for a serious relationship and that you're also dating other women as well.

Most of the time they end up becoming more slutty and open towards you.

This is also one of the rules in the sidebar

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/

II. Make her jealous

2014-03-04T13:14:43+00:00

I'm having a good time

Says it all, doesn't it?

SpaceMoonstar · 2014-03-04T15:35:30+00:00

I used to feel like that as well. Now I would have absolutely no qualms seeing more than one woman at a time. There is nothing wrong with it from a moral standpoint.

Let's get cynical. I mean, logical. Most women are also seeing more than one guy at a time, especially if you met them off of an online dating web site. If you only see one girl at a time, what happens if she cancels a date and wants to reschedule for next week? Sit around like an asexual blob, counting the days for that elusive next week? That she may or may not cancel again when the time comes?

I remember a long time ago I have wasted a month of my life on a girl, because I thought it would be rude of me to see others. Wasn't even a oneitis. She was just a shy and awkward cute girl with social anxiety who I wanted to be patient with. A month later, when we finally met again, she told me about all the different guys she's been seeing throughout that month. So even a girl like that, who in my bluepilled mind wouldn't have been shopping around, did.

And if you're high value, they're receptive to you, and don't cancel dates on you, the same still applies. If you're not committed to them or alluding to wanting to be exclusive, why shouldn't you be allowed to meet other people who might be more compatible with you? You meet a woman who seems nice, now you're obligated to see them until completion? Your time is too valuable for that. Trust me, if a girl was into you and someone better came along, before you two became exclusive, they would have no problem "hanging out" or "grabbing a cup of coffee" with that other guy and then applying the same logic to it.

fluviant · 2014-03-04T22:04:45+00:00

I find it hard to believe any man is completely and wholly monogamous in his natural (non-bluepilled) state. Even if that is the case, make the smart move by spinning some plates.

A smart man knows that women live in the moment. Their actions hinge upon their emotional state. Even if you were to fine "the one," you are bound to experience the cruelty, the harshness, the complete lack of respect for who you are. It will manifest itself in one way or another eventually.

Why would you ever want to stand in the path of such a shitstorm?

When something like this happens, a smart man knows his most effective move is to walk out that door and get in bed with another sweet, loving, caring woman who will give him the treatment he yearns for and deserves. Don't sit there and discuss petty problems; you hurt yourself two-fold -- one, by stooping to her immature, emotion-induced level, and two, by putting your own desires aside in order to endure her disgusting mood.

Women's weakness is jealousy. Use it to your advantage.

Now if the man has absolutely zero leverage (hand) in the relationship, by which I mean no plates, he will be at an unnecessary disadvantage with his woman. He will be able to walk out the door, of course, but he will have no women to meet his needs. His woman will see him as a spiteful, weak boy.

I treat plates as a tool of manipulation. Forgive me.

TurgidMeatWand · 2014-03-04T05:18:29+00:00

I don't all the details about your plates, so I'm just going to apply my issues/hangups to your question.

Maybe you took on too many plates too soon. If I have more than 3 plates all my needs get taken care of pretty easily to the point I don't really feel like investing time or energy in it anymore, but I go through the motions to maintain them anyway so I won't have to start from scratch.

It gets to be not fun, and I feel guilty not because I have plates, but because I have no legimate enthusiasm for the game or the guy I'm fucking anymore. Even picking up some random hit and quit it one off isnt that satisfying because it doesn't offer me anything I don't already get. I need to have the need for it to be exciting to me.

OKJaded · 2014-03-04T07:57:30+00:00

Yeah. Just as much as I spin plates I realize I'm just another cock on the carousel.

I'll send a text message. If I never get one back I will never send another. Bitch, everyone knows how cellphones work. We both know you got my message.

Title	Feeling guilty for spinning plates
Author	a_nus
Upvotes	13
Comments	16
Date	March 4, 2014 3:42 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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