So I went out for drinks with a few friends and a plate. Everyone got shitfaced except for me. Towards the end I noticed she was being evasive and that was because she was trying to drive home about 50 miles while intoxicated. She’s done this before when I’m not present and she knows I won’t stand for it. We’re on the train now and heading back to my place since neither of us can afford the Uber. I’m going to hard next but looking for any additional advice.