Supplicating (super beta) behaviour in Chinese dating culture

pm_me_chuck_hagel · 2018-02-18T21:02:07+00:00

You could also see it as him showing that he is the man and giving her the food he wants her to eat.

Chinese dating culture is very different from the west. They are much more RP in general, yet the men also often act very beta in some circumstances.

AZNQQMoar · 2018-02-18T21:27:03+00:00

As a Chinese myself, we are taught at a very young age to grab food for our elders around us if it isn't a hassle, and for women (usually your mom, or girlfriend, etc).

It's just culture in my opinion.

WideawakeMind · 2018-02-19T00:18:32+00:00

TRP is only compatible with western cultures. This is why I keep repeating, trp is only a partial truth and AWALT is not a fact. Asians have different definitions of alpha and beta. For example, one can be a Chad Thundercock even tho he's scrawny as fuck and dresses like a kpop boy band member, with a skinny Jean and bangs covering the forehead so on. A lot of asian girls actually prefer skinny boyish guys over buff manly guys, even in their 20s and 30s. Looking like a high schooler in their 20s and even 30s because of good skincare is also considered desirable and attractive, for both genders.

Also alphas of Asia show behaviour that are considered outright cringy or beta by the western standards. And girls love "soft" men like this more than tough, dominant guys.

Title	Supplicating (super beta) behaviour in Chinese dating culture
Author	financialwar
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	February 18, 2018 8:19 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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