Hey guys, Long time lurker here. Just to give a little background on myself, I'm an 18 year old international(Africa) student in a Canadian university(first-year).
I stumbled upon "game" and the manosphere a little under 2 years ago after having one of the classic "nice" guy experiences. Needless to say, a lot of the stories I read resonated with what I'd witnessed then and since diligently swallowing the pill. I've read the Game by Neil Strauss, Bang by Roosh, Year one to three of Rollo's blog as well as his first book, "Preventative Medicine". Recently, I've also decided to start listening to RedPill interviews such as the ones Rollo had with Christian McQueen and I regularly watch videos of Stefan Molyneux and Tom Leykis. I feel like I'm as immersed as I could be in RedPill literature so I definitely feel that I've got my bases covered theory-wise.
I find that I'm struggling to take what I know and fully adopt the mindset I need in order to approach girls and actively practice the principles that are regularly espoused on here and in the literature that I've read. I started going to the gym 3 months ago with a program designed by a personal trainer but I have strayed from the routine over the past 4 weeks due to being discouraged by a lack of results(stupid,right?). It's safe to say that I've lost the motivation to bust my ass in the gym. I'll also admit that I'm not entirely sure that my training routine was the best for bulking up since I'm 6'2.5 and 150lbs. This lack of motivation has a ripple effect because my motivation to start approaching girls has taken a hit.
So my brothers, I've lost motivation to go to the gym, approach girls and I STILL haven't gotten laid(never happened before) or even been close to it. What on earth do I do in order to get out of this rut that I've found myself in? I really felt that I'd made progress on the theoretical front, but I'm stuck at this point.
TL;DR Read all I can possibly read in terms of RedPill Literature but can't seem to take the next logical step on my RedPill journey. What steps do I take to overcome this seemingly mental barrier? Thanks brothers!!!!
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