Lately I had thoughts in my mind that invidual does truly decides to get what he wants. Some things can affect the process but if there's a passion towards the goal no one can stop him. As example you want this girl because you find her attractive. Which part of our brains makes you go to that girl and say her something? does the testosterone influence our actions? how come passion appears to one? I have never experienced such things in my life. I might have seen many attractive girls that gave me IOI's or I might had opportunities in different life situations but I've been passive. Is this cause I'm introverted? or I am not manly enought? Would be nice to get an answer or some book recommendations to read while I'm laying in my bed cause of sickness. Thanks