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Not relevant to post but is there somewhere like asktrp I can ask for advice?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/23 05:56 AM
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Thanks so much for taking the time to respond. I’ll definitely follow your advice, been doing therapy twice a week this year. I am very hopeful for myself just seeing how much removing porn and weed has helped my anxiety. I can’t believe just a few months ago I thought both were completely harmless to me. I think I might need a better therapist that does cbt because talk therapy seems a bit of a waste of time, at least a few months of it hasn’t done too much.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/22 01:55 PM
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Well as someone who is much closer to an actual “gymcel” than op, I feel psycho-analysed. Do you have any tips on changing your internal view of yourself? Like does meditation help with tempering negative thoughts? I feel defined by my lack of success with girls (body count: 1) for my age (24) despite being 6’6” and jacked (zero social skills stoner gamer from age 14-24). It’s not that I even get rejected I just haven’t even tried. I am quitting porn and weed. Also getting shredded to start. I h…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/22 02:38 AM
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Thought I would add I've been on finasteride for over a year now (1mg ed) and have no negative side effects. The nocebo effect is very real
/r/askTRP09/08/21 07:07 AM
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I also had a baby face until I was 21 so I would give it some time. I always thought I was a lot leaner than I actually was but I started lifting and hit 10-11bf% and suddenly my jaw was there I didn’t have as much puffiness in my cheeks.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 10:38 PM
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Are you really skinny or just skinny fat with zero muscle?
/r/askTRP30/01/21 10:30 PM
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You’re going to live the rest of your life miserably with no sex because of a kid?
/r/askTRP30/01/21 10:29 PM
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It gets more manageable if you stop watching porn every day
/r/askTRP24/01/21 03:29 PM
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https://www.calculator.net/calorie-calculator.html use this as a base and track your weight every morning. Adjust calories as necessary
/r/askTRP23/01/21 09:28 PM
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What is the relevance of the post though? I never said that I haven’t abused steroids. This specific post is referencing a steroid “blast” which bodybuilders do and is definitely unhealthy because you supplement to levels way beyond what a man could naturally attain. The difference is that TRT, which is also steroids but in safe dosages, would for example take a 50 year old with low testosterone back to the levels he was at when he was 20, and would make him feel like a new man in terms of menta…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 11:58 PM
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Well at least my opinion is based on scientific evidence, and the fact that doctors prescribe steroids to men with low test levels everyday. You are living in the past with your steroids are illegal and bad mindset. Are they widely abused and often in a harmful manner? Definitely. Should anyone under 25 use them? Hell no. Yet you can’t even support your argument as to why they are bad other than “they’re illegal” which doesn’t make sense when you can go to a doctor and get them prescribed. I sug…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 11:49 PM
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How is that even relevant? You have no clue what you’re talking about and yet you go around spouting “steroids = bad” so what’s even the point in commenting? You are uninformed and have no place giving input. I have done research, I have tried them, and yes steroids can be used safely for health benefits. I’m not even encouraging anyone to use steroids, just putting down you spreading misinformation.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 11:33 PM
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Yeah your opinion doesn’t mean shit if you actually think test boosters do anything. Testosterone is legally prescribed in the US because it actually works, unlike test boosters. The OP didn’t even mention taking them illegally. Explain to me how supplementing to a top end testosterone level that healthy people with great genetics naturally have is unhealthy? Just because someone takes steroids doesn’t mean they are illegal and it also doesn’t mean they’re juiced to the gills on a unhealthy Supr…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:31 PM
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There are more benefits to TRT than just physique gains. People seem so hung up on it being an injection when in reality it’s no different from taking a pill every morning.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:22 PM
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I feel like you’re not nearly informed enough to form an opinion. How is taking steroids to go from a average test level to the upper limit of the healthy range (TRT) “unsafe”? Also sure there is a lot of illegal steroid abuse but there are also tons of doctors prescribing it to men legally. Having high testosterone doesn’t only help your physique but can improve a lot of other aspects of your life, like sleep and mental health.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:19 PM
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At the end of the day you’re not going to get big playing a sport as most are just glorified cardio but will help you lose weight. The gym doesn’t have to be boring and you definitely don’t have to do the same workouts every week. I personally think everyone can learn to enjoy the gym, chase a pump; and jam out
/r/askTRP22/01/21 08:35 PM
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“Recomp” is not the move, everyone is obsessed with the idea of gaining muscle and losing fat simultaneously. It’s much more efficient focusing either on losing fat or building muscle. As a beginner you will gain muscle eating in a small deficit anyway as long as you are eating enough protein. Start lifting ASAP and use cardio as a tool to burn calories if you prefer eating more when trying to lose fat.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 08:29 PM
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No problem. Keep in mind porn tubes only really started around 2006 and we are only beginning to observe the ramifications on a generation raised with porn. Porn has become an addiction to many and is fairly widely viewed as completely harmless with only religious nuts against it. People will defend the behavior they are addicted to and turn a blind eye to evidence of negative consequences, despite there being zero long lasting benefits and zero short term benefits that can’t be achieved by mast…
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:16 PM
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Start by reading https://fightthenewdrug.org/3-reasons-why-watching-porn-is-harmful/ lots of citations to scientific studies This full text study is eye opening https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27527226/
/r/askTRP09/01/21 05:18 AM
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Yeah how about not following her or her family on any social media for a start?
/r/askTRP09/01/21 02:16 AM
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Onlyfans aside, watching porn anywhere near daily is just flat out cuck behavior. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27527226/
/r/askTRP08/01/21 05:01 PM
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I mean he said he’s been lifting for a few years and is satisfied with his size. I think a slow cut is much more in-line with his goals
/r/askTRP07/01/21 07:12 PM
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Eating over maintenance isn’t going to get any natty guy looking more cut.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:19 PM
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TNT, in the air tonight, kickstart my heart, hot for teacher, voodoo child, Jailbreak, etc. always get me pumped and ready to go.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:48 PM
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What the fuck? 3-4 weeks to build up to a break up? What is the actual point. Drop her immediately so you can start moving on. Don’t give her details or explain why. Just say it’s not working and you’re done.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 05:54 PM
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The natural arousal will come back with time. You just need to make the decision to cut porn entirely from your life. Read the pmohackbook from the second link. At the core of it your brain likes jerking off to porn more than real sex. Men are extremely visual creatures. PMO is entirely selfish and focuses on your pleasure, and satisfies the brain much more than real sex because it’s constant action and always the best angles and hottest girls. How can a real girl even compare? It will take mont…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:55 PM
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Self-prescribed with frequent blood work
/r/askTRP06/01/21 05:16 AM
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There is far more to life than dating women.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 03:37 AM
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I agree but difference between 650 and 1000 is definitely noticeable. I personally have gone from 600 to low 1000s with TRT. I don’t really understand how you can make that claim when you haven’t experienced the two yourself (seeing as you claimed 1000-1100 natty test levels in one of your comments) As someone very dedicated to weightlifting and bodybuilding the difference in energy and muscle gains/preservation is far from negligible. Especially when cutting at low body fat percentages.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 03:33 AM
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Do you watch porn?
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:03 PM
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Do you watch porn at all? Edit: saw your post about porn problem. This is 100% your issue. You need to completely cut porn for at least 2-3 months to see any results (but it could take even a year). Your dick probably won’t work at all during this time and your libido won’t change but you need to take the time. This is something you’ve been using for likely years and expecting it to get fixed after a couple months where you didn’t even completely stop watching porn is not how it works Visit the …
/r/askTRP05/01/21 06:11 PM
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Yeah I was wrong. You really fucked up man. You probably lost the only woman who would ever put up with your pathetic attitude. I suggest you mourn this relationship you had with a girl who you not only cheated on but also cheated on you (sounds like a truly one of a kind relationship) for at least a few years and then regret doing nothing with your life once you’re old and shriveled. The path you are headed down leads nowhere. You choose to remain stagnant in your life rather than taking steps …
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:45 PM
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Again you miss the point, it’s not about isolating yourself and avoiding relationships. Other people should be complements to the already great life that you create for yourself. There is no one out there who will complete you. If you feel hollow and alone when you are by yourself it is a problem within yourself that you are trying to fill with others.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:29 PM
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How about dealing with it in a healthy manner. Take some time and write down why your relationship didn’t work out. Why did you feel the need to cheat? If she was truly a unicorn surely you wouldn’t have cheated. You write down what a better you would have done differently. Also list what you will look for in your next partner that you didn’t like with your past one. And then you actively work on moving on. You try new things and explore new hobbies. Dwelling on your feelings won’t help at all. …
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:26 PM
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You lack understanding about the fundamental concepts of the red pill. Yes there is discussion about sex relations but the core of TheRedPill is constant self improvement. Men are only happy when they are present and constantly striving to improve. You are choosing to suffer because it’s easy. What is the purpose of hearing similar accounts? You are just trying to validate your feelings. There is nothing you can do now but move forward yet you are hung up on the past, which philosopher encourage…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:05 PM
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This guy screams pseudo-intellectual. He only practices the philosophy that lets him take the easy path in life, dwelling in the pathetic suffering he brought upon himself.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:54 PM
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Depending on others for your own happiness is just sad. It shows you haven’t developed hobbies and passions. Start by reading Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations and learn to live in the present.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:49 PM
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Honestly surprised you’ve studied philosophy because your mindset is pathetic. How weak of a man are you? Your suffering is meaningless and entirely self-induced. Sure you invested some time with her, you had some fun but it wasn’t all good times. Regardless of what happened it’s in the past. What purpose is there to even think about her and what happened? You are dwelling on the past and suffering because it’s easier than moving forward. You are only 30, you aren’t even peak SMV for a man yet. …
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:46 PM
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I don’t understand your post and logic at all. Sounds like a massive pity party. You seriously think of the billion potential partners on earth you found one “unicorn”, one woman on earth who would be able to mother your children. Just a pathetic, defeatist attitude. You have oneitis and are hung up on one girl because you’re in a scarcity mindset. Block all her social media and meet other women. Life is suffering. Everyone has felt the way you do at some point. Either suffer proudly or give up …
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:17 PM
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Are you certain your issue isn’t porn induced ED?
/r/askTRP03/01/21 06:47 PM
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Lots of similar posts on here everyday, it’s almost always porn related.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 06:47 PM
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https://fightthenewdrug.org/3-reasons-why-watching-porn-is-harmful/
/r/askTRP02/01/21 05:21 PM
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“Some of these stereotypes include”
/r/askTRP02/01/21 04:57 PM
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That’s usually the case when they get alpha-widowed
/r/askTRP01/01/21 04:23 PM
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Yeah definitely. I used to really struggle with body acne and cutting the hot showers made it practically vanish after a while.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 05:59 PM
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There aren’t too many research studies on it but I’ll link some sources that include input from doctors. The top comment in the thread also mentions avoiding extreme temps on your skin. Just curious as to why it doesn’t make sense to you? https://healthcare.utah.edu/the-scope/shows.php?shows=0_8qzmzdxl https://www.bcm.edu/news/hot-showers-can-damage-skin-winter https://www.healthline.com/health/cold-shower-vs-hot-shower#Why-do-we-like-hot-showers? “Hot showers can dry out and irritate your skin.…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 02:16 AM
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I’ve noticed a ton of people who do everything you say above still continue to take long, scalding hot showers and they really dry out your skin.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:24 PM
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I’m guessing it’s a porn issue
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:55 PM
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You don’t go through the pages someone is following if you don’t give a fuck about them
/r/askTRP30/12/20 12:06 AM
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Who the fuck cares if someone decides to start trt? At least from what I understand from your post he made it clear he started using test rather than the 100s of others who lie about being natty.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:07 PM
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Great so get off the Internet and put the work into your career so people like you for something other than your appearance. No girl prefers someone who is 5’4”. Big fucking deal. Go make something of your life instead of crying about not getting pussy.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:44 AM
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Go cry with the other blackpill losers and get off this sub. You clearly just want pity and you won’t get it here.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:41 AM
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There is no question in your post and it’s riddled with spelling errors.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 08:47 PM
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There is no such thing as “belly fat loss”. Targeted fat loss is a common fitness misconception.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 07:44 PM
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What are the pros beside any appearance based ones? I can personally think of one but you seem to know something the scientists conducting the studies he cited don’t.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:29 PM
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I’ve heard it’s harder to get prescribed from a doctor but if you try it won’t be hard to find a supplier. Way more guys are on it than you probably think and there is a huge demand. Added bonus that even testosterone from an underground lab is very safe compared to other non-pharmaceutical drugs.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 06:51 PM
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You can buy a lab online for $75 and get your levels checked, it’s insanely easy. Those levels are pretty tragic and I would definitely start looking into TRT options. However I would focus on cleaning up your diet and living an active lifestyle for the next few years and start at ~23 y/o. For example a healthy male your age could have test at 900ng/dL and it’s in a completely healthy range. You can imagine the effect doubling your testosterone would have. I personally believe you can safely adm…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 06:15 PM
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Just start finasteride. I’m 22 and I’ve been taking 1mg daily for months with no side effects and great results. My shedding has entirely stopped. Ketoconazole shampoo and minoxidil help as well.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:00 PM
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Yeah after my first pin, I was just like wow, what was I worried about. Occasionally I’ll feel a little prick if I get the spot wrong but if you’re using the right needles it’s painless and takes less than a minute to do.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 12:52 AM
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How are you 32 and can’t afford $100 a month for test? It’s straight up life changing and I know people would pay 100x that amount for the mental and physical gains. If you can’t make an extra $100 a month then testosterone and lifting should be the last of your priorities. It sounds to me like you’re a pussy about injecting and are coming up with lame excuses.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 12:26 AM
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Being on steroids makes your sex drive insane, and if you aren’t banging chicks most guys turn to porn way too much and it can make the addiction much worse. The root being that the average guy doesn’t know or realize that porn is terrible for you.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 11:35 PM
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Other guy explained progressive overload well. It doesn’t always have to be weight increase, it could be being more explosive in the movement, adding a rep, adding a pause, etc. If you have a lot of energy at night it may have to do with drinking caffeine too late, it has a long half life. Also not wanting to cook is exactly what protein powder is for. I suggest ON double rich chocolate whey protein. If you aren’t getting enough protein to actually recover and build muscle I would argue there is…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 11:23 PM
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If you aren’t recovering from workouts you just aren’t eating enough protein or sleeping enough. Squats and deadlifts same day sucks but is completely doable. Sounds like your issue is you don’t train harder than last time. In my opinion training alone is not for beginners. Your mind is your own worst enemy and will try everything it can to convince you to stop when the tank isn’t empty. Seeing guys twice your size working 10x harder than you is powerful motivation.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 09:59 PM
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I promise you didn’t find a 1/3.75 billion personality, you’re just attached. This is an opportunity to find someone better.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:27 AM
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Bang hotter girls
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:14 AM
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Yeah I don’t think it’s a disadvantage at all and definitely don’t blame my looks for my lack of success with girls, it’s all due to mental issues. I just see so many guys in these threads with some warped blackpill views that make them think they would be playboys if they were a few inches taller. I don’t think I have bad posture, maybe slight computer neck. I think it may just be that I don’t smile a lot and come off as intimidating/scary because I’m so big.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 11:59 PM
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Just stop messaging her. Ignore any texts or calls and assume you have broken up. If she actually cares she will come find you in person. Tell her you assumed you had broken up because of some bullshit like relationships are built on trust and transparency.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:40 PM
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Give it two months of no jerking off and no porn and you will notice yourself starting to reset. A month in you will feel discouraged and think it isn’t making a difference but push through.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:47 AM
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I think the best solution is mindfulness exercises like meditation. Learning to forgive yourself and let go of the past to live purely in the moment being the goal.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:08 PM
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Do you really think height matters that much? I am 22, 6’5” white and fit but I would say that my face is a 5-6. Similar body count to OP but never get IOIs. I take good care of hygiene and work hard in the gym but I think 6’5” might be in the freakishly tall range that is no longer attractive. So far from my experience I think height is practically irrelevant if you don’t have the confidence and personality to back it up.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:15 PM
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It’s not some quantifiable amount of muscle mass. Lifting to look good is all about aesthetic and proportions.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 10:29 PM
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It might not mean more test but fat is estrogenic thus most men will have a more favorable test:e2 ratio and feel better overall when they are lean.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 09:25 PM
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Sure I agree. If you are willing to go all the way and get the required surgeries; limb lengthening, hair transplant, etc. from good doctors I think you should. I see nothing wrong with it and it can definitely be a form of self care/self improvement. I however don’t believe that steroids don’t work for you. There are so many different androgenic compounds that something is bound to work. I would do more research and make sure your GH and test are 100% real. But even steroids won’t do much if yo…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:59 PM
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Yeah but even if your odds at getting a date are tripled after the surgery they would still be insanely low compared to an average male. This leads back to how you said you might as well “give up” when the odds are against you, but you aren’t giving up like you say, you’re pursuing a pointless surgery despite the fact that height is not the only thing stopping you from getting dates. I am not throwing insults, only repeating the insults you use to describe yourself.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 07:34 PM
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Haha you’ve seriously deluded yourself into thinking everything will be better if you gain a few inches. News flash you’ll still be short as fuck and last time I checked girls aren’t lining up to be with ugly, balding guys who have no social skills. The study doesn’t say shit about other aspects of life getting better because hint: they won’t.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:38 PM
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After the surgery you will still be short (a manlet) and you will still be ugly and balding. You want to feel good in all aspects of life but don’t want to put in any effort? This surgery won’t solve a single one of your problems. What you need is a mental illness diagnosis from a professional. I said you were lonely because you wrote out that you had no friends or women. This isn’t a fucking puzzle.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:22 PM
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You’re an actual joke. I looked at the statistics and wholeheartedly agree and understand. You’re retarded if you think you have some advanced understanding of the statistics as they’re insanely straight forward. Yes you are fucked and will never get with a woman as you are now. For the fifth time no one would willingly choose to be short, ugly, and balding as it only has disadvantages. I have never once argued against your point or the statistics. Again you dodge my questions every time and rev…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 01:00 AM
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I’ll answer your question for the fourth time: No one would choose to be short and ugly. You can’t even come up with your own insults and just use mine, again like a child. You completely ignored the questions I posed. Try harder. Give the common courtesy of answering instead of avoiding it. If you can’t answer it’s because you know I’m right.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 11:42 PM
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You’re just cherry-picking... I clearly said mental and attitude related self-improvement which has no dependence on your looks. At this point you have the reading comprehension skills of a middle schooler. You dodged my question again and repeat the same lame excuse that I already addressed. Hope you die miserable and alone because that’s the path you’re currently on. Show me some studies that prove you can’t be ugly, short and live a fulfilling life. You ignore every valid point I make and fal…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 11:21 PM
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I have answered your question you’re just ignorant. I said multiple times no one wants to be short and ugly. If you do somehow get laid you’re going to end up severely disappointed. You seem to have some kind of fucked up mindset where you believe if you had hot girls lining up to bang you would be happy. Guess what 90% of hot girls have shit personalities and are a nightmare to be around and maintain a relationship with. You’re dealing with the constant threat of another guy swooping in and in …
/r/askTRP05/12/20 10:45 PM
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And you keep dodging my question. For what reason do you want to continue to live if you wholeheartedly believe you will never be successful, never be loved by a woman, and never accepted as a friend because of your genetic disadvantages. You will still be ugly and bald after your surgery and still no one will even want to look at you as you repeatedly emphasize. You’ll still be your same miserable, lonely self but with weird looking disproportionate legs. You claim to give up but somehow hope t…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 09:55 PM
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You are such a broken record. You type the same lame response to everything. No one wants to be 5'3" and have an ugly face. I do understand the statistics and yes, life is harder for ugly short people. So what do you do now? Surely death is preferable to living a long life of misery and loneliness? I'm telling you that you are a waste of space. Your life isn't worth living. You go to bed every night knowing you will wake up alone, only to carry out another miserable day. You claim to have given …
/r/askTRP05/12/20 07:43 PM
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Hoping you become a statistic because you’re a waste of human life. Geniunely what do you live for? To complain? You have no friends, no drive, no women, and no goals. You’ve made your point. I haven’t even seen you and know you are unlikeable and unlovable. So why keep going? You clearly don’t enjoy your life at all. You’re just going to ride out your life miserably because you’re such a giant pussy.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:26 PM
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https://nypost.com/video/three-foot-tall-bodybuilder-packs-a-big-punch/ grow the fuck up
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:56 AM
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Post printed bloodwork with your username written on because this is bullshit.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:07 AM
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And? you'll still be short and ugly with no women after the surgery. No I wouldn't want to be 5'3" and balding. I do have an ugly face and lots of other genetic problems (degenerative disk disease and more). I don't blame these problems for my unhappiness. I accept them and do what I can with what I have. What you are doing is pathetic. You are afraid of owning who you are and making the most of it. You constantly repeat the same bullshit about "simply discussing uncomfortable truths" but in rea…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:05 AM
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"... most of this isn’t really my fault" can't victimize yourself much more than that. You refuse to accept your circumstance (you can't accept reality) and make what you can of it. You are an actual child for trying to accuse me of having a victim complex (you're rubber and I'm glue). Good luck being miserable, I know Blackpill won't help you live a more fulfilling life in any form. So if it's all meaningless and you will never find a woman, why don't you end it all?
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:48 AM
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and the victim complex surfaces again
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:40 AM
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No. You try again. Analyze why it didn't work last time and you invest in a new company. It's called learning from your mistakes. It makes me incredibly happy knowing that you are alone and miserable, not because of your looks, but because of your shitty attitude. Everyday I will wake up knowing that the world's biggest loser is out there feeling sorry for himself so no matter what I do (and even fail at) I'll be better than you.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:30 AM
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Yeah you’re seriously deluded. Either go jump off the nearest ledge because trying to make something out of your life is insane or get some serious help.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:04 AM
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Yeah you do. Giving up on yourself for any reason is clear indication of a mental illness that needs treatment. How about you be honest with a professional before coming to Reddit and acting like your shitty blackpill view is a law of nature. Wow you’re ugly and will never get hot girls or be a handsome actor. Big fucking deal. Life is unfair. Change what you can about yourself and go do other fun stuff. No one cares about your crying.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:58 AM
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How could you possibly have less than you have now? You’re clearly miserable and alone. What do you plan to do now that you’ve decided to give up? Post on Reddit everyday crying about how shit your life is? You clearly have some kind of mental illness and need to get diagnosed.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:44 AM
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Except it is. I promise you if you work hard and end up failing you will still be happier than if you never tried at all. You have nothing to lose and the world to gain. If what you’re doing isn’t working you change your plan of attack, you don’t give up. Trying your damn hardest is what makes a man and will get you more women and respect than any surgery.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:28 AM
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At least there’s a chance. What you are doing right now is giving up because the odds are against you. You don’t want to put in any effort so just go beat off all day and feel sorry for yourself.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:19 AM
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Alright let’s be realistic, you’ll keep up this attitude and stay hung up on your ugly looks for the rest of your life and be miserable the entire time. Why post on Reddit about it, in your eyes your future as an undesireable goblin is cemented. You don’t take advice and don’t accept that it’s possible to work hard and become successful no matter how fucking short and ugly you are.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:01 AM
2

Clearly the only thing that matters in life is getting pussy so might as well kill yourself then. I don’t believe you’re pinning test in your ass, lifting, and not making gains. Sounds like you’re a pussy who just wants to complain on the Internet.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:45 PM
3

Except those genetically predisposed to MBP can combat it with finasteride (which you aren’t) and muscle building is easily fixed by TRT, diet, and lifting. You have just centered your entire identity around being a victim and it will get you nowhere in life.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:39 PM
2

You can go online and get a script for 30 dollars without even video calling with a doctor. Minoxidil needs to be used daily for any results
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:11 PM
2

Balding? Have you even tried finasteride, minoxidil, and ketoconazole. Shouldn’t even be a problem in this day and age. Don’t bother replying if you’re going to say some shit about finasteride side effects because anyone who has done research knows it’s bullshit.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:04 PM
1

Instead of getting uninformed responses from people who haven’t done research aside from listening to some horror stories on the internet, I would consider watching some videos from people knowledgeable about the subject, like the hair loss show, Kevin Mann, and More plates more dates on YouTube.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:47 PM
2

If only there was some scientific evidence to prove that this happens enough to reasonably be afraid of but unfortunately there isn’t.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:45 PM
1

Finasteride increases testosterone by preventing it from being converted to DHT so the excess test converted into some more estrogen.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:42 PM
2

You do understand that DHT is made by converting excess testosterone right? By preventing the conversion with finasteride you increase your overall testosterone...
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:40 PM
1

After watching https://youtu.be/ekeRPx0TJqE I decided to go with 1mg mwf, the results have been great and zero notice of any side effects.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:38 PM
5

Have you considered that the side effects are related to the age of users. Most guys who are balding and turn to finasteride are in their mid 30’s+ and already have lowering testosterone levels. Thus when they come off of finasteride their testosterone drops a bit (because finasteride increases testosterone by preventing it from being converted into DHT) resulting in the “post-finasteride syndrome” side effects. There is also the potential of a nocebo effect due to the fearmongering online aroun…
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:36 PM
2

I definitely noticed when I started taking zinc. Since I started taking it 2 months ago I have had much better sleep, I get up less throughout the night and find it easier to sleep longer.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:28 PM
3

I don’t know what planet you live on but getting tan makes you look way better. It helps make your muscles look more defined (why bodybuilders show up tanned to hell for comps) and healthier looking overall, especially in the face. It also helps reduce the appearance of acne and scarring like stretch marks. A nice tan also functions as easily visible evidence that you might actually go outside and do shit.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 09:58 PM
1

Hey at least you know what you can change. Way more people struggle with this than you probably think.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:12 PM
12

Yeah I’m willing to bet this guy beats his meat everyday and refuses to recognize porn as the problem. Or he mismanages his trt. He might take too much ai, crashing his e2 to the point he can’t get hard, or his test is a bit too high causing e2 to spike and similarly makes it difficult to get an erection. He needs to quit porn and try pinning his test daily to reduce hormone fluctuation.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:38 PM
2

Thanks man. I’m just going to try to improve my bad habits a bit everyday, it just seems like so much at the moment. Your comment made me feel a bit better.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 01:33 AM
1

2.5 gpa right now but going down a bit this semester. I am going to graduate hopefully next fall. I am committed to graduating I just fucked around too much after joining the fraternity and am taking an extra year.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 01:22 AM
1

Yeah I get told this a lot. If only being tall made the self hatred go away. I am 255lbs ~15% bf right now and in the best shape of my life. It’s the one thing about myself that I work towards improving every day. I appreciate the comment though. Hopefully I can fix my shit and start killing it asap
/r/askTRP27/10/20 01:05 AM
1

While growth hormone is muscle sparing the increase is not going to preserve more muscle than eating protein. If your goal is not to build muscle, fast away.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 04:25 PM
3

There is no way anyone who lifts and cares about their physique should be fasting for multiple days.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:26 PM
1

Yeah my bad. Even then I don’t think isometric exercises are ideal for hypertrophy.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 11:04 PM
1

Don’t do trash core workouts like planks. Do exercises you can add weight to; cable crunches/chops, hanging leg raises with weight etc.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 08:16 PM
1

Yeah I’ll video him for a bit to show him following me and then call the cops if there is a next time.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 11:01 PM
2

I’m assuming you are going for size so avoid planks and such and focus on ab workouts you can add weight to; cable crunches, cable chops etc.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:27 PM
28

It doesn't matter as long as you don't unblock her and try to contact her again. Maybe no contact sends her hamster spinning and she messages you, otherwise just move on to other girls.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 10:40 PM
13

Having a roommate is a lot of fun if you get along but if they're lazy it can be harder to get shit done
/r/askTRP16/09/20 10:26 PM
23

I don’t think your mindset is necessarily wrong but 99% of the time that guys say this it’s really an excuse to put zero effort into getting laid because they are afraid of rejection/failure.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 08:12 PM
7

Yeah his text was painful to read. At least now he can’t hang on to even the slightest chance of getting back with her.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 04:53 PM
3

I got huge stretch marks on my shoulders when I was 17. Like three big scars on each shoulder. I personally like them and so it doesn’t really bother me. To stop them from getting worse make sure you moisturize after showering. They also look a lot better when you have a tan. When I’m pale they look more purple and are more noticeable.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:40 AM
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I personally think just blocking and deleting pictures/texts is the way to go. Has really helped me move on in the past. As long as you’re checking the story or whatever you’re hanging on to a tiny bit of hope that she’ll come back.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:32 AM
1

It definitely depends on how severe it is. If you can get it up with these girls I think it would only take a couple months of not watching any porn.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:26 AM
1

I don’t think not being horny would be the problem. If let’s say for the last 10+ years you’ve only gotten off to porn and your hand you will obviously have a hard time with a real girl because the enjoyment is way different.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 09:46 PM
3

How about sex with someone actually attracted to you?
/r/askTRP10/09/20 09:23 PM
2

How did you not cum? Sounds like a porn addiction problem to me.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 09:20 PM
1

Dude you aren’t going to get over this unless you cut off all contact and give yourself space. This girl doesn’t give a fuck about you. Get rid of pictures , texts, and block her social media. Meeting with her to talk and pretending it’s for “closure” is only going to make you feel worse.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 09:02 PM
2

Yeah of course. For the people I mentioned I meant more of a comparison of their physiques if they all looked the same. There definitely will be girls attracted to the mass monster look but I think having a proportionate physique that doesn't immediately make girls think you are on juice generates the most attraction.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 08:55 PM
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240lb at 5ft 8 10% means you're obviously massive but just doesn't sound like you have a very aesthetic physique. Girls would much prefer someone built like jon Skywalker or jeff seid than someone built like kali muscle. I respect the hard work it takes but I just don't see girls picking someone built like rich piano over Mike Thurston. You basically weigh as much as prime Arnold but you're 5 inches shorter.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 06:59 PM
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This isn't something you win. Just remove her on social media and give yourself time for the feelings of oneitis to fade. In the meantime spin plates to help gain an abundance mindset and she will quickly stop seeming so special. Also get in the gym and work on yourself. Listen to this https://youtu.be/FJ2jCidnFqY (ignore the title and video).
/r/askTRP03/09/20 12:30 AM
3

Definitely get your testosterone levels checked
/r/askTRP29/08/20 11:07 PM
2

Yeah it really does. I highly recommend using a daily moisturizer with sunscreen and getting tan as well. It really is a game changer.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:52 PM
1

Go for it man. Don't add the extra workouts all at once and make sure you up your calories so you can actually recover properly.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:00 PM
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Of course it matters but it really depends where your priorities lie. If you want to build muscle you need to be in a caloric surplus which is way harder to do with healthy food. Eating enough quickly becomes a chore when eating completely clean. I personally don't mind eating a bit dirty on a bulk as I've always had a much easier time losing fat than gaining muscle. All I'm saying is you could be lifting harder and heavier than your friends but if youre struggling to get into a caloric surplus …
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:54 PM
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Do you think eating healthy builds muscle? Eating more calories than what you burn is how you build muscle, which is a lot easier when you eat calorie dense food like fast food. Focus less on the nutrition and more on getting enough calories and protein. I would definitely add one or two more days to your split. Either switch to pplx2 or just add a day for accessory work. At the end of the day your program is less important than pushing yourself and putting in the work. Don't just lift till what…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:31 PM
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Yeah there will always be the naturals but there definitely are a lot of helpful resources on trp. I completely understand the sentiment behind your post and I've done the same but you need to push past those feelings and focus on what you can change.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 11:23 PM
8

Spending time on reddit whining is the opposite of playing
/r/askTRP18/08/20 11:16 PM
2

For sure man. Yeah I love how I feel on test, I’ve just made the beginner mistakes of too much AI and such. I’ve read up on some of the tren sides and it seems pretty random as to when and which sides you get. When blasting test my sex Drive is already barely manageable I can’t imagine how crazy it is on tren. That alone could affect how you are around girls.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 07:53 PM
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I’m no rp expert but if you’re on gear make sure you go easy on yourself man. I don’t have experience with tren but even just on test things can get overwhelming. People say it’s just hormones but when estrogen is crashed or through the roof you just aren’t yourself sometimes, and I imagine tren can make you feel like that. Blasting is exhausting, especially if you have to deal with a girl at the same time. You’re a beast, man. Even if this one doesn’t work you’ll be back out there grinding and …
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:42 AM
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For sure. Thanks for the explanation. I completely agree.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 10:06 PM
1

How is it untrue? Even someone who isn’t prone to MBP will experience some degree of androgenic alopecia if they go a long time at high levels of test. Hair loss prevention is a huge topic in the anabolic steroid community and affects far more than just those prone to MBP.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 06:25 PM
1

Dude you look huge in that bottom pic and the lighting is trash. You also aren’t very high body fat so you wouldn’t have to cut too much. You are doing miles better than most natty guys.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 09:50 PM
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Damn you got some big ass traps. For me personally I felt the exact same as you until I got on test. I poured so much effort into the gym but never was happy with my physique. It’s definitely hard to look noticeably big when natty but your best bet is to slow cut and get tan. It will make you look way bigger in person even if you lose a little muscle. The tan is crucial though, even if it’s a struggle with that UK weather.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 08:37 PM
3

I definitely think having an attractive face matters more than physique. I am 6’6” 260lbs and jacked but my face is a 5 or 6. I never get IOIs or interest from girls but I can manage when I work for it. My facially better looking fraternity brothers with beer bellies pull way more.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 04:17 PM
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I don’t think 2 hours is unreasonable for lifting. I lift purely for aesthetics and taking my time and getting enough rest between sets gets me way more overall volume. On the weekends I’ll spend 3 hours. Maybe if you try some bodybuilding while you aren’t competing she’ll see the physique gains and approve. I’m choosing the gym over a girl any day though.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 10:04 PM
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Cardio counts as working out. I don’t think anyone would have the same respect for a fat guy as a lean/athletic built guy when first meeting them. Working out and managing your weight takes discipline and self control which deserves respect. Just unlike scholarly achievements physique is very upfront and visible. I think it’s natural to have more initial respect for someone who takes care of themselves.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 10:59 PM
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I feel a bit similar to op but it’s more that I find it hard to respect someone who doesn’t take care of themselves/their body. It’s less about whether the muscular guy can win a fight and more just that it shows you care about yourself enough to not become a fat fuck.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 10:50 PM
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I’m early twenties and I’m on test. Overall I think it’s worth it. Very noticeable mood gains. However, It’s a lot more difficult than I expected going in. Pinning is no problem at all and takes just a couple minutes. Real difficulty is in managing estrogen levels. I expected lifting to become “easy” while on and weight definitely moves easier but it really just lets you push yourself even harder. The gains are even more than I could have ever imagined though.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 10:04 PM
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Don’t really see balding being an issue on a trt level of test. Obviously it’s mostly genetic though so if you are already prone to MPB I would avoid it.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 09:54 PM
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Come to Austin man, there is a seemingly endless amount of hot girls here. One of my brothers is an exchange student from Nottingham and he SLAYS.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:12 PM
0

Yes they feel regret... girls are human too.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 09:25 PM
2

Jordan Peterson has a lot of great content on men fighting against depression and nihilism in our modern world. I recommend checking out some of his lectures like this video https://youtu.be/Xm_2zmX6Akc
/r/askTRP16/07/20 02:58 AM
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Essentially alpha widowed by a chick who feigned being super into me only to drop me when I thought I had been acting like a “good” boyfriend. I was just being a bluepilled simp.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 08:28 PM
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Ah OK. You mentioned taking adex once a week in another comment which is an AI. However a lot of guys are low/nonresponders to adex so I would recommend getting a sensitive e2 test taken and get a hold of some aromasin asap. I've been there before man. Low and high e2 is a terrible feeling. When I was high e2 there was this feeling of hopelessness and everything piling up against me. I definitely wouldnt want to go through a break up in that state but you got this man
/r/askTRP15/07/20 06:27 PM
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Not entirely fair. Your point is true but even a normally emotionally stable person can have a tough time with crashed e2. It can feel like everything is pilling up on you and everything becomes overwhelming.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 06:03 PM
1

Is your e2 dialed in? Even when blasting I have no trouble with rage but you could be taking too much AI. Get your ass in the gym and make some gains. I put on this audio whenever I get too caught up on one girl https://youtu.be/FJ2jCidnFqY
/r/askTRP15/07/20 06:00 PM
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This video always makes me feel ten times better when I catch myself thinking about an ex especially when I first started learning about trp. The audio more specifically https://youtu.be/FJ2jCidnFqY
/r/askTRP15/07/20 05:43 PM
1

Yeah it’s tough with everything going on. I would focus on just getting into the gym and not worrying too much about a program to start. Going with push/pull/legs days makes it easier because you can do lots of different exercises and focus on the ones you enjoy.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:50 PM
2

Why not both? Cardio isn’t a replacement for strength training. If you’re happy with how you look it’s not a problem though.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:33 PM
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Not sure what these guys are talking about. I’m at a big public university in America and there are TONS of girls into video games and anime. Obviously fewer are attractive than sorority girls and you’re not going to find them clubbing downtown.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 05:37 PM
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Dude it’s tinder. Every girl who puts something along the lines of “looking for something serious” is just basic ASD
/r/askTRP03/07/20 10:51 PM
3

L'Homme Eau De Toilette by Yves Saint Laurent is amazing
/r/askTRP27/06/20 08:52 PM
2

Roid rage really isn't a thing unless you're already an asshole (which op clearly is) or you aren't properly taking meds to manage your estrogen
/r/askTRP27/06/20 04:17 PM
2

Either downplay it as trt or tell her it's the creatine lmao. Just make sure you keep your e2 in check because it's super obvious when you get puffy and moon faced.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 04:16 PM
2

Go for hotter girls. You probably just like a bit of back and forth. Lots of guys don’t get enjoyment when there’s no chase.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 09:42 PM
2

Well it can be positive for treating premature ejaculation. Drugs like Prozac that affect seratonin often decrease sensitivity and can make it almost impossible to ejaculate from normal sex.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 11:55 PM
2

Are you on any anti anxiety/depression meds? They can really fuck with your sexual performance
/r/askTRP11/06/20 09:27 PM
1

Someone once told me to set a goal of 5 rejections every day. Made it a lot easier.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 10:30 PM
3

Read the sidebar or the 1000 identical posts every week. Back off from this chick and start talking to other girls. Abundance mentality. You shouldn’t be texting her at all unless for logistics.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 10:23 PM
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I think it’s the antidepressants. People underestimate how much they fuck with your sex drive. I was on fluoxetine for a while and it was terrible.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 03:32 PM
2

How is it any different from normally gaming chicks?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 11:59 PM
3

I’m not seeing how her liking a shitty tyga song has anything to do with being interested in you.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 05:16 PM
18

I’d say maybe back off about it and give him some room to make mistakes so he learns for himself
/r/askTRP05/06/20 10:51 PM
23

Maybe if you employed red pill techniques and showed him how many girls you were banging he would listen. Lead by example.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 10:17 PM
1

I lost 25 pounds in 2.5 months over quarantine. It was easier than I expected. Lifted for 2 hours everyday and then added a 30 minute run at the end. I did it without counting calories and was pretty proud of zero cheat days throughout. First meal of the day at 1230. four eggs and a banana. Drink a bang and go workout. Drink a TON of water throughout the day. Post workout I would get a chipotle chicken burrito or eat whatever my mom was cooking (back home from college). I would avoid carbs in th…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 04:48 PM
4

Just get out of your head and start lifting.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:26 PM
5

I would get your testosterone checked. The difference in my anxiety/focus on and off test is night and day. It’s like a constant moment of clarity. Intrusive thoughts are reduced a ton and it feels similar to how I normally feel right after meditating for 30 minutes. It makes you feel very present and in the moment.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 09:18 PM
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It’s funny because you think the way you acted made you the perfect boyfriend when in reality it killed any attraction she had to you. You broke almost every rule in the sidebar and it definitely seems like you haven’t read it. Good news is it’s the perfect time to swallow the red pill and forget about that ho.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 11:24 PM
1

You just have to force yourself in the beginning and you will see the results.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 10:17 PM
3

Lol marry a Dutch girl. My parent are 6’1” and 6’2” (both are Dutch). I’m 6’6” and my “little” brother is 6’10”.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:47 PM
3

I still think this sounds like a trap. It’s classic unicorn situation. She is desperate to lock someone down and so obviously she is going to try her goddamn hardest to make you feel respected and validated. You’re telling yourself that it’s because she is Muslim/virgin but she is the same as all other women. Even if she wouldn’t eventually cheat because of her religion, the sex could still dry up. And be real if she went 34 years without, I don’t think it would bother her too much. Core of red …
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:36 PM
1

If it’s really what you want I say go for it. Clearly you know her pretty well and if she’s not showing red flags just send it.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:27 PM
2

Yeah I made some assumptions. I’m not very knowledgeable of Muslim culture and can’t give much input. However, kids is just a no from me though. Too many things I enjoy spending my time on and pursuing to throw it all away. 100% not before 35+ years old. Also if she’s a Virgin there are too many uncertainties. Maybe she won’t suck dick. Maybe she starfishes in bed. This is assuming no sex until marriage. How can you properly vet someone when you go from not being together to being married with k…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:15 PM
4

What does red pill aware mean? She is an alpha widow? You’re clearly trying to convince yourself anything about this is red pill when you are falling for a unicorn Ltr. Also 6 years older means you are in your prime. Don’t commit. In four years you’ll be babysitting the kids while she fucks some dude on a girls night out.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:09 PM
1

I personally think Ronaldo is just as much a leader as Messi. I don’t think raw skill/playmaking makes you a leader. It’s on and off the pitch. It’s the guy who gives the halftime speech and rallies everyone. This just isn’t Messi. He’s the goat and an outlier because sure his presence inspires everyone around him but he’s imo not one of the best leaders in football. De Rossi was a prime example. Not saying you’re wrong though.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 06:57 PM
1

If you watch football a lot you would know he doesn’t display many leadership qualities. While his presence is undoubtedly inspiring he is very quiet whereas someone like Sergio Ramos is constantly asserting his presence and dictating the defensive line.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:27 PM
3

I 100% recommend TRT. Supplementing low dosages of test has shown to lower risk of heart disease and has countless benefits for any man 30+
/r/askTRP20/05/20 12:23 AM
2

Holy shit a nerdy dude has seen the Matrix
/r/askTRP17/05/20 09:34 PM
1

Join a fraternity
/r/askTRP15/05/20 11:12 AM
3

I agree but I think there are some positives. Having tripped with my friends a few times on acid and shrooms I think it’s worth trying for everyone. It led me to think a lot about myself and my goals when I was in a dark place (partying and doing drugs to avoid facing reality). Sharing the experience brought me a lot closer with my friends that came from all being put in a situation where you are vulnerable/weak and everyone did some stupid shit that we’ll never forget. Also as someone who had l…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 11:23 PM
6

I’ve been living in Austin for four years now attending UT. Coming from the Bay Area. I love Austin. Texans are wonderful people and tons of stunning girls. 6th street is nothing short of amazing and loads of girls to choose from. If you want the higher class slightly older girls you head over to Rainey. Lots of the guys at sixth are nerdy minority tech dudes but end up being great to party with. Right out of Austin is Barton Springs. A nice swimming spot great for tanning/showing off the gains …
/r/askTRP13/05/20 10:41 PM
1

I looked into royal medical center and as an average testosterone 22 year old they were eager to get me on trt.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:19 AM
1

There are a lot of trt focused programs that will prescribe to anyone similar to medical marijuana doctors. You just tell them some bullshit about low energy etc.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 12:18 AM
2

Thanks man. I feel that. It’s been pretty liberating just not giving a fuck about what she does. I’m just trying to focus on myself again. I keep falling for the same bullshit and I’m glad it’s starting to piss me off.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 05:44 AM
3

I’m going to try my best to get another plate spinning and back off from her because she honestly isn’t worth competing over and I’m losing my focus on myself.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 11:06 PM
1

She gave her number to him and it’s someone she regularly sees as they are in the same class. Not used to competition along with just the fact that he was a big ass football player with stronger frame than me. I’m just not trying to be an option giving her validation until she can branch swing. Seeing someone I perceived as higher value than myself hitting on her really reminded me of trp principles and made me act cold.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:55 PM
10

Senior year
/r/askTRP04/09/19 08:47 PM
41

I had basically no friends my first few years of college. This year I said fuck it and rushed a few frats. I went in pretty drunk with no expectations and just tried to have fun. I came out with a bunch of new friends and an easy way to meet girls.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 08:18 PM
30

Dude come on. You are lying to yourself if you think anything about what you’re doing is red pill. Break up with this girl and go hard next.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:16 PM
1

Yeah you hit the nail on the head. I was only with my girlfriend for two weeks before summer and we had tried to bang a few times but I had ED. Think it was because of porn and my blood pressure medication but I should be good now.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 01:40 AM
3

Yeah it’s pretty sad. I’m 6’5” and 225lbs been lifting for 5 years. Pretty much wasted all my time playing video games and smoking weed because I was too big of a pussy to put myself out there.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 08:57 PM
1

Thanks man. I’ve been very strict on myself with limited texting. I only respond to stuff she sends and always short replies. I’ve been avoiding validating her with compliments but let some less explicit validation go through. I need to make myself less available to her but it can be tough in my situation especially when she’s asking me what I want her to cook for me lol.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:40 PM
2

With lifting it often starts out being just for girls but after a while I came to love the grind and results so I would do it even if I lost my dick.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 02:30 PM
1

Dude this summer I got a combover and started tanning. I’m already big but the attention and eye contact I got from girls at least tripled.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 10:21 PM
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This helped me a lot with my break up that made me find the red pill https://selfishkings.com/2018/05/05/so-she-dumped-you-become-a-selfish-king/ Edit: also lift fucking hard https://youtu.be/FJ2jCidnFqY
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:26 PM
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Go next or at least spin some plates on the side
/r/askTRP28/08/19 08:48 PM
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Thanks for the help. I know I have the potential and I’ve been lifting for about 5 years now but I just need to get out of my head. I have confidence issues because of my inexperience but I just need to keep practicing.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 06:39 PM
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For sure I’m very new to this stuff and it could be a bit of an advanced situation for me but even if it goes bad I take that it would be good experience. I have a bit of an advantage because I’m 6’5” 220lbs but I’ll definitely read more into shit tests. I understand the basics of a&a but some shit tests will definitely go over my head.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 05:34 PM
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I'm busy playing video games all week but you can come by and do my laundry
/r/askTRP25/08/19 06:10 AM
1

Check out some Jordan Peterson videos on depression. He's a clinical psychologist and has a lot of lectures on men who are nihilistic finding real meaning in their lives.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 04:08 AM
1

Next time take charge and just hand her your phone and say give me your number.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:46 AM
1

It’s about frame and mindset. By comparing yourself to others and telling yourself that you aren’t good enough your frame becomes weak when you should just always act like you’re the prize.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:04 PM
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Tell her you’re busy playing video games all week but she can come by and do your laundry
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:00 PM
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Talking about long term is the opposite of instilling dread. You need to make her know that if she doesn't give you sex youll get it from someone else.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 08:41 PM
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Read the sidebar. Being in love with your ltr at 22 is a clear sign of bluepill mindset.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 08:40 PM
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I'm no red pill expert but from what I understand just leave when she denies sex and stop with talking about long term. Start spinning plates because you're clearly still in a blue pill mindset.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 08:38 PM
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Yeah of course and thanks for the advice. I'm inexperienced and a total red pill noob but I thought I'd share what has helped me so far.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 08:33 PM
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As far as I understand this is the basics of the red pill and this is in the sidebar. AWALT even if you don't see clear evidence. The red pill is about bettering yourself and always seeing yourself as the first pick and acting like it. By putting yourself below these other guys you weaken your frame when you should just move on to other girls.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 08:32 PM
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It doesn't have to be to that degree but I think approach anxiety could be helped through these methods. For example men are more disagreeable than women which is where assertiveness/manliness comes from.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 08:21 PM
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Does consistent cardio give you more energy overall? I lift 7 days a week with one light day for accessory work and mobility but I'm pretty fried after most of my workouts. I currently do zero cardio. Is it worth cutting back on lifting for more cardio or will I adapt after the initial hump of doing cardio every day in the morning?
/r/askTRP21/08/19 08:05 PM
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I struggle with the same problem but to a greater extent. I see it as a problem of being too agreeable. The most successful people in life are disagreeable because they go for what they want and they don't take no for an answer. There are a bunch of helpful Jordan peterson videos on being less agreeable/less of a nice guy and I was also told to read the book "no more mr nice guy". I've also heard that cognitive behavioral therapy can help increase assertiveness.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:58 PM
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That sucks man. As someone who is very new to the rp I'm a little glad to see this. First girlfriend that I had oneitis for was almost exactly the same and the she would have done the same to me. I acted similarly jealous like you but I luckily got out early. Don't think I'll be going into a ltr until I'm older and always put myself first. Glad you learned from it and keep grinding.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 10:34 PM
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Are there any noticeable side effects? I am currently taking a smallish dose of Prozac and I feel a bit better most of the time but it hasn’t helped my social anxiety at all. I’ll talk to my psychiatrist about trying lexapro.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 11:43 AM
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How are you measuring body fat because you look closer to 20% than 16%
/r/askTRP17/08/19 04:01 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I think my desire for validation comes from my self hatred. I hated myself for being lazy and playing video games all the time but I made up excuses and told myself I couldn’t do better. Now that I’m trying to find interesting passions/hobbies and working on myself without focusing on others I hope to build some self esteem.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 03:00 PM
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Thanks and yeah this makes sense to me. Thinking about it it’s not something I struggle with as much in other aspects of my life. Thinking she was out of my league plus my scarcity mindset probably amplified this and made me act desperate. The ED also obviously made my confidence tank. I still think I need become more assertive though.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:47 PM
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As initiator you could start by setting a rule to not talk about school/nursing and disguise is it as a way to create more interesting conversation.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:31 PM
1

Is that stuff about preworkout true? I have only just recently learned about trp after breaking up with my first gf at 21. Trying very hard to get out of the bluepill/incel mindset. I quit weed and started nofap but I wonder if preworkout is also a problem. I lift hard everyday and have sick results but I basically have taken pre everyday for the last two years. I might switch to just coffee and see how it works.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:16 PM
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Thanks needed to hear this. Been pretty hard on myself after the break up but I’m worth better. I’m committed to improving myself.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 08:50 AM
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Yeah I feel that. I’m going to learn from trp but I know there are other changes I can make in my life to improve my confidence/value.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:44 PM
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Bet. I find it hard to sell myself as confident to girls when I don’t have much self worth but I’m working towards it. I’m fairly sure I could hook up with some 6s fairly easily but I don’t want my self worth to be based off hooking up with random girls.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:33 PM
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Thank you dude really needed to hear this. I only just started putting myself out there this summer and I’ve had more success than a lot of people. It’s not something that will come overnight so I just need to keep grinding and I’ll get there. Plus it’s already been one of the most fun summers of my life.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 03:56 PM
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Haha I love lil pump in nephew “I'm a millionaire, but I'll Uber pool a bitch”
/r/askTRP08/08/19 02:56 PM
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Thanks man. Pretty much exactly what my bro told me. I’ll just take it easy. Feeling a lot better already, she just invited me to pregame the formal with her as well.
/r/seduction10/05/19 07:16 PM
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Thank you for helping me out.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 05:35 PM
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I agree. Sadly it’s easier said than done.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:42 AM
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Thank you for the detailed response I really appreciate it. Luckily my anime interest only goes as far as watching a couple episodes here and there. I understand now that I need to present myself how I want to be seen without lying about my interests. I’m saving this comment for the future.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 12:36 AM
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Thanks for sharing. To me that seems like a great profile, it is concise and humorous. I will take that into mind while writing my profile. Do you think I should include my height in my profile even though it’s included when building the profile?
/r/askTRP24/03/19 12:02 AM
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Thank you for the reply. This seems like great advice. I am mainly worried about misleading a girl into thinking I’m someone I’m not only to disappoint her later. I understand now that I should focus on highlighting my attractive qualities (if there are any) and waiting until there is a connection to reveal my less attractive qualities.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 11:54 PM
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I have zero experience when it comes to girls and I lack attractiveness in terms of looks/interests (at least my mom says I’m handsome) so I think I will have little success if my standards are too high.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 11:41 PM
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Yeah I understand that is the case. I won’t advertise it in my profile. However I don’t think it’s my place to have very high standards when it comes to meeting girls.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 11:36 PM
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Thank you so much. I hope to work towards becoming more confident in myself. I will watch the video when I get home from the gym.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 11:23 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I am interested in improving myself but it would be difficult for me to drop these interests as the few friendships I have were made through video games. Anime is more of a guilty pleasure that I keep secret. I wouldn’t mind trying to find new interests but it’s difficult for me to do alone albeit necessary if I want to enter a relationship.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 11:09 PM
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