I noticed this is one of the main differences between RSD and TRP.

On RSD they believe that you should not take yourself seriously and use self-deprecation as a way to show the girl that you are not trying to qualify yourself to her.

On TRP, people say that it is a sign of weakness and no confidence and that you should take yourself seriously and be a bit cocky even.

These are 2 very different ideas and I want to hear your opinions on it. I'm honestly pretty confused.