I noticed some women i can talk crude with and say i wanna fuck them and use language like this.

Others get really turned off by it, but get really hot when i talk more descriptive and gentle with them. Like say i like the way their pussy cleches my cock etc, and i wanna fill them up and slowly tease their desire.

They get turned on by that and we fuck soon, while more crude talk and she completely shuts down and out the mood. Only time i can be crude is when im Actually fucking her and she doesn't care

Is this a shit test or just that some women are really on guard with that shit coz they feel like an object?