Texting after first date

TheRedPillRipper · 2019-08-24T11:42:43+00:00

should I text her

Strike whilst the iron’s hot. The first thing I would’ve texted her the next day would be;

”Hey I had a great time last night. If you did and want another meet me at [insert location] at 9.”

Then if she meets up The Escalator you go.

Godspeed and good luck!

Dilduo · 2019-08-24T13:59:17+00:00

Some say strike while the iron is hot

But i like to think you already did (your first date)

I could be wrong but ive stopped doing the texting the next day thing.

To me it shows your into her and are thinking about her and dont have anything better going on and takes away the mystery

Most guys will text her the next day Shes probably expecting it, try being the guy who doesnt and im sure she will be thinking "why isnt this guy texting me!!!"

I used to do the text after 3 day rule but now i even up it to an entire week, i even let a whole weekend go by. To me it shows her I have other things going on and increases my value in her head. She will probably text you first, make her chase you. If she doesnt text in a week saying "hey im going to x place next saturday, you should come"

The "should" is powerful, shows your going anyway and makes her think she has a choice on going or not

AloofusMaximus · 2019-08-24T13:54:22+00:00

So here's my experience...

Usually if they text you the same night after the date, you're pretty much guaranteed to be good. You'd have to majorly fuck something up, in order to not fuck this chick (or get another date).

If they text you soon afterwards (the next day or 2) they're probably on the fence. You should be able to get at least another date, but still escalate/build tension, and all of that stuff.

IF they don't text you within the next day or 2, I'll usually hit them up and the above applies.

If she ghosts well, move on.

CaptainKidd96 · 2019-08-24T11:16:47+00:00

If she enjoyed the date she'll most likely text you in the next 2-3 days. At least that's what I experienced.

If she's a really shy girl then I would text her in a few days and you should be able to gauge her interest level

opinden · 2019-08-24T11:14:15+00:00

Wait for her to text you. If she doesn't text you, message her a few days before you want to meet. "hey, you free on xx to go for dinner".

notaselfdrivingcar · 2019-08-24T11:35:03+00:00

She'll most likely test you, go flirt with other girls

Title	Texting after first date
Author	thatguywhatshisface
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	August 24, 2019 10:56 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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