Texting for logistics in high school

abdada · 2018-05-01T12:42:07+00:00

This is edging on NAWALT so I'll give you a warning from a much older guy -- all women are like that.

Your problem is that your texts have no value. You're probably just a boring guy. It has nothing to do with being in high school.

What are you doing to add value to your reputation? Are you active in anything that others want to be a part of?

fishguy17 · 2018-05-01T12:26:44+00:00

This is a mixed bag for me really on one hand I agree for logistics only, but I know what you mean it was the same way for me 9 or 10 years ago.

My suggestion would be to keep the text limited, people will say some cringey shit they would not say in person.

I would also express that you aren't in to texting you would rather spend time conversing in person, but you better be a fun person to talk to.

bluefingerblue · 2018-05-01T12:42:20+00:00

Texting for logistics only is simply the easiest way to give text advice. There are too many ways to screw things up via text, and not enough ways to benefit from it. So keeping it logistics only tends to shift the balance of power in your favor.

But with younger people, things are a little different. Especially since you’re not really setting up dates in high school for example. With this in mind, it’s ok to break the logistics only rule (in my opinion).

Couple things to consider though: keep it simple, don’t get overly wordy, don’t get overly serious, keep it light and playful, take longer than she does to respond, give back no more than 2/3s of what she texts you.

redhawkes · 2018-05-01T15:42:27+00:00

Your SMV is low. Don't give too much of a fuck about girls since you're high school, but work on yourself.

They want to make you an orbiter, hence your scarcity mentality and your rationalization that no texting=lack of interest.

If you're texting for logistics, she already knows that you're interested in her, and if she's into you, she'll accept.

Go for the fuck yea girls, and don't waste your time on cock teases.

Title	Texting for logistics in high school
Author	dazlgwade
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	May 1, 2018 11:57 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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