I have zero issue with talking and being my self, but texting is just awkward for me. Example, i don't even know if i should be saying good night to someone.. it makes me fucking autistic.

So i don't say good night, i just tell them im going to sleep and ignore, but it makes me feel uneasy and retarded. Texting makes me care, and makes me beta, i over think things and have too many chances to think about game etc, even if it's not my intention to get a girl i still think about it.

What do you do to avoid being an awkward fuck while texting that overthinks everything?

And how the fuck can i give no shits irl, and just be cool but thru text i become this idiot? lol.

Seems like the issue comes from me not actually being friends with the person or knowing them well enough, i don't know what they think of me either, so i tend to be unapologetic, sort of blunt, and i don't explain my self. But its also awkward too. for me anyway, and uninteresting for them.