Texting

Patches0wholahan · 2020-02-12T14:28:14+00:00

“I was waiting for you to text me but you’re busy....”

Reply: “very busy. I’ll be free at 7. Come by my place for a drink.”

MarkJohnPaul · 2020-02-12T18:16:56+00:00

When a girl texts you some emotional bullshit that’s passive aggressive you have to not judge her for how she feels while also not enabling anything she said.

The mix of shit she wrote “hey I was waiting for you to text me first but I guess you’re busy...let me know if you don’t want to see me again”

That is some seriously passive aggressive low self esteem bait that you neither can enable, or judge her for. She doesn’t know how the fuck to get a guy in another way aside from her vagina.

Anyway...

SHE ADMITS SHE’S PLAYING A GAME: “hey I was waiting for you to text me first” Full stop. You don’t play games. There is only one game, and it’s your happiness, or next.

SHE IMPLIES BEING BUSY IS CORRELATED TO YOUR DESIRE TO SEE HER: “I guess you’re busy, let me know if you don’t want to see me again”

THESE TWO ARE NOT RELATED. ME BEING BUSY HAS NO CORRELATION TO ME WANTING FUCK YOU. SHE IS EQUIVOCATING CAN’T with WON’T.

This is 101 typicality.

Option one:

“Ok.”

She’ll hamster her ass off, either text you back asking you to explain or go no contact.

Which is perfect - more time for other plates, less time for her basket case drama, and overall more time of you being on her fucking mind as a dude that she can’t control. Meaning when you text her the next time with a “hey let’s go here ——“ it’s clear cut that she is either playing by your rules or can’t handle it when she either responds or doesn’t.

Option two: If you’re feeling balls deep, aren’t worried about the loss, and want to try to set things straight the first time around.

“Sweetie, don’t be stupid. Of course I want to see you - you got a tight ass and you weren’t half bad at making out either. The point is though - regardless of me being busy or not that has nothing to do with me wanting to see you or you wanting to see me. So don’t play that waiting game with me, because you already know I want to see you..it’s selfish. Just be real with me. If you want to text me, text me. If I’m not busy, I’ll hit you back. I’m not going to judge you for being to into me, you know how ridiculous that would be?”

She’ll probably apologize and wrap it back around into someway she feels about herself: “I’m sorry I just didn’t know what was going on and I didn’t want to come off desperate or something else that is about her her her”

If she does just tell her “It’s ok, like I said, I’m not going to judge you because of how you feel” then go no contact and do more important things. She’ll text you to touch base, keep it simple, then when you want - insofar as it’s not a reward to her bullshit behavior - tell her your plan for the two of you this weekend.

grillinsteaks · 2020-02-13T01:48:49+00:00

She like you. Meet up again. Don’t let the insane chemistry walk away.

IXseed · 2020-02-13T17:32:18+00:00

Girls that play games go in the trashbin. Next time only text for logistics.

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Title	Texting
Author	JugKing94
Upvotes	7
Comments	7
Date	February 12, 2020 2:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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