The physcology behind this BS?

BudapestPUA · 2015-04-22T08:22:53+00:00

Welcome to the hamster young friend!

You see, one of the fundamentals of TRP is the FACT (they try to deny it but you are already seeing it) that women have the same fantasy: a strong man taking her.

They are attracted to that SCENARIO. It's not about YOU, my young friend, it's about the SCENARIO. If she would approach you that would be pointless because the SCENARIO is what gives her 'gina tingles.

Jojobelle · 2015-04-22T07:01:30+00:00

Yes grab her and kiss her. Don't beat around the bush. She doesn't want her permission to be asked out on a date just kiss her at school. BLAW !!!!!

alreadyredschool · 2015-04-22T08:06:46+00:00

She fears being rejected and can't approach you, as long she doesn't say "lets fuck" she still has plausible denyability for herself.

MrEiffel · 2015-04-22T09:24:54+00:00

Being rejected as a woman is social suicide. Especially since it's in a social setting she can't get away from. Furthermore you most likely missed the more covert clues from her so knows she's doing a last ditch effort to get you to move your ass and take her out.

theozoph · 2015-04-22T11:07:47+00:00

Women aren't men, they are not going to act to get what they want, they are going to get someone else to get it for them. It's an important skill for them, since historically women have been so dependent on men to provision, defend and do violence for them. It's instinct, so don't fret it.

High school years are formative years, where girls are trying out their strategies, which is why they are so clumsy and obvious at first. It's also a way to demonstrate to other women that she can get Hot Guy (you) to woo her. It's a status game.

This girl lobbed you an easy one, but it could backfire if all she wants is the validation. So first rule is : no public contact. Isolate her before making a move, don't let her turn this into a spectacle for her friends. Then run Game on her : teasing, push-pull, flipping the script ("calm down, I'm not so easy" ;) and go for it. Calibrate to the vibe she's giving off : if she seems ripe for the plucking, just grabbing her in a hallway and kissing her might do the trick.

Just remember to be the first to break off, and reschedule to a place and time where you have more leeway to push things further. "Got to go, baby. Swing by my place tonight, my parents are out" or some such.

Don't wait too long, though. Indecisiveness is worse than public display, so if you have no other opportunity don't hesitate to approach her in public and run Game. Read the Mystery Method to understand group psychology, though. When opening a group, you're not just running game on the girl, you're gaming the whole gang. They'll only let you isolate her if you've won them over.

And if you fuck it up, don't worry. At this stage, it's just a practice run.

fnordsnord · 2015-04-22T14:27:10+00:00

Because that's the way life works. WE approach. THEY select. You might as well ask why water doesn't run uphill. The why doesn't matter.

Title	The physcology behind this BS?
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Date	April 22, 2015 6:46 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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