The Restart Text.

BusterVadge · 2017-10-12T20:21:22+00:00

Don't do it. It puts you in a weak frame. "Why won't this guy leave me alone after I dissed him 2 weeks ago, doesn't he have other options?"

alphabachelor · 2017-10-12T20:15:59+00:00

I use this one all the time to restart convos.

"Just saying hey in case you got rich."

This works if the girl likes you but life got in the way.

If you were boring, needy, etc she will likely ghost once she remembers who you are. So only use this if you had a quality connection or drifted away on good terms.

mrHappyPotatoe · 2017-10-13T01:18:26+00:00

You get one chance with one girl per once in a lifetime.

bigman1090 · 2017-10-12T19:55:01+00:00

Dont do it.

Ive been there, multiple times.

Will never work. Look at other prospects.

ScottDurden · 2017-10-12T20:32:31+00:00

This will almost never work. The purpose of soft next is to walk away leaving it up to her to crawl back.

collingiles · 2017-10-13T02:23:33+00:00

These other responses are great and true. However, remember that the most red pill thing you can possibly do here is to do whatever you want, however you want, and owning that shit. If you insist on trying again, do so strongly and don't break frame. Don't be afraid to walk away, but also know you have nothing to lose.

htbf · 2017-10-12T17:56:32+00:00

What part of "soft nexting" don't you understand ?

Soft nexting = not reaching out but leaving the door open if she comes back on your terms.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-10-15T01:15:46+00:00

You're so ducking desperate. Don't you think that if anything like that worked we would've told you about it already?? Just move on, you're too desperate.

The Restart Text.

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"but also know you have nothing to lose."

Title	The Restart Text.
Author	logic-denier
Upvotes	6
Comments	20
Date	October 12, 2017 5:35 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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