Lurking for several months and finally made a new account for RP specific commentary and posting.

I met her at a bar about 4 months ago and we hit it off quite nicely; she provided her number without being asked as she left. We went on a date a few days later and she stayed the night beginning my oneitus fling. We have been meeting up 1-3 times a week since with good sex every time. I came across TRP right around the time of meeting her so she was my first RP trial. Worked out pretty for awhile.

About 2 weeks ago I noticed she was not reaching out to me like she used to. I noticed I was the one reaching out to her and wanting to make plans. So last week, as I was leaving for work, I kissed her goodbye and told her to text me when shes free next. I have not heard from her since. I decided to not play her game and have not reached out to her since either. Ive been filling my time doing my own thing, meeting up friends and spending time with family.

So its been a week now with no contact; I cant quite decide what to do to hold RP frame: -Should I just cold next and move on? -Reach out and see whats up? -No action. Continue the waiting game, doing what Ive been doing, improving myself and going out to meet people? -Something else?

Final notes: I am a bit disappointed that she is (seemingly) creating distance, however I dont want to be. I am only a few months into swallowing the pill and am still fighting off the bp habits. I dont really want to LTR her either, I have been pretty happy with where we have been.

What are your thoughts?