Like for example, I'll joke with a girl, even one I've been friends with, and she'll make fun of me for something in a lighthearted joking way, and I'll be like "haha shush" or "shut up haha" and proceed to keep things going in a friendly way and I've NEVER had a problem with this before, but they get SO pissed now. I get bombarded with angry mesages and blocked and laughed at and even silent treatment for some reason folowed by a "you upset me" or something.

It'll just kill the fun vibe all together, like as if they're autistic or bipolar. I can say this to a complete stranger guy and he'll always go along with it, but even a girl I've been friends with will get really triggered. And this has suddenly happened a lot this last week. What's going on and why haven't I had this problem until now?