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[–]SkimSTi 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
wait for her to initiate... she basically said she doesn't know right now. you offering any more again before, is needy/femanine behavior. if she is interested in you, she WILL let you know before Monday.
if you don't hear at all from this girl. wait a full week, dont initiate contact, dont text/call. wait for her to reach out, as soon as she does, make another new date, don't mention anything about her flaking for coffee.
if you don't hear from her at all after a week, try ONE more time. just very direct, set a date, with a night and time. if she gives you the run around again, she is NOT interested. girls that are into you will at bare minimum offer a counter date/time if they are busy... not a 'maybe' and leave it up in the air. if you get this flakey shit again on the 2nd attempt, you ghost completely and stop wasting your time.
remember, if brad pitt would ask a girl on a date, you think they wouldn't know if they have time? nope. they would move their entire schedule around to make it work.
[–]Mikasaop 1 points1 points1 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Thank you for your thoughtful answer, although i think i should ve sent "ok" at least but whatever we ll see
[–]SkimSTi 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
you could have. but you can also stop being so available. you DONT have to respond to everything they say. if she gave you a wish-washy answer like 'we will see', then no answer from you is needed. hence the soft next here. she will get the hint by the lack of response.
agree, edited my answer with a bit more info got any more advice based on that?
[–]SkimSTi 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
stop it right there... she has a boyfriend, and shes doing all this with you? have you had sex with her? this is an important detail you left out... also, if she has a boyfriend, and is setting up 'dates' with you, you should NEVER LTR a woman like this. she will do it to you, just as she is doing to this guy.
next time you post, don't leave out details like that, schmuck.
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