I’m not talking about an alpha widow, I’m talking about an actual widow. Someone who in all appearances was able to sustain a relatively long and happy marriage with someone and through no fault of her own lost her husband to a car accident. I generally wouldn’t consider dating a woman in her thirties because the nagging question in my mind would be “how could such an attractive woman still be single?” Likewise even if she had been married and is now single then she either has very poor taste in men or she can’t maintain a marriage or relationship, or both. It’s not everyday that one runs into a widow in the dating world. Are there any words of caution that anyone might have in regards to this?