"Nothing...okay?..nothing ...i cant feel anything for you...i tried...not that i didn't i tried..and it just does not happen with you okay.. "

Alright this is what a girl I've been dating (had sex once) tells me after I found out that she's been hanging out alot with a very old buddy of mine.

After I confronted her, she confessed that she has fallen hard for him and that it just clicked with him.

Now I have the feels for her so if it would have been any other guy, it wouldn't have hit me as hard as it hit me when it's a friend of yours. Buddy since a long time. Almost 8-9 years of friendship.

I explained it to him and he agreed to stop talking to her.

Now I know girls talk from their emotional state and maybe this will change. Because this is the exact girl that had invested in me emotionally at some point.

What should I do. Have I blown this up? Will her feelings change?