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It seems like the issue about JP has already been thoroughly discussed before, and by looking into the comment section, both ECs and non ECs make fair points about their agreeableness toward him. Here however, many commentators are too focused on their own interpretation of him, "Yes he's X but he's also Y and since Y > X, yadda yadda..." If mods really have a problem about anything related to him, there should be a collaborative post from the head ECs finalizing the issue and slapping it on the…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 07:39 PM
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TRP still has huge respect for Rollo despite the fact you dedicated an entire post on calling him a cuck. Similarly, Peterson’s political stances does not compromise the wisdom he dishes out from this book. He also enunciated rules that would be applicable not only by students, but also by people who have retired. This book seems to be catered for a very general audience, which is why the rules seem so vague.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 12:31 PM
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What a great timing. I set up a study session with a prospective plate tonight, which later unexpectedly turned into dinner, and despite the great chemistry, the reciprocity of kino, and her even initiating physical contact with me, she dodged the finale like fucking Neo. The stars could perfectly align and she may still deny you. A defeatist approach would definitely not have helped me cope with this. This is exactly what I needed to be reminded of. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 04:42 AM
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I can somewhat relate; my relationship with my mother isn’t great. Lost respect for her a long time ago. Her values, the way she views life, the way she tackles problems just don’t align with me. I don’t blame her at all because of the circumstances of her upbringing, and I so dearly love her, but part of her personality will reflect on me if I stick with her for too long. Best advice I can say given my own situation is to expand your social circle. Seek to create meaningful bonds with those who…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:07 PM
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Being blue-pilled isn't inherently bad. It just means you have more to learn, so don't take it as a personal attack. ECs know better, and the mere fact you're trying to justify yourself, ironically, doesn't help you look any better. He does make fair points. Only reason she'd jump on your dick despite all this is because she's already had her sights on you. Another girl would've meant another story. Humble down.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 02:05 AM
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I'll have to somewhat disagree. The strongest foundation of attraction beyond the physical is confidence. Not necessarily being healthy/unhealthy. Novices will often be surprised at the amount of well-groomed girls who fuck with nobodies. The underlying problem is more about their perception of such behaviors. They believe it's either black or white: "They don't like nice guys? Fine, I'll be an asshole." They don't understand that not being nice is not the same as being an asshole. Similarly, an…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 02:42 PM
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Astounding. I clicked the title with the belief the read would be underwhelming. Could not be more wrong. Have made a few unsuccessful attempts to indoctrinate some friends to TRP, but now I get it. Great fucking job.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 12:56 AM
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Try it out. What do you have to lose?
/r/askTRP21/06/19 03:39 AM
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I believe this is one of the hardest parts of accepting TRP. It is understated how much our past has shaped who we are today and built the comfortable world in which we live in. Friends are a huge part of it. I've been asking myself the same question; my friends might be overachievers in certain aspects, but they still view the world through a heavily BP lens. Cue conflict of interests. ​ We've accepted to embrace our own sexual strategy at "the expense" of women's feelings because there can tru…
/r/askTRP19/06/19 04:22 AM
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I’m cringing so hard. Can’t even begin listing the things you’re doing to dig your own grave because it’s way too long. All you did was boast about having her swallow your cum, but there’s little to no TRP in play.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 02:34 PM
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HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHA
/r/askTRP05/06/19 03:09 AM
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This is such a wholesome post. And not in a good way. I'm surprised I read through most of it because just like your interactions with all 3 women, this is so bland. Your huge block of text reeks of 1% TRP and 99% shitty BP Instagram posts. Don't forget to post another one when you catch your first unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 04:22 AM
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Been a lurker for a while, most posts don’t resonate with me anymore. I’m going back on this subreddit every day hoping there will be some new enlightening advice to my life. Totally deceived by that expectation, I just finally decide to scroll through the pages of the shitty second branch subreddit answering some novice questions while doing absolutely nothing to cope with the plateau I’ve hit. Ironically, I’ve read through this hoping I would learn something new. How counterintuitive is it to …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 03:20 PM
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All you did was stating many by-products of successful men. Changing what you do on the outside will not change who you are on the inside. The greatest asset of the man is to internalize the right mentality and to understand the world he lives in.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 04:20 AM
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The problems: You made a great catch. You have limited options. You needed closure; it showed her that you cared too much. The solutions: Realizing she's actually a normal catch, aka women offer mostly the same things. Evolve your scarcity mentality into an abundant one by increasing your options. Soft next. If there is any term you don't understand, the sidebar will do you a great favor.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 04:09 AM
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I'd say it isn't an issue. People can easily notice good advice from shitty ones. If pseudo-AMOGers find fulfillment in commenting on RP forums, let them be. You'll find bucket crabs on any internet forum, precisely because they have nothing to lose except their own time. TRP is no different.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:21 AM
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If there is any post that sets the new standard for "ridiculous", it's this one.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 01:56 AM
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We know we'll die someday. And that everything we did won't matter ultimately. ​ But we don't actively think about it, until we actually face a life-and-death situation or have a friend who bites the dust. ​ We live with a set of standard day life in our minds. We expect ourselves to eat a few meals, to hit the gym, to talk to people, and to work. Hell even to procrastinate. Death is an outlier. It's too abnormal to happen, and when it does, it only happens once. Expectations of normality thus c…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 05:41 PM
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Although people here have mixed feelings about JBP due to the misalignment of some of his views in regard with TRP, he's definitely one of the more articulated intellectuals out there.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 04:58 AM
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Plate her till she breaks. Branch swingers don't deserve commitment.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 05:05 AM
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This. High perceived SMV does wonders. LTR territory is probably not his field though.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 05:03 AM
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As Rollo has said: "Buffers are a manifestation of ego-invested preferences." Buffers rationalize your fears to enforce the perception that you're in control. Though, realistically, you aren't. Plus, no one will give a shit. People are too busy worrying about the perception of their own actions. That is where alphas differ from the rest. So, don't fall into this trap that others fall into. By taking the bolder step, you are already ahead of the competition.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/19 02:06 AM
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She raised me with the expectation that some day I pay back the deed in full. Those who think a mother’s love is unconditional are delusional.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 01:25 PM
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Hard to tell. My mother is in her fifties, and is currently single. She doesn't have a provider, so she often tries to suck some money out of me. Ever since I landed a bursary, I have to pay a monthly fee to live under "her" roof. Being a full-time student, I don't have time to work. Tuition, textbooks, food, gym, transportation are all covered by my last job's earnings. Plus, now I have to deal with this additional obligation. My relationship with her, despite having the "family" factor, feels …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 05:13 AM
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You describe the process of internalizing TRP perfectly. ​ At first, anger is felt towards the natural behavior of women. ​ Then, as you start to slowly accept it, a wild unicorn appears. As a result, you shift back to your blue-pilled tendencies, but will attempt to rationalize it because you consider yourself sufficiently red-pilled to manage/neglect it. ​ You then inevitably get a reality check through a brutal demonstration of outright AWALT behavior; cue despression. ​ This phase takes the …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 04:58 AM
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The female's biggest craving is male attention; your biggest weapon would thus be to withdraw it. Hit the gym more often. Talk to more bitches, and make it apparent. Focus on other things. Old classic dread game. But you knew that already. How about you think of some ideas yourself? TRP won't answer your question because it goes against the modus operandi. The whole point of sexual strategy is to convey the fact that women ain't shit. That aside, I think you got too much time on your hands.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 05:29 PM
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Making it big in 3 years is unrealistic. Fighting to look better than others is a shitty goal. Hate to break it to you, but your mindset still isn’t going to lead you very far. You need to accept delayed gratification as much as you accept AWALT. You may be 26, but so what? You’ve got two other 26 years to live. Be glad you’ve still got so much ahead. And stop comparing your success to others, compare yourself to who you were yesterday/
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 04:03 AM
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You're off. IDGAF stems from outcome independence. Delayed gratification doesn't apply to intersexual dynamics, because if a girl makes you wait for sex, the sex is never worth the wait; it applies more to building and bettering oneself. Plus, all you did was get a few numbers, you didn't even bother trying to f-close, let alone k-close, before giving this shitty field report. Read and lurk more.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 04:27 PM
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You rock the haircut, not the other way around. With the right frame, women will compliment all of your haircuts.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 04:19 AM
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TRP is here to maximize sexual strategy for the greatest number of people. Notions such as the DGAF mentality, spinning plates, etc. are strategies that help you and only you. It's a nice way to take off if you've been sexually deprived your whole life. Situations of sustainable LTRs, which must satisfy the needs of all parties involved, are a completely different story. After deciding to settle, the male is required to have a deep understanding of emotional intelligence to make the right judgme…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:21 PM
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Third point, which is very important is how social media is a woman's domain. This point is worth re-affirming. Social media inflates a woman's value so much more than it actually is. Land whales who have no value on the sexual marketplace are suddenly getting more attention than the average good-looking guy because of uncontrollable thirsty guys. It is more important than ever to build rapport through real life interactions.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 06:35 PM
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Absolutely not. You now know where they place you in their minds. They're not entitled to anything. These type of friends will likely become toxic as time goes by. Start expanding your horizons.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:10 PM
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This is one hell of a way to say “don’t waste your time”. Very subtle but you’ve explained it very well. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 01:46 PM
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Take a shit on their front door.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:01 PM
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No one will answer your actual question. ASD doesn't exist before phone sex (whatever that is) and everything you've told and showed us strongly points to the fact that you're needy and that you've caught oneitis. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:07 AM
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Bench rows & pull-ups.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 02:55 AM
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TIL: 1) Phone sex is a thing. 2) ASD from phone sex is a thing. Key takeaway: your neediness dried her pussy fast than the Sahara desert. Keep texting to very minimum rapport building and mostly logistics. Sidebar and next.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 02:49 AM
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TRP and askTRP are saturated with Gen Z's and Millenials. At the root of our need for feedback, we aim to reach for society's high ladder while filling our sexual needs with some no-strings-attached pussy. I have yet to understand what the hell passion means.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 12:46 AM
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Go on the main sub & look for FereallyRed's most recent post. But there's nothing better than to think one on the spot. Rehearsing a line in anticipation for this type of test shows you're heavily outcome dependent. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the conversation. Try to entertain yourself, not her.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 12:23 AM
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Follow her back, go like 2 of her pics, then compliment her looks on her best one. And finally, don't forget to go to your local Walmart to buy yourself a space suit.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 12:18 AM
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Kind of off-topic, but you won't ever see this behavior with western men. At least not in public. Asians seem to have a different mentality, stemming from their difference in culture. And I believe that this difference, which translates into a lack of display in masculinity, explains why Asian men have it harder on the sexual marketplace.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 10:55 PM
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Tell her you don't like being treated as a book. Make sure to send 2 hearts after that. You'll win her affection in no time.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 04:00 PM
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This law has always been around, just in different variations (75/25, 70/30, etc). Women prefer sharing the top 20% of men rather than settling for the bottom 80%. If you're talking about the recent trends, it's because mass advertising and social media allow the blue-pill conditioning to be spread like never before. We're the first of our kind to experience this. Every day, the gap between the top and the bottom is widened. TRP is trying to preserve the manosphere by preserving what is left of …
/r/askTRP07/04/19 03:57 PM
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You probably 1) weren't high enough SMV 2) came of as needy (your intentions were too clear). By the way, 18-second reads don't need a TL;DR.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 04:26 AM
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Buy a one way ticket to a different continent.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 04:21 AM
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Once a woman has painted a portrait of you, it's difficult to change it in the short run. That's why you never take a woman back. Plus, there are always other women out there, she ain't special.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 04:10 AM
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Don't rationalize your own state by watching those types of videos. The standard of physical attraction will never change. Go lift. There's no shortcut.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 04:05 AM
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Possession refers to the value given by others based on the things we possess. Say, a Rolex, a Gucci belt, a Lamborghini, as an example of extensive social proof. Relying on possession means trying to heal our lack of self-confidence through the validation of others. As OP has said, when you lose the thing that makes you valuable, in the eyes of other people, you no longer have any value. Production refers to the value given by others based on the thing we produce. This stems from our inner abil…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 12:26 PM
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Lmao you got me. I did ponder a bit on the logic aspect before answering. Otherwise, plausible deniability. Make her emotions your ally.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:24 AM
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This is a zero sum game. Even if hot friend drops you, you still won't like fat friend. All parties (you included) will end up unhappy as a result. However, if she doesn't drop you, two people will remain happy at the expense of the third. Ask her whether she prefers the former or the latter result and she'll make the choice without much convincing. Plus is, you've already fucked her. If anything, she'll already made her choice.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:43 AM
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By all means, Confucius. Just make sure your long beard doesn't get drenched in your drinks.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:54 PM
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Middle-Age people had Middle-Age problems. Digital Age people have Digital Age problems. It goes without saying that social media has a shit ton of pluses, hence its mass usage. But the way I see it is, it's just another phase of evolution. Some will use it to their benefit; good for them. Some will use it to their detriment; too bad for them. And by having this slow but steady divergence, the generations to come will feel the repercussions. Some kids may turn out to have better brain configurat…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 04:07 PM
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1) Cancel lunch. Give no closure to her, you'll only make her feel better about the break up. You don't owe her shit. 2) Block her on all social. Don't make yourself wondering what you're missing out. You'll fall into a loophole. 3) Keep spinning your plates. If sex doesn't cut it, take them on the occasional date. Make your interactions more meaningful, and you'll get over her sooner than you think.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:32 AM
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Hate to break it to you, but you live in a paradox. A need for validation is synonymous to a lack of self-confidence. On the other hand, self-confidence is the root of attraction. You'll find a general consensus that people prefer the composed and calculated man to the attention-seeking one. Chicks dig him. Men look up to him. So really, if you make it appear as if you need recognition, no one will give it to you. Only by being productive do people get naturally drawn to you.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 03:26 AM
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Possession vs. production. Never looked at it that way. Great fucking post.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 03:18 AM
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Four months ago, I've unknowingly gone into a variation of monk mode. While it's a lonely phase, my brain has made the assessment that the root of improvement needs individual focus and discipline. And even at that, some days I get shit done, and sometimes I don't. But at the end of the day, my lack of productivity cannot be blamed on anyone else. Through isolation, I hold myself accountable of all the things that happen in my life. Each missed deadline, each task that I miss are engraved in my …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 03:06 AM
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The issue is that you're giving too many fucks about this. Move on. She ain't special.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 02:35 AM
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Musicians if you can. Friends with different ambitions can potentially become distracting.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:43 PM
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If you feel lonely at the studio, bring someone with the same ambitions as you to the studio. Increase awareness. Parts of becoming a good music producer is not only to make good music, but also being able to sell it.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:31 PM
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If he gave a shit about your definition he wouldn't be asking.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:29 PM
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As much as I understand the logic behind it, I find it wrong to dig into someone's past to verify the credibility of their argument (if you're talking about casual, and not peer-reviewed, research-type topics.) Everyone should have the freedom to express their opinions; your political spectrum, your ethnicity, hell even your karma level should never be the main reason to have your argument disqualified. It's often not difficult to identify differences in opinion because the fundamental assumptio…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 11:14 PM
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If you read "How to Win Friends and Influence People", you'd understand why some corporate leaders would prefer taking a position of vulnerability despite their status. And often, gestures of goodwill are the solution specifically because they seem genuine. The stubbornly assertive are as ineffective as the ones who are constantly vulnerable. Appearing evil would hardly help your reputation. Being manipulative would be more appropriate.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 10:51 PM
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Your definition actually stands, just not in this post. OP's definition is contextually the correct one because it's aligned to intersexual dynamics. Your comment was deemed unnecessary because you're not even arguing about the same subject.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 10:34 PM
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We may be talking about the same incident.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 04:59 PM
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Positive. Some female students who reported were actually on the higher end of the HB scale.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 12:07 PM
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Denial induces anger. Anger will seek to bargain. Failure of bargain leads to depression. And hopefully, depression will be turned into acceptance. The reaction of one phase becomes the underlying problem of the next. Out-fucking-standing post -- this should be sidebar material. You find may a shit ton of theory, but there is NO reference to the different phases one goes through during the pill-swallowing process, which is just as relevant as any other theory.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 04:36 AM
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The Black Panther has been a protector of Wakanda for generations. A mantle passed from warrior to warrior. Now because your friend murdered my father, I also wear the mantle of king. So I ask you, as both warrior and king, how long do you think you can keep your friend safe from me?
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:43 PM
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I love this trend where 8 line posts have a TL;DR while 8 paragraph posts don't. That being said, sucks for him. Least we can do is learn from his experience. Also, what exactly did your father do during the whole process? Did he file anything on his side or did he just take the shitstorm?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 12:36 AM
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Always nice to be reminded that many, including myself, tend to fall back into this loophole. Great post!
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 08:18 PM
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Male sexual strategy and female sexual strategy are miles apart. Go on RPWomen to ask questions.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:16 PM
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No theoretical advice can prepare you for the next. Do more approaches. Each interaction is different. The advice you're seeking lies within your experience; the more you do it, the more your responses will evolve.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:25 AM
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Agreed. Although, it's good enough for a first post. Always refreshing to have examples of young blood converting to red.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/19 02:20 AM
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I visit it once a day, and while the occasional contextual situation which cannot be answered with direct TRP notions stirs up some interesting discussion, AskTRP is really just a majority of "I'm-overthinking-my-situation-so-hold-me-by-the-hand-and-guide-me-to-become-Chad" subreddit. It has become more detrimental than useful.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 04:54 PM
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That bill must be one hell of a Hot Babe.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 03:33 AM
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Feelings of security are what prevents men to live out their own story. In a world of harsh reality, the fantasy is often the only remedy. I've always been somewhat aware of that but it has never been articulated so explicitly. Nice write-up!
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 02:08 PM
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I'm annoyed that he doesn't have the abundance to be with another girl than my ex. Take a moment and reflect on that phrase. Why aren't you asking yourself this question? Instead of your friend, YOU should be living in the abundance mindset to get over this. YOU are the one on TRP. Not him. How does blaming him solve this? Solution: Keep your friend. Block your ex. Find other women. It'll help you swallow the pill earlier. ​
/r/askTRP16/03/19 04:21 AM
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Elon being an alpha or a beta should be the least of your preoccupations. Others trying to put him down are just looking to make themselves feel better.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 04:19 PM
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He's just envious of you. It has nothing to do with that law. Why are you even bothered about this?
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:13 AM
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You're faring well. Bonus points if you fuck with another chick and she ends up crawling back to you.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:09 AM
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Glad you asked. 1) Ultimately, every couple has one person more in control than the other. It just so happens that females prefer not being in charge. For homos it’s no different; one will inevitably be more powerful and that’s just how it is. The intersexual dynamic shouldn’t hinder personal growth however; being sub in a homo relationship doesn’t have much to do with self improvement. 2) People who don’t wanna get married have seen too many situations of AWALT. But it comes down to a matter of…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:55 AM
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I openly let some friends know I follow TRP. They call us misogynists, wannabes, etc. Though, they're okay with me as long as I don't exhibit any asshole-ish characteristics in a repulsive way.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 10:08 PM
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I'm tired of this bullshit quote. We're not fight club. Promote TRP at your own expense, it's that simple.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 10:02 PM
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Your attention > Her essay Her essay > Black Mirror Somewhere between getting home and smoking, you should've gone for the kiss. That's on you, but re-initiate soon. By the looks of it, you may as well land the lay on the 2nd date.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 03:51 AM
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TRP has many "rules", however these rules are only guides that address one particular problem. As a general rule for texting, you minimize it because you want to imply that your time is valuable. But if a green light was given to text outside of logistics, people will no longer follow the primary rule. That's why you should mostly judge for yourself. If you need to establish a bit of rapport before a meeting, go ahead. If you want to keep it straight to logistics, go ahead. Life isn't black or w…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:41 AM
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Some are fortunate enough to be exposed to the pill through early stages of their life. Some got exposed to the pill in an attempt to remedy to a certain life problem. And some don't ever get exposed to it. I'm part of the second group; raised by a single mother. While I would've preferred having a fatherly figure in my life, I'm fucking delighted not ending up in the third group. But each carry their own advantages. While naturally red-pilled people come often with the advantage of coming on to…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 05:14 AM
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Open-ended questions are your go-to. Instead of asking “Did you like the movie?” you gotta go with “How did you like the movie?” or “Why did you like the movie?”
/r/askTRP08/03/19 05:19 PM
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Your casual shit test. It doesn’t matter if you’re not as tall as long as your rebuttal is good. Next time, say something like “Napoleon was 5’’7 when he conquered Europe.”
/r/askTRP08/03/19 05:15 PM
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1) Yes 2) Yes 3) No 4) No 5) No 6) No 7) Yes
/r/askTRP07/03/19 11:23 PM
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Why didn't you add some rhymes for a cherry on top?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 10:03 PM
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Exactly. I also believe OP but certain formulations seemed absurd. Rarely do prople praise evil, as he says, but they instead feel attracted to the unconventional, bold, dominant fellow who can entertain everyone.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 04:25 AM
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Abundance.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 04:08 AM
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Your last paragraph sums it up pretty wel what you should do. You know you shit. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 04:07 AM
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Her: “What’s your horoscope?” Me: “Cow.” Her: “But that doesn’t exist.” Me: “Horoscopes neither.”
/r/askTRP06/03/19 11:59 PM
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"You can still be my GF but I'll find someone else to fuck."
/r/askTRP06/03/19 06:41 PM
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This isn't "don't shit where you eat", this is straight up illegal. No one in a position of official power can have a sexual relationship with their subordinate.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:45 PM
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If you can't tolerate this type of disrespect, unofficially demote to plate. Let her know through your actions that she did something wrong, and she'll know. If you go for the talk, you'll end up proving your insecurity. She's not entitled to exclusivity if she hides shit like that. Keep your options open.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:36 PM
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Women always lie about their past. Don't initiate any talk. Just keep your options open.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:05 PM
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Keep feeling worthless. Height won't change it.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:04 PM
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Don't ask next time. You're giving the final decision to her. Watch what she does, not what she says.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:59 PM
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Feminism is a society-wide shit test.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:57 PM
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Any question for theory clarification goes rightfully to askTRP.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 04:28 PM
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Good shit, keep up your current habits. Also, since you're new, increase visibility. Do some research into your university's clubs and run for executive positions. Every university normally has a week of intense partying before the beginning of the semester; see if you can apply as coordinator, leader, or volunteer. Finally, look for a part-time job. You've got 6 months, it'll set a base for interpersonal interactions, plus you're earning money and experience.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:43 PM
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Bring this to the askTRP sub.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 03:26 PM
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where I could be away from the clutches of endemic feminism/sjw culture Feminism is currently one of the biggest shit tests thrown at men. Confront for a change and learn how to pass them. This is a good guide. men still have some value and haven't been declawed and become nothing more then domesticated pets like in the west This is a bullshit statement. The 20/80 rule holds everywhere. The only ones who aren't domesticated are the top tier richest people. It's not by becoming a farmer that you'…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:09 PM
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There are 2 explanations to your particular situation: 1- You think you know everything that is happening but you don't. Your RP guy, despite appearing alpha, still has beta tendencies which women can see through. And your BP guy, despite appearing beta, has alpha inner-traits. 2- You're living a situational outlier.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:48 PM
1

Don't pound her too hard on the first try. She needs time to get used to it. So start slowly. Once you've built a certain standard, you can move up thereon. Ten minutes for starters. Then twenty. Then thirty. Should I just cheat and find someone who will? You're the one to judge that. If an unwilling LTR is worth less than anal, then move on. If I were you though, I probably wouldn't. ​
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:26 PM
2

It's their true nature to be AWALT. It's our true nature to fuck them nonetheless. We were biologically wired to function this way.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:19 PM
1

Looks can land you a ONS or a plate. Nothing further.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:14 PM
1

I second this.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 11:53 PM
3

Brotherzone. "G"zone. Orbit. Call it whatever you want. She wants to feed off your attention.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:51 PM
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I'm just saying that realistically (at least from my perspective) , there is mostly an illusion of control. "Freaks" don't think that way. If you want to become a freak, start by changing that mindset of yours. Life is like a more RNG version of Poker, where you can do everything right and still lose. Absolutely disagree. Having the winning hand does not make you the winner. but the more opponents there are (7 billion people) 7 billion people aren't competing for the same thing. Besides, the mos…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:44 PM
1

is there another way to spark attraction ? Hmmm. he is an asshole to everyfucking body and he's able to pull chicks like a magnet ? There you go. You answered yourself. Confidence > Looks Oh, and sidebar. ​
/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:22 PM
1

Although they're often not mutually exclusive, there's a thin line between confrontation and keeping frame.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:13 PM
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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. The "freaks" you define have a purpose. Goals. You have none. If you think current celebrities have been nothing but lucky, of course you'll blindly wander through your life believing that opportunities will magically fall into your lap. They don't. Everyone has a success bar. The more you hone your skills and spend time learning, the more that bar will fill itself. You're not ensuring your success, you're increasing your chances. Sometimes, that bar wi…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:10 PM
1

Don't justify yourself to me. I only gave my insight as an outsider. You've already planned on pounding that pussy, so go ahead. The only one who can talk yourself out of it is you.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 06:10 PM
3

This isn't only about your friend. This is about your work. You started your post with "I don't like to shit where I eat." Your final question though was "Should I shit where I eat?" You're being fucking delusional.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:49 PM
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This new girl came to our unit and I thought she was cute but I don’t like to shit where I eat You're doing well. We make out (because fuck it, why not) I take that back. By the looks of it, she's no LTR material. Plate at best. It's just your turn. Your pal, on the other hand, has already built a tight relationship with you. He also shares the same social circle. The answer is obvious. The damages aren't done however. Your goal forward is to minimize it. ​
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:41 PM
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has been texting me constantly, saying she loves me, etc. I love you more haxewep24. she is pretty I'm prettier. Keep me on a pedestal. Now, just stay put bud, you're exactly where I want you to be. haven't had any plate/ltr at all That's the problem. Texting means jackshit bud. Keep your options open, she won't settle for you.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:27 PM
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Girl i was into a year ago Too soon. Ignore her. You still have orbiter status. Find other women. I apologized for acting like a bitch Never apologize for that. You're giving him green light to pull the same stunt on your again. He's in the wrong, not you. ​
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:19 PM
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Read my recent post. It’ll shed some light for you.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 02:12 PM
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No difference. Own up to it. Girls like guys who appear to be liked by other girls.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 02:10 PM
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What exactly is TRP? The Red Pill serves to preserve the manosphere. To create strong men. It does so by equipping us with a set of tools that help build inner discipline, sexual strategy, and professional success. Why is it quarantined? Our community is regarded by the outside as misogynists. As a movement that promotes toxic masculinity. Reddit doesn't like to have this subreddit being easily accessible, hence the censorship. And what is TRP view of my condition and how to solve it? You seem t…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 04:01 AM
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Phase 1: Meet up & catch up. Phase 2: Escalate & plate. If she crazy, you know the drill.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 03:43 AM
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You entered her frame, but by the looks of it, the relationship is salvageable. If we're going with your assumption, apply some dread and focus on other aspects of your life.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 03:34 AM
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If you're conflicted, go read what I posted on the main sub a few days ago.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 03:22 AM
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What she does outside of your meetings doesn't matter. Find other baskets to put your eggs in.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 03:15 AM
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ex girlfriend (F31) A past ex is a hard next. The more you dig, the more you'll bury yourself. Keep your other plates spinning. ​
/r/askTRP04/03/19 03:12 AM
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Guy A cuts 5 trees a day with a used hatchet. Guy B spends half the day sharpening his tool and cuts twice as many trees throughout the other half of the day. Paychecks won't make you rich. Building the right habits will. The time you spend honing your skills and your hobbies will make your life more productive. Smart working > Hard working
/r/askTRP04/03/19 03:08 AM
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Made a post a few days ago. Give it a look.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 04:03 PM
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Love, for what it’s worth, has been the most romanticized topic through history. The Red Pill hates it. Romanticism make people delusional. Our society of blue-pillers are a perfect reflection of that: they are compelled to the idea of finding their magical unicorn and will happily provide for them, while unbeknowst to them, their unicorns are getting fucked by red-pillers. Their sexual strategy is messed up precisely because concepts of "love" have been internalized throughout their upbringing.…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 04:44 AM
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Meditation is key. Headspace has a whole kit that helps you develop a different relationship with anxiety. Check it out. And yes, fuck the company.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:11 AM
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I made a post about this not long ago, give it a look.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 04:18 PM
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Grades to school is what SMV is to social perception. Although grades show on the surface one’s knowledge, memorizing skills, etc., it often reflects their time management skills, their ease to convey ideas and their hard work. Similarly, while SMV includes physical traits, status, it also digs into one’s confidence and other forms of social proof. Although being jacked, it only unlocks the door to women. Only real, well-rounded SMV will help you open the door with ease.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:37 PM
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Ok dawg.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:48 PM
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You can’t calculate the probability, but you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. Also, with FOBS, I’ve noticed that the iceberg is usually bigger than with women of other ethnicities. Make sure to make comfort building a priority.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:36 AM
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What’s up with the “break it off” comments? Just unofficially demote her to a plate & fuck other women. AWALT even though she might not ride the CC, so it’s your surest way of going through this situation unscathed.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 03:11 PM
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You somehow attribute your downfall to that one interaction. But if that white knight ended up stealing your girl, it was surely a combination of many things, and that event was probably very insignificant. TRP teaches you to give selective fucks and to be outcome independent most of the time. If you’re gonna try and win every argument, you’re seen as being insecure. Speaking from personal experience, your frame improves if you are constantly being tested. Two-year-ago me would’ve related a lot …
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:18 AM
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Totally forgot I was on TRP. Made me laugh out loud a few times. Very enjoyable read!
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 03:51 AM
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Read the link on the sidebar called "How to use dating sites". While you can skip half of it if you're exclusively texting, the full read is suggested.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:26 PM
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Give me an S. Give me an I. Don't give me the D. Give me an E. Give me a B. Give me a A. Give me an R. Spell that out n' check it out, cuz there's no shortcut.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:56 AM
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What are you concerned about? Concerned is a big word. I'm increasing my chances. The assumption of being a prospective sidechick might turn her off. Why you going on a 3 hour first date? Falls perfectly between 2 uni courses. ​
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:40 AM
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Tried on the only one I had today, was very noticeable.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:20 AM
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Soft next, reinitiate next week, and if still no luck, drop her and fuck other women.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 01:48 AM
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>"Porn gives me an abundant mindset." >"Playing video games gives me a sense of achievement." No one here will rationalize it for you. You won't build power with your current habit.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 09:00 PM
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Her coworker would’ve become a satellite at best.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 03:34 PM
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You are the 5 people you hang out with the most. Minimize your time with your family and spend it with people with whom you believe can help you acquire some manners.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 05:25 AM
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You can’t negotiate attraction. Best way to get over is to keep yourself distracted with other women. Block her outta your life & go lift.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 05:20 AM
2

Just tell him to own it up. If he plates them with confidence, they’ll gladly comply.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 05:17 AM
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Re-reading it? You can spend that time reading better books. 48 Laws of Power is for the most part an underwhelming read.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 05:05 AM
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He’s swipping 4’s and 5’s. He’s posing as a Chad because he’s not hot enough. Do I need to explain more?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 11:04 PM
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You answered your question in your question.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 10:31 PM
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His frame is weak. He’ll do that whenever he craves a small power trip. Don’t fall into this frame and retort, you’ll lose yours too. Either change the subject, ignore him, or agree & amplify.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 10:31 PM
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Seems to me your SMV is low. Go lift instead.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 10:21 PM
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Truth is, everyone comes to this realization at some point. They heavily requestion the purpose of their existence and put themselves in a mindset of “carpe diem”. Reality, however, is that very few people will keep such an idea ingrained within themselves, because it’s considered irrational to live every day like there’s no tomorrow. Death gives life meaning, but death shouldn’t drive you to do the things you want to do. Your values do.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 03:30 AM
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This hits close to home. I was literally at your spot one year ago and I was raised by a single mother. Here’s my advice: Keep the gym going. Hard. Obvious benefits include a gradual SMV increase and better physical health, but it also feeds your self-discipline. Lifting without feeling pain doesn’t help; achieve your sets until exhaustion. Rince & repeat. Make friends at school, if you don’t already have any. Interpersonal influences play a big factor in shaping your prospective goals and, more…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 04:36 AM
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Soft next. I suggest keeping her as a plate for the time being and fuck your other plates to calm down your crazy hamster.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 04:17 AM
1

Can you drop the link please? I’m interested too!
/r/askTRP07/02/19 02:08 PM
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Everything went wrong. Drop them completely and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:33 PM
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I find it enlightening when you say explain that the fear rejection doesn't make sense in modern times. We're living in a society that currently offers so many alternative options, whether it be jobs, goals, or women. You made me realize that the abundance mentality we so deeply promote about gaming applies, in fact, to every day life. Rejection doesn't matter when you have so many options. Solid post.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 05:13 AM
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Dunno what yall talking about, TRP works for me on mobile (at least through a browser).
/r/askTRP01/02/19 01:24 AM
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Correction: Porn, video games, and weed have filtered men.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 04:35 AM
10

You forgot to add /s to your whole comment.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 03:19 AM
2

I believe the lens through which you portray these things are the most basic of problems. You seek women, success, and a lean body because they are physical validations of your worth. You need these because they will convince yourself that you're significant. In that sense, your confidence was never healthy to begin with. The solution, as I see it, is to picture the things you do in life in a different manner. Priorities should be set as followed: Physical well-being > Success > Other pleasures …
/r/askTRP12/01/19 05:21 AM
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Using your own "controversial" experiences to back up your points isn't convincing. Relaxing is a good habit, but the methods you've outlined aren't. Weed, for example, has negative consequences on the long run, as stated here. People can say "drop out of school if you want to become rich," but statistically speaking, people with an academic background tend to have more financial stability than those who don't. Next time you decide to write a post with advice, I'd suggest you add external source…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 08:40 PM
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This. I'm no longer looking at that sub, because I feel that AskTRP is more and more becoming a place where guys try to find shortcuts in dealing with women. They constantly dish out TRP vocabulary to make it seem as they understand the fundamental basics of TRP, but in reality they're almost always neglected. This sub is the only one worth looking at once in a while.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 04:05 PM
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And get a brain scan
/r/askTRP14/12/18 03:18 AM
2

She doesn’t need to be girlfriend material, she just needs to provide some good sex. If she has the hottest body you’ve seen up to date, plating her seems like a no brainer.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 02:51 AM
2

Nothing you’ve written suggested that you’re red-pilled. (Not taking orders =/= red pilled) Your co-workers may dislike you simply because you’re being a liability to the company. “Kneels before women when she is emotional that her PC isn’t working [...]” seems like you like neglecting context. They need to bend down to look at the problem, they’re not kneeling to show submission lmfao
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:21 PM
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“Read the sidebar” Admittedly I’ve never finished reading it
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:17 AM
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You said you've read the sidebar 3 years ago, but if you're not applying anything well of course nothing's gonna work out for you. Lemme give you an analogy. Is technology overall making you life easier? If the answer is yes, then you're basically taking the opposite stance of old people who don't like technology. But you KNOW that you're right because technology has helped you in so many ways, and their point doesn't stand because they're too stubborn on their old ways. The point is, you're act…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:10 AM
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I see the following as problematic: 1) You don’t have abundance mentality - If you had a few plates, you wouldn’t care what direction your conversation with a hottie would be going. 2) You have a weak frame - If you were convinced that your value outclasses the hottie’s value, you wouldn’t care how the conversation would go. You’re not supposed to be entertaining her, you’re supposed to entertain yourself. 3) You’re WAY too outcome dependent - The previous 2 points exist because of this. Your pe…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:30 PM
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I’ve mentionned that flexing and having high SMV are not mutually exclusive. You can have the Rolex complement your outfit while still having a strong frame.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:42 PM
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ANALYZE. ADAPT. OVERCOME. Nah but honestly you need to give more context. You stressing about shit tests you don’t even know yet. Sounds to me you’re already losing frame. If you wanna take her back, pass them, if not you shouldn’t even be worried at all.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:27 AM
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Weird flex but ok
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:15 AM
1

Have a look at Stephen Duneier’s Ted Talk. No universal method exists for everyone but that one stuck well with me.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:37 AM
1

Yes you acted like a creep. Imagine a stranger getting off at the same stop as you and follow you for 30 seconds while trying to engage as what you called a “lame conversation.” And no she won’t ruin your reputation. Chances are she doesn’t know your name and even if she did, you’re at most 10 seconds of gossip material. People forget these events unless you’re persistent.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:34 AM
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Four years ago I read halfway of that book before giving up. Now I remember I have some unfinished business. Kudos to you!
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:26 AM
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You seem to have no purpose on the long run. No goal on the short run. Perhaps that’s what’s keeping you from taking the initiative to leave. You also seem to have hit rock bottom. Nothing can be worse. That’s your cue for getting out; you don’t have much to lose. Every additional day is not worth the shit you’re receiving. Get out once you can manage to formulate a plan. I can’t relate with your situation but I gave you the advice I’d do if it were to happen to me. Good luck.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:18 AM
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What’s up with those “fight him” comments? You’re 17 mate, you should continue focusing on school and not let this guy mess with your frame. Take calculated risks: fighting him seems like a bad idea. You’re giving Joe very high SMV; according to TRP standards, any girl would drool over him. Your sister is no different, you should understand that. And it seems that this isn’t an issues between him and her, it’s between you and him. I’d say continue working on yourself and keep making him jealous …
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:09 AM
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Your life seems to be the following: work, porn, reddit, sleep, school. Asking if this might be a problem is rhetorical; in the TRP standards, you absolutely know it is! Start by working on yourself, such as hitting the gym and focusing on your hobbies. If you don’t have one, feel free to explore, I’m sure you’ll find one. In the meantime, you shouldn’t aim for women; your own work should be building on yourself. A recent post in the main TRP subreddit showed that men’s prime range between 20-40…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:13 AM
1

Maybe the lack of women content disappointed you
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:04 AM
1

Music's effect on each person is different, so this is definitely the answer I needed. Thank you.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 05:59 AM
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I’m 19, and last summer, I was into this girl. She was also kinda into me too, and we hung out pretty often. Knowing absolutely nothing about TRP, I stuck to the “looking for a relationship” mentality. Fwb was a taboo concept to me but she shared the same thought. Thus our relationship was couple-oriented and not physically-oriented (at least I was thinking at the time). Anyways, one night I go to her place. We do small talk for a few hours and I subconsciously applied a bit of kino (shoulder ru…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 04:48 AM
2

Each category of individuals have issues related to their category. Poor people sometimes struggle to eat, while rich people sometimes struggle to climb the social ladder. Similarly, guys have guys’ problems and girls have girls’ problems. We want what we don’t have, but ultimately, you should embrace who you are!
/r/askTRP21/11/18 03:56 PM
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Unpopular opinion, but dancing is one hell of a nice community. Dancers tend to spread positivity rather than being assholes. At least in my area. My school hosts annual dance shows that welcome over 1500 spectators every year. Introverts who have started dancing at my club become a lot more outgoing after. It’s a fun experience!
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:14 AM
2

Watched a Ted Talk today, the speaker explained how everyone has time for anything if they prioritize it. Same goes to this woman as it goes to you. Perfect example: going to the gym > a date with a UB4 but HB9 date > gym. She doesn’t prioritize your offer because her other stuff are more valuable in her eyes. It’s an obvious soft next.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:06 AM
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Right fucking answer. You shouldn’t be thinking “man, they’re only doing this to me.” No interaction should feel like a burden. If the focus on you makes you uncomfortable, shift it to something else. If they can feel it hinder your frame, they’ll continue. Keep your chin up, if you’re valuable to the firm, they are ones walking on thin ice.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 03:59 AM
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Regardless if he listens or not, you did what you had to do. Tell him. The goal isn’t to guess whether or not he’ll apply it, the goal is to inform him. Sooner > later Plus, there’s no guarantee that he’d listen to you after the break up either.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 05:32 AM
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I usually have plans on Friday but when I don’t, I read a book. It’s a form of relaxation, it helps you stack knowledge, and you’ll slowly want to drift to sleep after a few hours. Optimally, if you do, you’ll end up waking up earlier on Saturday morning, and you’re on for a energized day!
/r/askTRP17/11/18 04:50 AM
1

You’re 13 days old. That explains it.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 04:40 AM
1

How are you not an endorsed contributor
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:24 AM
1

Get involved in the more popular clubs. Participate more in class and feel free to ask questions to your peers. Make yourself present in the distinguishable aspects of school, the rest will gladly follow!
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:15 AM
1

Thank you for this. Especially the last 2 points.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 02:59 AM
1

I'm going through something similar, where I've been trying to keep a wholesome facet my whole life. Discovered this subreddit about 2 weeks ago and there are a lot of interesting topics that give me a whole different view about living your life/setting goals. Haven't taken the pill yet but I believe TRP encourages you to set aside your social validation. Ultimately, those insecurities should never prevent you from having fun. Live everyday like it's your last.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 02:18 AM
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You need to understand that it's never usually 1 factor that helps the dude get the girl. You're all over this thread complaining about "how looks triumph everything else" and how calling her the hottest is "fucking beta." This girl started to talk to him because he was overall a better hookup: he had better looks, he struck with confidence, and probably did other stuff you didn't do (that you are also not aware of). CONTEXTUALLY, the combination of his approach was better RELATIVELY to yours. T…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 02:02 AM
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Yes
/r/askTRP01/11/18 11:48 PM
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This. Don’t try to assert dominance over them. No matter what, close friends should always view each other as equals. The equilibrium of dynamics of power is necessary to keep a lasting friendship.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:42 PM
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Coincidence? You’re not predestined to be successful with a certain hair color. Maybe you’ve been hitting it good with 28 brunettes outta 30, but try 1000. I’m sure it’ll even it out. Don’t pay too much attention to it.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:20 AM
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