Hey all,

I've been speaking to a lovely girl the past week. I couldn't take her out last week due to wisdom teeth extraction and this week because of conflicting schedules.

On the first day we texted we ended up having phone sex with her sending pics. We kept in touch until Saturday (we watched the movie her at the same time, talked about our lives) when we had phone sex again, this time her opening up even more about her ex.

I didn't text her Sunday as I was busy and I wanted to give her some space since she was dealing with the flu over the weekend.

Today I received these texts. ASD https://imgur.com/a/RzIvQ04

I ended up calling her on the spot (fuck waiting on her time.) and told her I "legitimatrly want to show you a good time" She seemed hesitant about our discussion on kink and that it seemed very important to me. I told her "It's just a facet of my life. There's the part of me that's in the bedroom, the part that enjoys travel, and the part that wants to take you out next week and show you an amazing night out".

Her qualms basically came to this;

  • I'm nervous things will be awkard between us if we have sex and it doesnt work out.
  • I don't think I'm compatible with your lifestyle in kink

I told her it's less of a deal than she thinks and I'm cool with whatever happens. I got her giggling a few times, but she ended the conversation "we'll have to talk more about this tomorrow"

What should I do? I haven't met a girl as birght as her and I really do enjoy her around. I haven't had anyone give me this much resistance after we broke a few barriers down. She apparently hasnt had sex since January and I could understand why she is nervous after a 4 yr relationship.