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PPL, Reddit PPL or Coolciada’s PPL
/r/askTRP27/06/19 08:18 AM
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How so? “Why” is a dumb question and she is smart enough to know it. You can shit test or call her out on the social awkwardness, I don’t see why either wouldn’t work for you.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 07:47 AM
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Yeah you’re reading into nothing dawg.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 07:31 AM
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Either treat as shit test or treat is as the dumb awkward question it is, give a slightly confused look and say “uh, because I thought it’d be fun and I want to get to know you?”
/r/askTRP27/06/19 07:29 AM
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If this happens you’ve already fucked up big time along the way.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 05:55 AM
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For women, 6th street is ass. Wouldn't recommend.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 06:52 AM
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It’s a bunch of betas who recycle what they’ve read. So fucking true, I'd bet less then 30% of ACTIVE commenters here actively live the life they preach.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 03:56 AM
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Do your research on workout plans and diets so you aren't one of the 90% of high-schoolers who completely waste all their time at the gym and have almost nothing to show for it years later.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 03:42 AM
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How do I answer if i've been with anyone else but her since her? Don't. That's private information. how do I ask if shes been with someone else since me too? Its been 2 months. Thinking about it I feel like my heart will drop if she said she has been with someone else since Of course she has. Curb you social autism, why would you ask her a question you know you don't want to know the answer to? Man up and accept that if you don't have a girl locked down shes going to fuck other people. Great way…
/r/askTRP20/05/19 01:22 AM
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Just think of the fact that girls love bigger guys I'm aware, which is why the gym is my home away from home. No amount of other people telling you that will be make you see it for yourself Not what I asked for, I asked for for personal anecdotes on how much people weighed before they got attention-worthy results, more to motivate myself to keep pushing more than anything.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 04:57 PM
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Bro you didn't even get one reply in and you're already asking for advice? You guys need to learn basic communication skills, you won't be able to log on and have people feed you one liners when you see her in person.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 12:23 AM
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I mean yeah. If you’ve been working hard to that point you should have SOMETHING promising. If you don’t, you’ve been fucking up.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 12:51 AM
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What happens when she does something really fucked up or embarrassing with you while in public? It’s a huge festival, disappear just like you would in a normal date but easier. Festivals are full of horny girls. Find someone else. Maybe I’m biased because I love festivals anyway. I understand why someone could lean either way.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 12:49 AM
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Who cares, if it works for you do it
/r/askTRP27/04/19 09:18 PM
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Or you’re just old? I’d go on a festival date as a first date. Have some confidence and a sense of adventure. Plus, festival = excuse for your date to see you all day with your shirt off. Once she sees the other girls start mirin she likely stat grabbing up on you.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:11 PM
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I just read online recovery time is 1-2 weeks. Take a week or two off work, you can afford it. Make an ass ton of smoothies before hand or pay somebody too. Stock the house with pain pills, water, Gatorade, toilet paper, Advil, etc, and power through.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 01:58 AM
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Its such serious thing holding you back in such a serious way and you don't even know the details?
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:28 AM
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That was with wearing the mask at night?
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:19 AM
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What kind of care would you need and why won't your family?
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:19 AM
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bachelor's of science in computer science and I work at a grocery store. I've had friends in that program and its difficult, how did you learn nothing and still graduate? be making $20-$25 an hour Chump change, my friends with 0 experience and your degree are making double that out of college. Thats like an A+, an N+, and a couple years experience. Start going to the gym non-negotiable. You have 4K, pay for your surgery.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:08 AM
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It was end game. I paid for the tickets. I wasn't gonna leave. Then don't be a fucking pussy
/r/askTRP26/04/19 11:55 PM
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Reds flags out the ass from that guy. That lady could be being honest and that job doesn't come with a relocation bonus, so shes offering you some from her own fee so you are more likely to take it. let’s not get hung up on that I'd walk then and there, UNLESS this is miles better than any other offer you can get. Six hours away? Nah bro, I wouldn't risk it.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 11:39 PM
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If it really happened like you said and she wasn't joking it is a pretty bitchy thing to do. I wouldn't take action yet, just watch closely. Maybe it came out wrong or you misread it.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 06:38 AM
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Desperate thirsty lazy “yes” men are ruining relationship dynamics for everybody.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:59 AM
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I've seen this porn before
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:39 AM
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I think your overthinking it, she doesn’t live around the corner, she’s almost an hour away. Taking morning traffic into account for me I would only be able to hang around for about an hour or 90 minutes before having to leave again. She wasn’t injured, she wasn’t in the hospital, I don’t think it’s unreasonable to come over ASAP after work and maybe spend the night.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:21 AM
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Against the grain here but if she was just a plate and I had work at 7AM I probably wouldn’t go drive 45 minutes at 3 AM unless I went to bed early and was super well rested. I would definitely go after work though.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:11 AM
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It’s literally the guy from yesterday yall, I can’t anymore
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:08 AM
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Made out with a couple of smokers. Almost threw up in their mouth each time, the taste is disgusting and they made my car seat smell like lung cancer
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:25 PM
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Who knows how many people she’s fucking, use a condom you nasty fuck
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:21 PM
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I see this happen but only with trashy girls. People who smoke like people who smoke.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:17 PM
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You’re a total defensive little bitch, hope you know how to turn that off around the ladies or they might think you’re one of them.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:20 AM
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What level of dread did you hit? Any examples of things that seemed to get to her more than others? I love hearing about dread success stories.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:17 AM
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The Grand Autismo finally gives us a number! Maybe 18 more posts and we’ll have enough to give you some advice.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 01:05 AM
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Learn how to hide your retardation The only evenly slightly identifiable thing I left out was age. “Look honey, it’s that 25 year old 5’11 140lb 15% bodyfat kid from Reddit who eats 3000 calories a day!” Satisfied? I realllly hope you're just trolling man, if you legitimately have these kinds of problem solving skills and social disconnect in life you are going to have a HORRIBLE life. You probably already do. I read below you don't track calories or macros. You have to do it at the beginning un…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:40 AM
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“Look honey, it’s that 5’11 140lb 15% bodyfat kid from Reddit who eats 3000 calories a day!” I hope you really aren’t that autistic. Nobody could identify you based on basic height weight diet information. Curb your autism.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:12 AM
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If I could change one thing it would be starting to lift when I was your age and actually knowing what I was doing. Make sure you research thoroughly to avoid being part of the 90% of high school lifters who don’t know what they’re doing. Being jacked as shit can be the social fast pass in college, as long as you aren’t weird or awkward.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:18 PM
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I thought a soft next was permanent, you were right. Thanks.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:32 PM
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How is it tolerating if I don’t speak to her for a week or two and cancel plans? That’s pretty much the definition of not tolerating something.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:22 PM
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I don’t want to soft next based on one occurrence on an otherwise spotless record. If I can squeeze another month or two out I’ll be happy.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:12 PM
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I’ve heard it’s a a bad idea, I’ll reconsider. However I would still 100% feel betrayed even if I wasn’t seeing her anymore and it looks like most people here would too.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 06:23 PM
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She’s the definition of a plate at this point, I’m fucking three other people regularly and it’s perfectly likely she is too. My issue isn’t with her, it’s with my friends immediately jumping onto her behind my back within 48 hours
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:06 PM
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“I’ll leave when you leave”
/r/askTRP09/04/19 10:47 AM
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What if they’re at your house? How to unawkwarldy ask them to leave?
/r/askTRP09/04/19 09:39 AM
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Classic overthinking. It’s okay though, it shows you’re willing to put effort in to not fuck it up. If your neighborhood is the only one that has things to do, why not your neighborhood? What’s the alternative? 15-20 is a bit of a walk for her to come to you, both ways, especially for a FIRST date. Second? Fine. But not first. So you’ll pick her up. You really should learn to be able to keep up light low effort conversation while driving. Doesn’t have to be now, but that’s kind of an important s…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 09:36 AM
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She might be trying to get you to overthink, in which case it would be working. Why didn’t you set up plans on the spot? HB9.5s are busy and desired, and they usually aren’t too patient. Maybe she made other plans. Perhaps she just wanted attention. Perhaps she will make you wait like you made her wait. Either way your only play here is to ignore and see if she comes around. In person I would personally pretend like it never happened, unless she brings up how you haven’t hung out then I would jo…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 08:15 AM
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The problem is if a girl insulted me by straight up calling me ugly I feel like I’d call it then and there. That’s childish and offensive and adults don’t act like that. I understand “women are children” but straight up insulting is past being acceptable. Why not just tell her to leave? Not because you hurt my feelings, but because you’re not worth the effort of putting up with you being rude and immature?
/r/askTRP09/04/19 07:30 AM
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I asked above but I’ll ask you too, when agreeing and amplifying a shit test that’s a straight up insult doesn’t it look like you have no confidence or you won’t stand up for yourself?
/r/askTRP09/04/19 07:06 AM
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You seem like you know what you’re talking about, so how do you agree and amplify when she’s straight up insulting you about your face or your nose or a weird chin or something? Agreeing “yeah I’m super ugly, I won contests as a kid” just looks like you have no confidence and won’t stand up for yourself. Reversing it back on her by telling her that her nose is too small for her face or her tits are too small just looks like you’re butthyrt and trying to hurt her back. Perhaps it’s all about just…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 07:02 AM
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I was trying to ascertain whether or not he smelled like ass
/r/askTRP09/04/19 07:00 AM
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no she not she’s acting mad She’s ignoring you. She’s pretending you’re nobody to her. For a girl, that’s acting like it never happened. Based on what you said, we can’t conclude she’s mad, unless you left out info. Mad would be glaring at you, or talking shit about you to everyone else in class or her friends.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:08 AM
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Sure, I’ll take a look, pm me
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:53 AM
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I’m talking about after the connection, whether that be text or dm. She tells you she has a boyfriend. Just an “Okay, cool.”?
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:52 AM
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Exactly bro. You aren't doing too bad, and your texting wasn't horrible, you just need to learn when to pull the chute and its WAY earlier. Once you enter her frame over text like this and give her something for nothing theres no telling whether or not anything will happen. I'd invite her to one last thing. Ignore any excuse about not being able to make it, if she wants to hang with you she will reschedule. If she goes, great. If she doesnt or makes an excuse, you will only have more time and ha…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:13 AM
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Do you work out? If you had been working out correctly this entire year you'd already be above average Are you fat? That explains that Do you dress like shit? that explains that Hows your hair? Nicely styled by a barber? Are you rocking a pube beard or pedo mustache? Do you have yellow or otherwise gross teeth? Do you shower twice daily? Do you have a gross or weird accent/ speech impediment?
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:09 AM
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Shut up before she gets bored and tell her to come over Or keep, keep teasing until one of her other 1000 matches beats you to the punch
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:06 AM
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Bro stop defending. We can tell whats going on just by reading this conversation. She was delirious and flu ridden and doesn't remember convenient parts of what transpired but remembers other convenient parts? She just HAPPENS to delete the entire convo? Get your head out of your ass, thats the biggest load of shit I've seen in my entire life. Obviously how she felt about you changed since she sent you nudes. Obviously she using the most bullshit excuse on the planet to avoid being responsible f…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:04 AM
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She's acting like nothing happened, literally, so I would so the same. If you didn't do anything weird or awkward of rapey she just wasn't attracted enough to fuck you which happens to everyone starting out. Be cool. Own it. If anyone asks just be honest and say you don't know what happened.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 02:58 AM
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"I had a good time too, I'm just having some girl code struggles about it." I would play dumb and reply "What do you mean?" Maybe she has no intentions of calling it off at all but wants you to help her feel less guilty. Maybe fat friend is having a crisis and trying to push a "If I can't have him, nobody can" scenario. Don't know until you ask.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:43 AM
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All that I know is that once, I created a tinder with my plate for fun, and she had 999+ likes in 12 hours. I've seen the tinder of less attractive female friends and they still got a match almost every time. Guys are willing to shoot down a few points for an easy fuck, and women are not. Lots of girls don't actually use it to fuck but more for validation/attention or to funnel guys to their instagram/snapchat. My last LTR linked her fitness instagram to a tinder to do just that, not only did he…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:25 AM
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Yes. Also, and depending on your sense of humor, she could just be teasing, although thats less likely. You can ignore them if you want, but she might say it again later or even step it up. Ignoring something like that could also potentially make you look butt-hurt. Personally its easy enough I'd just handle it there.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:18 AM
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one girl says she wishes I was taller or bigger physically in general Could be real disrespect but most likely shit test. I'd jokingly say "I wish I was too, and I also wish your tits were bigger/you were skinnier." Either way a good reply. She can't get offended, because she said it first. If she gets mad and says she was just joking you say the same and smile. If she throws a tantrum you know either she was disrespecting you or shes just a bitch not worth the time.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:09 AM
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If you are disciplined and committed you can 100% recover from this like it never happened. Work your ass off. I’m talking devote yourself to work. 60-70 hours if you can handle it, if you aren’t studying, you have time. Money is the barrier holding you back from your next steps. Destroy your credit card. Give up drinking and drugs, as you already have. It’s money you can’t spend and a vice that will suck you back in. Pay down your credit card debt. Most student loans have options to delay payme…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:44 AM
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I understand. The good news is you see you’re wrongs and you’re trying to rectify them. 24 isn’t too old, there are people who live their whole lives like that. How did you get your credit card debt? One emergency? Paying bills? Or buying shit you didn’t need? If it’s an emergency and you had no choice I understand, if it’s because you bought shit you didn’t need then I hope you’re smart enough to not do it again or at least cut up the card. 150$ a month? Not bad. How close are you to finishing …
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:13 AM
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If it breaks, you don’t get to use tinder.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 04:04 AM
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Yeah but matching rate in that app sucks if you’re a huge pussy
/r/askTRP31/03/19 04:01 AM
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Who knows. For whatever reason she wasn’t into it. She said she was “scared”, maybe you were creepy, maybe you failed too many shit tests, who knows. I say just try again. If it was me I would have said “let’s skip going out to dinner and I’ll make you something” since the ball was already rolling beforehand. Take her to apartment. Smash. Slide her a bowl of captain crunch when you’re done and let her cuddle up while you watch a movie.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 03:57 AM
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Lots of people use monk mode as an excuse to be unsociable. What do you consider monk mode to be? What actions do you exhibit that you consider “monk mode”? Go outside, talk to people, ask girls out, get rejected, get over it, learn, rinse repeat, don’t get into another LTR yet.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 03:54 AM
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24? Holy shit, you fucked up. Controlling parents as well? Fuck them, I tried living at home after I turned 18 and didn’t even last a year. Took every penny I had and I almost went homeless but worth it 100X over. You make like 12$ an hour before taxes. How? What have you been doing in the 6 years since got out of high school that you make as much as a high school student folding clothes at the mall? Are you depressed? Or just unmotivated? Do you have vices that hold you back, whether that be fi…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 03:50 AM
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Looks/popularity/confidence/athletic prowess for men. Almost exclusively beauty for women. It’s pretty juvenile but it was even like that in our record of some ancient civilizations. Even for adults passion/purpose doesn’t mean much on the sexual market if you don’t have anything to show for it.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 03:43 AM
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*so how do i initiate? please don't tell me it's a bad idea or encourage me to leave it alone. * Oh boy
/r/askTRP26/03/19 02:32 AM
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This really isn’t tricky at all. You did nothing wrong. Unlikely they are best friends and share stuff like that, don’t mention it and she probably won’t. If she does, laugh about it, tell her the truth, make sure to tell her girl whatever was stuck on her ex/was weird and move on. If she tries to make you feel bad about it fuck her anyway, that’s an asshole thing to do. Also, a lot of thought into a girl who has a huge chance of flaking considering you met on an app.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 02:21 AM
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High school is the best place to pull girls on the planet at your age, if you can’t do it there...
/r/askTRP26/03/19 02:05 AM
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Be warned, they are cowards and will resort to “why are you so mad/I was just joking/you don’t have to take everything so seriously/I didn’t mean anything by it”
/r/askTRP26/03/19 12:23 AM
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Could be shy, could be you’re creepy, could be she likes you, not enough context for us to tell.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:54 PM
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This much effort and thought and you haven’t even smashed? Just a tinder hoe? You lack the sidebar knowledge to know she doesn’t want to fuck you. Never should have asked her more than twice, max. No mansplaining, no trying to tell her to just uber, just an invite and no reply to a rejection. You came off as creepy and desperate.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:52 PM
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I didn’t say it could fit into everyone’s schedule, I just said it’s not that uncommon. If 2 times a week is plenty all the more power to you.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 12:17 AM
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If you’re in an LTR sex once-twice daily is totally possible if your frame and attraction is right.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 11:30 PM
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What the fuck is wrong with you? First, you don’t break up with a plate. You stop taking to them like any other human being. Second, “sometimes” she threatens to claim rape? As in multiple times and you didn’t leave? If anything happens to you it’s your own fucking fault for being stupid. She will go balistic if you start ignoring her, it’s a gurantee. Hopefully she doesn’t know where you work. Hopefully you have a garage to park your car in because there is a 90% chance she will try to fuck wit…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:46 PM
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Don’t feel bad bro, you didn’t know how happy you were with her until she left and you thought you could keep her around. That part is fine, but by going back and agreeing to be her plan B you kind of shot yourself in the foot. Either way sounds like you learned and your head is in the right place now.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:40 PM
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You had the opportunity to LTR her and you said no, so she found someone who would. You should have accepted that. Calling her in the phone and telling her you’d call her in weeks/months makes you look like a little bitch. Should have accepted it and moved on.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:45 PM
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Go to the gym 5-6 days a week, that should be non-negotiatiable. Sex once every 2 or 3 days is nothing.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:35 PM
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Do you get sex regularly? Do you go to the gym?
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:24 PM
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100% agree. Purely physical and confident body language.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:12 PM
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Get close and put one or both hands on her hip, if she rolls with it pull her in close, boom you’re in, escalate to kissing and then leave. It’s a high stakes play and you have to do your best to get her attention before hand, but not In a try-hard way. If she turns away, or brushes it off, or gives you a weird look laugh or roll your eyes and and go try again with someone else. Don’t be afraid of rejection because it’s a gurantee at least some of the time. Again, if you aren’t hot this won’t wo…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:04 PM
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In that kind of dance floor where you can’t even hear words I’ve found dancing close to them and eye contact followed by just jumping in is the best way to go, as long as you are okay with rejection. It won’t work every time, and if you aren’t hot your results will suck.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 08:40 PM
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Yes, don’t tell me why I’m wrong, just insult me with your shitty grammar and syntax. Classic sign of a moron. I looked through your comments, you haven’t given single good comment on the entire sub. Everyone disagrees with you. You sound autistic, lonely, and stupid. Bye.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 04:17 AM
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I was raised in a cult, I want freedom. I want more than one girlfriend in my life. She’s emotionally unstable sometimes and I don’t want to deal with it. I don’t OWE her to try and fix it if I think its unsalvagable, like many relationships are. You sound like you haven’t read the side bar yet, pretty shitty advice bro. It’s not selfish to walk away if you aren’t happy.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 04:10 AM
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What wrong with you? I’m unhappy in a relationship. You say it’s dickish to drop her with warning, and even more dickish to drop her with no warning. What’s the fucking solution Einstein? You just created an impossible scenario
/r/askTRP23/03/19 03:48 AM
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More dickish than dropping her on the spot after a year with no warning?
/r/askTRP23/03/19 03:41 AM
1

Not happy. Want to see other girls. Two weeks so she can prepare so I don’t just dump her as soon as she leaves. Seemed like a nice thing to do.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 03:13 AM
1

It was an act if survival. Honestly honest paper she’s not bad, just super needy and more than that I want to fuck around.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 03:12 AM
1

Jehovah’s Wittnesses
/r/askTRP22/03/19 07:39 PM
1

Committed LTR so no active plates I can stay with, let alone for two weeks, just some girls I know are on “standby” if you know what I mean.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 06:12 PM
1

Yeah. I think so. I thought it would be fair if I gave her a heads up so she didn’t think I abandoned her at the last second.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 06:06 PM
1

That last part about girls making out at a party and and it being considered “hot” whereas if a couple straight guys do it people lose it is so true.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:48 AM
16

i sent her a pic of me posing flexing Don’t do this unless you are a middle schooler im quite stocky and muscular Are you bulking? Do you look fat? If not, classic female response to buff guys. Maybe they’re pretending they aren’t impressed. Maybe they’re turned off you sent them that. Maybe they’re intimidated you’ll look better than them as a couple and they’ll have to step it up. Treat it as a shit test or ignore it. Don’t worry about it, just don’t send stuff like that.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:46 AM
1

I didn’t want to break her heart either. Also was conflicted because on paper she was perfect, she possessed all the traits you described, paid for her own things, respectful, courteous, cooked, cleaned, worked out. I just wanted variety, I wasn’t ready and people tried to make me feel guilty for it. In the end I made the mess much worse by going along with her anyway, and just as hypothesized, I made the situation much worse later on.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 11:19 PM
1

I would stay for the practice. Unless she’s totally being a bitch or blowing you off I’d keep trying. Practice makes perfect.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:57 PM
1

Kino then kiss then fuck. If there’s no response to Kino you aren’t turning them on and you need to practice. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:57 PM
1

Read my posts, do I sound like feminist? I could tell the conversation wasn’t going anywhere, we inherently disagree. If you think someone walking away after 6 messages of arguing is a submission I have news for you when you get to first grade. Yes, I forgot the details of the argument and fucked up. Yes, I thought this argument with was another in the same thread. There were several other people saying all bartender = slut. I disagree with them, not with the fact that it’s higher risk. If you t…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:40 PM
2

I try to touch her legs with mine but it seems like she pulls away/isn't responsive. Same with light kino on her arm. So you thought you should try to kiss her? I hold her close and ask her if she's going to kiss me in a playful way Cringe. At least you realize that. She laughs and says she's too shy She’s not into you. Not bad at all since you’re just getting started. Try again.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:37 PM
1

However, I can’t help but think I’m “selling my stock early” by making the next level of commitment to her. I still go out with friends and get plenty of IOI’s from good looking women and have had many opportunities to cheat on her that I’ve turned down. I’ve been here. If you’re already feeling like this and you aren’t even gotten married yet it won’t go away, it will get worse. 26 is very young to cash in, especially for an upper tier guy like you. Compounded with the fact that you haven’t tou…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:31 PM
1

Logged in to see this wall of text and there is no way I’m reading all of this, I’m over the argument, and it sounds like you’ve flipped to agreeing with me. I skimmed and saw you threw in some fancy RP terms here and there. Good job bro, here’s a cookie. See you around
/r/askTRP01/03/19 12:49 AM
1

I agree.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:27 PM
1

Multiple times. I’ve been here for years. Please show me the link for every bartender being a slut always.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:32 PM
1

Cheating more or less always comes out, especially from more “loyal” girls. With you’re kind of logic I bet your girl is sucking ten cocks at once right now, better go check bro. Im trying to understand what you’re saying but you’re typing like a middle schooler who’s failing his classes. Why is this sub a cesspool for stupidity?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:31 PM
1

No one is suggesting any type of "controlling" except you. Are you shitting me or can you not read well? OP is controlling her by telling her she can’t be a bartender. If OP doesn’t like it he should leave, not mateguard. You're also trying to dismiss the AWALT principal by asserting that not EVERY bartender is a slut which is a subtle way of suggesting unicorns blah blah No, I’m not. AWALT doesn’t mean every bartender is a slut, unless by slut you mean someone who would cheat under the right ci…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:26 PM
1

So I should assume every time a woman I’m with that goes to six flags or the gym or her bar tending job she’s getting down and dirty? Seems like a feasible way to have an extended relationship
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:06 PM
1

Elaborate or gtfo
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:05 PM
1

So if you don’t trust her not cheat when she’s alone ever, why let her do anything when you aren’t there? Where do you draw the line? Why not lock her ina closet?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:05 PM
1

I totally agree with most everything you just said and stated that several times. Other than her looking for an excuse to to be in slutty inducing place. That’s impossible for you to know based on just the information we have from op. Maybe she just wants to be a bartender. Maybe not.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:18 AM
1

Oh please, and how do you know they didn't cheat? Because they told you so? Gathered statistics over a long period of time. You do realizing when applying your logic it’s impossible for them to actually ever be faithful right? There’s a threshold at which all woman cheat. You’re going to honestly tell me that that threshold is working as a bartender for EVERY women? Fucking idiotic. Some can handle it. Some can’t. There’s one way to find out, and it’s not by mategaurding like a beta bitch. Why w…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 10:40 AM
2

he point is that you should be prepared to hard-next any girl without a second thought the second you find out that she is cheating yes to do what you can to prevent it from happening without compromising your frame. Any kind of attempted prevention is stepping out of your frame. Any form of attempted control is stepping out of your frame. Set your boundaries. Leave her if she doesn't comply. Breaking up because you don't want to date someone with a higher chance of cheating like a bartender is …
/r/askTRP28/02/19 10:06 AM
1

Keep in mind they're also stupid and you shouldn't let them wander into traffic Getting a job bar-tending for extra money hardly equivelates to wandering into traffic. Hyper emotional beings wired to bang the most masculine guy in a room won't do well if they're bartending With that logic they wont do good anywhere masculine guys are present, such as clubs, bars, gyms, coffee shops ect. You could consider any of that "Wandering into traffic" and that sounds like another excuse to control them be…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 10:02 AM
1

Can't ignore it forever. When friends start doing this, you have to make a stand and if they don't listen, cut them off. Faost42 provided a perfect guide for dealing with such behavior below, I would study it and take it to heart.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:57 AM
1

Disrespect as in busting your balls? Or disrespect as in openly trying to humiliate or put you down?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:24 AM
1

Need more details. What happened? Who started it? Physical fight?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:12 AM
3

Really feels like you're in the wrong subreddit. I've been here for years. Stating that ALL individuals who bartend are whores is fucking stupid and I'm absolutely going to call it out. I think the point is that she probably already is AWALT doesn't mean automatically assume the worst of every woman at all times, it means all women are perfectly capable under the right circumstances, which I agree with. now she's gonna get put in a place where hard work meets opportunity. I'm not denying its a g…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:09 AM
2

So you're creating a no win situation then and its safe to assume everyone is cheating? 90% of cheaters spill the beans at some point due to guilt, especially women. Not all women cheat. Many, yes.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:00 AM
0

she was a good girl till now and I might give it a shot and observe how she behaves... Till now? My friend she hasn't done anything yet. Give her a chance or not but don't count it against her. However if she sucks dick I will never know... You could say that for any girl, bartender or not. But usually the especially loyal girls can't keep secrets for long. You don't have to let her if you don't want to, I'm just saying its not an immediate red flag.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:28 AM
-2

Absolutely 100% not true and a blanket statement of that magnitude makes you look stupid and immature.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:27 AM
0

If you're not okay with it then very well, but I wouldn't entertain the fantasy that she would turn into a cock-mongering whore just because shes being complimented all night. That kind of mentality shows that either you don't trust her at all in which case she could very well cheat on you anyway OR you are over insecure and defensive. She was always loyal and deleted every guy that hit on her on Instagram etc. By her own volition or because you told her too? She’s just trying to make more money…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:11 AM
2

Yeah they make great money and they suck great dicks. What? What kind of clubs are you talking about? I know multiple women in LTRS who worked as bartenders and didn't cheat. I don't know what country you're in but I've never heard of a "female bartenders are whores" stereotype.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:53 AM
5

Also ask for several references from past boyfriends, as well as her parents.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:43 AM
14

"Yeah it was a black guy with 20 inch cock and he would fuck me in every hole and I would come 5 times in 20 minutes." Yeah you're right I would feel like shit if my girl got to live my fantasy
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:41 AM
4

Don't feel too bad, I did the same thing in my first LTR. You learned your lesson about talking about exes and learned that women are rarely honest in their depictions of past sexual encounters. Lots of women like to be treated like a dirty whore in the bedroom but will deny it afterwards and even flip the script in their own head. Totally normal.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:27 AM
16

But one thing I’ve always been curious about is her previous relationship prior to me. Mistake #1. Don't. So we’ve spoken about it and she claims her ex or whatever “forced” her into sex So she claimed rape. A story that shows that she was willing to sleep with the dude went all the way too his house and all that Duh. why she lied saying she got forced into it, Classic hamstering. Either to make you feel better about her being "used" before you or to make herself feel better about it. Either way…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:15 AM
-2

So whats wrong with her being a bartender? They make great money, especially if they are an attractive female. Its a fun job.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:09 AM
2

Once a week? Not texting for days? Doesn’t sound like an LTR. Out of curiosity, and not saying you’re doing anything wrong, but why LTR her when you see and speak to her so infrequently?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:36 AM
3

Keep in mind high value chicks are frequently busy. Always throwing out “come over tonight” the day of won’t be effective.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:21 AM
1

That’s hilarious man, although I’ve heard worse. Next time you’ll be ready.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 03:02 PM
3

Excuses on excuses. I have a lactose intolerant friend who’s jacked. There are alternatives.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 02:08 AM
2

2-4 grams a day? Are you shitting me? Try .75-1 gram per POUND OF BODY WEIGHT. And that’s not even all you need to track. Caloric intake and what percentage of those calories are dedicated to protein, fats, and carbs are how you build muscle effectively. The gym is half or less of the battle, the rest is the kitchen.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 02:03 AM
5

Wow you used protein? How aren’t you Arnold yet? Protein alone isn’t enough. Especially when taken in an improper quantity.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:54 AM
1

Time in the gym doesn’t mean shit if you aren’t spending it properly or eating properly. It’s a biological fact with proper diet and muscle testing you WILL gain weight. Some people easier than others, sure but NO WAY no results for a year and a half. And yes, you are being lazy for downvoting comments you don’t like like a little bitch instead of fixing your routine or hiring someone to fix it for you.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:51 AM
2

The point isn’t who will be seen first; obviously they can’t conpete, nobody is arguing that. The point is just because you can’t have a Bugatti doesn’t mean you should turn down a Porsche. But you are just ready to make excuses and no matter what anyone tells you you will make an excuse. Go be lazy and wallow in your shortness if you want.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:35 AM
9

Attractive people have more relationship opportunities because they are attractive. Attractive people are less willing to put up with bullshit because they are attractive and they have options. Less attractive people are more likely to cling onto what they have do to lack of options. This is also why they are more willing to put up with bullshit. One in the hand is worth more than two in the bush for them. Of course, there are exceptions. The best one is whichever makes you happiest.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:05 AM
15

So... you’d rather be short and skinny/fat than short/buff? So basically you’d rather have no redeeming qualities than at least one? Stop using you height as an excuse. Go back to the gym. Don’t you at least want to be proud that you played the hand you were delt as best you could? If you wasted a year at the gym and made 0 progress you were fucking up big time. You didn’t stop at 1 or 2 or 4 or even 6 MONTHS and say wait a minute, what I’m doing isn’t working at all, I need to re-calibrate to s…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:01 AM
2

Depending on age most likely judging your financial status or if you guys would be alone together at your place. Not a bad sign at all, just don’t waste interest via text.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:35 AM
5

Motherfucker were strangers on the internet, do you really not know what you want in a woman??? Do you want her to work out more? Do you want your apartment cleaned? Your clothes washed? Do you want her to get her hair done? Do you want her to dress differently in public? Do you want her to not text you during work/studying? Do you want her to stop bugging you about something? You have a wild card, decide what YOU want.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:33 AM
6

Don’t waste time and tingles texting about bullshit like living arrangements (unless you were just talking sexual and she wants to know if she can come fuck). Tell her to meet you at (time and place) and she can ask all she wants.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:30 AM
16

Cold hard facts. Not going to lie, this is something I have a hard time with. Can’t tell you how many times I’ve made eye contact standing in line at coffee shops/food places just to have the girl plant herself directly in front me while we wait for the food to come out, even moving from her position 20 feet away depending on where I stand, usually not head on, like an off angle or her back to me. Not really sure how to open to someone like that. Compliment is the easiest in to start a talk with…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:27 AM
2

Can confirm, it’s like a sign of success for them to have guys begging for a message back like a peasant.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:20 AM
1

I’ve been looking at TRP since I was 15, perfectly likely.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:16 AM
9

Impossible for anyone to say for sure online without spending time around you. It could very well be old people in your life rejecting you not taking their shit anymore, but it could also be you’ve turned into a conceited douche.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:15 AM
1

A B)Do they all tease each other or just you? C) Bust their balls back in an equally playful manner and see what happens. If they ease up then you know.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:43 AM
59

As long as she didn’t say it in an offended or angry manner I would laugh, role my eyes, and say something like “Yet.”
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:40 AM
1

Would you turn in your or your friends weed dealer to the IRS? Stop trying to make it sound like it’s not just because she’s a hot girl.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:28 AM
1

Either your family is a group of assholes, youre an asshole and they all don’t like you, or, the most likely option, they are busting your balls because you take it and are easy prey. Still shitty, but not uncommon.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:25 AM
14

If a girl can’t make a plan but doesn’t offer to reschedule drop it. If she wanted to see you she would make time or she would reschedule.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:23 AM
3

You sound like an angry basement dwelling virgin.Who cares? E-girl adds me on Snapchat Oh definitely, I’m sure she added YOU.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:21 AM
233

I admire your willingness to walk away but it could’ve been a simple shit test. Unless she yelled at you seems like a pretty over the top reaction.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:15 AM
1

Your friends sound retarded
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:13 AM
2

So fucking what? She still let it go on too long, it shouldn’t have got to that point. She’s your girlfriend. He’s her friend. Light resistance when he mentions her body doesn’t count. I’d tell you to stop defending this hoe you just met who wouldn’t defend you but considering you almost immediately went long term I know you’re desperate and will say whatever makes you feel better to rationalize her behavior. See you back here soon when it doesn’t work out.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:11 AM
1

Thanks for the tips. Like I said above, I’m fairly new to night game, however day game I do just fine. I’m a pretty physically attractive guy, what’s my best play in a club/bar for quick extraction? Show up with a friend or go solo?
/r/askTRP06/12/18 05:30 AM
1

Thanks for the social media advice. Also, I’ve never done night/club pickup game. I’m fine at day game and most people would consider me an above averagely physical attractive guy, what would be my best play at a club? Do I need to bring a friend to not look creepy?
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:03 AM
1

That’s the ideal setup isn’t it?
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:00 AM
1

Even then she rarelys leaves for buisiness or vacation.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:00 AM
1

That’s the thing, I really don’t need the crutch, and I’m going to have fun in this college town regardless, I know it would be easy mode but I’m trying to think of how to implement it without it looking like that’s what I’m trying to do, or like a douche. Is it as simple as pulling up to lights and asking for numbers? Or waiting at parking lots and asking for directions? Perhaps I’ll have to figure it out as I go. And yes, he’s a very good friend.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 12:22 PM
2

I suppose this is best case, being that it’s not my car and my friend is very unversed when it comes to women. So I guess play like normal and if they notice it helps and if not nothing is lost.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 12:05 PM
1

Lease break is 3K, it take every penny from my savings account. Place is a studio so I can’t just find her a new roommate.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 04:46 AM
1

She doesn’t make enough to afford the lease herself
/r/askTRP14/11/18 12:20 AM
1

Trying, it’s 6 months left or a 3,000.00$ Fee, which is my entire savings account.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 11:50 PM
1

Trying to let her off slowly so she doesn’t go insane, I do still live with her
/r/askTRP13/11/18 11:50 PM
1

Jehovah’s wittnesses. I would consider myself a handsome man, however on the thin side.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 08:24 PM
1

I’m aware of what I’ve done, I’m hear for advice on how to fix it, your statement and insult adds nothing. I can only guess you’ve been cheated on your heart was broken, so now you lash out at anyone who makes the same mistake.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:53 PM
1

Little bit worse than Mormon, they actively enforce shunning and sex before marriage is cause for shunning so I was celabit and turning down pussy for a LONG time, which is one of the reasons it’s so hard for me to keep my dick in my pants.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:49 PM
1

Yes, but sexual loyalty has been a big problem for her in the last and I fucked the last person on the planet she’d want me to fuck, my ex she has a complex for. Pretty sure it’d break her.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:08 AM
1

I wish. I can’t even look her in the face now that I’m home. We have a vacation and plenty of parties planned and idk how I’ll pull it off. This guilt is fucking me up and I really wish it wasn’t.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:06 AM
1

She was botching and having an emotional breakdown until 4 am while I layed ever with my pillow over my ears. Ex texted me to stay “why is your bitch stalking my social media” I said don’t know but she’s acting wild so it’s no surprise. Finally I just got up and left. My ex said she was in town and we should hang out. Guess what happened.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:03 AM
1

I know that now, I thought I could handle it. Guess not.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:58 AM
1

Then I’m stuck living with a crazy woman for 6 months. Good plan.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:06 AM
1

Manipulative mode incoming. She’s been a huge bitch lately, if I withdraw both physically and emotional she will consider it her fault and go into overdrive of both trying to fix it and guilt. On one hand this will cause her to be more understanding if I tell her why I did it, on the other hand it could make her withdraw as well, get some new dick, feel guilty and tell me, when I can tell her and be off the hook.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:17 AM
1

I hope I’ll forget about it, I know girls are replaceable but I’m an empathetic guy and it makes me sick, just hoping I’ll get over it before our lease is up.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:03 AM
1

I’m aware of what I did, I’m aware of the morality of it. My point is the only reason people tell their SO after cheating is a desperate attempt to clean their raging guilty conscience, not to “be honest”, which is a completely selfish reason, wouldn’t you agree?
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:01 AM
1

The girls a freak and is used to sex 1-2 times a day every day for the last 8 months, thinking if maybe I withdraw for a while she’ll start to look somewhere else, worth a shot?
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:59 AM
1

So for 6 more months I live with a frantic woman who hates me, brings guys back, and it’s a studio, so I either have to fuck girls in front of her or go to someone else’s house 100% of the time? I’m good, I’ll just wait it out.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:55 AM
1

I mean it makes sense. The only reason you would tell is to rid yourself of the guilt, which is a selfish reason because not only would she hurt because of you, but you still feel just as guilty for hurting her.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:48 AM
1

I know, the problem once it was a moment of weakness on a whim, if I had time to plan I would have done that. I’m just asking other people to see if you eventually swallow it and can act normal around her again.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:43 AM
1

Young guy, escaped my parents cult religion, I signed a year lease with her since my tech job is in an expensive city. Stuck.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:42 AM
1

It’s fine to want to get to know them. If girls like you enough anyway a lot of the time they will make the move. Keep going on dates until you figure it out. Key is to get to know them in a fun, cheeky, slightly sexual way with an emphasis on having a good time.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:12 AM
1

Not gonna lie, on your days off is gonna be your best bet, time when you can park the truck, go into town, and take someone back to a hotel. Also don’t be fat.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:10 AM
2

How the hell are we supposed to know bro? We don’t know this girl, you do, and we both know the only way you’re going to find out is if you meet her for coffee. Stop stalling and being nervous and just go feel it out, it will literally take 15 minutes of sitting and chatting to get an answer.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:09 AM
3

Define “too nice” Guys that day they are too nice are usually in reality doing something else wrong.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:07 AM
2

You didn’t do anything wrong per say, but depending on the girl “I have sm to do” could have been a probe for you to ask what (maybe something you could do with her) or an opportunity for you to ask her to come anyway to ensure you really want her to come. Your option was the best safe option not knowing the girl though.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:06 AM
1

Thanks for being understanding, that’s exactly it.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:49 PM
2

She’s really sexually reserved, had to pep talk her up about her confidence before she could go out and do it. Which is why I can’t bitch, I practically held the guys nuts while he hit it. I’ve never thought I’d be okay with something and then ended up hating that decision so much in my life.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:10 AM
0

I envisioned I’d have lots of sex and she would to, although more sparingly, and we would come home and do our normal LTR stuff. Before hand I didn’t give a shit if she slept with someone, as long as I could too. I had no clue I would be this upset.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 02:13 AM
1

I thought I could handle it. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:28 PM
2

Isn’t that kind of the definition of an open relationship?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:28 PM
1

I’m just afraid I won’t ever see her the same again. The thought of kissing her after someone probably just came on her face makes my gag reflexes kick in.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:27 PM
1

What I mean by that is I’d rather some high value guy barely manage to break her walls then some random scrawny fuck asks nicely and gets his virginity taken for literally 0 effort.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:26 PM
1

She went from a plate to an exclusive ltr. We moved in together not because I wanted to, but because my parents and friends disowned me because I stopped going to their church. I live in expensive city and my credit wasn’t good enough for a lease on my own. She was a virgin, I took her virginity, maybe hat has something to do with it. I thought maybe she’d put up some walls to some cool guy but no, some random guy got lucky and put is dick in her mouth and fucked her for 5 minutes. Now she’s goi…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:23 PM
2

I’ve fucked other girls since then. I think it’s natural that it makes me upset because I wasn’t expecting to feel this disgusted. Almost everything you said was an assumption. I know women like sex. I know she enjoyed it. I lied when I said she could fuck someone else first because I was already doing it. I had plans to go to later tonight with another girl that I cancelled because I don’t feel like going out anymore.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:09 PM
1

Same
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:43 PM
4

Do you have anything helpful to add? Of course you don’t. Many people have already provided helpful input which apparently you are incapable of. If youre just going to spew mean shit why bother? To take a dump on an internet stranger and fill your “I’m an alpha now” tank for the day? Go right on, get your fill.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:21 PM
1

I don’t think she would’ve gone for that but if I knew this is how I would feel I would have tried.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:10 PM
1

It was great when I was the one doing the fucking. Double sided, I know.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:01 PM
1

I deserve it. I though an open relationship was the shit given how everyone talks about it.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:41 PM
2

Either I got too greedy or it was a sign I needed to move on.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:39 PM
2

Nobody to blame but myself. I almost literally made her do it. I though an open relationship was the solution. Thanks for actually giving me a constructive comment.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:39 PM
1

Honestly thought it was gonna be one of the big guys from the gym that’s been trying for weeks, not some weasley little Cheeto fingered nerd.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:38 PM
3

Consistently Sexual messages are great after you’ve fucked, before it’s usually a turn off unless you are substantially hotter than you. A cheeky sex joke here and there are fine but I wouldn’t over do it.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 06:21 PM
3

If Ryan Gosling was trying to fuck her would she say no until she “was on the pill” or would she put a condom on or take a plan b?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:52 PM
1

Use your fear to fuel immediate changes. Sold my gaming machine because I was afraid I’d play too much and waist time. Got up and went to the gym for 2 hours because I was afraid I’d be forever small.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:48 PM
2

How to display high value? Simple, be high value and that problem solves itself. Approach anxiety goes away if you keep doing it. No way around it. Also, the less hot the girl is, the lower the anxiety will be at the start. Start small (or big, if you catch my drift.)
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:46 PM
2

What’s the question? You going to ask her to hang out or what? What’s the other option?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:44 PM
2

Stop. This stuff is cringey as hell, go to talk to other girls before you get a disease or she steals something from you.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:43 PM
2

Maybe, but girls do shit like this to clarify plans more often than threesomes, Id play it as regular until she gave indication otherwise.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:27 PM
1

She sounds horrible to deal with and I have 0 clue why you’re putting up with it so much and why you care so much. There are plates who don’t use anxiety attacks as a regular excuse to not to deal with shit.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:45 AM
10

You have provided 0 context and have so far failed to formulate a title that gives people a clear definition of what’s going on. Who has no game? You have no game? She has no game? How did she discover this? Plate? Ltr? Learn to ask a non shirty question and you won’t get shitty answers like you so far have.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:41 AM
1

Hope you’re kidding, go to a doctor
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:54 AM
2

2 hours later she tells me she had an anxiety attack, and she's okay now but wont go into detai Run Anyways, it’s not that complicated, she wants to keep receiving your attention without actually giving any of her time. Stop texting her unless it’s logistics to meet up for the next time, and make her initiate. If she doesn’t or bails, find a girl who is a. Not crazy or b. Attracted enough to you to meet up
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:53 AM
9

What?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:51 AM
1

For this generation social media status is huge with a lot of the new college girls. I had a couple girls unmatch me on tinder after seeing my old Instagram before I beefed it up.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:48 AM
1

I would really love to read those, can you point me in the right direction?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:47 AM
5

Don’t. Mind your own business and draw the line if they try to mind yours.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:46 AM
29

You said it yourself, both times you’ve had sex were after social things and you didn’t tell her what you were inviting her too (could be a date, could be a party, could be a club) so she’s basically asking for clarification. If you don’t want her friends to come just say “Just you and me this time.”
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:44 AM
2

I’m here for advice, if you don’t have any to give why comment?
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:08 AM
2

Making friends in my position outside the church is pretty much impossible too so it’s hard when she’s the only person I get to hang with. The kids my age are all in school and in my city the college is a huge deal, they don’t want anything to do with me when they find out I’m not one of them. The kids who didn’t go to school like me aren’t on the grind, they are un-motivated or in-intelligent or potheads so their values don’t work with mine. I work at a tech company and the guy next closest to …
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:07 AM
1

The problem is we live together and she’s on the lease to. I suppose I have to lay in the bed I made for myself until the lease is up then huh?
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:01 AM
2

Trying to build a friend group but it’s pretty fucking hard. Due to all the time alone (restrictive church and no college) I sharpened my tech skills and have a really good paying job for my age, nonetheless I live in a city where ALL the kids my age are going to college, and the college they go to is a big deal, and they don’t want anything to do with me because I don’t go to their school. I can’t tell you how many good things I’ve had going with girls until they found out I didn’t go to their …
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:00 AM
1

I’d free-ball they want to feel “safe” if they’re going to go for a younger guy, that you aren’t going to judge them for their age. I’d say some line like “fine women are fine women” or “age is just a number” to make them feel confident enough to move forward.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:39 AM
3

There was not a single period that entire paragraph.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:16 PM
1

Stop blaming everyone else for your problems while you sit around being a lazy fuck. Go to the gym everyday, better yourself, take a break from video games, accept the negative sides of human nature of both sexes and realize the positive ones as well.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:55 PM
3

That is a 13 year olds haircut, you have attractive eyes and face that looks your age but your hair detracts from that. Same thing everyone else is told, get the sides cut short and have them scissor cut the top, the classic male model look, it will look good on you. Also I would delete the link to imgur soon, you don’t want to get recognized on here, it could seriously damage your reputation.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:54 PM
6

If she’s not a big reader she’s not going to read some book she doesn’t even choose and is not interested in.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:49 PM
2

If she wants it enough she’ll find a way, why do you care?
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:26 PM
1

What?
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:19 PM
1

The problem is the girl admitted to lying already and has been caught doing so in the past, so I’m basically making a social stance on whether or not what he did was “okay”.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:59 AM
3

Afraid people would call him a piece of shit and tell me not to write a letter for him
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:07 AM
1

Thanks, which photo should be my first?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:50 PM
1

Appreciate it, which should I lead with?
/r/askTRP17/05/18 03:38 AM
1

Okay, I PMd you my best, only shirtless pics I have are mirror pics and they are old, I’ve gained a lot of size since then.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:01 PM
2

Okay, thanks for the advice, I PMd you my best trying to match that criteria
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:00 PM
1

I took a look at that but felt more like it was geared towards women rating what they expect from a professional lynced in account or a eharmony profile, not a “what honey college girls would want” profile, am I mistaken?
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:48 PM
1

Maybe you didn’t see farther up but I mentioned she agreed to open relationship, it’s only fair it goes both ways.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:43 PM
3

If you’re using the desktop version of reddit on the far right side of the screen there are a whole bunch of blue links containing important and basic TRP information that is considered mandatory reading, partially because it’s useful and partially to deter a million of the same stupid question.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:41 PM
1

First night she downloaded tinder for the first time, she got over 100 likes the first hour. Her shit testing attempts were hilarious. Just hope I haven’t created a monster.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:29 PM
1

You’re right, I suppose I feel partially responsible she has nobody anymore. I just need to toughen up about it.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:28 PM
1

Things is nothing disappeared, if anything she’s gotten better. She wakes up hours early to cook me breakfast for my bulking diet, cooks my dinner, washes all clothes and loves doing it.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:26 PM
1

Talked about it last night, first she got upset then said she’d be okay with me fucking girls on the side as long as she was still my “main” girl if it made me happy. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:30 PM
1

Wouldn’t even think of getting married.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:29 PM
1

It’s just a really difficult situation man. We both left our hardcore religion and got disowned by our family and friends. We’d both young but it’s different for me because I have money, she doesn’t have anywhere to go or anyone.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 03:00 AM
-1

Known her a long time, been having sex with her for a year, she’s not crazy. Anything more helpful?
/r/askTRP15/05/18 02:19 AM
-1

So you haven’t fucked or touched eachother at all?
/r/askTRP11/05/18 10:40 PM
4

By not getting annoyed like you did. Roll your eyes, slap her ass, and keep getting that good head.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:47 AM
3

As in college? No. The two richest men I’ve ever got to know personally either didn’t finish school or don’t go altogether. Some other successful guys I know who started their own cuisines said school was a waste of time for them. You can be successful either way.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:34 AM
5

Hes saying there’s no way it’s that bad bro, it’s either an excuse you’re consciously or subconsciously using or it’s a small thing in your head you’re so self-conscious about you’ve overinflated it to the point of ridiculousness.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:10 AM
1

At 5’11 bro? when I was 6 foot 140 I was eating 4-4500 calories a day, 2850 is closer to what I would eat cutting. Up your calories big time or you will never see results.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:07 AM
1

Probably a combination of societal views (money, influence, respect) combined with some evolutionary instincts (stability, power, respect)
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:05 AM
5

Go to a bar and watch and listen. Don’t try to score any women, just be there to have a good time and maybe make some friends. You will learn much.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:04 AM
6

25? Be jacked. No excuses there, you have five whole years. Work hard and you can do it in 2 at your age. If you aren’t still in school have started your own business. Again, five whole years. Be in a good financial position with a little chunk of “just in case” money in the bank, a paid for or almost paid for car, and a good living situation, ie not with roommates, either your own apartment or your own home.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:02 AM
1

Honestly bro just get jacked and it will be easy, girls don’t care if you don’t care.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:57 AM
2

It’s defientelt good to set the expectation, just do so whithout any anger or emotional instability, she can’t feel like she’s getting to you. Keep in mind she will see this as a power play and respond in her own, likely getting mad and trying to get you to take it back, saying how unfair you’re being. Don’t go back. Then she will likely result to crying. Maintain your frame.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:52 PM
2

Agree, but these guys are talking about monk mode for months at a time. I get if you need a week or something but anything else is excessive.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:45 PM
3

Was she giving you lots of IOIs? If so it’s possible she just didn’t have enough time to get to know you before making a decision in the moment. Why not, hiking is fun anyway, worst case you spend a day laughing and trading stories with someone while enjoying nature then don’t talk to them again. If she didnt like you because your social skills aren’t up to par this is perfect practice then, and no pressure because you aren’t dating her.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:02 AM
0

There’s nothing wrong with acknowledging people, in fact it’s polite and girls won’t hold it against you as wanting attention. Not saying you have to stop and have a conversation, but a brief smile or smirk while you walk by is plenty. Push pull doesn’t mean ignore them then give them attention rinse and repeat, you’ll just look autistic or bi polar. If it was me I’d look for a dumb reason to talk to her and then gauge her reaction and how much she laughs at my jokes, then decide whether to ask …
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:55 AM
8

She’ll be friends but doesn’t like you enough to date you.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:43 AM
2

Don’t ask her if anything wrong, she start using it as a way to get attention and will usually not even tell you what’s wrong. She’s an adult, if it bothers her she can discuss it like one. No moping around being passive aggressive allowed.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:37 AM
2

Why did you ignore her? What do you want from her?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:35 AM
4

Honestly I think monk mode is stupid, there’s no reason to isolate yourself and you gain nothing and lose social skills. Just work on your shut while living your life.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:33 AM
7

Would girls still fuck Ryan gosling if he had a shit bag? Sure. Everything else about you needs to make up for it though. Make it known before the bedroom, try out some joking one liners or a playful well to pull up your shirt and show it until you find something that works.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:17 AM
43

I would go and get new friends first and then come back to the old ones, if you even want to. Your old friends will most likely naturally try to push you back down to your former position in the group. For some reason my brain loved to jump back to “old me” instinctively around certain people, helped to have new friends around to confirm my social standing, even if just to myself.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:15 AM
1

Maybe it’s cause I’m young an new to this but I don’t really mind, I kinda like it and do the same to her.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 08:17 AM
1

Helped him out a few times as a good gesture and then he came to expect it. Fuck him.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 11:24 PM
1

Thanks for this, I’m just going to have to be okay with him not liking it.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 11:16 PM
-2

How about you kneel down and suck his dick too I’m not trying to steal your job bro just finding the balance between being taken advantage of and helping someone out.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 11:16 PM
1

I think it’s an internal conflict of “Its good to help others out when your in the position too” and “help a bro out” against “I don’t want to” And “I don’t owe you anything”
/r/askTRP03/12/17 10:27 PM
1

Yeah I just told him no and he copped an attitude. Problem is I can’t really cut him out of my life for now.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 09:49 PM
4

Im not a taxi. I’ve already done it a couple times.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 09:39 PM
1

Then I feel like an asshole, because I maintain a false level of friendliness with him. Maybe that’s my problem
/r/askTRP03/12/17 09:02 PM
1

Has she really done anything wrong? She’s losing feelings for someone who lives 4 hours away and she never sees, thats just human nature. And generally in a dread scenario a women can easily figure out what it is you want. If she starts denying sex and you stop asking and start going to the gym more she’ll fuck you a ton. If she really likes you she’ll figure out what you want. You want attention and feelings from her that she doesn’t feel so honestly if you dread her from long distance she’d ha…
/r/askTRP12/11/17 09:34 PM
2

Who cares, she even teased you about so obviously she doesn’t. Stop putting it off and ask her to hang out.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 11:33 AM
2

There’s a threshold of looks that has to be reached to pull the 8-10 crowd, in my opinion it’s about a 7. If you’re more attractive your game can lack a little more. There’s always exceptions.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 11:30 AM
1

4 hours flight? There’s your problem man. When you first started the relationship it was easy for her to give you all that attention because you were fresh and new. Now she rarely sees you. Good news is instead of just letting you dread her and never coming back she comes back, probably because she knows you’re moving down and can have a real relationship at that point. Sorry but ghosting and going full dread now may only distance her from you further.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 07:30 AM
1

Seriously, I can already see half the guys who read this thread picking up every attractive woman they meet for the next week.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 07:18 AM
1

Sounds like she lives in another town, how far? And what exactly do you want from her that she isn’t giving?
/r/askTRP12/11/17 07:11 AM
1

Is the a hypothetical? I can’t see this happening. I would probably say “Are your titties really that saggy?” And if she said it a second time it’s an old joke so I’d just smirk and ignore.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 06:55 AM
1

Being a polite guy is fine, but you have to be able to switch to attack mode real fast when deal with other amoging alphas in a friend group. Whoever’s the wittiest and the least bothered usually wins. Bi by polite doesn’t gain you respect with everyone, in fact in a weird way the only way to gain some peoples respect is to not respect them. Weird I know.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 06:54 AM
1

By syaing this Im being proactive (territorial)...not reactive(mate guarding). Stop lying to yourself, you know just as well as us it’s the same fucking thing. If she wants to cheat on you she’s going to do it, if you say that then you’ll just be the boring overprotective boyfriend her and her friends laugh at. "Did any of the guys hit on you? Made a move?" That is diffenrent then asking if something happend. Which is showing low smv. Asking if anyone hit on her is different then asking what hap…
/r/askTRP12/11/17 06:51 AM
1

No shit it’s anecdotal, so is your evidence and your original comment.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:15 PM
1

Lottery is chance combat is skill and practice. Not saying this will happen every time just saying youre incorrect in stating there is nothing in the world besides a gun that will enable you to defend against multiple attacker’s. I’ve seen it done personaly from skilled fighters a handful of times myself.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:04 PM
1

He’s not wrong, I’ve seen a bouncer fight three guys at the same time. Knocked two of them out with combos before the last guy turned tail and ditched his friends. One guy got up and got knocked out again.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:06 PM
1

That’s simply not right. Online dating allows women to be much much pickier due to the male-to-female imbalance and the fact all they have to do is swipe to the next potential guy. Women hook up with more attractive men on tinder and men with less attractive women, that’s just how it is. I will agree with your second point however, that there is a threshold that much be reached the increases based on the attractiveness of said girl. That being said, the threshold is rarely as high as men think i…
/r/askTRP09/11/17 04:36 AM
1

No shit, online dating is purely looks based which is why I told him to stay away. In person game can make up for looks largely. Sure, you’ll never pull as many hot chicks and your smv will never be as high as the guy who has the same smv as you but looks like a model but you’ll still clean up in the majority of better looking men with shit game.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 04:03 AM
2

5’6 is workable. Yeah online dating isn’t worth your time, but don’t feel bad because it isn’t worth lots of “attractive” guys time either.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:57 AM
1

This. Try what you said about the emotional connection and if that doesn’t work who cares, she’s still enjoying it.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:47 AM
2

Definitely too fast. Your comment about you both exiting relationships escalated quickly and definitely wasn’t the right time to go for the kiss. Keep it more lighthearted next time. Sounds like you have the same problem I used to have, I just lacked social awareness in these situations. I didn’t know what to do so I’d just jump for the kiss and fail. Work on your social skills above all else. Women come with good social skills.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:44 AM
1

Going for that first kiss can be hard. Were you touching her in other ways before hand? Hand on hand? Hand on back? Was she reciprocating?
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:23 AM
1

Pull up dude. Crazy is crazy. I haven’t served so I couldn’t tell you for sure but from what my friends say the pickings in the barracks are slim and far in between.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:21 AM
1

I will be the first to tell you seduction is 70% game 30% looks unless you have some debilitating factor like you’re 5’3” or youre in a wheel chair. My less attractive friends got more pussy than me for years. Hell some still do.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:20 AM
1

She’s probably already pregnant with your child and now you’re hooked like the other dumbass she snagged two kids from. Have fun paying that back for the next 18 years, hope it was worth it. In the odd chance she isn’t, you know what you need to do, stop letting your penis make your decisions for you. Military relationships rarely work, but sometimes they do. I would wait until I was out.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:16 AM
1

You just don’t like it because you aren’t good at it. Once you become good at it you love it.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:12 AM
1

Is it possible to go too far when shit testing or joking with a new dude friend? Of course it is, it’s possible to overdue anything in almost every social interaction. If he was throwing the most shit testing then don’t feel bad if you land a witty reply, just don’t overdue it and don’t be the aggressor, especially if you’re the newcomer to the group.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:10 AM
1

Do I not get laid till I get ripped? Not if you rely solely on tinder. Locations is a big factor too, as is age. I’m an over 6’ guy who’s done modeling and i uninstalled the app after a few months because it just wasn’t worth the effort. Most girls that were responding were much less attractive than I could pull in real life or overweight. Granted, some guys on here swear by it. I think you have to hit all the variables just right to milk it, and appearing attractive is definitely a part of that…
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:06 AM
3

That’s a worse burn than just straight up confronting him, because one, he can see it didn’t rattle you, second, it shows youre a better man than him, and third, it shows you know you both know what he’s trying to do.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:36 PM
1

I haven’t seen a study on it so I can’t prove it, but bro science here I firmly believe doing this execsively and routinely can rewire your brain and fuck up your dopamine receptors until you back off, making you feel like shit all the time. That’s been my experience.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:31 PM
1

It’s amost always either a) you did something to someone in the group and now they hold it against you b) youre socially awkward in some way that people don’t like Or b) they think your cool but you just don’t bring enough to the table socially to be the first person they think to invite. Maybe you just stand around a laugh, but don’t make your own jokes or tell your own stories or give your own opinions.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 03:48 AM
1

You don’t need equipment it’s running. Go ask a a running subreddit they can tell you exactly what to do.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 03:23 AM
2

10/10 read, thanks needed that
/r/askTRP04/11/17 03:18 AM
1

You let your wife leave the house?
/r/askTRP04/11/17 03:15 AM
8

Exactly, how low can your fuckin self esteem be where not being your girls biggest makes you want to break up with her? What are you 11? It’s a dick, get over it.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 03:12 AM
1

Bonds are forged through experiences and sharing of emotions. If you feel like you’re not getting invited to as much stuff as everyone else try to discover the reason why, there always is one.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 03:10 AM
14

You fucking dickstick. Rip off the bandaid and get it over with. Simply by doing this you’ll begin to feel like you’re reclaiming your dignity. I'm helpless. You might buy that lie but we won’t. Don’t spend a lot of time fighting for a bad decision just because you spent a long time making it. Let it go. She literally kissed someone in front of you 7 months in. Who the fuck is just okay with that? I can’t even begin to think about how many times she’s come home to you filled with other men’s cum…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 03:07 AM
1

I’ve noticed girls like a good scowl every now then. It’s turns them away when you look pissed all the time, however it can also turn them away if you’re too smiley all the time. Try to find a good middle ground in the mirror.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:53 AM
1

Never thought of that. Any good TRP articles on that you recommend?
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:50 AM
3

Something about the vibe you give away is off. I’d have to be there with you to tell you what it is for sure. You come off as extremely enthusiastic, which could be a good or bad thing. I would back off on the enthusiasm for the next week or so and just watch what happens. Maybe a little less “degenerate”, a little more “class” feel me? As a side note, not saying this applies to you, but I knew a lot of weird kids in high school that “didn’t care what anyone thought about them” but complained wh…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:45 AM
4

Get big Get charisma. No way around this. If you don’t have it you’ll never get popular, period. Be funny and be “cool”, don’t try to get in with the popular kids, do your own thing until you start working up the ranks. Fair warning, you’ll likely have to give up some friends if you want to roll with the cool kids, they’ll hold you back. Sucks and sounds shallow but it’s the price every popular kid pays at some point.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:38 AM
1

I know lots of guys are going to rag on you for not ghosting her the second she put put up some defense, but that was some of the smoothest game I’ve seen here in a while. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:53 AM
1

That’s why this is a dangerous question, it could mean “come fuck me” or it could mean “bring me free shit for nothing”
/r/askTRP02/11/17 08:07 PM
1

Don’t let fear of falling into old patterns hold you back, just act with discipline and withdraw if you feel you begin to.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 03:35 AM
1

Confirming. Use texting only for logistics. Use emojis if you want.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 03:31 AM
8

All depends. Sounds like she’s just being lazy, but if she phrased it more like “hey come over today so we can snuggle, and bring food” that’s a whole other ball game.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 03:30 AM
1

Gym is best for getting big and strong fastest, granted it’s not as exciting as say high speed mountain biking. That being said, all of the pure cardio-sport (swimming, marathons, biking) guys that I know aren’t particularly “fit” looking, they just aren’t fat. You can definitely see muscle when they take their shirt off but it’s more of a just extremely low body fat muscle, with shirts on they look average if not skinny. Mix it up, gym half of the days a week another activity the other half.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 03:26 AM
6

An, high school. If she really likes you she’ll continue seeing you anyway. High-school bitches love a little bit of Romeo and Juliet.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 01:06 AM
3

Probably, maybe not. Who cares?
/r/askTRP01/11/17 01:02 AM
4

Tried the cute face-chubby girl thing, I couldn’t handle it. I say more gym and just wait.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 10:39 PM
1

Fight Club All Quiet on the Western Front Dune Almost any Michael Chrichton Book The Art of War
/r/askTRP31/10/17 10:18 PM
1

Exactly, I don’t see why you have to ask at all, the women has always told me when it mattered. Otherwise it looks creepy or like you’re putting the cart in front of the horse. She knows why you’re asking.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 10:13 PM
1

Poor guy. I think we all know which country specifically.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 10:08 PM
1

I’d be interested, but I doubt we’d find enough commites readers on here to make it worthwhile.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 03:01 AM
1

even though I already fuck with enough chicks in my life right now Why don’t I believe you...
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:27 AM
1

Fit>everything Abercrombie and Fitch sells fantastically fitting t shirts and jeans that during sales can go down to $10 for a t shirt and $30 for jeans. Just don’t get the stuff with the massive logos or you’ll look like a douche. Don’t get tight as fuck pants. You don’t want them baggy but that skin tight stuff makes guys look like Peter Pan. If you’re looking for some inspiration I’d pick a celebrity you like and mimic that, they usually have people paid just to dress them. Ryan Gosling is a …
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:01 AM
1

Is this a hypothetical scenario you just dreamed up? Lmao. Anyways, B would be correct, she may just be seeing if she still “has it” and if she can still pull you back into her orbit to validate her self doubt. If you do this and she still comes back for more, then A, but very cautiously. At the first sight of her playing games or trying to orbit you politely go back to B and don’t engage her again unless she’s literally dragging you into the bathroom to suck your dick. That being said, the whol…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 10:52 PM
3

It has a positive effect on everyone’s appearance, period. Especially if you are in great shape. Suns dangerous though, either use plenty of protection or get a light spray tan that doesn’t look orange or fake if you can afford it.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 10:47 PM
1

Tinder’s not so easy depending on location, I’m probably a 7.5-8.5 in terms of looks and just deleted th app today, too much work for fatties.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 08:19 PM
2

Step 1: I’m not reading all that. Step 2: read sidebar and apply You’re not a special case, I skimmed that and it’s pretty standard shit you’d know if you read it
/r/askTRP30/10/17 08:15 PM
3

Are you asking how to be born more attractive? We can’t help you. Black clothes, big muscles, and tattoos make just about anyone look more serious.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:45 AM
2

If the charge was proven false you can sue for defamation of name, just have to have clear and undeniable examples and evidence of the website having a negative effect on your life. The lawsuit itself would probably be enough to scare her into removing it, just depends on how much money you’re willing to spend. In the meantime, as someone else said, pay someone to create website for you that shows up before hers. It can be anything, a business portfolio, photography collection, hell do one of ea…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:44 AM
3

Cry when alone, but hold it back in public. Alphas tear up every once in a while too. Since I was a kid I thought John Cena was one of the toughest, most alpha guys around. I recently saw a video where a kid wrote John Cena a letter about how he helped him stay strong when he didn't know if his mom would make it through cancer and Cena started crying on the spot. I didn't and don't think one cent less of him, if anything now I respect him more. I know the "Alpha" agenda pushed on this site is to…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 01:47 AM
7

Spongthrowaway is exactly right. Next time she'll probably ask you if it's okay before she goes out, just tell her to have fun.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 12:50 AM
1

I don't fucking know bro, I'd literally have to sit next to you and watch you do it to say anything for sure. However if you're specifically trying to come across as confident and full of yourself you're probably overdoing it, confidence should be something that's just natural, harder to overdue it when it's real and natural.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 12:31 AM
1

wouldn't stand for her going to clubs without me while we were long distance for a year Your "boundary" is you trying to mate guard and looking like a little bitch. All her friends laugh at you when they go out together. Why keep her from going to clubs? If she wants some hot, fun guy college dick she's going to get it, whether you let her go clubbing or not. Now your just the boring overprotective boyfriend who won't let her have any fun and is afraid of someone better coming along.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 12:21 AM
1

Either didn't build enough attraction before you go the number, you're fucking boring, or you're coming across as too much of an asshole.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 12:16 AM
1

Being an alpha doesn't mean you don't have any emotions. So what if you tear up at a movie every once in a while? I liked emotional music so much im learning to play it on my own piano, chicks love it. Being a little bitch and crying over everything is another matter. It's one of those things where the only thing anyone can really tell you is grit your teeth, grab your dick, and man the fuck up.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 12:15 AM
1

It's takes more time but yeah just start acting differently.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 12:11 AM
1

Is nightgame even possible solo? Of course it is. Unless you have a reallly good wingman which is rare these days you are going to be one on one with the girl anyway. Only perk to coming with friends is to have more fun and look less creepy. most girls are on an ego trip during the night Only the bitchy ones. Even then, what better for an ego trip then getting with the most attractive guy at the bar? due to my introverted nature it's harder to be high energy enough to catch/hold their attention …
/r/askTRP05/10/17 09:57 PM
3

Hahaha you just remindeded me that the only time it ever happened to me was someone hiding in the protection of a car as well. But at that point that's just classic "young guys yelling shit at pedestrians to impress their friends"
/r/askTRP05/10/17 08:59 PM
1

Fuck all the guys in here saying "A women opening up to you is because she senses weakness", thats retarded. Women are emotional and yearn for a stable, grounded man to back them up and be their rock. The real answer is as simple as "Is she having sex with you?" If she opens up to you but never fucks then yes you're an emotional tampon. Granted if all she does is whine and complain about her problems literally 24/7 then yeah dump her, but otherwise I've found being a rock when she needs it just …
/r/askTRP05/10/17 08:56 PM
1

First of all start with night game and then move to day game as night game is much easier. There's literally no easy trick around this, you literally have to continually do it over and over. Don't approach groups of girls if you don't want to, especially if you're by yourself. Approaching a girl who's on her phone is fine, headphones is a bit iffier but why not? As far as breaking social norms just be careful who you choose and don't be weird about it. If you see a girl studying at a library I'd…
/r/askTRP05/10/17 08:50 PM
1

I wasn't there, so I don't know if she's just testing me Probably, girls make stuff up to do this all the time. What would you do if someone does it while I'm with her? Unlike in the movies this will probably never happen, unless youre walking around town with Halle Berry nobody cares that much about your girlfriend to risk a fight. If it does, literally any response besides getting protective, defensive or upset is fine. I would squint, smirk, and then tell my girl "that guy is into me"
/r/askTRP05/10/17 08:45 PM
9

Pretty sure if assertive males and submissive females is what you like modern porn has 10,000x more videos catering to that
/r/askTRP03/10/17 07:50 PM
1

Thanks for these, what would "failing" this test sound like?
/r/askTRP20/09/17 02:16 PM
1

Then don't squat or deadlift for now. If your gym is crowded either look at other gyms or wait in turn for a machine like everyone else. Ask a stranger to spot you or spot yourself, most guys I know don't have a spotter. Cardio to get rid of your gut, plan your meals . Any other excuses?
/r/askTRP14/09/17 08:18 PM
3

Basically she's implying if something better came along she'd drop her current plans. I'd say "cool, I'm doing _ at __ if you want to come."
/r/askTRP14/09/17 08:05 PM
1

He has posted this question 7 times in the past week.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 08:16 PM
2

Should I read a book before sleep instead of watching movies or videos or listening to podcasts as a teen? Absoluety, not only have I found reading before bed more wholesome for my mind but blue light from screens has been shown to keep you up later. Podcasts are probably fine too. how can I live passionately and enjoy life instead of being a potatoe gaming all day? This was an issue for me too, the only solution I found that worked was selling my gaming rig and using the money to get a gym memb…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 04:59 PM
1

Your options in your last paragraph are great, but texting these days is so much easier for pretty much everyone. Flake rate is high because you don't build enough attraction before getting the number. I only call people at night or when I'm outside her place or she just straight up wants to talk.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 04:52 PM
1

Seems legit
/r/askTRP06/09/17 11:48 PM
2

If it really is exactly like you described it I would say it's highly probable she's fucking with him, and wants to move down with you until he gives up his girlfriend and she can branch swing to him.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 03:46 PM
1

Try dating men and maybe you'll find your answer.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 03:43 PM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP06/09/17 03:41 PM
1

Wrong sub for this post but I'll help out. I literally just read the first paragraph because the second two are just you trying to rationalize giving into your urges. If you really want to do Nofap and if you really have a porn addiction, don't masturbate, no ifs ands or butts. Stop making excuses.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 03:39 PM
2

I might have gone too far, I was just trying to cover every point. I've found with guys that live in their own world like this you have to be harsh or they brush it off.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 07:11 PM
1

But in the mean time I go talk to girls and I get no where. Your game is shit, I can feel your gross insecure personality seeping through your post. Not trying to rag on you but I feel you need it straightforward. They laughed at what I said. But in the end they more or less said go away I'm done. Tell-tale sign your game is shit or you aren't attractive enough yet for them. Hence people say lift. I waved over a waitress tonight and flirted with her. Waitress game is iffy because she gets paid m…
/r/askTRP03/09/17 08:08 AM
1

Hardcore 2nd to "closed door syndrome", literally just startled hanging out at at the pool and other communal zones not wearing headphones and looking approachable. Already met new friends. Stuff just happens.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 12:45 AM
14

You just described my role play fantasy
/r/askTRP01/09/17 10:31 PM
1

2/10 fatties usually aren't particularly picky, either your personality is turning everyone off or you're going out with the goal of pussy instead of having fun and people can tell how desperate you are. I've done modeling in the past, if youre comfortable enough to direct message me some pictures of your hair/clothes I can give you my opinions.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 02:27 PM
1

90% chance she's fucked him either that night or another night. Even if she didn't, if that's what she'll do in front of friends imagine what she'd do with no one else around.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 01:44 AM
3

The "in-crowd" is most definitely not set in stone after college. Harder to get in? Sure. But if you look like the in-crowd, hang-out where the in crowd hangs out, and acts like they act, they are more than welcoming for funny charasmatic new-comers. I hate to say it but generally MeetUp events are for people who can't or choose not to make friends in their normal day to day life. There are exceptions but that usually proves true. Moral of the story is high Smv people attract high smv people. Be…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 04:12 AM
1

Nobody is going to answer you, much less meet up, way to risky to get set up and doxxed.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 10:01 PM
12

Male hamstering at it's finest.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 10:37 PM
1

My opinions are one, work on a bugger social circle. If you're as ugly as you say you are you need to be a guy with lots of friends, you need to be funny, you need to be jacked, and you need to not be desperate. Have you REALLY done 300 approaches though? And were they QUALITY approaches? Were you being weird or creepy or too assertive? You should at least have more than 6 pity numbers at the very least. Yeah, online dating won't work for you, especially at you age. If it makes you feel better m…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:41 AM
1

Wut
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:29 AM
1

It's worth a shot, but I'll warn you, being considered by most people to be generally attractive is pretty much the bare minimum for guys on tinder, unless you're jacked, look rich, or are in vegas. If you are overweight you will probably get nothing.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:29 AM
3

If you want good, quality equipment like you see in most reputable chain gyms it'd cost you a fortune. Do you know how much a gym quality squat rack costs? They run from 1500-3000, on the cheap end you'd have to spend almost 3 years at the gym at 45 a month to justify that. The cheap 300-600 dollar stuff is garbage, and once you start lifting more they can seriously hurt you when it comes to squat/bench press. Ready for the pain in the ass of buying a new pair of dumbells every few workouts when…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:24 AM
2

He's going to post this regularly until his account is banned, then he's going to make another account and start again. Their train of thought escapes me.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:13 AM
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Girls age changes things a lot, but as long as you don't come across as over-eager or overly-available you can say pretty much whatever you want, as long as the tone and mood is right. My friend who fucks more than anyone I know regularly throws in emojis to his text, but again he's college age.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:04 AM
1

Depends how old he is, I'm sub-21, have done modeling. Am a short drive from the university and still get almost no attractive matches.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:59 PM
2

The one with the most blonde-bimbos.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:56 PM
1

I know for a fact that right now she's clean from STDs how do you know? Did she hand you her test results in person 15 minutes ago?
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:06 PM
1

Most asians guys don't style their hair and you probably recognize that you stand out from them and look much better when it's styled. Buy a hat you can slap on when going to the grocery store/late for an exam ect. As far as the hairspray goes I would ask a professional stylist but it may just be the price you have to pay to have good hair.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 06:32 PM
2

You need to tell us more... why doesn't she like talking on the phone? Do you call her at inopertune times? Do you keep her on the line longer than necessary when she has things to do?
/r/askTRP25/08/17 05:46 AM
1

I always thought of addictions and bad habits as very different beasts but now I see what you meant.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 02:19 AM
1

I agree with your first point, but not nofap promotes kicking addiction as well. Not saying it doesn't take insane effort but nonetheless.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 01:07 AM
1

From the sounds of it she could be fucking with you, but in the case she isn't your basically fucked. Not a thing you can do. Someone on here did a really good write up about what to do if get someone pregnant on accident, I'll see if I can find it later.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 10:08 PM
1

like you, he's not giving his all to the process I think you misunderstand me, when I say "nofap can be a miracle" I mean stopping jacking off and watching porn compulsively can be live changing. I think you mistake me for praising the idealology of r/nofap instead of giving myself credit for actually applying what I learned through hard work.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 09:35 PM
1

I'm not going to participate in your pity party. You think you're the only ugly guy on here? You think you're some special exception? You're not, the other ugly guys just keep their mouth shut and smash the gym, because they know for them having a body like a Greek statue is their only option. Sure, you won't pull like model guys even then, but you'll be miles and miles ahead of all the other ugly guys sitting at home making excuses and playing computer games 24/7.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 07:07 PM
1

He knows the body matters too and could change his life to be jacked but he's reaching sooo hard for excuses because he doesn't want to put in the work. Fuck him.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 06:55 PM
1

I can comment on this, if you're a person with pornography addiction and your dopamine receptors are fucked to shit nofap can be a miracle. When you deny yourself the easy way out you at the same time force you to do the stuff you should've been doing all along.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 06:40 PM
2

She probably never snapped you the place and time because you brushed it off when she got excited and suggested it, she probably thought you didn't even want to do it. Maintaining frame doesn't mean you should act uninterested 24/7, especially when she puts herself out there and takes the initiative to make plans. So she waited to see if you really wanted to go, and if you did you would have snapped her again beforehand to confirm, which you didn't. Now generally I would say you did the right th…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 11:24 PM
2

will she have found another man in the meantime? We aren't fortune tellers, stop stalling and tell her youre back in town and want to catch up.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:26 AM
1

Sounds like she was still in so I don't see what the problem is? And yeah that's one of the biggest disadvantages of dating apps, the girls don't get to meet you beforehand and learn your sense of humor, lots of stuff over text can be taking literally.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:22 AM
1

Yeah forget cold approaches just run up to women and deck them in the face to get those pannies wet. Ive never seen that to be true unless they've been abused and mentally fucked up as a child, or they just put up with it because they're scared of being alone and not getting anything better, but again that usually goes back to getting fucked up mentally as a child.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:20 AM
1

Likely they're one of those extremely suspicious and jealous couples, and she's only allowed to text guys besides him on his phone so he can monitor it (or maybe just you if he thinks you're a threat.). He can probably only text girls on her phone. Bet that relationship will last a long time.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 01:17 AM
1

Likely she's just 18 and isn't used to guys not texting her back around the clock. I would just text her "we'll talk plenty at (wherever you made plans to go)" and a smile.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 01:12 AM
1

Great advice, sounds to me like op sees an opportunity to possibly bang/get with her again and he's trying to rationalize it to himself. I bet he contacts her anyway, lol.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 01:09 AM
2

In my experience the only person who can snap someone with a victim mentality out of it is themself. He will likely only twist anything you say, suggest, or recommend to reinforce his false life vision because it's easier than changing. If you stop inviting him out because he kills the mood he'll say "Look, I was right, the universe is out to get me!" I hate to say it but those type of "friends" will stick around and lap up your sympathy and play a victim until you are exhausted. You just have t…
/r/askTRP11/08/17 11:52 PM
1

Boobs
/r/askTRP11/08/17 10:52 PM
2

As for the second question, I know poor guys that pull mad women and rich guys who pull mad women. Don't act like "bb provider" and you won't get treated like one, how much you make doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 10:47 PM
7

You're really overthinking this, if you liked a girl and she liked you and you want to see her again just say: "Hey, I'm doing (blank) at (blank), you should join me."
/r/askTRP09/08/17 10:35 PM
1

Tough love, but you make a lot of excuses, if you want to get big you better drop that real fast.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:12 PM
1

Then do full body workouts, that's what I did the first 3 months and made lots of progress. I don't even know how to deadlift or bench press properly. Yeah and how are you going to learn if you never do it? Neither did I, I just watched a whole bunch of instructional YouTube videos then came in it at night and recorded myself benching, then went home and cross referenced my form to that in the video. For deadlift I just swallowed my pride, walked up to a couple of guys that were deadlifting and …
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:04 PM
1

A lot of people are jealous because I don't get weight no matter what I eat and how much I eat. I heard that my whole life, and the only people who ever said it were the people who never lifted. I can't cook that much to start with That's an excuse, yes you can. I would never be able to eat that much calories. I started out taller than you and less weight than you and I still did it. I ate probably two meals a day, most small. Start with three full meals per day, or 3k calories and then increase…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 10:49 PM
1

I would definelty stay away from crossfit, especially if your goal is to gain weight and look good. My routine is Monday through Saturday, Chest,shoulders,arms,back,chest,legs. I am just 170 at 6'1, so I'm one of the smaller guys at my gym, but I'll see if I can scrape some progress pictures together for you and IM them to you if you'd like.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 10:45 PM
1

Wouldnt that just make you fat? Not for someone of your height, AS LONG AS you are working out HARD regularly, and aren't just eating nothing but empty calories and junk food. How do you gain muscle + weight without gaining fat? Tren is definetly the easiest, but for those of us who don't want to turn to steroids a bulk/cut cycle is generally seen as the most effective way. Bulk during winter months by eating a surplus and cut right before and through summer by eating a deficit, giving you a cut…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 09:49 PM
2

Eating 4-5k was by far the hardest part. I could get into the gym everyday for two hours and work til I couldn't walk but the eating always got me. I'm sorry but 2300 a day is obsurdly low. Thankfully I have a brother who got into bodybuilding and told me straight up if I didn't stuff myself I wouldn't gain any weight, so I did. There is a pretty big threshold between brain telling you you're "full" and being so full you're throwing up. I have not once thrown up, only gotten close about twice wh…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 09:40 PM
3

2 scoops calorie rich protein powder, 2 cups oatmeal, 2 cups whole milk, 3 tablespoons olive oil, 3 tablespoons Chocalate syrup to drown out the olive oil, 3-4 tablespoons peanut butter, and a few tablespoons of heavy cream. Fits into one full size shaker, chug as fast you can.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 09:33 PM
1

6'1 here, went from 135 to 170 in about 6 months, mostly muscle, still visible abs and obliques. Tried to post my progress pics but was bombarded for being a "fake natty" You sound like you need to focus less on what you eat and more on how much you eat. I'm not saying go scarf down junk food, but you need to make sure youre getting a surplus. I already eat beans chicken and rice, but all this is doing is making me lose fat, which is okay, but I'm losing size, and mass Yeah, that means you aren'…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 08:33 PM
1

He's just 15, I would only drop redpill advice on him whenever the opportunity presents itself. There are too many angry assholes on this sub and the main sub that would give him shitty advice he could take seriously.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:10 AM
5

Girls "like" or will even go as far to say they "prefer" dad bods usually because it means their ripped boyfriend won't look better than them and make them feel self-conscious. Also, they don't want to appear shallow. The "I like something to grab onto" is the bs reason they pull out of their ass. When it comes down to it at the end of the night they will choose the jacked guy everytime.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:04 AM
1

How do you not be an a "up and shiny, bright smiled" beta without being an asshole. First of all, almost everyone loves a bright shiny and positive guy. In my past jobs they've always got the most women. I don't know where people on here come under the illusion that "alphas" have to quiet, silent, stoic jerks who never show emotion. It highly likely your colleagues are jealous of your new "material things", that or you are leaving something out. If you were going around and saying hi but they ne…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:58 AM
4

The only problem is my school is completely saturated by betas. So much that I usually just stay to myself. You sound like a beta. Really think an alpha would stay to himself just because there are betas around? No, he would take advantage of that and be the only alpha in the school. You sound like you're making excuses, but to answer your question, your best shot would be at a frat or a gym.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:52 AM
3

First you fucked up by not wearing a condom and putting yourself in this position. Well, me asking again really pissed her off She was fine with it the first time, if you aren't leaving out any context I'd say she just wanted a reason to leave. It's possibly she's been seeing another guy already for the last two weeks you've been gone and just needed an excuse.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:49 AM
3

Definetly looks needy, but even if it didn't they would likely never tell you the truth.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:40 AM
1

So overused that will probably just get eye-rolls at this point.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:32 AM
1

I had to do it pretty frequently in middle-high school because I hung out with the "popular" crowd but was still a "nice" guy and friends with everyone, so I had a few sweet chubby girls keep trying to take me out. Never had the heart to just downright reject them, so eventually what happens is you let them down soft enough times that they get the message, then they either make it weird until you have to stop talking to eachother or she stays around as a "friend" and try's again until the first …
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:26 AM
7

The old gay-zone. Classic.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:21 AM
1

I don't feel like I'm doing anything that any other 20 year isn't doing or having done...
/r/askTRP06/08/17 08:19 PM
60

I have threatened divorce and she has told me that she can't believe that I would want that for our family How fucking dare she, acting like she gives a shit about the well being of "the family". "Yes kids, me and daddy are getting a divorce, but it's his fault for signing the papers, not mine for fucking someone I'm not married to." The guy is a typical loser but it has only brought down my self worth worse knowing that she is choosing him at the moment I wouldn't be so sure, addicts can be ext…
/r/askTRP06/08/17 07:59 PM
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Keep making out but try again later. If she'll make out with you usually that means she'll have sex with you, just might have to wait a while. If the trend continues after repeated attempts I would stop talking to her.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 07:23 PM
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Try escalating and see if she's open or reciprocates.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 07:08 PM
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Step one: lift; transform your body Step two: keep lifting bitch Step three: instead of being shy and avoiding your problems run at them head on. I've seen guys like you make COMPLETE turn arounds, but you have to EMBRACE discomfort in situations that make you uncomfortable. Not all guys have the balls to do it. Use your anger at your situation to motivate and propel you. When you feel like quiting imagine that pussy at the party standing in the background with his hands in his pockets while his…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 08:21 AM
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Do what you want but I don't want you putting pics of other dudes and you up on Instagram. You don't have to be cool with it, and that makes you look super insecure. If she's truly a plate and you aren't in a committed relationship and you're both sleeping with other people then you're in no position to tell her what she can and can't post. That isn't fair to her and it isn't fair to you.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 08:14 AM
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To quote your previous comment: she tells me that me touching her reminded her of this guy at her school who pretends to be her friend but is interested in her and made her uncomfortable This is a plain cut case of oneitis. It's not a shit test, you are her orbiter. You made a move to try and and climb out of the friend-zone, and she put you right the fuck back in, lol. Now she's feeding you bits of false hope to see if she can keep you around as her orbiter. "my solution: tell her I cant be fri…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 08:05 AM
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No, that will look butt-hurt and like you don't have any other friends. It's natural that a guy is going to spend more time with his girlfriend at your age, even spending more time with her than any of his friends is perfectly normal. When it becomes annoying is when he gets a jealous girlfriend and he spends time with nobody but her, and acts like you aren't even friends anymore. He comes up with bs excuses why he can't hang out with the guys, cancels at the last minute EVERYTIME, and, if you d…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 11:02 PM
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Person I didn't know downtown, I was talking to her group of friends and she interrupted me mid sentence, she was drunk off her ass. I just rolled my eyes but was hoping you guys had a witty one liner.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 08:07 AM
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Whenever theyd say it i took it as an insult since a "nice" guy is perceived as a beta here. Any comment on this sub that doesn't condone being an unmoving asshole to everyone is usually down voted. Anyone that seems caring or reasonable is labeled a beta. Every other comment to a relationship problem is "hard next her". Don't let anyone on here talk you out of that "nice" spark, everybody, not only women, go wild for a guy who can master that good-boy/bad-boy hybrid.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 03:52 AM
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do you normally msg random dudes on FB? Thank god you didn't say that. You may be able to get away with that in person once she knows your sense of humor, but over messaging that would sound agreesive and uninterested. Your reply sounds great to me, who knows why she hasn't responded yet, I wouldn't worry about it.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 02:06 AM
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More context? Sounds like she's not into you though.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 01:52 AM
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You probably come across as genuine and they probably fee like you actually listen to them when they talk. That's rare in guys these days, especially the attractive ones. As long as they are still open to escalation I'd take it as a good sign. I wouldn't say you prefer kind, that comes across as kind of butt hurt, especially when they are trying to compliment you. Just try to be "not nice" every once in a while in a teasing way, just to play with them.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 01:47 AM
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Its already over, you just don't know it yet. Good god bro. Your girl is gone. She was probably on vacation with him the whole time. I really feel for you. Read the sidebar and get in that gym buddy.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 04:57 AM
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As long as you are progressing, come out of monk mode if you want to come out of monk mode. Just don't get discouraged if you don't get a girl like his immediately while your still overweight. Contrary to what lots of people will say on here there's nothing wrong with wanting companionship, just don't let that desire use you or control you. Hang around your ripped roommate when possible, be cool to him, try to soak up his knowledge, maybe work out with him. Glad you came out of "anger phase", lo…
/r/askTRP29/07/17 04:53 AM
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I can't be certain due to lack of exact context, but I'm pretty sure I was recently just in the exact same position as you, from 15-19. I was very attractive, tall, and fairly muscular, but I always seemed to turn girls and guys off. I was a huge asshole. I only cared about myself, my own feelings, and getting laid. I didn't care about the girl, she was a walking vagina. My social skills were absolute shit. I was self absorbed. I was depressed, angry, and lonely, and they all fed off of eachothe…
/r/askTRP29/07/17 04:46 AM
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I see what you're saying, but it's possible she really liked you and didn't want you to think she was a slut. She did say she was happy she didn't do it with you. It's your call. Relatedly, is it possible that youre feeling a little bit hurt because you feel like the other guy must have been more attractive than you since she slept with him without a date and not you?
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:45 PM
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A sane person would realize that just because an "older crazy milf" that you've never met gave you her number two years ago doesn't mean she's still interested in you when she's ignoring you now.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:39 PM
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What do you want us to tell you? If she isn't answering you she isn't answering you, unless you want to look desperate and call her out you have no other options.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:37 PM
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If she wanted to talk to you she would have, the fuck are you going to do, send a stranger on tinder a message demanding her attention and asking why she matched with you two years ago and ignores you now?
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:35 PM
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90% of women over the age of 21 have slept with someone without a first date, why do you care?
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:14 PM
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Don't give a shit, talk to other girls who answer you, and don't ask questions about strangers on tinder to strangers on the internet.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:09 PM
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That's what I did, I'm just trying to figure out what it meant in the first place
/r/askTRP24/07/17 06:47 PM
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Have to agree man that's creepy and looks desperate.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 08:10 AM
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Nah I feel him. I've had girls obviously interested in me hit me with a "who is this" to try and seem less invested when they gave me their numbers minutes before.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 08:09 AM
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Tried this one last time, she said "and if I don't?" Still met her a whole bunch of times after that so safe to say she was still into me.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 10:53 PM
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I didn't call it a date, she did. If it's the first time we meet up and do something, what's the difference if it's coffee, pool, swimming or a meal?
/r/askTRP05/07/17 10:47 PM
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Point was they act beta
/r/askTRP25/04/17 02:48 AM
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That clicked, thanks
/r/askTRP24/04/17 07:02 PM
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They aren't, the characters they portray display almost all of TRPs list of "beta" behaviors. Come on now,.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 06:58 PM
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So true, and a Mary Sue is I think what they call it?
/r/askTRP24/04/17 06:55 PM
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This explained it well for me, thanks!
/r/askTRP24/04/17 06:54 PM
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Agreed. But if the guy goes beta why do they still swoon over him? Shouldn't that eliminate any attraction?
/r/askTRP24/04/17 03:11 PM
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No definetly not a cop. Btw any parties in your area tonight? Especially ones with underage children (like me) consuming alcohol? Email me the coordinates. Love doing alcohol underage and playing alcohol ping pong.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 03:09 PM
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That's pretty much every chick flick. But still beta, right?
/r/askTRP24/04/17 03:04 PM
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Thanks for this. Any idea how I could get some wine of booze as a minor?
/r/askTRP24/04/17 03:03 PM
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Yeah. The best part is me and my brother have never done anything that would actually warrant them. No parties, bringing girls over, never done drugs, don't smoke, don't drink, never stolen from them.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 07:35 PM
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I live in an expensive city.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 05:35 PM
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Your right, I'm going to leave. I would love to move in with someone who shares the same viewpoint and goals as me but Im afraid I'm nowhere near cali.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 04:32 AM
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Fair enough, would you rather pay 1100-1200 for your own place or 650 for a master bedroom and a bathroom with roommates? Going off of my income
/r/askTRP22/04/17 04:31 AM
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I'm attractive enough to make other guys jealous but not enough to go out with?
/r/askTRP04/04/17 09:41 PM
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I'm attractive enough to show off but not go out with?
/r/askTRP04/04/17 06:07 PM
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Thanks for the input. Like I said to someone else, I haven't been doing this since I was 15, and back then if you met a girl at a party or anywhere else and she absolutely fawned over you and posted your pic to social media it meant she was crushing hard. I remember those crushes could last weeks, with her having her friends message you and trying to talk to your friends for info on you. Does that not happen anymore?
/r/askTRP04/04/17 04:16 PM
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This makes great sense. I've been out of the game since I was about 15, and back then if a girl fawned over you at a party and then posted a picture of the two of you online it meant she was crushing on you HARD, and would suck up any texts you sent her and would reply with double what you sent. Maybe I was just spoiled back then.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 03:32 PM
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It's looking that way, but I'm pretty sure she wasn't drunk, there wasn't a lot of alcohol at this party. Besides she still posted a picture of me on her social media almost 24 hours later...
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:50 PM
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That's pretty much what I did, but it's hard to just ignore all the hotties who are showing interest when the less attractive guys around you are French kissing and getting hand fulls of ass.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 03:33 PM
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Like I said, most guys learn this 5 years before I do. A) makes great sense B) this is where I have questions, you can get "closer and closer" all you want but eventually you're going to have to push your dick into her butt, and I'm afraid to just do that to some stranger. I've already caught an elbow to the stomach when a dancing girl accidentally backed too far into me. And acted like I was trying to rape her.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 03:30 PM
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Extreme discipline, motivation, coupled with ambition and a love for what you do. Take pride in everything you do, when you put your name on something it has to mean everything to you. Don't fear failure, and always give 110%.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 04:45 AM
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Going to need to know the context, can't tell you anything with one sentence.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 05:13 AM
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Although it sucks not to have big manly hands it will hold you back far less than if you had a 1 incher downstairs or something like that. I can't grab butts like you do BS, I have seen 3 year olds who don't know better go in and grab handfuls of ass. I can't carry shit effiently. BS, wtf does this even mean? If your hand was so small you couldn't pick up an apple or something than you may have a point. I can't play basketball as good as others I've seen 5 year olds who practice dribble and shoo…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 04:56 PM
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Usually your gut is right about these things but that's not near what's most important for you right now. You have EXTREME oneitis and lack of abundance mentality. Seriously, I may be wasting my time because you sound pretty deep into it but break up with her right now and read the sidebar. Read it all and don't stop. I'm not even going to get into "AWALT" right now because you're the fucking problem, don't even think about her. Your problem is much bigger than just one woman going clubbing. You…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 11:10 PM
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Haha, I'm literally in the EXACT same position as you right now. Just offered an IT job at a big corp that I'm underqualified for. Most of it is completely new to me. The guys who hired me took a chance on me so I'm afraid of falling short and disappointing them. As long as your working your hard, doing your best to understand and giving it 100% before and after work, including getting enough sleep and showing up on time you should be just fine. I am currently taking a break from binging on IT v…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 08:33 PM
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I do know the difference. One who is "Immoral" knows what society considers right and wrong (cheating) and chooses to do "wrong". Someone who is "amoral" is not aware that they are making choices society claims are "wrong", they are lacking moral sensibility. I absolutely used the correct word, a man who reads trp and chooses to cheat knows what he's doing is considered wrong by society and chooses to do it anyway, and that's his desicion. Your argument that "red pill is not about morals fuck of…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 06:12 PM
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Trp is only as immoral as you make it, saying it is inherently immoral is stupid. Hell one of the biggest teachings is doing what YOU want to do, what YOU think is right. You could be "red pill" either way. You sound like you haven't read the side bar.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:47 PM
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Sure. I started at the ground floor doing grunt work for something unrelated. Without a degree your best weapon is usually your reputation and your network. Be friends with EVERYONE, and I mean everyone. Dress nice, work hard, work smart, be charismatic, aim to please, make your supervisors look good and they will want to have you around. Make it known that you are looking for something IT related. Get your A+ and you should have no problem getting something. Apply, apply, apply, I was turned do…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:27 PM
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Beautiful.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:08 AM
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I know what you meant, I was trying to say if you wanted to minimize emotional damage on her end,breaking up and blaming it on the distance and then fucking other girls on your own would've hurt a hell of a lot less than just "let's have an open relationship." I know it's hard for you to understand at your age because of the "puppy love" phase but we've all been there, and spoiler alert but one out of a thousand chance you will be together in 10 years. For the love of all things holy don't waste…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:59 AM
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First I all, long distance relationships never work. Ever. If you don't cheat on her first she'll cheat on you, 99/100. It is smart that you see that it is "unsustainable" at 16, I know college kids that live across the country from eachother and still "try to make it work". Second of all have you read the side-bar? It doesn't sound like you have. Read it and it will answer every question you just asked. Second of all, I'm assuming by "open up the relationship" you mean demote her to plate statu…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:21 AM
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Wow, words cannot describe your beauty. But numbers can, 3/10
/r/askTRP16/02/17 12:16 AM
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darker skinned latino Indian. Just be honest. You guys and your blonde bimbos.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 10:05 PM
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If your performing idiot bullshit you probably are just an idiot. I've never seen that to be the case.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 09:43 PM
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The original post wasn't even for you it was for op. You don't have to be a "clown" to be the center of attention. Was not aware being positive and charismatic turned you into a clown.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 08:59 PM
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Please expand on this, I've never heard it before but it makes sense. So if I was an alcoholic to avoid my shitty life I would have a happiness defiance?
/r/askTRP14/02/17 08:57 PM
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Become a completely different person so you can live a happy fulfilling life. The attention is just a bonus. Nothing wrong with changing yourself for the better.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 06:58 PM
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If you are charismatic, friendly, aloof, fun and positive, people will approach and reach out to you. You have to become someone that people want in their lives.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 02:01 AM
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Okay, CC is a great starting place, definitely transfer out next semester. I met someone with a dietics degree who made a lot of money by designing custom meal plans for bodybuilders. It's also important to add he was buff so people knew he knew what he was doing and trusted him. Honestly I always recommend staying away from shitty restaurant jobs, unless you're a chef at a nice restaurant it's almost never worth the hours, pay, stress, heat, and difficultly of working with people who are either…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:23 PM
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If the job isn't worth your time, quit... I don't know why you're asking here, what else would you do, stay and waste your own time? Also, are you in school? I don't know where you live but 8.25 for four years sounds like shit wage, I have friends who started making 14-20 an hour right out of high school as plumbers and electricians, with schooling almost completely paid for by the company. Do you have a drug/alcohol problem?
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:52 PM
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Can you please help me understand the reason why this is a negative thing to hear? It sounds like a compliment to me. Now if she said "You'd make a great best friend" then that would be obvious friend zone.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 10:45 PM
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So give an honest reply, and if she starts bitching tell her she asked and you answered and you won't discuss it any farther.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 04:45 PM
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I know what happened, that's why I asked here on how to handle it better in the future.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 11:40 PM
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This question varies by individual. Is it ruling your life in a way that you don't like? Does it keep you from doing other things you'd like to do? Over-doing anything generally isn't good, and you already said yourself your profiency with girls has gone down considerably. You also said it's taking a hell of a toll on your life. Sounds you've already thought it through, now just decide wether it's worth it to find a new job or stay.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 04:01 AM
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What did I just read You do know normal guys know this isn't how a conversation goes, right? This is creepy and cringeworthy. Even though in all likelihood this is a heavily altered scenario that you came up with to try and scratch over getting embarrassed I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt. Why are you arguing with and defending yourself to these women? Of all things to discuss and argue over why politics? Women want fun and light-hearted, you sound like a total neck beard. And you …
/r/askTRP01/12/16 03:55 AM
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Where did I say everything can be explained by overcompensation? Where did I say everyone watching sports is doing so to accomplish the above? If you read everything I said (which is appparant you didnt, or you chose to skip over parts you didn't like) I clearly said there's nothing wrong with enjoying sports so long as it doesn't become a distraction/obcession to cover up something else you're lacking. And yes, frequently it does have to do with lost masculinity, many men who lose their physica…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 07:40 AM
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Gay men are generally attracted to the same thing women are attracted too. In my experience they are just more upfront and less shy about it. Take it as a compliment. If they ever try to approach you just smile and let them know you're flattered but you aren't gay. Don't make it weird and it won't be. If you feel you need to evaluate your dress and mannerisms then do so but don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 07:28 AM
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Same, a comical amount of out-of-shape guys spend a stupid amount of time debating sports they don't play and the teams they'd do almost anything for to get a win just because they happen to be located in their geographic location. Just because you watch something athletic doesn't make you athletic. They also waste a ridiculous amount of time on "Fantasy Football", yet frown upon guys who spend the same amount of time playing video games (it's the same thing). I have a theory many men these days…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 05:04 AM
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I'm 20 and the women are usually ages 18-23, so would I say something like 15-16? Seems like it may come off as strange?
/r/askTRP25/11/16 08:23 PM
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This is great, but I'm 20 so it's perfectly possible she actually is 18
/r/askTRP25/11/16 07:11 PM
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Because part of getting this girl you like is being attractive, that’s how. Your question has no quick easy answer. The best we can tell you is “don’t be weird, be hot” and that doesn’t help much at all does it?
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Sounds like you need basic social skills, get on those asap. Also side bar. Also go to the gym and workout.
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For your first bulletpoint, do you have a pornography addiction by any chance? That shit fucking ruined my social skills for a while, I was literally incapable of connecting with another human. If not, how much time do you spend going to social events? Do you stay inside all the time and hide behind computer games instead? If so, stop it. Join a club, anything to get you around more people. Stop running self destructive thoughts through your head and telling yourself shit like “I suck at social …
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What happened to “to keep it short”? Anyway, if her dad died extremely recently I can see that being an issue. If that happened five years ago and she bursts into tears anytime someone mentions “dad”....eh. I would say you apologized way too much, making it into a bigger deal by doing so. Yeah you running out and crying made everything much worse. Not trying to make you feel bad but you should’ve just gone home when you felt your grip on your emotions slipping. Then it was just one big dramatic …
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Good, not giving away free shit to people you aren’t friends with just because they’re girls. Guarantee they told your friend to go and ask you for them because they didn’t even want to spend the time to ask themselves.
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I doubt a doctor or a lawyer would ever have to resort to speed dating unless they were just intolerable. Like I said, depends on the crowd and where you live.
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Depends if the chicks there are desperate or just want to have fun with friends. I have a friend who cleans up at those things because he’s a high value guy and the majority of men who go to those things aren’t, they’re desperate.
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