Threesomes in LTRs...

VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-09-06T13:40:21+00:00

In general, you should be vetting plates/FWBs/potential LTRs for bisexuality/willingness to do threeways, from the jump. Ex. I know which of the girls on my roster are down for a gir-girl-Vasya threeway and which aren't and act accordingly.

With FFM threesomes, you have to handle any insecurity on the part of the primary LTR, which is why I say you should be vetting this from the start. Women can be insecure that you are going to dump them by the side of the road because you like the other girl better - this is why they generally express a preference for a 3some with "a girl who looks like me" - because you already have a girl who looks like her and aren't going to dump her because it turns out that you like blondes/Aisans/whatever better.

I have been in a couple of relationships over time with two women where it was like an LTR, only it was boyfriend/girlfriend/girlfriend. Bottom Line: You have to have strong frame. And really, it works better in an FWB/plate situation.

Further Reading:

Uncle Vasya's Guide To Threesomes

-When It Comes To Head, Two Heads Are Better Than One

2020-09-06T12:49:54+00:00

If you don’t have the utter devotion of your LTR it could go sideways. She should love you and see you as the prize. She would do anything to please you. Then you can do whatever you want and it’s just a matter of going out and pulling a bitch together.

A lot of women get horny about the idea of sex with multiple people and women are safer so a FFM threesome comes naturally. Most women would hookup with another girl only if there’s also a man involved so they’re not truly bisexual.

That being said it’s much easier to have a threesome with two slutty best friends you meet at a party. Age range 18-23 for best results.

Threesomes in a typical LTR is a ticking time bomb. She could be cool with it when it happens then bring it up years later as something traumatic. Save yourself the headache and leave the LTR out of it.

throwitdownman · 2020-09-06T17:47:52+00:00

Just do it. Once you try a few threesomes you’ll realize it’s nothing special, it’s just literally sex but with two girls.

To me, your curiosity for threesomes is greater than the need to maintain one LTR. The worst case scenario isn’t that her breaking up with you, the worst case scenario is you spend an insane amount of time ‘plotting’ a threesome.

backgroundmusic95 · 2020-09-06T18:48:42+00:00

Had a MMF threesome with someone else the other day, I was the "other guy" and they were in a relationship.

It was awesome! Fucked her better than her boyfriend :) they asked me at the start why I didn't open my LTR, and asked if it had to do with jealousy... I explained that I had dabbled with polyamory but realized quickly that good old multi-millennia proven judeo-christian values are what lead to a long and healthy bond. I could see that they were worried about that on a base level but quickly reassured each other that it didn't apply to them... then I fucked his girlfriend :)

Title	Threesomes in LTRs...
Author	skizzum97
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Date	September 6, 2020 11:19 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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