Quick preface. Worked at a Hospital for years with a hb9 we were both in previous LTRs, always clicked and had some sexual tension but were in different places. Fast forward a year,I work somewhere else and we're both single. She's a month out of a shitty LTR and we've be consistently hanging out doing shit together and talk regularly. I took her to her first EDM show 2 weeks ago amazing energy between us,hooked up with her during the show, it was an amazing night,but asd was strong and couldn't pull home,no lay. Fast forward 2 weeks still doing fun shit having a blast together but nothing as physical like our night at the show. We met in my pre trp days and I've led our interactions from the get go and even used some dread game to good effect but still haven't hit it. Is this just a case of her knowing the pre trp me and me not getting being able to get out of it. She knows I have plates and throughly enjoys coming along for the ride of the life I've made,it's just not going where I want it to. We're physical and fuck around but that's about it. She's s coming with me on a camping trip this weekend with my crew,outside of this weekend if it doesn't go down don't know if I should soft next or use it as a social circle situation? I've engaged in this whole thing with outcome independence but getting to the point where I feel my time would be spend best in other arenas.