Have a few questions about tinder.

  1. Is it worth getting tinder gold or whatever. I restarted a Tinder U on Thursday night (went on a date Sunday) and have about 40 matches. However I have 99+ likes (lol on bumble I have like 4 matches since Thursday) and not matching with really anyone. I also am getting a lot of girls from different areas so been swiping left a lot. I am curious who else I have matched with.
  2. I am also curious how to open. Going through old posts, I saw that some people said this was the most efficient way. I've been doing this with the last 15 matches I've gotten. Other openers I made based on their bios or funny openers have barely elicited responses. Also every single girl I've matched with has made 0 effort to carry on the convo or ask me questions.

Me: (Girls Name)

Her: (Yes, that is me, my name) etc.

Me: Lets hang. What's your snap?

Her: my snap is

Me: Added you (usually add me back 50% of the time). I notice the longer you wait to add them the less likely they will add you back.

The one girl I went on a date with said she didn't have one so she gave me her number.

Is this a efficient way of conversation? How do I go about texting girls on snap? Also I haven't added some girls right away because they text at times when I'm busy (also don't have notifications on for this).

What is the easiest way to close dates?