Tinder match, girl is a HB7, I drop a super cocky and sexual opening line with huge success, I mention bondage in one of my first messages and she instantly says she's a sub and wants a master. She gives me her number without asking.

We end up having a pretty long conversation (1 hour) via WhatsApp about kink and life, got the meet set up for this weekend. She doesn't live the lifestyle 24/7 (nor do I) but works a high-power job and wants to cede control to someone else sexually. Not surprising.

Since this meet up is more like a safety check before we head to mine than an actual date, what about all the normal stuff like kino, kissing, escalating, bouncing etc that I would do on a normal date?

Maybe a dumb question but I'm slightly stuck thinking about it. All of that stuff is great for a vanilla/quasi-vanilla girl who wants to be seduced into some bdsm, but this chick is pretty hardcore - but she's still a female, so does all that apply?

She's thinking the same as she sent me a message earlier saying to let her know if I'm just looking to fuck so she can have the right mindset going into our meet.

Not totally sure what to make of this one - what do you guys think? Is that text a full-blown shittest or an honest question? (she seems to have been pretty straightforward with me so far).