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Just keep fucking her until she actually stops fucking you. Then move on. Unless she’s worthy of making your slave girl and putting a collar on her, a la Uncle Vasya
/r/askTRP06/02/21 01:20 PM
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I agree with all the comments here. But you need a place to start. Pick something small about which you will maintain discipline permanently. This is why Jordan Peterson, whatever you think about him, recommends cleaning up your room. Maybe start there. Or something similar. Maintain that thing. Then build on it. 1% better every day from there. Go get it.
/r/askMRP05/02/21 12:44 PM
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For anyone over about 37 or so, we remember what it was like to learn how to masturbate without ever having seen porn!!!
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 11:43 PM
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Status doesn't make you a high value man all by itself. It can just make you a better beta.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 03:57 PM
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Who said anything about hooking up? Why are you talking about sex? Are you being a creeper? Jeez, relax a little bit horn dog! Hooking up? I just wanted to make a baby! I don't want to hook up, I just want to have a contest to see who's orgasm face is the best! Just relax. Agree and Amplify or pressure flip. BE FUN.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:37 PM
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If you're question is really "why"... Because in todays climate, everything is political. It's not politically beneficial to go against the grain and suggest anything other than "believe all women" or you're branded all sorts of things to destroy your political career (also done without due process of law). If you're accused (of anything, not just rape) you may still get due process in terms of the court proceedings, but what good is it if your name, reputation, finances, and career are already …
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:33 PM
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You're overthinking so hard that you're making MY pussy dry up.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:27 PM
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Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 12:36 AM
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It's a busy lake. And she's been a good girl with following her nutrition and exercise plans that I write for her, so I indulged her budding exhibitionist side and showed her tight little body off as a reward for her good behavior ;).
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/20 04:29 PM
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Yesterday. On the boat. In the middle of the lake. With an audience. This was one of the last pieces to come around for me. It's still not always there, but it is more often than not. I saw a conversation in the comments between /u/HornsOfApathy and /u/SBIII about whether or not the physical or the mental comes first in controlling premature ejaculation and it got me thinking about that in terms of other changes. Understanding this delineation has been really helpful for me in making changes in …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/20 03:54 PM
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If you're here asking us how to get yourself thrown in jail, you're asking the wrong people.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 11:40 PM
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Interesting. I was thinking about face masks the other day. On one hand, if she has Asthma, Diabetes, or other complicating factors, this could be a bad idea. You have to know your target. Maybe engage in some non political discussion about why she's wearing it. But women remember the boldest men. The ones who just go for what they want. Not the ones who follow the rules and wait for permission. So rip that fucker off and kiss her.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 11:16 PM
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The problem is that she is extremely attractive, submissive and willing to take on my world-view, so will be hard to replace. The problem is that I immediately went and had sex with another girl The problem is that she is your ex and you're idealizing her. "There's this one girl...." Here's the truth. She's NOT a unicorn. She sounds fucking crazy. She seems like the easy option right now. She seems better than the alternative. She seems hard to replace. She isn't hard to replace. If she's fuckin…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 11:03 PM
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Atta boy. You know what you need to do. All you have to do is do it. We all go through seeking validation from women. Those who want better learn how to get validation from their own successes. But you have to pursue something and work at it to have the successes to celebrate. Remember, you're REALLY young. It doesn't feel like it now, but trust me. I'm more than twice your age and I still probably have 50 years. I'm still young. You can accomplish so much, and you're starting to want it. Seriou…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 10:54 PM
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We've just been having this discussion in another thread. Do you really want this? Here are two things to get you on the right path. Stop doing things that make you worse. Maybe you aren't ready to go full speed ahead right now. Maybe you are having a rough time. But you can stop doing the things that you KNOW are making the problem even worse. Can you stop going in reverse, at the least? You know that porn, excessive masturbation, and shitty food are taking you in the opposite direction you wan…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 07:37 PM
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That's no fucking excuse. Put down the chips and cookies and do some fucking push ups.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 07:27 PM
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Good for you for standing up for what you want. And BTW.... DO NOT MARRY.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 04:10 PM
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And...build upon it. Once you've completed the first thing, gain a little confidence to do the next thing. Cleaning your room is a metaphor. It can be taken literally, but it can also mean any other small little thing for which you can take responsibility.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 03:17 PM
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Listen to Akira the Don's album where he put Jocko to music. It's fantastic.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 03:15 PM
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It took me a while because I wasn't ready to take the level of personal responsibility that it takes to really be successful with these concepts. I wanted TRP to help me stay the way I was, but to change or manipulate women to want me. The most successful people you see around here have been living this way for years because it takes time to really integrate this into your life. But in the end, it's all about responsibility. You have to own all of your BS and call yourself out on it, deal with i…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 10:29 AM
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I think you already know the answer to this one, dude. You've got this figured out, no need to second guess yourself. If you're truly done, just block her and move on with your life. Start running game and get to the gym and find yourself a few fuck buddies. Lift, lift, lift.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 10:23 AM
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This is why I ask. You need to DRAG your ass back to working out. You need physical activity every day. It's maybe the last thing that you feel like you want to do, but it's also the thing that will help you build physical and mental strength to dig yourself out of this hole. Do something. Today. Maybe it's only 10 minutes. But do it, then do it again tomorrow. I promise you, it will help.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 10:15 AM
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A high libido isn't a problem. But if you need a distraction, or a way to get your mind elsewhere, the TRP theme applies. Lift. Work out so hard that you're exhausted, then go to bed. Get some sleep.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 01:51 AM
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Take 100% responsibility for your life. You create or allow everything that is in your life. You have the power to choose how you react by taking responsibility for the reality of the situation. Every day, in every situation, ask yourself: How can I take responsibility for this? Then fucking do it.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 01:47 AM
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Honestly, with no BS: When was your last workout, and what did you do, specifically?
/r/askTRP21/05/20 01:45 AM
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Be bold, motherfucker. Is sex all you want from her? If so, say yes. If she keeps fucking you, then you have a bonafide gold plate. If she says she's done, hold frame. Say, "ok cool." She'll probably be back, and she'll know exactly what she's coming back for. Or, you can dangle your commitment as a carrot. "Sure baby, I want you for sex. I might want you for more. We are special together, I just don't want to ruin what we have by complicating it yet, so let's just take our time". Just a simple …
/r/askTRP21/05/20 01:44 AM
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My pleasure. Glad I could help. I'm here if you need me.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 11:03 PM
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Here's the best advice I can give you. Invest your time and energy now, at your young age, into anything that enhances your self awareness. Personality tests. Books. Exercise. Learning not to take what you want, but to wait for something better. There are lots of guys who play Dom on the internet. It's pretty easy. But it's just interactive online porn. All of the kinky shit that's involved with being a Dom is an earned benefit. It's earned through self control, self respect, and self restraint,…
/r/askTRP20/05/20 10:40 PM
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Thank you. Lots of lessons learned by lots of mistakes and lots of practice.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 10:21 PM
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And there we have it, kind readers. All the evidence we need as to why she doesn't respect him. No thanks, he says, to making himself better. No thanks to the proven concepts he's come here to seek advice from. OP, if you already know better, why are you here asking us? Actually don't answer that. Just go cry to your girlfriend about the mean man on the internet that called you a pussy.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 09:56 PM
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I vet potential submissive/slave girls online differently than a "normal" slut. I ramp up the sexuality very early in the conversation, which I save for in person with a normal slut. Then I pull back and make them wait. The truly eager and interested ones will fall for push/pull game at about 9.4x the normal slut's rate. If they think they have found a Dom/Master that suits their submissiveness, they will be in a frenzy. If she's not, she's just looking for female spank bank material. She'll be …
/r/askTRP20/05/20 09:54 PM
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A literal shit test. Dude, have you heard of agree and amplify? Have you heard of being fun? Know why you're here writing this? Because she called you a pussy, and you know she's right. You got all butthurt over your little baby boundaries. They were SOOOOOO important to you that you were willing to let her lose attraction for you, just so you don't have to hear a pretty girl say poop. You don't make a woman submit. You become so authentically high value that she NEEDS to submit to you. If she's…
/r/askTRP20/05/20 09:40 PM
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Listen to this. I had a comment all typed out, then read this. It says what I was going to say, but even better. It seems like this could be a copy/paste response to half of asktrp questions...
/r/askTRP20/05/20 09:20 PM
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One quote that changed my life was this: "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with." - Jim Rohn You don't have to completely cut them out, but you certainly can. The most important thing is to find new people. People who you aspire to be like. People you look up to. And find ways to put yourself in their presence as much as possible. When you do this, you will find yourself fading away from your old friends. You'll find yourself drawn to your new social circles. You'll…
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:51 AM
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If relationships in your 20's worked so well, you'd see lots of happily married, well fucked, fit, healthy, masculine guys in their 30's and 40's all over the place. But hey, I get it. I would have said the same thing in my 20's. I'm 39 now. I see things now, looking back, that I couldn't see back then. I see the "naturally alpha" guys who had long term relationships. They're now fat betas. I see the guys who were pussies back then who've slowly improved themselves. I see the "weird units" who d…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 03:22 PM
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Here's the harsh truth. It's YOU that's not ready for a long term, exclusive LTR. You aren't mentally strong enough in your 20's. You don't have the life experience to have the confidence, and therefore the frame, to handle a woman in her 20's when you're in your 20s. You're far too prone to oneitis. You're far too easily manipulated. And you're far too likely to fall for the wrong girl. You'll end up being needy, whiny, and emotionally wrecked by these girls. Even the good ones. Let's say you m…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 11:17 AM
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I WISH she was crying over me. But she isn't. I keep telling myself that by being the one who walked away and doesn't contact her, maybe that will set me apart from other guys... but it's probably just a lie to tell myself. THIS IS WHY SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU. YOU WANTED HER TOO MUCH. She's fucking with your head by sending you that text. Why the fuck would you want someone who is so fucking cruel to you? I've tried being nice and encouraging you, and I'm done. Grow some fucking balls. Forget about…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 10:37 AM
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Like I always say. Be bold. Say what's on your mind. You'll never get it if you don't ask for it. You'll be surprised how great your life gets when you just start asking for what you want. Say it out loud. Give them a chance to agree. This applies in work, women, and anything else. Fear of failure or rejection is a lie. YOU aren't being rejected if someone doesn't agree to your desire. Your idea isn't interesting to them. So what. If everyone wanted everyone and everything, the world would be bo…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 10:29 AM
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Not for what I have to give up. I'll do it when I want to, but not for chicks. I do it for myself when I need a challenge. The benefit comes from learning game, not from killing yourself to get under 10%. It's tough to stay there and have a life. I have women that I want to spend time with.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 09:05 PM
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If she's not crying over losing you, then you need to be better than you are so that you can actually enter the next relationship with some damn confidence. Trust me. Work on you, don't focus on her. She ain't coming back. She wasn't yours. Never was. It was just your turn. She isn't thinking about you, but you're obsessing over her. Fuck her. Read everything that /u/Whisper and /u/VasiliyZaitzev have written on here. Read NMMNG and WISNIFG and implement that shit. Beat that bitch out of your he…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 09:04 PM
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Why do you care, is the real question. You didn't want to keep talking to her, she didn't want to keep fucking you. Move on. If you liked her that much, you wouldn't have muted her. Fuck buddies are two way streets. If you don't both want it, then just move on dude.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:59 PM
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I try to maintain 10-12% year round. I can easily get to sub 10% if I want to, but I can also be pretty relaxed within my rituals and routines and maintain that level consistently. If spinning plates is your goal, you can do that at any body fat percentage that's not visibly fat with clothes on, if your game is tight. If you want to pick up young hotties without having to talk, you'll need to be lean and huge, then just try not to fuck it up by opening your mouth.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:57 PM
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What are you trying to accomplish? Do you have fat to lose? Do you need to get stronger? Do you want to gain muscle mass? What is your body type, weight, body fat, and max lifts? I'd be hard pressed to have you on a calorie deficit if you're lifting and working a physical job. You need fuel.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:54 PM
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Every guy has a story like this. Well, maybe not quite like this, but still... What are you doing with your life? Tell me about your gym habits. Tell me about your reading and self improvement. Tell me about your work towards career advancement. You're still so focused on her, and it sounds like she's probably pretty damn good looking, so that can be hard to forget. Go find and read the 16 Commandments of Poon. Realize and take responsibility for where YOU fucked up in every one of them, then vo…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:50 PM
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If you're reading the non-verbals correctly, she's digging it. You might have a full blown submissive on your hand if you hold frame and don't start giving a fuck about what she wants.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:44 PM
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Exactly the same as I handle her. Whenever I decide to bring a girl into my inner circle, she already knows that I have a primary. She knows that I have a high drive and that I enjoy variety. That's why she's getting to join into my life, because she's bringing variety. I both want and need excitement, intensity, novelty, enthusiasm, and pleasure. It's just the way it is with me (now). It's not something I need to brag about or throw in anyone's face. It's calm, confident, and matter of fact. I …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 11:02 AM
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I'd make her rate me first. Then ask, Am I rating your looks or your personality?
/r/askTRP16/05/20 12:08 PM
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If it were me? I'd counter-engineer it. Instead of doing what everyone else does (show off) I'd go opposite. You will never win playing king beta. There's always someone with more. Don't blow it all trying to look impressive. Just buy yourself a hot escort, get the fun without all of the expensive flexing. Besides, anyone can look like they're a millionaire on Insta. Pose by a Ferrari you see on the street. Instead, I'd start a millionaire minimalist lifestyle. I'd document the reality of having…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 12:05 PM
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Who cares? Do what you want to do. You don't need to justify it to us or to yourself. It's not "sick bastards". Men have done this from the beginning of time. It's normal. Not societally well received, but not abnormal either. You're reacting to your programming. If you just want to fuck, and you're going to handle any potential consequences like a man, then just fuck. You don't have to make a moral issue out of a sexual issue. This isn't church. I've done both. I prefer being upfront, because I…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:54 AM
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Being bold. Shockingly bold. When the time is right. But also, being subtle. Very subtle. When it suits me.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:22 AM
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"How to tell" Tell him. You don't need internet strangers to figure out a way to open your mouth and say what you want to say. Unless....theres a part of you thinking that it really isn't any of your fucking business. People need to come to this on their own. I have two close guy friends who are very deep into the RP. One found it completely on his own and we realized it pretty quickly in the way we talked about women. The other had a copy of "The Rational Male" anonymously left on the hood of h…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:18 AM
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You ARE weak, because you make excuses. Calling you out on your bullshit, bro. You DO have time to read and improve yourself, bro. You have the same amount of time as I do, bro. You are capable of writing with full words instead of "u" bro. You can be better than you are, bro. Choose where you invest your time if you want to be better with the she humans with the wet squishy cock holes, bro.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 11:04 AM
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So let's get this straight. I run two businesses, work out, stretch, manage a wife and several plates who are ALL submissive to me in different ways (which gives me responsibility for each of them in certain ways). I also read at least a book a week, maintain good friendships with my guy friends, maintain a home. Oh, and I work on my own cars. You have time. You just fucking waste it on shit that makes you worse. I invest my time in things that make me better. Compound that effort over several y…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:50 PM
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20% body fat for a guy is actually pretty high It's really fucking high. If you're a 200 pound guy with 20% body fat, that's 40 pounds of fat. Pick up something that weighs 20% of your body weight and run a few flights of stairs with it. Any guy that wants to be a swordsman needs to stay around 10% consistently and know how to cut from there at will.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:39 PM
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No, you turned yourself into a "beta buck tampon". You allowed it. You became it on your own because you thought it would get you what you want. What do you want? Do you want her to fuck you like she did when you started dating? Then care less about what she thinks. Lift. Get hot. Start hitting on other girls. Your value was equal to or higher than hers when you started, because you were a lady killer, you were attractive, and even more so because other women wanted you. You got fat, started giv…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:15 PM
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Then you know what to do. Invite her over. Be bold. Tell her exactly what you want.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:09 PM
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I'm always better at writing them out than I am at telling them out loud, at first. Try writing them down. Read them to yourself in the mirror a couple dozen times. Literally read, verbatim. Then start to add voice inflection, ad lib, and energy. It's a skill that has to be developed. Toastmasters is awesome and cheap and really helpful in learning to speak well in general.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:08 PM
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Look into EMDR therapy. Seriously. You're not behind. I don't know how old you are, but you're young. If you're 20, you don't even know how young you are yet. I'm in my late 30's and I'm still young. I'm still getting better. People who seem to be "ahead" right now are either 1. faking it, or 2. peaking too early. If you want to build confidence, stop comparing yourself to anyone else but yourself. Be better today than you were yesterday. Build on small successes day after day. Look yourself in …
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:06 PM
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In any context with a woman, the one with the power is the one who wants/needs/desires the other less. Whether you're married or just hitting on a random chick, you want the power. She only gets wet for you if you have the power. So how do you get the power? Heartistes Golden Ratio. Give her back 2/3 of what she gives you. This isn't scorekeeping. If you start tallying up compliments I'm going to find you and pimp slap you. You know in your gut if you're chasing her. If you're giving more than y…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:54 PM
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Have you increased your SMV significantly in the past 2 months? Been working out? Eating right? Being seen with chicks hotter than her? If yes, she might want a ride. If not, she's probably looking for attention. Either way, you have nothing to lose. Tell her you're horny and ask if she wants to fool around. You'll find out how she sees you pretty quickly. You'll figure out where your SMV stands with her, and you'll maybe get your dick sucked. If you lack the confidence to already know that you'…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:40 PM
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This (like everything else) depends on how she perceives your value compared to hers. If she sees your value as lower than hers, she'll either be relieved, or disgusted. Relieved, because she doesn't think you're pursuing her and that she won't have to do any work to keep you as an orbiter since you've already subjected yourself to it. She's also disgusted, because you are so weak and willing to give up even trying to pursue her. She'll only show it if you don't appear to have the resources, or …
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:30 PM
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I was the awkward kid. Fat choir boy. Insecure as fuck. No sense of self. This shit is meaningful to me; it's given me a true sense of self. Genuine confidence that never came naturally, and all of the benefits that come with it.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 09:53 PM
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I think there's a reason that some guys find it easy to do. And a reason that it takes a lot of work for some who were deep into the blue pill illusions to get back to zero, then to accept and develop their own natural masculinity and dominance. Anyone can get there, but some are naturals no doubt. And yes, I'm proud of her. She's a very good girl, and she'll do anything to hear those words.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 09:44 PM
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I wish I just kept being beta You did. That's the problem. Serving her with divorce papers isn't "RedPill" when you are clearly a weak pussy who is trapped in her frame, and who never bothered to get himself in shape to be the hawt guy she will submit to. Divorce her. Or take her back. Either way, it doesn't matter. Your life and all of your relationships with women will look EXACTLY LIKE THIS if you don't take charge of yourself.
/r/askMRP13/05/20 09:37 PM
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There's a technique for dealing with cluster B personality disorders that will come in handy for you. Obviously, the first choice is to detach. No contact. Eliminate them from your lives totally and completely. This is the only actual solution, until they are willing to seek out and work at years and years of therapy. This is the only way that you'll ever have any sort of functional relationship with her. But when you're in a situation like you're in, where you don't yet have the ability to cut …
/r/askTRP13/05/20 08:30 PM
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Mine won't remove hers. She won't even let me remove it unless it's absolutely essential, and only for as short a time as possible. At the airport a couple months ago, she knelt in front of me in the line for the metal detectors for me to remove it, and knelt again to have it put back on as soon as she walked through and got her things. She has no problem removing her wedding ring when she's working out or if her hands are getting dirty. But she will not remove her slave collar under any circums…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 07:58 PM
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A perfect example of the type of life that can come out of the personal growth and confidence that are inherent in a man's unplugging. I didn't find this place, or come out of my BP fantasy, until later in life. I was already married and chose to stay that way. Yet still, after several years of unwinding and hard work, my life has started to look more like Uncle Vasya's than the old "I'm too tired tonight" bullshit. It is hard to believe that I'm still married to the same woman. But she's not th…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 11:04 AM
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You're asking the wrong question. It's not "how do I handle this dynamic when it happens?" Its: "How do I change the dynamic?" If she sees you as attractive and high value, she will submit to you in any situation. The limit of your attractiveness is the limit of how far she will go to please you. If you had done the work to develop the value, the argument wouldn't have even happened. She would have turned to you to ask you what you'd like her to do. Clearly, you're not there. But you can be. You…
/r/askMRP12/05/20 11:35 PM
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Exactly. Back when I was a fat ass, I remember someone telling me..."a year from now, you'll wish you started sticking to it today." There isn't a timeline or a "done" point with this shit. It's constant growth and evolution into better and better versions of yourself, and the resultant benefits and rewards that come with the way that the world, and women, react to that better you. Start becoming better today. Now. And don't ever stop.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 08:14 PM
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Here's the problem in this post: And then on top of that, you have to deal with all this drama bullshit of keeping frame and drama and just energy being sucked. When you're operating from abundance, "keeping frame" isn't "drama bullshit". Keeping frame is just you being yourself. You're choosing women who you like and want to be around. You're kicking them to the curb if they bring drama and suck your energy. I don't want those people in my life in any respect. Especially not in someone who's su…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:37 PM
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Then stop being a pussy and tell her: "I really don't care about any of this, I just want to fuck you." If she wants the same, then it's game on. She'll be excited by your directness. If she doesn't, then you just saved yourself having to go through all sorts of shit you don't want to do just to get pussy. And chances are, she'd see right through you faking interest, which would dry her up like the desert. If you don't want to run game and be interesting and fun with a girl, don't. Pretending wo…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:22 PM
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We definitely don't have to objectify women. And you don't have to maintain stoicism. You don't have to stuff emotions. You don't HAVE to do anything. Everything is a choice, brother. The sun is going to come up tomorrow and the world is going to go on. Emotions are real. They're a part of the fabric of life. So is the fact that women, some more than others, but all to some extent are turned off by weakness. No man is an island, and no man is without weakness. And some women have more empathy an…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:18 PM
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When I was new at this stuff, there was a statement that didn't make much sense to me. That was: "The stay plan is the go plan." Are you going to stay or are you going to leave? Your actions are the same either way. Go to the fucking mediator. And the workshop. /u/justpickanyusername makes a good point, not to do something you aren't ready for. Don't leave if you aren't ready to leave. But you also aren't ready to stay if things don't change either, are you? It took two years AFTER I started act…
/r/askMRP02/01/20 08:19 PM
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Your logic is flawed. You've already decided that your genetic potential is low enough that earning potential is all you have to offer. You've decided that you aren't capable or worthy. You've decided that your ego is fragile. You don't "convince yourself that you're a man of value." There are no men of value that didn't create that value. You need to get tougher. How do you get tougher? Be tougher. Take 100% responsibility for your life. All of your life. If it touches your life, you own it. I …
/r/askTRP26/12/19 10:36 PM
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Do what you want to do. Sometimes, things get worse before they get better. Sometimes, you'll have bad days even in the middle of a hell of a good life. Sometimes, you'll keep your shirt on. Sometimes you'll not give a fuck. This is your life, not anyone else's. You're not making it out alive. Just don't wait to start living until you reach some place where you think you'll feel better. You feel better by living and getting better. You sure don't need our advice on what you should do. Make your …
/r/askTRP26/12/19 10:18 PM
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Turns out you're right. That's the danger in believing what you're told without fact checking. Sort of like how we fall for BP "truths" without ever questioning them. Thanks for pointing out my error.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 10:12 PM
2

In short, you have to continue to inject uncertainty into comfort. Esther Perel's book "Mating in Captivity" was a revelation to me back in my blue pill days. That book is based around the concept that if you want to have erotic attraction to your long term partner, you need to maintain a sense of separateness. When a relationship is new, you have a lot of things that are uncertain. You don't know everything about the other, and that makes it exciting. Not knowing everything makes you hungry to …
/r/askMRP25/12/19 01:30 PM
7

Atlas Shrugged. Not only was this the second highest selling book of the 20th century, (behind the bible) it shows through very good writing and character development what men with masculine strength and bulletproof frames look like when operating inside of a (fictional) society. It's worth every single page.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 12:52 PM
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Oneitis for a married woman. If you're coming here looking for advice on how to "win her back" you've come to the wrong place. She's a cheating whore and you're catching feelings because why? She's the only one you think is ever going to suck your dick? You're a white knight who's going to save her from her terrible life? Dude...she committed her life to another man and she's still kissing you. What makes you think she's worthy of your time? I know you FEEL something for her, but you're just a v…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 12:50 PM
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Maybe the better question is: what is it inside of you that falls victim to manipulation? The Cluster B types will find this and exploit it. Are you needy when it comes to sex? They'll use that need to manipulate. Are you needy for attention? They'll overwhelm you with it, then take it away. Are you needy for validation? They'll make you feel like such a good boy, then they'll leave you wondering why you're not good enough anymore. If you want red flags, look around her. Look at her inner circle…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 12:46 PM
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How do I forgive myself? Forgive yourself. I'm going to be a lot more compassionate in this reply than I generally am, because I know the damage that these types of Cluster B bitches can inflict, and I understand them at a granular level. There isn't any "secret sauce". You have to Nike this shit and just do it. Make a decision that you're going to drop it. These BPD bitches are broken people. She was broken before you ever met her, and nothing you could have done would have changed that fact. T…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 12:26 PM
2

It certainly won't hurt you to try. If you fix your sleep and your hydration is handled and your nutrition is on point and you still have the lethargy, you might want to have some bloodwork done to see if there's anything else going on. Things like low T, electrolyte imbalances or deficiencies, Vitamin D deficiency could also be it, but figure out the basics first. You'll be surprised how much else falls into place if you just get good sleep, drink water, and eat well.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 08:28 PM
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The moment that you start getting oneitis, you start making her bored. You're getting attached and that will make you comfortable. Comfort kills tingles, and your own confidence. You're not going to marry this bitch. Imagine her screwing someone else until it doesn't bother you anymore. Then imagine yourself screwing her best friend or sister or mom and her finding out, and do that until it doesn't bother you anymore. You have to always remember that you're the prize. As Kanye said...theres a th…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 05:45 PM
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You're venturing into covert contract territory here. Is your goal just to become something that will make a certain type of woman do a certain thing or act a certain way? If you're doing this for you, you're on the right track. If it's still all about the women, you're just fucking yourself in your own ear. If I could offer one serious piece of advice, you're half my age. You sound like you're really killing it, but don't let it go to your head or let yourself get soft. Keep working on yourself…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 05:34 PM
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Have some damn self respect, man. Why would you give yourself to someone who so willingly gives herself away to someone else? Do you think so little of yourself or your prospects to find a better, prettier, kinder, more respectful woman that you think you have to put up with this? Maybe go start meeting this dude's wife for lunch and not telling her about it. Then bang her, make sure he finds out, blow up his shit, then blow up your shit, and go fuck someone who actually treats you like you matt…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 04:48 PM
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If you say you sleep "barely enough" then it's not enough. I used to say the same thing, until I started to sleep more. I thought I was okay, but I didn't know how bad I felt until I tried an experiment and realized that I was just used to feeling that tired. That experiment was simple. A consistent bedtime and wake up time with 8 hours of sleep every day, on the same schedule, 7 days a week. That meant going to bed early and getting up early on the weekends too, and the resultant effect on my s…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 04:43 PM
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Well, you are trying to contend with the fact that you're a man and you have drive and desire. If you try to ignore it, it'll take over everything. Pushing things down and trying to ignore them only makes them stronger. You don't do what you're talking about by avoiding women. You do it by finding something that you want MORE than easy pussy. Something else to direct that drive and passion toward that you care about even more. You just get so busy caring about whatever this thing is, spend so mu…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 04:37 PM
2

How about you stop comparing and just be as good as you are capable of being. You have no idea how good you can be. Nobody else matters, wifefucker.
/r/askMRP23/12/19 04:28 PM
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I saw above that you mentioned you were in a no-fault state for divorce. That may be true, but it only matters if you just throw the whole mess into a judge's hands and ask them to decide. If you decide that you can't stay, you need to take control of the situation. You need to privately negotiate the divorce, have papers prepared, then just bring them to a judge to sign. It's a much cleaner way to go about the situation. This way, you can use the cheating against her in your own negotiations, w…
/r/askMRP23/12/19 11:58 AM
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I've been at this MRP stuff for a month. This is standard stuff, dude. After a month, you've barely started to change. She is a reflection of you. All of this is just her, being her, as she's had to be to put up with your pussy ass for the last 20 years. We can't tell you a "right approach" or tell you if you were right or wrong in handling it. It's up to you. You have to develop the frame and the self confidence to handle these things on you own, in your own way. You clearly understand the conc…
/r/askMRP22/12/19 12:42 PM
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I think that in situations like this, if you want to try to stay for the sake of your kids and your family, you need to exhibit and maintain an extraordinary level of power going forward. I'm not going to make any moral judgments about your decision. I realize that it's harder than black and white. If it wasn't, you wouldn't be here asking this question. So, if she's actually sorry, and she actually wants to make it work, she should be showing some real, tangible remorse. She's probably trying t…
/r/askMRP21/12/19 01:36 PM
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I'm not going to enter the conversation of "this is the way an alpha" does anything. Instead, just have some self respect. If you're always giving gestures of kindness and friendship but not receiving them in return, you're just running a big covert contract, thinking that your actions should garner some appropriate response. Take a look at any interpersonal relationship; friendship, romantic, or sexual. Are you giving more than you're receiving? Are you giving thinking that it will make the oth…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/19 01:06 PM
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Read everything recommended here in MRP and in TRP. Go to the gym. Get your T situation sorted out if necessary. Apply consistent effort over time, and shut up about all of it while you work. Give it a couple of years of this effort. You don't build a tree. It grows. Slowly.
/r/askMRP18/12/19 09:42 PM
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So, you DEERed and went Rambo, then act validated that she sucked you, quite literally, back into her frame? If you’re asking for sex, she’s still in control of sex. When you have frame and real confidence and move past the Rambo anger phase, she will ask you and you’ll decide. She will pursue you. You’re not the prize yet. Keep working. Keep reading. Keep improving. This takes time and consistent effort. Work on the dread levels and take them seriously. They all apply. Even the ones you think y…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 04:23 PM
3

I’ve been consistent for 2.5 years. It works long term if you’re mentally strong and can stick to what you decide.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 02:08 AM
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My wife is 100x happier since being dominated and controlled. She thanks me for spanking her when she gets out of line because it helps her snap out of her emotional outbursts and get back to a more level head. She hasn’t said no in longer than I can remember. To anything. And I never would have believed she was like this a few years ago. When I read stuff like this, I just see a little girl who hasn’t ever met a masculine, dominant presence in her life. But when she does, little leftist anarchi…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/19 06:20 PM
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And god bless them for that.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 09:40 PM
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You don’t have boundaries, which means you don’t have frame. If my wife pulled this shit, she wouldn’t know I knew. She wouldn’t have a chance to explain herself. Who cares if she’s a good person. She’s actively expressing interest in another man, which is past my boundaries. She’d get a text from me that I’m going camping for a couple days with no explanation. Then I’d come home with divorce papers completed and signed by me with little sign here stickies for her autographs.
/r/askMRP20/08/19 10:15 AM
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What’s humorous to me is how any of the Blank Slaters will SAY one thing that toes the line of their ideology, while at the same time they DO another thing that’s in line with their biology and “firmware”. This is the “nice guy” who secretly watches BDSM porn. The feminist who likes being choked and spanked by a strong masculine man. The liberal teacher who fucks her young alpha students. You always watch someone’s actions, not their words. They reveal the truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/19 06:13 PM
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Lol. Get your body right, your mind right, and your look right. There’s a massive change happening in sexual dynamics. We’re trending towards a poly society where the best men will have all of the women. That’s good news. Just do the work it takes to be one of the best.
/r/seduction26/07/19 06:09 PM
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Just keep it up. Don’t ever commit or get married. Your best years of sleeping with 19 year olds are in your 30s and 40s. Just keep on keeping on, my man. And get to the gym and the barber. It’s all easier when you’re in shape, well groomed, and have game.
/r/seduction26/07/19 03:49 PM
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There is nothing more alpha than an IDGAF authenticity. Alpha isn't a checklist or something you can become. Alpha is unbecoming all the bullshit you've tried to do to impress others and blend in, letting yourself truly be who you are at your core and letting that out confidently into the world. FYI, this is WAY harder than imitating your vision of what an alpha is. You can imitate alpha, and you can even have success with women by doing so, but it'll always be an act. It'll never be real. Only …
/r/seduction26/06/19 06:17 PM
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Men love women. Women love children. Children love dogs. Dogs love men. You can be surrounded by people and still be alone. If you don't have children by your mid 30's, you'll see the breeders start to disappear, cancel at the last minute on plans, or at the very least, always require any socialization to happen at their house around their kids' schedule. If you're successful and somewhat independent financially, you'll see your friends slaving away at jobs along with having their family. Even i…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 06:11 PM
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This was really interesting to read, because it so closely mirrors my story. I too wanted a D/s relationship but was never strong enough to admit it or ask for it until I had improved myself to a point where I had the confidence to stand up for what I wanted. Now, my wife wears a locking titanium collar and gets off on pleasing me at any cost. She was a bit slower than your wife to come around to the idea due mostly to her extremely conservative upbringing, but once she realized that she was alr…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 05:59 PM
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Case in point. There is a massive rise in feminist women looking for “daddy” figures, BDSM sex with Dominant older men, choking, spanking, and consensual non consent play (aka rape fantasies). Feminism isn’t about what you think it is. It’s a response to a world full of pussies. All women react the same way to a strong dominant man. They get tingles.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 07:58 PM
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You need to slow the fucking roll man. Are you willing to put in the two years it takes a lot of us to just get a complete grasp of the real meaning of all this shit? Are you willing to SLOWLY work through the dread levels? Are you ready to do the work in the gym to pack some muscle on that scrawny frame of yours? I mean fuck dude. I’m four inches taller than you and outweigh you by 75 pounds. You’re the problem. This is all your responsibility. It’s up to you to solve it. Period. What that mean…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 12:01 AM
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Add”Stop asking internet strangers if this will make me good enough”. You already know the answer. Get to the gym and stop the mental masturbation.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 02:30 AM
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Sure, most guys are skipping leg day. That makes me better than them. It's not my job to worry about anyone but myself. Guys that work their upper body constantly like that women grope their arms. I would prefer that they grope my glutes.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 04:09 PM
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They are desperate to find a "solution" to women STILL wanting masculine men. It's like they just can't believe that after all the feminism and social manipulation that women just still crave a strong, fit, aggressive man. ​ Meanwhile, we just keep on lifting and reaping the rewards of owning the answer key to the test that can't be rewritten. ​ It's leg day, gentlemen. Go build some toxically masculine muscle.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 11:06 AM
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https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ These are just a blatant ripoff of Roissy.
/r/seduction09/05/19 10:18 AM
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He’s right, but I think he’s right about the wrong thing. Anyone who looks at culture and bemoans the state of affairs in society as a whole, will have no problem finding lots of things to be concerned with. But you can’t fix culture. Very very few people can even have an impact on culture. What you can fix is what is inside your control. Namely, the actions you take, the thoughts you think, and where you put your attention. If we continue to pay attention to people like Charlize Theron, and tal…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 03:05 PM
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I think that the thing that I missed early in my RP self growth was that this isn't about what you do, it's about who you are, and who you are becoming. Old me and new me can say the same words, take the same actions, even wear the same clothes. But everything I do now comes from a place of personal confidence, self respect, and strength. Those things matter in how you communicate non-verbally. When we do things trying to obtain a certain outcome, and we tie our sense of self worth to whether or…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 04:25 PM
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One of the few times I even remotely bring up RP concepts is in response to the phrase "happy wife, happy life." ​ I just respond simply, not in my house. In my house, it's happy king, happy kingdom. And watch those beta hamsters just start running.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 01:02 PM
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Underrated 90s talking pig movie reference.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 04:33 PM
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I didn’t like the way my wife did laundry. I didn’t ask, I just started doing it. The way I want it done. Eventually, she took it back over, doing it to my standards. If she hadn’t, I’d still be doing it. I still do sometimes. I want it done to my standards whoever does it. Stop giving a fuck about her. Do it your way if it’s important to you. Do it forever if that’s what it takes, not because you’re trying to change her. Because it’s what you want. Maybe she’ll pick it up. Maybe not. This is ab…
/r/askMRP05/04/19 11:29 PM
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This is why I tell people that it's important to look for every victory. Success drives confidence. Confidence drives success. Men lacking frame and confidence want to know how to become confident when they currently suck. It's by viewing every piece of forward momentum, no matter how small, as a victory. Every action is a victory over inaction. Make your bed. Victory. Pay your bills on time. Victory. Go to bed early and get up early to go to the gym. Victory. Leave a hard 9 half comatose in an …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 10:45 PM
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Not anymore. Before RP, I married a woman with two kids and made all the wrong decisions (betapussycuck, I know). I've chosen to stay with her because she's come around so well and responded so well to the red pilled version of me that there's no reason currently to drop her, something I strongly considered and would still do if the circumstances required it. The step kids have been enough of parenting for me. I have a really good relationship with one of them, the other is basically a distant r…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 04:19 PM
4

Exercise induced orgasms are a real phenomenon.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 04:21 PM
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Frankly, this article doesn’t matter to me. Some might complain that they’re trying to define TRP and box it in as a far right ideology. Of course they are. That’s what they do. It’s collectivism 101. What I’ve always loved about RP is that this isn’t a collective. It’s a group of individuals. Everyone learning to be their best alongside each other. This isn’t some sort of morality or ideology. It’s just ideas. You can never kill ideas. You can only try to classify those who ascribe to them as a…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 12:01 PM
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Of course she will, if you wait until she's 18.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:55 PM
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Right, but sometimes, to reach the young guys, you have to put more emphasis on getting laid than is warranted, overall. ​ Indeed, women are a lagging indicator, Attractive women, notably. There is such an abundance of zeros and ones craving some sort of validation that many young guys just take the low hanging fruit until they start to find some value in themselves. For the couple of younger men that I've red pilled, it wasn't just "any" pussy that they sought. It was the desire for better. We …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:41 PM
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"how you should focus on the weakest area of your life first." "Started lifting last month" "But how can I reach self actualization if my dick feels dryer than the Mojave desert?" Be attractive. Don't be unattractive. If your dick is dryer than the Mojave, and you just started lifting last month, and pussy is your weakest area, I think you answered your own question. If you need to put forth massive effort for every interaction you get to have with a woman, you're not attractive yet. If you just…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:22 PM
1

I sense that we may get some new EC's out of this.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:11 PM
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Right on right on. In my marriage, we have very direct communication. She knows that I have options and that I choose her. But she also knows that if she walks through one of my red lines, it’s over. All the way over. And before the autists come out...I’ve earned the right to say that to her, which is the entire key.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/19 09:21 PM
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That’s very well put. I took a master level Neuro Linguistic Programming course last fall and really understood some of my own hangups and limiting beliefs about work. I came to the realization that fulfillment and contentment come from taking responsibility, and that I needed more responsibility if I wanted more fulfillment. My parents had lots of responsibility and were actually pretty happy even though they had little control over their own time. But they were not content or fulfilled. They a…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/19 11:54 AM
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I could have almost written this same post word for word. Instead of selling a business, I hired employees and trained them to run it for me, then stepped out and cut back to about 2-3 hours/week of time investment. I've said since I was a child that I wanted to be "retired" when I grew up. I saw my parents working themselves to the bone for 40, 50, and 60 hours a week. I wanted to enjoy my life and my time, and I worked my ass off until I could essentially retire at the age of 36 with a signifi…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 09:31 PM
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You’re letting one single woman hurt you. Maybe you’re the one being a little bitch. You understand how the game works, so stop wishing reality wasn’t real. The fact that you’re whining here is exactly what turned her off. You’re weak. You’re in her frame. Women don’t like weak men who don’t have a strong sense of self. Buck up. Get back out there. Approach until you forget about all of this bullshit.
/r/seduction09/01/19 03:14 PM
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The world is always moving forward. Conservatism aims to hold still or move backwards. Trying to stop human progress will always be an exercise in trying to stop a river from flowing by throwing rocks into it. Even if you manage to throw a big rock, the water finds a new way around. Changing the world isn't stopping progress, its hijacking (which my MacBook just tried to autocorrect to hijab....case in point) the narrative and changing the flow of progress in a new direction. The radical left ha…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 11:45 AM
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Yep. You don’t have a choice here. Your words have meaning or they don’t.
/r/askMRP07/11/18 08:58 PM
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Don’t be captain save a ho. She’s toxic and every day you spend around her is making you worse. Ghost, block, and ignore people like her. Her problems are from her childhood and you won’t ever fix her. She won’t ever be different. Once you disappear, you’ll probably experience what is called an “extinction burst”. She’ll go nuts to try to draw you back in. She’s terrified of abandonment, which causes people to abandon her. When her fear becomes reality, she’ll use any tactic possible to get you …
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:43 PM
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You’re only posting this for one of two reasons. You’re a troll. You’re looking for someone to give you permission to leave her. Either way...grow some balls.
/r/askMRP25/10/18 11:40 PM
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If you’re not already checked out, I’d adopt a wait and see approach. It took you 20 years to create this problem. If things are improving, give her requisite time to come around. Assess along the way. If improvements stop happening, assess the viability of the relationship at that point. You still have years of being able to bang women in their 20s if you so choose, especially as you continue to improve yourself. But your wife might be a good option long term once she trusts that this new versi…
/r/askMRP25/10/18 12:52 AM
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My standard response, with a grin “it’s amazing you can fit through a door...”. You’re taking this way too seriously. Be fun. Honesty doesn’t have to mean brutal and serious honesty.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 04:10 PM
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Your oneitis. You are completely in her frame and just looking for validation on a decision you’ve already made. Keep lifting and hide money. You’re going to need it.
/r/askMRP01/10/18 12:26 AM
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You’re ignoring the drawbacks.
/r/askMRP01/10/18 12:10 AM
1

Listen to this guy, OP.
/r/askMRP30/09/18 09:12 PM
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You’re overthinking this. Fuck him a lot. Every day. Be nice to him, let him make decisions. Just relax and be a woman and give him space to be a man. Sugar and spice and everything nice. And lots of head. It’s that easy. Seriously.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/18 12:05 PM
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This post was written from deeply inside her frame. Why are you doing nice things for her when she’s being like this? Why are you rewarding her with your time and attention? Why aren’t you out lifting, or pursuing a hobby or spending time with your friends?
/r/askMRP23/08/18 11:41 PM
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Even better, it's becoming a joke. A friend's teenage daughter gets teased mercilessly on the bus by teenage boys mockingly calling her a "feminist." Her natural reaction is "I AM NOT". The pendulum will always swing back the other way.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 07:55 PM
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I don’t think a lot of the comments here are actually very helpful. Try this. Don’t stop using the internet. When you’re on it because you have to be, set a timer for when you’re going to force yourself to turn it off. Make plans so you have to stick to your off time and focus on your work. Install a program that blocks any websites except ones you need, but have a friend set the password. Leave your phone at home when you leave. Wrote down any numbers or directions you might need. Someone will …
/r/MGTOW31/07/18 06:47 PM
1

Move.
/r/MGTOW31/07/18 06:40 PM
1

The women who seem the most oblivious and "special" tend to be the most susceptible to AWALT. They might not be looking for the next branch to swing up to, but when it is right in front of their face, their biology tells them to grab it. There are no unicorns. As much as it sucks, it is the truth. You'll learn from this and get better. And all of us in relationships who read here should take this to heart. Even the best girls are like that, even if they have no idea that they are.
/r/MGTOW11/12/17 10:36 PM
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Just report them all as spam. If all the guys started doing this, they'd get the message pretty quick.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 03:16 AM
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Everyone, pay attention to this. NPD, BPD, Antisocial PD, whatever. Ghost them, block them, change the locks, change your phone number....whatever it takes to cut them out of your life immediately. You don't just want to cut them out, you want to build a brick wall between you and them, and don't hesitate to leave some shit over on their side while you're running away to your own side of the wall. It's not worth running back into a burning house to save a pair of socks. Get out. You will get bur…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 03:11 AM
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Don't marry. Ever. There are no benefits to you. If she insists on marriage, go slay 50 hotter girls on Tinder and you'll get over her. I'm happily married, but didn't wake up to this fact until I had already married. I wouldn't do it again, and she's a pretty good woman. You've been an adult for two years. Trust 37 year old me. It doesn't do you any good. You'll regret it.
/r/askMRP24/11/17 10:57 PM
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I'd agree with some of the other commenters here that this all seems awfully centered in your wife's frame, but one can't really know that unless we're inside your head, which we will never be. People here have to read between the lines of text to try to understand mindset, and I know I've had mine misunderstood in the past. What I think bears repeating, and might clarify your ideas a little more is that if you are high value, and you display that high value, all of these things happen naturally…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 03:26 PM
1

If you don't want to lead, you shouldn't be married. You wouldn't take the captaincy of a ship if you didn't want to be responsible for EVERYTHING related to the ship. You want pussy? Tinder. You want a relationship, suck it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/17 10:16 PM
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"I wonder how long he'll stick around for that." That should get the hamster going! As much as going to max level dread too quickly causes all kinds of problems, the opportunity to talk about OTHER couple's sex lives is a great opportunity if done right. I had a great conversation with my wife the other night about another childless couple and how they don't have sex. I said...what's the point of even being married then? If a married couple doesn't have kids, the sex better be fucking fantastic …
/r/askMRP19/05/17 10:41 PM
2

Its like anything else sexual. It floats some people's boat, it grosses other people out. Regardless, if your wife didn't want anything to do with you, now she's begging you to pound the pooper, I'd take it as a good sign that you're doing something right.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 10:33 PM
1

The comments below are all great, and there are lots of things you can try. I'd add that reading the book "Mating in Captivity" by Esther Perel may help you. It helped me. She breaks down a lot of issues with modern couples, and some of the case studies really hit home with me. There are physical reasons for PE, and there are mental reasons. For me, it was all mental. On top of it, even though written by a wimmenz, that book is FULL of RP bullets...
/r/askMRP12/05/17 10:19 PM
1

Send me a PM and I'll give you my email address. If you end up in Minneapolis, I'll buy you a beer at one of the breweries here and show you around town. As for suburbs of Minneapolis, check out Chanhassen (where Prince was from, if you're familiar with him) or Eden Prairie. Both cities of between 25,000 and 50,000 people with beautiful scenery and lots of parks and good people. If you like gardens, the Minnesota Landscape Arboretum is in Chaska, which is another decent town nearby. The arboretu…
/r/MGTOW02/05/17 10:49 PM
2

I live in the Minneapolis area. There are a lot of great things about living here, but there are downsides too. There are tons of job opportunities, and I could probably help you get a job in about a day if you came here, no matter what you wanted to do. But you have to be able to handle the weather, and that's no small thing. If you want to live in the city in Minneapolis, there are areas you want to avoid...especially anything on the North side, except for the Northeast Minneapolis area. North…
/r/MGTOW02/05/17 10:03 PM
1

Good luck! Where in the US do you plan to come if you get selected?
/r/MGTOW02/05/17 09:09 PM
1

Dread works on all women. Cut off communication for a month. Ignore her. Go do your thing, then try reintroducing her into your life once you've made the changes you want to make. If she's going to be a part of your life, she'll do it on your terms. If not, you learned an important lesson and you can make your decisions about how involved you are with her going forward.
/r/MGTOW30/04/17 06:26 PM
1

Why would you want any sort of social media? They are tracking your every move, selling your information to advertisers....for what? Just call your friends. Or hang out in real life.
/r/MGTOW27/04/17 10:51 PM
3

They sure didn't, did they? I think this is the crux of the problem...this idea that we have to fight back. We don't. The best fight is won by not acknowledging your enemy, when you know your enemy will destroy himself. When it comes to Bill Nye, we'd do a lot better by ignoring him than we would engaging in the controversy that his marketing people have probably created intentionally to get his name into public discussion. Don't buy in to this, guys. Don't let them win by giving them your atten…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 01:30 PM
3

OP, do you think that you're an extrovert? Are you more energized around people than you are by being alone? Or are you more energized by spending time by yourself?
/r/MGTOW25/04/17 01:02 PM
1

No shame in that, my friend. I've never cried like I did when my 5.5 year old Sharpei got put to sleep after kidney failure. Your story about your dog putting himself between you and your son made me remember how my dog used to lay next to me wherever I sat, always facing away from me. He was watching my back. I didn't even realize it until someone else pointed it out. I miss him. You'll miss him. Don't deprive yourself of the pain by hiding from it....experience it and feel it hard...then learn…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 12:43 AM
6

Exactly. And the funniest part is, once that is achieved, you find that there's no salvation from your own misery inside that pussy, and you end up here. And the less you want them, the more they want you.
/r/MGTOW24/04/17 11:13 PM
1

Who? Never heard of her.
/r/MGTOW24/04/17 10:32 PM
2

The path I'm on is the standard, work 5 days a week, take three weeks vacation per year, do a couple cool things per week, save a bunch of money. Rinse/repeat for 40 years until I retire, then have a little bit of unattached fun and die. The path you're currently on. Who says you have to do it for 40 years? but in the end, I HAVE to go back to work and put in my 40 hours. Otherwise I wouldn't be able to fully enjoy those three weeks You CHOOSE this. You aren't forced to do this. You make the cho…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 10:08 PM
11

That was my exact statement to a buddy this morning when we saw this article. Want a race war? I don't. The only people that seem to have a race issue are people that use theirs to entrench a victim status or people who hate white people. Please tell me what I did to anyone, besides pay over $80k in federal income taxes last year. I want to be peaceful and get along with people. But if you don't leave me alone and insist on starting a war....God help you. I'll say it again, to the author of this…
/r/MGTOW14/04/17 10:02 PM
12

Really? Have you starved yourself to appreciate food? Dehydrated yourself to appreciate water? Refused to shit so you could appreciate how good it feels to shit? If your life is great, but you don't appreciate it enough, then put the effort into making it even better, not into making it worse just so you can realize how good it is. Jesus.
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 09:41 PM
6

I'm just glad you didn't start talking about ketchup on the hot dogs. Good stuff op.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 09:31 PM
5

Right up there with dead baby jokes. What's the difference between a baby and an onion?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 09:30 PM
4

I built a tiny home/camper in a 7x12 cargo trailer with a 7 foot ceiling (since I'm 6'3...needed the head space.) I decided to start with the cargo trailer, an aluminum framed one, to help with keeping the weight down, so it could be pulled behind my Jeep Wrangler. I also decided to skip some of the more "home" like features, like a bathroom. I can shit outside if I can't find a gas station. I can go to the gym to shower and shave and everything else. I also skipped the kitchen. I'll use a small…
/r/MGTOW10/04/17 09:50 PM
1

Take a look at the analyst/underwriter side of banking, especially related to commercial real estate. The entry level of this involves a lot of research, analysis, due diligence, and written communication. Banks need good underwriters to determine if people applying for these huge loans are credit worthy and if they property they are buying is a property that the bank wants to lend money against. Also, commercial real estate companies that are acquiring properties need people to do the analysis …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 03:25 PM
3

I have several friends that own businesses in the trades. Their biggest challenge is finding people who want to work and learn the trade. Blue collar hard work is an honorable profession. Our world needs people to build, to fix, and to create. Not everyone can sit behind a computer. Unfortunately, there are fewer and fewer people willing to work hard and make things...and our society will show the results of that eventually. Do it. Work hard and don't let yourself be entitled to anything. Just w…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 03:18 PM
14

Yeah....I'd skip it. Go watch the video of that soldier's gf from the other day that was linked here. Way hotter.
/r/MGTOW09/04/17 02:11 PM
5

Everyone is selfish. Some people just admit it.
/r/MGTOW08/04/17 01:49 PM
1

Hey there. Check out the comment I just posted. I'd be curious to hear your input on my theory about freedom being a more fulfilling lifestyle for an introvert than an extrovert, and any ideas you might have to add to it....
/r/MGTOW07/04/17 06:44 PM
4

I've been going through a similar thing and have been thinking a lot about it lately. If the theory in my head is correct, you're probably an extrovert? Someone who is energized by being around people? I'm a similar age, have a similar work situation (low stress, plenty of money), and have a relatively active hobby and social life, but I have that same empty feeling. The deeper I go into my freedom, the more intense it gets. I'm a natural extrovert. At the end of the day, a free lifestyle means …
/r/MGTOW07/04/17 06:42 PM
3

I wonder how many are brave enough to apply this sentiment to their smartphones and technology.
/r/MGTOW06/04/17 12:49 PM
1

I'm using a 1x42 belt grinder with a slow speed motor and specialized sanding belts (to keep the edge cool and not lose the temper.) It puts a fucking sharp convex edge on the blade. There are all sorts of youtube videos on how to do it, but the key is to buy a quality belt sander, not the cheap ones. Mine is from Viel Tools out of Quebec. The owner's name is Serge...great guy.
/r/MGTOW04/04/17 05:13 PM
4

Nah. Maybe myself a new kayak ;)
/r/MGTOW04/04/17 12:46 PM
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It is, but it takes me less than 5 minutes, so I'm cool with $5. Especially if he's just delivering me the customers and I don't have to do anything else. I'll probably charge $8 if I'm dealing directly with people because that'll take time as well. Again, this is just a fun little side cash thing for me! Fun being the key word.
/r/MGTOW03/04/17 10:53 PM
7

He's charging $8...making $3 for his time and for doing all of the front end work. I want to make $5 each, so from there, its up to him what he wants to charge if he's bringing me the customers! It is cheap, but I'm both very good and very fast at it, so even at $5/blade, it's worth my time!
/r/MGTOW03/04/17 10:25 PM
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Exactly...and everyone has the capability to be both. Women are just less aware of their nature, and we're lucky enough to understand that being a beta turns a whore into a madonna, and being alpha turns a madonna into a whore.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:13 PM
2

I'd like to think even hard core extroverts can learn to enjoy single life and the healthy solitude it affords, if they work through the deprogramming of being told otherwise. If one can live alone long enough to work through the initial, understandable strangeness of it, one begins to realize solitude and single life are NOT THE BIG BOOGEYMEN we've been told they are. Once this mind-state is achieved, one can actually crave the healthy, healing empowering effects of solitude. There's just too m…
/r/MGTOW30/03/17 04:19 PM
3

Thanks for the reply. I have plenty of friends with whom I share superficial interests. I just find myself becoming less and less satisfied with the superficiality of the relationships...some more than others. And, being in my mid 30's without children, I'm realizing how quickly even a good friend becomes a distant memory once they become a breeder. The guy who was my best buddy through college and our 20's just had his third kid at 38 years old. I've tried to keep the friendship going, but he's…
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 09:32 PM
1

I can see your point, but we'll have to agree to disagree on this one. That may be an introvert's view of what social interaction is, but to me, the need for human connection is much deeper and more important than that. Thanks again for taking the time to give me your thoughts. They were very helpful.
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 08:39 PM
2

Thanks for the reply. I'm definitely more on the introverted end of extroverts. I don't have a problem doing things alone or being alone, but after a while, I have to have people. only a person that is afraid of being alone feels lonely. I don't think that this is always the case. A person who is isolated and lacks people to whom he relates can feel awfully lonely without being afraid. This might be another thing that is dramatically different for an introvert and an extrovert. Isolation can be …
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 06:33 PM
1

I'm late to the party here, but /r/marriedredpill and dread are a great place to start, as has been suggested. Self improvement and building a life apart from your wife can help you to carve out independence and purpose separate from her without having to leave your kids, at least not right away. Lots of us wake up after we've already made lots of mistakes. I did. Figure out who you want to be and what you want out of life and go get it, without asking anyone's permission. This is a post from th…
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 06:26 PM
3

Thanks man. That mask is something I think we all wear, especially when we're younger. The mask that I've worn for years is pretending like I'm interested in the stupid things that people talk about. I was surprised when I started to pay attention to how much people talk about the weather, news, sports, and politics. I sometimes wonder if I've ever known a single person who tries to think for himself. I had mindlessly engaged in these conversations for my whole life, mistaking it for interaction…
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 06:07 PM
5

Thank you. That's exactly what I was thinking I'd hear from a hardcore introvert. For me, that downward spiral you describe is familiar, but its what I feel when spending too much time by myself. I get frustrated and drained and try to seek out social interaction, which leaves me even more frustrated with the idiots I encounter in the general population.
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 05:53 PM
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The information age has definitely yielded significant advantages for introverts. However, I'd argue that your assertion that loneliness is a product of physical or intellectual laziness applies more so to introverts than to extroverts. The information age has without doubt made people more isolated, which seems to be a net positive for an introvert, but a net negative for an extrovert. Working from home versus working in an office environment being just one of many relevant examples. There are …
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 05:47 PM
2

The definitive solution...go full Unabomber.
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 05:40 PM
1

I think that a freedom based lifestyle would be inherently easier for introverts. Freedom is lonely, and having the ability to be energized rather than drained by this loneliness would be a beneficial trait. I'm an extrovert. I love people, and I'm drained by spending too much time alone, which makes my life more and more challenging as I withdraw from society and collectivism. This remains the biggest challenge with which I'm faced personally. Online interaction does not fulfill this need for h…
/r/MGTOW28/03/17 09:28 PM
3

Oh, the niceness is only a diffusion tactic. I was in a tap house owned by a friend in a smallish town where I own a business and am known by many. I'm better off staying as the jolly giant unless I'm forced to defend myself.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 04:22 PM
2

It's definitely not the same if you don't have an almost guaranteed size and strength advantage.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 03:51 PM
1

God damn, I love all of you guys. Come to Minneapolis and I'll buy you all a beer.
/r/MGTOW28/03/17 03:47 PM
1

I was raised on Cheeseburger Macaroni Hamburger Helper, doused with a half bottle of hot sauce!
/r/MGTOW28/03/17 03:46 PM
3

I was kind of surprised. I've never had someone try to pick a fight with me, probably because of my size. Also, I generally choose to socialize with people and in establishments where this kind of behavior isn't common, so it was an unexpected incident for me. Afterwards, I had a great conversation with a bunch of his buddies who told me that I could have just put my hand on his forehead and let him swing away. Even they thought he was a moron, but if I had gotten hot headed about it, I could ha…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 03:40 PM
5

Exactly. I had a guy come up to me in a bar a few months ago, completely unprovoked, shove me in the chest and tell me he was going to fight me later. I'm 6'4, 250 pounds and quite strong...and I look it. This guy wasn't over 5'6 170. I very publicly tapped him on the head like a little kid, laughed, and said "oh, that's cute." Got a good laugh from everyone around and diffused it before it ever started. And that's good for him...because that would have hurt. Poor little guy wouldn't have had lo…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 03:19 PM
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Like I've always said...never start a fight. But make sure that everyone knows that you have the ability to end it, should someone insist on instigating. Lift, boys. Lift. Never stop getting stronger.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 12:37 PM
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I read another post where someone's wife went into this full blown drama and he just gave her a "slow clap." Sounds like something you might want to throw into the bag of tricks when she gives you this crap sometime. I used it once with fantastic results. It snapped her out of her little temper tantrum and made her realize what a baby she was being. Good work brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/17 09:33 PM
5

They don't, at least not for a long time. Eventually, you can build a strong enough frame that the women can't get to the place where your peace is.
/r/MGTOW23/03/17 08:05 PM
2

This is great advice. Lots of great advice here, really. This is all about your addiction seeking a new outlet. The only thing I'd modify about the advice from /u/mrpthrowa is that it isn't just one thing. You need five things. Or ten. Or twenty. Outlets for this energy when you feel it coming on. You sound a lot like me. If I just do one thing, I get bored and it loses its effectiveness as an outlet. One day I make knives. One day I play guitar at a local coffee shop. One day I might get in my …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 07:56 PM
2

Self awareness is growing...that's a movement in the right direction. Eventually you'll be identifying this in real time.
/r/askMRP21/03/17 10:16 PM
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Collectivism is the enemy of men. You've just awakened to one of the biggest things you ever will...that you're alone and you always will be, and that it's a good thing, not a bad thing. Now, you get people suggesting that you celebrate by joining this group or following this set of beliefs. Become a buddhist. Become a stoic. Study this person's thinking or that person's writing. Fuck that. Fuck ALL collectives. Fuck ALL groups. Fuck ALL those who have predetermined how you should think and what…
/r/MGTOW15/03/17 03:50 PM
3

Why haven't you ended this long ago? If she wants to pull that stunt once, I'd tell her that the next time she's not welcome back, if I even gave her a next time. You want to know what you'll do without her? Whatever you want to do, without someone manipulating you into fear and dread. You'll enjoy your life. Your kids will get to see their father as a happy man. Fuck your friends and family and neighbors. If they don't understand why it is important for you to get out, then it is their loss whe…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/17 10:57 PM
1

The marriage was temporary the whole time. You've just accepted that recently. If you're getting more of what you need, maybe try giving back 2/3 of what you're getting and see how it plays out. Courts will always grant a continuance. Maybe you still divorce her, but enjoy the kinky sex while it lasts. You put in the shit time with this woman, at least enjoy getting her best efforts for a little while. SGM hard and then walk away when you realize you can't forgive her for what she put you throug…
/r/askMRP14/03/17 04:40 PM
3

This. If you have a decent size freezer, you can make all kinds of things and pre-portion them and freeze them. You can make a few different things in a big quantity and have some variety for your lunches at work and dinner when you get home. All you need is a microwave and you're good to go. In the past, when I worked a ton, I would do this for breakfast too. Make an egg bake with bacon and sausage and cheese and whatever and portion it out and freeze it. 2 minutes in the microwave and it was d…
/r/MGTOW14/03/17 04:09 PM
1

Fuck them, no. I'm a married man. I'd NEVER do such a thing. I let one eat my ass though.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 09:13 PM
1

If you want to be a man that she wants to stay with, you need to become a man who she knows can leave her any time you want. You need to have a markedly better sexual market value (SMV) than she does. You need to have your own life, your own friends, your own hobbies, and your own money. Be interesting and exciting in ways that have nothing to do with her and your relationship. On the other hand, trying to figure out how not to lose her is fastest way to bore her to death. So go make your own li…
/r/askTRP13/03/17 06:14 PM
3

This made me laugh. I have several pilot friends. All married, and divorced at least once. My favorite pilot joke: What does a pilot's wife do to her asshole before she has sex? Drops him off at the airport.
/r/MGTOW13/03/17 05:56 PM
1

Brightly colored hair is a target for an easy ONS. Obvious self-esteem issues and need for attention. They respond wonderfully to intense negging and the smallest amount of validation. Just disappear before they have any identifying information about you, lest you be subjected to a BPD rage.
/r/MGTOW13/03/17 05:49 PM
4

I did some tinder experiments a couple of years ago. Just a picture of me in a suit without showing my face, profile discussing some of the most depraved kinky BDSM and role play shit you can imagine. You wouldn't believe the responses. Just tell the bitches what you want, they'll come out of the woodwork to throw it at you, without even knowing what you look like. No matter what I said I wanted on my profile, I'd get women offering it to me. Frame is THAT important. Also, AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 01:32 PM
2

I bought a 7x12 aluminum cargo trailer and finished off the inside. Insulated the walls, put in a heater, a vent fan, a recliner, and some LED lights, then finished the walls with white fiberglass panels and wood paneled ceiling. Its the perfect place to read a book. Or I hook it up to my jeep and I can sleep in it on the side of the road anywhere I decide to go.
/r/MGTOW04/03/17 03:19 AM
2

Chinny, Only you can decide what you really want. She doesn't sound like she's earned a "next" yet, so why "next" her? You could always discuss continuing the relationship but dropping the exclusivity, but be prepared for her hypergamy to take over if you do. (She'll upgrade to someone older, richer, or better in some way.) New pussy has novelty. It always will. Even if you marry this girl. 20 years down the road, if you maintain your frame and abundance mentality, you'll be getting IOI's from g…
/r/askMRP25/02/17 03:29 PM
3

Good morning gentlemen. Lifting - 4 days last week. On the first week of a keto cut, I was a bit light headed when pushing heavy weight (over 80% 1RM level) but this is already getting better. Just a part of the adaption. Diet - Great. Since my last update, I've decided to go full keto for this cut. I'm already seeing the body fat melting as expected. This includes all alcohol except for a glass of red wine 2x/week max AFTER the first month, and all sugar and other carbs over 20g/day. I set a do…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/17 09:47 PM
1

Like I've said since high school...most people try to be unique and different by being just like everyone else who is unique and different. They turn themselves into exactly what they are trying to avoid. Lots of modern "men" have figured out how to look the part. But put them in the wilderness for 48 hours without a cell phone, food, or water and we'll see if they're really men.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 09:17 PM
2

Not necessarily the elimination of the technology OR the use of it. I seek to end my reliance on the conveniences and technologies. I will still use them when they suit me, but I won't put myself in a position where I'm fucked without them.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 09:14 PM
1

Thanks /u/party_olive. I'd add stoicism to your list. Helps prepare you for those inevitable failures...and puts you at ease with the eventual dirt nap we'll all take in the same ground.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 09:12 PM
1

Of course they would like to create laws to prevent this, but they can't do it in reality. They rely on our consent. We have to choose to obey the laws. If you stop asking permission or seeking approval from outside authority figures before taking action, its amazing how much you can accomplish just flying under the radar. I agree with you, except on the thought that we need to restore national sovereignty. That still puts power into the hands of others. We need to create something that has neve…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 09:08 PM
1

There are definitely ways to put hunger to use, but I think that the feeling of hunger is markedly different from the feeling of sexual energy. It's a question really of how you think about sexuality. If you feel deprived by not getting it, you're classifying it in a negative light. Just like hunger...you're classifying it as a lack of something. I've found that when I think of sex, everything is different when you have the "abundance" mentality. This includes how you feel about NOT having sex. …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 05:06 PM
1

Thanks /u/markpf73 . It's always interesting to see how people respond. I generally try to write in a way that gets at the core of things, rather than working around the edges. Not everyone wants to have their conventions and assumptions questioned, but for those that are willing, it can make for dramatic improvements.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 05:01 PM
1

That's great. Thanks for sharing!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 04:59 PM
1

It does happen by default, but when you make it intentional, it takes on a whole new intensity. Without the intentional reload, you're just expending energy without refilling it, which can certainly lead to lower T levels (I'd assume...not my area of expertise) and a resulting lower libido. Nofap is only one part of this. That's putting the plug in the bottle. You still need to fill it, then release it...just not into a tube sock. Release it with purpose and direction into your other activities.…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 11:07 PM
0

Sleep is so underrated. It makes you better in every way.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 11:39 PM
0

It was just a short example of a situation that played out. It wasn't meant to be a full exposition or "field report". This isn't the place for that. Rest assured, there was nothing "gross and creepy" about it. It was all smiles and smirks and giggles and hair flipping. Moving on.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 04:38 PM
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This is sort of like convincing an employee to quit instead of firing them. No unemployment benefits, no lawsuits, nobody out wrecking your reputation or plotting revenge. Sometimes its easier if problems just go away. It's Machiavellianism at its best.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 03:09 PM
1

I realize that I'm new here, but is this seriously what people do with their time? Make up fake stories just to make fun of the reactions?
/r/askMRP11/01/17 03:03 PM
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Thanks for the laugh little girl, but you're clearly too old for me. Besides, my wife doesn't like when I fuck damaged goods.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 02:24 PM
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I'm sure there are some out there that others might be able to help with. It's always come naturally to me. For example, the girl at Chipotle yesterday forgot if I said white or brown rice on my burrito bowl, so I looked right into her eyes and made her try to guess what I wanted, but I wouldn't tell her. Then I teased her about it, all while making intense eye contact which was obviously making her giggle and get uncomfortable. I say "How could you forget that? This is your JOB Lauren." All wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 09:20 PM
3

Good morning gentlemen. Lifting - 5 days last week, which is my goal. I take Sat/Sun off to recover. Highlights, Clean & Jerk PR 1RM@225#, Deadlift PR 4x12@315#. Adding 30 min cardio session 3x/week on current cut. Fuck that's boring, but necessary. I just try to position myself behind a hot chick on a treadmill or stair climber so I can enjoy the view...Or in front of her, so she can enjoy the view. Diet - Overall good. I'm realizing that two things are the primary challenges for me when it com…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 05:53 PM
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She sounds like a BPD...hell on earth. I'd gladly pay the speeding ticket for driving 200 MPH in the straightest line away from spending one minute with a BPD chick. Look what she did to your head in two months. Cliche that's a cliche because it's true: don't stick your dick in crazy. Unfortunately, most 18 year old girls are crazy, and crazy 18 year old girls are crazy fun to stick your dick in. Ahh, the paradoxes of life. Just move on, dude. She's just a plate. Replace her. Make your life abou…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 01:44 AM
3

Yes, the end state for everyone is death. But lots of men are dead long before they die. They stop trying, they stop doing. They float through life without aim or purpose. A dead, lifeless spirit does not soak panties. Asking the "end state" question is a way to stay focused on moving forward, and anything that keeps the focus on improvement until the great dirt nap is a good starting point in my book.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/17 04:42 PM
1

This goes double for relationships that exist because of a shared group membership. You might think that you're great buddies with the guys from church or the guys in the trade association that you see every couple weeks, but if you leave, you'll see how many of those relationships were real when you never hear from them again. Real friendships are forged only through time, shared experiences, and shared suffering. And true friends are those who care as much about the friendship as you do.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/17 10:36 PM
3

Yes. I still have my old iPhone, but it's kept on airplane mode and is used for listening to audiobooks. I'll switch back to it for specific reasons, like going to an event where I want the camera, but for most days, I carry a $10 flip phone I bought on Amazon. You can always go back...try a weeklong hiatus and see how it works for you. I typed the post on my laptop!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/17 10:25 PM
1

Your username is Deadsandsushi and you eat canned tuna??? :). Get some sashimi and eat like a motherfucking grizzly bear!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/17 04:56 PM
1

I'd get in touch with these guys: http://www.thenextobjective.org Ask for their advice on that. I'm not sure where you're from, but they are in MN and CO I believe. But even if you're not near them, they work with this exact sort of thing and I'm sure they'd have advice, or maybe even be willing to reach out to him. They unquestionably saved my buddy's life.
/r/askMRP05/01/17 04:53 PM
1

I'll echo what a lot of others are saying here. He went through some real shit and changed, then changed some more when he started taking pills to deal with it. One of my best friends is a retired Army Ranger. He went through these same sort of personality changes after his time in the sand. What finally helped him come out of it was getting heavily involved in CrossFit. Building brotherhood type of friendships with people through the mutual suffering of intense exercise helped him get off of th…
/r/askMRP05/01/17 04:34 PM
2

Love that stuff...we always have a few of the stacks of cans in the pantry. Wife makes homemade mayo to mix with it out of avocado oil from Costco, roasted garlic that I grow in the garden, and egg yolks from our chickens. However, I always prefer a slab of sashimi grade Scottish Steelhead Salmon from the fish market :). Whenever I'm in the city, I stop and buy a couple pounds and eat like a sashimi king for a couple days. No need for the fish oil supplements on those days.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/17 04:23 PM
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Hello everyone. New to MRP and Reddit, and to the manosphere in general, but not to the concepts and cause engendered here at MRP. I have fought through and learned a lot of this on my own over the last few years, then happened across MRP a couple weeks ago. Here's the shit that I'm owning, and a bit of background where necessary. Exercise: Kept up a good pace through the holidays, 5 days last week, 6 days the prior week. Changed gyms two weeks ago because my prior facility was limiting workout …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 04:21 PM
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