Met with this girl on Tinder Friday night. We got some food then went to a pool bar to play a few games and have some drinks. I kino'd while we were walking to the pool bar and while we were there, and she reciprocated. After we had played a game, I went in for a kiss and she turned away.
I didn't let it phase me, and we continued playing and having a good time. I did not let up on the kino. We walk to her car, which was parked closer, and she drove me back to my truck. Before I get out of her car, I go in for another kiss and she turns away again. I just smirked and made a joke.
I was thinking she just wasn't interested so I was about to leave, but then she hints that she wants to come back to my place. I invite her, and she follows me home. We hang out for a bit and watch a movie while lying down in my bed. I go for a kiss again and she kisses me back. We start making out and I slowly move up to her bra, at which point she stops me.
She lives almost an hour away so I let her stay the night. We got breakfast in the morning, and I sent her on her way. As she was leaving, I went to kiss her again and she seemed hesitant, but I smiled and planted one anyway. She said she wanted to hang out again.
I had a good time hanging out with her, so I'll probably hit her up again, but her apparent aversion to kissing got me questioning her interest. I talked to my dad about it and he said she's probably just shy. I did get that impression, but I'm not sure how to deal with that other than just try again another time and see if she opens up.
I should note that we split the bill on everything. In fact, she probably ended up spending more than me because she bought me a beer or two. Also, I'm a good looking dude, getting better every day thanks to consistent lifting, so I definitely think she's attracted to me physically.
I do think she's interested, but I tend to think every girl is interested, so I'd like some outside opinions on how to proceed (or if I should at all).
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