Hey guys, I always end up getting ghosted by girls after the first date I meet through either Tinder/Bumble. I'm 5'7" but I normally wear my lifting shoes, so that boosts my ass up to 5'9", I'm a bit insecure about my height, so that's my way of compensating, to make matters worse, I'm 172 at 10% body fat, so people might think I'm compensating, but I legitimately love the gym, but a buff manlet is better than a fat one amiright. Anyways, I always end up meeting these girls, and I take them to either the hookah lounge, or a simple coffee date to scope em out. I normally always attempt to close with a kiss, and get somewhat physical right away, with a hug, then arm around waist guiding them to the door. The fact is I normally go through the entire date having a good time myself, but I end up getting ghosted afterwards. Could my tinder, or snap chats be baiting them, or could my game be so ass, that I'm just doing it all wrong? I realize this isn't exactly a great post, but putting my actual insecurities out there, makes me feel a bit better.