This can be used for talking to girls but also for more important aspects of life and just as a general help to stop worrying/be more stoic.

Say you want to talk to a girl but are afraid of messing up.You need to put it into perspective in the grand scheme of things.Say you do mess up.Is anyone going to remember/care about this is 10 years time?Or 100 years time?1000 years time?No one will give a shit so why should you.

If you are still thinking that it matters heres another example. Do you even know/care about any of the various times your parents have messed up throughout their lives?

I think stoicism is the most important aspect of becoming "redpilled" since its going to help you in other aspects of life and not to just get women.