Currently, I'm trying to increase/change my plates. I have worn out of the last set, and would like to experience something different.

There are two girls who I am currently gaming. Girl A is a single mother. Obviously, its been pretty tough to meet with her. We've been looking for some mutual time to meet, but shes usually (supposedly) gets caught up taking care of her daughter. The last time we spoke we plan to grab a bite to eat. When I asked what her time frame was (a question I asked since she was unaware if her mom could babysit her daughter or not) she didn't and hasn't replied since I asked her. I haven't texted back.

Girl B is 20yo college student. She hit me up out of the blue telling me she is working in town again, and would be in town for the time being and would like to meet up with me. I invited her our for coffee last Friday. She asked me when, and I said Monday after 4 pm. She never answered back either. I haven't texted back.

Now I understand that their lack of attention towards me is predicated by their attention being drawn by someone else. My question is if I should ghost both completely, send a text to reignite interaction, or do something else.

It's worth mentioning that attraction has been mutually confirmed but not consummated in both cases.

Why say you AskTRP?