Should I or should I not have instagram? I have had several women on Tinder ask me for my IG. Is this becoming a form of social proof that women look for? I do have an IG but I barely ever use it and few pictures I do have are low effort, random pica of my dog, motorbike etc. i usually just say I don't have one. Self-promoting through IG does give me the blue pill vibe. I'm thinking it can probably be done in a way that demonstrates alpha traits ie the activities you do in the pics but does it have an underlying theme of "please like me!?" regardless? Thoughts?