I guess I'm only allowed to post here. Anyways, I just wanna say my piece. I'm not a feminist. I'm a person of the male gender, who is also a firm believer in practicing cold approach pickup. I've been lurking around on here, and I've noticed a general trend of excessive misogyny. I think this is destructive for all parties involved, so that is why I felt inclined to make this post.

I understand that a lot of the members here have been screwed over or hurt by women. I, myself was cheated on by a girl I cared for. It hurt like hell. So believe me, I understand where a lot of members here are coming from. To be honest, it made me pretty misogynistic for awhile. It also just made me more pessimistic in general.

I didn't come on here to spread hate or start a war. I just wanted to make a simple point. All human beings are flawed (especially in regards to morals), the degree in which an individual is morally flawed varies from person to person. Some people live there lives doing minimal damage to others, and some people are full blown destructive psychopaths. It has almost nothing to do with gender. I believe that the only way to move forward with this information is to recognize the bad in people when you see it, but resist the urge to fixate on it, and try to see the good too. I see just as many women being hurt by men, as I see men being hurt by women. Granted, women tend to have more sexual selectivity, so they may be able to bounce back easier, but you really can't blame them for that. Being upset at them for something that isn't decided by them is irrational and just mere envy.

Anyways, instead of reading this board and overly fixating on whether or not love is real, how much women tend to disregard the emotions of their partners, worrying about how alpha you are, or whether or not you're good enough to keep a quality woman around. Why not just say "fuck all that shit" and just walk off the court. Focus on just becoming the best version of yourself, no strings attached. Do it for you. Become the most socially competent you can (cold approach and social hobbies baby), get in shape, educate yourself in a wide range of areas (preferably shit that interests you). Work on whatever the fuck it is that you think needs improvement. Achieve your own happiness and share that happiness with other people. Embody the moral values that you think other people should have. Then, regardless of whether or not you find a compatible partner, you will be a happier person than if you just overly fixated on the opposite sex.

Oh, and bang a lot of chicks along the way. Pretty much anyone who is willing to put in the time can do it. I wish you all the best. Thank you for taking the time to read this.