A submission I saw earlier about the 1940's lingo. https://i.imgur.com/mISnk6o.jpg

Anyways, why I'm making this post is to figure what "too safe" is? Former nice guy, but personally I've been swallowing the pill and my game is pretty good at this point. I like to keep myself in control and make my relationships happy and "safe". That's where I feel comfort and don't like extra drama, but I can see that being too safe is a problem. Even though I have multiple plates and can get a booty call whenever I want. I enjoy having control in the relationship and not having my plates doubt me.

Is this a problem I need to change and consider making relationships more questionable or dangerous?