Been spinning plates for a couple of years. Over the last few months since March, one of them have risen above the rest. Over that time I slowly let my other plates drop as enjoyed spending time with the one more. We are essentially monogamous at this point. She is just trying to figure out her living situation and if she’s staying in this area, I’ll give her complete exclusivity and title of LTR.

My only issue is I still have old plates hitting me up and wanting to hook up, and I’m having a hard time denying them constantly. I’m also still on tinder/bumble and I’ve been getting hot matches lately, but I’ve just been chatting to the point of getting them to want to come out and then going silent just to keep my game sharp and abundance if she isn’t able to stay. Since I’m not officially with this girl yet my hamster try’s to justify that it’s okay. But deep down I know I probably shouldn’t.

So how have my fellow redpillers managed to resist the temptation of other women when in an LTR?