Hey, so I'm at a point in my life where I'm a leader in the communities I'm part of and socially and sexually in demand. However I believe I'm not going anywhere fast, just coasting you know, like I could do this in my sleep. I'm not learning and developing and every time I push my comfort zone I just keep coming back like an elastic band, developing new skills but still having a dissatisfaction with my life. In light of the same, I identified what was going wrong in my life and sought out to fix it, and so began monk mode with a specific set of goals in mind. However, every time I start this journey, I end up by complete accident attractive a girl who is exactly my type and within a few days she's riding my dick. She stays in my life and I continue in this cycle of comfort. I'm also learning game and constantly conflicted between how much better I'm getting vs monk mode.

So my question is, can I still game women while in monk mode, and have them in my life? Can I balance learning game and monk mode?

Any help appreciated.