just got off work. time to crack a beer and get typing. forgive my grammatical mistakes. i do not care for capitalization or apostrophes. ill try to keep it short, but we will see what happens. thanks in advance for reading. please leave your thoughts even if you downvote/disagree, i am open to all criticisms. long time lurker here, i rarely comment or post. i just sponge up the info and apply.

rewind 2 months ago and some change. new lady at work comes in. my new boss. married, but whatever. still smoking (9.5/10, great athletic body and great rack to match) hot, game on for me, however i wanted to take care in easing my approach due to the circumstances. do a lot of talking and such. lots of playful teasing. i read her eye contact as she reads me mentally undressing her. one day she texts me from her personal phone. text game begins. i dropped a few hints and she played along. we hang the next week, she surprised me while i was in the bathroom and paid the $60 tab and i headed home early. she said she wanted to see me again.

hang out the following week, bang the hell out of her. i had met her husband before and the guy is a total beta puss-bag provider. he might try to have sex with her once a month. he is a scrawny bitch. she tells me she would talk to him about not being happy, and he would take her on vacation and buy her flowers and all that nonsense. useless. she says that he is such a nice guy and doesnt want to leave his safety(provider status). same week, due to our living arrangements, she bought a hotel room for us for the night. she said "just let me know where you want to stay and ill take care of the rest."

i get along with her quite phenomenally. i found out at work she had slept with another coworker right before me. this guy is a good 9/10, but he is timid, small, and strange. i might put myself at 8-8.5. kinda pissed me off, i tried to not let my emotions show, but some did. she cut him off for me. he was upset, but he became very submissive to me at work. soon after, she asked me to be exclusive. i laughed and said "no, you are married and i would never take a leech like you seriously. i do not respect you and if i find a nice single girl i will cut you off." she was quite hurt, but agreed that i was right. she moved to the basement of her house and told her husband she wanted a divorce. he now knows about me and that i am seeing his wife. he even offered to allow her to continue seeing me as long as she doesnt divorce him. what a wuss. she has left where we work together in search of better employment in order to move out. she posts things on my facebook that make it clear we are seeing each other. her husband and her family see it. i met her best friends.

everything so far in this story screams NO SIR. she said she rode the carousel in her college days, but i still have her number beat 35 to 28. has a tramp stamp and says she hates it. she always comes to my house. it is a 45 minute-1 hour ride. ive never even been to her place. i dont mind banging a married girl, but i refuse to disrespect another mans castle. she pays for the majority of things. i dont ask. sometimes ill buy the movie tickets or whatever. but she has a lot more invested than i do. time and money wise.

the sex is the best ive ever had. no, i didnt mention that to her. she asked and i said eh, top 3. she said i was the best and nobody has ever fucked her like i do. i dominate her. its straight porn star sex. pull her hair. slap her ass. move her around and tell her what to do. "good girl." i "fuck her how she likes and its like i read her mind." she even said i make her tingle for babies. like her body/mind has found the right mate. before you go there, no she isnt some baby factory driven bat-shit crazy give me child support and food stamps girl. she just isnt. neither of us want a child right now.

i am having a super hard time not catching feelings for this girl. shes actually well educated(good common sense and is smart, as well as a degree) and has drive/motivation. no entitlement attitude. she cooks and cleans. we have fantastic chemistry. heres the kicker: i have no power differential. i dont have a fancy car. or a great paying job. i live with my mother for crying out loud. she actually had the nuts to come over today while i was sleeping(mother home, she had to let her in, first time meeting her) just to stop by and see me. the only things i have are my drive and myself. i am 26, 5'10, 190 pounds. used to be a huge gym rat couple years ago. not as strong as i used to be plus a slight beer gut, but its still more than most guys. i had several plates spinning, but i honestly prefer sex and her company over any girl ive ever been with. so i stopped spinning. theyre still there if i call them up, but i cut them off for now.

i feel myself slipping into blue pill mindset. i feel smitten. hard. she was the first to start calling herself my girlfriend. it hasnt been long, but everything just goes together like peas and carrots, man. we hang out and talk very frequently.

bottomline: what is TRP's take on this girl and what should my course of action be?

TRP tells me to just keep fucking her as long as i can and ride it out. but i see potential. at what point does the alpha male settle down? ive found something i intended for short term, but i thoroughly enjoy her, and want to consider long term.