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| 3 | LTR failed the shit testAnd get some of his own pics since he’s worried about what she has | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 03:22 PM |
| 4 | LTR failed the shit test“We are breaking up.” “Why??” “Look in the mirror. That’s all. Bye.” | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 01:28 PM |
| 11 | I got a new job. She began teasing.This sounds more like a shit test than teasing. First rule of shit tests I’d agree and amplify. “Ya, too bad you missed out all the fun I had with the new tenant.” | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 10:30 PM |
| 13 | Girl I don't speak to much keeps saying "you fancy me" to me, what should I respond?Only one way to find out. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/20 09:34 AM |
| 625 | LTR of 8 years 'Accidentally' kissed another dudeMinimal interaction to get her to talk. I would just respond “interesting.” And let her start spilling her guts out. If you talk in person or on the phone, use silence as your weapon. That’s your most dominant position. The more she talks, the more submissive she becomes and you should get an idea of what really happened and what she really thinks. Keep responses to one word answers. Get her to talk more than you. There’s nothing to lose here, only to gain. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 01:57 PM |
| 2 | So I’ve learned girls hate poor ballroom dancersWomen hate when a man sucks at anything. They are horrible at abstracting out what you are good at from whenever you are bad at something in that moment. Pure emotional memory. That’s why most “dominant” men in frame refuse to do things they are bad at in public. They know it never ends well. You should generally be better than a woman at any activity you try and do with her, unless you know her well enough. I take girls to play pool on first dates at a dive near me. I am mediocre at best. Most … | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Hit the club (first time in a while) rejected by everyone, what am i doing wrong?I dislike clubs. If you are good in that situation and have a good rapport building, the way to do this is to pre-empt that situation from happening by walking away so they want more. Simply, do the same thing but don’t wait around for the girls friend to swoop down. Flirt, get Indicators of interest, move to the next girl, then repeat. By the end of it, they will see all the girls like you and then you can just see which one wants you bad enough to tell their girlfriends to leave them alone. So… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Are hot girls in LA mostly alpha widows?I agree with another comment. Alpha Widow defines something different. It doesn’t matter how famous or “successful” the guy was. What matters is that she still craves that personality that dominates who she is. A random encounter doesn’t define that well enough. That’s called riding the carousel as well as trying to justify your sexual value by the value of the ass you‘ve fucked. So, as we all know that doesn’t work for women — It barely works for men. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:28 PM |
| 6 | Are women actually impressed by the amount of money you have?If you imagine a woman. What are the minimum requirements you’d want for her to be at Least a 5? Not smelly, not missing a body part, not a meth head. Now, imagine the things that would make a girl a 9? Big titties, nice ass, tiny waist, pretty eyes, high cheek bones, high sex drive. Money belongs to the first category. It means, “not broke.” It’ll make sure you’re at least a five. But it’ll never make you a 9. You need to have other qualities to be a 9. A Spanish woman I knew once called a guy … | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Married Manly men with notch count of 1 vs experienced RP menIf you’re not raised in a western country what you’re missing is that women are put on pedestals. And they manipulate lots of men intuitively to be submissive. TRP is about not falling in that trap. The sex is just a cultural context about asserting your dominance. The sex is a by product. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Weirdest shit test ever...how to proceed?Agree and amplify. “Ya, thanks for sharing your thoughts. I just hope I never have to prove I can probably suck dick better too.” | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Just turned 18, should I smash a milf I met on tinder if she’s married?Does the husband know? If he’s cool with it, it’s fine. If not, is she gonna cause drama bullshit for you? Crazy over hot scale. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 02:22 PM |
| 1 | are fat girls generally more difficult?This is addressed in other places often. They aren’t used to the attention, so they go on a serious ego trip when it happens. Basically, they can’t handle the emotional charge and their Shit Testing goes through the fucking roof. But, why give them a fuck. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Permanently damaged ego because i couldn't please a girl..Did anyone ever make her cum? Simply put, you’re putting your value in another persons hands who doesn’t care about you anymore, and in a situation you can’t resolve anymore. You will continue to grow from that moment unless you are stuck on it. If you don’t accept you can and will change, then you will never change. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 12:07 PM |
| 4 | Dropped by a FWB and It has confused me....AWALT. There are two modes of thinking. Heuristic Models and Systematic Models https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heuristic-systematic_model_of_information_processing Everyone uses both. But women lean heavily on solipsism, so that when they follow their heuristic model, they assume that it’s always legitimate rational action. “I feel it, therefore it’s true.” If you see women’s actions as a series of emotional/cognitive shortcuts that they regularly take, you’ll have a better grasp of why this may… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Why are women attracted to men who have trouble with the law?Real answer. Peacock strategy. You stand out, and in a risky manner. Worth looking into are Fascination triggers. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Went out with my female co-worker and 5 of her female friends... EYE OPENING.I’m not trying to be exact nor thorough, nor saying everyone did it all the time, but point out that it existed. The Egyptians also did it. Here’s a reference. I’m not writing a paper on the topic. It has references at the bottom. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/201809/orgies-through-the-ages | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 12:30 PM |
| 6 | Went out with my female co-worker and 5 of her female friends... EYE OPENING.3000 years ago, orgies were common. Roman orgy, Greek orgy, etc, etc. people just partied and fucked in big groups. The only difference now is that Christianity still has its morality grips in place in public settings. So, clubbing is what you experienced. I know people on college campus’ that talk about their students having orgies like it’s nbd. Women will always want this hardwired behavior. It’s actually in their favor. Imagine, you can pick and exclude the guys you want and not the guys tha… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 04:59 PM |
| 3 | I relapsed after seeing oneitisWell, if you do go, make sure there are girls for you to hit on. Even if you bring them. You can turn her social proof of you into some action. The issue with oneitis is that the male instinct of the clan/tribe take over, and you think the girl is your tribe. She’s not on your team. Don’t let it ever be about anyone not on your team. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 01:21 PM |
| 1 | I relapsed after seeing oneitisIt’s good to put yourself in situations that challenge your mindset. You’re growing and learning. I wouldn’t say that it was a mistake to meet her if you discovered you’re still not all that you think you are. The point is to grow. The only way you do that is challenging yourself in the context of knowing your destination. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Does money matter to woman?Let’s skip the red herring. You’re asking what matters to women. First, what matters to woman more than anything is the social construct. A woman’s instinct is to be part of the group, and part of the best group she can qualify for, and if she can’t qualify for a better group, she will make sure she shits on any superior group until she convinces herself OR that other group, that the other group is inferior. The average woman subscribes to this with blind incomprehensible passion. When we say wo… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 05:18 AM |
| 22 | [FR] First date since I married some 6 years agoI make a lot of eye contact. I usually pass it off by saying, “You’re obviously not used to guys who listen to you.” But in a firm and playful voice. You shouldn’t feel the need to break off eye contact. You can say other things, but that’s my go to, and helps you maintain that you know what you’re doing and she does not. Lawn game opportunities could have been better. It’s usually romantic, lots of chances for kino, and it’s playful. Some ideas: Show her something on your phone of a fun trip an… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Can't understand what's my problemI have a similar experience some days. And to me it’s a subtext of redpill that is addressed only occasionally. When you’re culturally an outlier from the norm. So, here’s some food for thought. I’ve been noticing a pattern with younger girls. They’re more insecure than ever. No matter how much they pretend otherwise. When they reject you it’s out of insecurity more than you. For example:: The last girl I dated told me she almost swiped left on tinder because she thought I wouldn’t like her. She… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test?Why can’t she do it. And why can’t he get it himself. Weird. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Strong body odeaurI may be exaggerating a little, but my point stands. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Strong body odeaurOne of my first GF hated how I smelled within a half hour of showering, and I was really frustrated and angry about it. Then years later I had girls that loved how I smelled days without showering. I felt vindicated. It wasn’t me, it was her. In this case, I think it was pheromonal. Beyond that, there are too many variables to account for. One thing we take for granted though, is that the soap we use doesn’t kill all bacteria, it’s really good at killing specific bacteria. This can impact our sm… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Am I being shit tested by LTR?I’ve seen this scenario in different ways, excluding children. I had a GF that had her friend find us at a bar and never even told me she invited him, when it was definitely a date. I called her out on it, and she said, “Ya, it’s interesting that I always want other people around when I’m out with you.” Taking a page from the book Never Split the Difference. Labeling the obvious reason why she invited her friend, then asking a ‘calibrated question’ to let her give solutions as to how to solve he… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Erection problems on first date - How to continue from hereHappened to me. Banged her the next day twice as hard and four times as long and she was like, "This is like a totally different cock and person". Just move through it and do what you do. It helped that the girls' philosophy was, "The first time is always the most awkward" up front, so I didn't have much to overcome on her state of mind. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Why Every Man Should Spend A Year In Commissioned SalesGood post, much appreciated reminders and adages. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 12:49 AM |
| 2 | How beneficial yoga really is? For martial arts (kick-boxing/bjj/judo), lifting, as a free time activity and for general well being. Hot yoga? Sign up for classes or a waste of time?Yoga is great for stretching and loosening muscles and joints. Hot Power Yoga is probably one of the more challenging classes for anyone to do, even if in great shape. You won't be building muscle, but it will help for general flexibility and endurance. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/16 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Still jittery after minor car accident two days ago. How do you remain stoic in these circumstances?Insurance replaced it. Car replacement was probably worth 20k USD brand new. I missed answering one of your last questions. I was definitely a lot more nervous and cautious, I don't think I went over 55MPH even though speed limit is 65MPH. I wasn't trembling at any point, I may have "trembled" a few times in my life, but that was after an adrenaline rush. Trembling seems to be something specific from person to person, it means nothing other than that's how your body handles adrenaline. I'm not r… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/15 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Still jittery after minor car accident two days ago. How do you remain stoic in these circumstances?I guess I should've been more clear. I was close enough to the destination that the tow truck driver took me to my family. I stayed a week or two (can't recall) and replaced the vehicle (thank you insurance). So, this was after about 2 weeks and a few days of failing to actually drive away. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/15 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Still jittery after minor car accident two days ago. How do you remain stoic in these circumstances?I flipped my car over once on a road trip to see the family. To go back home (car was replaced), I got in my car, started it, and couldn't even get it into reverse before feeling way too anxious to actually put it in reverse and go. I did this three days in a row until I actually committed myself to doing it. No problems since, and a lot more "stoic" now that I've gone through it.Give it some time, it'll be fine. Stoic is something you learn by experiencing life, it's not some magic silver bulle… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/15 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Was a 27 yr old virgin, Found TRP, Bettered myself, Got my first lay and first girlfriend ever, Terrified of losing herI found a West Australian Buddhist really helped with just resetting my mindset... I'm not recommending any religious parts of Buddhism. I am just talking about the philosophy of self-awareness that Buddhism promotes. He is quite convincing as a Westerner who became a Buddhist and can share those thoughts in our own words. I watched a lot of these, but I just googled these two because it's been a long time since I've needed them. These are quite Red Pill neutral, I wouldn't say they land on eith… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/15 10:14 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Plate tried some dread game, countered by chatting up the whole bar.I don't know why you're getting so many negative comments. Good fucking job. Who gives a shit about some pussy. You owned it. This is the shit that makes a lifetime worth living. I am totally baffled by the rest of the comments around here. Only YOU know if it was worth it and, from what I'm reading, it was. I haven't done that on a social level yet, and it would be awesome to pull that off. My major obstacle to these kinds of demonstrations is I've always been raised in various cultures, and it… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How to collect women AKA how to start a polyamorous harem?It depends more on the woman than anything you can do. Jealousy is hardwired, in the deepest parts of the mind. Frankly, most people are not adept at trying to control their instincts, and in this case, you're asking them to control their instincts against their perceived benefit. There are people that simply don't care out there. One of my plates frankly doesn't care. But, even then, I asked her about doing a three way and she said yes at first, but then said something different a couple days l… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/15 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Was a 27 yr old virgin, Found TRP, Bettered myself, Got my first lay and first girlfriend ever, Terrified of losing herThis has to do with loving yourself first. My best friend? Myself. I can be alone, be happy as a bee. I don't really care if I have someone that much, except when I really want some attention, because that's what I want - then I get it. I have some people that give me this attention and I treat them well and they treat me well. Now, do you love yourself? And, the answer is you don't. You still feel down on yourself. Learn to love yourself. I have done some embarrassing shit and sometimes it come… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/15 02:15 PM |
| 1 | One of my plates just randomly texted me and said that a guy has been texting her and asking about dating. Not sure how to respond.Plate pulled something similar not too long ago. Her : "Hey, some guy asked me on a date." Me : "Hey, that's cool, have fun." She gets annoyed, like really annoyed that I'm not getting jealous at all. Her : "I just really like you." etc, etc. Me : "Look, I'm not looking for anything serious. I don't want to lead you on. I'm cool with just being friends. I think we'd make good friends." Took her home and fucked her. The next day she was apologizing for acting so "girly" and to go back to the way … | /r/askTRP | 09/07/15 03:44 AM |
| 5 | Girl wants to bring a friendYou agreed. You fucked up the amplify. You could've been like, "Cool, I'll bring some extra lube." That's an amplify. An Amplify takes what they have said and blows it so far out of reasonable proportion they run back to regain normalcy, or like the flirting and then initiate return flirts. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Media jumps to womans side (read aggressors side) in bar fight against FSU qbHow about you don't start punching people and kicking them in the balls, and hope you get a measured response. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/15 05:27 PM |
| 1 | The night before lunch with a new plate, herpes rears it's ugly head! What to do?HSV Type I is pretty much like the common cold. While exposure to HSV-1 is extremely common -- as many as 90% of American adults have been exposed to the virus -- and there is no stigma to having a cold sore, HSV-2 or genital herpes can cause embarrassment. Although there is no cure for genital herpes, an infected person can take steps to preventing spreading the disease and can continue to have a normal sex life. Source: Herpes simplex virus | University of Maryland Medical Center http://umm.ed… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/15 02:32 PM |
| 8 | Tried going out sober, worst night ever..Any other references for openers? I'm almost exclusively sober gaming because drinks just make me sleepy not more social at all. Always been hoping to find some solid openers to remember that don't fall into the same bullshit. Are these the Cheateau posts? Anymore I should remember. Will dig into them hardcore, really needed a good recommendation. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/02/29/a-short-list-of-street-openers/ https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/04/29/my-personal-pickup-openers/ http… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 04:05 PM |
| 2 | American Psycho. I just watched it, and it scares me how Red Pill it is.It's natural to overcompensate when you're trying to find the balance in something. In this case, going from "pedestaling" to "total objectification", there is a middle ground to find. Being able to see yourself in action, so to speak, helps you find that balance. So, do what feels right and start finding the middle ground that is happy for you. This doesn't mean you have to completely stop certain parts from being done on one spectrum, or just changing your mentality in doing those actions, mor… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 02:40 PM |
| 1 | No motivation to actually do shit?This will seem random, but Vitamin D. It won't fix all your issues, but Vitamin D sources are really important for a lot of healthy neurological function. It's a huge issue for areas with little sun, and if you're not getting much, it can be a big deal. Helped me for a while to get out of a couple ruts, and it's over the counter. Improving your diet overall will help a lot. I personally love to cook, and you might find some motivation there. It seems like you enjoy getting attention for your wor… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Are women simply learning to develop better social skills than men?I think the media consumption in the USA specifically has made social interaction a very weak skill set for many many people. Social skills are naturally dependent on interacting with many similar and different people, and you lose the critical mass required to make most people socially talented when you start taking out groups of people due to lack of socializing. Those with natural talents or having had a good social predisposition will always stand out, of course. Man or woman. Women, being m… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/15 01:54 AM |
| 8 | Why are there tons of women downtown on Fridays and Saturdays at midnight wearing short skirts in my city? Are they looking to get laid?You need to get out of your head and go talk to real people for a bit. I think you're in a little ivory tower. Here's an idea, how about you go up and ask one of them this question instead of asking a bunch of people you will never meet this question? | /r/askTRP | 27/06/15 09:44 PM |
| 1 | One of my plates has started complaining that she doesn't feel strong feelings anymore, and believes I'm the reason. Curious as to why this might be.You are responsible. But not probably in the way you think. If she is so young and naive then she is meeting reality with fantasy, and her fantasies are being formed by what she is experiencing. She is becoming "an adult", and adults don't feel things like they do when they're children. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/15 09:15 PM |
| 2 | I'm antisocial and distant because I find everyone that doesn't benefit me to be low-value and uninteresting. I don't talk to them because they are boring and I could be doing something else. I see this as an issue because it is important skill to be able to talk to everyone.I've been there and feel you. I actually was a lot better at it when I was younger because I was more curious about everything. And that's all. Just be curious bout everything, and have a narrative at hand that defines you to other people easily without much fuss. You don't have to share much about yourself - most people will feel threatened if you legitimately do it. But, if you don't know much about what they're talking about (i.e. I'm shit at sports knowledge), and you don't really explain or… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/15 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Protein World advert: Formal investigation launched into 'beach body ready' campaign, all advertising ceased.UK didn't have it expressly written out. It was a Common Law expectation. They only wrote into domestic law in 1998. And it has a huge amount of exceptions for many things. You could say that they don't really have Freedom of Speech like we know it in the USA. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Am I dating an Alpha Widow?You don't know what Alpha Widow means. Alpha Widow is when she finds ONE DUDE who is so uber-tastic in her mind that she stays with him until he dumps her. She will hold him above all other men no matter what. Riding the CC does not make one an Alpha Widow. She's 20, you're 23. Although she can get started early, the Cock Carousel applies more to those hitting the wall at 30, who have had a plethora of guys and by that point "LTR" means something a lot different to them. She is just starting her… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/15 12:31 PM |
| 3 | Girl Starts Talking Crazy After Sex. Says She Might Regret it. Need Advice.I had to deal with this once with a chick. We ended up fucking, taking a break where she did some of this, go back to more fucking. Did this like 5 times that night, no joke. Honestly, I was just winging it. Mostly, I listened, then I made her laugh. She seriously almost broke down crying once, then demanded I take her home, then went back to fucking me. Was quite bizarre. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/15 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Are men with more sexual partners more likely to fail at marriage like women are? If not, why?This is all covered under Hypergamy. Women want the next best thing. They get tired of what they have, and need to constantly be entertained/surprised/etc to get the feelings they need. For some chicks, one misstep and suddenly you're this loser dude with nothing to offer. "You're not who I thought you were" and other nonsense spews out. Men will stake a claim and stick to it. Will they "upgrade"? Sure, but it really depends on their investment with this chick, and how much better the next thing… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/15 01:58 PM |
| 3 | After getting the body I want, good career, standing tall, having fun, why have indicators of interest from women not gone up?Not really. Just seen it happen. Those other things do matter. But, if we're talking about sheer attractive power? Sitting at a bar, doing nothing, being "pretty" means shit all to a girl. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/15 02:18 AM |
| 4 | After getting the body I want, good career, standing tall, having fun, why have indicators of interest from women not gone up?Personality matters more than anything else. You can be a total loser, but with a personality that is outgoing, welcoming and a bit mocking, girls are just attracted to that. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/15 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Columbia (feminist) professor arrested for assaulting boyfriend. Why? Allegedly, he cheated on her."and not contradict each other" would be the way I would've phrased it with that word. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 03:28 AM |
| 41 | Columbia (feminist) professor arrested for assaulting boyfriend. Why? Allegedly, he cheated on her.How can "over the top" be in the same sentence as "appropriate" and enforce each other? That's rhetorical. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Wolf of Wall Street scene. About the beta and the alpha.Yup, this. Shoulder in front of the girl, instead of behind, then just talk him up on his bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/15 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok to buy lingerie for your LTR?Get her a giftcard and tell her to get something to properly fuck her in and surprise you. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/14 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Woman gets sexually harrassed at work, complains to her boss about it, boss propositions her for sex to solve her problem, she has sex with him. Guess what? She's married.What set it off to me as total bullshit is the "I feel like an outcast from my family". How does that even make sense? Total nonsense. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Might of got a girl pregnant, I'm scared.The likelihood of this being yours is very small. If you didn't ejaculate in her, then it's unlikely that she could get pregnant. The pre-ejaculate getting someone pregnant is a bit of a myth, and also super unlikely. She probably shagged another dude and got his boy, and she thinks you're the more likely idiot who will accept it, given that you're already freaking out. Presume it's not yours. Innocent until proven guilty, etc. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 03:39 PM |
| 15 | A man tells his GF he was molested as a child. As was she. Now she wants to leave him. [xpost from 2X]Noone is judging you. We are judging the fact that you had the exact reaction we expect from a woman when you show her weakness. It has absolutely no bearing on you as a person. The fact is, you reacted as would have been expected. You're a better person than most for having overcome them. You're just reaffirming that the idea is correct. What you need to see is that it is a mans choice to be in control of what he tells his woman and he absolutely needs to realize she will react like your instin… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 09:01 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Biker bar, wall hitter hunting grounds.I'm not sure what you're looking for but I'll give you some thoughts. I was bullied but I was quite assertive as a person. I fought back, stood my ground, etc. I was just different and maybe looked like an easy target... Bullies revel in the sadism of dominance. Anyone can experience that kind of high (look into child abuse from the most unassuming individuals ). Just never give them that satisfaction. As an adult I'd say one needs to really meditate on their self value and how they act for thei… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Orwellian Feminism instead of third wave feminism.It seems like the assault on rational movements is attacked from all fronts lately. Fanatical Religion from one side, feminism and social Marxism from another. When they squeeze out everyone who has any rationality from having any power, what is left? How will they collide? Will they blissfully ignore each other? Merge into some ugly thing? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Orwellian Feminism instead of third wave feminism.Thanks for the descriptive passages. I definitely agree it isn't purely Orwell. However, Orwellian is a tag phrase that has been used before, and is eerily descriptive, as you point out, as to the direction Feminism is taking us. And honestly, as you say, it goes way beyond just Feminism, but let's just start with the hanging fruit. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Got their number 5 weeks ago, never texted them. What do you think of this text?Nothing to lose. Do it. Sometimes people think too hard about qualifying how an action says something about you, rather than just doing what costs you nothing to gain a little something. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/14 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Got their number 5 weeks ago, never texted them. What do you think of this text?Definitely don't say "likely you don't remember me". It is insecure. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/14 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Orwellian Feminism instead of third wave feminism.I'm familiar. It has always had its issues. I think that the things it does to influence society today are on a completely other level, that would merit differentiating it, and finding ways to label what it is really doing. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Orwellian Feminism instead of third wave feminism.Thanks for the input. Good perspective and info. Agreed. For the intent I have, I'd say that the idea of Orwellian Feminism is a subgroup of what you described. To associate Feminism with an Orwellian vision might be enough to disenfranchise its cultural "carte Blanche" to dictate who is deserving of, and at what cost it comes to allow the irrational sympathy it inspires. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 10:42 AM |
| 16 | [FR] Biker bar, wall hitter hunting grounds.I somewhat explained it. Sure, squeezing your ass is an iOI, but how often does it happen out of the blue with no actual building of your SMV with the chick? You couldn't have known it was a trick, I couldn't have known. But, I generally consider it pretty poor form to randomly follow anyone without building some repoire with them first. "Why do you think I need to be taught pool?", or "how about I teach you to handle a big stick first?" Are cheesy but at least initiating some kind of frame with… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 10:03 AM |
| 20 | [FR] Biker bar, wall hitter hunting grounds.I'm sure you stood out like a sore thumb. You were basically being toyed with, and for the older women, probably something interesting they haven't seen in a while, and figured they'd get some fun out of you. The chick was obviously fucking with you. And you were so desperate by that point that you threw yourself at her. If you had been in a situation where you weren't so desperate for normal attention, you would have probably realized you needed to get her to validate herself to you, not you ju… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Woman from Norway sentenced to pay $50.000 for false rape accusations, after the man recorded their whole date.This idea of party consent is often repeated, but only applicable in specific situations Two party consent is for wire tapping, such as for phone calls, and private conversations. You'd be hard pressed to say a date is a private meeting or conversation. You are in public, interacting publicly, with no expectation that no one will hear or see you. You don't need consent from someone video recording a premises for safety, such as a department store or gas station, or your home. In the consideratio… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Bringing the party: Give value instead of leeching itI agree with the advice 250%, but can you give some practical advice on how to do that in various situations? Obviously it always depends on the flow. But, it seems like I've seen too many bros try and self hype a situation just to arrive somewhere and realize there's nothing to be excited about in the same way they've hyped it up to be. Simple ways to make boring into actually fun would be great. Saying "be creative and don't care about your ego" is great, but it's presuming one knows how to pu… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 06:59 AM |
| 3 | FR: The Neighbor Girl, Part 2Every guy has "blue pill" in them. It's just a part of our human nature to find validation in women, and for women to find that in men. Don't take it too hard, learn from it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Girl in LTR cheats on bf. Has a baby and says she had no idea she was pregnant.Agreed, nicely put and wonderful parallels drawn. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Sent girl a pic of ZyzzSounds like you like him more than the girls do. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/14 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Sent girl a pic of ZyzzThe dude isn't really that super star attractive. He has a built body, and he has a masculine face, but he is missing something in his facial expression that has that "look" that women seem to like. I kinda get a creepy feeling from his facial expression in some of those pictures. So, if you got a pic that gave her a weird vibe, his face is probably what's giving that reaction from her more than the body. So, the point is... it will NEVER just be the body that matters. Will it get some chicks? S… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/14 02:19 AM |
| 2 | How do I get a girl talking?I usually ask enough questions until it's obvious that they should be asking a question. Then you just kind of stare at them like they're the socially incompetent ones that can't hold a conversation and make them feel bad until they remember how to act like a human being and have a discussion. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/14 05:02 AM |
| 10 | Boycotts are a feminine strategy that we should use more often.Let me tell you why men don't boycott as a general strategy. Very simple. If you can get 1,000 men to agree and do one thing together, you don't have to just say "no". You go fucking change shit. You can't get 1,000 women (or a group of 1,000 women and their beta male orbiters) to actually agree to do anything, other than do nothing unanimously (or the bare minimum to affect change). Unfortunately, that is what also scares the shit out of governments and society. Because it is scary. In that sen… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 02:27 PM |
| 1 | FR: Failed badly on second dateI've never understood the reaction to stress by drinking more. Sure, I psyche myself out - I get nervous, I fuck up. But drinking more has no correlation to controlling my stress. Anyways, sounds like you know your issues. Learn, continue. Personally, I avoid group situations with ANY plate. I have ONE exception to this, but I met her through the group, and I only hang out with her with the group I met her in. So, ya. Frankly, don't ever group up for dates. Also, when it's all her girlfriends ju… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Imagine the outrage if someone suggested that men are inherently better at something than women...Ya, but they still think others in their clique are bitches, just that they're the lesser of the two evils of bitches... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 03:43 PM |
| 5 | Women say a lot of bullshit about what they want in a man. Use the Garbage Man Test™I agree. Not to dig up semantic issues - but you "do exist", as a "pawn". Just a slight discrepancy there. To be used, financially or emotionally, etc, but you still exist to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 03:01 PM |
| 1 | /r/theredpill sent me here. I have a problem and need advice please!A) The problem is you, not your girlfriend. Yes, she is a crazy, dumb, immature child. A-ll W-omen A-re L-ike T-hat. AWALT. B) Please Read the Sidebar in detail, thoroughly, explore it. That is your only cure. C) Imagine I gave you a $5.50 and told you to go to the grocery store and get me the best wine you can buy. You go there, and you see people buying $50, $100 bottles of wine, scotch, etc. You can barely buy a bottle of cheap Port wine (which is still good, but really, not that good.) You a… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/14 02:53 PM |
| 10 | Imagine the outrage if someone suggested that men are inherently better at something than women...Ya, except that doesn't happen when men aren't around to be competitive sexual audience members. It's more like, "let's just fuck around and not give a shit, because there's no one around to impress. Everyone here is a bitch that wants to shit on me." | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 02:30 PM |
| 18 | Women say a lot of bullshit about what they want in a man. Use the Garbage Man Test™The reality is, women don't consider any guy who isn't already on the sexual market place, "a man". Even worse, they don't consider any guy who isn't really alpha, "a man". They're "guys" or "dudes" or "friends" or "creeps". Those labels don't accumulate. They are the ONLY definition a man will get from a woman in her mind. Other women become "bitches", or "whores", or whatever. It's the reason some people are so offended by labels - because they can't accumulate labels, they just think that a l… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming Body LanguageWhenever you feel the need to do the thing you don't want to do, redirect that mental energy to another action. For example : you want to touch your head? clasp your other hand at your waist. You want to look away? Focus on their eyes, then smile a little. Just a TINY bit. Just enough to let that urge go away. A lot of it is energy your mind is generating from experiencing your world that makes you a little nervous or excited. Just enough energy to make you want to move. So, you can't really mak… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/14 02:20 PM |
| 0 | Cancelled flight, left her stranded. Am I in the wrong?Ya, I found it afterwards. Cheers. I couldn't find my comment though to edit, and gave up. lol. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/14 05:18 AM |
| 10 | Cancelled flight, left her stranded. Am I in the wrong?According to OP he has had sex with her before. She has accepted to go with him, and due to their past relationship it is absolutely acceptable to assume that this will include sex. If she truly doesn't want to have sex with you, you are absolutely in the right to tell her to leave. I really don't know where you read that. He said "A girl I had been seeing" - "who lived on the other side of the country, more than 3000 miles away" - "technically a friend who I WOULD have physical relations with" … | /r/askTRP | 20/10/14 04:45 AM |
| 3 | I have a speech impediment - how should I go about this?Having no experience in your situation, please bear with any suggestions that would not apply. Limiting your speech could work. I don't really try and say that much usually. Ask questions, smile, make a quick commentary, then let her do most of the talking. Just a witty remark. If she tries to ask you an in depth question, just make a short joke and wink and then ask her a question. Most girls won't throw it in your face, they rather keep moving forward than try and force you to answer a questio… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/14 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Why It’s So Important To Ignore Her After A Breakup | BlackDragonBlogI had a really hard time following your break down. Just saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/14 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Wife Is Resistant...The only answer is to walk in and say, "We're going to make this work for the both of us. This is how we're going to do it. Or this marriage is going to be ruined. We either fix this or we don't torture ourselves anymore." Period, the end. If she responds to your masculine direction, great, if not - then just end it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/14 03:17 PM |
| 2 | The wife has crazy batshit episodes. What now?Sounds like nonsense. Get your shit together and do what is best. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/14 07:59 PM |
| 1 | "You're so quiet..."There's two kinds of talking to a woman... 1 - Interacting with her. In this case, interacting with her can be teasing her, or making fun of her, trying to play some status games with her emotionally. 2 - Speaking about something you're passionate about. This turns her on because she gets to see the inside workings of a man that noone else gets, or that she can use to elevate her status. "He's so passionate about cars." This does NOT mean talking about "yourself". Talking about something your pa… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/14 07:52 PM |
| 4 | There is a "new masculinity" wherein women & betas re-label traditional markers of male success as "sexist" or "divisive". It's a comforting mechanism by which losers will try to redefine failure as success and success as wrong.I guess I should be clearer. Not intentional intimidation. Self-inflicted intimidation. A belief of inadequacy. And yes, a lot of people are generally neurotic people. It is more obvious with guys that put up the biggest show of "alpha" are probably feeling intimidation and reacting to it that way, whereas low social status men just decide to bow out. After a while, I imagine that those initial "intimidation" reactions where guys act out with really alpha behaviors becomes a pattern of success w… | /r/AlreadyRed | 07/10/14 03:15 PM |
| 3 | There is a "new masculinity" wherein women & betas re-label traditional markers of male success as "sexist" or "divisive". It's a comforting mechanism by which losers will try to redefine failure as success and success as wrong.I like your viewpoint on MGTOW as an opt-out of the male competition. I see it generally as a way that opts them out of choosing to deal with women. But, perhaps subconsciously there is a big part of that decision that is intimidation from other men. As you know, you can't try and improve these people, but differentiating MGTOW for self-improvement from MGTOW from conscientious non-competition is another thing all together. And, as we know, fuck Third Wave Feminism's retardedness. | /r/AlreadyRed | 07/10/14 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Is it a good idea to flake myself if I'm sure she will?Why would you be afraid of something that you already admitted to not caring about. Stop overthinking the status bullshit game. You had something better to do than her. Just tell her that, if she's interested, she'll come back. She might be even more interested. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/14 07:07 PM |
| 6 | Her decision to fuck you is not a conscious oneFunny moment last year when this Italian chick I was friends with at a bar, came up to me explaining how she was excited about how she saw this "perfect" guy. Muscular, shaved head, etc, etc. She went back to hang around him and one of the first things out of his mouth was, "You're from Europe? I hear they speak Portuguese there?" She got so turned off right away. In the end, brains, brawn and power have to be in some kind of balance to be a turn on. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/14 01:50 PM |
| 1 | I guess my date went wrong...There's a few things happening here that you missed. 1 - You went to her area, and to her cafe. That puts you in her world frame. She wants you to sweep her to your frame. I know you live 50km away, but you should have taken her somewhere away from her little world - so she's in amazement and away from her dull reality she is used to doing shit in. 2 - The "i'm paying my own way" is totally fine, but it was in this case an indication of, "I don't want you to pay because I don't want you to think… | /r/trpGAME | 29/09/14 12:57 PM |
| 1 | I guess my date went wrong...It sounds like she was not as attracted to you as you think. The bathroom move has nothing wrong with it at all. | /r/trpGAME | 29/09/14 12:48 PM |
| 1 | "She's not like other girls, she's different". How do I stop these thoughts?Fuck her and then you'll see she's AWALT | /r/askTRP | 26/09/14 01:51 PM |
| 4 | LTR says she needs emotional connection for sexBy emotional connection she doesn't mean love. She means deep intense, you're the hottest man I want right now, emotions. You're not turning her on. You're aren't describing anything to help us tell you specifics, so read the sidebar in totality and learn. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/14 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Voice record your hookups. Her voice saying "Oh yes baby fuck me harder!" is hard to argue against if she turns psycho and accuses you of raping herMy understanding is Hearsay only applies if the witness to the evidence (documents or recordings) isn't there to confirm or deny the recording is valid as it is. Since she isn't protected under the fifth amendment, then hearsay won't apply because the defense can say she is a valid witness to confirm the recording. Defendants are protected that's why it's an awkward situation when some papers by a defendant need to be testified as not hearsay but can't be corroborated by someone who can't testif… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Voice record your hookups. Her voice saying "Oh yes baby fuck me harder!" is hard to argue against if she turns psycho and accuses you of raping herWire tapping is different than recording. It's a fuzzy area, but the point of wiretapping laws is to protect your privacy. Recording something doesn't require consent as long as you aren't breaking personal privacy laws, such as publishing it, etc, etc. If that was the case, then any recording of a premises of a gas station robbery, etc would be inadmissible as evidence. I'm sure there are some funny laws out there as exceptions, but the point is a recording of a situation without consent doesn'… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/14 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Didn't fuck her when I had the chance to, now she is playing hard to getDoesnt' trust condoms makes no sense. What does she trust then? lol. Tell her to suck your dick next time. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/14 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Proof that being alpha is all you need to succeed with females: homeless man picks up different women each night to have a place to sleepYa, she was passable at best. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Date with a girl, get this message the next day. WTF does it mean?She wants a LTR relationship. Don't bother responding. You can fuck it probably down the road. But the only path is to not bother responding. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/14 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Do people describe your walk?I have, but because I have a very super laid back walk. At least used to, not sure if it's changed since I haven't heard a comment in a while. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/14 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Stay at home dad just informed wife wants a divorce. Do I strike first and hard? Help me avoid divorce rape!Document everything, especially the losing a job part to force foreclosure. You're in a good position to make money off her, since you're the one in the hole financially. I can't say more from personal experience. Yes, move first if things are getting hostile. And if there is a joint account then you can see shit. Call the bank and your name is on the account. You have a right to access these things. You need to call the VA office and see what kind of support they can give you in divorce. And do… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/14 01:58 PM |
| 1 | 14 Things Every Fat Girl Absolutely Needs to HearUh, sure. One one side you accept this bitch is some slut, but somehow all 100 dudes she fucked are alpha males who have the balls to even think about approaching hotter girls than her and succeed? Guess, the point of Redpill is totally irrelevant, win for the dumb woman haters. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/14 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Very Short FR - Dont be a beta buxYa, weird. I really thought it said ass. Ah well. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/14 01:23 AM |
| 11 | 14 Things Every Fat Girl Absolutely Needs to HearAgreed. However, hot girls also are more intimidating to approach for 99 of those 100 guys who fucked that chubby girl. In my experience, hot chicks' numbers are quite a bit lower. Also, guys are more ready to commit to that, so it can keep them roped out of the CC in some places. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Very Short FR - Dont be a beta buxBear with me on this one. There is Beta Bux and Beta Attitude. I agree and support 100% your choice to enforce your will any way that is reasonable and express that however. My main issue is that girls just generally want validation and acceptance. You buying them a drink can also mean they want to know you value them. Buy them the drink? Fuck no. But, give them another bone if you care. The difference is between dealing with next morning asshole texts from some dumb girl you'd rather not get, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 03:03 PM |
| 3 | I'm supposed to be a feminist. Now realizing I can only be happy with a RP life. Feeling trapped and worried I'll upset my feminist family/friends if I go public.You'd be surprised what people will do to not believe what is blatantly in front of them the whole time. I wouldn't worry about what they think, stop worrying about labels, and just live your life and if someone questions you, just tell them you're happy. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 03:54 AM |
| 2 | How should I respond if a 2/10 girl asks me out in front of a group of hot girls? (Almost happened yesterday)The correct answer is right in front of you. Create a giant emergency that overshadows what she said and run away with a hot girl in your arms. Simple enough. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/14 12:01 AM |
| 1 | The girl I want said I seem like white trash trying to desperately seem like new money. I'm swole, etc, but I don't know how to change class signals. Help?Stand up straight, don't shift unnecessarily, don't make nervous motions or look down or around shifty eyed. Look folks in the eye and project positivity. Upper class people look confident, secure, don't feel the need to threaten or be unnecessarily loud. They are so calm, and authoritarian, you can't tell they aren't just like that all the time. When they want to be warm they are somewhat talking to a child, "you like that?", "tell me more about..." And so on. This is just yo give you an idea. … | /r/askTRP | 30/08/14 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Girl I used to orbit gives an outpouring of emotion. Been going NC for several months now; is it possible to convert her into a plate?At your maturity level, you probably won't listen to this. Forget her, move on with your life. She is now a footnote on a long life with hopefully great adventure. The longer you linger on some girl the less likely you are to think about what really matters. Your life. What are you going to do to make your life the best life you want to live and explore? Even at 16, so much to prepare for on life that I wish people told me I could do then. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/14 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Female aggressiveness towards beta malesBecause they were shitty people. That's all. Has nothing to do with being a girl or not. Shitty people do shitty things. They just do it like girls do shitty things because they are girls. Not much to analyze here, you just need to realize that people will take advantage of you if you let them. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/14 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Dread Game vs ToxicityI'm sure this is a surprise notice to you, but women and men find who they are with to be important to them and makes them happy to know they have an excellent mate that chose them as their partner. At some point, raising their standards is enlightening them to how good things can be - but as the famous saying goes - Ignorance is bliss. So, if you make one part of their happiness unable to be fulfilled by most men, but making other parts of them better, the net effect is that they aren't better,… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 02:25 PM |
| 14 | Dread Game vs ToxicityIt's going to be impossible to leave her better than you found her if you are truly Redpill. A lot of girls become Alpha widows from some guys. I have one girl who has gone on a couple dates since I left her, but has otherwise basically found it impossible to find someone to not compare to me. In the end, you have to understand the more amazing you are, the more difficult she will have a time to replace you. In the end, being shitty might be the best thing you can do to her so that she can at le… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Robin Williams was miserable at having to return to TV at the age of 63 and take on film roles he did not want because two divorces had cost him £20millionI feel you in a lot of ways. Go live on $50,000 a year. Robin could have done that in a heartbeat. People live on far less. When you're that wealthy, it seems absurd though. But, I'm sure it wasn't just the money in the end. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 06:33 AM |
| 2 | How to reassure loyal and increasingly insecure plate without going full beta? (looking to turn into LTR but not that soon)You don't. You need to take her out and have fun. She is an introvert it seems and she is becoming uninterested, but she doesn't like that because of her love for alpha cock. So she blames you for her being bored and boring. Take her out for a Funtime and distract her. You are being played, and you are failing in your first role as alpha. Don't be boring. Women (and men) don't know what they want when they become emotional like this. They are just feeling lots of shit that doesn't make sense and… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 12:35 PM |
| 1 | An incredibly fucked up situation. You can't make this shit up.Frankly, that's pretty fair in mY eyes. Not mature, but seriously, that dude is not your friend. He should've stood by you and kicked her ass out. If he wanted to start smashing it on the side, fine. But letting her stay there was fucking dumb of him. However, you need to listen to the other comment about being what you want to find in others. Even just hearing this story would put you way down on a list of people I'd like to befriend. Nothing personal, but I wouldn't want to deal hearing that s… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 12:08 PM |
| 4 | How to get a girl to your apartmentYes, but it's also enough plausible deniability for her hamster to not put up the anti slut defense too heavily. Of course if she invites you up for tea or coffee, skip the bathroom line. And that is also completely transparent. | /r/trpGAME | 29/07/14 05:12 AM |
| 5 | How to get a girl to your apartmentPick a location you can walk back to your apartment or hers. Preferbly yours. If hers, use the "I need to use your bathroom" line. If yours, invite her in for some tea or coffee. The rest of your questions are easily found if you read all the Redpill sidebar material. Seems like you haven't even bothered. | /r/trpGAME | 29/07/14 01:50 AM |
| 2 | "They make their move. Self-confidence is everything" - A story of how 3 men stole a kill from 15 lionsBears are kinda fucking insane when it comes to protecting their young though. There is a cub there, so she probably went full psycho. The dog totally set it off when she leaned forward for whatever reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/14 01:01 PM |
| 1 | "I would rather be murdered than raped" -- a theory on why sex is specialThese are subconscious emotions dictating conscious reactions. The mind fills in the blanks when it doesn't have a good explanation. The take away here isn't the rationality of it, but that along the way rape became subconsciously programmed into our psyches through evolution. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/14 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps sending me suggestive pictures, she told me she just wants my opinion... the fuck?"If you're going to keep sending me these pictures you know I'm going to fuck you the next time You're in town right?" Period, the end. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/14 06:38 AM |
| 3 | Shit test that I had no idea how to respond to..Most of the time, it's about having it prepared and ready. So it's not really on your feet. You just know the few ways that you can respond. Agree and Amplify is the main thing. Whatever she says magnify it. Second, be confident and not afraid to say insane shit, then you'd be surprised what comes out of your mouth. | /r/trpGAME | 24/07/14 03:25 AM |
| 1 | I can't tell women what I do. I'm a physicist.Never tell people what you do, keep it mysterious. Hold your ground. Say something misdirecting instead. "I'm a graduate student in being handsome." Point at a bald guy, "Hey, is that Patrick Stewart over there?!" Whatever it takes man. Trust me, have an arsenal up your sleeve to use. There's a lot of ways to get around it. When you've already got her deep into the situation where she can't back out, then she can find out eventually. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/14 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Do some alpha men enjoy "tuna" (women who are still during sex, allow men to do whatever they want, at their own pace, without disruption)?What I mean is, there are days that you just want something that you can just enjoy, without intensity. The feeling of slidnig your cock in and out, in a meditative way, dare i say. Just kind of like a relaxing thing. yes, it can be good. I do feel like it sometimes. I just want something to slide into and feel my body have sex, without going crazy. As you say, it may come across as just "using" someone. But, if everything is consentual and everyone is enjoying themselves someway, nothing wrong … | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 06:30 PM |
| 29 | I Don’t Regret Cheating On My Boyfriend, Here’s WhyIt's not new logic. It's the same old logic, but now boys are being told you should be nice to the poor underprivileged, "mentally deficient" females, because otherwise you're a rapist. I want to be clear I don't see women as mentally deficient. But, roll up everything feminism says about women itself, and it's what they pretty much say. Women have taken the "be nice to the handicapped child" ball and run off with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Girl puts her bikini off at FaceTime with 2 other guys at bath. How to trp?The funny answer : only two?, I been In jacuzzis with five guys! Jealous?? The correct answer : no, you WISH you were in a jacuzzi with two guys. Let's make it at least one guy. Where do I find you? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Do some alpha men enjoy "tuna" (women who are still during sex, allow men to do whatever they want, at their own pace, without disruption)?One of my plates is like this. The sex could be better overall because I like some passionate intensity. It's alright sometimes, maybe. But overall, I'd rather go for the passionate stuff. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Shit test that I had no idea how to respond to..Nice one, I like it. | /r/trpGAME | 22/07/14 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Went to a bar/club and felt out of place. A 30 year old woman noticed this and approached me.Wat wat, indeed. It was like, almost making sense the whole time, then it just assploded and you realized you read nothing of any use to anyone. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/14 05:17 AM |
| 3 | Went to a bar/club and felt out of place. A 30 year old woman noticed this and approached me.This is pretty ridiculous. When shit is ridiculous the only answer is read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/14 05:17 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid potential future accusations of rape from sub girl who LOVES to be fucked extremely hard and enjoys borderline pretend rape?Tell her to pick a safe word. Make sure it's documented in some way over text or some shit for future reference and it's not just verbal. That way you can explain that you setup a safe word if it comes back to bite you and then just have to explain she didn't say the safe word. That will at least show that you established a clear and responsible way to explain to any authorities that this is a regular thing you guys do, and that she knows how to be safe, and that will take most of her credibilit… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/14 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How to find back my motivation ?I've been having a bit of a struggle with motivation recently. Plenty to be motivated about, but just prioritizing the things I need to prioritize. Doing plenty of things, but not the things I have to do. However, our root issues are different. So, let me ask you this. What do you want? How badly do you want it? How are you going to get it? Finally, the most important thing... is what you want more important than who you are this moment? Because, if you aren't willing to sacrifice who you are to… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/14 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Relationship with the guy who smashed/is smashing my oneitis?The correct answer is to not care. Are these two people, or even a hundred peoples opinion of you going to make you a better person? Let me give you the Cliff Notes version. No. Make yourself a better person. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/14 12:50 AM |
| 21 | Shit test that I had no idea how to respond to..You should've fallen back to the good old, "Woah, slow down girl. I asked you to dance. You haven't proven you're even sexy enough for me yet. I'll let you know when I'm down, if I'm down. Which is looking pretty slim at the moment." With a smile on your face of course. By telling her she is pretty much soft nexted at that point, she'll probably be humping that shit. Also, you should've just flamed that shit when she called you on the 6th. "Ya, only 6? I thought I was doing better than that." | /r/trpGAME | 21/07/14 09:00 PM |
| 8 | ELI5: Shit TestsShit tests are artificial social constructs. They are based on some people's inherent views of social status. For women, they can't separate the idea that you are alone from always being judged by the group, even if no one is watching. It's why women can be so hard on themselves about shit that no one saw or cares about. There is some mystical almighty force that makes them think everything they do is judged by everyone at all times. So, they naturally expect other people, specifically men, to b… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/14 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Denying a woman sex when it's your first time naked together.That would have all depended on how good you fucked her. Shitty fuck would've been rape, etc., etc. Haha. Cant make this shit up. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/14 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Denying a woman sex when it's your first time naked together."He raped me" at worst Or "God you fucked me so good." At best. Dumb bitches be dumb. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/14 07:38 AM |
| 9 | My girlfriend is literally the kryptonite of alphasYou're 17. You have a lot to learn about life still. More to life than poon and PUA. It doesn't matter if she knows about red pill. The reason is simple. Don't get oneitis. This is a high school relationship. She isn't that important in the grand scheme of things. She is important to you now because she is your first "9", your first at a lot of things. Enjoy yourself, if you lose her, big fucking deal, you have a whole life of happy and sad ahead of you. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/14 07:29 AM |
| 5 | Is this "stage" normal after swallowing the pill?You still think somewhere in your subconscious that the relationship with her is more important than you are. That's why you have regret you didn't fix yourself sooner. You are more important to yourself than a woman or relationship can ever be. You should thank her for teaching you and making you a better person, and come to terms with the greatest reward that life gave you in exchange for what is and would have always been a temporary and transient part of your life - another human being that … | /r/askTRP | 21/07/14 07:21 AM |
| 1 | how to keep plates coming back?Fuck them better. Don't be boring. | /r/trpGAME | 16/07/14 01:54 AM |
| 3 | What are you doing with your plates, other than having sex with them?It's going to happen no matter what. When you fuck them they are releasing hormones that bond them to you. You get a little, but not as much as a woman does. Oxytocin. Basically, if you fuck her good enough she has no choice but to fall in love (aka bond) to you. Some women will know better than others what that means for them - but in the end, the less experienced they are, the more likely they're going to not understand and get hurt. That's not your problem. To her, you're a little more than a… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/14 04:15 PM |
| 79 | Christopher Hitchens shows us how to handle a Feminist shit testMen don't work, what do you mean?? You don't get the patriarchy multi million welfare check every week? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 06:26 PM |
| 5 | Woman walks street hoping to be complimented so she can admonish man for making her feel unsafe.If nothing else, he seems a bit slow. She should be condemned for taking advantage of mentally deficient people. And, I don't mean the dude... Cuz she is obviously the stupid one. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/14 03:22 AM |
| 2 | [FR] New guy trying to improveLesson one you're learning from this is... other people are human too. You got over your approach anxiety, you picked a good target that responded well - you didn't get smashed down. You were down to earth and she seemed comfortable with you. Good job. Now, the next step is to direct things towards what YOU want, and not let her emotionally explode all over you and be her towel to wipe her tears off upon. Great job, and don't rush to the next step. Just get comfortable for now, just have it in t… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/14 02:42 PM |
| 2 | A woman is looking for my friend to give her money. What should I do?Don't tell him. You don't know anything about the situation. It is probably not even his kid. Just the only dude that might not be a total shitbag and have money to pay for her kid. However, save that post for a day if he needs it to prove that she is a psycho bitch. The court will look at that and might even give him the kid over the situation. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/14 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Function of women's petty white liesGenerally lies are an insecurity manifesting themselves. Women have tons of these. Overtime they learn how to use them to manipulate things. It depends what they want to do with the lie,mwhen you catch them. If they're trying to manipulate you, then they should be given the amused mastery treatment. Look at them like you're dad and like you think it's funny. If they're trying to offend you then ignore or agree and amplify. Never confront a lie unless it is critical. Never try to explain away a l… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/14 12:16 PM |
| 8 | "Inside the Angry Online Men's Rights Group Called 'Red Pill'"In her own words in that article, she basically says, "I'm a stripper in a feminists disguise." Way too funny. She is so fucked in the head. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 03:39 PM |
| 3 | "Inside the Angry Online Men's Rights Group Called 'Red Pill'"I think that's brilliant if you flip it. It completely puts the blame on women for being assholes to babies. Instant win button. When I hate women it's because women starve babies. Lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 03:34 PM |
| 6 | Topless pool party. Indirect approach check. Pre selection check. All I need is NOT to fuck this up. Unfortunately we could dry a pussy in a monsoon....Sounds like you need to talk to your friend about not being an idiot. He is the root issue here. | /r/trpGAME | 02/07/14 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you consider your plates to be your friends too?There can be exceptions, of course. Ally, companion, friend, acquaintance, sex provider. What these mean to each individual is really subtle. For men, friend probably evokes honor, honesty, physical backup, activity partner and game talk partner. For women, friend probably inherently means information sharing gossiper, emotional pillar and amplifier, relationship advice columnist, sexual competitor, and designated "don't be stupid when you're drunk" partner. I have a plate I consider a best frie… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Woman make time...Agreed. She was obviously not interested anymore. I had arranged a creative date, at her apartment no less, spent an 8 hour session chilling with her and doing things but i hadn't perfected my red pill mentality at the time, didn't escalate anything properly and failed. Simple as it gets. She lost interest and didn't make time for me again. The end. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you consider your plates to be your friends too?This is a semantic issue. Ally and friend aren't the same thing. Friends provide certain things that satisfy your needs. For a man, a fuck buddy is a friend, but to a woman a fuck buddy is a submissive role to a man. You are dominant. The opposite of this is emotional tampon beta. In that case, she considers him a friend, but he is just a submissive role or a woman. She is dominant. What a man expects from a friendship from a woman does not mean it will be reciprocated the way he may expect. And… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Do you consider your plates to be your friends too?One of my plates and I talked about this. I said the word friend, and she basically said she didn't consider me a friend. I found it surprising because we get along fine and have fun intellectually as well as physically. Point being, do these plates even consider you a real friend in the first place? You see, if you are doing aloof and asshole game they definitely don't see you as a friend, even if you find companionship in it. But, even if you are doing a more straight game - Female friendships… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 01:26 PM |
| 6 | Semi-FR - What is she up to?You smell danger because she is acting like a fucking nut ball. She is emotionally unstable, and wants you to support her emotionally. She is fixated on emotional relationships because that's all she's had in her life. You're doing a good job so far evading that, but you can do better on showing her that just by being your fuck buddy she has it better than anything else she can get out there. You can't say this directly, but you can get it in her head that if she starts behaving herself she can … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Men and women's brains are WIRED DIFFERENTLYSounds like a young kid trying to be useful, but not understanding things, or social graces, or male interactions. He's repeating a lot of what is in the sidebar verbatim, as well as trying to enforce general guidelines as though they were law and he is the enforcer, and all knowing, etc. This is pretty typical of kids. Beyond that, I'm not excusing anything. My favorite expression to tell kids in these cases is... "Two ears, one mouth. Do the math." | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Former plate did not respond to a text - what to do about it?Forget about it and move forward with her. She wants you to fuck her not check up on her. | /r/trpGAME | 01/07/14 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Woman make time...He can be an idiot. He fucked it up for both of us in the end. Lol. I didn't care that much. It makes for a good story for those with oneitis issues to stop hanging on for dumb reasons. What he said wasn't amazing or new to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 12:08 PM |
| 8 | What do I reply, if at all? Date cancelled in most unnecessary way.One day my brother said something. People make time if they want a relationship. It turns out he was secretly going on a date that weekend with a chick that he was previously trying to hook me up with, but was wondering if I had any luck setting something up with her - and I told him she kept saying she was busy. Swear to god from the horses mouth. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/14 05:03 AM |
| 3 | What do I reply, if at all? Date cancelled in most unnecessary way.You need to read everything in the sidebar again. You are so far gone the other way, you need to start from the beginning. Again. You broke so many basic expectations from someone who has any self respect. Don't check in every few days? Why the fuck would you waste your time checking on her. She is some fucking person you have never met. Why the fuck would you keep messaging her and giving her someone to talk to when she has given you nothing? You aren't negotiating. You aren't improving yoursel… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/14 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Field Report: She Just Couldn't Get Enough.Cheers for the excellent inspiration. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."It had 3300 up votes when I saw it. It just dropped 800. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 09:36 PM |
| 9 | Tips for handling shit tests based on height/attempts of shamingI'd probably have to break out the, "Never stopped me before". Or "And, you're big!" and make it ambiguous whether you're calling her fat or just taller than you. Knock her down a notch then work it up from there. They aim at your insecurity, just take aim right back at theirs, but keep it coy of course. If you can't find anything to take at them, perhaps go for the, "I'll definitely be taller when we're both laying down." Disclaimer : I'm not short, but I'm not so tall that tall girls think I'm… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/14 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Is Lord Sidious a good example of powertalk?No. Good Powertalk is in gangster movies because the idea is to break the rules and communicate and negotiate discreetly. Boardwalk empire, the sopranos are where you should look. Another movie with good Powertalk was Ides of March. About the presidency election campaigns. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/14 05:14 AM |
| 1 | trouble keeping my plates because they all want relationshipsYes, this is common. Two factors to consider. How old are they? If they're in their late 20s or early 30s, then they are going to want to move on quickly to find someone they can establish a LTR situation with. Second, if you see them too often too fast, or at least make things too predictable, they might lose the feeling of "reeling" you in, that keeps them from getting enough inertia to think they have enough comfort with you to ask for it. And once that threshold is crossed, it becomes a bit … | /r/trpGAME | 27/06/14 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Man accidentally "rapes" his girlfriendNo, Legally he didn't rape her because there is no jury saying he raped her. And even if he thinks he raped her, that doesn't mean he raped her. A verbal "no" does not make something rape. Saying it's rape, doesn't make it rape. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Man accidentally "rapes" his girlfriend"It is rape because it just is". Female logic wins everyone. Case closed. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Preselection on easy mode.Probably a quick signal that nothing with you would be serious or if they were married that you had as much to lose as them if things got out. Or wouldn't publicize their sluttiness so your wife wouldn't find out. It's almost like a "I will keep a secret" signal? And preselection of course. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 06:24 PM |
| 23 | Breaking News: Female Employee Gets Annoyed...Paternity Leave? That sounds too much like Patriarchy. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 04:23 PM |
| 6 | Had a date last night but she told me she had a bf partway in... How to prevent this in the future?Well, who said date her. I was just saying get her. Girlfriend literally means nothing. At all. There are whole cultures that don't even have a word for that shit. In French it is literally "little friend". In Italian, it's either "fiancée" or nothing, means nothing. German is about the same. Only our American English society has this fucked up notion of pseudo-"girlfriend marriage". | /r/askTRP | 25/06/14 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with expensive women?Expensive tastes only mean they are looking for a provider. That doesn't mean you can't plate them, but you need to totally come into the situation with massive Smv and game, before they know it they will be making out with you. Why? These chicks are also genrally really pent up from dealing with betas and providers and not getting any sexing up. | /r/trpGAME | 25/06/14 01:24 PM |
| 47 | Breaking News: Female Employee Gets Annoyed...Sexist gender roles. As she holds her baby. Maybe she should have brought her baby daddy to hold it while she talked. Not to mention he explicitly includes himself in all the sexist gender role activities. The offending paragraph : Now as a father of an active toddler myself, I have a new appreciation for how busy and hectic a parent’s life can be. By the time many of you have arrived at the office in the morning, you’ve already changed diapers, packed lunches, run after school buses, dropped ki… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Friends ignoring your textsThat's called childish. If you don't know why your friends don't respond, ask them. If they get bitchy, get new friends. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/14 12:42 PM |
| 8 | Had a date last night but she told me she had a bf partway in... How to prevent this in the future?I've read the other responses, and yours, and you don't get it. You're being clueless. Ever heard the phrase if she's available something is wrong? The good ones are always taken. Otherwise they're ugly or crazy. Your job is to get the girl from the other guy because she wants better than him. No girl wants to be alone. She will suffer abuse and pain and neglect until she finds her hero in white shining armor. The point isn't she has a boyfriend. The point is you need to get her to want you more… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/14 12:10 PM |
| 1 | FUCK I CHICKENED OUThttp://cdn.arwrath.com/1/195078.gif | /r/trpGAME | 20/06/14 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Help with a girlThe issue here is you always have to build rapport from the bottom up. How will she know who you are over the phone? You need to build some exchanges before you go for that. I wouldn't even ask for a number. Start with mentioning the site, move to some light banter that is barely on topic... Then jokingly mention how you have a bruise from when she ran into you to remind her who you are, then just mention some kind of happy hour event and she should meet you there. If she asks for your number, y… | /r/trpGAME | 18/06/14 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to approach other women in the same venue after getting rejected by one?If you're just having fun, then they will like your fun attitude. Forget about the pussy and forget about getting numbers. That will happen immediately when you're the fun one and they want to be around you for it. | /r/trpGAME | 18/06/14 03:31 PM |
| 7 | How and why low self-esteem is all in mind, why some people stay where they are and how to deal with low self esteem. Very long post.Well written and appreciated. I do want to say one thing. The mind does understand "other" tribes. It understands there are enemies and threats out there. It understands that they can harm you. However, the mind only sees itself as part of "one" tribe - and it can't trust other tribes like it trusts the first tribe you joined. It is also the reason why "Christian" groups that are completely open are such a sponge for lost causes - because it promises so much for "so little", and love for "nothin… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 09:55 PM |
| 6 | I seem to have a problem listening to my girl....both my ex-gf (that breakup led me to TRP) and my most current gf (pretty red-pill) have told me this. I need a solution to this and i hope it's not to listen more closely...I ain't got time for that.Well, it doesn't have to be rude. "Hey, I really don't feel like hearing about your girlfriends love life for the fifth time this week. Let's talk about something else." If that comes off rude, then it's dread game and nexting time because she obviously doesn't respect you. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/14 09:43 PM |
| 9 | I seem to have a problem listening to my girl....both my ex-gf (that breakup led me to TRP) and my most current gf (pretty red-pill) have told me this. I need a solution to this and i hope it's not to listen more closely...I ain't got time for that.You are giving them mixed signals. Tell them you aren't interested in what they're talking about, and to talk about something interesting to you. Then, they're not confused. If they're bitching you're not interested in their life, then just tell them you have better things to worry about, and that she should go talk to her girlfriends if she wants to gossip. When she wants a man to treat her like a woman, to come to you - because that' what men do. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/14 05:50 PM |
| 1 | LTRs friends think I'm controllingIt was an example. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/14 11:25 PM |
| 9 | Be honest: How fucked am I?There is no failure in Redpill. It's not a game, it's your life. There is no A+ or F grade. That failure is all made up. It's all an illusion. The only true failure is not trying, the only true end is dying, the only true loss is not being a better you everyday. There is no transcript of your shortcomings that people see before they meet you. There is only how unprepared you were to make them know who you are. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/14 02:55 PM |
| 4 | LTRs friends think I'm controllingToo many other bullshit responses saying don't tell her this or that. If you're serious about this LTR then tell her what you do and don't want her to do. If she doesn't listen then cut her loose. She wants leadership, not pussyfooting weak ass nonsense. If they say you're controlling, then ask her, "is that a problem for you? I know what I want in my woman. Do you want to be my woman?" And that's it. Everything else is a shit test. Addressing the nightclub issue itself is weak. You're explainin… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/14 02:41 PM |
| -3 | GF wants me to apologize to her friend, I sure as hell won't. She says it would be mature"I'll apologize if I can fuck you both in the ass at the same time." | /r/askTRP | 15/06/14 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Blown off by a girl-but still a perfect example of RP truthShe can't believe she got played and refuses to think she is as stupid as she really is. Next the crazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 02:59 PM |
| 6 | The "Low-Status Alpha"...a 3rd type of man besides traditional alpha vs betaThis has also been called Sigma around here occassionally. They are outcasts in their society. Just so you know there is a name for it - Sigma isn't often used and sometimes not used correctly. | /r/AlreadyRed | 10/06/14 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Not exactly approach anxiety, but not knowing what to say at parties.Most people, men or women are boring and uninteresting idiots. Statistically, it's not that hard to impress them, and you don't need to try and impress. You are judging them, that's all you need to think of it as. If they retort, great, they aren't an idiot and you can have fun jabbering. Keep your frame and have fun and laugh. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/14 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Shocking 2XC RevelationIt's a status attack. Any man that has power has power over women. Feminism is about women always having more status than man. There is nothing spiritual, logical or rational about this. And any attack a feminist launches is ALWAYS an attack on their status. There is no logical feminist argument, and you can only attack them on the highest level they can function - so you have to attack their status back. You can't have a rational argument with a feminist, you must attack their status. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/14 01:37 AM |
| -1 | When women pursue sex, even men don't get it.A lot of guys are weak and insecure and beta as fuck. So, yes, they are intimidated by some women. I've heard it and seen it, and unfortunately, I think it's true for many uninitiated beta guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/14 01:30 AM |
| 3 | FR: I failed but I did improve on myself a little bit at leastYour mistake was sitting at that table near her the whole time. It's her frame, her environment, her friends, her everything... And you are not ( and frankly I'm probably not) that good to charm them all. Because that is the only correct answer when faced with a bunch of chicks. Swoon them all, or distribute your attention enough that they don't know who you're really interested in. You should have gotten up and talked to people at other parts of the table befriended some strangers or whatever y… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 02:02 PM |
| 2 | "That's Inappropriate"You could've played it off as you meant 67 inches. | /r/trpGAME | 07/06/14 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Men are not happyAgreed. I didn't want to get into it with her, and couldn't find a way to pose a question that was thoughtful enough to make a difference. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/14 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Been seeing a girl for about a year now as a close friend. Im finally going to ask her out, need advice!Troll-tastic. Grab your balls, make sure they are firmly attached to your body, and go find something better to do with your life than obsessing over this chick. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/14 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Men are not happyDirect link to our subreddit Was posted on my Facebook feed the other day by some chick claiming misogyny is rampant after that kid went on his women hating murder spree. So, I would say that the site is getting spread outside of reddit. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/14 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Broke up. Ex going to same club as me. Advices?You're being too kind. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/14 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Help with understanding this.Feminism is a Status war. They want woman to have "more" status, at all costs. It's not a rational or logical argument. In fact, feminism specifically attacks logic as a means to an end. Feminism is not a scientific tool, or a rational tool, it's a status tool to get a group of low status women (not all women, just the shitty ones) what they want. The equivalent of this for men is a union. Except unions make sense to men. Organized, directed, forceful, and distributing actual tangible value to p… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/14 04:23 PM |
| -5 | Reacting to a wife's problem with sleepNo, you shouldn't submit to it. It is a request, if she wants you to do it you should negotiate with her for something. Always. Tell her you can come home early, if she does XYZ for you. Blowjob, laundry, whatever the hell you want. People are trained to expect things, and she will just expect things from you for free, constantly. This is bad for ANY relationship. Nothing is for free. Eventually you will pay for your generosity with a neurotic woman. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/14 04:04 PM |
| 18 | Woman rides CC until she hits the wall. Then has "gaypiphany"Ya, for real. I know 34 year olds who look fucking banging hot still, you'd think they were mid-20s still. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/14 04:47 PM |
| 5 | I'm the opposite of narcissistic.Narcissism is a flaw and a personality disorder. It's actually where a person has such low self-esteem he tries to overcome it by making himself out to be better and controlling his environment so nothing can prove him wrong. What you need to do is hit the gym, do things you like, and find what you're good at doing and do it. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/14 01:18 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill can't cure my oneitis.You want closure. You obviously want something that makes you feel like your time wasn't wasted or that you mattered to her, or that you have some value in her eyes. You're looking for male validation - which is that you are important. You need to look for that in yourself and not in someone else. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/14 01:24 PM |
| 1 | My life sucksYou're depressed because you see something changed in how you view the world but your internal tools to deal with those things have not changed. For example, a woman broke a guys heart - all woman are perfect and nice people - why did this woman break his heart so horribly? A guy can't accept these two views at the same time - they get depressed. It doesn't HAVE to do with a chick. Just an example. So, you need to sit down and accept this conflict and agree to change your worldview to match the … | /r/askTRP | 31/05/14 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Hello, I am in every way a sigma male, the position I'm in forces me to be very social. I need to know how to be more social, in a general way.When's the last time you ran into a Sigma? How would you describe that person? I'm curious because I haven't really heard someone describe meeting a Sigma before and how that appears to them. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/14 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Hello, I am in every way a sigma male, the position I'm in forces me to be very social. I need to know how to be more social, in a general way.My preferred description of Sigma is an Alpha out of his cultural context. For example, a Medieval Samurai in New York City. Will he get pussy? Yes. Will he the life of the party? No. Men will be confused by him, in social context he will make no sense. But, some bitches are gonna love that kimono and stoic attitude. I consider myself 'Sigma' in this way and trying to improve on what you mean as well. The issue is when your personality is out of synch with your culture for long enough - you lear… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/14 01:18 PM |
| -4 | GF wants to wear slutty bikini to music festivalTell her, "No, I want you to wear this." and pick something absolutely ugly. Then when she bitches, say, "Ok, fine - how about this." And then give her what you would prefer she wears. She'll be happy to be wearing anything but that ugly thing. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/14 07:43 PM |
| 3 | First time renouncing my allegiance to a narcissist. (potential breakup letter). Scathing enough?She may have been a narcissist - but you're a co-narcissist. In fact, this letter indicates that your co-narcissism runs so deep that your only tool is to be narcissistic back and try and guilt her into feeling bad about something - because that's how she manipulated you, as all narcissists do. She is who she is, but you are the one who needs to change and feel better and stronger for who you are. I dealt with these co-narcissistic issues - and here is my best advice for you brother to brother :… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/14 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Can't figure out what to say when feminists argue with me or say something that I strongly disagree withOk, let's talk about what Feminism really is - but first a quick aside. If you make a hierarchy of the type of conflicts you can have with a person... Logical - Self explanatory - strict rules of finding Truth/False Rational - Less concerned about the rules logic - but attempting to build a functional and intelligent framework. Spiritual - Attempting to take emotional things and put them in a framework that makes sense, but accounts that somethings aren't completely comprehensible. Metaphysics, … | /r/askTRP | 29/05/14 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Is this girl cheating on me?All women should be treated as potential plate material until proven otherwise. If you do that none of her actions should make you sick or nervous - I know it's a tough buy at first - but when you have 3-4 chicks that you can be sure will be willing to get down with you, you will care less about some dumb girl being stupid and you can drop her easy. In most cases, when that situation happens you'll find that the power changes quickly from her to you - and she is the one asking if you're fucking … | /r/trpGAME | 29/05/14 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Unable to close at a barIf you think you have a huge rapport with her, just say you're going outside for some fresh air. Don't even invite her. If she wants to follow, she will do so - or find you after a bit. Makes you some aloof game, and then definitely start chatting out the people out there. Also, definitely flirt and banter with other girls. I know you may not be interested, but just consider it a friendly thing and then she gets some aloof signals that makes her want to know if you really are interested in her. … | /r/trpGAME | 29/05/14 01:44 PM |
| 7 | The dreaded "maybe" shit testyour first line is too serious and full of yourself I think. Instead of saying cocky asshole, show it. You're revealing the man behind the curtain, and that you know you're being an asshole on purpose. "Did you say Lunch on Saturday? Sounds like a plan. Are you on the menu for dessert?" You'll probably still get a maybe, but with a winky face for suggesting she's on the dessert menu. | /r/trpGAME | 29/05/14 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Let's just fucking be friendsLooking vulnerable is different than opening up. Looking vulnerable is good, makes your asshole game look like suddenly there is a reason for it. But there is a difference between showing vulnerability that makes you look stronger for who you are and showing weakness. Vulnerable is NOT weak. Vulnerable means you have a soft spot. You like puppies. You cry when your puppy died or some shit. That can be sexy after you've been a hard ass for months that's been fucking her hardcore. Suddenly, you're… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Let's just fucking be friendsReading through posts... Sounds like you opened up too soon. You fucked up. We all fuck up. I know the little mistakes seem huge when you're a bit desperate to get out of a 'drought' or virgin status. It's a small mistake. Learn from it, and do better next time. Learn to put less effort to get the same results. Learn that you don't open up, it's never worth it - they will never care - they will only see the worst of it in you. Female companionship is a myth. Ancient men never relied on women for… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/14 09:00 PM |
| 5 | RP Revenge Porn (Guy takes back cheating ex and then proceeds to use her endlessly)As "porn", it is a fantasy Red Pill. In reality, I agree with you. In context, he acquired a plate that he could use however he wanted. Not a bad deal. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/14 02:56 PM |
| 5 | She is using other guys, is this a shit test?No, you're just slut shaming. Let women do what they want. Just be yourself and everything will be fine. /sarcasm Yes, you're basically right. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/14 01:32 PM |
| 1 | "You're so bad at texting"Shouldn't be a priority for you. I try to keep most text exchanges to 4-5 "chatty" texts maximum, followed by logistics for a date. Makes them feel like I'm giving them just enough time but then I have other things I want to do. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/14 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Weekend field report: Performance, Feedback, Revision. Or, never underestimate the power of a compliment.I misunderstood then. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/14 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Is being the backdoor man good or bad?If it's not you it's going to be someone else. If you don't give a shit about her, then encourage her to leave him and then dump her ass afterwards. She'll probably go back to him, but at least he'll know there's something fishy going on and you'll set him on a path to his own mindset. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/14 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many abusive men?Your buddy had worse self-esteem issues than you and overcompensated to cover them up. He had what is called "Narcissistic Personality Disorder". Google and read your heart out. Basically, he had to control his environment completely to fulfill his self-esteem issues - and so he could stop anything that threatened his self-image. You were co-narcissistic and supported his habits - just like a co-alcoholic helps an alcoholic. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/14 02:45 PM |
| 1 | 'Omega man' kills 6 and commits suicideI'm just saying that nothing else has been mentioned. He obviously had other issues. I think he might have had a schizophrenic disorder of some kind as well. Armchair Internet psychology isn't going to get us anywhere since his brains have been violently deconstructed. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/14 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Stop apologizing to peopleI agree. However, it still slips out of my mouth from time to time. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/14 01:54 PM |
| 2 | 'Omega man' kills 6 and commits suicideAspberger's doesn't make one person violent by itself. Aspberger's basically means you have no idea how to read social cues from people. If someone puts their hands out to hug you, you look at them and go, "Why do you have your hands out?" rather than hugging them. That's the most basic explanation. So, it's "game" on Hell mode. They can learn to overcome it of course, and learn to read the different cues, but it becomes a conscious thing they have to do, and not something that is instinctual. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/14 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Weekend field report: Performance, Feedback, Revision. Or, never underestimate the power of a compliment.I think you saved him with your wingman on that last one honestly. If he did that without you there, he would have no social proof (and no comic relief) to put her back in his frame. Opening with a compliment like that on a solo game is sure to end less well. Just fair warning to you, before you open up with compliments too much. The better thing to do is give an ambiguous comment that she can't tell is a compliment or not. It gets her thinking about herself and suddenly she's in your frame, and… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/14 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend introduced me to RPW and now I feel like I need a REAL RP manWomen's loyalty isn't for a man. The moment you want to protect a man, motherly instincts kick in and he becomes a boy. The moment he becomes a boy you lose attraction for him. The moment that happens you want a man wherever you see it. So female loyalty has to do with if your man is still a man in your eyes, not in your ability to be submissive to Him. It's his job to keep frame and his manliness. Shit happens, no one is perfect. But our emotions as men and women are strongly wired like this. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/14 04:23 AM |
| 1 | How to tell if she's lying?Fuck her harder than you've ever fucked her and make sure she understands where she is going to get her sexual satisfaction from. If you're going to follow up on what you mean than what you are really saying to her is "you can't get that there, you have to get it here - so here it is." | /r/askTRP | 25/05/14 12:21 PM |
| 8 | We aren't Jodie Foster and Elliott Rodgers isn't John Hinckley, Jr.He was a sheltered kid who got angry because of his social issues with Aspberger's syndrome who couldn't get any social recognition. His vision of being the son of some hot shot in 'Hollywood' was at odds with the reality he faced of being a nobody on his college campus. From what little I've read (which isn't much, but enough) - it sounds like he was angry at women for liking "assholes". This makes him a White Knight (Blue Piller) gone rogue who decided to hate the players and not the game. It'… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/14 12:16 PM |
| 10 | Bars and clubs stack the deck against you; pick up women in your best context.The other thing going on with the hamster that we don't hear too often is that women are suddenly very intimidated by a lot of the prettier women in the area. You'd think that this would make them more happy to see you - but remember validation is priority. They will try and milk as much of that out of you as they can because they are feeling really defensive and trying really hard to pump up their own value. Their insecurity + their effort = bitchiness. This inflation makes only the hottest guy… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/14 12:07 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with vague responses?She's not interested, she is fucking with you and she is having a laugh. You've failed the agree and amplify shit tests because you're taking her too seriously. Probably too late by now. You are playing pretty weak here. The only right responses would have been, "oh, you mean the other downtown where all the bitches hang out? I'll wait for you all night, don't you worry." Find someone else. Don't even bother responding to her anymore. What she's doing is insulting. I don't care when you knew her… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/14 11:43 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with vague responses?I don't know, but I know she's the only one he's messaging or he wouldn't deal with that bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/14 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Tips for a five foot tall guyYou should work hard on being perfectly appropriately dressed and groomed in a style that represents you and don't be shy about using shoes with lots of heel to get you some help. The rest is honestly pure raw personality. In this case you are going to have to just focus in being really charismatic and entertaining (this doesn't mean comedian). Don't blame your height for shortcomings in the long term. It will be part of their initial reaction, but overcome the shit tests and show you are cool a… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/14 11:14 AM |
| 1 | So I told my wife off tonight...felt good, despite the incoming consequencesComplaining is the biggest turn off for women. Ironically. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/14 04:35 AM |
| 0 | So I told my wife off tonight...felt good, despite the incoming consequencesdepending on your tone of voice and body language, this could be good. the fact that she didn't argue is good. I think you'll be fine. it's time to start initiating fucking her properly. start putting your hands on her like she is your woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/14 04:30 AM |
| 1 | So basically tonight a college town very close to me had a drive-by shooting, 4 dead, more injured...I agree, but thats why its blue pill gone wrong. He was genrally mentally off balance no matter what pill he was (or wasnt) on. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/14 04:17 AM |
| 3 | Just a story I wanna share from last night cause I'm bored and hungover.Male hamster seems to be more about being over accountable and pedestal-izing women rather than getting out of being accountable. I think thats why we use another name for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/14 04:16 AM |
| 1 | So basically tonight a college town very close to me had a drive-by shooting, 4 dead, more injured...frankly... i've seen way more fucked up shit than some women flocking to a dude... who was definitely not evil. A sheltered kid who seems schizophrenic. Nice find though. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/14 04:12 AM |
| 1 | I know a unicorn doesn't exist but i think i found one.Not impressed. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/14 11:36 PM |
| 16 | Just a story I wanna share from last night cause I'm bored and hungover.No, we know men have a hamster, it's usually called white-knighting or being blue pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/14 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Hamsters cheats on fiancé. Hamster survival skills kick in: deny, avoid responsibility, recruit, initiate witch hunt.We don't know if he ever showed it. Shit blew up, and the fiancee already broke up with her. Seemed like the supervisor offered it in a conversation. I'm not getting the impression this kid is that bright really. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/14 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Why women turn down sex from a guy they are interested in ?You have to understand what you present when they see you. Imagine you go to the grocery store and you can get a chocolate bar or a roasted chicken. Let's say you want both. Well, which do you want more? That will depend if you just ate dinner and want a snack, or if you want to eat a full meal. How much are you willing to pay? Well, if you can walk across the street and get a better chocolate bar for the same price you will. Maybe you just saw an advertisement for a delicious chicken sandwich, … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/14 02:04 PM |
| 22 | So basically tonight a college town very close to me had a drive-by shooting, 4 dead, more injured...He is a product of everything Blue Pill gone wrong. I think that every time some Blue Pill girls say "just be yourself and girls will like you" the response should be, "save lives, suck a lonely cock." Seems fair. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/14 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Stop trying to missioniz people!Blue Pillers can be useful. Just not by having a direct discussion with them. They can be used exactly for what they were intended for by the society that made them, and eventually some will figure It out after they suffer enough. On a less useful note... No Blue Pill shaming!!! Blue Pillers are beautiful too!!! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/14 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Don't make spinning plates your missionI'm at 5 plates and really didn't try that hard. I'm not the best at game either. I know it seems like a huge number - and it may sound like a humble brag - but seriously... I don't even know how I ended up with 5 plates. I see each once a week or sometimes every other week. So, it's not so time consuming. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/14 08:49 PM |
| -3 | How to approach a girl at the gym?The best thing to do is to open day game with a request for help/question. If she does squats, ask her if she can show you how to do a squat. Then at least you get a good show if you can't game her past that... Seriously though - make up some bullshit excuse while she's doing a set - or if she is on a rack, and all the others are taken up - ask if you can share the rack with her or something similar. Or reverse the situation. If you're on a rack and she's obviously looking for one, invite her ov… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/14 03:00 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl at the gym?Rinse and repeat? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/14 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Women see me as a relationship/dating kind of guy, how do I be the guy they want to have sex with?Think of it as a negotiation. If you offer x then she will negotiate with y. If you offer dates and nights out that's what she will try to get from you for the best deal she can get. If you offer hot sexy time. Then that's what she will negotiate for. The question for you is if you can convince her through body and mental cues that you can do that for her. Is your merchandise good enough? Corollary guidelines : don't shit where you eat (don't fuck coworkers) & dont ask her on a date, ask her to … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/14 09:19 AM |
| 7 | I have ZERO approach anxiety, "Game" comes naturally to me and I can learn more if I need it, dressing well is easily fixable, I'm losing weight and getting in shape... but I'm fucking ugly.No one cares if you're fucking beautiful. What concerns me more is that if you think everyone is a "legit" 10. 10s dont exist, and no campus is full of 100% beautiful people. You must have a self-image issue that you don't realize. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/14 10:00 PM |
| 1 | I beta'd it up...A) Drop it. Don't prod her. B) If you do prod her, it's to do something. If she doesn't respond, next her. What you did wrong probably : Texted too much with her. Text with her for a minute tops, and always build up towards hanging out. Why? Girls get validation from the texting. In the end, they feel satisfied with just having gotten your attention, and that they're special enough for that attention. You should make them feel like they're at a bottom of a very long list of people and chicks tha… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/14 08:58 PM |
| 14 | Sucker-punched by a woman today.Should probably report that to the correct people on campus. She might have a history of this already. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/14 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Home for college, only 20, where do you take women to fuck that you meet on tinder?It's been too long time since I was a college kid to get the subtext, I guess. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/14 03:36 PM |
| 1 | so I asked this girl out and leaves no straight answer.You mean... Note taken I will go and be assertive and make sure people know what I want explicitly and not leave half finished thoughts and hope people do the rest of the work for me because I think I know how to ask for what I want while not asking for what I want, when in fact all I'm doing is not giving people the ability to rely on me to be explicit with them and give them a way to feel comfortable with my confidence and thus making them think that I am trying to trap them - but that's not w… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/14 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Home for college, only 20, where do you take women to fuck that you meet on tinder?You're making this too complicated. Most chicks aren't going to care about going to each other places because they know the exact situation you are in. "We can't do anything fun because of 21 age limits", etc. Be near one of your two apartments. Dress inappropriately (wear a sweater in hot weather, forget a jacket in cold weather) OR Do something that gets your clothes wet/dirty. Ask if you can change at one of your places. Escalate. It doesn't always have to be some master plan to get them in p… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/14 01:30 PM |
| 2 | So i have a bit of problem while applying redpill on my life.The problem is you're doing too much too soon. You sound young - so what you need to do is master one skill at a time. When you see results (not always the results you expect), then you move on to the next one. Be confident - you will KNOW when you are doing it right because people will tell YOU : 'You're always so calm. You're so confident. Does anything ever bother you?", etc. Trust me, I get it all the time. I don't ask for it, I don't even think about it - and it comes out of peoples mouths.… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/14 01:25 PM |
| 3 | I really want to discuss and study the Gervais Priniciple. Everything else just seems trivial now. Could we start with distinguishing different types of talk?It's common in media that targets certain kinds of people. For some Losers and sociopaths, being powerful enough and skilled enough to be able to engage in Powertalk is their fantasy. You'll notice not everyone likes the politics intrigue genre. Some want feel good content, action, etc, etc. and it takes different writers to apply those different ideas. Sociopaths only care about what they can get for themselves. To different degrees, they want power and money. If a person can't deliver those th… | /r/AlreadyRed | 22/05/14 01:07 PM |
| 3 | Sober gameHaha, it's so amazing how the main host physically responds (and completely fails). She is so completely turned on and confused about why he is causing that in her. I think she was overwhelmed by his ability to pull aside the curtain of bullshit. Especially when he says to her (babytalk), "You're a powerful and beautiful women..." | /r/AlreadyRed | 21/05/14 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Sober gameI might have one drink - but my mind goes on overdrive when I drink too much. It "slows" down, but it tries to compensate by working harder. So I get sleepy and tired faster - and I monitor myself pretty highly - so it gets harder to be spontaneous. That said - not everyone responds the same to alcohol. I think | /r/AlreadyRed | 21/05/14 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on a little throwdown I just had. First time I solidly applied RP.You deal with the "we alway fight" by not instigating stupid fights like you just did. You told her what you wanted. Then she offered to give you what she offered. And then you snapped at her for some dumb reason about a "puppy treat". She told you she was going to give you what you wanted. You apparently thought she wanted something from you, but she didn't ask for anything. How about this the next time you negotiate for something. If you think she wants something from you, you negotiate what y… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/14 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Advice on asking a girl out by textFirst thing is... use this to gauge her interest. Don't feel upset if she turns it down. You are the one judging her worth, not the other way around. Second, don't tell her where you're going to go after. Keep it as a surprise reward for her. Also, it makes it sound like a date. This adds pressure on her to not miscommunicate her interest for you, if she isn't sure if she is interested in you yet and lets her have plausible deniability (women always want plausible deniability for their own actio… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/14 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Help me pass this shit test. Exes want to be friends again.Blonde isn't his girlfriend. According to him at least. I agree with the rest of what you said. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/14 01:40 PM |
| 7 | Help me pass this shit test. Exes want to be friends again.Don't say that. That's fucking whiny ass 4th grade bitch talk. That's inviting her to tell you what you can and can not do. "Yes you do need to explain yourself!!!" or whatever. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/14 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Help me pass this shit test. Exes want to be friends again.1 - Only correct response now that you've fucked up your frame is "This is why I don't talk to them. They're childish for dragging you into this. Now, if you want to be friends with me, I suggest you stop making other peoples problems your problem." Drop the blonde if she persists. Don't explain yourself. I do want to say this though. Going out of your way to ignore people isn't holding frame. It's reverse psychology. You're changing YOUR frame because you don't want to deal with them. That's no… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/14 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Smoothly increasing escalation?Well, we're talking about context here. In his case, I can imagine them watching TV or something and he could get her to rest on his chest and then he can escalate. Since they live together he has plausible deniability on these things. So, it depends on your situation and game. If you can get her to cuddle with you on your bed, then there's no reason you can't escalate from there, expect some LMR for sure. If you're just not sure how to proceed on the escalate - then mentally a "cuddle" directio… | /r/trpGAME | 20/05/14 12:53 PM |
| 1 | How do I avoid eating shit food on a date?In my experience most women ask me where I want to eat. I usually have to coax their preferences out of them. So, I find it surprising you have women suggesting they go to shitty places to eat in the first place. The reason I do this is I have a very broad and sometimes unusual food preference compared to most. Few things I find more annoying than having dinner with someone and they find they don't like anything on the menu - at least early on until we build a repertoire. Sharing food is very im… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/14 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How do I avoid eating shit food on a date?... Yes, you tell her you don't eat junk food and move on to your next choice. If what she eats is more important than who you are, then you just next her. Fuck that. The fact that you even have to ask a question like this is a bit concerning. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/14 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Punched twice by a walrus looking feministShould've told her she used the wrong F word. "I'm a Feminist, I don't do that." "I think you used the wrong F word. Did you mean Fat?" | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/14 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Plate Spinning - Deriving value and emotional satisfactionI'm glad you found it useful. I think the topic can use more improvement and thought to describe better. I wrote it on the way out the door, but really needed to get it out for my own thought process. Different people have different methods about letting plates know about other plates. Frankly, I just never talk about it. The reason is I've had mixed success in tackling the topic when it comes up and convincing them they shouldn't feel shitty about it - and I don't like to deal with the headache… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/14 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Ex-girlfriend leaves me for another guy; she gets pissed off when I tell her I'm flirting with another girl.Losing frame doesn't mean not being emotional. Losing frame means you enter someone elses emotional world. Getting angry because someone else instigated you is losing frame. Getting angry because you want to be angry at something, and you are going to make the world turn around your anger, is not losing frame. Not that I recommend getting angry, but to clarify your perception there. In this case, she is asking you to enter her frame of "forgiving" her and "loving" her. And you pull her out of he… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/14 02:21 PM |
| 1 | "I Don’t Want to Hire Women" - a female feminist entrepreneurThe truth is if she was a male manager she wouldn't have these issues in general. Male frame allows less of the "I will manage your emotions frame". She is responsible for her actions in inviting those emotions. They will still happen, of course. Make emotional outbreaks happen, but usually they're aggressive and outwardly projected so easier to identify and also resolve more quickly. Passive aggressive male bitchiness is still a few orders less annoying than the female type. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/14 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Smoothly increasing escalation?Why play outside game when you can do game at your place. Just invite one to your bedroom for some drinking and whatever shit, and make her laugh, then get her to snuggle with you, then start fondling and then kissing, and then before you know it you're laying it down. 90% of game outside of the private area is to convince her that she can trust you enough to get her back to that private place. Women want a guy they know they can trust not only with their body, but also with their social status.… | /r/trpGAME | 16/05/14 07:58 PM |
| 1 | My Mouth has Gotten me into Trouble more than OnceRed Pill isn't new. It's the status quo for millennia. What is changing is that there is an open dialogue we can have in the Information Age. Because you see this open dialogue and it connected with you, you expect that others will see this open dialogue and be enlightened. What you are missing is that this isn't revolutionary material. It's an idea that is dramatically opposed to the way most of humanity has been socialized to see the world for millennia. In fact, it has been used to make sure … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/14 07:50 PM |
| 2 | How do I Not Give Off a Beta Vibe?First rule of acting is to go over the top then reel it back in. You're more worried about being judged than letting go. That is your first defeat. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/14 02:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I Not Give Off a Beta Vibe?Your problem is your social anxiety, not some non existent men in a gym you think give a shit about hurting someone who is trying to improve themselves. Just by being there people will consider you one of them. No one wants to be an asshole. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/14 02:05 PM |
| 7 | If a girl mentions I am smarter than her in a non flirtatious way how do I respond?Hard one to handle over text. In person I would just give a wink and change topics. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/14 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Just looking for some insight into a failed attempt to turn a hook up into a FWB situation.It depends on how serious she was. Usually I say something like... "I'm a bit busy, but maybe I can make time for you. When are you free?" And then play it off and say, "I think I can write you into my calendar", etc. in a playful tone. When she comes at your you don't want to sound too open. But you want to give her the chance to "earn" her way onto your schedule. You can insinuate something sexual so she knows you are only going to make time if she is willing to play around. | /r/trpGAME | 11/05/14 01:26 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I handled this text situation badly...Emoticons are fine in context. You didn't handle it that badly such as asking her to explain herself, etc. But you should have told her something to distract her from that shit. They are just on autopilot in emotional episodes. They really want you to give them something shiny to think about, they are trapped in their own little world and want to get out. | /r/trpGAME | 10/05/14 01:39 PM |
| 3 | my friend pointed out to me I'm a sigma, After a bit of reading, what exactly is it that I need to change about myself to become an alpha?My preferred idea of sigma is alpha in the wrong culture. Imagine you decided to like all the things everyone else likes that you probably hate. That's the only real difference. As a sigma you are playing your alpha role in a fashion that most people are unable to understand so your community treats you as an outcast. That doesn't stop you from doing what you do. Find a community of like minded people and you will be alpha. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/14 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Ex has yet to pay me for my TV that I had agreed to sell to her when we broke up. How should I go about getting compensated in the most red pill way possible?I'd say the advice is gender neutral. If he wants his money, which is what he is asking, then he should sue. If he doesn't want his money, then yes he can walk away. That's not what he asked. I think he was looking for some smart ass, vengeful way to get it, which isn't really worth his time and if that's what he wants, them he should just walk away. Location will vary. My area it is 75$ to file the claim and they pay you for it if you win. So she would owe me $575 if I won, for example. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/14 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Ex has yet to pay me for my TV that I had agreed to sell to her when we broke up. How should I go about getting compensated in the most red pill way possible?Or it shows that you want your money and will not let her use you and abuse you, and you don't give a shit about her or pretending you don't care. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/14 02:40 AM |
| 2 | So what the fk am I supposed to discuss with girls(if i want to game good) if most serious and deep matters are turning them off?I mean, I am technically unable to talk about bulls**, how do I do it?Be interesting. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/14 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone else just not a fan of the bar scene?I dislike bars. Pools are too small and unreliable to meet decent people that know what they want. Too many damsels looking to be swept off their feet in some romance bullshit. Try social meetups. Meetup.com, couchsurfing, are good to find these. If you're in college, plenty of clubs that have social aspects. Try a language club. Chicks love multilingualism and are smarter than the average bar ho. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/14 09:00 PM |
| 4 | Ex has yet to pay me for my TV that I had agreed to sell to her when we broke up. How should I go about getting compensated in the most red pill way possible?Sue her in small claims court. If you want atypical advice try social engineering subreddit. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/14 08:56 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with this girl?I don't know what you really want from her? She sees you, she is being herself. You know you will see her no matter what, so you can't tell her to fuck off. You obviously have an emotional chip on your shoulder from this, and you need to let it go. It seems like you want us to justify emotionally bashing her for wasting your time and fucking some dude. Even going out of your way to ignore her is putting more effort than you should even bother. If she's being friendly, then just be friendly like … | /r/askTRP | 09/05/14 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Can a FWB truly be a Plate?She wants a relationship. I'm dealing with this somewhat in my own way with one of my "plates". She loves hanging out and we have great chemistry, but she is running on 30 (looking great though) and really wants to get a family started. I've totally blown away her expectations on what she wants from a guy - but I'm not ready to settle down. She knows this. We have had the "lets be friends only" talk - and totally smashed that wall down. The issue is, she wants a relationship - probably a family.… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/14 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Is it alpha/aloof or beta/nice guy to not make a fast move?Kudos to the line up of responses. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/14 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Is it alpha/aloof or beta/nice guy to not make a fast move?He accidentally aloofed her, that's all. She was insecure enough to think it was her not him because she was older, etc. A more secure chick would've probably laughed in his face. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/14 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Lifting - getting bigger rather than toned?Lower your body fat ratio. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/14 02:59 PM |
| 1 | I notice I am activating the Beta Bux side of the hypergamyYou are in a grey area where you are old enough to be attractive to older women. It's a first step to getting younger better looking women. Start focusing on red pill behavior and try different girls, and use your current pool to experiment with. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/14 02:57 PM |
| 2 | What was your "Oh god... Red Pill actually works..." moment?I always knew RP worked, but believed there was a better way than being a "jerk". The day I knew it worked is when I had 5 plates lined up one day after the other all ready to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/14 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Help! We are in an Open Relationship but I actually really like her, and she's meeting an ex. How do I act?I think you need to man up and just tell her what you want, you're human. Just don't be emotional or apologetic. Be stoic and stay calm. That doesn't mean throwing your feelings out the window. Know what you want. "Hey, you know, I've been thinking about you wanting to hang out with your ex again. In my experience, that usually isn't a good idea because of prior expectations, but I wanted you to know I trusted you. I know I'm important to you. And since that's the case, I'd like to talk about us… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/14 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Help! We are in an Open Relationship but I actually really like her, and she's meeting an ex. How do I act?Read my response to the OPs comment to my comment. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/14 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Help! We are in an Open Relationship but I actually really like her, and she's meeting an ex. How do I act?It's about controlling frame - not about what emotions you show. The issue is you lied because you're afraid of her reaction (thinking you're pathetic) to your emotions = Not Red Pill. If you don't want her to fuck him, then you could have said... "No, I don't feel comfortable with you fucking your ex. You can find other guys to fuck." "Why can't I?" "Because you respect my decision." If you have some moral obligation to give an explanation... "Because you didn't have an open relationship with y… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/14 10:34 PM |
| 5 | Help! We are in an Open Relationship but I actually really like her, and she's meeting an ex. How do I act?This sounds like the total wrong way to play this. You're just opening up the "Ya, i fucked him." "Why are you angry now? You said I could do it?" "It's your own fault for not knowing what you want." You lied and you'll have to lie in that bed. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/14 10:10 PM |
| -13 | How to: Shut down attention whoring without cringy comebacks or being a dick for no reasonI say something similar. I usually say... "You know, after gay guys started hitting on me, i really appreciated how creepy it is when guys give you unwanted attention." | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/14 01:31 PM |
| 1 | I need help, how to be a lone manThis isn't the right place for this question. Mgtow is the right place for that. TRP is about applying natural phenomena to your advantage. You explicitly want to break away from what is natural from a man. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/14 01:25 PM |
| 1 | "You can finish whenever you want, I feel satisfied"Sometimes first times are awkward for women and they don't expect to get off. But they enjoy the sex anyways. They expect that as long as she had fun sex will only get better down the road. I really don't have enough info to give you a better idea. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/14 01:00 PM |
| 1 | "You can finish whenever you want, I feel satisfied"Did they obviously already cum a few times? Did they obviously already have fun? I take a long time to cum, so usually they all say exactly alike, "I want you to cum." This will seem like a humble brag, but girls are normally begging me to stop because they can't take it anymore. So, it's hard to tell from yours if it's the same thing or they're just bored? It does somewhat sound like they are trying to just get you over with. Just because they came back doesn't mean they're coming back for the … | /r/askTRP | 07/05/14 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Relationships fail at the same pointIt's high schools stay aloof and playing multiple girls. You only have one chance at it. If you're worried about your reputation don't, after high school you get a new slate. No one will care, and you'll have fun stories to tell Into your 50s about being a playa in high school. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/14 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Networking/Fwb transition to her friend?Have your wingman distract the FWB. play up the 9. The truth is your FWB just told you exactly what she wants in exchange of her fucking you. Give me one of these 7 guys, and you can have 9. 9 just told you the one guy not to bring if you want to tell her you want to fuck her. It's a tricky situation. You need to offer the FWB something to forget about you while you play into the 9s arms. The 9 is going to be pissed if your hurt her friend, and ruin their friendship. Honestly doing this at a par… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/14 12:36 PM |
| 1 | "You're such an asshole/douche!"Sometimes I break out the, "aww, alright, I'll take it easier on you..." With a big grin and kino. "For now." Usually they say thanks and like the cuddle. Otherwise, they get all uppity and insist they can handle themselves, and that's when you know to bring out the big guns. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/14 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you compliment women back if they compliment you?I sometimes do it, if I was impressed by something earlier in the evening. But I don't make it a physical compliment. Either something somewhat sexual or something they did that I liked. I use it as a good opportunity to escalate the game in a way that might not be natural otherwise. You trust me enough to tell me You like me? Well then let's up this up a level and get serious about what I want. That's my perspective. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/14 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Am I supposed to NOT pay for a date?I've had girls pay for me, but I don't ask. Usually they just put down some cash and I make sure we are clear she is paying. Most girls won't do this though, and I either split the check or ask them to put down the tip at least so it's clear they are contributing and I'm not doing everything. In general first dates shouldn't be expensive. The key is to not have her expect for you to pay, and make sure you have gotten solid ioi's and not sending a "I'm an ATM" vibe. | /r/trpGAME | 06/05/14 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Decision making, masculinity and alphanessTRP believes there is a natural order to things that men are stupid to ignore. For example, women have a general tendency to like dominant, initiative taking men, a natural instinct to do so, regardless of what they think should be attractive - just like I can't choose I like a tiny waist or a nice ass. I didn't make the rules up, or why I'm attracted to it. So, if a man wants to be attractive, be a decision maker, take initiative, etc. That's where it comes from most likely. It also implies tha… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/14 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Decision making, masculinity and alphanessTRP really is a male-centric view of something that happens naturally, regardless of gender, and arguably, regardless of species. It's about power dynamics and educating ourselves. Also, it's about not fighting what is patently apparent due to nature. So, TRP applies to anyone. The general consensus is that for some reason women (a debatable toss up of modern society's bias towards women, an instinctual understanding or learned from being the intrinsic 'providers' of sex) have an initial advanta… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/14 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Decision making, masculinity and alphanessI didn't say I didn't agree. Wasn't taking a stab at you personally. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/14 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Amazing quote from shitty movie that illustrates IDGAF attitude.I found that quote off of TV Tropes wiki. Whenever someone says something about what I did that was crazy, or insane, I just respond, "For me, it was just Tuesday." They laugh, but I'm never sure if they really get what I was saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/14 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Decision making, masculinity and alphanessI really don't like the other two responses so far. A man doing "what they want" sometimes means that they can choose that they want to do what you want because they think it's in your collective best interest. That isn't weak, or submissive. It's a decision. Being TRP doesn't mean you want a submissive dumb ass bitch of a wife who is weak and idiotic and can never make a decision on her own. It means that you can choose a partner that fits you correctly. Some men want completely submissive wome… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/14 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Penthouse PartyIt is, but a bit of a hard one to buy though. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/14 02:39 PM |
| 1 | TRP at the Movies: "Breakfast at Tiffany's" - the blueprint for the modern liberated American woman. [spoilers]Watching that movie as an adult I had flashbacks to my previous girlfriends' insanities. Was quite awkward for me. It reflects modern female irrationality quite well. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/14 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Just looking for some insight into a failed attempt to turn a hook up into a FWB situation.You drove too hard for the date. When she called she wanted to hear that you are calm and collected and sexy, not to make plans. You need to joke, agree and amplify. When she said she was busy, she was shit testing you (or genuinely not interested.) Break a joke out. I usually say, "work this week. Doing laundry next week?" And laugh about it (since she can't see you smile, best to exaggerate humor indicators. Hope that kind of helps your approach. Might be too late at the moment. I'm getting th… | /r/trpGAME | 06/05/14 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Just looking for some insight into a failed attempt to turn a hook up into a FWB situation.The "I don't know you" line doesn't mean I don't know you. It means I don't know if I can trust you. She wants to know you won't shame her with her friends or embarrass her or become clingy and shit. Since you are in her friends circle she wants to fuck on the down low probably. You need to reassure her in a way that doesn't freak her out that she can trust you with that. | /r/trpGAME | 06/05/14 01:21 PM |
| 18 | So I (25/m) got beta bucked and cheated on twice. She swears that she has stopped, coincidentally right after I started heavily improving myself. Keeping her as FWB?Lol. There is no excuses for cheating on you. Period. Love is an action, not the words coming out of her mouth. What has she done that seriously proves she loves you. Fuck her and use her as a plate if it satisfies you, then find other girls. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/14 01:18 PM |
| 2 | My plate is way more dominant in bed than me. What can I do?She is using you, so fucking use her. Fuck to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/14 01:15 PM |
| -6 | What is a good response when a girl tells you she gets hit on a lot by other guys?Context is vague. Is this your LTr? New approach? It sounds like she wants you to validate yourself. Are you just any other guy? "Yes, but have you ever been hit on by a magical talking turtle who is a master of Kung fu?" "You mean teenage mutant ninja turtles?" "I don't know what you kids call them nowadays." wink She is in your frame now and you're validating her. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/14 02:04 PM |
| 18 | Whore Logic [long post]I know when you put a lot of work into something it is precious to you... So let me say I mean this in the most constructive way possible. I couldn't get into it because the writing style is too dense for a blog format. We read blogs to be entertained fundamentally. The education happens as we are entertained. Immediately I am not feeling attached to your writing because you hit me with two definitions, then a paragraph that is pretty indirect and not telling me where we are going and honestly n… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/14 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Question for 30+ men about sex drive.30+ and still going strong. Daily sexual urges. Not married. Marriage lowers libido over time. This is pretty much a studied fact. Never felt better than being 30 honestly. I really dont have a solution for you other than what you're doing. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/14 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Girl texted me after a date tonight. "You're too good to me". Is this a red flag I should consider seriously.Doesn't matter how she meant it, you need to make it into a fun joke. She is trying to pull you into her frame and that is a no no. She needs to be in your frame at all times. Agree and amplify. "Ya, I've never bought a girl a beer before.", or "I'll treat you even better after you come to my place next week.", or "so, how're you going to make it up to me?" | /r/askTRP | 05/05/14 01:34 PM |
| 0 | Don JonIt is relatively red pill. Lays out oneitis and then self improvement as a goal. I actually forget what happens after that. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/14 01:32 PM |
| 1 | How should I react to her talking to other guys?I really don't get this scenario. Your dominance over her has nothing to do with who she talks to. You fuck her harder and better and more often. Everything else is a shit test and treat it as such. Agree and amplify, distract or ignore. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/14 01:29 PM |
| 4 | How do I deal with my woman ridiculing and laughing at my points during an argument?This seems counter intuitive... But you have to lower the level of "attack" when you are losing. For example (just an example) Losing an intellectual debate Resort to emotion Losing emotional face off Resort to ridicule Losing ridicule fight Resort to... Silence or physical or something else The issue here is you need a trump her at the ridiculing stage, or before it gets there. You really shouldn't even be arguing with her. You're feeding her drama need. What the fuck are you arguing about that… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/14 01:21 PM |
| 1 | AMOG Attempt - "You're a lucky guy!" - How to handle?Your girl isn't a fool. Never buy that he is just being nice bullshit. She is an adult and played the game before. Jealousy is fine. Girls like to see you jealous if you are dominant about it, and not weak or passive or some other nonsense. To deal with the dude directly, I would have probably said to him : "what do you want?", some bullshit response... "Is that what you really want?", bullshit response, "ok, then how about you help me out and do XYZ for me, since you want to be so friendly." It… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/14 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Swallowed the pill. Now realize my brother looks nothing like the rest of the family.... wtf?!How old is your brother. If he is mature enough to handle it, then he might want to know. I didn't look like anyone in my immediately family, but it's because I took after my mothers mother and looked like my uncle on my mothers side who was estranged from my family for a long time. Once I met my uncle it was obvious where I got my features from. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/14 03:03 AM |
| 1 | How can I not be such a pussy in arguments ?Don't think of it as arguing. Stop and know what you want from this situation. At your next argument, don't talk. Just meditate on your mind and the rush of emotions, focus on the lace of your breath. The other person will think its weird, don't care. Just be silent in the moment, don't feel a need to respond until you know what you want. Soak in your emotions and get used to them until they pass and you have some more control. Start arguments so you can practice this. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/14 02:51 AM |
| 2 | How do you maintain frame when talking to "better" girls?I didn't literally mean say that to their face. I meant say that to yourself as a mindset. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/14 10:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you maintain frame when talking to "better" girls?You may be a lost cause. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/14 10:18 PM |
| 2 | How do you maintain frame when talking to "better" girls?Then you say (edit: not literally say, say to yourself) you want to fuck them because they're better than you and it's your biological imperative to improve your place. Life isn't about knowing your place it's about earning it. Girls who want to fuck want a guy who can prove he can fuck and maintain the responsibility associated with that action (emotionally stable, not clingy, not going to make them feel bad, not shame them, be sexy and turn them on) everything else means nothing. It's a differ… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/14 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Was this a shit test or was she just being a bitch?You want something. She knows it. You need to think as a negotiator, how can you let her know she really wants it and it's legit and not bullshit. How can you get her to ask you for what she wants? Not too literally, but that should be your mindset. Do you have something to offer? If not, then get something. Decent doesn't cut it. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/14 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Highschool HateYou need a girl. Nofap might work if you commit to getting someone to play with you. At your age, just Look girls in the eyes with a small smile and see which ones blush and talk to them. Expecting any more iOI at that age isn't going to happen. Every girl at that age wants an adventure. She doesn't know how to say it or show it. Don't be forceful, just play relaxed at all times. It's in their head and they will come to you after you show you want them. It's hard to understand as a young guy tha… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/14 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Talking about exes during a date? WTF?It's a lot of complicated shit in their head. If you're ready to talk sexually to her, this is a good time to make sexual talk with her. Distract her and ask her about her sexual adventures. "Where's the hottest place you've fucked", etc. then she will become curious about your history. Play whatever game you prefer then but you've drawn her into your world with a sexual frame, and now you can escalate faster physically and mentally. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/14 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Maintain Frame Under Drunkenness.Don't get drunk. Or Be an asshole, you can always just excuse it on being drunk like every other drunk asshole Or Ignore them. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/14 05:05 PM |
| 1 | how do I respond to "I'm not that kind of girl"Ignore it and keep going. Or... Ask something that makes them sound slutty she they respond and then just say, "I guess you are that kind of girl." I just ignore it usually. They're hamstering themselves away, not really looking for a response from you. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/14 05:02 PM |
| 1 | One man's 9-mare is another man's night-mare.Nonetheless, good reasons I want to get a hemi-cuda bench front seat classic. Wominz nowadays will be confused though and not know old school unlock the door etiquette. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/14 04:50 PM |
| 1 | One man's 9-mare is another man's night-mare.I thought it was unlock the door? I think it'd be a bit funny if she tried to open the door for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/14 04:33 PM |
| 1 | One man's 9-mare is another man's night-mare.Keyless entry kinda ruined that one. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/14 04:29 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with what I suspect is fake flirting?You really can't know that she isn't attracted to you. If she is just busting your balls, and you're just ignoring it, then you're just showing you're scared of some rejection from some chick that you don't care for anyways. My point is this is in your head. Either take control of the situation in a positive way for you or you are missing the real point about TRP... Being the man you want to be in your mind, regardless of looks or body type or what others are thinking. Best of luck. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/14 04:08 PM |
| 2 | How do I ask a girl to dinner TRP way?Don't do dates. Do things that you invite them to do with you. I want to do a picnic, I want to try this restaurant, I want to... Care to join me? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/14 01:15 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with what I suspect is fake flirting?What i'm reading makes no sense at all. She feels your abs but you're low Smv. Blah blah blah. I think you have a self image issue and should get yourself a reality check. You have this idea of what you should be and you aren't accepting who you are for yourself. You're setting yourself up for failure. You should be breathing and practicing your mental challenges as much as your physical ones. Girls aren't going to care how cute you are if you are a socially awkward goofball like you are coming … | /r/askTRP | 02/05/14 01:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond to a text that went unreplied text to my wife?Who cares what she thinks or she is involved. If she doesn't want to give input then she doesn't deserve input. If she complains, tell her you made a decision. She had her chance to input but she didn't take advantage of it, you have to get it done, and to stop wasting your time complaining. Get it done and move on with your life. And fuck her harder. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/14 12:33 PM |
| 2 | FR - Picnic EscalationYes. She said that exactly and in many ways. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/14 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Creating a social circle in a new town.I'm going to pull on some Ribbon Farm ideas here for you - go google it if you need more. College towns are generally full of clueless people that are buying into the system still. Life is relatively easy, they don't have a lot of real world stress, and will make friends as long as it reinforces their worldview. When you're out of school, you are dealing by and large with "losers". This doesn't mean shitty people - this means people who know they got a losing deal on life. They are working too m… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/14 07:31 PM |
| 6 | FR - Picnic EscalationI internalize mostly. I build up who I want to be based on the philosophy and practice that perspective so it becomes more instinctual. I focus on how I can get what I want out of the situation. Focusing on negotiating and what is being said in a situation. i.e. Posturing is responded to with amused playfulness. Demands are responded to with negotiation. For getting to the sex, I've been focusing on physical contact and reading those responses until I can get to the kissing - at which point bein… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 06:46 PM |
| 9 | FR - Picnic EscalationAgreed. She went way beyond that too. The kind of dirty talk a guy dreams a woman would say. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 04:38 PM |
| 13 | FR - Picnic EscalationYup. I mention it because I wanted to point out that the "I want a husband" behavior is making them wait for months to get some pussy, and she was definitely doing that with these guys - while guys before (and myself) got the quick pass. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 04:36 PM |
| 1 | How to lose weight?Lots of the other advice here is very good. I did a lot of research, and I have a lot of experience with cooking and nutrition. I've lost about 10 pounds recently (never was really large, but trying to get trim and get some abs showing) - and also added quite a bit of muscle while losing 10 lbs. So, overall it's going really well. I'll give you the bullet points and you can look at how it applies to you. 1 - Count Calories. Figure out your daily caloric needs, and aim lower. ~3500 calories defec… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/14 04:05 PM |
| 8 | FR - Picnic EscalationI believe her to some extent because there is a bit of a "gap" in her boyfriend history. She is at the upper end of 20, and she has only been in my area for a couple years and she only talked about the two boyfriends she met in my area - who were apparently 40 or above because she wants to get a husband, and she made that clear. So, there is at least 6+ years of her being in the USA and in some other seriously major cities where she could've fucked a lot of cock. Now that she's looking for a "go… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Negotiations with a woman I barely knowI agree with another post. If she doesn't have time to negotiate, then you negotiate without her. She gets the smaller room at the same rent as everyone. Little girl sad! Maybe she should've made time to do this. Life lessons suck sometimes. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/14 02:22 PM |
| 5 | "I feel like you won't want to be with me if I'm not tight anymore"It's not really a shit test. She wants validation that you like her for more than her body. A lot of ways to handle it. Agree and amplify to mock her out of the state of mind, or just tell her something nice about something not physical "I'm with you for your awesome personality. I'm going to fuck you as long as you don't become a whinny punk." | /r/askTRP | 26/04/14 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Help with My DaughterThis isn't womanly behavior. Men do this shit too. Lie, steal, etc. I don't see anything wrong with what she did. Ethics is overrated, and if you want your daughter to be a shrewd woman, you should let her carry on. Teach your son why that was wrong, why he should learn to trust his instincts not other people no matter who they are, especially women. Otherwise, You are setting both up for failure then. You're teaching your daughter to be "ethical" and then some lying doichebag is going to fuck h… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/14 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Baby wrecked my wife's bodySeriously, you need to stop having a conversation about this - and just dominate her. Don't ask about sex. Just grab her and bend her over. Get a little rough (not rapey of course). Tell her you're going to fuck her how you want to fuck her and you can't resist, and she's too fucking hot - just go wild over the top man ape on her. That'll send the message you want, and will get her into YOUR FRAME. This is a frame issue - you are giving too much shit to her bullshit state of mind, and you need t… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/14 09:13 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out clubbing for the first time in a while. I was crushed. Need help.I feel you. Went to the bar scene in my city with two buddies. One guy had a great opening game, and was chatting up whole packs of chicks. But we had slammed three shots earlier. At least three girls cozy up to me while bantering with someone on the street we were with - shoulder up against my shoulder looking me in the eye while responding to someone else. I was looking good. But we had slammed three shots earlier to start the night and my mind was fucking stalled. Nothing came of it. I am sur… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/14 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on BDSM/DDLG relationshipsThat is really specific kink stuff that is really fantasy play. Sure, some TRP principles apply, but really it is it's own thing. Discussing such a thing really isn't relevant to most men out there. If they want to get into fantasy kink there are places to do it. Also, TRP doesn't want to be associated with fantasy material because it wants to be taken seriously on its own. Diluting the message by discussing too much BDSM or incorporating it into the philosophy marginalizes people not interested… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/14 12:05 PM |
| 0 | First Date Since TRPMan = negotiate. Whenever you are stumped what to do as a man. Negotiate. "Ok, you pay for this, I'll buy you a beer next." Don't just negotiate for fairness, negotiate for advantage. Have her in your pocket at all times. One girl I was texting (met online and building rapport) with wanted a Guinness. Later we were texting about cumshots and I said I'd buy her a Guinness if she let me cum on her face. We finally made a plan to meet and she said she really wanted that Guinness. And I brought it u… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/14 11:55 AM |
| 3 | She said yes to the date but didn't respond to the plans. Do I ask again?Things to consider. Drop the "date" mentality. Have something to do. "I want to try/do this thing, I want some cute company. Can you make next Thursday?" If they can't or aren't interested, just joke, "alright, I'll just keep going down my list of cute girls...". I'm curious to try "man, you were the last one on my list to ask too. Dammit!" To neg her that you have other options. Always open with something attention grabbing. Hiya x, do y is kinda meh. Say something funny or gross or random. Get… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/14 11:46 AM |
| 1 | What's the longest shit test you've maintained frame through?The average advice is Soft next. If she wants it she will come back. Two weeks is pretty long though. A lack of response on your side at that last moment probably makes her think you're not interested. She basically asked if it was over and you didn't respond. You should have said at that moment, " wear something sexy, get your ass to my place and get ready to be fucked hard for being a bad girl." In your own words. Might still work. You have nothing to lose really. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/14 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Example - I'm having free dinner tonightI'll save that advice, cheers | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/14 11:30 PM |
| 21 | RP vs. BP in ComedyLove British humor | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/14 04:57 AM |
| 9 | What would you do if a hot 22 year old offered you sex for $100 and no-strings-attached (and money is no object to you)? I'm 55. Elaboration inside.There are legal implications more than frame issues. Just say that you aren't paying her. You will help her out with tuition. You expect her to hang out with you for fun. Don't say for sex, but if she doesn't get the message then don't help with the tuition. Don't recommend giving her cash. I would just directly pay part of her tuition relative to her participation. Sets a different precedent. Really though, seems like your situation is too different than the scope of this sub redditt. Probably … | /r/askTRP | 12/04/14 11:36 AM |
| 3 | TRP Alpha conflicting with my natural light-hearted personality. How do I balance the two?It's your perspective that's the issue. Yes there are ways to balance it but it's not in how you act as much as how you balance yourself internally. How do you calibrate your lighthearted actions to come out alpha, rather than just doing whatever you feel is lighthearted without any control which makes others feel like you don't have boundaries, which is the essence of alpha, having boundaries. Reflect on that a bit. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/14 08:00 PM |
| 12 | A year and a half without sexAdvice to the young. DO NOT DO THIS OVER TEXT. You don't want her to show to her friends any texts about you doing this. Or have any evidence of this. Kids want to do everything over text nowawdays | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/14 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Girl flaked, how to handleI would say the best thing to happen is that she gets in touch with you for next weeks date. If she gets back to you then negotiate for her to come do lunch at your place or something that obviously escalates with little chance of failure. Double down on the escalate. You either get laid or lose a next anyways. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/14 12:42 PM |
| 2 | "You're not trying to hook up with me are you?" shit testSeriously crazy. I'd say its best to agree and amplify. "No way! I don't stick my dick in crazy" and watch her hamster herself from "I'm not crazy" to "if I'm not crazy then he should fuck me". Had something similar. Building text game with random okc chick. All she texted about was having a bad day, being depressed from a two year old divorce, asking if I was really my age. I Avoided all that nonsense, she finally asked what my job was and I just ignored and asked her for another pic. Post wall… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/14 01:22 PM |
| 3 | The Al Bundy syndrome: How a married alpha will slowly get betafied.You can watch it on Crackle for free. Just in case anyone was looking for it. http://www.crackle.com/c/married-with-children | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/14 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Something I wrote up for my Human Sexuality course.Women do pay child support to men, its less common and requires her to meet certain archaic qualifications, etc. I think the paper is good. Reading it from an opposing perspective I feel like you try to not be offensive in the first couple paragraphs but overshoot the mark and convince them they should be offended for all your excuses, because obviously you think they should be offended by what you're laying out. Make sense? I would just reduce the apologetic tone a bit, and make it seem more ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/14 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Every girl says the same thing during and after sexYour perception of cock size is probably skewed. Most porn cocks are only 7" average. Doesn't sound long, but it's plenty. Sure there are some longer monsters, but what you probably have is a larger than average cock that most girls who even fuck 100 guys don't get to play on. Men's and women's perspective on cock sizes is just warped due to porn and perception. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/14 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Found out girl I was seeing was riding the CC (university bicycle)There is no reason fucking a slut would lower your value. Wtf are your friends saying to you. Sounds like nonsense, and you're buying into it. Girl is irrelevant, why are you letting others drag you down and fuck with your emotional state. The shit test you failed was your friends'. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/14 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Evaluating James Franco's "Creep Game"I agree. His main fault is failing to follow through on "power talk". He completely failed on plausible deniability. He has something to lose, and she has nothing to lose. A few subtle changes and he wouldn't have appeared to be desperate to the masses. Rule #1 of tweeting again, don't send anything you would t want blasted to the world? Multiplied a 1000x for a celeb. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/14 02:24 PM |
| 1 | EmotionsMaybe you're just not good at telling people in a way that they want to listen. Before telling people what to do you really need to open an emotional channel. What kind matters less. Funny, serious, inspirational. You don't even have to talk about what you're going to tell them to do. Can be a total non sequitur. When that emotional channel Is open, you can say things they would otherwise reject. Can you change them? No. Can you guarantee they will not revert? No. The importance of your message … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/14 01:34 PM |
| 2 | EmotionsPer your example, we can direct others thoughts, just not by force (or at least extreme torturous force). The difficult part is changing someone's mind when they KNOW you oppose their viewpoints, world view, etc. when that happens hormones kick in that are designed to protect us against others influence when we view them as "outsiders". | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/14 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Best way to respond when a girl is talking about her plate.Puppet isn't a flattering nickname. Sounds like her beta orbiter and she's inviting you to "other place" discreetly. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/14 08:05 PM |
| 1 | If I get blown off by a girl, but I'm still interested, should I still next her? or use this against her? (She apologized)I really like this : E.g. "Hey, I just got your message. Been busy lately. Great that you would ask me, I´m not interested anymore though. Maybe we can still be friends?" I love how you flipped this. I'm saving this. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/14 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Talking and meeting new people, am i doing it right?People like talking about themselves just like you like talking about yourself. The issue is FRAME. If you MAKE things fun, then things will be fun. Most people have submissive attitudes in situations, expecting others to frame the situation for them, expect others to make things fun for them. This is the way you were before too (and all of us have been at one time or another). What you're seeing is the cogs in the machine now, before you were just oblivious like they are. Ever been with a group… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/14 07:18 PM |
| 1 | T-shirt and jeans aren't going to cut it anymore...Macy's is fine for general stuff and a spread of things you can try on. If you want specific styles you'll need specific stores of course - but it's a good place to get a feel for things, even if you don't buy there - you can shop around after you get a feel for everything that is out there. I got an awesome Hilfiger herringbone vest there that I ALWAYS get complements on while I'm wearing it with almost anything that is coordinated. It's been hard to find this stuff in other places. Consignment… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/14 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Faked confidence, picked up a girl, and got hit by the Red Pill. Analyzed the past and realized how true it all is.How you handled them defines if it's redpill or not. If you answered her honestly then no. If you kept the mystery and passed shit tests, then yes. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/14 08:55 PM |
| 8 | My own sister, is a perfect example of a woman who hit the Wall HARD.Yes, women always compare to their best catch. What bothers me about that isn't the comparison, but how they can't just take the person in front of them at face value often times. It has to be a comparison to so and so's whatever the fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/14 02:05 PM |
| 4 | My fallen brotherHook him up with a date with some young hot chick Pay her if you need to, and have him go to town. He won't look back. He's probably in this situation because he's desparate for attention from being ignored by his blue pill personality his whole life. It's not really his fault, but you are only going to fix this when he sees he can get better and nicer ass somewhere else with the right attitude. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/14 01:25 PM |
| 6 | Walked out on girl but unsure of whether I failed.You blew it somewhere. This is typical LMR, and typical shit testing. You need to turn the chick on so that she wants you more than you want her. Make it into a game. She wants to grind her pussy against you, then stop her from doing that. Rub her pussy with your hands, start escalating the touch. Make her want you more than you want her. Why do you care about getting her bra off? there's so much other shit you can do to a chick. Grab her by the neck and lick her ear while holding her waist and … | /r/askTRP | 30/03/14 01:20 PM |
| 1 | The Type of Women to Avoid: Newbies 101It's called hyperbole. Obviously a joke. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/14 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Vasectomy: Your opinions please!When fertility clinics are involved some laws change around that. Not clear what is possible, but just FYI. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/14 04:07 PM |
| 1 | The Type of Women to Avoid: Newbies 101I think you successfully excluded every woman on the planet in one way or another. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/14 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Non stop shit tests from GF?Ignore it. If you feel the need to respond the only correct one is, "these are discussions adults have in person." And that sends the only message she needs to hear. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/14 03:47 PM |
| 3 | My Psycho RoommateRead it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 01:55 PM |
| 2 | I'd like to share with you my opinion on the term "whore"I agree with your assessment except to add one thing. Take away all modern frames of reference and an ancient woman who exchanges promiscuous sex for provisions may do so for survival. This relationship with the group means that she is low status to not have a mate commit to ensuring his offspring with her survive. So she would make bastards basically. At some point this would have been a necessary instinct. So, I'd say most women have whore mentality built in somewhere and will fuck betas if ne… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Men get shamed constantly for wanting to know trans status of the women they date. Look what happens when the question is turned around...This is about low status groups demanding high status groups to accept them. Men's opinions matter to the average shallow brained human being, especially low quality ones. A man shunning someone is the ultimate offenses because THEY believe they can't do anything to take that power from a man. Women and non-men's opinions don't matter TO THEMSELVES (I am not saying it doesn't matter to me). So, they can say and do whatever because they think they don't matter. The only recourse is to make sure t… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 01:35 PM |
| -11 | Went to my first house/college party after swallowingHomophobic much? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Went to my first house/college party after swallowingI like your breakdown on the hottest chick identifying equal status. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 12:34 PM |
| 1 | In high school, SMV very low, and I don't know what more to doYou need to just hang out with other social groups and then you will get something out of it. I recommend drama club. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/14 11:50 PM |
| 2 | recently single chicksThat's not what he asked. He asked why the fuck you don't have the balls to invite her for a movie at your place to fuck her. She is obviously not into you and you are doing all the wrong things. Read the sidebar and learn something if you want to ask questions around here. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/14 11:48 PM |
| 5 | Girl said blatantly that if I wanted to date her I had to pay for everything. Otherwise we are through.Any women that spends that much on beauty shit ain't beautiful. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/14 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend's FriendYou don't like your gf. Drop it regardless. Stop being unhappy. Then bang the other chick. If she doesn't want to play ball get more plates. This is why you should have multiple chicks so you don't get caught and obsessed. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/14 11:54 AM |
| 3 | Do I listen to my gut or do I listen to my brain?You need to do both really. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/14 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Oscar Wilde's Red Pill.I think British culture cultivates it much more. Just watch their parliament verbal jousting, it's very amusing. | /r/AlreadyRed | 22/03/14 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Log your days.I thought about trying to make a redpill log template not unlike you describe as a guide sheet. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Sigma game theory and brief personal history.I identify heavily with Sigma. Naturally, I have had other difficulties out there than yours. I would say Sigma's are formed from natural Alphas that are for one reason or another uninterested or unable to learn to manipulate larger social groups for status. I find it very difficult to give a shit about trying to be socially impressive. If I like someone, they will get the best of me. If I don't, they will wonder why everyone else likes me. One on one, people love me when I'm on the top of my ga… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Log your days.Thanks, was looking for some good suggestions for this. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Log your days.Good insight on logging exactly what you did in the interaction to improve the logging and see what worked over time. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 02:59 PM |
| 0 | Log your days.That's the most nonsensical thing I've read in a long time. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 02:28 PM |
| 2 | I don't feel anything anymore.You're transitioning from an ego feeding off of basic physical rewards (Do x get y) situations that motivate you to goal oriented objectives. Your emotional drive is confused because what used to make it feel good has changed on a subconscious level, and you need to find goals to get your emotional motivations fired up again. This means finding an influence that satisfies your persona. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 12:13 PM |
| 2 | An easy way past the "I have a boyfriend" lineLove it. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Ordering For Women at Dinner: Power Move or Lame Move?I prefer to go places where we plan on sharing our meals in some fashion. A la carte, or so on. I make it a point to share food, so I tend to get involved on the discussion of what they're going to order in some way, and take the initiative. It's a bit hit and miss depending on the girl and the atmosphere and your frame already with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Got turned down by girl a couple months ago before swallowing TRP, now she's interested, but I don't want to be Mr. AvailableJust drop hints that you've been busy doing shit. You don't have to mention girls, but make a point if flirting up some girls around her and she will get the hint that you are alpha mentality person. Once she gets that, you can cut back and focus on her (jealousy isn't what you want. Dread game Is if she gets out of line. Otherwise be your better self.) | /r/askTRP | 20/03/14 12:28 PM |
| 7 | But the guys I'm interested in like tattoos and piercings on a woman...WTF?Well, I have two things to wrap this up. I hope you enjoyed the sex, because it's what he wanted and probably all you'll get. I don't recommend waiting for him obviously. Improve the qualities that get commitments from men, and that isn't a tattoo or piercing. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/14 01:32 PM |
| 4 | But the guys I'm interested in like tattoos and piercings on a woman...WTF?Ok, I want to address this first. Why did/do you want a relationship with this guy rather than casual sex? Did you want to start a family? Marry him to live a long life together? Have him exclusively yours to show your friends? What is the point of wanting that for you? Why was it so important? Then, identify how for you it would have made a difference if you just got casual nookie and playtime with the dude versus a relationship. They say that tattoos probably makes them a "slut". It lowers the… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/14 12:01 PM |
| 1 | But the guys I'm interested in like tattoos and piercings on a woman...WTF?You want validation and to be told you are valuable for not having tattoos and piercings and other things. Anyone can be attractive without those things. What you really want though is to know that you are higher value than this girl to feel better for not getting some guy you thought was better than you. The secret to that is not going to be physical. Let me tell you what it is. Not being a self conscious insecure and obsessive person. That will make anyone unattractive, and I'm guessing he saw… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/14 11:39 AM |
| 0 | I'm beginning to become jaded withconversationsI've been really into the Ribbonfarm series lately and have been framing a lot in terms of that. So here's how I'd frame this. You're looking to get a value from the conversation that is a perceived but not tangible value. In other words, you want to feel good about the conversation, but not actually physically gain anything out of it. This is a pretty low level type of communication going on here. You realize you aren't gaining anything from it anymore. You USED to get something from feeling va… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/14 02:08 AM |
| 10 | What can you learn from a creep?I think this is the most accurate. I don't think feminism created the word, but the inner hamster of all woman that is the inherent nature of modern feminism needs this logic to not feel bad. Women don't like thinking they are the ones being negative. So they need to blame the other person for their own awkwardness first. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/14 11:47 PM |
| 10 | Work in a completely female-dominated environment. Hell has broken lose, and my job is in jeopardy.This is a game of averaging out your contribution so they don't feel as bad. They want to do the minimum to get by. Their tactics are going to be nonsensical posture play. Recommend reading this : http://www.ribbonfarm.com/the-gervais-principle/ You are dealing with "losers" in that situation. What they want is to gain alternate satisfaction from their value, other than the work and pay. It will make more sense when you read that material. Best luck | /r/askTRP | 12/03/14 07:36 PM |
| 3 | "Needy men on the rise"Nice observation. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/14 09:10 PM |
| 1 | On the tacit understanding that you want to fuck her.Good insight and appreciated. Don't really have much to add to it, is a solid delivery taken in context. | /r/AlreadyRed | 03/03/14 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Cambridge student complaining about sexual assault risk. Halfway through the article she talks being sexually assaulted by a fast food worker. After reporting him police find CCTV footage of them just kissing for about a minute. Then compares herself to rape victims and questions society's motivesI think you meant Jihadi? Hadji is a person going on a Muslim pilgrimage. Awesome quotes, by the way. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/14 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Plate got mad when I wouldn't take her out.It depends on the context and how hard she's trying to make you break your frame. Going from "No, No, No" to suddenly, "Yes" can look like she's got you to change your frame, not relenting to you. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/14 09:52 PM |
| 12 | Plate got mad when I wouldn't take her out.The "see what happens" is obviously a bait. I wouldn't go for it. "here, come have sex!" then watch me flake out on you and "waste an hour of your life for me and your pathetic need for sex". There's few things worse than losing your frame for a woman, and that's losing your frame for sex. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/14 04:25 PM |
| 2 | "Inexperienced" girl who won't do jackI found out why she got freaked out in my comment thread. He tried to mess with her with her roommate in the room sleeping. The roommate "shifted audibly" - so she probably heard them fooling around. Of course the roommate is going to shame her the next day, and she's going to take it out on him. Youth. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/14 04:21 PM |
| 1 | "Inexperienced" girl who won't do jackOk, here's what happened. Her roommate gave her shit the next day and she was completely embarrassed and blamed it on you because of solipsism ("it's never my fault"). This explains the crazy behavior. Also, her roommate probably put the "taking advantage of her" seed in her head. Always isolate. Any chick would react like that girl in that situation with her friends talking in her ear. Best thing to do is to laugh it off and agree and amplify through her craziness. Always complete if you go sex… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/14 04:04 PM |
| 1 | "Inexperienced" girl who won't do jackIt's hard to make a woman change her view of you when she controls the frame. Often it's better to just step away and give her a chance to think you've had time to change. At this point, she's led you around and fucked with your head enough that's oh should consider saying next until you've had a chance to recover your frame and maybe fuck another girl, then come back to her so she is willing to see you differently. Social faux pas? You're cuddling what could you have done? did you stick your di… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/14 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Dinner with friend after long time. Frame advice needed.I don't recommend a direct compliment. There was another thread about this, but it basically sets off a few triggers in her mind about what your standards are. Especially as a model they have a reconfigured view of pretty and perfect, whatever your standards for her ass are will never meet her expectations. So saying you like her ass will actually make her think "he likes my frumpy ass? He must not really have high standards". Even though we both know that her ass is just fine. Compliments after… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/14 02:46 PM |
| 7 | "Inexperienced" girl who won't do jackFirst, don't fucking jerk off in front of her unless she's involved. Pathetic 101. Next, one of my plates didn't want to have sex the first few dates, and I was chill with her, but it was obvious we were going to get there eventually. It was a weird shit test not anti slut defense, she wanted to see if I was going to be pathetic and beg to have sex or annoy her into sex. It was LMR designed as a shit test rolled into one. I just shrugged her off and made it clear that I was going to get there. S… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/14 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Are women actually better communicators?We are talking about the average guy here. I know too many guys that are smart, but horrible at telling people what they want, and convincing people how to get it. They're not afraid or anxious to do it, they are just incapable of seeing from point A to point B through someone else's perspective. The typical woman I meet that can't communicate is generally socially intimidated and is afraid to ask for what she wants, but she would know how to ask for it and probably succeed at getting it, they'r… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/14 02:10 PM |
| 5 | is there anywhere in the world where you can find a fairy tale princess?No, relationships were more Red Pill in the past. What you want is things to be "Easy". It's a challenge. Everything is a challenge. We're just so used to things being easy in our society that the moment something gets hard we can't handle it. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/14 02:49 AM |
| 2 | “…the person who was allowed to ultimately control the father’s reproductive freedom was the mother.”I think it might be slightly ironic that Utah's laws might take this to the Supreme Court to help men's Reproductive Freedom which we all know is distorted. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/14 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Cheating wife revenge.They took an elevator - so would have been a condo apartment. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/14 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Telling a girl she's beautifulI think complimenting their attractiveness is fine after you chat them up and get them comfortable that you are secure in yourself and that you are an attractive guy. More importantly, doing it in a way that comes with an obvious exchange is probably better. In the end, I do think that it is better to not say it at all, or at least in an obvious way. Ie you see a picture of her and you say, "nice picture". Before that just sends red alarms like a girl walking up to you and saying, "geez, you mus… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/14 02:12 PM |
| 15 | Sunday TRP humor - girl requests open relationship while on vacation, boyfriend starts immediately fucking another girl, girlfriend melts down.Your analysis highlights the prime example of a woman needing a committed validation tool (boyfriend). Without that sense of comfort knowing that someone wants her at all times without question or "judgement", she falls apart into insecurity. Now that she feels threatened by that other girl and she is thousands of miles away and can't do anything at all, she feels powerless. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/14 03:29 AM |
| 5 | Sunday TRP humor - girl requests open relationship while on vacation, boyfriend starts immediately fucking another girl, girlfriend melts down.Girls I hook up with regularly go, "Man, it's been soooo long since I had sex!!" Me : "How long?" Girl : "Like, 6 weeks!!" ... I go, ya right. Try going 2 years without sex. Bitches get plowed all the time whenever they want. It's not that hard for them. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/14 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Witness the hamstering of a 23 year old who can't date because men she meets aren't 'Chris Pine' or other Hollywood actors she's attracted to.Video Deleted. She is trying to raise her low Smv by saying that she is too sexy for regular guys, so regular guys hit on her. Girls know this shit instinctually, because they set the rules do the game. However, as we know, that shit doesn't work backwards. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/14 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Understanding the Friend Zone Scam and the Role Marriage Plays in it (Part 1)What we call "Beta" around here is more like "Gamma" behavior. Beta, strictly speaking, is just below Alpha and has a lot of Alpha qualities, and feeds off of Alpha success. Gamma are the socially inept. Anyways, Gamma mating is successful because while the Alpha is running around with all the ladies, he can't watch each lady. Eventually a Gamma can get in there and mate just out of persistence in an animalistic environment. It's less likely in our advanced social atmosphere, but still plausible… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Is betaness obsolete?"Beta" refers to a specific set of behaviors that indicate you are adapting to someone else's "frame" regularly. Alpha refers to setting a "frame". Women like Alpha's because it indicates a lot of things that are indicators for not submitting (and being vulnerable to) other peoples desires. Nowadays, this is less serious - but back in the day, being a bitch would mean you were a slave/servant/low class and potentially expendable and easily dead because someone had a bad day. So, it's not a surpr… | /r/AlreadyRed | 16/02/14 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with Plates when you're sick.TRP doesn't advocate women sweeping, washing dishes and ironing. They advocate men do that for themselves and not rely on women being your caretaker, being your own man, and showing value through your accomplishments. Troll somewhere else. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/14 07:04 PM |
| 9 | Have I been shifted to orbiter status?You find out by having her over for a movie again and doing things right. If she doesn't go for it, then next her and learn from your mistakes and do it better the next time. You're obsessing on her which is the first rule of don't put a girl on a pedestal. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/14 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with Plates when you're sick.Feminine and motherly are two very different things. Being treated by someone like they are your mother is a parental role, not a feminine role. Sending the message that you need someone to take care of you is not manly, masculine, or controlling your frame. Can you do it? yes. But, as I said, under the assumption that she is going to take care of you is not good. You are telling her you are her little boy she has to take care of. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/14 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with Plates when you're sick.Feminine and motherly are two very different things. Being treated by someone like they are your mother is a parental role, not a feminine role. Sending the message that you need someone to take care of you is not manly, masculine, or controlling your frame. Can you do it? yes. But, as I said, under the assumption that she is going to take care of you is not good. You are telling her you are her little boy she has to take care of. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/14 06:50 PM |
| -1 | Dealing with Plates when you're sick.Under the pretext of taking care of you, no. Promoting motherly instincts isn't very sexy. If you can reframe her visit, then maybe. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/14 05:00 AM |
| 1 | 'Oppressed Majority' - A look at how a French actress sees the world, but switches genders to make things more 'powerful'On some level, I wonder if this is an anti-feminist video actually. At the end he says "I'm sick of all this Feminism." - It's almost like saying that if feminism continues as it is, then men will become like this. Not sure though. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/14 05:01 AM |
| 3 | The red pill is really hard to graspFirst, more SEX is not going to make you TRP. You can fuck 500 bitches and still be "beta". Sex is just a nice carrot that TRP puts on the end of the stick because most guys are deprived and can relate with the success of SEX with the success of manliness. Even the most manly guy feels like a bitch if he can't get pussy on demand. The most valuable lesson that encapsulates TRP for a "beta personality" is : If you ask a woman what she wants in a man :: "I want him to be nice and I want him to be … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/14 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Advice for when a girl is legitimately angry and freezing out - maintaining value and frame.NEXT. You're being played like a fool for her validation. Stop doing that shit. She just wants you to tell her raunchy shit cuz she's bored and feels ugly. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/14 07:16 PM |
| 11 | Boss almost fires me after hearing only 1 side of the storyTo emphasize a comment below :: [–]Stayinghereforreal 2 points 10 minutes ago Aggressive counter-response: Hire a lawyer to send her a letter accusing her of committing a tort against you with her lies. Tell the boss you have contacted a lawyer to deal with this outrageous lies. Tell the boss you are being outrageously attacked by someone who is not telling the truth. This. Show you're serious, and that you will sue for this shit. Because you did NOT do anything wrong. Even touching her on the a… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/14 04:09 PM |
| 19 | Boss almost fires me after hearing only 1 side of the storyI agree 100% with this. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/14 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Be a Feminist, and other Red Pill AdviceWas an older post. It said "my ... boyfriend" - context was missing. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/14 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend spends night in her client's hotel room, has audacity to try and flip this back onto me.Apologizing for one and not the other is meaningless. Sorry that I hurt your feelings when I killed your mother, but I'm not sorry I killed your mother. may also be read as :: "Sorry I'm a disassociated sociopath that treats your existence like an inconvenient part of my life." | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/14 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Be a Feminist, and other Red Pill AdviceAlright, I glanced through your post history and I saw something about a boyfriend. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/14 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Be a Feminist, and other Red Pill AdviceAre you gay? Then why are you giving advice on gaming chicks? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/14 10:17 PM |
| 2 | I used advice from here, I made her horny as fuck, but I lost a friend.This is totally a semantic issue in a woman's mind. As you say, there is a presumption of already being attracted to that "man" What she wants in a "MAN". She is attracted to all "MEN". But she doesn't see all males as "MEN" (hence, not attractive). Thus, it's about phrasing the question differently and seeing the result. If we asked, "What do you want in a male friend?" - what would the answer be? New homework assignment. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/14 09:22 PM |
| 1 | I used advice from here, I made her horny as fuck, but I lost a friend.The point with female friends is that when a woman sees you as an equal she doesn't see you as a "man". Whatever that word means in a womans head, they don't equate with a "friend" that shares equal footing with them. You can have a friend and be a man in a woman, but it requires a lot of back and forth on your frame with them - so they respect you but also are comfortable hearing from you as a friend/advice/etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/14 09:19 PM |
| 3 | The one problem with TRP. From an ardent supporter.Better : "I'm not going to waste my energy on your games." | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/14 06:00 AM |
| 36 | Girlfriend spends night in her client's hotel room, has audacity to try and flip this back onto me.Oh, it's even BETTER man. Took me a few times to catch this gem : Obviously my apologies fell upon deaf ears. Please read my entire emails again if you need to. I don't feel guilty because I didn't betray your trust, didn't do anything I would regret other than disappoint you and make you worry. That's why I'm not apologizing for it. Did she or did she not apologize for something that "fell on deaf ears"?? Haha. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/14 08:30 PM |
| 20 | Girlfriend spends night in her client's hotel room, has audacity to try and flip this back onto me.Hamster, hamster, hamster. 1, Most hotels, even nice ones, don't have couches in their rooms. There simply isn't enough space, they're expensive and unused feature, and they promote partying and guests, which generally aren't allowed. Especially if the client has a "single" bed room then he almost definitely doesn't have a couch. SOURCE : Spent a considerable amount of my life dealing with hotel business. Think about it. Next, the whole inability to just apologize is bullshit. She's sorry or she… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/14 08:27 PM |
| 6 | Girlfriend spends night in her client's hotel room, has audacity to try and flip this back onto me.Frankly, most hotels don't even have couches in the rooms. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/14 08:18 PM |
| 7 | "Women are the main proponents of "slut-shaming"; employing it as an aggressive strategy to deter their more attractive female rivals."I like the way you put it. Why would anyone sleep with me if she, being "socially" hotter, is sleeping with everyone = slut shaming. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/14 03:52 PM |
| 1 | How females compete with each other for Alpha attention.It wouldn't be feminism if it wasn't solipsistic and completely ignorant of rational equivalency. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/14 09:50 PM |
| 2 | "I knew on my honeymoon that I had made a mistake!" She was trapped!"I wasn't grieving for the man I had walked out on, I was mourning the loss of my dream. And boy, did it hurt." Her dreams are more important than real people. Simmer on that one. Solipsism 100% | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 08:49 PM |
| 8 | Curious, googled ways a man can protect himself; this was the top result.Set up custodial savings accounts for your children. Yes, brilliant. Abuse the law. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 06:54 PM |
| 20 | How females compete with each other for Alpha attention.Feminist Psychology is even addressed... Feminist psychology, however, argues that competition among females is driven primarily not by biological imperatives but rather by social mechanisms. According to this argument, cutthroat female competition is due mainly to the fact that women, born and raised in male-dominated society, internalize the male perspective (the “male gaze”) and adopt it as their own. The male view of women as primarily sexual objects becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. As wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/14 06:49 PM |
| 1 | I've noticed that women can often be very good at not noticing that you existed.Lol. She became a threat at that point, not just an unattractive slut. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/14 06:28 PM |
| 12 | I've noticed that women can often be very good at not noticing that you existed.I think both sexes can be like this. However, men pay more attention to other men because they're competition. Most men probably don't pay attention to unattractive women, just like most women probably don't pay attention to unattractive men. I can't tell you what the last average looking uninteresting woman I met looked like. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/14 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Get a load of this shit. Guy finds out his wife has cheated with at least 25 male and female Craigslist hookups. r/relationships responds by lighting up the Knight Signal and rushing to the Chivalrymobile.It does seem that is the case. The few times they do it, I just kind of quash whatever they are trying to do by saying my first GF in high school was raped by her older brother. This is definitely true. (Guilt, lies about her virginity, etc, etc - she never wanted to confess it to me.) It tends to shut them up and realize that it can be way worse than whatever they are pretending to do. That's how real victims GENERALLY are. Most girls who use the word "rape" might be referring to being child mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/14 04:11 PM |
| 8 | A feminist tries to reconcile her political views with her sexual desiresFeminist Logic. Oxymoron. No, seriously. 3rd wave Feminism is part of Post-Structuralism, which is Post-modernist. And Post-Modernism LITERALLY throws out logic in its foundations as a valid tool of human perception. By definition. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-structuralism A major theory associated with Structuralism was binary opposition. This theory proposed that there are certain theoretical and conceptual opposites, often arranged in a hierarchy, which human logic has given to text. Su… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/14 06:49 PM |
| 5 | How do I step in and stop my co-workers from wrecking an exchange student co-worker?Tell her that these women want to change her because they feel bad for her, look down on her, and think that she is naive from Chinese culture and think that their way is better than the Chinese way. Tell her that changing can be a good thing, but becoming more like Western women isn't necessarily a good thing. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/14 05:51 PM |
| 9 | Tumblr SJWs on what happens when a man "hits the wall".Yes. Only appropriate. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/14 10:58 PM |
| 55 | /u/YungSnuggie details the NBA Hoe Game (xpost /r/bestof)Who cares. What he said about women is accurate. We aren't in this subred looking for some dudes approval. This is their best life prospect long term; you gotta go with what you got. So if you got a lot of looks, but not a lot of brain, and you're self aware of that, use what you got. Just because you ain't book smart, or you don't know big words, or you don't know Africa is a Continent and not a Country, that don't mean you still can't be a rich bitch talkin shit. Okay so maybe little smarty pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/14 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Is your ultimate goal to divorce yourselves from all human emotion?It's about not showing that emotion unnecessarily - to not show your partner who wants a strong and confident man what they want to see to increase your chances of success. How someone internalizes that is up to them. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/14 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How to handle girls bad mouthing you behind your back?If someone approaches you about it, say "Really? Very interesting!" That's it. Otherwise ignore it. As someone else said, if it affects your ability to make money and a livelihood - that's slander and you can prove that it damaged your ability to get a job because of her lies you can clean house. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/14 08:16 PM |
| 20 | Fake dating profile of hot, shitty girl does well. Surprising no man, but woman is confused.This. I think her real sin is that she presumes that CLEARLY there are no other women on OKCupid that have profiles like that. That no woman is that awful. I've seen worse profiles. Much worse. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/14 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Historic Event for TRP: The Red Pill Exceeds Feminism In Total SubscribersA) You don't. B) RESPONSE :: As a person you have an obligation to yourself to make sure that you do what is in your best interest. If you don't speak up, then you are just as responsible as the initiating party. Yes, that other person is at fault, but you are also at fault for not objecting. A person that presumes that men are violent, threatening creatures by default when they have done nothing to ACTUALLY threaten you is NOT normal. Just because you FEEL threatened doesn't mean you ARE threat… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/14 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Historic Event for TRP: The Red Pill Exceeds Feminism In Total SubscribersNice analysis, worth keeping an eye on that one. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/14 05:12 AM |
| 0 | Historic Event for TRP: The Red Pill Exceeds Feminism In Total SubscribersThat's "legal gender". Biological genetic gender doesn't change. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/14 05:10 AM |
| 1 | How do you kill the morbidly obese mind? (former fatty asking)Self-confidence is an urban myth you tell little boys so they can sleep well at night. Confidence is an action. You don't focus on yourself or assess yourself, you focus on what you want. Then confidence comes because you have a goal and a direction. You might screw up getting to that goal, but that has nothing to do with you as an individual. We all fail. Those that don't fail simply aren't doing things they aren't good at doing. So, don't focus on your internal self, focus on what you want and… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/14 04:54 AM |
| 7 | "What are we?", "So are we boyfriend/girlfriend now?" type questionsYou're giving in to her frame of mind, which is the worst thing you can do, and you're lying. At worst, DO NOT ANSWER or say anything. Just look amused. 1. "We're human beings?", "We're John and Jane.", "We're the coolest people on the planet", "We're sexy bitches", etc. Take this one literally and agree and amplify. 2. "Is it important to you that <<INSERT Her Question>>?" In your case with her question, "Is it important to you that we are boyfriend and girlfriend now?" I love this response and… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/14 10:52 PM |
| 4 | Hypergamy is killing my game.Don't answer any questions about your profession if you think they're trying to validate you on the job. Agree and Amplify if they shit test you. If they ask you what you do, just say something totally ridiculous and out of context of where you are - and make sure they know you're joking. If they say "I'm serious", then just distract, "I'm serious too! What's your bra size by the way?" DO NOT validate on your job. Do not use your job to validate yourself. Do not let them trick you into thinking … | /r/askTRP | 04/01/14 10:32 PM |
| 5 | Nice guys = SlutsTRP completely accepts that this social existence is all contrived. It is all a system. Like any system it can be played accordingly to achieve the results you want. It is all a social fabrication made by people influenced by a very long history of animal social evolution. So, yes. TRP accepts that immediately, implicitly. It tells people that they are NOT a perfect little snowflake. That the woman they love is not some fantastical unicorn. That we are just viewing the world through a small lens… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/14 05:53 PM |
| 6 | Had one night stand with one of my best mates. Can't stop thinking about round 2. How do I get there?You know what works? Just tell her how it is. And be confident. You're overthinking this in your insecurity. If she doesn't want it again, then she doesn't want it again. And you next it. She will smell that insecurity in your overthinking mode instantly, even if she wants it again. It will be your demise. Just stop over-thinking, tell her (in your own words of course), "I want to fuck you again, come over." Next time she mentions "So you can get me drunk to fuck again?", just tell her, "No, I d… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/14 04:34 PM |
| 0 | I resent my gf for letting me fuck her on the third (second?) date.This is a non-issue. What are you even complaining about. YES, if you're so insecure that you're worried another dude that was sexual and confident would've fucked her first? YES, You are RIGHT. She would've fucked another dude. She isn't your unicorn. She's a woman. Don't put her on a pedestal, treat her as a human being and as a friend and whatever she is. But don't pedestal her, and don't think that she is your unique snowflake, or that you are her unique snowflake. You're just insecure. I sm… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/14 04:27 PM |
| 6 | Had one night stand with one of my best mates. Can't stop thinking about round 2. How do I get there?If she flirts, respond jokingly and flirtingly and get back at it. You've been there, she'll do it again. Just play chill, don't get attachment issues and turn her into a FWB easily enough. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/14 04:02 PM |
| 7 | Nice guys = SlutsThis isn't a personal assessment. It's a social assessment. It doesn't matter if I value someone high or low, the fact is that is what society imposes on people. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/14 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Nice guys = SlutsI think what he's missing is that there is a "social" value decided her, not a personal value. I don't value sluts low, but society does because of the social consciousness. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/14 03:43 PM |
| 27 | has anybody seen the frontpage of BestOf? if not, check it. a whole thread dedicated to us by some blue pillers.Food for thought on the Brigading accusations that may come, posted to one comment that mentions brigading :: How is it brigading to have members of the community to come to a place called "ChangeMyView" to show their side of their opinion? It would be like saying that Geologists can't comment on Geology threads because it would be "brigading". This topic is EXPLICITLY about The Red Pill, and TRP people have a right to come over and share their perspectives about The Red Pill. That isn't Brigadi… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/14 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Radical Feminist claims all PIV sex is Rape. Prepare to facepalm. How would you answer her?To give a classic example, many women in prostitution may not identify the act of prostitution as rape, except if the act wasn’t paid for. It doesn’t stop us from saying that all prostitution is rape. So, she's saying that I can call her thoughts a crock of shit. It doesn't matter if she thinks it is not. It doesn't stop me from calling it a crock of shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/14 07:46 PM |
| 7 | How it feels to ruin a slut's Christmas.She doesn't think you feel bad, she wants to hamster into thinking that she can get you to explain how you feel (enter her frame) if she tells you how you feel and makes you want to say you aren't hurt or whatever bullshit. Which is explaining yourself and opening a dialogue that makes her feel like she won and got through to you emotionally. Keep up the good work. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/13 03:50 AM |
| 10 | Wife snitched on me... to my motherGrow a pair of a balls and tell them how they are stupid. You clearly have been brainwashed into this or you would have reacted out of sheer instinct. Your "controlling" mother made you into a little "good boy". I recommend you stop worrying about "ruining" Christmas and get your priorities straight and focus on your individuality and sovereignty. That means confronting people and telling them how it is. Unfortunately without having practiced this most of you're life you will probably make a mes… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/13 04:44 PM |
| 1 | So my girl(25 f) is hanging out with this fake dude (30 m) for some project. This dude has brought her a handwritten note and some fruits. This makes me uncomfortable, do I mention him to my girl, or just ignore it?He's coming on to her and you're being taken for a ride. That "I'm not like that" nonsense is bullshit. AWALT. You should be spinning other plates and women to date/flirt with as well. There is no reason not to do this even while dating a woman. It gives you options, makes you feel more masculine, and lets you remind her that she's not the only one who has 'not so secret' admirers. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/13 05:24 PM |
| 7 | The Brutal Facts (podcast on an interview of a general who survived being a POW in Vietnam)I thought this was really poignant. What the interviewee says to the interviewer and relayed through the podcast is that the optimists never make it and get heartbroken. (NAWALT). Where the general says, "You have to face the brutal facts, no matter what they are". It says basically what every new Red Piller needs to hears. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/13 06:04 PM |
| 13 | Swallowed pill,reinvented myself,getting laid but feeling badIf you're making them sad then NEXT them and stop feeling guilty. You're not responsible to save their lives nor their emotional crisis bullshit. I'm sure they're very real to you, but to us on the internet, all we see is : girl that isn't mature enough to handle her shit. You're not their hero. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/13 01:08 AM |
| 1 | “False Accusations in Spain” -- Men are guilty until proven innocent since 2008.I've heard worse about Spain. If you have a child with a woman (married or not), she gets your house to live in. Not confirmed on my side, but told to me by a Spanish female doctor. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/13 08:04 PM |
| 4 | EX GF is telling people I punched her in the faceNext the plate. I'm sure it sucks to lose that effort - but it's not worth it. The best thing is if someone asks about it, tell her the police arrested her for what she did, and you're not the one in jail and to think about that before they keep talking shit about you. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/13 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Reframing 'GF Cheating' for a man's frame. (consolidating thoughts for new TRPers)I'll try and squeeze that in, cheers. EDIT : "As a man, your commitment to that woman was done under the pretense that you wouldn't have sex with or pursue other women for intimacy and protect her. That is your sacrifice in the unwritten contract. In return, your woman generally satisfies your carnal urges for sex and gives you exclusive rights to her reproductive ability." | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/13 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Girl throws her boyfriend in front of a car to save herself.This, thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/13 01:11 AM |
| 1 | On Approach AnxietyI appreciate your note and reminder that most chicks wouldn't approach a dude. It's a good way to remember your authority. It doesn't apply to everyone, but it's a good emotional catalyst. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/13 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Reframing 'GF Cheating' for a man's frame. (consolidating thoughts for new TRPers)Our emotional commitment comes from other places, not from sex itself. For women, sex creates an emotional bond. There are studies around. I'm not saying men aren't emotional during sex - but sex itself isn't an emotional, neurological investment. We can fuck 10 women and not care more than before we did it. I should've been more clear. Quote from article below : Men, on the other hand, instead of getting a surge of bonding hormone receive a surge of simple pleasure. ‘The problem is that when a … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/13 09:17 PM |
| 17 | Red Pill is hitting real hard right now.This. Long term relationship. Years. Girl ends up in a sketchy situation. I press on her for details. Tells me "no, this guy tried to make a move on me, but I stopped him." Years later after I leave her for other reasons... sitting at a bar... Her :"Ya, when I fucked so and so..." Me: "Wait. What? You fucked him?" Her : "Ya, I thought I told you?" Me : "No, you told me you stopped him. " They'll forget that shit too. I don't doubt it for a moment. Legitimately forgot that they threw their integr… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/13 03:43 AM |
| 14 | Red Pill is hitting real hard right now.She doesn't love you. Even if she does. Even if she thinks she does. Even if she moves moons for you. She will stop loving you the moment you stop "being the man that you are", whatever that means to her. Because, she doesn't love you as an individual, through "better or worse". You're not married, and married women take a vow and still break it. So, this girl? Doesn't love you. Women don't love men the way men love women. That thing you feel for her? Is NOT what she feels for you. My motto : Lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/13 03:37 AM |
| 10 | Red Pill is hitting real hard right now.Always negotiate. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/13 03:34 AM |
| 4 | Red Pill is hitting real hard right now.Doesn't matter if it costs you not a penny more. She is benefiting from it and not contributing to it. That is money you would use for yourself if she was sharing. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/13 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to end an argument like the so called "bigger man" or to let it drag out?TWO THINGS : WHO are you arguing with? Another man? A woman? What do you want to accomplish? Do you want to be right? Do you want to tell them to fuck off? Do you want to save face? Are you in public? In private? It has more to do with how you do it than what you do. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/13 05:41 PM |
| 22 | Woman tells "nice guys" to politely wait until shes done with the cock carousel and hits the wall.That twitter profile picture is everything I avoid in a woman. High angle shot hiding waist section, brown roots on blonde, awful lipstick and eyeliner... glassy eyed.... and the picture is probably 5 years old. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/13 04:56 PM |
| 0 | How do you guys respond to girl game?She is validating you. There are two ways to really handle this, and one way not to handle it. 1 Ignore it. Why? You know it's true, and you don't need to tell her that you agree, or you're thankful or you give a shit about her assessment. It's true no matter what she says. 2 Own and amplify it. "That's right, I am pretty awesome." "It's pretty cool being me.", even the "Most of the time" responses above are amplification, because it says that you aren't only a good guy, you're beyond good. Why … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/13 04:50 PM |
| 4 | [Serious] How does jacking off to porn on a regular basis affect testosterone?There are ways to raise Testosterone. But, masturbation, in itself, in moderation - does not lower Testosterone. The reason you feel lazy and not enthusiastic about pussy is other hormones that get injected when that happens - i.e. Seratonin, Oxytocin, etc. You have an inner drive for intimacy - and when that can be supplemented with a quick hormone dump from jerking off, you don't look for it or are anxious for it outside. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/13 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Speaking slower and HumorMy tip to speak slower is to focus more on the syllables in a word. I grew up speaking a couple languages and had a strong inclination to have super short syllables - people could barely understand me if they weren't used to me talking. It took years for me to figure out (because others failed to explain what the problem was) to sloooooooow doooooooooooooown myyyyyyyy syyyyyyyyllaaaaaaaaableeeees. That's basically how I had to learn to slow my speech, and it's an easy way to slow your speech for… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/13 04:27 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to the mall this weekend. How do I approach girls and successfully get their number?Choose what is comfortable. But, if you're going to cold chat a bunch of chicks, then there's a lot of ways to approach. Finding something common to talk about is the key. In this case, you all know that Christmas shopping is going to happen, so you can open with that. You obviously don't need to open with a "Hi, my name is..." but it does seem really confident - and with a nice smile, you can get her to smile and she can feel comfortable right away. Also, it's a great excuse to start kino by sh… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/13 04:02 AM |
| 3 | I'm going to the mall this weekend. How do I approach girls and successfully get their number?Oh, and always just have fun. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/13 10:49 PM |
| 5 | I'm going to the mall this weekend. How do I approach girls and successfully get their number?"Hi, My name is McD. How's your christmas shopping going this evening?" At your age, with girls, they are totally clueless what to expect from you. You have it easier than older guys frankly. Girls at your age are happy to get attention from a cute guy. They have no expectations, other than maybe that if you act "too adult" or something. Have a list of 3 lines that you alternate, and just have a fallback one you use no matter what happens. Hold frame, make jokes, don't validate yourself or try a… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/13 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Confused and in need of "outside" adviceNo worries. I've been where you are. I even know how it feels like to KNOW you are a 100% confident and self secured individual and that when you act and want to KNOW something as simple as this from a woman, that it makes perfect rational sense in an emotional way to want to confront it. However, what I had to learn the hard way is that it is how you act that people judge you regardless of your thoughts. Women especially will always think they know you better than you know yourself. Especially … | /r/askTRP | 12/12/13 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Got into an argument about 'Frame'...I think his point is... were you going to go to Buffalo Bar either way? Because if you're going there just because she might be there, knowing that it might cause an interaction, one could argue some frame is lost if you are adjusting for that scenario. I would've told her... "I'm going there anyways already. If I see you there, then are you going to buy me a drink?" You're not lying, nor need to explain why you changed your plans (you shouldn't do this anyways). And you are putting her in your … | /r/askTRP | 12/12/13 08:31 PM |
| 9 | Confused and in need of "outside" adviceI agree with brody, but going to start my own line of thought. 1 A friend "does do this", but they get put in their place when they try and reach for sex and the girl denies it - then they curl into a little ball and "play nice". 2 You really shouldn't "shit where you eat" - i.e. don't fuck where you work. So, really, you should drop this anyways. 3 She treated you like this because if it's a work event, then she probably doesn't want to broadcast that you are trying to be together. YOU : But th… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/13 08:24 PM |
| 7 | Yet another hot mamma under attack from the femisphere for looking great after a babyI think you're touching something that is the real issue. Instead of dealing with womens insecurities - women have altered society, laws, and relationships to force the idea that we have to accept them as who they are. This in itself never DEALS with the insecurity. They are still completely insecure. They are just being told that we accept their insecurity. They are being told their validation is easy to take. Because, at the heart, women are insecure. No matter how beautiful or gorgeous, they … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/13 04:27 PM |
| 8 | How to handle beta orbiter moving inYou're double-thinking yourself into this. You should be looking for other experiences. No matter how much frame you control, the bottom line is you're too young to be worrying about one woman. Most women are actually fine with their guy playing around if it keeps them in her life. It depends on the chick, but you'd be surprised how much you'll get. It takes more frame control with younger chicks until they see how it is pretty natural and non-threatening to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/13 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Is a girl shit testing you when she talks about dude she finds"creepy" at work?Agreed. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/13 02:55 PM |
| 16 | I'm so fucking tired of this shit: white-knight poet asking men to speak up on "rape culture".Agreed. Men are less violent, but more effective violencers. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/13 10:26 PM |
| -3 | "Because White Males Are Not a Member of the Protected Class"No. MGTOW is "Men Go their own way". Meaning, away. As in, nothing to do with women. What you're talking about is called "Game". | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/13 10:12 PM |
| 13 | Is a girl shit testing you when she talks about dude she finds"creepy" at work?1, you don't work with her I take it? 2, Agree and amplify - "Dude, that's brilliant. I'm going to wait with that dude and give you gifts together! Except mine will be wrapped in my pants." | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/13 10:10 PM |
| 17 | I'm so fucking tired of this shit: white-knight poet asking men to speak up on "rape culture".I've been punched more times by chicks in my life than a dude. And the few times a dude and I hit each other, we amicably agreed that we would do so. Except that one time... But men cause all violence. Riiiight. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/13 10:07 PM |
| 7 | Advice please: party etiquetteIf in doubt, bring booze. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/13 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Losing my virginity the other night made me realize something...First time sucks for everyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/13 03:28 AM |
| 93 | [NSFW] Female Jealousy run amok: Norwegian soccer player's wife criticized by women for looking too hot after giving birth 4 days priorMommy shame, slut shame, anything shame that shows that someone else can be better/happier/whatevererer than you because you feel bad and inferior about yourself. ^ Things that women do to each other. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/13 03:12 AM |
| 5 | Why is r/theredpill so loathed?I think it's even further than that. It's a co-narcissistic behavior feeding female narcissism. There are some choice parts to pull out of there that define male blue-pill-ism. www.alanrappoport.com/pdf/Co-Narcissism%20Article.pdf | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/13 10:42 PM |
| 6 | Why is r/theredpill so loathed?TRP is a reaction to "Feminism" opening up human relationships in ways that haven't been explored in arguably thousands of years. You can look at a lot of "primitive" people's sexual lives as they were studied and you can see a huge variety in expectations on human relationships and how they can be. The one that was settled on did have a strong masculine tone. Feminism changed that and opened options that weren't available. Men have been left in the lurch since then, since they weren't explicitl… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/13 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Where do you go on dates with girls after you've been together for a while?Then you're boring. Stop being boring and bored and then you won't have to worry about what she's going to do with you, because you'll know what to do. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/13 08:12 PM |
| 2 | TRP thoughts on a new 28(F) contender?IMHO, unless you want babies and to start a family, LTR means nothing. Look at her, she'll do it again. You'll become beta, she'll get bored with you, then she'll fuck another dude. Don't think that just because she becomes 30 that she can't get dudes to fuck her, especially if she is a 9.5 and keeps herself in good shape. Some dude will fuck her. My honest opinion in my life, for me, at this point is simple. I can be in a relationship, no way is it exclusive. No way am I going to 'belong' to an… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/13 08:09 PM |
| 1 | On last nights Solo mission and the drawbacks thereofIt doesn't take a lot to sweeten them up. Pretend you recognize someone on the way to the bathroom. Smiles, a quick joke, and they'll be talking about who "that dude was" before you know it. Then go back to the chick and they'll have validated you to themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/13 07:25 PM |
| 2 | I'm thinking Access is more important than SMV.I make a point of making friends with girls, even if I don't plan on banging them. Fat chick? Fine, friend her. She has cute friends. She'll actually pump you up if you just make sure she knows that you're just not interested in her and don't lead her along. It is really important to have friends that are girls to get more access to other girls - and they will gossip, and if you're a cool dude, it'll get around. So yes, make friends with girls. As you go along the way, if your game is good you'l… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/13 04:12 PM |
| 16 | Sat. a plate I've been spinning gives me shit over choosing the PPV fight over seeing her. She then texts a bunch Sat eve. I ignored all of it. How/when do I respond and reconnect?"Come to my place, wear XYZ, don't plan to leave until ABC hour." | /r/askTRP | 25/11/13 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Ever feel like there's some expectation to prove you're not a rapist?You're a man, hence a 'rapist'. Anything else is just you projecting yourself onto what every guy deals with on some level. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/13 10:40 PM |
| 1 | I have GF of 2.5 years. Hotter ex is throwing herself at me wants me to do everything to her totally unattached and secretively. What would trp do?Depending on your GF just tell her you're going to bang your ex for a while, you don't want to go back to her. You'd be surprised how some chicks are cool with you fucking other chicks as long as it's not deceitful and you're dominant enough that she'd rather let you do that than risk losing you. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/13 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Get my watch backDo whatever you need to get in touch with her. Call the police if she continues to avoid you. It's your property no matter what, and you can get it back. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/13 02:00 AM |
| 1 | FWB [F19] wants to buy me [M19] a £500 watch.IMHO, buy the watch yourself, and then tell her what to spend the money on instead for you. This keeps you in control of your own gift, but lets her spend something on what you want her to spend it on and not usurp your gift for yourself as a token for her to use psychologically to validate something she wants. If she doesn't want to spend the 500 pounds on whatever else you want, then maybe she had a specific reason in mind to get you that watch which is probably better to have avoided. In a wa… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/13 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Some hilarious straw-man arguments about TRPI think it's time to make a blue on pink version for them. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/13 12:54 AM |
| 5 | What women mean when they say they want a nice guy.Very good analogy. Hits on some important reasons why women want "jerks that don't give them attention, etc, etc". It makes them feel like they had to earn that validation, a bigger psychological payout. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/13 12:51 AM |
| 4 | Some hilarious straw-man arguments about TRPThey should be slapped for their total lack of design. Red on Black for legibility? Seriously? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/13 12:41 AM |
| 7 | Bluepillers have a big ego.I must politely disagree, I think your assessment is incorrect. Blue-pillers are Co-Narcissistic. It's not "ego-centric" on them, it's projected onto the women. So, yes, there is a sense of inflated ego - but it is in fact the ego of the women that they are projecting that upon. http://www.alanrappoport.com/pdf/Co-Narcissism%20Article.pdf Children of narcissists tend to feel overly responsible for other people. They tend to assume that others’ needs are similar to those of their parents, and fee… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/13 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Honest Redpill Assesment of Ok CupidI like it as a theory study, but not at all as an actual strategy. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/13 03:20 PM |
| 1 | TIL In Spain they have a phrase for a Beta Bucks that is common usage.We do, it's just not well known. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/13 02:33 PM |
| 6 | Fuck buddy fucked another guyMy first thought is - why'd she come to fuck you afterwards? Did he suck that bad that she didn't feel satisfied and wanted your D? I'd say that's least likely. OR, did she fuck an alpha then come to her beta for comfort? I'd say that the latter seems more likely in this scenario. You were used because her seratonin was high after fucking a dude who didn't give a shit about her and threw her out, and she wanted a warm body to cuddle to - she put out because she knew you'd want some and you'd tak… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/13 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Beginner field report, almost had itRight. You have to offer what you WANT to offer, not what she wants to take from you. And really, the younger they are the less they really know what they want. So they'll do stuff and ask for stuff that they think is what they want, but it's wrong and fucked up. The point is, take that into your field to offer what you want to offer (sex, fun, etc) and control that frame. If they don't want it, they can leave. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/13 07:44 PM |
| -1 | Beginner field report, almost had itYa, those instincts are a bitch. Ironically, a recent study on Testosterone indicates that generosity is strengthened with testosterone. So, you are literally fighting your natural instincts (don't ask me why our hormones are this fucked up) - it's not you, it is literally your body kicking you into "do what the bitch wants" mode. Don't feel bad, just learn to overcome it and keep analyzing your moves. One way you take this and use it to your advantage is to take that "generosity" instinct and r… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/13 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Ice Queens. The ironically hot ones, that is. Any game tips for cracking the ice?It took me a while to realize what it was. I had a GF that pulled it on me many times, and I almost bought into it until one day I realized that everyone thinks she's the bizarre one with shitty social behaviors. Learning to give them their own medicine is well worth it. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/13 01:43 AM |
| 1 | New to red pill. I think husband is a beta.Alpha is a specific thing, not something that is done half way, or some way convenient for you. You want him to not be a loser anymore. There are a lot of ways to not be a loser that dont involve being alpha. You're conflating things. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/13 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Ice Queens. The ironically hot ones, that is. Any game tips for cracking the ice?If they're not attracted to you, then no matter what you do it will fail. Building that attraction with anyone is the first most important step. Whether that means muscles, or charisma or whatever. All strategy is doomed to fail if there is no interest built up. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/13 02:23 AM |
| 12 | Ice Queens. The ironically hot ones, that is. Any game tips for cracking the ice?This. These women have an inflated sense of self and you have to bring them down a notch. There is no "nice" way to do this. The most powerful tool in your arsenal is actually the, "what, don't you know how to act like a decent human being?" look. They'll look at you like you're the most bizarre creature in the sea - but in reality they're the freaks. In the end, I'd say it's not worth it. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/13 10:48 PM |
| 1 | New to red pill. I think husband is a beta.What I'm saying is don't do those things for him. But just the fact that you do them doesn't mean you're submitting to him. My point is he has to pick himself up (read the comment by drrrrr on this above, he says the same thing I'm saying, but I'm giving you actionable advice on it.) Everyone manipulates everyone. You manipulate him, he manipulates you - regardless of dominance and submission. Subordinates in fact are more inclined to be manipulative and be extremely good at it than alpha person… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/13 10:30 PM |
| 1 | New to red pill. I think husband is a beta.I think you missed my point. Anyways, best of luck. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/13 05:14 PM |
| 1 | New to red pill. I think husband is a beta.Well, I don't mean financial support necessarily. I just mean support in decision making and day to day things. For example, you say he asks you for approval on things he does. Perhaps you do the laundry for him. Or perhaps you make him dinner. Or perhaps you give him the remote before he even asks for it. If you were to leave him, basically these are all things he'd have to do on his own suddenly. In a lot of ways, he needs to do these things on his own to be in the mentality to change. Althoug… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/13 04:32 PM |
| 2 | New to red pill. I think husband is a beta.It's a typical dominant-sub behavior and pretty "textbook" so to speak. I'm not surprised that it's that way because it pretty much is that way whether it's a man or woman on either end. There's not a lot of middle ground in the dominant-submissive area. It tends to swing heavily in one parties favor. Truly 100% (50-50) Cooperative situations are pretty rare (this means where both parties take a heavy share of responsibility and interdependence in a dynamic fashion). Even when some people think … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/13 04:21 PM |
| 3 | New to red pill. I think husband is a beta.First off, it's a mentality thing. His mentality has been to submit to you. So, the first thing you need to do is to just remove the support you provide him. You don't need to comment or threaten or inform him on removal of the support, and you don't need to make a big deal out of it. If he gets annoyed with the lack of support, don't respond verbally and just look at him like he knows what he needs to do. You don't need to threaten him with divorce, or use any kinds of coercion. Simply stop doi… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/13 03:46 PM |
| 2 | What to do in the face of a nuclear shit test?I just consider it a separate kino escalation that can happen as fast or as slow as you want. I agree that your other method works. It really depends on the person and what they react to - pulling back is always important and underestimated by guys to get them to react. Cheers for the decent discussion. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/13 05:31 AM |
| 6 | What to do in the face of a nuclear shit test?The getting them naked first applies if they don't get involved in getting you stripped down. This is the equivalent to holding a conversation with the girl where she doesn't say anything, and then acts clueless. The proper response is, "What? You expect me to do all the work in this conversation?". It works from experience, and it compliance tests them. It's the best way to deal with them not being involved in the strip down. Taking your own clothes off is off putting if they're just sitting th… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/13 01:22 AM |
| 2 | When Masculinity Hurts MenThe sad part, is he's "right" in a twisted way. Betas are providers. Alphas are fuckers where the women provide for the man. What women find attractive in Alphas isn't that they're providers really. But the context is wrong. Feminism is fucked in the head and confused. We know this. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/13 01:15 AM |
| 3 | How can i display smv if im supposed to be vague and redirect and amplify?Be vague. It depends on your personality of course. I like flirting and making comments like anyone, but playing the quiet game when shit-tested/asked to qualify. It makes them fill in the blanks. If they like you they will do it for you because they already have an idea of who they THINK you are and why they're attracted to you - and in reality it probably has nothing to do with who you really are. They're just glad to do it. The trick with quiet game is two things. If they can't hold a convers… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/13 12:03 AM |
| 7 | What to do in the face of a nuclear shit test?1 It is her. 2 You also fucked up. 3 Don't feel bad about it, learn. Girl I was making out for 4 hours last night kept playing the resistance card. I didn't give a shit and was glad to make out for 4 hours. I basically got her grinding the shit out of me, topless and I know I could've gotten her to go all the way, but frankly, I didn't want to or care to at the time. I made sure she knew I wasn't desperate or gave a shit. I just looked her straight in the eyes and smiled. I'm playing a longer ga… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/13 11:57 PM |
| 6 | On CompetitionThat's what your back is for. Isolate the one you want and turn your back on the other before she even notices what happened. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/13 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Proof that women will literally "search" for ways to be offendedIt is. But more importantly, they're presuming it is MEN putting those inputs in that cause these issues. They don't know that. In fact, it's probably all the females trying to find information on those topics, not men. My results for "Women need to :" Shut up (Arguably offensive?), Grow Up (same as men), Be Wanted, Feel Safe , Know About Men Not really THAT bad. Ya, just sick in the head what these people come up with. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/13 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Confidence and ArroganceI have sat in a room, completely silent, not saying anything and people have accused me of being "arrogant". Arrogance and confidence are confused, and they shouldn't be. They are VERY VERY different. You will be perceived as arrogant if you don't "mingle", no matter if you feel you aren't good enough to be part of a group. You could be sending compliments all over the place on how awesome people are, and you'll still be seen as arrogant because you'll be seen as a "parent giving compliments". T… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/13 05:44 PM |
| 3 | DAE find it ironic that RPT is a pretty good science-based theory related to psychology, yet there are so many Christians, right wingers, conspiracy theorists, and anti-psychologists in it's base?Well. The presumption is that Christians can't be "scientific". Well, that's obviously not true. Christians run a HUGE range of beliefs. Not everyone is a Bible-Thumping anti-modern bigot just because they're "Christian". Whatever that means. Right wingers can't be scientific? Ooo-K. Conspiracy theorists are very critical thinkers. Whether you agree with them or not, their 'faults' in the conspiracy area are rarely a lack of critical thinking, if not too much imagination and not accepting certai… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/13 05:39 PM |
| 1 | The mindset of feminists/betas when it comes to self-improvement, as presented by Calvin and HobbesI just saw this in another thread/post. Not linking for obvious reasons, but hilarious hamster. "I've been overweight most of my life and I had more-or-less accepted that as who I was. Trying and failing at a diet was far worse than buying XL clothes online. So anyway..." Hamster : Yes, it's far far worse to try and be committed to self-improvement that makes you happier, than be a big chubby and "accept yourself" and how easy it is to burn calories with the "One-Click" Shopping. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/13 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Going Ape: hooking upYou're distorting what is being said here. At no point is Red Pill about being a total dick. The scene with the pick up section is all about controlling frame, and doing it well. It's exactly everything that PUA shows. At no point does the video show the guy swooning over her. IN fact, the strong "Come ons" show a desparation rather than self-controlled frame the other "bonnobo" actors show. I don't agree with your assessment, and think it supports Red Pill. The compliments section shows bringin… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/13 05:09 AM |
| 1 | How come females are reluctant to complement males?The answer is pretty straight-forward. They expect a good looking guy that acts confidently to know this stuff. They want him to act this way without having to tell him. They don't feel the need to validate him. In fact, if he looks for validation then it's seen as low SMV and that he's low self-esteem is showing which isn't sexy. No woman wants to "make" a man into a man. They want a man ready to go and packaged. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/13 04:02 AM |
| 2 | I'm SoftDark Triad is attractive, but there's other things that are happening. 1, by giving too much niceness to a girl, you're making her feel special. Women don't understand how a guy can have that much "Special" giving-ness out, so they think you're treating them special because you don't have anyone special to treat. They're just ignorant, and there's no way to do this in an easy fashion where "nice" and "special" doesn't seem like you're trying too hard/being cool/whatever. It's just their ignoranc… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/13 08:23 PM |
| 1 | I'm honestly curious.I'm glad it hit a spot with some people. I was surprised. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/13 02:22 PM |
| 6 | I'm honestly curious.Wow thanks for the gold. Didn't expect that at all. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/13 04:59 PM |
| 26 | I'm honestly curious.You're in the men's locker room. Men say horrible shit to each other, and laugh about it. Men are crude, insensitive and tough with each other, and laugh about it. We aren't going to throw a hissy fit if our buddy calls us a ball sucking, ass raped, bag of herpes. We have an extreme desire to go through these cathartic measures from the beginning of time. Women saying the same things to each other would find themselves at each other's throats clawing their eyes out. One would say because we trai… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/13 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Standing at the finish line of the friendzoneJust tell her how it is. "I don't help girls cheat. I don't want a relationship with you. I'd fuck you, over and over - you're sexy, but you don't want to ditch your boyfriend, you want to be in a relationship, and I don't want to commit to one person right now." I think cutting her off completely without an explanation is lame and 'beta' and as a man (not a woman) shows weakness that you can't just deal with your problem straightforward. There's a time to be a player and time to be a man. You m… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/13 03:35 PM |
| 1 | How important is Facebook?I only use facebook for family. I would never friend or ask to friend a girl that is interested in me. If a girl I was interested in would ask me to facebook, I would probably say, "Sorry, I only use it for family and long-distance friends." It would probably increase your SMV, thinking about it, because it makes it seem like you're not so quick to let anyone in your life and she has to earn something to get on there. I minimize anything that's public on my Facebook to the nth degree. How import… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/13 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Girl going dancing by herself, friend sees her and tells me. How would you take it?I agree with what you're saying. More importantly, I think she doesn't invite him because she doesn't think highly of him, is constantly shit testing him, and doesn't think he can handle it, or won't be good at it. If it's true, then she's right. But if she's wrong, it's a chance to prove her wrong. Then dump her for being dumb. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/13 03:22 PM |
| 6 | Girl going dancing by herself, friend sees her and tells me. How would you take it?Right. She isn't fucking deceiving you. You're deceiving yourself. She's just letting you take the ride yourself. 2, She probably wants some alone time dancing. She doesn't want you in every part of her life. If you're not a good dancer, and she expects it, you're probably going to get some serious negative attraction points anyways. If you are a damn good dancer, then you should maybe sneak out one time randomly and surprise her. Expecting her to teach you to dance is the exact opposite of why … | /r/askTRP | 17/10/13 03:20 PM |
| 22 | You can now slut-shame without ever calling someone a slut. All you have to do is not become a woman's ideal boyfriend after a one night stand.I think the Hamster is trying to commit Hamster-cide with this self inflicted slut shaming. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/13 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Public Oral Sex At Ohio University Blows Up On Social Media, Rape Alleged only after video releasedagreed | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/13 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Public Oral Sex At Ohio University Blows Up On Social Media, Rape Alleged only after video releasedTo a VICTIM rape is about power. Rape is about them losing her power. To the "rapist", whether a man or a woman, it is about pleasure. It doesn't matter if that pleasure is from power, penis stimulation, orgasm, ejaculation or whatever the hell, it's going to vary from person to person. To the victim, it is about losing power. IN this case, she feels like she has lost the power of the situation when it spread, and is claiming rape, because she feels powerless. However, barring some obvious evide… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/13 06:30 PM |
| 4 | "A Letter To A One-Night Stand: A Take On Modern Dating, Slut-Shaming"Hahaha, same website, different article. Funny how they have to explicitly tell other women to not slut shame... because we know who really is the source of slut shaming. And... they even identify EXACTLY why. "don’t rain on her parade just because you’re a dark, sexless cloud at the moment." Gotcha. http://elitedaily.com/women/girl-code-rules-that-every-twenty-something-woman-lives-by/ Slut-Shaming Is Off Limits Slut-shaming is just a projection of your own jealousy that you aren’t getting laid… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/13 04:00 AM |
| 12 | "A Letter To A One-Night Stand: A Take On Modern Dating, Slut-Shaming"1, Women slut shame other women. I doubt anyone has actually walked up and called her a slut. Frankly, most guys don't give a shit. And the ones that do, probably aren't for 'you sluts'. But, what you really want is that thing that is so deeply set in your female mind... that you can't even realize it. What 'you' REALLY want is that thing that a man won't give you. JUST because they won't give it to you. And you're so fixated on that attraction to that one guy, that you refuse to give attention,… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/13 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Interesting answer from a woman on perceiving confidence in menAgreed, and that sexual aggression is interpreted by a woman to mean "this guy has confidence". Which, really, is a substance-less concept in terms of perception, because there is no one thing that is "confident". What I mean by that is that "confidence" isn't meaningful. It is deduced from a series of actions that mean that you are "sure of yourself." As we know, you can be totally insecure and be full of shit and come off "sure of yourself", and have a complete emotional breakdown the next day… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/13 02:16 AM |
| 10 | Interesting answer from a woman on perceiving confidence in menI agree 100%. If she's not attracted to you, you will come off arrogant and haughty no matter what you do. If they find you attractive then you'll be charming just sitting in the corner drinking your beer and not give a shit. In the end, I think the description is a good look into what a woman sees as confident, I think it's accurate. I think there's a lot of contradiction and hypocrisy as is wont of women to do. "Loud, but not too loud. A leader, but not TOO leading." Blah, blah. They don't rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/13 12:10 AM |
| 0 | Direct from the mind of a female that knows she likes male domination.Well, the oblviousness as to why she is being treated with jealousy indicates she doesn't complete understand her situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/13 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Direct from the mind of a female that knows she likes male domination.There was a post somewhere else put up I don't have time to dig up. Basically, it's from the perspective of a "post-wall" woman who loses her SMV. She suddenly realizes... it really just was her looks. That noone pays attention, does nice things to her, and so on. She realizes that her attitude of, "you're just not being positive enough" towards other woman really was just bullshit, and it was just her looks. A brilliant reflection on the piece you're writing from a woman 20 years older. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/13 05:41 PM |
| 2 | MILF posts pic of herself in bikini with her 3 kids on FB...White Knights arrive to validate her after jealous Hamsters try to shame herThis reminds me of a funny hamstering that happens. I do a lot of cooking, and I mention this at a group (social) that I go to. There is a girl there that is probably a 3-4 on a good day. Slightly overweight, overly short, average face. Whenever I mention how it's easy to cook at home and make good meals and do this and that, her response is always along the lines of, "but it wouldn't be posible for a single mother". #1, She's not a mother. #2, at no point did I indicate I wanted a single mother… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/13 05:37 PM |
| 0 | slept with a taken girl after much insisting on her part, now suffering the consequences.Advice for what? To deal with her or the friends? Your mutual friends probably aren't friends if they're not talking to you. I would go straight to the boyfriend as a 'bro'. Tell him that she came onto you all night. He'll start to doubt her. Especially if you have any ammo that proves she's been doing this for a while, and why she would break up with him - personal info that only she would have told you. Then he'll probably take your side if you're convincing, kick her to the curb, and then you… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/13 05:12 PM |
| 0 | slept with a taken girl after much insisting on her part, now suffering the consequences.http://www.detectiveservices.com/2012/02/27/state-by-state-recording-laws/ Can't guarantee these, but a quick run down. One party states means you're fine to do it on your own. Two party states means you basically would have to ask her to record her, or prove that there was no expectation of privacy. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/13 05:05 PM |
| 3 | What's a shit test? Additionally, whats a compliance test?A shit test is ignored. There are a few ways to ignore a shit test : A) Ignore it literally. Don't respond. B) Agree and Amplify - Meaning in my case, "I ditched them to hit on you girls" or something equally amplified. C) Change the topic, respond with snarkiness or anything that... DO NOT DO THESE : Do not try and prove your value (No, I have lots of friends! Pfft, i don't need friends I have a Porsche.) Do not try and explain, even if it's the truth. (I came here for a job and just got off my… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/13 04:20 PM |
| -1 | Highschool slut gets pumped and dumped (literally), claims rape and gets ran out of town [x-post r/morbidreality]I don't defend anyones actions in this situation. However it's not surprising after the last circus show where some teenagers lives were ruined for doing the same thing that these towns have absolutely no fucking interest in dragging their name through the dirt over what a bunch of teenagers have been doing to each other for hundreds of years, with no real way of discouraging or enforcing the law in a realistic fashion against teenagers without basically ruining lives who are too young to really… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Is There Any Way to Talk to Girls in a Civilized Way in the US Today?A) Did she go with you? B) I know you said it's professional and you feel uncomfortable crossing some lines there. The main thing is to remind them they're acting like a sub-human piece of trash in the most elegant way possible. I've taken to doing this after watching this video that elegantly describes the scenario. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI At one point he describes how to treat a woman (or anyone for that matter) that is unable to hold a conversation with you. Just look at th… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 02:56 PM |
| 1 | In my bed, but nothing happened!. Did I just swallow a bottle of blue pill.Should you have escalated? I don't know who you're trying to convince of what honestly. Just tease her about sneaking into your bed and have her do it again and repeat. Always being a horn dog doesn't make you better. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 02:23 PM |
| 2 | A college student's lament. (Update.)1. Girls are crap at addressing pure physical attractiveness. On the other hand, you can stick 100 men in a room and they can all agree who the hottest chick is within a certain margin. 2. Stick 100 girls within a room and they'll be all over the place with what guys are "attractive". And notice, women have different words. They're not actually "progressive" indicators. They mean very different things. "Hot" isn't a more advanced version of "Cute." and different than "Sexy". There is no TRUE sin… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/13 01:31 PM |
| 3 | What's a shit test? Additionally, whats a compliance test?A girl did a compliance type of shit test subconsciously the other day. Was 4 of us out at the mall. 2 guys and 2 girls. One girl I'm interested in, the other girl is married, just a friend and we both know it. The dude seems to be a good guy but a bit clueless with the cute girl, and seems interested and acting a bit beta (hanging around with her a lot when we're out, not playing the field, waiting for her. Meanwhile, cute girl commented when I was flirting with other girls, getting numbers qui… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/13 07:54 PM |
| 6 | Missed an opportunity , how do I get a 2nd chance to not blow it again?You seemed needy. You came off negative. There is nothing to "catch up on". You should offer something to do. "There's this band playing, there's this bar I want to try, there's this awesome blah". No girl wants to "catch up". You're not 20 year old buddies that grew up in elementary school. She wants to have fun. Provide it or someone else will give you a better idea. You just have to throw it out there. If she doesn't respond fast enough, just say, "Sorry, found someone else to go with." Over. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/13 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Picked up a girl in about an hour and fucked her. First lay since my girl of four years left me. I should feel amazing...but I feel sort of shitty. Thoughts?I would say it's probably the challenge level involved. It just was. Maybe too easy for you and you were used to working it, even in a relationship. I don't think it's "love" as much as having a passion to please that person. To care and be invested in the act itself. I'm still working through this, but that's where my thinking lands on a subjective level. Objective arguments presented are still valid, just there's a difference between a first person experience and objectively taking it apart. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/13 05:00 PM |
| 14 | So my GF[22F] is arguing with me about when a girl should tell her partner she was raped..That's bullshit. As someone said, anyone who pushes you away when they should need you the most is not trustable and has issues in the head concerning relationships. So if a child gets raped he should wait a few weeks and months to tell his parents? You know, he has a lot of trauma to deal with. I mean, it's not like they can help or anything. Nonsense. Children actually WAIT to tell their guardians because of fear and manipulation. If an adult woman does the same thing, then she's just acting l… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/13 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Dealing with a disrespectful attendantAmused Master. Treat everyone like a little kid. And you're an amused man who is entertaining them. "Noone else broke the scale." You : "Aww, sweety, you know it's really cute when you get angry." Doesn't say goodbye... You : "Sweetheart, I think you forgot something." "What?" You : "I think a big girl like you knows it's rude not to say goodbye. Now, give me a big goodbye!" You'd be surprised how naturally it flows when you realize that they're acting like children, they deserve to be treated l… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/13 02:27 AM |
| 3 | StumpedObviously nuts. Not functioning properly. Having banged her would've been your main goal. Main things to have considered : Not setting off internal slut hamster. She obviously saw herself slutting it up and wanted to get out. You had to put the slut thoughts away. Your first text was perfect and she responded positively to it that way. You got too comfortable though with th second. When you asked her about getting together, she probably realized you just wanted to bang. Slut alarms went off and … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/13 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Game Conversational Flow ChartDespite the comments, there would be a "flow" chart. it would be vague, but it would probably look like something like this one I found just by searching (not one I attest to or previously used): http://cdn.puaforums.com/images/attraction-guide-flow-chart.jpg Not a recommendation, but something to get you thinking and being somewhat helpful to your question. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/13 02:32 PM |
| 15 | How do I respond to "My pants feel tight, I must be getting fat"?Don't. Not at work. Sexual Harassment alarms like woah. I don't care if she's flirty with you. She can pull a string and get your ass fired if you piss her off. No matter how inappropriate she was being first. She wants you to be an orbiter and tell her nice things. If it wasn't a co-worker, then the proper response could be something like : "I'd fuck you either way." or, one of my favorites (vary as needed), "They won't feel tight if they're on the floor." or any reference to her clothes on the… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/13 02:06 PM |
| 2 | "I don't usually go on dates with guys like you"Depends on the 'black' guys. To me, In this case, the "don't usually date guys like you" is saying that she's exploring and wants to have new experiences, and wants to get that from you. However, IMHO, it's a subtle shit test. She wants to see if she can make you uncomfortable. She wants to see if the white guy can handle being compared to a 'whatever' guy that she usually thinks is 'better' for her. My recommendations. Make sure you don't try and act anything other than yourself. And if she has… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/13 02:01 PM |
| 4 | Got tickets to a high profile college game and invited a lady to go with me: Need some RP ideas on how I should prepare and game to be the real winner of the night.Not really a big football fan, so I can't comment on game logistics. But, I can comment on the paying idea. Two options : A) Make her pay B) Use it as an excuse to flirt and make your intentions clear. The important part about B is to not make it seem like you EXPECT anything for buying the ticket, but something along the lines of, "Buy my drinks all night! But, you wouldn't take advantage of a drunk dude, would you?" Make her pay is pretty straightforward. It just asserts that she isn't getting… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/13 01:43 PM |
| 8 | Super beta friend has a super crush on a super attractive girl. She's taken a notice to me. Should I take action? (high school)Just tell him if he doesn't go for it, you are. No reason you have to be a punk about it. Just tell him that it's time he picks up the ball or you're gonna take it home to play with it all night. If he tries, he'll fail. Then he'll just relent that it's better that his friend gets her than some other douche. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/13 02:42 AM |
| 1 | TRP-based changes causing hostility toward old friendsTo focus on the main question : You're trying to come out with your thoughts because you want to "solidify" them in yourself. Action is thought. And you want to make those thoughts unleashed. That's good, otherwise it just creates psychological frustration. What I think you need to do is make some new friends, but not abandon your old ones. Use what you know about girl game to your collective friends network. Don't have one-itis of your friends. If you don't like what they're doing, do your own … | /r/askTRP | 05/10/13 02:18 PM |
| 4 | My first quasi-date. Didn't understand any of her behavior.I'm having a hard time getting over your "first" date being, in what appears to be, relatively into your 20's. Virginity, fine - no problem. But your first date? Frankly, just go on dates to go on dates. In fact, go with whomever will go on a date that is remotely interesting. Hell remotely UNINTERESTING. You might be surprised by people. Go into them saying, you don't WANT to lose your virginity. That's the best thing at your stage. Don't worry or stress or put any girl on a pedestal, no matter… | /r/askTRP | 04/10/13 04:03 PM |
| 3 | I got a window into the Beta I used to be on WeekendGood story. I've been seeing a lot of antagonizing comments lately in threads and it's really a lot of guys that need to stop pretending they know everything about redpill like they're all "Awesome" while attacking guys who are just sharing their stories. Good report, thanks for it - keep it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/13 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Could use advice to help deal with this transitionAsk them to kick you in the balls - see how fast they'll gladly oblige, and learn that they don't love you, they're not on a pedestal, and they'll gladly make you suffer. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/13 02:05 AM |
| 18 | How do I make dominance less boring? Dominance feels like being a babysitter.Dominance doesn't mean you have to be a micro-manager. You set a frame to work in and they do it. Set rules, expectations, they accomplish them. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/13 01:59 AM |
| 0 | How to bail on an expensive date?I'm compiling a list of personal rules for these things. Here's my two favorites at the moment. If they're interested, they'll make time. If they like you, they'll make it work. If she doesn't fall into those two categories, then she's just taking you for a ride. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/13 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Hard Lesson Learned TonightYou'll find plenty of women agree with basic principles. What you're issue is that you want to lead the horse to water and see if it drinks, you don't want to force them to drink. You don't want to prove it, you just need to lead them down the rabbit hole. This has NOTHING to do with red pill theory. This has to do with generally dealing with people who don't agree with you on something. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/13 04:45 PM |
| 3 | This is a good one: Self described female "writer" (gossip blogger) blogs about freaking the fuck out via text message over a 'insecure man' who had the audacity to politely decline another dateSome dude made a hilarious and very red pill-ish video about this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=j8HiaY1Y3hM | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/13 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Western Women Goes To Live in Japan, Complains She Can’t Get A Relationship But Attacks “Nerdy Men” Who Are Getting Laid - Someone’s Bitter!I think the obvious answer is western women are too independent and trouble makers in their society to take seriously for dating. Surprise. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/13 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys still get crushes?I think crushes are healthy. A crush shouldn't go further really. It's fine to be infatuated with a girl with out a good reason. It reminds you a lot of who you are. But, don't let a crush turn into a falling into love thing. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/13 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do you talk?I don't think we need to "foster love" for women. I think that is a fuzzy area that is confusing for men. We should foster understanding of women, but not all of that is positive. I do agree that less hateful commentary needs to be spouted out. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/13 01:55 PM |
| 5 | Am I hopelessly blue-pilled?They're out there, but A) they're rare, B) the more "nice/sweet" you want in return, the more you have to assert your dominance. Eventually it will fade, it's just biological really. They're designed to move on. You can't even really blame them for it. They just get bored. Let them never figure you out, and they'll always be nice and sweet, and bitching about how inaccessible and unemotional you are. But they'll be there. What you want is something we've lost in modern society, and something tha… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/13 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Platonic Friend is upsetIgnore it. If she can't get over it, after apologizing or explaining to her, then she just needs to drop it. If she can't drop it, that's her problem. Any attempt to go out of your way to "fix this" other than a simple gift of friendship is out of line for her expectations. Send her a funny card or something. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/13 03:58 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle "What are you looking for?" / "What do you want?"A) Be honest with yourself. What do you want? B) Don't tell her what you want. C) Deflect/Amplify/Whatever. It's better she doesn't know what you want, then you're more likely to get whatever you want. She's confused and wants a solid footing to work on. It's best to keep her confused because then she's more likely to fill in the blanks that you want what she wants. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/13 01:51 AM |
| 13 | Western idiot is blinded by her hypergamy/western ideals and pays the price.It's just propaganda bullshit. She's traumatized, that's all that matters, and she thinks she's important because of it. Everything else is irrelevant in context, because it's the perspective of someone who is going to paint the worst of everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/13 10:01 PM |
| 1 | I unintentionally make guys cry..Agree and Amplify is my motto. "Yes, I make girls cry too. My dick is too big." | /r/askTRP | 23/09/13 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Frame and anniversaryYou should take control of the night and find somethings that break the expectations. Don't go to a nice dinner, don't try and spend a lot of money. Find some awesome activities, direct it towards things that aren't about making her special, but about what you can do together. Kayaking, Sky-diving, Hiking to an awesome spot, etc, etc. Make it something that breaks what expectations she has and is a frame that you can control. Something that reminds her why she thinks you're awesome in the first … | /r/askTRP | 23/09/13 02:37 PM |
| 2 | when do you find women "creepy"My friend and I were at a club a few years ago listening to a friend of mine play music. We were just chilling and this chubby tall cougar came over and started grabbing one of us to dance and saying really weird stuff about being very forward. It was really funny, but also creepy. Especially when she tried to shove my thigh between her thigh hamcocks and I couldn't go any further (and didn't want to go...) That was creepy. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/13 02:26 PM |
| 3 | I've noticed over the years that married women tend to gather together and trash their husbands to each other. Why? What is the payoff for them?Women work differently than men in a few critical ways that are hard to grasp as a dude. Primarily, in this case... 1 Women are Socially Competitive, Status Cooperative 2 Men are Socially Cooperative, Status Competitive In other words, women want to fight for social status amongst each other, while in terms of "who is the woman who can command the others", they are cooperative. They don't see any woman as more qualified to lead than others (instinctively, or only very selectively). Men, on the o… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/13 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Guy looking for love on Craigslist. First assumed he'd just be another beta for surfing there, but the more you read the more you're pleasantly surprised. (post from TBP; you know it's gold if they're complaining bout it)He's doing too much filtering too soon. He's basically being lazy. He wants the girls to filter themselves. An FAQ is great and works well (from experience). Yes, he's frustrated, and I don't know the LA CL scene, but either he is getting such a ridiculous amount of CL mail that he has to pre-filter the shit out of it, or he's going to unattract his primary attraction. Any girl that is "whatever the fuck he wants" probably is going to stop pretty early on because she knows she has value as well.… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/13 02:02 PM |
| 2 | I hereby dump a list of all of my novice questions and doubts [25/M]This is about setting a frame. As a male you can shift the frame of a situation. You actually don't have to respond to THEM. You just need to shift the frame to what you're happy with. For example, if they're doing it in a funny manner, you can make it a serious frame situation. Alternately, if they're being very serious, you can make the frame funny without actually engaging with them directly on their telling. Just change the frame to suit you and elevate yourself. The mentality should be, "I'… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/13 01:44 PM |
| 3 | What's the best way to communicate my Red Pill truth to this girl?Well, #1. Do you still want to spin her? Is there a likelihood you will be in her city or she in yours in the not so distant future that it's worth keeping her on the line? If not, proceed to, "Look, we had a good time, and I would talk to you more if you were in my city, but we'll probably never see each other again, so maybe you should find a dude that can bang you proper." 2, If yes, you want to spin her more then you should just give her some of what she wants sporadically. Not predictably. … | /r/askTRP | 23/09/13 01:16 PM |
| -3 | Humor : A Male CreedIt's called Humor for a reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/13 12:45 PM |
| -1 | Rather than commandments can we have rules please?This makes me think of a Mercenary Creed I saw. I'm going to make adjustments as necessary. http://www.barthworks.com/military/mercenaries&contractors.htm Bold will indicate my appropriate changes. I am a Dominant Male : I look out for myself, the operators to my left and right, and no one else. I will always take advantage of the fact that I can finally tell women to pound sand, and will do so at every opportunity. I am feminisms's scapegoat, the "patriarch of misogynism" warrior, and I love it… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/13 02:08 AM |
| 3 | So I think I figured out my problem - my wife wants a wife.You need to spend time with her and show her how to enjoy these moments with her children. I don't really see how you can pretend to be anything but a passive-aggressive person bitching to a group of dudes who are going to tell you to suck it up and fix the problem. Talk to her and work through it. If she doesn't, then call foul on her being a terrible mother to her children. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/13 08:35 PM |
| 1 | You said only your mother would care about you unconditionally....Remember the phrase : Everyone is an Alpha in their own domain. In your moms domain, you're the beta, by default. She's not trying to make you into a beta, she's acting the alpha of the relationship because that's how she knows who she is. You need to assert dominance over your mother just like with anyone else. She won't be happy, but when she realizes, just like any woman, her boy is now a man - she'll take the beta position and become naggy rather than dominant. It's in the Alphas best intere… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/13 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Well....my friend is officially fuckedHe could also use it as a way to convince her to abort. "Look, I'm just going to take your child away from you. Don't have it." | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/13 03:48 PM |
| 1 | The pill is on my tongue and I'm ready to swallow but I'm really sad about it.Find an Eastern European women to marry. American women are crazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/13 05:07 AM |
| 4 | Well....my friend is officially fuckedWell, with a history like hers he could probably fight for custody over the child, at worst, then raise the child himself and avoid giving her the money. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/13 04:48 AM |
| 10 | What feminism really is, according to someone from work.Ok nice detail. Agree and amplify. Response is this then, IMHO : Yes, men and women shouldn't get shamed for who they are. Which is why don't let men wear miniskirts to work either. Welcome to equality land. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/13 03:39 PM |
| 1 | I'm sick of the mushy crap. Red Pill advice for making friends?You can say you're sigma, but are you really? You just seem to want to narcissistically elevate yourself to this. I consider myself a sigma, not because Im an outcast by other people, but because I find it hard to relate to other people socially. I can be social, people invite me and enjoy my company - I just eventually feel drained at social gatherings and get a sensation of "this doesn't feel like me". Resorting to calling yourself sigma seems to be a defense mechanism to a greater value issue… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/13 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Woman Distributes Pornographic Photos of Herself Then Cries "Cyber Rape"So she resorts to Legal Rape. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/13 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Woman Distributes Pornographic Photos of Herself Then Cries "Cyber Rape"No, you can't do that. Because if you do that then Feminists can't call men scumbags. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/13 02:51 PM |
| 4 | I'm autistic. Should I even try to learn half of this?I like the extension of that analogy. Reminds me of an italian joke my father used to say about a husband who used to play "the Viola", the neighbor. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/13 02:32 PM |
| 1 | What Happened When I Tried to End My Affair with a Rich, Older Man: Part 1It's not just about hypergamy. The ability to show there is a culture of it is useful. The difference between saying, "ya, woman are going to do this!" to, "Ya, you see, there is literature, economy and culture that feeds this viewpoint" show that it is out there in a more tangible way than just trying to say it is like a conspiracy theorist. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/13 02:27 PM |
| 2 | What Happened When I Tried to End My Affair with a Rich, Older Man: Part 1So, apparently this is some kind of Sugar Daddy content site. This content is labeled as "Real Life Stories". Who can say if they are, I doubt it. These stories from "Cassandra" seem to have a series of stories interspersed. Not that I recommend reading some trash literature. http://www.earnthenecklace.com/category/stories/ The story linked, my favorite phrase is... “She filed for divorce,” said Derrick. I was completely and utterly thrown off. This changed everything… Yes. Your heart was only w… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/13 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever actually been in love? Is it possible for a Red Pill man to fall in love?Men are more capable of authentic sacrificial love than women. Women only have that love towards their children (in best case scenarios. I'm sure you've heard some mom horror stories). To men, that kind of love isn't actually exclusively towards women. You can have that towards your country, your friends, your family, etc. The combination of "love hormones" and mens instinctual genuine love is just a potent concoction that really convinces us that this woman is that "thing" for us. It's a beauti… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/13 01:15 AM |
| 3 | TRP and me? Can a base beta guy get help?A) Stop taking a piss at yourself. B) Find an activity that demands your manliness from you. i.e. Martial Art, Sailing, Paintball, anything that requires you to be in control of the situation to be successful. C) No guy gets along with other guys "like that". Like that being the way you get along with these girls. There are a lot of "guys" out there that make a good show of "ya, this is what I am, whatever fuck you". But they're just as lost often enough. You need to find social males that are g… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/13 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Where have all the beta providers gone?I don't think hunting down from 30 to 20 is that atypical socially. It's the context that's really important, WHY are we doing it this way now? Yes, the marriage deal is a bum deal today. It's sacrifice instead of compromise. Even if you want to have a kid, you're better off just suckering up to child support if you need, rather than marriage AND child support. The issue is that the younger guys aren't being taught strategies to deal with the deception and to assess things correctly (blue pill) … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/13 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend of a bluepiller "found a job" in Seattle -- he even encouraged her to "follow her dreams"! He sells his car, quits his job and follows her a few month later. The inevitable happens.It's good to see a woman's perspective. I don't agree that is what happened in this case with this guy. But, that is the gut reaction of a woman and it's good for men to see how that fits together. The guy was dumb, that's not a question. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/13 06:59 PM |
| 14 | Girlfriend of a bluepiller "found a job" in Seattle -- he even encouraged her to "follow her dreams"! He sells his car, quits his job and follows her a few month later. The inevitable happens.Ya, right. Hahaha. I love how soulless women can be. "It hurts too much!" "I'm stranded here with nothing bitch, you can't imagine how much that hurts because you're a woman and nothing is more important than yourself. I'm sure you'll be a terrible mother." Proper response. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/13 06:51 PM |
| 7 | Where have all the beta providers gone?I think it's a very cultural thing. 10 years ago, 30 year olds were the 20 year olds of the 90s. There is a big cultural gap from kids who are raised in the 90s with technology, etc. I'm 30 and my generation of females are really fucked up from a lot of the 90s and 2000s social propaganda, such as Sex in the City, etc, etc. "Where are the good men", as you say, is an absurd proposition because the good men are taken, and the men from the early puerarchy of the 2000s, all the men they ignored and… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/13 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Do you consider men that give free emotional support to female friends weak, regardless of how long they have been friends.Friendship is fine... but even in friendship a woman will use someone. Is SHE his friend? That's the main idea. And I don't think I need to get into defining friendship - but I'm sure we all know a friend when we see one, regardless. Female friends can be a good break for some guys from male friends because they fill a different emotional niche. But, that means it's a two way street. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/13 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Why you all need feminism (in pics)Describes the concept perfectly then, because it presumes removing all privileges from those that ARE privileged by leadership. If leadership isn't a privilege you deserve to get some perks at, then these people have OD'd on the blue pill indeed. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/13 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Never ever cry! Don't show your insecurities! Do not do it!!Frankly, I'll cry if I fucking want to cry. And if someone thinks less of me, I'll make sure the door slams their on the ass on the way out. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/13 04:54 AM |
| 6 | Never ever cry! Don't show your insecurities! Do not do it!!Let me fix that for her.... I can't take care of ... myself. Cheers, makes more sense now. Carry on. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/13 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Hit in the face by entitled princess - How to react?Had a not too dissimilar situation with a long term FWB in the street. I've been meaning to write up about this to get some feedback, so lets see what you think. This was pretty random, something got under her skin during a discussion that was absolutely non-confrontational (quasi-religious discussion that had just started, not even a heated debate.) I'm comfortably in her physical space touching her when she punches me about as hard as she can. (Not slaps, straight up punches me) She works out,… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/13 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Looking for Good Sigma Online Reading/AdviceLet me know if you find any more good material. I've been trying to find some more material on Sigma. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/13 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Stealing the girl from a betaPassive-aggressive, is intimidated by you, and thinks that your mutual friend will do her dirty work for her, like the gamma/beta she expects him to be (not saying he is, just saying that she's obviously used to it). | /r/askTRP | 31/08/13 01:34 AM |
| 4 | Am I wrong for leading a girl on or am I playing my cards just right?You don't let her spend the night? Morning sex is epic shit. Just saying. Other than that, the comment about meeting her parents means she thinks you're probably in a committed relationship already if she doesn't know explicitly already. Does she? I don't have a good recommendation in your situation, I handle my situations much differently. If you're feeling guilty then you like her enough to ask her straight to her face what she's expecting. You don't need to be feeling negative emotions over i… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/13 01:25 AM |
| 5 | Should I lose my virginity to a slut?You're 17. You're looking for guidance from men. Here's the thing. We aren't your giggle lol-cat buddies, we aren't your brother. We aren't going to sugar coat things or make it sound like there's some ideal thing, or some way we're going to manipulate you into making a decision that you don't want to make. You gotta figure this shit out on your own. My advice, do what you want. My first time was memorable but not amazing, but otherwise, just get it over with and out of the way. Chances are if y… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/13 01:17 AM |
| 6 | Birthday gifts for GFThat gift is fucking awesome if you made it. Don't give her some trashy dress. If you don't give it to her, send it to me. ;p | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Am I fucked? (Stay at home dad)You're a considerably older man. I'm guessing it's a hormone imbalance. You need to do some testosterone maintenance. http://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/01/18/how-to-increase-testosterone-naturally/ Lifting weights alone isn't enough. You need to get some ball juice going. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 11:16 PM |
| 5 | Why you all need feminism (in pics)in which a single individual might be oppressed in some relationships and privileged in others.[1] It is an intersectional extension of the idea of patriarchy[1] beyond gender. Kyriarchy encompasses sexism, racism, economic injustice, and other forms of dominating hierarchy in which the subordination of one person or group to another is internalized and institutionalized Oh no, it can't be 100% equalz!!! THE EQUALZ MUST HAPPEN!!! These people are sick, seriously. You can't have everything and th… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/13 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Stealing the girl from a betaDoing it in public was your mistake. Should've asked her to go somewhere else for some private time. In the end you're in someones private home, and in some ways you are playing by their perceived (no matter how fucked up they are) rules. I like how the friend of a friend yelled at your friend like a whiny girl. I recommend you make sure your friend is on your side, it's his house and not some passive-aggressive people who can't say anything to you in person. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 03:43 PM |
| 13 | Why you all need feminism (in pics)Funny. I hate it when these people use patriarchy though. Like it's some grand conspiracy. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/13 02:01 PM |
| 4 | In your experience if a girl is really good in bed is she more likely to have a slutty past?Well, experienced can mean not being a slut. It's actually a LOT harder to become good at sex with lots of short term partners. But, one (or more) long term partner means you can really learn what the other enjoys and explore sexuality. When I was younger I had a lot more long term relationships, and was able to learn a lot more about good sex because of that situation, rather than because I was trying to get one night stands. Where each person is completely different and you can't really experi… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 01:53 PM |
| 1 | "I can't make it at 8pm tonight..." and other wannabe flakes. How do you handle them? (full text inside)Nice. I always have my house as ready as possible, even if there is no chance at all from my perspective. I'm not a neat freak or anything, but even if I'm seeing a potential that day, it helps me be cool in my head that I have it good to go. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Asked /r/relationship_advice/ , My (29M) FWB (20F) ends many of our dates asking me to delete her..From the bathroom that is 20 feet away from you? Not all shit tests are conscious. Many are her instincts kicking in because she is looking for a specific kind of guy that her instincts are telling her she wants (or she was raised to want). I've seen it in action. You need to frame it for her so she can relax the negative hamsters a little bit. Hamstering a bit is fine, overload gets you in this situation. This is presuming you still want to go at it with her. If you don't, then just move on. ED… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Xpost- /askseddit Complicated SituationHere's a shocker. "I want to fuck you, I know you do, I saw your pussy wet. Let's do this." | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 06:21 AM |
| 1 | How to address misleading girls?Ignore it. If you think you're worth it, then she think you're worth it. If the girl was loyal to her boyfriend, she wouldn't have been flirting with you all night. She's just using you for attention. Time for her to pony up. If you have been building a physical repertoire with her, then just blow past it. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 05:15 AM |
| 0 | Post-sex beta-ness1, If you have to ask... sorry. 2, If I do ask, I usually ask in a positive tone. "You came hard, didn't you?" This usually sets them off giggling thinking about it. It's less of a validation and more of a statement of prowess. I don't recommend doing this unless she was obviously loving it, you might come off clueless. 3, What's oxytocin induced beta-ness? hugging and cuddling isn't beta. You don't have to be a cold. Just make sure you make it clear you are hugging and cuddling because YOU want… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 04:51 AM |
| 1 | "I can't make it at 8pm tonight..." and other wannabe flakes. How do you handle them? (full text inside)I know this is late... What happened/what did you do? What was wrong with meeting at 10pm? Appropriate response could've been "No Miss. I'll have to come down and take you in at 8pm. I hope you like handcuffs." Letting it bother you in the first place is probably the main issue. You were looking forward to it too much, it put you off your balance when it didn't happen. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Hottie from out of town has a conference to go to and wants to spend the night at my place. How to ensure I nail this one?1) Dynamics change in your house than outside. Your house IS you. Your house needs to be dominant in its own way, and represents how you take care of yourself also (including what you eat, read Ramen comment below). 2) The guest ploy seems like it's a good way to get an in with a girl, but in my experience it's a tough play. Unless you know she's already interested, which it seems like she may not be, then what you're doing is limiting the playing field. Instead of having obstacles and maneuvers… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 04:35 AM |
| 1 | I have been having a resurgence of anger and bitterness lately. Any advice?Regretting what exactly? Spilled milk? It's done. The road is behind you. Many other men's lives were wasted while you were on your path. You going to regret all the shit they went through too? I don't hear you crying over my tough years. I'm not about to for yours. Not out of lack of empathy. If you're a new man, then treat the old man like any other man you don't give a rats ass about. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Unable to maintain frame?Salesman, especially good ones, are going to do the equivalent of "shit test" you, except with different goals. Instead of trying to tear you down to see how "alpha" you are, they're going to try and sweeten you up and work you around. Treat it like a shit test. Ultimately, your frame is done by not caring what frame they're working from. You're working from instinct, and that's your issue. You need to slow down. Take an uncomfortably long time to answer. It's fine. What feels like 30 seconds to… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Should I own up to my betaness after getting dropped?You can probably pull a joke out of it, but if she's confused then she'll probably just be more confused by what you're doing, because she really doesn't understand why she lost her attraction to you. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Finding value?I can relate with this first hand. If there was a secret magic bullet, I'd tell you. If I were to say anything, it's because you don't have a challenge. You feel like you have everything figured out, and you're in a pretty stress free situation. That sounds great, but what happens when you're on top of your little hill? Nowhere else to go but down, and momentum is going to drag your ass down as much as it will drag you up. You need a challenge - you just think you can't have one. Life challenges… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you find cooking inherently beta?I had a friend who was very "alpha" mentality. I'd describe myself more as sigma. We would hang out a lot a few years ago. And I would occasionally invite him over for dinner so we could talk on the porch rather than out and about. Now I love to cook, and I love to cook for others. I do it because I learned to really appreciate it (and women love it when you can whip something delicious out. Remember, most women can't cook for shit nowadays.) After a few dinners, he mentioned to me, that he thou… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Why is it apparently so easy to strip men of their masculine characteristics?Women have a stronger instinctual foundation than men. Men are much more prone to accommodating social demands and being creative (and stupid for success. You were given a template for success and are following it. Women's instincts override their "template" when it comes to doing the deed and attraction, despite what they believe. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Asked /r/relationship_advice/ , My (29M) FWB (20F) ends many of our dates asking me to delete her..Ok, well - I've experienced something similar. In my situation though, I would call to hang out, totally positive and energetic - I get there and all of a sudden the enthusiasm isn't there. Somethings not right, it actually turns into a situation where I get shit tested to hell and back (subconsciously it seems) then I smack it down hardcore and then she's all over me and we bang like crazy. It's a shit test, treat it like a shit test. I know it seems like an emotional outburst and your instinct… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Feminist Lesbian explores male behavior = is shocked to find men aren't barbaric assholes /facepalmBelieve me, I'm not saying I think it's right that it is the perception. Even from a male perspective, men gotta prove their men. You can give respect out, but at the end of the day I expect men to prove they're not trash either. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/13 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Sunday In The ParkI think what this has to do with is how women perceive male behavior, regardless of what men intend to do. Morton's failure to stand up to the situation shows how Morton doesn't love his family as much - supposedly. Because he didn't fight as hard for it. That's the way she may see it, according to the blogger. Is that true? I don't think that's where it's happening in this story. I think the other thing to pick up on is how she "shit tests" him against her own control. It comes out without even… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/13 08:07 PM |
| 3 | "Dear Carolyn" - Woman wants to divorce man because he does 40% of the house chores (actually more). Carolyn tells her to STFU.Possibly, but even if so, that means there's a crazy woman doing this out there to Mr. Passive-Aggressive. Dear Va. again: You officially can’t be real. Dear Carolyn: I’m not sure why you think that. It’s hard to think my view is really so off when I get validation from just about everyone I talk with and even my husband would agree our marriage is “unbalanced.” He just doesn’t agree there needs to be a remedy. — Va. again | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/13 07:54 PM |
| 1 | So, my flat mate informed last night I need to get "educated" and shared this with me today...On average, I am not interrupted by women as often as women are interrupted by men. ... Lol. Ya, ok. I don't know how many times I have to tell a woman to let me finish my damn sentence. Only to have to repeat myself afterwards. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/13 07:45 PM |
| 20 | More U.S. Men Are Living Alone: The share of one-person households in the U.S. maintained by men ages 15 to 64 rose to 34% in 2012“Men more often than women live alone following divorce,” the Census report notes. Read : Women move in and start banging other man following divorce (probably men they were banging from before the divorce.) add: while divorced man pays for her to fuck other man. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/13 07:29 PM |
| 31 | "Dear Carolyn" - Woman wants to divorce man because he does 40% of the house chores (actually more). Carolyn tells her to STFU.This made me laugh. "Carolyn" puts her in her place thankfully. Dear Carolyn: I probably should have included this: I don’t want to say I did him a favor by marrying him, but that’s not far from the truth. I’m much better-looking than he is, much smarter and have a much better personality. We have an unbalanced marriage, and I expect him to compensate for that. So even if he is doing slightly more work, I don’t think that comes close to what he really owes this marriage. — Va. again Dear VA. ...… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/13 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Feminist Lesbian explores male behavior = is shocked to find men aren't barbaric assholes /facepalmI agree. But you don't need 10 men to have 10 babies simultaneously. One man can do it. It's about perceived social value. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/13 05:23 PM |
| 9 | Feminist Lesbian explores male behavior = is shocked to find men aren't barbaric assholes /facepalmRight. At the end of the day, a woman can be "successful" in some fashion by having the right man choose her to be his woman. Even if she doesn't get a job, she can feel satisfied in her ability to attract that man and hold his attention. This is passive. Is every woman going to fit that dynamic, no, but a significant amount can get by on this. On the contrary, men have an affirmative expectation to prove their value to other men and to other women. In social terms, a man doesn't have inherent v… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/13 07:40 PM |
| 52 | Feminist Lesbian explores male behavior = is shocked to find men aren't barbaric assholes /facepalmVincent said the dates were rarely fun and that the pressure of "Ned" having to prove himself was grueling. She was surprised that many women had no interest in a soft, vulnerable man. Surprise, surprise. "My prejudice was that the ideal man is a woman in a man's body. And I learned, no, that's really not. There are a lot of women out there who really want a manly man, and they want his stoicism," she said. Yes, you want a man. Not a bitch. "Men are suffering. They have different problems than w… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/13 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Finally some advice for women on how not to get divorcedThe guy who wrote the original letter must have had his balls smashed in the divorce process. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/13 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Testosterone is the Red Pill, How Steroids changed me from a Beta into an AlphaSounds like an advert for popping pills. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/13 05:40 AM |
| -7 | How Betas are made: A conversation between a father and sonI don't really see how this is beta-forming in any way. This quote below is actually heavily red pill. Don't put women on a pedestal. Don't treat them differently because they are "weaker" or not. Don't try and protect them. Be in control of yourself. That is red pill. Unfortunately, much of how the sexes interact with each is rooted in fear. Fear of rejection, fear of abuse, fear of being out of control. In some ways, the church has added to this. We fear each other because we have been taught … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/13 04:27 AM |
| 6 | Feminist apologia! Feminist apologia everywhere! A engineered thread about fathers and their daughters full of betas.This isn't even feminist viewpoints - what it is is solipsism at its finest. "Well, clearly because I feel this is right or wrong, then it is and everyone should feel this way and agree with me too!" I took my 4 year old daughter to see "Wreck-it-Ralph" and she loved it for this reason. There are no cut-and dry stereotypes, in this film. In fact - The largest amount of testosterone comes from a female military commander and a shy-yet-capable man is the one who finds love. There is your concernin… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/13 02:24 PM |
| 8 | The resemblance is striking: TRP and the job industryThe laws of competition are very basic and natural. It's not really complicated, we've just been culturally shocked into not realizing what's really happening when we're being weak/orbiters/whatevers with [insert appropriate : women/job/men/money/etc] | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/13 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Help me understand The Sixteen Commandments of PoonThanks for the amused mastery link. I went two rabbit holes deep and came out the other side on a woman's blog about dating. I got this ironically beautiful piece out of it : How do I know this? Because I watched this dynamic with my own parents. My father is a highly charismatic and witty man. He is a great storyteller. The first full sentence I ever uttered, as I fished an olive out of his martini, was to tell my mother to go wash his shirts and leave us alone. My entire life I have watched pe… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/13 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Patrice O'neal: Leading professor at TRP UniversityThis is an excellent one. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JFVK3wwDo7w | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/13 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Apparently it doesn't have to be a STEM field for men to out perform.You're leaving out how many men dropped out (if any?) | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/13 12:59 AM |
| 1 | [Warning: Slate link] A Dear Prudence blue pill exampleYes. More importantly, you're lying to your niece. You agreed to not have contact with him 20 years ago. This was probably an easy decision (I don't have to pay bills, and I pass on genetic awesomeness that is mine) - but now you better sit down with your niece and explain things. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/13 12:56 AM |
| 1 | A Quote by Sri Chinmoy that rings very much with Red Pill ideasImprove yourselves and you can improve the world. This needs to be taken to heart, and definitely to mind by a lot of folks with TRP attitudes. It's a dangerous path to insist that taking power away from others is the best approach to solving an issue. Empower yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/13 11:17 PM |
| 3 | My first real personal experience of Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks"Make it up to me later," or "Just buy me a drink next time." Is what I tell chicks when I give them a gift or something and they're all like, "Aww, you didn't have to do that!" Don't really have expectations of anything sexual, but at least you're laying it out there that there is an expectation of reciprocation. Saying, "don't worry about it," is definitely where you lead yourself to disappointment. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/13 11:07 PM |
| 1 | What can we shift humanity's paradigm to?Take what we know about current social habits based on recent social developments, and we have to say where are we going from here and how can we direct it? Critical Theory. The current path points in a direction where marriage will be rare if unheard of because men will refuse to and will discourage other men from entering into a social contract with women. Women will want to reproduce (and men too), and so they will need a new social contract to handle reproduction without marriage (as it exis… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/13 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers who consider themselves MRA- please discussI agree. On a base natural level, our potential is restricted by what we can physically do (including mentally apply physically). We can all steal, kill, create, fuck, etc if born with the capability to do so. Our potential is in theory unlimited based on the civilization's foundation from those that came before us. It's considered likely that the human of 4,000 years ago is about as smart as the human of today. What has changed is our foundation of technology that allows us to have a higher pot… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 11:45 PM |
| 4 | Xpost Blue Pill: Redpill Hurts Muh feels!Hah. I think the best part is that they have to attack their own gender to justify the functionality. Obviously, women are being taken advantage of and they are vulnerable to "fall for these guys". Basic Feminism 101 : Attack your own gender when they don't comply to shame them to fall in line. Obviously men are the enemy when we don't agree. It can't be that we just have other needs and desires than they do. A really basic formula I've been looking at to turn it on its head is as follows : A) Y… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Feminine Imperative example: The Reddit link is removed and the video is removed from youtube for being "shocking and disgusting content." I'm sure that the assailant being female has nothing to do with it. : MensRightsYou can find a link on liveleak.com if you want to see it. Not linking for obvious reasons. Identifying problems isn't whining. Take notes. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Can The Red Pill Subreddit Survive?I didn't say that we should make anyone feel "good" about it. But encouraging statements which are (a) patently false and (b) send the wrong message does three things. 1) Attract people that you don't WANT to have around. Dilution of viewpoint through membership noise and static 2) You scare off potentially positive members who would be good and productive, but they are offended/don't want to be associated with a mis-represented group. 3) Scare off potential supporters that may not be directly i… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers who consider themselves MRA- please discussIf they don't exist then they can't be given or taken. Present a rational thought. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 10:40 PM |
| 5 | Vasectomy: $400. Speechless look on her face: priceless.He didn't publicly shame her. It was in her apartment. He gave her paperwork and showed her she was lying. Bringing in some random "suicide" scenario for no reason at all is a non-sequitor and bizarre. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Vasectomy: $400. Speechless look on her face: priceless.Great job. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Suing for Mumu-MoneyHilarious. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Can The Red Pill Subreddit Survive?My concern is that the more that TRP gets labeled traditionalist, the more it can get mixed with anti-women's rights; the more friction it's going to gain, even amongst other men. In order to be successful you need to show a message that people can relate to and support you on, even if they don't become 'hardcore' TRP-ers, at least they're not shit talking you. When someone asks, "What's a TRP-er?" it shouldn't be, "A pro-rape anti-women's rights group." Which has been attempted to slander this … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Can The Red Pill Subreddit Survive?I think TRP is far beyond traditionalist values. TRP is progressive. It's progressive in that it subverts the status quo and moves through to another position, rather than asking to go backwards because of fear that the past was the better way. TRP is completely a forward moving vision for how men can get things under control for men. It should not be viewed as traditionalist, because there's plenty of traditionalist view points that have failed. It's better to go forward than go backwards. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Can The Red Pill Subreddit Survive?I'm new here, but I had similar TRP thoughts and beliefs for the most part before coming here. There are a few fringe topics which I don't believe represent TRP that are being taken on head strong in a method that threaten the presentation of TRP. In the end, "public relations" doesn't mean you have to compromise on your position, but it does mean you have to make sure that people don't think you're a pro-rape anti-womens rights movement. This has obviously come up enough times that there is a p… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 08:33 PM |
| 4 | Bird S**t facial for 180 dollars?!I agree. We need more businesses like this that take money from underpaid single mothers who need to maintain their youth... sarcasm | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Woke up with an epiphany...I see where you're trying to go with this, but you need to step back a bit. 1, Flagrant generalization. It's ok to generalize somethings. "Women have boobs, guys have dicks". Reality is, some guys and women don't. Whether for medical reasons, etc. But, seriously, not all pretty successful people are nice or self-less. Not even a statistically significant majority. 2, The Logical Fallacies are strong with this one. You're associating things that are unrelated. What does pretty have to do with sel… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 02:44 PM |
| 2 | The Archetypal Modern WomanObviously a sarcastic article attacking the ideas. It's not double think, it's just trying to bait and switch suckers into realizing how ridiculous the rationalization hamsters are. First you get them to agree with the article, and then as you go along you drop things that make even the most blue-pill sucker realize how destructive the rationality is. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 02:28 PM |
| 24 | Suing for Mumu-MoneyYa, the legal advice that the law takes him to be the parent if it's not challenged early on is absurd (I don't doubt that it's true.) Seriously, legally enforced cuckolding. Brilliant. More ammo for the anti-marriage argument. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Media? What is worth watching for doses of TRP ideology?Well, he only trained to ever be a swimmer. So, basically, he was useless as not a swimmer. Was he smart enough? Sure. Was he brilliant enough if he wanted to be? Sure. But, his potential (such a great word, thanks for using it), didn't accommodate doing anything with it. The whole theme of the movie is it doesn't matter what your individual bits are - your spirit determines how far you go. Spirit = dreams, motivation, inspiration, instincts, passions. So, even if Jerome had the pride and emotio… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Media? What is worth watching for doses of TRP ideology?I recommend seeing GATTACA if you haven't. In the movie, he, Jude Law - the guy in the wheelchair, sells his augmented "genetic" identity to a "natural" born (Ethan Hawke). This is a bit of a spoiler if you haven't seen the movie, but he also equates that the "natural" born character has taken his genetic identity and done things he would never have dreamed or been inspired to do. In other words, he was completely useless and to fulfill his narcissistic desire to see his genetic code "go somewhe… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Redpillers who consider themselves MRA- please discussRight. The fundamental problem is the disconnection we have from masculinity. I've been researching a lot of cooking, and something interesting appears as you start to see how easy it is to cook and make a lot of food we take for granted as mass produced now a days. Things that would have been household made 50 years ago. The stark realization is we have a generation gap - that the baby boomer generation was so infatuated and sucked into modernization that they didn't learn from their parents th… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 04:01 AM |
| 5 | Red Pill Media? What is worth watching for doses of TRP ideology?GATTACA is one of my favorite movies for sure. I watched it with a friend, and he saw another viewpoint on the characters. Instead of relating with the main character, he related with the supporting male (Jude Law) - and saw how that character who was for all reasons supposed to be flawless became a total bitch and gave up. How not to do shit, if you fail, even if you're in a wheelchair. My buddy related with how he had let his shit go even though he had no excuse to do so, and focused on gettin… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers who consider themselves MRA- please discussNow, law has created a lot of problems, moral hazards as you say, with affirmative action. These are problems. I am talking about a very basic set of rights here. Taking a woman's right to vote away is like going to a fight, and telling the other guy he has to blind fold himself and then parading around when you win, "Look how awesome I am, I beat the shit out of a dude who was blindfolded!!" If men want to succeed at the current social struggle, then we have to man up and make our argument stro… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Who here is generally happy with their relationships (present and past) with women?I agree that I've read some stupid stuff. But, you can read some stupid stuff on feminist subreddits. In fact, on both sides those viewpoints can become dangerous. Humans can be a pain in the ass, what else is there to say. If you give a man a fish, he eats for a day. You teach him how to fish and he'll empty out the pond and wonder why he's starving the next day. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 03:28 AM |
| 0 | Redpillers who consider themselves MRA- please discussI agree it's the idea of equality - that's misinterpreted - that's the issue. Equality, as understood, by those who wrote the constitution, for example, and other philosophers is not that equality is affirmatively enforced. All men are created equal. They are not equal without regard. You are given the same rights, you don't have a right to force others to affirmatively force others to treat you equally. This is a fine line in definition, but coercion which is rampant at the moment is the proble… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers who consider themselves MRA- please discussAgreed. I make some points in a comment above about this as well, let me know what you think. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers who consider themselves MRA- please discussI agree things are crumbling, but why does that have to be destructive? The foundations of our society are built on many poor and archaic ideas that are destroying our future and happiness. This is a perfect opportunity to revisualize the future rather than be trapped to the past. Maybe the family of the future is going to be single-mothers in a community environment, rather than the satellite and isolated nuclear family structure which has clearly suffered. There's plenty of social structures i… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers who consider themselves MRA- please discussI agree. Taking away women's rights isn't an end game solution. There are plenty of women out there who don't vote for feminist issues. Why isolate them when you can make them help you? Women aren't the enemy. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers who consider themselves MRA- please discussThe solution is how do you demonstrate this show (a show of intimidation in a sense, but not necessarily negative intimidation) in a modern, contemporary and internet based solution? I agree, but there are ways to be heard, i.e. get 10,000 people and elect someone into office with an MRA agenda. I think the (blue pill) Beta attitude as you described with MRA are the biggest obstacle. Any ideas on the below? The solution is how do you demonstrate this show (a show of intimidation in a sense, but … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Who here is generally happy with their relationships (present and past) with women?The broader, less extreme, viewpoint is that women are now using a different relationship dynamic, and as men we're playing the old relationship game, and are still being taught how to play that "old" game and need to play a new game. It isn't to remove women's rights or suffrage. It wasn't long ago that women were much more concerned about how to attract a male and start a family before they were 30, and men were much less concerned about how to attract a female. In many ways, feminism has subv… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Who here is generally happy with their relationships (present and past) with women?I'm not trying to be offensive or categorize you - I simply give an option. And, I'm a critic of the idea applied to humans myself, believe me. I'm not quite Alpha or Beta. But, there is a truth in the paradigm. I don't think it's a coincidence that aboriginal humans have used animal totems to represent themselves, or individuals. I don't think this is anything more than a more modern way to represent something like animal totems in a way that just makes sense, that represents it, and has a very… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 01:44 AM |
| 4 | "Single moms (and other strong women) need alpha males"Right. Women today are scared to give up control, and they perceive a cooperative relationship with a Beta to be productive ~ but equal. Meanwhile, an Alpha male can dominate. As highlighted in the article, women don't have a problem being dominated ~ they just need to feel that the man is considerably valuable enough that letting him dominate her will add value to her self-image. When it comes to long term relationships, Betas are more preferable because they are more likely to give her what sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Who here is generally happy with their relationships (present and past) with women?I'd say that TRP is about teaching men how to show and control Alpha behavior for those that are naturally Alpha but have either poor instincts for it or were never taught it, or even had it beaten out of them by social training. Modern society wants Betas because they are more cost effective up front to convince to do what you want, they are more inclined to acquiesce by nature, but they are also more prone to be rebellious and difficult to put in leadership positions. Compound that with femini… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Who here is generally happy with their relationships (present and past) with women?So, it's just one massive shit test? Initiation ritual to be part of redpill should be to survive 5 shit tests on the blue pill subred and get ranked on quality of replies. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Who here is generally happy with their relationships (present and past) with women?Let's adjust : They want "a guy that everyone else thinks is really nice" so that they feel validated by their selection in a social structure in a mate by their peers. Women's definition of "nice" isn't men's definition of "nice". Ironically, our definition of nice is based on how you expect to treat another dude "nicely". Beta and Alpha cooperative behavior show a lot of respect and deferring of authority. Do that with a woman, and she doesn't think you're being nice, she thinks you're being c… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Be a sociopath—or just act like oneThere's multiple ways to get your emotions under control in that way. You could look at a Buddhist and say they almost intentionally develop something resembling sociopathy as described above - except they don't use it for self-gain and desire. Although they talk about "compassion", what they're really saying is, separate yourself from everything - so you can be compassionate indiscriminately and without attachment should your object of compassion fall victim to "life" (read : death). It's almos… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 12:52 AM |
| 9 | Redpillers who consider themselves MRA- please discussI'm new to hearing about the MRA movement, but the beauty of it is if one man complains, noone listens. If many men complain, in an organized and coordinated fashion, people listen. Normally this is handled in a physical show of presence. The solution is how do you demonstrate this show (a show of intimidation in a sense, but not necessarily negative intimidation) in a modern, contemporary and internet based solution? You need to show you're serious without crossing the bounds of violence or leg… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 12:35 AM |
| 11 | Back from OKC Hiatus. Women's Profiles Have Become Even More Banal (x post from r/okcupid)I agree. More importantly, they don't want anything interesting. It's a practice in self-wallowing. They hate that they're on an online site to find guys/others, because they think that guys are pathetic to have to use an online site. So, they're the pot calling the kettle black. 99% of them don't belong on an internet dating site. With guys being extra-classy on that site, you might as well just forget about it. Only guy I know that claims he has any success is a total creep. (I'm not even tryi… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/13 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Regarding the college degree post, don't fall for it. Take the red pill, you're not going to get a good career making a lot of money: How Gen Y is Completely, Hopelessly and Totally Screwed.Economic value is determined by what you can produce. This is a slightly older viewpoint, but the contemporary one isn't getting us anywhere, so you just have to admit it's faulty on some level. What you realize when you begin to produce, and with mass production, is it's really not that expensive to fabricate stuff to give to other people, and there is a big inflation point at the moment that's mostly derived from peoples cost of living. The cost of making and production really hasn't gone up t… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Some words of wisdom from Oscar WildeI feel this is a derail, but I agree that he took a lot of influences. He put it into a consumable format that identifies "fantasy story" much as Brothers Grim compiled hundreds of stories into one book to create what would inevitably be inspiration for many folk stories, now that they are compiled. To rail back on, in this case, I'd say what makes Oscar Wilde seem cliche is because he took what can be arguably said to be a wide pool of natural emotions we feel as men, perhaps also taken from ot… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Ashton Kutcher: When your a fetish object no one can hear you screamAgreed. Generosity is a strongly Alpha behavior. It's the same reason that not giving all your attention to one girl is Alpha. It might seem counter-intuitive - but distributing your attention is equivalent to distributing material. As people we don't perceive generosity as something towards us, we perceive generosity as something that happens to other people. When someone gives us something, we are submitting to a hand out, which is implicitly a submissive behavior (I need help, I need this, I … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 06:13 PM |
| 12 | The Archetypal Modern WomanAmazing. This is a great find. I'm not sure if I"m talking about the woman or the article. It's like a subconscious script that is being followed. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy on TV dating showWell, it's the "authentic" abundance mindset from the 'real world' overlapping the virtually manifested one in the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 05:52 PM |
| 1 | British mens' magazine "Nuts" refuses to capitulate to neofeminist censorship campaign - Will risk losing readers before being placed in a "modesty bag"Nipples are evil. Do you know what they did to Jews in the Holocaust? Atrocious. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Some words of wisdom from Oscar WildeThey're common truths and cliches in 2013 because he made them so. You're looking at the origin point, and not looking at it in perspective. Another example would be like reading "Lord of the Rings" and saying, "it's such a cliche fantasy story!" Yes, because it is the origin of fantasy stories. It is what everyone else has copied to arrive at their elevated position. He (and the general movement) is the prototype that others have emulated and elevated. It also, didn't account for feminism. What… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Some words of wisdom from Oscar WildeBit of a Wall of Text here. Hope you enjoy reading it! 1, I want to say I love Oscar Wilde. For many things, but I thank you for bringing this great subject to light, because I haven't gone back and read this material. I'd like to elucidate on some thoughts you highlighted. The aim of life is self development. To realize one's nature perfectly - that is what each of us is here for. People are afraid of themselves, nowadays. They have forgotten the highest of all duties, the duty that one owes to… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 04:33 PM |
| 2 | If you still don't grasp the concept of shit tests, read on.I basically did this with an early gf. "You can do what you want, just don't expect me to be happy about it." She gladly heard the first half of the statement, and obliviously neglected the second half. When it came down to the talk, she glibly quoted me, "You said I could do what I wanted", I replied, "did you seriously expect no consequences for what you just did?" | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 06:46 AM |
| 1 | [Hamster Science] Feminist study claims that the belief that men should be dominant in sexual/social relationships actually "hurts men" because they will become "less likely to feel confident in sexual situations" due to the fact that they didn't choose to take female condoms when offeredLogical fallacies all over this. They equate sexual dominance with the usage of female condoms. Maybe women don't use female condoms because they're uncomfortable, or awkward, or better suited for longer term relationships over condoms. It's just backwards. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 06:36 AM |
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