Talking about exes during a date? WTF?

aguy01 · 2014-05-02T03:56:37+00:00

"Hold up. We're not gonna talk about exes", then change the subject.

Modified_Hackware · 2014-05-02T04:53:44+00:00

I'd rather not discuss your previous failed relationships.

aaron_the_just · 2014-05-02T05:11:24+00:00

Agree and amplify.

Usually it's a good way to get the girl to talk about sex, especially her sexual activities with her exes in detail. Now you know exactly how much of a slut she is and how much you should expect her to do for you without resistance.

RojoEscarlata · 2014-05-02T05:27:44+00:00

This.

http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/241hlb/what_to_do_when_they_are_talking_about_their/ch2pskz

rporion · 2014-05-02T05:45:33+00:00

The best answer to this is by Kezia Noble, yes, a female PUA trainer...

"I understand that this is important to you, you should probably talk to your friends about this...."

There is so much in that sentence, the hamsterwheel will burn once she is done...

cray-cray-cray · 2014-05-02T15:31:04+00:00

What the hell is going on?

Preselection. She, on some level, thinks talking about her exes will convince you that she's high value since these other people wanted her. Or, she's high value since she dumped those other guys.

She misunderstands, because preselection doesn't work in both directions and you most likely don't feel like hearing it.

redbluepilling · 2014-05-02T04:18:43+00:00

nodding and seethe

If you find yourself doing this ever with a girl, you're doing something wrong.

Pushnikov · 2014-05-02T17:07:44+00:00

It's a lot of complicated shit in their head.

If you're ready to talk sexually to her, this is a good time to make sexual talk with her. Distract her and ask her about her sexual adventures. "Where's the hottest place you've fucked", etc. then she will become curious about your history. Play whatever game you prefer then but you've drawn her into your world with a sexual frame, and now you can escalate faster physically and mentally.

Wolfwoodd · 2014-05-02T15:29:58+00:00

I'm going against the grain here. When she starts talking about exe's, it's a great opportunity to create an "us vs. them" dynamic and to show your "not like other dudes". Confident guys don't give a shit about ex's (i.e. lesser men). Use it as an opportunity to point out all the "stupid guy mistakes" the ex made and commiserate with her having to put up with relationship-impaired men (i.e. anybody who lacks the knowledge of game and TRP).

EDIT: This is heavily field-tested. It's classic "secret society" game. But, sure, go ahead and downvote me.

Title	Talking about exes during a date? WTF?
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Date	May 2, 2014 1:55 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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