I'll do my best to keep it brief. My SMV is higher than my wife's. There's a dead bedroom by my choosing. She knows it, I know it. My fault. But at this point, we've got two awesome kids that we both adore (4, 6). If nothing else, we're aligned as parents. She's a good person, a great mom, but not at all a woman I'm attracted to physically / romantically at this point. I don't know what to do....do I leave and live 'my life' as a heavily involved single parent Dad, or do I stay in my marriage for the sake of my kids.