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jttjt/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:59 PM
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Nah he is definitely saying something. You're talking about it as a societal phenomenon from a birds eye view but the goal of the red pill isn't to change society it's to enjoy the decline. His point is you can, as an individual, create the confidence now despite never getting that "positive feedback loop from being tall"
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 09:10 AM
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Or just eat some fuckin oatmeal, rice, beans, bread, potatoes, or fruit. It's not that complicated to get fiber in and foods that have it are generally healthy and cheap
/r/askTRP19/12/17 11:22 PM
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Your diet probably has no fiber. Eat more fiber
/r/askTRP19/12/17 12:22 AM
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You need to create a social circle, that should be your #1 priority. Once you do you won't be spending so much time on reddit and youtube. I recommend that you try to pledge a frat if your school does rush during spring semester. Don't worry about the fact that you're a sophomore and not a freshman, doesn't matter
/r/askTRP19/12/17 12:21 AM
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how we all know u didn't read the post...
/r/askTRP18/12/17 03:46 AM
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Or women generally have terrible taste You sound like a fat chick who's mad she can't get any decent dick but blames the guys who won't fuck her instead of herself for being a fatass. If girls find you're unattractive it's because you're unattractive. Either do something about it or quit whining
/r/askTRP18/12/17 03:39 AM
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You're ignoring everyone's advice here and apparently have been already, it's no wonder you fucked this up and your girl openly told you she would leave your ass. Now you come here trying to get someone to tell you you should stay so you can feel better when you inevitably do, deep down knowing full and well that if you actually respected yourself you would be gone without so much as a second thought
/r/askTRP18/12/17 03:31 AM
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You can't become more extroverted, all you can do is practice being social
/r/askTRP02/12/17 03:02 AM
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Sounds like she said it while sober
/r/askTRP02/12/17 12:29 AM
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Is it blue pill to let a girl suck my dick even though I'm totally capable of getting myself off?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 10:46 PM
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Honestly they're just inexperienced, once they try out the red pill life style for long enough they will realize that they're missing the human need for an actual connection. They haven't actually had the experience of spinning enough plates or fucking enough girls to get to that realization so instead of commenting based off their own thoughts and experiences they just parrot what they think they're supposed to. I could be wrong but I'm sure even the guys who still choose to spin plates after a…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 10:33 PM
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More like any self respecting woman wouldn't tolerate a man who promised he would not date other women dating other women
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 10:30 PM
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You know you can have multiple women at a time without telling them they're your girlfriend right? Unless you happen to have some particularly unfortunate genetics
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 08:30 AM
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Once you've known about this whole red pill thing for more than a couple months you will find that girls who are actually worthy of an LTR are hard to come by. And maybe by then you'll be better at knowing when it's an appropriate time to repeat buzz words
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 08:29 AM
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If she leaves, she just isn't into you enough to try and outcompete the side bitch or mate guard you from her. Or maybe she actually had an ounce of self respect and was worth keeping around and not cheating on, but your hamster can't accept that you fucked yourself over so you just chalk it up to her "not being into you enough" to make yourself feel better.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 01:45 AM
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Am I being stupid for letting this bother me so much? Gonna play devil's advocate here and say yes you are. Who cares about that n count if you're just trying to enjoy your time with her while it lasts and you're really that happy with her? And truly not worried about her cheating? The glass will break eventually anyway. But here's where the real problem is: she could very very well be the one You still have a long ways to go before you've swallowed the pill
/r/askTRP30/11/17 01:14 AM
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I mean yeah it's a shit test but I bet they actually find it less attractive
/r/askTRP30/11/17 01:03 AM
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So let me get this straight, you wanna turn down sex so that you can "show her who's boss?" You should download grindr
/r/askTRP30/11/17 01:00 AM
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Literally all your fault
/r/askTRP29/11/17 03:50 AM
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I am a guy who reads TRP everyday Therein lies your problem. You say you're trying to make things actionable, yet you're complaining about not having enough material to consume, so clearly you're doing the opposite. How many times have EC's said to just read the top shit each month?
/r/askTRP29/11/17 03:30 AM
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What we're witnessing is simply the normalization of prostitution I don't even think I'd go that far. Sure everyone has a price but if any dudes are actually venmoing tinder sluts to try to get their attention, I doubt they're hitting that mark. All they're doing is broadcasting how beta and desperate for sex and female attention they are, sealing their fate even further
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 11:06 AM
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Could you be more dramatic
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 11:01 AM
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she gets mad at me for being too close in the car towards the end and said "i just met you dude." She told you everything you need to know right here, you just decided to cover your ears and start humming instead of listening to her. Translation: "I AM NOT INTO YOU"
/r/askTRP27/11/17 10:43 AM
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You gotta understand that young girls have an insane level of abundance mentality. The stereotype that girls are clingy is really kinda inaccurate in 2017. I mean sure maybe 20% will be but most simply won't feel strongly about you at all. You're not special. And if girls are usually clingy to you every time you fuck one it just means you're batting way below where you could be
/r/askTRP22/11/17 08:12 PM
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"I've been busy with... Nothing interesting has happened to me today, nothing to talk to you about (Before I finish typing) Her - "You've got time to watch my snaps " Me - "I know you don't like pointless conversation" Her - "And you didn't send me streaks back" I explained why I didn't sent streaks Like u/dubblefupawitcheez said you're just trying explain yourself way too fucking much. Read "Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalize. Weak tools for faggot men" on the main sub
/r/askTRP22/11/17 07:39 PM
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Correct
/r/askTRP22/11/17 07:36 PM
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OP said he had to translate the voicemail to English, I don't think the recording would be very beneficial to the post
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 07:35 PM
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Think he means it fucked up by not fixing it
/r/askTRP16/11/17 11:55 AM
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Who cares what everyone says here? You're mostly only gonna be getting answers from clean shaven short haired business casual 9-5 lunch pail to work everyday guys because that seems to be most of the people on TRP. If you like them and the image they portray then rock them. Girls aren't gonna give a shit dude, I have my nose pierced and new girls I meet don't even mention it
/r/askTRP15/11/17 04:44 AM
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You have oneitis
/r/askTRP15/11/17 04:35 AM
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It is now the norm for women to stay mediocre at their jobs for years, while getting higher salaries than younger men who provide far more value to the same companies. You're on to something here but instead of using this knowledge to your advantage you're it sounds like you're just getting upset that things don't work the way you think they should. Which is totally reasonable cause I agree it's retarded, but now you know it's all about appearances and getting in with the right people. If you wo…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 12:01 AM
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Ah there's the salty, insecure beta boy you were hiding
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 12:19 PM
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Just quickly get one drink somewhere different then go back to your place. Alternatively tell her to just come to your place for drinks. If she already suggested going to your place for Netflix this shit is 1000% in the bag already so all you have to do is escalate. Honestly the more experience I get the more I've been pushing and the faster I've been escalating and it seems most girls these days will put out ridiculously quick, it never ceases to amaze me. I usually try to fuck girls as soon as…
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:59 AM
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I just said people like you because you still watched the documentary and you're still giving it attention now
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:38 AM
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You say you hold them to those standards, but do you? Have you actually stopped consuming news from sources that have a history of being biased or dishonest? Because if not, you're the same as a guy who tells his girlfriend he won't tolerate her cheating but gets back with her when he does anyway. Clearly that means he does tolerate it. I get longing for those days but it's capitalism, inevitably it was headed here. Personally I haven't watched or read news much at all since highschool and I rea…
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:36 AM
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My point is learn the art instead of deciding your identity can only be a scientist. Either that or stop bitching
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:33 AM
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News Organizations have an obligation to present unbiased content of the subjects they are covering, rather than engaging in biased and dishonest opinion hit pieces Says who? Your premise is a weak platitude that sounds nice but has zero bearing in reality. The market determines what for profit organizations put out, the market is the only thing they're obligated to. And right now the market is down for biased, dishonest hit pieces because people like you will keep watching them. Just like the m…
/r/askTRP09/11/17 03:32 AM
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Yeah you can go too far of course but doesn't sound like that's what happened here. Some people love to dish it out but can't take it, they're just pussies and it's not your problem nor should you be trying to associate with them unless you need something they have
/r/askTRP09/11/17 03:17 AM
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No, that would be kinda weird. The vibe at the end of a first date is way different from the vibe at the beginning of a second date. But maybe some will disagree with me
/r/askTRP09/11/17 03:14 AM
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Exactly, it has nothing to do with being a scientist
/r/askTRP09/11/17 03:09 AM
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That has nothing to do with what he said but sick dude!
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:47 AM
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That's exactly what he's saying dude
/r/askTRP08/11/17 07:51 PM
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Just means that you will still not be emotionally available if you do fuck. I think this is a term that girls tend to be the ones using, and they apply it to a guy in general, i.e. he isn't emotionally available [right now]. It's funny cause they don't consider that said guy would be completely emotionally available to a different girl. Anyway just means the same thing it would for a plate
/r/askTRP07/11/17 09:38 AM
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I hope you don't value your job. And for the record blatantly telling a married girl you were gonna make out with her is a terrible move. Don't be overt, be covert. Obviously once you said it overtly everything was ruined because you ruined all plausible deniability. You stepped on your own dick. In this case that's a good thing though, unless your goal is to get fired or worse
/r/askTRP07/11/17 09:01 AM
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I KNOW THIS SOUNDS BP AND SUPER BETABILL case closed, what the fuck else do you expect us to tell you?
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:59 AM
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Also minimize literal expenses. Chances are very high that you waste way too much money (read: hours of your life at your miserable job) on fucking bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 08:49 AM
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Yeah definitely don't bring your mom either
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:31 AM
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Yes definitely do it. Fucking in a car for your first time is gonna be difficult though you might want to do it somewhere else
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:29 AM
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Why the fuck are you in a long distance relationship? you should check out this subreddit called theredpill you might learn a couple things
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:27 AM
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more gay guys lift than straight guys do
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:25 AM
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Do both
/r/askTRP07/11/17 05:06 AM
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I don't really think this comes from how you look. Gay people look all kinds of different ways man. Tall, short, fat, skinny, yolked, bearded, clean shaven, masculine, feminine, pretty, ugly etc. I think it probably has more to do with your body language, how you talk or something else of that nature. Ask your friends what they think it is, they'll know. Also it's probably not even a big deal, girls are attracted to gay guys all the time so if they think you might be gay for a sec who gives a fu…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 03:00 AM
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That's not normal
/r/askTRP05/11/17 11:21 PM
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yeah stop masturbating consistently and your morning wood will come back
/r/askTRP05/11/17 11:15 PM
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Do you get them when you're trying to have sex
/r/askTRP05/11/17 11:10 PM
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it's simple minded obvious self help
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:52 PM
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u/auvergnat posted exactly what you're looking for 4 days ago on the main sub
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:42 PM
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Yeah I hear where you're coming from. Maybe since it sounds like you're in no rush you can search around for a while to find a place that fits your needs at a really good price? Or if you really can't stand another day at your current place then go ahead and move out and see how you feel about it. You could also trade some things off money wise. Like say you spend more on rent to live on your own but you stop eating out so much and maybe you'll be happier overall
/r/askTRP03/11/17 06:41 AM
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Sounds like you got a good plan set up. I don't think you really messed up anywhere honestly, just sounds like a girl being a girl. If you keep playing your cards right she will probably fuck you anyway regardless of what she texts you while you aren't around and it's easy for her to say she won't fuck you
/r/askTRP03/11/17 06:36 AM
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Logistically, it never works out because my houses are either too small, have many roommates, or the walls are too thin. thin walls and small living space are going to be even more of a problem if you get a space of your own, no? I don't think it's worth the extra money if you can find a decent roommate you like. You shouldn't spend more than 25-30% of your income on rent is the standard rule I think. But this all depends on your goals. Want to save aggressively and retire early? Or do you want …
/r/askTRP03/11/17 06:30 AM
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Getting hotel room, and getting girlfriend in, few drinks and smoke to get comfy and horny, and tying her up while I surprise her by bringing in another girl and fucking her right in front of my girlfriend. you 5 minutes after trying that
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:41 AM
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How the fuck did you turn this into a completely unrelated romantic novel about how fantastic Arnold Schwarzenegger is because he said it's good for people to go to the gym? This is some gay ass shit dude
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:36 AM
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Maybe I am but I really don't get why you would offer respect to a stranger that interrupts you to tell the same joke someone else just told. It's obviously all in good fun when the girl says it but when the guy repeats it that's just annoying
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 11:45 AM
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Silence after a joke is really awkward What's wrong with something being awkward for a second? Feeling like it's your job to diffuse every awkward situation is a really beta trait. he might come in handy some time. You can't just use that as an excuse to always try to keep people happy and make them like you all the time. I mean, you can, but if you were trying to be a nice guy and exhibit nice guy qualities you probably wouldn't be here
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 11:40 AM
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that, being almost 27 years old now, I've lost too much time and so I'll never "catch up" and get to "play the field" Honestly you sound way too smart and self aware for this to be a problem. You're just too pessimistic. I'm a bit younger but I was like you, had friends and stuff but couldn't ever seem to get anywhere with girls. Once I lost my virginity I caught up really quick, like less than a year and I was already able to handle girls/plates better than most guys. Some small changes in beha…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 11:30 AM
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Why do you assume the guy worked there? According to OP he was on the opposite side of the desk, not where someone who works there would be, and clearly hitting on the chick. Reading comprehension man
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 11:18 AM
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Why would you be nice to a guy you don't know who's speaking over you repeatedly while you're trying to share information that needs to be heard, not to mention he's making the exact same joke as the chick and clearly just trying to impress her while teasing you? Way better to ignore him than play along.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 11:15 AM
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If it helps I like to read about shit tests online How are you reading about shit tests online yet unaware that ignoring them is a perfectly viable response? Pretty sure that's literally on the sidebar. I don't disagree that A and A would have been better. But it's seriously so much easier to sit here and talk game about it than it would be to handle the situation in real life. I know you're not actually out in the real world encountering these situations though because you spend a significant a…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 11:12 AM
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Every girl Ive made out with was DTF.. What were the circumstances? We're just talking about in a club here. No way every girl you've made out with at a club was DTF if it's a significant number and you're not going for fatties or something. I am curious on your insight on it.. what % in your opinion then? Again, talking specifically about in a club, but I wouldn't give it more than 50%. Honestly probably like 20, that's just how it is if you're at a club. That's why you gotta think horizontally…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 09:03 AM
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What's cringey about ignoring them? Yeah your response is a bit better but you also got to sit here for a minute on your computer thinking about it
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 08:51 AM
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Yeah and I said I disagree. No way 95% of the time a girl makes out with a guy at a club she ends the night wanting to fuck him
/r/askTRP31/10/17 07:28 AM
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Right, so when a beggar asks you for money do you always tell them "no I don't want to give you my money?" I'd be willing to bet your knee jerk reaction is to say something more like "sorry, I don't have any change on me." It's not bratty behavior and it's not exclusive to women, it's just the easiest way to defuse a situation. No need to get all worked up about it, it's just fuckin life so you might as well deal with it. Seriously, when did this community become all about defending women and al…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 07:19 AM
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I never said I have a problem with a woman not being interested in me. Then why are you calling them rejecting you bratty?
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:53 AM
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I'm gonna disagree with u/spliffgang here, making out with a girl at a party or a club doesn't often mean that much
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:01 AM
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having to tell her you're "seeing someone" in the form of a DQ Taking girls on dates at the dairy queen huh? what the fuck is a DQ? And is this your first day on TRP or did you just somehow skip over everything about preselection?
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:00 AM
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Yeah, cause he clearly gets so much pussy he has to screen girls diligently before letting them into his incredible life, never mind the fact that they literally just rejected him before he could ever consider rejecting them. Glad you could share with us his thought process that you have no insight about
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:55 AM
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You're really so delusional that you think girls are bratty for not being interested in you? What do you do when a beggar asks you for change?
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:00 AM
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Until you stop opening girls with "Have you read any good books lately?" you're not allowed to use the word sperg other than in reference to yourself. You should just smile and say "ok have a good one," not try to give them a zinger in order to protect your bruised ego. Having some class is pretty red pill you should try it
/r/askTRP31/10/17 04:41 AM
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Why do you want to waste time talking to girls who are blatantly trying to get rid of you?
/r/askTRP31/10/17 03:40 AM
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Sounds like a fucking terrible opener dude. Unless you're going to the library to game chicks
/r/askTRP31/10/17 03:30 AM
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but she hadn’t saved my number in her phone yet as I didn’t text her my name til the next day and there was a bit of reminiscing of the situation to remind her you clearly took it way past that. It's not non salvageable but you aren't gonna salvage it by talking your way out of it. Just forget about it for a while and see if she hits you up
/r/askTRP31/10/17 03:07 AM
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I wasn't planning on kissing you anyway you'll sound like such a tool if you say this. You already invited her over and have been talking about her ass, she will know you're just trying really hard to sound cool. Why are you texting for anything other than logistics? That's your problem
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:59 AM
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sooo beta, jesus. If you aren't going to play this shit then you would just ignore her. But really you're still down to get played, otherwise you wouldn't say all that. And trust me, girls can easily detect that
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:19 AM
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You can't control your emotions, all you can control is how you deal with them. What you can control is trying to go after a girl you matched with on tinder for over a year. What are you doing man
/r/askTRP31/10/17 12:47 AM
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is it AWALT behaviour or is she just a disrespectful girlfriend and is it time to NEXT Kind of both. If everyone is against you she's obviously gonna side with the hivemind, that's what girls do. But when you say she does it a lot, that could be a serious problem. Having an LTR that doesn't even respect you...that's no good
/r/askTRP31/10/17 12:44 AM
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Almost every girl I've had a one night stand with said that. Let it go man, she's on to the next one, you should be too
/r/askTRP26/10/17 08:34 PM
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Why are you on TRP if you're scared to find out the truth you fuckwit
/r/askTRP26/10/17 07:15 AM
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tattoos on the face head and neck definitely don't go in the same sentence as "good idea," but I really can't tell if you're being serious. Shave your head and own it man, your bald head might look ugly to you but I'm sure anyone would think you look better with it that way than all fucked up and balding
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 06:40 AM
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Then instead of trying to make your friend new you should make a new friend
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:27 PM
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Why are you telling him to act in his own best interests when you can't even seem to? Quit worrying about other people's opinions and start trying to fix your need to be right all the time
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:05 PM
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Sounds like you're overinvested and you're her plate, getting salty that she's hooking up with other guys. The problem is you not her
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:59 PM
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Glad you could comment to let everyone know that you have no comment
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 02:20 AM
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If you live with your step father that's a legitimate concern. You should have just got another job set up before qutting
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 12:33 AM
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now I hope he got the message. Highly doubt it. What are you gonna next time he does something like that? Freak out like a little bitch again, or actually punish him?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 08:03 PM
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Sleep is so crucially important for your health. You will not excel if you don't consistently get enough. That said, why the fuck are you blaming your job for lack of self control? It's ok to say "I don't have the self control to make this work for me" but I don't see you acknowledging that at all. You make it sound like you're a victim of your job, as if you couldn't possibly have fixed your sleeping patterns or actually applied to a better job
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 07:57 PM
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You think she's actually attracted to warm, friendly attitudes? You're kidding me. Maybe she wants an attractive guy with a warm, friendly attitude but she's not attracted because of the warm friendly attitude and she's utterly confused about that. This is why you don't listen to dating advice from girls
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 07:33 PM
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she knows that I’m not worried about other guys being around her. Except you just told her don't forgot the condoms so you broadcasted that worrying that she's gonna fuck another guy was literally your first thought
/r/askTRP14/10/17 08:12 AM
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Like just now i just deleted a girl's number for sending me this 👀 When i asked for a boob pic Depends what you want. If I wanted an LTR of some sort of actual companionship and the girl rejected (at least for a second) me asking for a boob pic I would take it as a good sign. But if I didn't like her and I was just horny then yeah next her
/r/askTRP14/10/17 08:10 AM
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You
/r/askTRP13/10/17 11:05 PM
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The red pill is obviously about seeking out truth and understanding reality, as the name implies. And it's also obvious to me and anyone else reading your comment that you've never had a plate for a long time and don't know what the fuck you're talking about. Even if you just pulled your head out of your ass and actually read something here you would see that it's commonly accepted that plates break fairly quickly because, what a surprise, even if it makes them attracted to you, girls don't like…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 11:04 PM
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Let me blow your mind here: Different people can use the same word to mean different things! Matter of fact, the same person could even use the same word to mean different things under different circumstances!
/r/askTRP13/10/17 10:28 PM
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But the leading up to it, is what makes me think it was just an excuse. Trust your gut, man. I'm sure it was an excuse. Soft next her indefinitely, leave the ball in her court. And as far as the response goes, a simple "k" would suffice next time. And for situations where there weren't lots of signs of disinterest but she flaked once and it might be appropriate to hit her up again, the flakey mcflakester line is great
/r/askTRP13/10/17 10:13 PM
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Hahaha. Fair point, though OP was nice (read: dumb) enough to remove the quote you were talking about so now the context is gone. I think I understand you now, I guess it was your word choice and my associations with those words that made me assume you were making it a moral thing
/r/askTRP13/10/17 10:09 PM
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If any women ever actually gives you the opportunity to treat her like shit for an extended period of time you'll learn that it comes with consequences that aren't as dope as that one.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 10:04 PM
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Gotcha, I just wanted to make that point and in a reply to your comment seemed like the best place to do it
/r/askTRP13/10/17 10:02 PM
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Glad you could clarify. If you ask her or your mom the etiquette is certainly to call her an Uber. If you ask me, you should tell her to call one
/r/askTRP13/10/17 10:00 PM
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Depends how much self respect you want to have. Soft next her. And next time don't say no problem. Telling girls it's not a problem if they waste your time is not a good look.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:51 PM
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Accidentally deleted my original comment: You have to come to believe that you truly deserve whatever it is you want. You feel unauthentic because you have not yet come to this belief. How to get there, I can not say, because I am not you. But it probably involves lots of heavy weights.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:49 PM
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You for this dumb ass response
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:46 PM
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You have to come to believe that you truly deserve whatever it is you want. You feel unauthentic because you have not yet come to this belief. How to get there, I can't say, because I'm not you. But I can tell you it probably involves lots of heavy weights
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:42 PM
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Depends on the situation, of course. Could be cause she's just decided she's not attracted to you, cause you treat her like shit and she's trying to gain some power back, or anywhere in between. But it always means something
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:36 PM
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What's wrong with hiding your true intentions? That's literally law #3 of the so often (for a reason) quoted here laws of power, conceal your intentions. The only justifiable reason not to hide your intentions with girls is because they often become more attracted to you as a result and it also just makes life easier for you to not have to worry about getting caught up. All this moral bullshit has nothing to do with the red pill, matter of fact it's fucking blue pill
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:32 PM
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Whoever does stuff like that is a pussy who is trying to talk his way into the pants of a woman by hiding his true intentions. Pathetic and disgusting Didn't think I would ever see an EC virtue signaling
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:19 PM
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Do I call her one and pay? Just call your mom and say you need some money to get an Uber back home with your new girlfriend
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:15 PM
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Are you really such a genius that your beliefs and values are all the right ones? Bingo. If you really believe that there's no way you're wrong and other people are all just idiots for their different beliefs then YOU ARE an elitist douche and no one should be friends with you
/r/askTRP12/10/17 05:37 AM
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Speaking of cringeworthy...
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:49 AM
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To clarify I was laughing at u/nightwingtrp demonstrating his super inflated ego then telling you to get yours in check
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:02 AM
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Be thankful I'm too busy to get you banned for raising the noise level and lowering the signal. Get the ego in line Hahahaha
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:01 PM
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Anything that's also the quickest way to lose it all. If you're not prepared for that to happen, you're gonna have to be a bit more patient
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:49 PM
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But it's also about how you get the message across. Overt doesn't work and makes you look worse, covert works and gets her hamster spinning imagining all the pussy you fuck. This is a cringy ass mistake to make but a lot of people do it when they first start getting into TRP, myself included. Trust me, don't do it. Only way to communicate this shit is covertly
/r/askTRP02/10/17 06:46 PM
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Great field report. You should post this on the main sub for more eyes to see
/r/askTRP01/10/17 10:03 PM
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I definitely bust out laughing after sex when it's been too long since I busted a nut and I barely last a minute. I think it's funny so what's wrong with laughing about it? Usually it's a shared experience and the girl laughs with me then I give her a kiss. Here's the thing, it all depends on how you handle the situation. We say treat women like children, because it works. Say you see a child fall off their tricycle, the child looks to YOU to see how he should react. If you're smiling and laughi…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 09:58 PM
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always try to punish her whenever she disrespects me and she always comes back texting me to come over. And what do you do after that, keep withholding attention? Or do you come back immediately and confirm to her that she won't actually be punished because you don't have boundaries?
/r/askTRP01/10/17 07:25 PM
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Ok, I can deal with that. It's much more reasonable than saying, "WHAT MISOGYNY!? I wrote articles for 15 years and now I am not gonna help you anymore!" -SirKobalt Also this is a you problem. He was offering you fantastic advice your ego just can't handle the sour taste of the medicine
/r/askTRP01/10/17 06:05 AM
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If you have been seriously involved for long enough with someone who was sexually abused as a child, you might have an idea of what I am talking about, or you still might not, many variables at play. This is gonna sound brutal but again fits into always putting yourself and your desires first: your first mistake from a red pill perspective was even getting involved with someone who was sexually abused. Law 10: INFECTION: AVOID THE UNHAPPY AND UNLUCKY As you begin your red pill journey every time…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 05:42 AM
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she gets drunk and gets "molested by roomate" Hahaha fucking classic. Funny thing is girls would tell us we're sick misogynists for not taking her word for it but they don't realize that they would totally say the same shit if they got drunk and cheated on their boyfriend. As far as your actual question looks like others have covered it pretty well.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 05:22 AM
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This is the one, classy as fuck and devastating all at once. Agree and amplify
/r/askTRP01/10/17 05:14 AM
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Suck it up and eat her out once in a while. In my experience if you just put it on the table and make it a possibility, even if it's infrequent, the girl will continue to to suck your dick nearly whenever you want
/r/askTRP01/10/17 05:11 AM
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Just because she respects herself (at least in this case cause who knows she could be a huge slut) doesn't mean she doesn't respect OP lmao
/r/askTRP01/10/17 05:08 AM
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Respect is earned. So how does a women earn your respect, I'm being genuine here. Certainly it's not for spreading her legs. So what is it? You decide that for yourself, just like you would for a man. You might respect the fuck out of someone who other people hate because you have different values than other people. So what do you value? For me I respect women who are above all else honest, and doing something constructive with their time. Plenty of other things personal things go into it too, f…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 03:34 AM
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This type of shit is the nonsense of TRP, thinking that everything fits so neatly into the box of be a man and life will shower you with everything you've ever desired and you'll never get shit on without any rhyme or reason we take some accountability for ourselves and our relationships and to you that's literally the equivalent of saying we can rule the world if we "be a man." If you want to keep taking no accountability for yourself and worrying about everyone else's feelings before your own …
/r/askTRP01/10/17 03:28 AM
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However, it's the question of why can I not be defined by my past but a slut will always be defined by hers (something I agree with)? It's this seeming hypocrisy that is what's stopping me from forgiving myself So do you also think guys who get laid less are more valuable because that's how it works for women? A crucial part of whole basis of TRP is that women are different than men and their value is determined differently. Can't turn a hoe into a housewife but a weak beta loser can definitely …
/r/askTRP29/09/17 02:26 AM
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Lol I didn't say the best move is to not block them. Just pointing out that it comes with downsides. Also I'm not just talking about 3 year relationships and an ex who taunts you here
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:56 AM
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You just have to get laid man there's really no way around it, it's gonna be an insecurity until you do but it's the kind of thing that only seems like a big deal when you don't have it, once you get laid by a few girls you'll realize it's nothing
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:52 AM
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Two months ago, my current girlfriend (who I've given a pass to use my phone What are you doing guy
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:48 AM
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Ohhhh jeezus
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:13 AM
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Downside to this is blocking girls (mostly talking social media here) after you stop dating or hooking up just makes you look salty and hurt. If you truly don't care how you look then it doesn't matter but you probably do care cause otherwise you wouldn't need to block them in the first place
/r/askTRP31/08/17 10:42 AM
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I spend my weekdays in an office from 9am-7pm hour commute Seems like these things are your biggest problem. You're busy from 8am-8pm every single day before you even add in gym time and eating breakfast/dinner? I can't imagine how you do anything at all besides work. That said I'm sure you can make time one day every weekend. You can hang out with friends instead of going on dates with girls from tinder all the time. Or just go on these dates at night and hang out with your friends during the d…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 10:38 AM
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So I've going to MeetUp events in recent months There's your problem, high value individuals don't usually make friends via the internet other than rare, specific circumstances
/r/askTRP31/08/17 10:33 AM
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pretty sure this loser has been posting here under a million different names forever
/r/askTRP31/08/17 10:32 AM
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heads up looks like you may have posted this on an account you didn't intend to
/r/askTRP31/08/17 10:08 AM
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It's not that big of a deal, you're way overthinking it
/r/askTRP28/08/17 05:08 AM
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I wasn't even going to the wedding, mostly because I didn't approve of it You sound like a little bitch. Why do you need to give a "red pill" gift? Just go enjoy yourself and wish your buddy the best instead of being socially retarded and trying to impose your values onto him. It's not your problem and you should be busy trying to mold yourself, not worrying about molding someone else
/r/askTRP28/08/17 04:55 AM
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All of a sudden she sits up, back to me, and says, "you're rude and disrespectful, don't talk to me ever again" She's clearly fucking psycho, that is not how a well adjusted human behaves. For you to even mess with her at all after this would just confirm that you have no self respect. Not worth catching a case over a retarded vagina person. Your situation sucks but try to avoid her as much as possible
/r/askTRP28/08/17 04:51 AM
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After discovering TRP I learned the much overdue lesson to never argue with women. This was the main cause of our problems. So you found TRP but you just want to cherry pick the stuff that sounds good to you. You sound beta as fuck in general and you have a lot of learning to do. What the fuck does tearing down her emotional walls mean anyway? She's not being loving to you because you act like a bitch not because she "built up emotional walls." You remind me a lot of me before I found TRP, I had…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 04:48 AM
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I'm not defending him, I'm defending a point he made. Ideas don't have to be personal
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 04:30 AM
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Oh there's no exclusive content in the books? I thought you got into more detail in the books
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 04:42 AM
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How's that for some actionable analysis? That still wasn't offering a solution at all, it was just analysis. You might be right about this guy's character but all you did was give credibility to his point. Funny cause I didn't even comment in the first place to criticize you, just wanted to make people think about what they were looking at. If your blog IS just supposed to get men to fix their own problems why not just say that and leave it at that? Maybe that doesn't pay the bills
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 04:38 AM
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Yeah I'm not saying it won't raise attraction but there's a lot more to a long term relationship than just attraction. That's why plates eventually break when you refuse to give them commitment, even though they're still attracted to you and should in theory be even more attracted by your refusal to commit.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 08:59 PM
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Communication has a lot more to do with everything other than what you say than it does what you say. So your body language, tone of voice, style, etc. can all play a role in this. Beta tendencies run deeper than you think and they take a long time to get rid of
/r/askTRP03/08/17 12:54 AM
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He lifts all the time and has been trying to get me to hit the gym for a little while now. So you're asking us what you can learn from this guy we don't know at all while ignoring what he explicitly tries to teach you?
/r/askTRP03/08/17 12:39 AM
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I can't honestly imagine that not harming your relationship with your LTR. Call me a blue pill cuck but that's not gonna make for a happy, healthy relationship so why bother having an LTR at that point instead of just spinning plates
/r/askTRP03/08/17 12:34 AM
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Sorry bout that man. Be careful about calling vs. texting, I know lots of places give the advice that you have to be an old school manly man and make sure you call it a date and always call instead of texting but girls aren't used to having lots of pressure put on them like that and it sometimes scares them away. If dating was how it was back then, we wouldn't need TRP. anyway, on to the next one or ten
/r/askTRP02/08/17 08:43 PM
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Honestly I can't sit around talking shit on girls who have lots of casual sex and how it's bad for their ability to pair bond and not think that men probably get at least some of the consequences too. Personally I'd rather have somewhat long term plates and not have one night stands but sometimes I get horny and fuck girls that I know I won't want to call back or sometimes I lose respect for them and don't want to after the fact
/r/askTRP02/08/17 06:03 AM
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advertisement for your blog in the form of regurgitation, fuck off
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 03:12 AM
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or tell them they're pussies who haven't ever had a 2x4 in the bed of their truck so maybe they should buy a jetta instead of wasting all their money on gas
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:51 AM
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Only compliment her physical beauty while you're having sex. That way you train her to fuck you to get that validation
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 01:39 AM
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Hope you find your peace. maybe that's my problem, instead of looking for peace I'm just looking for a fight
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 10:23 AM
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Ok but how many guys divorce their wife to go for a younger girl? Sure it happens but 80 percent of the time it's women who lose attraction and want to get a divorce. I definitely don't disagree that you can generalize all men as much as you can all women but the generalizations are a little different
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 09:42 AM
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cuz an thinking you would have expressed the reasoning in the last comment if you weren't taking this too personally.....and triggered. I didn't mean it like that I meant it like why didn't you ask in the first place. I guess I'm just overly sensitive to advertisements at all cause everywhere I look so many people are just influenced by businesses and money and they're constantly consuming something new instead of actually figuring out what they want on their own. So, even though Rollo has done …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 09:27 AM
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Prominence is the sense of internal validation Thanks for clearing that up What I don't understand is the reasoning behind you wanting to express this. Maybe you should ask, then
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 09:00 AM
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her room was legit 105º and we were both drenched in sweat (I know I should've just powered through that). What the fuck, how could you even power through sitting there eating ice at that temperature? I'm gonna assume you're exaggerating a little lol Should I just soft next this girl and chalk it up to a learning experience? If so, how would I do that considering we're in the same social circle and I will be forced into situations with her a lot. Can I still turn this around and plate her? You c…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 08:53 AM
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Why do I get the impression that OP is small and weak
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 08:36 AM
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Personally, I would leave the country. riiiight
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 08:29 AM
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you caught me, sharing unfavorable and unpopular opinions anonymously is the best way to achieve prominence. Also I can't tell if you said Lil prominent like that as a joke about modern rappers or you're just one of those people that kind of types like an idiot
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 08:20 AM
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but my thought at the time was to give her a tangible, realistic number for her to compete against. Do you normally do things with no thought of the consequences? Jesus man. what would be optimal response? It's clearly a shit test, it's not like she literally thinks you're regularly fucking 20 different girls. Treat it like any other shit test. You could: agree and amplify: "actually it's 100" disagree and amplify: "No you're the only girl I've ever even kissed actually" pressure flip: "You prob…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:28 AM
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So you're insulted because a girl who is all but obligated to speak to you, being that she's in your friend circle, was nice to you and made an awkward joke a few times but doesn't want to fuck you? And you think that makes her manipulative...? how would y'all of trp handle this situation? If I were you I would get screened for aspergers
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:19 AM
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To what purpose? If you're trying to make a girl on a date lose interest or something, start talking about how much you still love and miss your ex and how great it is that your mother still washes your underwear and that you don't have to work because she pays for your chicken nuggets
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:12 AM
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For all intents and purposes you still have oneitis, to an extent. "Are you stuck on her because she's your ex and you still care what she thinks? Oneitis." - u/Whisper but even thinking this way makes me even more BP The good news is you recognize it. And giving the advice of "just stop caring bro you don't need external validation" is futile cause after all we are just human. But try to recognize that ideally, you wouldn't give a shit about her at all, and try to get closer to that point. Beca…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:06 AM
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This also assumes your genetic makeup favors red meat. Some people are allergic to fructose, the sugar in fruits so someone may say have a banana for healthy carbs and they go into cardiac arrest. yep a nutrient rich banana might give you a heart attack so if your genetic makeup favors it, however the fuck you determine that, eat grass fed beef and trade your nutrients in for cholesterol and saturated fat instead. lmfao
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:00 AM
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On text game, how can I not fuck up? I want to develop a standard policy on how to text. I've read to text for logistics only. Does this mean not texting after a date. If you are actually escalating and being a normal enough exciting enough person, this is definitely your problem. I bet your texting is making you look super needy somehow. Text for logistics only means you only text about setting up another date/fuck/whatever real life event. If you only do that then you can't fuck up
/r/askTRP01/08/17 03:28 AM
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This is some blue pill advice right here. If comfort was the issue there's a 99% chance she would have asked OP for commitment, not just ghosted him. And a good plate isn't necessarily going to be a good LTR at all. AND on top of all that, if you ask the girl for commitment instead of the other way around you're already blowing it before the relationship even starts
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:06 AM
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Saying the word no is hostile now? Jesus man you're too far gone
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 12:21 AM
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As much as it's gonna suck since you actually care about her, it's time to move on and find someone you're fuck yes about.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 09:53 PM
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How can i play this. I would like another go if the rides open for business but don't want to meet for a friendly chat. Only one way to find out. Meet up with her and escalate quickly, if it turns out she just wanted a friendly chat then dip
/r/askTRP30/07/17 09:51 PM
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In the words of Dirt Nasty, "she the type of girl that'll go and whip her tits out in front of all your friends, bitch you gettin kicked out." Just from hearing this one story she's obviously trashy as fuck and doesn't have the same respect for the relationship that you do so if you aren't into that next her
/r/askTRP30/07/17 09:45 PM
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Well maybe my experience is different then, I find it really easy to say no ever since I first started reading TRP
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 08:53 PM
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Me: "I don't know you guys that well, so I don't think so." I said it in a playful but firm tone. You could have had a better answer with two letters. Not buying random annoying moms drinks should really be common sense to anyone who's at least read the sidebar. And you kind of created the problem for yourself by 1) not firmly telling them no and 2) getting involved in the process of them buying the drinks
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 07:29 PM
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I'm aware of your contributions to the community, they have helped me personally plenty. I get that it's probably fair enough for all you've done for us but imagine coming to TRP for the first time and seeing an advertisement pinned at the top of it
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 07:21 PM
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Not sure if I'm reading a troll post or you're really this retarded
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 05:42 AM
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I like to escalate early on, but I did not see her body language permitting it. still she sat down too far away from me on the bench , making escalation harder. I could not escalate further, as we the seating did not allow it The real reason you cockblocked yourself is all right here. You made an excuse to not make a move at least 3 separate times throughout the night. Never create obstacles for yourself in your head. "What if she has a boyfriend?" "What if she's gonna be creeped out if I try to…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 05:20 AM
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It's good to have a non-judgemental attitude toward women, but these are some flowery-assed sentiments. Yup that was absolutely the only good point he made. Everything else just sounds like OP has convinced himself if he's some sort of combination of Red Pill and Nice Guy™ then he can still find his One
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 05:05 AM
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Make yourself into something great and it won't matter so much that you're ugly. Looks are only a part of your value as a man
/r/askTRP30/07/17 01:42 AM
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I'm not sure what this means Means she's looking for your approval/validation when she says something, massive IOI. All systems are go
/r/askTRP30/07/17 12:53 AM
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Anyone else get this? No, you're basing all your worth off outside validation. If you didn't do that then you wouldn't care if some guy is more alpha than you, you would just care about getting yours
/r/askTRP30/07/17 12:39 AM
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Yes exactly OP thinks consumption is production. If only he took in the right kind of garbage, it'll fix all his problems. in proper western fashion. Funny how he says he'll do anything but there's no way he will actually change his lifestyle, he just wants a quick fix
/r/askTRP29/07/17 11:53 PM
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just don't tell her all that and ask her as few days in advance as possible if she wants to hang that evening
/r/askTRP29/07/17 11:46 PM
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May i express myself? I want to read non-popular success stories also. I'm trying to help you express yourself. No one expresses themselves by consuming someone else's product. Sure it might help to an extent, but you're clearly past that point. You have to create something to express yourself now
/r/askTRP29/07/17 09:45 PM
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I'll say it one last time: you are a consumption ADDICT. What else should I be doing? That's like a heroin addict asking what he should be doing. The problem is what you ARE doing, not what you aren't doing. You need to unplug and cut out all the shit you keep consuming. I'm not just talking about the physical things you buy. I challenge you to go without any internet, porn, TV, video games, movies, etc. for 2 weeks. Then you can worry about filling all your new free time with something construc…
/r/askTRP29/07/17 09:42 PM
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I wonder if u/Rollo-Tomassi paid you for diligently making sure his advertisement for his product was seen by as many people as possible
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 09:40 PM
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Do you have any resources you could recommend that might help me learn how to I can improve this area of my life? Don't you get it? You're so addicted to consumption that the only feasible solution you can think of for your consumption problem is...more consumption. That's not the answer. The only resources you need are your own coffee pot, some youtube videos on how to cook, and a step by step guide on how to quit smoking. You want an audiobook or vlogger to listen to because it will make you f…
/r/askTRP29/07/17 09:21 PM
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I can't journal anymore (which was KEY to the rise in my confidence and self esteem). You can absolutely still journal, just do it on an electronic device with a password on it, perhaps the one you typed this post on. I know I'm cutting those fuckers off when I can but I have quite a bit more school. Thoughts on how to handle this for now? Your parents reading your journal and your cousin stealing money from you are both pretty egregious offenses. You should find a way to move out while you fini…
/r/askTRP29/07/17 09:15 PM
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OP has a spending problem, not an income problem. More money is not the answer
/r/askTRP29/07/17 09:10 PM
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Instead of wasting time on these stories which are essentially masturbation for you at this point, do something to get towards your goal of becoming a casanova. When you read these stories all you're doing is jerking yourself off, fantasizing about being the main character, and tricking your brain to feel like you achieved the successes yourself, which is a great recipe to never accomplish anything or improve yourself at all
/r/askTRP29/07/17 09:09 PM
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I currently make about $2500 monthly, and my expenses come out to about $1500 monthly. I have never physically saved more than $1000 dollars on my own. ??? I just dont have any respect for my earnings. No matter how hard I try I just cant seem to find any form of discipline for my earnings at all. You don't have any respect for your time, that's your problem. or some recommendations on books, audio books, vloggers, or techniques... Consuming more shit isn't gonna fix your compulsive consumption …
/r/askTRP29/07/17 08:57 PM
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I'll say this, he lives at his parents' house and works like 20 hours a week at an entry level job and he's 23, basically a piece of shit, yet fucks more girls than anyone I know. He's successful because he spits good game and is pretty decent looking. Are you asking because you want to be a casanova?
/r/askTRP29/07/17 08:54 PM
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No one has sex with every women he likes, if you aren't a celebrity you're always gonna have to just put fly paper out and see where it sticks, of course your rate of success might be 1% or it might be 75. I definitely know a guy who has had sex with a lot of really attractive girls since he hit adolescence though
/r/askTRP29/07/17 08:03 PM
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No kissing, and no good moment for initiating it: reason not to call her again? Or me being too BP make it happen? This is probably the biggest point I'm gonna make - you answered it yourself, that one is definitely on you. You don't need a perfect moment to kiss a girl, if she's into you can make your move basically whenever. But don't feel bad I didn't figure that out right after swallowing the red pill by any means. I'm cool. Actually calls me a couple of times later postponing some more (min…
/r/askTRP29/07/17 07:37 PM
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Hahaha no it wasn't that terrible, sounds like a good post though. I just got breakfast with her and gave her a ride home the next morning then kept texting her before we planned to hang out the next week which were all the last things I should have done knowing that I had already gone too beta on her in the first place, definitely learned my lesson though. It's funny cause nowhere but TRP would make you realize little things like that ruin your chances
/r/askTRP29/07/17 03:04 AM
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lol
/r/askTRP29/07/17 02:44 AM
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Tried to use red pill to get back my ex right when I started learning it all and was in no place to implement it properly anyway, but if I was really red pill at the time I would've just ignored her and focused on other chicks. Funny enough I actually fucked her again but my lingering betaness scared her off for good right after. Definitely one of the most common mistakes guys come here and make
/r/askTRP29/07/17 02:40 AM
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Could go both ways, but honestly how many times has a girl let you get that sexual with her and been totally cool with it and not been down for the pipe? I'd say there's at least an 80% chance the girls you describe are really just that easy but I could be wrong
/r/askTRP28/07/17 08:47 PM
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Status is always gonna come in first here, of course that encompasses a ton of more specific things
/r/askTRP28/07/17 08:30 PM
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Her: nice Definite bail. She's completely uninterested, never chase a bitch
/r/askTRP28/07/17 08:23 PM
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Number 1 is to make sure you're taking care of your body - eat healthy, particularly lots of raw fruits and vegetables will give you lots of energy. Also make sure you get plenty of sleep and exercise a lot, all these things will give you as much energy as possible. As far as being social as an introvert, just practice as much as possible. I'm pretty introverted and used to have a sales job, the key for me was really just getting lots of practice dealing with people. Also I'd like to mention tha…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 08:21 PM
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no privacy, nowhere to go. I'm sure there's a park or something you could go to at night to get some privacy? girls are more adventurous then you think
/r/askTRP28/07/17 07:54 PM
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Gotcha. Well regardless, having a good amount of muscle mass and being cut to the point that you can see abs is going to be a massive advantage and will definitely help your problem, girly girls are into manly men
/r/askTRP28/07/17 07:52 PM
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cut back on the porn and jerking off, especially porn
/r/askTRP28/07/17 03:58 AM
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One of my plates recently text me " You're in control " in response to why I couldnt/wouldnt see her more often. Is this a good thing? Yes, a very good thing. Any sort of good relationship between a man and a woman involves a dominant guy and a submissive girl (polarization, read u/neoreactionsafe 's stuff for more on that) I am thinking I can get away with anything with this one Sounds like you for sure can, so take advantage of the situation and try whatever you want to try with her. I definit…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 03:55 AM
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You gravitated to the only two pieces of blue pill advice in this whole thread, be careful
/r/askTRP28/07/17 03:49 AM
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"Listen. I think you're not over Chad. I can't change that and you haven't changed that this whole time, so I think you should go for that. I can't make this relationship work when this is so obviously the case. We need to do what's best for ourselves as individuals and I don't think this relationship is best for either of us. Blah Blah Blah" Try to convince her that this is best for both of you. You're advocating for explaining yourself to a woman and trying to get her to understand your point …
/r/askTRP28/07/17 03:48 AM
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If she refuses I would very politely tell her I have stuff to do and casually ask her to leave. What's the problem? Sounds nice and easy but there's a big chance she won't just be cool and leave. Read my comments above for a good example of someone doing that and making a fool of himself
/r/askTRP28/07/17 03:42 AM
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P.S I do not live in The States. Where do you live? Ideally you could get some sort of government assistance because of your situation
/r/askTRP28/07/17 01:09 AM
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Can I ask why, & what would a proper move be? Because it's childish behavior, basically a temper tantrum for not getting what you want. One of the most beta things you could do. See this post and the top comment in particular for more on that https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2jq3bj/cancelled_flight_left_her_stranded_am_i_in_the/ Better move would be to go to her place then if she doesn't put out casually leave 15 minutes later, key word casually. is there something wrong with being too s…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 01:00 AM
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All she's gonna do is keep doing it and hide it from you. No point bothering with her when you could move on and find a girl that actually puts you at #1
/r/askTRP28/07/17 12:53 AM
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She has told me that every relationship ("until me" of fucking course.) was her trying to get over him. She texts Chad any random chance she gets, "hey just drove past your old town! How are you?" or "Happy birthday!!" To which he replies with half assed sentences or most of the time nothing at all. He obviously has no interest which most likely makes him that much more interesting to her... Sounds like you already know what's up. Also I find it hilarious how she "wants closure" even though it's…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 12:51 AM
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She is A. taking sex of the table? Correct, she doesn't want to fuck you again invite her over for a movie I'm a weeks time and escalate, then kick her out if she refuses. Not a good move
/r/askTRP28/07/17 12:45 AM
2

I don't think TRP is the place for you
/r/askTRP28/07/17 12:42 AM
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Where it goes is up to you. Whatever you do, don't sit around and watch the whole movie while she's wondering why you won't make a move
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:42 PM
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Nah I aint got time for this shit. If you didn't have time for this shit you wouldn't be replying tough guy
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:20 PM
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When you flip out over someone suggesting you call a boolean question a yes or no question so that everyone doesn't think you're a weirdo it may be time to consider that you have an ego problem yourself
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:16 PM
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No, it does. I'm not pretending to be afraid, I really am afraid of getting cheated on. I've seen it happen first hand. I can't hold a proper LTR because of it. You can have sex without having an LTR I NEED to hide who I am, otherwise I will be hurt deeply. "I'd like to thank the academy..." Also, fuck off. I will call it a boolean if I want to. This has nothing to do with the subject at hand, it's just you trying to leverage your opinions. No way that shit is going to pass. Trying to help you n…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:11 PM
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Girls I did hook up with, enjoyed my abs and back and arms and gave me mad comments.. buuuuut the girls i attracted then were no hotter nor did they come my way any more frequent then they are/do now. When I stopped caring and started drinking more and eating whatever i wanted I did better with women. So you're fatter now and basically hamstering it away? That's probably another reason for your problem. Especially as you get older a good physique is gonna be crucial for attracting hot young chic…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:02 PM
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have fun big guy
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:58 PM
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So basically you're making up a bunch of excuses for why you can't take 5 seconds to say hi to a girl, because you're scared. Girls cheating in LTR's has nothing to do with you having sex, and you don't need pua or social engineering to pick up a girl for one night. Literally just go say hi to a girl. I get that you're scared, I'm scared too but instead of pretending like I don't want to have sex I realize that I need to have sex to be happy so I go say hi anyway. The boolean phrase I used was t…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:56 PM
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but I have no idea how I'm going to perform, how to do it, what to do. You're gonna do poorly. But that's not as big of a deal as you think, most guys don't know how to fuck anyway, especially young guys. Make sure you know how to put a condom on. Here's your gameplan: start making out with her shortly after the show or movie starts, move to new location if necessary, continue making out with her as well as kissing her neck, finger her for a little bit, then insert your penis into her vagina and…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:51 PM
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I went to somewhat of a commuter school that had a lot of older dudes who didn't join the frat till they were 22-26 so there it wouldn't be a big deal, but at state schools it might throw people off a bit. So it kinda depends where you're going, but I'm sure if you are cool at rush you will get a few bids
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:46 PM
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I said what path you need to take, read the whole comment you dummy. And don't call it a boolean question outside of a computer science class, you're just making yourself look even more autistic
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:40 PM
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If you were really fit would you only fuck super fit girls, or would you still fuck any girl you were attracted to? Thought so, now go shoot your shot. probably around 5% BF or less lol
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:34 PM
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'Which foreign accents should I start learning?' Stop it, get some help I know if I continue on this path of endlessly chasing down things women find attractive, I will never actually get started on picking them up. There ya go you answered your own question. You're spending a ridiculous amount of time and mental space worrying about being the most attractive but you probably haven't even tried to hit on a girl in a long ass time. If you did you would see how ridiculous you're being
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:32 PM
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Do you ever hang out with potential fwbs just to get a feel for them irl better instead of texting? Yes then I make a move and her reaction tells me if she's about it or not. Escalate quickly and be sexual right off the bat with a girl you're into, never beat around the bush and waste everyone's time. Once you make it a habit you'll be amazed how easy girls are, it's all up to you
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:23 PM
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You're welcome. Your humility in that simple response makes me think you may have what it takes to progress a lot and get to that level of abundance. Like I said just try to focus on getting there as much as possible, good luck
/r/askTRP28/06/17 07:16 AM
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sketch
/r/askTRP28/06/17 07:13 AM
5

did you try to make out with her at least a couple, three times?
/r/askTRP28/06/17 07:13 AM
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To be honest you clearly have a shitload of work to do and you're probably gonna crash and burn for a while until you sort it out and get good enough to keep girls around. I know because I was there too. Your freakout and apology both sound kind of autistic. Your best bet is to not worry about and move on to the next, she will reply or not reply when she does. Think vertically, not horizontally. But like I said I've been there so I know you're mind's gonna be stuck on it for a while and you aren…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:45 AM
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laugh, tell her ok, proceed to hit on new chick(s) at club
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:41 AM
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You seem like the type of guy who always keeps lying after he gets caught
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 06:38 AM
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NEVER use clickbait on TRP if you want people to actually read your shit
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 06:27 AM
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That's up to him to decide, but to say he didn't lose anything out of it is wrong. If he was really on top of his game he would fuck a hotter, cooler girl that he doesn't have to drive so far to meet. That said, there isn't anything wrong with not being at that level yet, I'm just saying 8 hours is a lot of driving and shouldn't be ignored
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:35 PM
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I didn't lose anything out of it You're forgetting about that 8 hours it took you to drive there and back
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 07:59 PM
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I go to UC Berkeley and this bitch wants an open relationship You think that since you go to UC Berkeley you're the most fuckable guy around and you shouldn't ever get dumped? Girls aren't attracted to you based off what college you go to lmao I learned so many things throughout this whole ordeal. You have a lot more left to learn. Just from reading this we can all tell you're still a beta schmuck. If you ever read the sidebar you would know that long distance relationships are a complete joke a…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 07:48 PM
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So, to all brothers out there, I'm breaking up with her tonight, am I being rash? Nope. Welcome to TRP
/r/askTRP22/05/17 10:04 PM
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This has been consistent since the last 9 occasions that we met or talked. You've let this go on too long, might be hard to recover but could work out fine. Just only hang out with her again if it's a situation that should lead to sex, and then if it doesn't you take the L and move on
/r/askTRP22/05/17 09:10 PM
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Should I be overt and say "No, if you want to see me then lets fuck". Or be covert and just say No. You be covert and just say no. Which is why I said to tell her you're just busy if she asks. Whatever you do don't be overt and say something like that
/r/askTRP22/05/17 09:10 PM
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How do I deal with this? Tell her no. When she asks "why not, is something wrong," you're just busy. Is she trying to turn me into a beta orbiter? Maybe, or maybe she's slowly trying to get commitment from you
/r/askTRP22/05/17 08:08 PM
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This is a stupid ass guide. Just go to the malefashionadvice subreddit if you want to learn how to dress well from people who actually know what the fuck they're talking about and aren't trying to sell you on the brand they work for. And for the love of god, please do not buy your pants and shirts two sizes too big like OP does
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 12:52 AM
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But I've fallen off the wagon when it comes to balancing a job, taking care of other things in my life So you don't have a history of training consistently yet you're telling us how to stay motivated to train consistently? Clearly it didn't work for you, why would it work for us? If you don't enjoy training, change something up. Change your exercise routine, change who you exercise with, change where you exercise, etc. If you like playing basketball and hate lifting so every time you try to lift…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 12:38 AM
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My attention on the women was apparent, but more focus was given on destroying my male rivals. “I make more money than him”, “I’m whiter and more European looking than him”, “I can defeat him, if necessary”. Lmao I really hope you're trolling with this post. If not, you need more help than TRP can offer
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 12:40 AM
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There's some things you can take from him but that dude really has a lot of issues, I wouldn't consider him a good overall role model at all. Matter of fact he would probably say the same thing
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 12:36 AM
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You spelled blue pill wrong
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 12:34 AM
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hanging out with the bros on weekends Do you guys never go to parties with girls at them? Tinder looks kinda cheesy and I'd rather not resort to that if I could avoid it. Sure it's a little cheesy but you can easily meet plenty of chicks from it. It shouldn't be your only source but if it is that's still better than no source at all, you might as well give it a shot.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 02:48 AM
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I think the anger phase has a lot to with jealousy of missing out on all the fun. Girls can have sex so easily and before TRP or maybe even after if you're disadvantaged or unmotivated, it's been hard for us to get laid or have relationships and we've missed out. It's also anger at being lied to by society on how to best go about get laid and having relationships, but I think being angry at Chad is only something that extremely blue pill guys experience.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 02:05 AM
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so far the pros outweigh the cons, Except that they don't. It just seems that way right now. but as it is preached here, the hivemind says to never move in with your ltr until you're ready to get married There's a reason the hivemind says this. Read this article and if you're still somehow convinced that moving in with your girlfriend is a good idea then have fun. Sidenote: I told her that I wouldnt feel comfortable with her dad footing the rent Take what you can get man. If you were gonna move …
/r/askTRP17/05/17 10:31 PM
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Seriously? Do you need a 10 page instruction manual? You flirt with them
/r/askTRP17/05/17 08:31 PM
1

The majority of college educated white women voted for Clinton (51 vs 44 percent), the majority of college educated white men voted for Trump (53 vs 39). One could conclude that in college, women are more easily brainwashable than men. Except the discrepancy is literally twice as big in men so really one would conclude the exact opposite. Not that you can actually conclude something like that from that statistic though
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 10:02 AM
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Set your radius to 1 mile, anyone farther than a mile that shows up already swiped right on you. Doesn't work on bumble though just tinder
/r/askTRP26/04/17 06:21 AM
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There's so many variables at hand. You've only had it for under 24 hours and you already fucked up your secret ranking (yes they both have an algorithm that gives you a secret score) on both by swiping right on a bunch of profiles who haven't seen you yet and may have swiped left afterward which is gonna make you pop up vastly less on girls' phones. When you make a new profile you should let it sit for a day or two and then try to only swipe right on people who already swiped right on you. Plus …
/r/askTRP25/04/17 11:37 PM
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Here's a really good comprehensive guide: http://www.nateliason.com/last-longer-in-bed/
/r/askTRP23/03/17 01:53 AM
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He means the former. When you're all stressed out about lasting long, you don't last long. When you don't care, you're more likely to relax and actually be able to last long
/r/askTRP23/03/17 01:52 AM
1

r/personalfinance might be a better place to ask this question, but for me the best thing I did was realize how little I need and how much the little things add up. Once you stop buying bullshit you don't need and eating out or going out for coffee all the time, you only have to pay for the essentials. Rent, groceries, medical insurance, car insurance/gas, phone/internet/gym membership. Check out a documentary on Netflix called "Minimalism" to see a very reasonable example of how much stuff you …
/r/askTRP12/03/17 10:30 PM
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After thinking about it objectively for a while I came to the conclusion that it was the pregnancy that had triggered this all. I don't really blame her Idiot. If you don't completely remove this bitch from your life, have fun getting treated like this more in the future and fucked over again and again, knowing it was all your fault this time
/r/askTRP12/03/17 10:21 PM
2

But are you attracted to her?
/r/askTRP11/03/17 07:08 AM
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He was a drummer, though, so girls would only last 2 weeks. lmao
/r/askTRP10/03/17 02:06 AM
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Could mean she's putting on the nice girl front for you to try to get your beta bux. Could just mean she's too shy to actually act that way in person. Either way, treat her like the girl she wants to be on her twitter, not the nice girl she's pretending to be.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 12:58 AM
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Never give a girl your phone. She is going to scroll your contacts. I did this and she saw other women in my contacts. After she saw that she refused to give me her number. Even though most of the women were just friends. Sounds like one retarded girl, not something you should base all your future interactions off of
/r/askTRP09/03/17 11:54 PM
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lmao
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:54 PM
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If you just toned it down a little (i.e. removed fucking) and make sure to be playful with it you'll be set. Actually even as is if you said it while smiling and laughing it would be a great response, it's all about delivery
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:54 PM
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This gets discussed in a RP recommended book called the Charisma Myth. Basically it says to confidently and sincerely accept the compliment, referencing the ultra charismatic Bill Clinton. Not saying you shouldn't agree and amplify sometimes but this is definitely a good go-to strategy that exudes confidence. An example for this girl would be to just look her in the eyes, smile, and slowly say thank you. Basically the worst thing you can do is what most people do which is not accept the complime…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:46 PM
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1) What's your question? 2) They aren't red pill, they're just naturally alpha. 20% of guys are and highschool is no exception.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 07:12 PM
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Yeah true I mean it did work great for slick willy, what could go wrong?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 06:32 PM
2

Right, I'm sure if you were the prime minister of Canada you would risk it all too
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 06:20 PM
2

Do you have to have immunity to sickness to be a high value man now? Everyone gets sick sometmies
/r/askTRP09/03/17 06:14 PM
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Yes, you do. He has a book called The Rational Male but if you don't want to pick that up (yet) start here. He breaks pretty much everything down better than most people on the subreddit do to be honest, and without all the bullshit that is sometimes included
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 09:07 AM
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Trust me, once you've been here longer than a month or two you will be more reasonable about it
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 08:44 AM
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If a girl wants to bang you and she's decently close with her roommate she will ask her roommate to leave for an hour
/r/askTRP09/03/17 08:42 AM
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You're going to have to workout more than 20 hours a day To clarify, he meant minutes. u/SomeRelevancy I highly doubt you're so busy working on school all the time that you can't spare 45 minutes 3 days a week to lift. Definitely think this is all really solid advice. If I could tell my highschool self 3 things it would be lift consistently and eat accordingly (14 is the perfect age to start lifting like you mean it), completely quit porn, and get at least decent grades. Also socializing is impo…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 08:40 AM
1

Nothing happened not because whatever you were doing all day, nothing happened because you didn't make anything happen. Bingo. If you were drinking all day making a move should have been super easy... you went all the way on this visit just for this girl and then you didn't even make a move, come on bro
/r/askTRP09/03/17 08:35 AM
1

If you quit watching porn and limit your masturbation or get rid of it completely, I can assure you that you won't be satisfied with only having one avenue that might lead to sex at a time.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 08:20 AM
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He deserves better. You're basing everything off of how attractive she is which isn't really that important. She's obviously attractive enough and probably a great wife/mother and perhaps great in bed too, and as you can see from this she appears to treat him great. Besides, she's definitely better than a 6 or 7. Not sure what else you want
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 08:10 AM
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What? She's pretty attractive, especially for her age and based off this she seems like a class act. I highly doubt you're bagging hotter girls
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 05:13 AM
8

Now's the time to start asking difficult questions like "do I deserve better?"
/r/askTRP09/03/17 04:11 AM
2

Likewise, some girls like to cook, some don't. Some girls are good LTR candidates, some aren't.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:55 AM
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You're expecting her to look after you as if she's your mother, which she will find repulsive. Bullshit. With that logic, women should never cook for you or do your laundry or clean your house either because they aren't your mother. The reality is a good woman will happily take care of a high value man
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:48 AM
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Can't really complain too much, sex on command, no disrespect, doesn't go out without me yada yada. If any one complain I'd say she barely cooks for me anymore, and expects me to cook for her kind of often. So what does she do, other than have sex with you and eat food you cooked for her? Sounds like she's just trying to take your resources and give you none of her own, other than her pussy, but that's easy to find. All you can do is not take care of her next time she's sick, otherwise you're ju…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:42 AM
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What she said "I've never had to have my hand held," conservative MP Michelle Rempel tweeted. "Women's day is about women, not men!!" What she really meant "I got to where I am without the help of men," conservative MP Michelle Rempel tweeted. "Equality is about women, not men!!" Of course, I'm sure she's right that no one ever helped her get to where she was. Women wouldn't take help for granted and completely forget to acknowledge it, right?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 01:38 AM
2

Instead of rooting through the garbage trying to fix this, you should fix that
/r/askTRP08/03/17 02:28 AM
6

Nah. Dick and pussy don't have the same value and there's nothing artificial about the scarcity. Women haven't all conspired against men to make themselves more valuable through some trickery. They just don't have 17 times as much testosterone coursing through their body forcing them to want to fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck constantly. The supply is 50/50 yes but the demand is completely lopsided.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 02:25 AM
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Bingo. If OP had abundance mentality he wouldn't be wasting his time with this girl, and deep down he already knows that so he preemptively told people not to say hard next. Lol
/r/askTRP08/03/17 02:22 AM
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Of course they beg for Chad's dick, most guys do the same thing for hot girls. Humans all love beauty and there's nothing you can do other than work on being as attractive as possible. You're just in the anger phase, you will get past it just keep trucking on my friend
/r/askTRP08/03/17 02:17 AM
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It purposely doesn't answer his question, his question is flawed because the question is based on an assertion that isn't true. I'm not frustrated or jaded by rejection. If anything pretending like women are worthless while you're on the internet trying to figure out how to attract more of them is angsty and frustrated. I'm supporting men by telling it like it is so they know the game they're playing.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 02:15 AM
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If you're not in the top 10% of men online you are as good as trash and messaging a girl online you're already submissive to her. I'm pretty average, maybe slightly above, and I've met upwards of 20 girls on tinder. Especially considering my pictures are fairly shitty, I'm far from the top 10%. Leading a conversation does not make you submissive, why are you looking at it like that? Sure most girls are on tinder for a validation boost and won't even reply to you, but so what? If you spend 5 minu…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 02:06 AM
2

I don't want one girl to see me escalating with another one overtly. Yes you do. As long as you aren't getting rejected. Most of the girls don't drive and since my highschool isn't a township hs they all live far away. The only way they would get their parents/friends to drive them What about you driving?
/r/askTRP08/03/17 02:00 AM
1

You can have a high smv and date one person for your whole life
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:58 AM
6

The park, the grocery store, the coffee shop. Pretty much everywhere
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:56 AM
1

Why should it happen to them any less? They're most likely dating guys of comparable SMV to their own, just like a girl with low SMV would
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:53 AM
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I texted her "hi is this xxx" she said "yeah lol" A girl who wants you does not reply to a text like that by saying "yeah lol," she replies by asking how you are at the very least. She got your text and she ignored it. Go get more prospects, you're way over invested.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:49 AM
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But they're worthless. You think society became this way on accident? If women were so worthless you wouldn't be on an internet forum trying to figure out how to bring more of them into your life. Dick, on the other hand - that's worthless. Dick is just a right swipe away for 95% of these bitches
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:46 AM
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This question always gets asked and it's pointless. You can be a redpill superstar in Portland or you can be a redpill superstar in Buttfuck Arkansas. Matter of fact, it's probably easier in Portland where the girls are easy. Which cities are men-oriented. No city is men-oriented. Women, in general, are more valued by society and that's the way it is
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:40 AM
2

"I'm too lazy to lose weight and fix my teeth so I'm gonna rationalize it by saying I'm so ugly there's no point even bothering" Sounds good bro
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:04 AM
1

Exactly, dude is just blaming his shortcomings on his race cause it's easier than accepting that he's socially inept or whatever the problem may be and actually trying to fix it. What's with calling every single other male 'uglier'? I've noticed that very few people who come to asktrp don't consider themselves to not be above average attractiveness. Something doesn't add up
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:00 AM
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I spoke to some of them and they value culture and prefer an unattractive man of their culture over a good looking guy of another race. r/thathappened
/r/askTRP08/03/17 12:40 AM
2

And your post was just rehashing ideas that have been floating around here for a long time. You basically learned how to play a blues song, and now you want credit for inventing the blues. Get out of here
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 11:57 PM
4

Any advice to get past my blue pilled days? Fuck lots of hot girls
/r/askTRP07/03/17 08:10 PM
1

First of all you stop calling her "The subject" you fucking weirdo. Second stop comparing yourself to other dudes and thinking it's all about 1s and 0s for who a girl likes. It's very subjective and they can't have sex with your bench press max or your social skills or your popularity in a group. Third stop assuming these guys even want to fuck her, let alone have a relationship with her. Lastly you really need to fix your scarcity mentality so you aren't so desperately focused on seeking out co…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 10:17 PM
6

Did you not read the post? Definitely pretty fatal, even if indirectly
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:14 PM
2

I can still accept wisdom from its manifest value without getting my asshole in a diamond hardening clench because I don't like some people that hold this book in one hand and a flag I don't like in the other. Fair enough, maybe I should be more open minded about it
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 05:09 PM
2

ive never have had been in a relationship before. i am a virgin age 20 Giving up before you ever get to experience what having a good connection with a girl is like would be tragic. Give that a shot before going MGTOW and I can just about guarantee you won't have any interest in MGTOW anymore mgtow has less bs to deal with in the end. You only have to deal with the amount of bs you choose to. You can remove a woman from your life anytime you choose as long as you don't let her plant her roots to…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 06:28 AM
2

I just don't see why she doesn't desire me (I'm better than all of her ex s in every sense you can think of both physically and mentally, she and her friends said it themselves through both body language and verbally) You're thinking about it like a man. That's not how girls see it, they get the tingles or they don't and they might get them from one guy who is objectively worse and not get them from a guy who is objectively better. It's not all 1s and 0s, it's very subjective. Don't look at it a…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 06:19 AM
2

lol you're the dude with the long number username back again to overanalyze everything and do nothing on a new account huh
/r/askTRP06/03/17 02:44 AM
2

Breaking into peoples' houses to piss on their objects is weird
/r/askTRP06/03/17 02:43 AM
5

We're all Big Boys here. I'm not so sure about that lol
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 01:45 AM
3

if you are fucking that married chick, you are hurting her husband. am i wrong? It's more like she's the one that supposed to be in a committed relationship with the husband and chose to fuck another dude and is hurting her husband. If it's your friend then you'd be hurting him by being such a shitty friend but if it's just a stranger you really have no obligation to him. If a random guy fucked my girlfriend/wife I wouldn't blame him I would blame her
/r/askTRP06/03/17 01:22 AM
2

I enjoy pissing on beds and clothes of people. I find your personal information from Internet. Find your house. Observe you a little bit. Break into your house, piss everwhere. People having sex with each other is nature taking it's course, that is unnatural and weird
/r/askTRP06/03/17 01:19 AM
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You blame women for lack of loyalty. Are you fucking kidding me? You are the ones who fuck them. So if you had an LTR, you would rather count on every man in the world to not fuck your girlfriend than count on your girlfriend to not fuck other guys, even though she's the one responsible for staying committed? And if you were to cheat it wasn't your fault because there was a girl out there that was willing to have sex with you even though you were in a relationship and it was her fault? Do you se…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 01:17 AM
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Nah, I'm not mad. I just find it funny classic starts insulting it by saying it's "made-up, and outdated" just because he doesn't share the same views as OP Exactly. He claimed the bible is the original red pill and I disagree so I shared my disagreement in the comments where people are meant to discuss. Not sure why that triggers you
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 12:04 AM
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How about the fact that religion has existed in some form or another since the dawn of mankind? Because it was a fantastic way to govern uneducated people, if anything that proves my point And how about the fact that some of the most secular states were also the most totalitarian and destructive Have you ever heard of the crusades?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 12:01 AM
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Religion wasn't made up to govern people you fucking cuck and you know this how...? a meaningful and righteous path to walk down. a meaningful and righteous path that benefited the state greatly...hmm
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 11:27 PM
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yeah everyone who disagrees with you is just whining
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 10:29 PM
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Believing in an outdated story someone made up to govern people is probably the last thing I would call red pill. Regardless, this sub isn't about religion it's about sexual strategy so get this shit out of here
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 09:35 PM
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Anything you're about is the last thing I ever want to check out. You keep bragging about how many internet points you have and worrying about what other people think about you, I'll worry about staying far away from you
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 11:50 AM
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For your sake and the sake of anyone who ever has to interact with you, I really hope you're just a blue pill troll trying to create a caricature
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 11:36 AM
9

Since I'm getting down-voted a lot, I might as well say it. I've got over 14,000 comment karma. FUCK YOU GUYS. LOL! :) god you are such a bitch Of course you think any woman who contacts a man isn't worth it because you aren't a man worth contacting
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 10:57 AM
1

I mean it's up to them who they wanna fuck not us
/r/askTRP04/03/17 08:50 AM
4

Should I get concerned that I'm not first on the list? Is she first on your list? If not then it's fine. If yes though, you're more invested in the relationship and that's a problem
/r/askTRP04/03/17 08:38 AM
2

Fair enough I guess if you didn't want to you didn't want to. The sooner you hookup with a girl the better though but I'm sure you already know
/r/askTRP04/03/17 08:23 AM
2

Pretty much everyone here is making a good point. I think since she at least asked I wouldn't go as far as drinking her drink although that would be funny, but since she was too much of bitch to even say please I definitely wouldn't hold it for her. If she just told you to do it without asking though, that's when you sip it and say thanks for the drink
/r/askTRP04/03/17 02:45 AM
2

You dont need to be better to fuck. Patrice O'Neal's whole fucking point was that you do need to be better to fuck, unless you have a twat. No one said you have to be #1 or a CEO, matter of fact the bar is set pretty low considering the general male population is overweight and spends the majority of their free time watching tv
/r/askTRP04/03/17 12:55 AM
2

Shitest or not? Yes. Agree and amplify, like most situations, works great here
/r/askTRP04/03/17 12:50 AM
2

how is not closing positive results?
/r/askTRP04/03/17 12:47 AM
5

dude probably just doesn't lift so the cognitive dissonance is killing him and making him perform these kinds of gymnastics
/r/askTRP03/03/17 03:10 AM
1

I just lost brain cells trying to make sense of this comment
/r/askTRP03/03/17 03:09 AM
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Why would you want to aim so low? Right? It's better than most for sure and a good starting point but why not keep going towards your natty limit? I think it's just hamstering from guys who don't want to take lifting seriously. No reason not to shoot for being lean and jacked other than the rare few who are serious about a sport that being super jacked would hinder them in. But even then, good luck getting to that point without steroids
/r/askTRP02/03/17 09:15 PM
2

You can't get a shirt that's tight enough and not tiny if you aren't fairly muscular
/r/askTRP02/03/17 09:11 PM
2

bulk for 3 weeks, cut for 1 week repeat
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:56 PM
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transmit the sensation that I'm proud of where I'm at (professionally, personally, etc). Yeah once you start trying to "transmit that sensation" you're just gonna come off like an insecure loser. If this girl just wants validation anyway just ignore her
/r/askTRP02/03/17 07:58 PM
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and paint myself as a more valuable person than her current bf lol. Once you start trying to impress her and talk yourself up you only prove your lack of value
/r/askTRP02/03/17 07:50 PM
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She's baiting me for validation, mainly to see if she can get me to kiss her ass asap Then stop giving her validation and attention from texting her (i.e. start using one word answers or ignoring certain things) and force her to tell her she wants to come visit you to get your attention back. If she's just looking for validation though then she might not actually want to come visit anyway so you gotta prepared to take the L
/r/askTRP02/03/17 07:47 PM
7

The brad fitt fight club otter mode type of physique that everyone's suggesting definitely will work and be really attractive to women but if you can get pretty big too then that's even better. Having huge arms that are visible even in a T-Shirt is a gamechanger all the time, being shredded up but small only really matters when you're at the beach or a pool or something, other than the low body fat making your face look best. And even in those situations it would still be better to have more mus…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 07:40 PM
2

how to play this so the idea literally comes from her, rather than me making a move and making it happen, if that makes sense. So you want a woman to take charge and tell you what she wants? Especially when she has a boyfriend and needs it to be your idea for plausible deniability purposes...good luck getting that to happen
/r/askTRP02/03/17 07:27 PM
0

this should be upvoted to the top, all this guy does is come here to whine and never actually try to work on himself
/r/askTRP27/02/17 07:27 PM
1

Caring and expecting things didn't work for me. Yeah no shit it didn't work, you didn't do any work towards your goals you just sat at home writing about shit on asktrp
/r/askTRP27/02/17 07:22 PM
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he was talking about a friend you retard
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 06:58 AM
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Before I continue, I'll state two general premises: a) Everything a person does is a sexual strategy, even if this strategy is unconscious “Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.” - Oscar Wilde
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 06:09 AM
10

You can easily party a night or two a week in your 20s without ending up out of shape and too broke to afford your own place in your 30s
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 11:07 PM
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She stayed there and ordered another beer. Jesus dude
/r/askTRP24/02/17 09:38 PM
3

I've got really shitty logistics Move out of your parent's house bro
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 06:34 PM
4

Your dick game weak Nah like u/max_peenor said you didn't give us nearly enough info to answer your question. But seriously is your dick game weak?
/r/askTRP24/02/17 10:19 AM
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I'm not you so I'm not gonna type out your conversation for you. I'm sure you can figure something out
/r/askTRP24/02/17 10:15 AM
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You sound boring as fuck and just like every other dude on tinder in that convo, just say something exciting or interesting. Anything
/r/askTRP24/02/17 10:11 AM
4

how much prime vagina actually is worth. That's all subjective. "Pussy is only valuable to whoever is fucking it at the time." Patrice O'Neal Might be worth hundreds of bucks to some guys, but it's worth a bag of skittles at best to me.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 08:45 AM
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You don't get it, if your social circle is all miserable unhappy people then you need a new social circle
/r/askTRP24/02/17 07:03 AM
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I feel like this creates an arrogance, or smug aurora if I continue to be happy while others (around me) are clearly miserable. That's exactly the whole point and why you should get away from the miserable people around you
/r/askTRP24/02/17 06:53 AM
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Law 10 Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky You can die from someone else’s misery – emotional states are as infectious as disease. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 06:13 AM
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My man
/r/askTRP24/02/17 05:41 AM
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It's true and it can lead to a healthy LTR if you provide comfort from time to time as well. It doesn't mean you should go be an asshole all the time for no reason though, just means stick to your own agenda and ignore the shit she wants you to do/say ie. refrain from telling any girl you've yet to hook up with that she is pretty and keep it to a minimum in an LTR. But once in a while get her a bag of skittles if she's been good
/r/askTRP24/02/17 03:14 AM
1

I ain't providin' shit to no bitch. Not even a good dicking?
/r/askTRP24/02/17 03:08 AM
1

Lol his beardline is all fucked up after shaving it but other than that let's be honest here he looks way better and he looked like shit before. Dude is obviously super beta but it has nothing to do with his looks other than maybe his looks before shaving that shit
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:31 AM
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If I were you I would work on getting my diet on point and doing cardio/mobility work in preparation for when you start lifting so you really make the most of it, and of course if you want to do body weight fitness till then that would be good too
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 04:21 AM
1

No, body weight training is better than nothing but it takes a lot longer to progress than it does if you use free weights and add more resistance
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 03:00 AM
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I wish I could thank that guy You just did, I'm back on this new account Glad I helped you man
/r/askTRP22/02/17 09:58 PM
2

I like how you went on a rant about bodybuilding and how it makes you unaesthetic then put a picture of a super high level bodybuilder that's on steroids (skywalker) as your example of a good physique lmao
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 07:20 PM
1

Lmao that's super accurate. I guess it comes down to it being one thing to lift an another to maintain a strictish diet
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 07:11 PM
1

Yeah definitely the first song with the same theme but I meant the literal exact words in the J cole song come from the Project Pat song, not Captain Save a Ho
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 07:09 PM
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I didn't say you need too, I certainly don't, but you claimed you're not out for yourself. If that was true you wouldn't just be putting your bros before women, you would put them before yourself too.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 09:33 AM
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The Original that he's referencing, even more red pill
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 07:20 AM
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#saveher #shedefinitelywantstobesaved fuck u right
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 03:23 AM
3

There's only 24hrs per day, and if I want to absolutely excel, or at least be my personal best, at a specific thing, I'll just stick with that specific thing If you actually do that then sure but I don't think OP is really spending so much time biking and training cardio that he can't spare 3 hours a week to lift. If he just doesn't think lifting is important that's fine but that's a different argument. If reading about business educates me more, is more useful for me and it gives me more pleasu…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 02:27 AM
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I'm not saying it obliges him to train for strength. If his argument is he barely has any time for sports so he would rather fill that scarce time up with biking that's fine but that's a totally different argument
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 02:09 AM
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If I didn't it would look like this saveher #shedefinitelywantstobesaved
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 02:07 AM
1

This might do what you like? Or something like this. Unfortunately I haven't heard of anything like those that's weekly. In my experience though, people will always talk about anything large or significant happening in the world, so unless you're a hermit you will hear about these things whether you like it or not, no newsletter needed
/r/askTRP21/02/17 11:14 PM
2

I am assuming you are coming into it acting alpha. Are you kidding? The post is called "how to meet and bang a girl," and it entails the most basic game that could only be described as training wheels for betas. Why would anyone who acts alpha be reading this? Other than the 20% of guys who actually manage to reform their beta ways, the demographic of TRP is not alpha males
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 11:04 PM
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Sure. But relying heavily on self deprecation is the sign of a beta bitch. This is a site full of betas trying to reform and a few successfully reformed betas, the last thing they need to be told is "the more self deprecation the better"
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:41 PM
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.#saveher #shedefinitelywantstobesaved
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:38 PM
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TBP are broken people, lashing out at their own insecurities. To be fair, TRP has a lot of that too. Ever notice how guys talk about how a girl "red pilled" them? Basically they get led here after a girl hurts them and then TRP sounds appealing. Most of the time it's either that or just being completely downtrodden by life (i.e. Confessions of a Reformed Incel). Of course, unlike the blue pill, we still value logical discussion here
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:29 PM
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The blue pill is full of ridiculous idiots that will obviously make you more certain about being on TRP because they're ridiculous. If you want to actually question some things and learn something new, visit purplepilldebate
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:22 PM
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Two, three short stories that are funny, the more self-deprecating the better. This is where I stopped reading. Self deprecation is beta game
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:20 PM
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It's all cool, no need to hate. 100%, but those 70's guys were surely way stronger than the dudes I'm talking about. You're right though, anyone can choose to look how they wanna look and it's all good. Nothing wrong with carrying more body fat if that's what you want to do. But the guys I know personally who I'm talking about definitely just look how they do because they lack self control when it comes to dieting, not because it's their goal to look like that. Then they post snapchats bragging …
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:13 PM
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But don't think of people who don't lift as a bunch of pussies. Did anyone say that though? I feel like you're only arguing your point to try to justify not lifting to yourself. No one else cares what you do or don't do and most people who lift recognize that there's nothing really practical about it
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:08 PM
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He has a point though, annoying language aside. The guy was arguing that he doesn't lift because he wants to have high endurance for mountain biking and skiing. That's like me saying I don't read fiction books because I want to learn about business. They aren't mutually exclusive, and the reading comprehension and practice would be beneficial for both
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:05 PM
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You're right but there are far more people on the red pill who want to look great and get laid than there are who want to be stay small while still being strong because they have dedicated their lives to martial arts
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:00 PM
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Eh he was actually lifting a lot for that movie, you can definitely tell that his chest is bigger than the average dude's. Also if you look at the end of the movie, he had been lifting consistently for a while by then and his delts were starting to look pretty big, you just don't see him with his shirt off. That said, 6 months or less of lifting and the proper diet could definitely get you a similar physique other than most people probably not having those ab genetics
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 09:57 PM
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What's with people on this sub proclaiming that if you don't abide by this or that then you aren't alpha red pill? That's not the point and not what anyone's saying, the point is if you are a guy who comes here and has nothing then lifting is a great place to start, and if you keep at it for a year or two and diet properly you will have a better looking body than 99% of guys which will seriously set you ahead in the sexual marketplace - and this is supposed to be a subreddit for sexual strategy …
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 09:47 PM
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Obviously 200 on a 6'3 WR is gonna be lanky. Idk about that man, this is what 6'2 190 looks like
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 09:43 PM
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you have some guys who can lift a decent amount of weight, but they are also fat asses with double chins and beer belly overhangs and such. What is the point of being strong if you are a fat ass? I see that all the time too and know guys like this. I don't really get it, they act like they're super into lifting and it's "their thing" but they aren't actually nearly strong enough to be legitimate powerlifters which is the only reason to be a strong fat ass. I think they're just failed bodybuilder…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 09:39 PM
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is there a mantra or solid guideline that lets one stick to gradual/constant gain instead of periods of overachievement and periods of set backs? Yes, it's called lean bulking. Joking aside, I really think this video will help you out with figuring out the lifestyle you seek, it touches a lot on this idea of overachievement which I agree is touted way too much at TRP. A healthy and happy life doesn't mean being a workaholic who's obsessed with money, that will never bring true contentment
/r/askTRP21/02/17 11:07 AM
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You develop the mentality by actually achieving abundance in whatever the field is, generally here we're talking about women. If you want abundance mentality you have to know that you can fuck lots of attractive chicks, and to know that you can fuck lots of attractive chicks you have to fuck lots of attractive chicks. Some people here like to say they have abundance mentality without actually having abundance. Some people also like to claim they could lift heavy weight even though no one's ever …
/r/askTRP21/02/17 10:58 AM
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If you put up with her crossing your "boundaries," then by definition they aren't actually your boundaries and you were just giving lip service. At this point you can either have an LTR who doesn't respect you because you don't enforce your so called boundaries or you can show her that you were serious
/r/askTRP21/02/17 10:50 AM
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submitted 3 minutes ago by flabbyfuck maybe that's why? Seriously though there's no way to know, girls are fickle and guided by their volatile emotions. If this isn't a recurring thing then don't worry about it. If it happens often then you need to figure it what the issue is but if it doesn't happen often it was just her problem not yours
/r/askTRP20/02/17 10:36 PM
1

But essentially it is random too. How is dedicating your life to something specific random? Sure you can't control the outcome but why are you trying to control the outcome anyway? Being lonely is part of life
/r/askTRP20/02/17 10:37 AM
1

"In every wolf there's a dog looking for revenge" I'd rather be a revenge seeking wolf than still be a weak little dog
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 10:19 AM
1

“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” -Oscar Wilde As men, sex drives us in one way or another. I don't try to fight it I just try to harness it well
/r/askTRP18/02/17 08:24 PM
1

I don't see you saying you put your bros before you
/r/askTRP18/02/17 07:36 PM
1

Are you suggesting that they want to be ridiculed for being sluts? That's foolish. Once again, they just enjoy having sex
/r/askTRP18/02/17 09:40 AM
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Men want women to be slutty just not sluts. Women want men to be players but they don't want to be played. relevant video that discusses this
/r/askTRP18/02/17 02:55 AM
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Obvious shit test to generate a reaction from me. Or, crazy idea here, maybe they're just talking about it cause they like having sex? Option 2) tease them for being sloots. Absolutely do not be the guy who's gonna make them feel bad for being slutty, unless you dislike having sex with girls. Just ignore it or egg them on. If you want to get laid, be the positive, fun guy who gets it
/r/askTRP18/02/17 01:51 AM
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Preamble aside, I have a feeling that these women are actually no different to men, just positionally. If you had the options women had, the sheer abundance and power of being able to fuck almost any girl, you too would exhibit the exact same traits as TRP rails against. 100% true. 80% of people that post, comment, and vote on the main sub tend to be guys that still aren't getting laid so they're just upset and jealous of women. The anger phase is real. If guys manage to make it to the point whe…
/r/askTRP18/02/17 01:45 AM
2

Why are your parents involved...? How does your professor have your parents' contact info?
/r/askTRP17/02/17 11:55 PM
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It's that they're certifiably unattractive on every level and need to just completely change themselves to even have a shot. And they're too shitty to work that hard, so they sit around whining on the internet all day instead of actually doing the work. That's asktrp in a nutshell
/r/askTRP17/02/17 11:50 PM
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How did I know before looking at your profile you'd be on r/TheRedPill Lmao what did you expect when you posted something making fun of SJW girls? Dude has a point
/r/askTRP17/02/17 11:48 PM
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You need to get your shit together before going out and partying anyway man. Start doing at least something every single day to better your situation. Good luck
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:57 PM
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Physically speaking, am I good? Yeah despite what anyone might say, you're good. You're cut enough to see abs and bigger than the average dude, that's already super top tier. Mirror selfies might be better than nothing but you should at least get someone to take a picture of you so it doesn't look like you're trying so hard
/r/askTRP16/02/17 08:34 PM
1

but I'm worried about overtraining. As long as you're eating properly that's nothing to be concerned about. I just use an exercise bike, I know everyone says HIIT is the best so that's probably the best option. You can do cardio on lift days or rest days since you're bulking, personally I keep them separate since I'm cutting right now.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 08:23 PM
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For all the time I've been reading TRP I've never heard anyone break it down like this. Great comment to get endorsed from
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 11:40 AM
1

It's fine to let them know but don't be such a tryhard about it, no need to bring up anything about getting dinner cooked for you. Just say hanging with a friend or "I have a date" if you really want to when she asks if you have plans but don't say more than that
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:31 AM
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Womanizer with an unbelievable wife. Wait a sec his wife was fucking busted. Bitch looks like a fuckin flounder. She looks like her eyes are trying to crawl off the side of her head
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:29 AM
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I responded with a "hmm" and a tough thinking face. She said "yesss", so I responded with "no but I do like watching that ass" That was a great response you got nothin to worry about
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:13 AM
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Why stop her from feeling the full brunt of consequence? Yup, let her have it. I know it's your mom but why waste your time trying to save her? She won't learn anything that way, and your dad will probably be better off without her
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:08 AM
2

Except if you were a woman you would have a completely different mindset
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:06 AM
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This is so spot on. Some bitch that was being slutty on snapchat with a dude came here yesterday talking about how she's sorry and this and that but all it really was is that she's sorry she got caught and she was still only thinking about herself. It was so predictable it was almost laughable. Even a red pill aware woman is just the fucking same as all of them. This is also the same reason there are girls out there who claim rape on dudes: there's no real consequence for them to experience
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:06 AM
1

All you can do is snap stories or instagram posts. But you don't need to "keep her in your world" whatever that means. In the past she has hit you up again when she wanted to. She will do the same this time around if she wants you again, so just leave her alone for a while. And don't confuse her hitting you up to check that you're still in orbit with her hitting you up cause she wants you
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:01 AM
1

What should I do meanwhile? Just masturbate for a year? All the shit you post here is just masturbation. What you should do in the mean time is lift 3 days a week, do cardio 3 days a week, and above all else COUNT CALORIES and protein. Make damn well sure that you're losing at least a pound of fat each week and getting enough protein to make gains. Tell me I'm wrong. You have a 42" waist man, I can only imagine you're seriously overweight and that is not attractive. What's your height and weight…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:57 AM
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Nailed it. These words might taste bad to you u/lolwwww but they're the medicine you need
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:53 AM
1

Or should I just not re-engage at all? Bingo. You want to make it as clear as possible that she doesn't have you. Even if that's not true, you want her to think that. Only then will she actually want you again. And if you contact her, she's never gonna think she doesn't have you
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:50 AM
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LBJ for this: "In his recent biography of Lyndon Johnson, Flawed Giant, Robert Dallek writes, “During a private conversation with some reporters who pressed him to explain why we were in Vietnam, Johnson lost his patience. According to Arthur Goldberg, LBJ unzipped his fly, drew out his substantial organ and declared, ‘This is why!’”
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:46 AM
1

Start working your way through rational male best of year one too. That's the absolute best concentration of practical, useable, red pill info there is
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:43 AM
1

Tbh man it sounds like she's just getting off on knowing that she has you. Plenty of girls will do that, hit you up once a week or once a month to make sure that you're still in her orbit even though they have absolutely no intention of fucking you. Next time she texts you, ignore her if you want to build attraction and get her hamster spinning. "They don’t want what they can have. And right now I think she has you." - Patrice O'Neal
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:40 AM
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I'm a man. I own, take, conquer, make shit happen. Who the fuck are you kidding dude? What are you making happen? You just post on asktrp all day over analyzing everything you possibly can and complaining that working on yourself isn't worth the reward. Go to the gym and lose that 42" waist, come back here when you're 12% bodyfat and not 30
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:37 AM
1

what do I say when I know that she's a kind soul? You don't know that... Like do I just respond as though she were a bitch soul, or what? Yes, treat her as if she is a bitch and you will get way more respect and attraction from her. Treat her like she's a kind unicorn and you will get shit on in return, or at best put in the friend zone. Just don't assume I haven't seen how girls are, I totally have, man. Well idk what to tell you. When I started unplugging I quickly realized how much this shit …
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:33 AM
1

You're definitely running the risk of fucking it up again by thinking this girl is such a great person who cares about others so much and what not. Notice how when you were nice to her it got you nexted? She's not special, AWALT. You should always heir on the side of treating girls like shit
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:29 AM
3

If you don't enjoy the music than why the fuck are you at the rave? Cause u/TheNincro told me everyone should go to one
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 10:24 AM
2

And we both CLREALY enjoyed it. Don't assume she enjoyed it nearly as much as you. There's really no way to tell previously in this same position, I fucked it up and she didn't talk to me for months. I just want to make sure that doesn't happen again Describe this fuck up?
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:17 AM
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she hasn't given me very many shit tests before. The ones she has, I believe were unintentional. Almost every shit test a girl gives is unintentional, they do it without thinking. It's in their nature I think truely is a kind soul and that she truely cares about others 1) Who cares anyway? You don't owe her your time and attention just because she's "a kind soul" 2) I have a female friend I thought this about for the longest time, like years, but the more she opened up I realized it's all just a…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:14 AM
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You really think every good looking dude has it that easy? He just got lucky and got famous. The typical dude who is that attractive gets pussy very easily, sure, and maybe they even have an advantage at job interviews if they're qualified enough too. But they still aren't gonna get their whole lives handed to them on a silver platter, this is just one freak scenario. Moral of the story though, lift and be low body fat so your face looks better
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 10:02 AM
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You're the last one who texted her and she ignored you but you feel bad for not double texting? What the fuck dude, come on
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:52 AM
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Give us more background on the chick in question
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:50 AM
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But I'm sure you saw what that dynamic was like by spending time at your friend's houses when you were a kid, no? I guess it could be hard to remember
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 04:46 AM
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You don't have a friend with a little sister?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:54 AM
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Lol I started making an edit to try to clarify but I just said fuck it. It seemed like I was saying that a) being treated like an adult always benefits them when they want to be but I just meant that there's a few times where it does b) that it's not in our best interest as men to almost always treat them as a child but it still definitely is in our best interest, just occasionally not theirs. Except if they cheat or something then treat them like a capable woman who should know better (convenie…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:42 AM
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It's not about literally talking to them like a child, it's just about treating them vaguely like a child with the knowledge that they are like one and will respond to things in a similar way. Read this
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:56 AM
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Eh, there's definitely times where they benefit from being treated like an adult
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:57 AM
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You're right, it makes me mad when people think they're special snowflakes who are above basic red pill advice. Have fun living with a girl you love and hearing her getting fucked in the other room
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:50 AM
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her moving in was not a net negative. This is super basic red pill shit, read this. Sure it might have been nice for a while but now you're stuck living with a girl you're in love with that's off banging other dudes and probably has been for a long time. That is a definite fucking negative ive learned to not fall in love Yeah right, everyone falls in love. You aren't a special snowflake. what other mistake did i make? Dude you LTRed a cheater and moved her in with you. What the fuck were you thi…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:48 AM
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A girl's whole world is based on how she feels, and how she feels is constantly changing because emotions are so volatile. A guy's world is based more on reason, logic, and his perception of reality (which is less likely to be clouded with whatever he's feeling at the time). These things are much more stable
/r/askTRP16/02/17 01:41 AM
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I have had the 'talk' and she said this is only a dance and nothing will ever happen. You mean you tried to mate guard? Nice going
/r/askTRP16/02/17 01:39 AM
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figured I'd try get a first date bang by using Valentine's Day to my advantage Valentine's day has to be the absolute worst day for a first date it was supposed to be at 4pm and I woke up at 6:30 You woke up at 6:30 pm? What the fuck dude? What is the point of this autistic ass post?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:20 AM
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So almost everything you did was the opposite of red pill behavior and that didn't work out for you? Shocking
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:15 AM
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i fell in love with her that was my only mistake. You literally think that was your only mistake, and moving in with her was fine? You haven't learned shit and you're gonna get burned again in the future. Come back and give us another field report so we can tell you we told you so
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:13 AM
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Or maybe cause you said she's a cheater...?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:11 AM
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I dont think it has anything to do with talking to them like they are kids. The first bitch just sounds like a horny slut. The other two you were just talking about boring shit in general. Its like having conversation about some basic shit like the weather or what you ate for dinner, most people dont really give a shit. The brutal truth. It sounds nicer and simpler to say all girls react to the same things and the only reason the other two weren't interested is cause OP didn't treat them like a …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:09 AM
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When it's convenient for them, yeah. But when it's not, then they want to be treated like an adult
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:05 AM
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Cutting all contact is the correct move, that's the only way you can actually move on. But hard next is more of a term for a girl you actually have a sexual relationship with
/r/askTRP16/02/17 01:00 AM
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I never even said anything about the frequency of how much someone thinks about sex, why are you still talking about that? If you don't want to have sex, you don't want to have sex. Just like attraction, it is non-negotiable. You say this like there can't possibly be any changeable reason for not having a higher sex drive. You just want to kill all possibility of discussion and say "it is what it is and you can't do anything about it!!!" but the reality is jerking off to porn or being unhealthy …
/r/askTRP16/02/17 12:58 AM
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Who would you rather rely on, her to always be there for you or yourself to be content on your own? You have to move on and try to forget about her if you ever want to get better, even if she wants you again at some point. If the fantasy of becoming high enough value that she's interested in you again makes you work hard at actually becoming higher value, then fine, use it to your advantage. But don't ever actually try to get back with her unless you want to be weak again
/r/askTRP16/02/17 12:39 AM
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That's a whole lot of mental gymnastics to somehow pull that out of a simple phrase
/r/askTRP16/02/17 12:34 AM
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All I said was that it's not normal to have very little interest in getting laid but you're arguing with me that my life is sad because all I think about is getting my dick wet? Clearly I upset you somehow. Is it because what I said made you have to actually reflect on the fact that you do get horny and you actually do need sex but you're avoiding trying to get it as some sort of buffer from rejection?
/r/askTRP16/02/17 12:31 AM
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Do you really not get horny though?
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:53 PM
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Sometimes I don't want to have sex but it's not a period that lasts a long time. Get out of here with your "you aren't man enough" bullshit lmao
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:52 PM
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So in other the words, you have the primal instinct to fuck but you get scared of false rape claims and pregnancy so you don't do it?
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:51 PM
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But porn is far more stimulating which means you need less drive to jerk off off to it then to actually have sex with a girl. I know for a fact that if I jerk off to porn I'm far less horny for the next few days - it kills my sex drive.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:49 PM
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You don't just hard next a girl for wanting commitment, read the sidebar this is basic shit
/r/askTRP15/02/17 09:48 AM
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Any woman that is strong and confident would much rather choose an individual that is focusing on improving their lives Honestly, even the girls who say they won't choose a ripped guy would if they actually had a chance. Put a guy with a physique like Brandon Carter(great physique that's attainable natty) in front of any of these bitches who say they don't like guys who are "too muscley" "too ripped" or "tryhards" and they would all go for it. They just say they wouldn't as a buffer from rejecti…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 09:41 AM
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My post References me and I because I'm not sure how to word it another way Of course not
/r/askTRP15/02/17 09:21 AM
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I don't care if I wait 2 / 6 / 18 months to be at the point at which I look in the mirror and think I may be someone he could be proud of. Yeah like I said you say all this shit now but in reality 2 months from now you're not gonna care about this dude if he actually takes you back. He just looks attractive to you cause he actually cut you off, if he takes you back he won't be shit to you. Like I said we've all been here and we know how this shit plays out. You ask for brutal honesty then just i…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 09:20 AM
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she's in early 20s The vast majority of young people are in favor of LGBT and gay rights, man or woman do they love the validation from those comments and a lable of being open minded or they actually care about the issue? A little of both
/r/askTRP15/02/17 09:02 AM
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I am sorrier than I can ever say and the last 48 have been some of the most painful in my life. If you were actually sorry you would stop talking about how heartbroken YOU are when you're the one who actually fucked up and start talking about how heartbroken HE must be even though it's not his fault what happened. I hoped that maybe if a woman was willing to work entirely for you that you would see that as her making you her captain and knowing you're the value in her life. That just won't ever …
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:53 AM
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Nope. This post is obviously aimed at men but really mostly applies to women too. "Even if you could go back to where you were, any relationship you might have with an ex will be colored by all of the issues that led up to the breakup. In other words, you know what the end result of those issues has been. It will always be the 800 pound. gorilla in the room in any future relationship." We've all been here with the girl that broke our trust and tried to "change herself" or "be better" and win us …
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:40 AM
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Are some girls just shit on text? Yeah. Simple solution, only text her for logistics
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:37 AM
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There's literally a whole post devoted specifically to this situation on the sidebar. Quit being lazy
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:35 AM
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I'd bet a lot of money he's jerking off to porn way too frequently and it's killing his sex drive. And if that's not the case then he's probably not eating right, exercising, or getting enough sleep
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:29 AM
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speak for yourself
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:27 AM
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Sure, but if he's only not prioritizing sex cause he's replacing it with porn and masturbation then we have a problem. Or if his sex drive is killed by eating like crap, not exercising, and not getting enough sleep then we also have a problem. Let's be honest most healthy young guys are definitely gonna care about getting their dick wet if they aren't jerking off a bunch, the survival of our species depended on it
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:26 AM
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You don't care about getting your dick wet...? How often are you jerking off to porn?
/r/askTRP15/02/17 04:49 AM
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Tbh for me it all clicked and I immediately started to change my behavior. Some beta habits take a while to fix but my mindset changed really quickly
/r/askTRP15/02/17 04:48 AM
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I don't believe I have a scarcity mindset, it's rare find a non-promiscius girl "I don't have a scarcity mindset, I just think these girls are just really scarce and hard to find!"
/r/askTRP14/02/17 11:04 AM
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What the fuck am I doing wrong. You already said what you're doing wrong, have a look: I'm not getting what I want from the relationship I don't want to drop this girl Can you say s-s-s-s-s-s-scarcity mindset?? Can you say o-o-o-o-o-oneitis??
/r/askTRP14/02/17 09:58 AM
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Only those who heavily agree with my premises should bother to give input This is so dumb. Asking for people to solve the mystery that you clearly can't figure out cause you're a retard but you only want people who have the exact same ideas as you to share their ideas that you already have and then somehow come to a conclusion even though you blocked yourself off from actually learning anything new. How the fuck would that work
/r/askTRP14/02/17 08:38 AM
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lmao
/r/askTRP14/02/17 02:00 AM
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maybe you're scared cause you're so inexperienced at this point and you know you'll be awkward
/r/askTRP14/02/17 01:59 AM
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Holy fuck just off yourself already then you won't have to worry about it
/r/askTRP14/02/17 01:57 AM
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There's exactly one way to get more from an LTR: dread
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:47 PM
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If you would actually read the sidebar... https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3m45p7/what_is_and_is_not_plate_spinning/
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:44 PM
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Another plate just left town for a month and another (haven't slept with her yet) If you haven't fucked her she isn't your plate
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:06 PM
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this guy is fuckin hilarious
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 08:06 AM
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Holy fuck that sub is depressing. I need to get off the computer for a few days now
/r/askTRP13/02/17 06:13 AM
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Just warning the guys that might waste their time trying to help you out even though you have no interest in actually doing anything
/r/askTRP13/02/17 06:04 AM
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Average black guy who wants to unplug and undo everything he's learnt about being "the nice guy", but he's not sure if it'll amount to anything as other guys - especially black men, in his social setting are ahead of the bell curve in terms of Red Pill mastery. except not really so instead of actually working on it already he's just posting this bullshit on asktrp hoping we tell him what he wants to hear FTFY. Give up, it's way too hard and you'll never be as good as those big bad guys from your…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 05:41 AM
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Direct quote from this gigantic pussy who has no interest in actually changing his life so he just posts autistic shit all day here instead: "Building a life that makes you generally more positive and excited sound like a lot of work and with no guarantee of reaching success. how can I understand it would worth it?" He doesn't want to change he wants to keep being a pussy living comfortably in his mommas basement
/r/askTRP13/02/17 05:35 AM
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It will massively increase your cholesterol levels. Since you're probably baiting me and waiting to say "but eating cholesterol doesn't increase your cholesterol!!1!!1!!" here is an actual study on that, see the graphs on page 4
/r/askTRP13/02/17 05:26 AM
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You're being such a bitch, why is that a big deal?
/r/askTRP13/02/17 04:19 AM
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too much misinformation out there these days. Seriously, and most people don't even want to consider an idea other than what they already believe. I mentioned this article (TLDR: the USDA doesn't allow companies to advertise eggs as healthy, nutritious, or even safe) in a comment to someone here earlier and they responded "I encourage you to suck my dick because eggs are awesome and pretty much everyone agrees." Lol. People really hate the idea of changing their habits I guess
/r/askTRP13/02/17 04:07 AM
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Yep, it's a little easier to swallow once you accept that it's not your fault and you aren't missing something though
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:54 AM
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any advice? "If she’s fluctuating between being into you and then not, put her away for a while and spin other plates. If she sorts it out for herself and pursues you, then you are still playing in your frame and you maintain the value of your attention to her. It’s when you patiently while away your time wondering what the magic formula is that’ll bring her around, that’s when you lean over into her frame."
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:43 AM
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I feel the same way and generally always have. I think all you can do is get really comfortable with yourself. This is a pretty interesting take on the topic
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:18 AM
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How do I avoid this in the future? All you can really do is dread (keep in mind there's a shitload of different things potentially involved with dread, so look into each of them, especially lifting) or get a new girlfriend. You're right that not chasing her is the proper move.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:14 AM
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You might also consider doing something for cardio that doesn't completely suck, like playing a sport or swimming
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:12 AM
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I've decided this lifestyle ends now. You might consider ditching the smartphone and switching back to a basic phone and getting a gps for your car to replace that function of the smartphone if necessary. From what I've noticed the smartphone is completely addictive and mostly a waste of time so I'm going to ditch mine. Do you have any suggestions for fun stuff to do during my free time? Personally I play guitar/make music and that's what I like to spend lots of free time at. Any sort of hobby w…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:09 AM
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Any ideas what? Old boyfriend/guy she was fucking seems most likely. Could be some slutty pictures or something too, or it could be pictures of food from a restaurant. Who knows
/r/askTRP13/02/17 02:16 AM
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And understand that this is exactly how most guys end up with oneitis. That's what happened to me, I saw her for how I wanted to, as a perfect little unicorn. If you look at any girl objectively, she's not gonna look like a unicorn. The fact you suggest she seems like one is evidence enough that you are looking at her through your impaired lens and not objectively.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 02:15 AM
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What's the problem? So we already know you don't exercise (good shit on working to fix that though) but let me guess: you also eat like crap, your sleep schedule is bad and/or you don't get enough sleep, you spend most your time inside, and you spend a large portion of your day staring at screens and your smartphone is the first thing you look at when you wake up and the last thing you look at before you go to bed? Not that there's something wrong with you because in 2017 this how how everyone l…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 02:10 AM
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How does that make me blue pill? That doesn't make you blue pill. The fact that you said she seems like a unicorn makes you blue pill. The fact that you consider that real makes you blue pill. And the fact that you haven't seen one red flag makes it seem like you're blue pill too. You're probably blinded by infatuation and missing something, see u/failingtheturingtest's comment. Assuming a girl is how you want her to be and blinding yourself from the truth is absolutely a recipe fr oneitis and d…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 02:04 AM
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Do you think a change in lifestyle will result in more masculine facial features? The only change you can make is losing body fat, but it's a very important one. Go from 20 percent body fat to 10 and your face will look 100 times better. As far as facial hair in particular, testosterone is sorta linked to facial hair growth but it's not what you think. It's complicated and has a lot more do with how your body reacts to the testosterone than how much testosterone there is. In other words, increas…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 01:59 AM
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she seems like a unicorn groan I have yet to find even one red flag How about the one in the title of this post...? Anything I should be worried about? Yeah, your lingering blue pill mindset
/r/askTRP13/02/17 01:54 AM
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not sure what amifags are. Yes popular opinion is that cholesterol isn't bad but that's based off studies done by the egg industry and they rig the studies by 1) feeding high cholesterol meals to people that already have ridiculously high cholesterol levels (from eating so much cholesterol day in and day out) and 2) measuring the subjects' cholesterol levels 6 and 12 hours after the meal so that the part where it spikes up super high isn't mentioned, and then the studies conclude that cholestero…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 01:48 AM
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I encourage you to suck my dick Looks like I hit a soft spot.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 12:12 AM
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That's what I was looking for, great breakdown. I gotta admit I'm more excited about the Guns N Roses version of Sympathy for the Devil though...I'm not quite sure how I never heard this
/r/askTRP13/02/17 12:04 AM
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Yeah that's fair. I just think it's worth checking out some thrift stores/craigslist to see if anything suits your fancy before spending full price for something
/r/askTRP13/02/17 12:02 AM
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I recommend learning to prepare eggs in multiple ways because it's about as healthy as it gets I encourage you to read this. TLDR: the USDA doesn't allow companies to advertise eggs as healthy, nutritious, or even safe. Because they are not healthy
/r/askTRP12/02/17 11:54 PM
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Meal prep meal prep meal prep meal prep meal prep meal prep meal prep meal prep. Make your lunch and dinner for the week all at once. Personally I eat a mostly plant based diet which is easy to meal prep for - beans, lentils, potatoes, rice, vegetables, etc. are all pretty quick and easy to cook with a few spices
/r/askTRP12/02/17 11:53 PM
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Or just go to value village/savers and pay $20 for one of the 300-500 dollar sets that someone gave away...
/r/askTRP12/02/17 11:46 PM
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This is my ideal strategy: 4 high quality pictures: 1st one just upper half of your body and preferably not smiling, make that one a picture of you at the beach or lake or whatever shirtless if you have abs and a good physique. 2nd picture would be a full body shot of you. 3rd maybe you doing an interesting hobby like playing an instrument or something, and 4th just a picture of your face maybe smiling. And then for the bio I just put my height since I'm tall and something funny
/r/askTRP12/02/17 11:43 PM
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This is par for the course with tinder. Sure raising your SMV will help but you're just gonna have the same problem with the hotter girls that you match with. These girls have a million guys to choose from and it takes a lot for them to want to meet up with a guy from the internet. And it's hard to give them a lot when all you can do is send messages and have pictures.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 10:39 PM
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I'm curious, what stuff do you have that requires a whole room for storage that you don't want visitors seeing?
/r/askTRP12/02/17 10:36 PM
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If your problem is "there is this one girl", you're doing it wrong. Why is it so hard to read the damn sidebar? Of course girls can change their view of you if you change. if she hasnt is it because, she just doesn't like you, quit worrying about it and go find the hotter girls that do like you
/r/askTRP12/02/17 10:34 PM
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There's a time and place for everything. Awkwardly smiling when you ask a dude how many sets he has left on his squats has nothing to do with being happy and everything to do with being nervous
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 10:21 PM
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Except everyone knows that a girl's N count does matter, even the bluest of blue pillers have an understanding of that deep down in their gut
/r/askTRP12/02/17 10:07 PM
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if you have netflix there's a short documentary called Minimalism: A Documentary About the Important Things on it right now that would be worth watching. It actually features one of "the minimalists" place's and discusses it a bit so you can see what that looks like/consists of
/r/askTRP12/02/17 10:01 PM
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I attended college pretty recently and I saw less serial monogamy and a lot more of people actually just hooking up outside of relationships. That might have to do with being in a frat too though
/r/askTRP12/02/17 09:51 PM
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Don't set your space up based on what you think a woman might like, you're the one that has to live there, and she probably doesn't care as long as it's not a mess. My preference is to keep my space as minimal as possible. Cheaper, looks better, easier to clean, easier to stay focused, etc.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 09:50 PM
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the "never-married" 40-year-old.... This man appears suspicious. Why hasn't he married? What's "wrong" with him? I think you have a good point but there's gotta be some ways around it. Paging u/VasiliyZaitzev
/r/askTRP12/02/17 09:40 PM
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It's not a myth and those numbers seem ridiculously low based off my college experience and high for how many said they were in relationships, but who knows what they actually mean by relationship. Yes it's exaggerated in media and not everyone takes part in it, but the college hookup culture is a real thing
/r/askTRP12/02/17 09:32 PM
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What do you all make of this? That you're autistic. You haven't even kissed this girl let alone banged her and you're already deciding whether you want to plate her based on some extremely excessive social media creeping that you justify as "vetting"
/r/askTRP12/02/17 09:30 PM
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Idk what is wrong with that one dude, I'm sure 99% of the guys here are huge fans of girls being on birth control. We're also big fans of condoms (or vasectomies if applicable), and don't advise counting on your plate/LTR taking the pill as the only form of birth control, here's why. Abortion is more of a political issue and has little to do with TRP, you will find lots of guys with different opinions on that I'm sure. Personally I think banning abortions is one of the worst things you can do fo…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 08:58 PM
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I've had it and quitting porn was the fix, it's absolutely real
/r/askTRP12/02/17 12:41 AM
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The only thing we can learn from your retarded experience is how not to act. You don't handle a terrible plate like this any other way than dropping her yet you kept this ho around for the better part of a year. And you came to a subreddit specifically for asking questions to share it and not ask any questions, what is wrong with your brain man
/r/askTRP12/02/17 12:34 AM
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Yes but it's likely to make her question herself and seek out validation from you. And doubling down is better than going back
/r/askTRP12/02/17 12:32 AM
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Jesus you are thick in the head, son
/r/askTRP11/02/17 10:58 PM
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Yeah the fact that he creeped on her facebook and did that probably ruined any little chance that was there
/r/askTRP11/02/17 10:51 PM
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woosh
/r/askTRP11/02/17 10:50 PM
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Should I ask for LDR or have I reached rock bottom? The fact that you are even considering an LDR makes it pretty obvious that you've hit rock bottom. I met this girl online blah blah blah generic story, we talk acouple times a week usually only on skype You've never even hung out with her in real life?!?! You're considering not only a relationship with a woman you've never met in real life but a LONG DISTANCE one? except lately when all ive been getting was emoticons from her the past 3 texts. …
/r/askTRP11/02/17 10:02 PM
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http://www.nateliason.com/last-longer-in-bed/
/r/askTRP11/02/17 09:58 PM
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was Whatever she was doesn't mean shit now. She's clearly not interested anymore. The fact that she disappeared while you were actually hanging out makes it pretty clear that she probably wasn't even interested in you then anyway
/r/askTRP11/02/17 09:56 PM
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ask her number. Answer: Ahahah! Do you really think she would respond like that to a guy she actually liked? Don't be a clown just move on dude
/r/askTRP11/02/17 09:51 PM
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Here is everything you need to know about push pull my man
/r/askTRP11/02/17 09:49 PM
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Oh in my opinion negging like that right off the bat over tinder isn't a good call, it almost always just makes girls annoyed. You're right that complimenting isn't good either though
/r/askTRP11/02/17 09:11 PM
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Gotcha. The reality is with tinder situations like this there's not really much you can do. When there's a million guys for girls to choose from AND they might not even have any intentions of hanging out with any guys from the app it's really hard for them to stay excited about you based on some pictures and a few messages you send, you have to just understand that and have low expectations and be prepared to take an L.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 08:55 PM
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which is considered required reading for understanding TRP Uh who the fuck told you that
/r/askTRP11/02/17 08:41 PM
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I already know I'm not going to fuck her, so I'm not an orbiter. That's precisely why you are an orbiter. You should try reading the sidebar over at r/theredpill sometime man
/r/askTRP11/02/17 08:39 PM
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I just don't know what else I can change. Dude you're 185 at 5'7, you're bordering on obese and you have a solid 45-50 pounds to lose. Quit worrying about the other shit right now, I can guarantee that your weight is your biggest problem. It's not just affecting you socially, it's also a major health issue. The good news is losing weight isn't actually difficult at all. You need to starting counting calories every single day and preferably exercising too and making damn sure you're losing at lea…
/r/askTRP11/02/17 08:30 PM
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"You kind of look like a serial killer" Used that on a girl that was giving me similar one word bullshit responses, it turned the conversation around and I ended up meeting up with her. That line works better than any other line, but you probably already fucked this one up so don't expect anything. The fact that you're asking about one tinder match on here is a serious problem, it shouldn't be that important cause converting a match to a bang is super rare
/r/askTRP11/02/17 08:22 PM
1

One of my plates has been giving me drama for practically the entire 9 months I've been banging her: false pregnancy scare, false std scare, false health scare, obsessing over possible cancer scare, hanging out and making dates with a friend of mine, angry outbursts, text rants.... You put up with that massive mountain of bullshit because you were so desperate for pussy but we're the newbies? Lmao Come back when you actually have a question, lord knows you could use some help
/r/askTRP11/02/17 08:09 PM
1

Right, just take steroids like you advocate then wait for the girls to come to you. Not like you should take any initiative to approach a girl, that would obviously be too much work, but the work you do to pay for steroids isn't too much work of course
/r/askTRP11/02/17 01:22 AM
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It is in my first message, I just edited it in not even a minute after posting it. Did you really text her in between now and when I posted that message? And if so what part about "get on with your life while you wait for her to end her little tantrum" did you decide involved contacting her?
/r/askTRP11/02/17 01:18 AM
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In what department? Sidebar, rational male best of year one. You are never to tell a partner how many women you've slept with Seriously you better not contact her or reply to anything she says until she apologizes to you, if you don't heed that advice you're gonna completely fuck yourself over.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 01:11 AM
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This "unicorn" of mine groan I said yes, one girl You need to do a lot more reading Whats the next step? Get on with your life while you wait for her to end her stupid little tantrum. Do not contact or reply to any thing from her until she apologizes.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 01:07 AM
1

so ignorant
/r/askTRP11/02/17 12:29 AM
33

Why not just marry an in-shape bloke with an alpha mindset? There's not many of these men to go around. And they are far less likely to have any interest in getting married. The chance of most woman to get anything but a pump and dump from a guy who's truly alpha is slim. And you have some misunderstandings here, it's not like literally all women have an aversion and can't be attracted to 80% of guys. A woman's determination of whether a man is attractive is very very subjective and most of the …
/r/askTRP11/02/17 12:25 AM
11

she's NAWALT because of how she thinks and acts (again, only works for NAWALTs, which I suspect she is). When you're done living in blue pill fucking fantasy land, then come ask us for advice you dumbass
/r/askTRP11/02/17 12:14 AM
0

In other words, you think you're too good for it. But you're not. In reality you're already doing things PUA talks about but you're too stubborn to actually learn about those things. I can tell you haven't even tried cause you think it's about "clever gay lines"
/r/askTRP11/02/17 12:08 AM
1

Even if you are a natural, learning and getting better at it will always make you better and make pussy even more abundant, and there's not much that's more important than abundance mentality
/r/askTRP11/02/17 12:06 AM
1

Agreed
/r/askTRP10/02/17 10:24 PM
5

BTW a bj while you are eating a steak by a girl in a short skirt wearing a plug is fantstic. 10/10 The fact that you had to share this to strangers on the internet to feel cool is seriously a sign of a problem
/r/askTRP10/02/17 10:22 PM
2

You're the type of guy to live with his LTR and ask a section of the internet that strictly tells you not to live with your LTR how to get her to send nudes so yes I think you'd do that
/r/askTRP10/02/17 10:15 PM
1

Seattle is not cheap at all you clearly just live somewhere that's even more ridiculously expensive
/r/askTRP10/02/17 10:14 PM
1

Don't be stupid with your money And living with your girlfriend is being smart with your money? Just wait till you break up and you're stuck in a lease
/r/askTRP10/02/17 08:14 PM
3

Fuck "self discipline," clearly you don't have it in this case. Get rid of the smartphone, get rid of the laptop. Now you have no access to porn so even when you crave it the most you can't give in. If you need to use a computer you will go to the library. For anyone who thinks that's too much: Its fucking destroyed me and my teenage years. Everything that I've done all the great opportunities that I've been given have been diminished because I can't fucking help myself. What's more valuable, so…
/r/askTRP10/02/17 08:06 PM
3

it's a lot more toned down, at least from what I see, in terms of girls being slutty and what not I thought that my highschool was toned down in terms of girls being slutty too. Turns out I was completely wrong and they just weren't being slutty with me so I never saw it. I'm wondering if this was in any way, an IOI. Could be, only one way to find out.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 07:36 PM
2

3 meals Eat more meals throughout the day so you don't have to eat so many calories at once. Start eating the moment you wake up and even eat close to when you go to bed if you have to. It will take time for your body to get used to eating so much but eventually it will.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 07:26 PM
4

I'd get more caffeine Bad move, caffeine is an appetite suppressant
/r/askTRP10/02/17 07:24 PM
2

At one point I mentioned how I plan on spending my first paycheck on hookerss. Like WTF. If it makes you feel better we're all cringing with you. I have this thing where I try to prove my importance by showing my knowledge about any subject You need to get some self worth based on something internal so you don't feel like you need to do that. And you really need to learn how to STFU at times when you should STFU.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 07:21 PM
3

Maybe she'll make a nice plate in the future. Maybe she'll be a crucial business partner. Maybe I'll be sick and she has the only organ in the world that can save my ass. Why are you even considering ridiculous unlikely shit when you dump a woman? Ghosting creates resentment and spoils any chance of having any sort of adult, sane and healthy relationship going forward. Clearly you would know since you've never tried it Digging through trash means YOU regret ditching her and going back after her.…
/r/askTRP10/02/17 07:09 PM
1

you send him to his room until he gets back to his senses and apologizes and earn back your trust. This isn't a case where you're waiting for her to apologize and earn back your trust. The fact that you even consider the idea of a woman "earning back your trust" is very problematic. Don't go digging through the trash. I just don't understand what you have to win from confronting a woman that wrongs you. All you do is give her a chance to be heard which she doesn't deserve and isn't beneficial to…
/r/askTRP10/02/17 06:54 PM
2

You're still giving her the attention and the drama that she so desperately craves and 9 times out of 10 you're just gonna end up trying to explain your behavior to her rationally and trying to make her understand which is never good
/r/askTRP10/02/17 06:44 PM
1

Eat at least .8g of protein per pound
/r/askTRP10/02/17 06:39 PM
1

Just get a high quality tinder pic of you shirtless at the beach and that will be guaranteed to still work in winter haha
/r/askTRP10/02/17 05:42 AM
2

Sanity or finances. Why not both? Move somewhere that's cheaper to live so you can save money. Work on getting a job there first of course. Alternatively keep living at home but spend all your time away. At the library, at the gym, at a plate's place, at the rehearsal space your band is renting, etc. etc. whatever the case may be. You just come home to eat and sleep. Side effect, you will be way more productive
/r/askTRP10/02/17 05:21 AM
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The single most effective way to tell a woman "you fucked up, and now you're being punished" is ghosting her.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:15 AM
7

Women suck guys' dicks and swallow their cum. Why shouldn't we?
/r/askTRP10/02/17 02:29 AM
4

Until you put a jacket or a long sleeve shirt on
/r/askTRP10/02/17 02:27 AM
4

Obviously start lifting and eating appropriately and your physique will make you stand out from everyone in a year or two. Make sure you have good hygiene and attention to style. And most importantly have a look. Do all those things and you will have separated yourself from boring average joes. As far as socially, be the wild guy that can't be pinned down or put in a certain box and you will stand out
/r/askTRP10/02/17 02:23 AM
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I'm not a sociologist I couldn't tell ya
/r/askTRP10/02/17 02:19 AM
2

Cause you're breaking social norms. Who cares, if someone thinks talking to strangers is creepy that's their own problem
/r/askTRP10/02/17 12:57 AM
2

Shes probably a validation/attention whore. Either that, or she's just a whore.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 12:01 AM
1

https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/the-medium-is-the-message/ read up
/r/askTRP09/02/17 11:59 PM
2

Thanks for writing it, it's very helpful
/r/askTRP09/02/17 11:58 PM
1

if you're 21 percent body fat fuck just starting bulking right away. Eat at a deficit of 500 calories, you should lose a pound of fat a week. Eat at least .8g of protein per pound you weigh. get down to around 14% body fat, and then starting eating a lot more and trying to bulk up with lean muscle. Go lower than 14 before you start bulking, like 10-12. And if you want to stay lean at that point while building muscle you can do mini bulks and cuts, 3 weeks at a surplus of 500 calories then a week…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 10:47 PM
3

am I going to have to start ramping up the dread in order for her to get the hint that I deserve better? Winner winner chicken dinner
/r/askTRP09/02/17 09:12 PM
13

And by sleeping I don't mean sex But she does.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 07:44 PM
2

Cause she wants to fuck him, why do you even have to ask it's obvious
/r/askTRP09/02/17 07:43 PM
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Also thinks I cheated on her after I left her in the room. Projection. She's dropped. You handled it fairly well although ideally you probably would have just played it cool until getting home then ghosting her, but since you live together it's more complicated I suppose. Really though as long as you leave her and don't let it get too messy you did good
/r/askTRP09/02/17 07:42 PM
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This post is about marriage but applies a lot to an LTR too. You have to make sure your LTR is under the impression that you don't judge her at all for doing slutty things with you (and you shouldn't anyway, it's what you want). Read sex god method and make sure you fuck your LTR like it's the last time you're gonna fuck her every single time. Make sure your physique, style, and hygiene are on point. Other than all that and using an appropriate level of dread just keep reading TRP and related ma…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 07:49 AM
1

Gotcha I see your point I agree with that
/r/askTRP09/02/17 07:06 AM
1

Talking about this quote that I put a couple comments ago: "Stop having negotiations with women. Stop trying to give her things to make her happy so that she lets you go out to fuckin hunt and let you go out to drink. You have to say “look sweetie, this is how it is” and you have to be ready for her to walk out of your life." - Patrice O'Neal What you're saying makes perfect sense I just can't tell to what degree you mean it I guess, how much importance you give an LTR's bitching about this. I t…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 06:53 AM
2

or when too much time passes and you have to force yourself. If not, things start to slip beyond just sleeping with new pussy, I am talking about the physical shape you are in, your game, etc. Fuck I wouldn't have even thought of this. It makes so much sense though. "“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” - Oscar Wilde If you agree with that quote it's no wonder getting complacent about getting new pussy is going to cause a man to lose motivation to keep everythin…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 06:46 AM
2

This is more of a question for PUA to answer than TRP I think, unless you're talking about this in the context of a relationship in which case correct me. Watch some RSD videos, those guys have dedicated their lives to the intricacies of meeting girls and turning their slut mode on.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 06:38 AM
1

I really think this is all just your bias because you think smoking weed every night is bad - again not that I disagree but I'm trying to keep that out of it. If it was OP having a few drinks 3 nights a week would you say the same thing? That's a comparable situation in my opinion with weed being less of a deal than drinking. But it's all about OP's judgement for whether he wants to smoke because it's his relationship and the effect of smoking weed every night is definitely something that's up f…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 06:32 AM
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I think what your taking away from it is again too simple. I didn't read it that way So you think what I'm taking away from it is too simple then you go on to admit that you didn't even consider it from my perspective? You just considered it from the perspective of "you shouldn't be smoking weed every night anyway because that's bad so you should listen to her." That's the obvious kind of advice you will find on r/relationshits. The red pill way to have an LTR is to set the frame from the beginn…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 06:15 AM
0

the idea that changing behavior because of a suggestion from a women is blue pill. I don't think that changing behavior because of a suggestion from a woman is blue pill on its own. I do think however that training your LTR that she can get you to do what she wants if she bitches at you is a terrible idea
/r/askTRP09/02/17 05:56 AM
1

Chill the fuck out
/r/askTRP09/02/17 05:52 AM
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Do you believe that untouched human nature is devoid of empathy, though? Of course not but I think people are naturally selfish. It seems that humanity naturally has empathy and it is instead the aforementioned media that displaces it with discontent and hollow materialism I think the discontent is natural too and makes sense as a survival instinct, but the media and consumerist bullshit is all just playing on that instinct and elevating it to super high unnatural levels. I want to reiterate tha…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 05:47 AM
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Men of TRP, what do you think can be done? All we focus on is what we can do to build the best lives for ourselves, not what women could do to be content with their man. We approach it from a perspective of asking how can we be the best man who is less likely to get cheated on or ditched for another guy. That said, I'm sure the most important thing a woman could do here is not compare her life to the lives of other women or get her standards affected by online dating and consuming media involvin…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 04:34 AM
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Big pharma, alcohol industry, tobacco industry, D.A.R.E. programs, private prisons, government drug trades to fund secret projects, medical treatments (>$$) cures, monopoly on natural substances, leverage monopoly on artificial substances, government and corporate patents on life forms It's possible to understand all that and still think smoking weed every night isn't good though. Probably not the case with OP's girlfriend but still
/r/askTRP09/02/17 04:12 AM
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Lol you're gonna be alright bro. This is normal, parents are gonna get on your nerves and severely piss you off at your age, that's how it goes. Actually they'll probably get on your nerves forever but it gets better. Later you'll realize they were right about some things
/r/askTRP09/02/17 04:02 AM
2

Are you sure you microwaved them for long enough? Which flavor did you get?
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:58 AM
1

Are you just being really defensive cuz you smoke weed too? I don't even smoke. I'm not being defensive, I just know that telling OP to cave into her bitching is terrible blue pill relationship advice
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:55 AM
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As long as you eat them after you nut in them so you're not wasting any protein. Gainz come first. I would recommend just buying 10 fleshlights though, I have quite the collection myself
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:53 AM
1

You're just saying all this because your bias makes you think OP should stop smoking weed, but that's not the point and not why he came here to ask the question. I would tend to agree that it might not be the best but the man is gonna smoke his weed regardless. If his girl was complaining about him reading fiction books all the time, do you think you would have offered the same response?
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:46 AM
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Yeah it's always a good idea to make sure your LTR knows she can control your behavior by bitching at you
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:41 AM
0

Next time she bitches about it, withdraw your attention from her. You get girls to behave properly by withdrawing attention when they behave improperly and giving occasional rewards when they behave properly
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:36 AM
1

Oh you're right I just read your post too quick and assumed you were circumcised now and talking about being uncircumcised. Not sure how I missed that I will say though I read some thing about it and guys who got circumcised later in life say they didn't last any longer or shorter after the process
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:35 AM
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I think OP should move on and learn to pass comfort tests/not be such a dumbass next time. I guess I agree with your point I just hate that you used the phrase "be a man" as if it's a man's duty to provide comfort to women. It's gonna be necessary for a good LTR but it's not the duty of a man
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:30 AM
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what should i do? Make sure you keep checking out all her social media pages. Up the frequency, check them at least 10 times a day. Start watching lots of porn and beating off more. Don't go to the gym at all, eat nothing but hot pockets and mcdonald's. Candy is ok too. Drink to excess by yourself every night. Above all else, make sure you don't approach any other women for a while. You need to take some time to get over this. Think about her a lot before you go to bed and think about how nice i…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:26 AM
1

saying he needs to "be a man" and claiming that cheating is not alpha reeks of moralizing
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:18 AM
1

I suppose if I was circumsized I'd last longer, so there's at least one benefit to it. lol it works the the other way around champ
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:16 AM
3

Your entire fucking life is video game porn wasteland and you're going to focus on one fucking thing you can't control? the perfect response to half the questions on this damn subreddit
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:15 AM
0

She's asking you to be a man. So the definition of being a man is doing what a woman wants?
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:10 AM
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Another reason not to text other than logistics, if you're always in contact this great pressure flip doesn't work at all cause she knows you're a loser who's super invested in her
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:53 AM
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You can go the route u/lietruth suggested if you want to "do the right thing". That's probably what I would do, and you avoid things inevitably getting ugly in the future that way. However, you can also go the Patrice route and dangle the carrot: "If she goes “I gotta get married! And I don’t want you to go hunting!” You go “Oh sweetie we’re not gonna get married for a while, I don’t know when. And I’m going hunting right now. I’ll see you later. You don’t have to be here if you don’t want” And …
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:29 AM
2

You need to go to a doctor man
/r/askTRP09/02/17 12:18 AM
2

Video is HARD. There's really a lot that goes into it that people don't realize. Looking forward to your show if it works out
/r/askTRP09/02/17 12:15 AM
2

Oh right I think I saw you talking about that. Maybe there's another platform where you can have more control over the lifespan of what you share
/r/askTRP09/02/17 12:09 AM
2

That is a cool ass story, hilarious too. I think it's worthy of a whole post to itself
/r/askTRP09/02/17 12:07 AM
2

Yeah it's not helpful cause I didn't tell you what you want to hear. You do realize that there are RP relationships beyond plates and random hook-ups, right? Yes of course I realize this. But LDR's sure as hell aren't one of them
/r/askTRP09/02/17 12:03 AM
2

as a dude who is not of legal drinking age, thank you for all these ideas
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:30 PM
2

Me: I am only a simple eggplant farmer. Honest work, but all I have to offer is 🍆 Lmao I'm stealing this
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:24 PM
1

I would wife her just to get some handsome/brilliant kids out of it, but this timing and temporary relocation doesn't point towards a successful LDR or continued LTR. My brother, with his impeccable frame and near-unicorn GF, has maintained a cross-country LDR for over 2 years. Do you realize what subreddit you're on? I don't think this is the place for you if you're into marriage, unicorns, and LDR's
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:17 PM
5

I can approach right now but deepdown I want that girl to just fuck off and die. Not literally but kindof. I want to emotionally hurt women who ride the cock carousel, basically 90% of college girls I see. By hurting them, I mean I want to nullify the validation they get from men and make them feel like a piece of meat (which is truth). Shut the fuck up you faggot ass loser. If you weren't such a loser you wouldn't want to hurt women just because you're jealous of them, maybe work on that. "Quit…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:00 PM
1

exactly, nothing to lose. Also scenario #2 is incredibly unlikely
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:22 PM
7

Do i have a pre-ejaculation problem Yes. am i just inexperienced and sensitive to sex? Yes. This is the best guide I've found so far about how to last longer.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:13 PM
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because they're having sex with me
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:11 PM
3

Well you got my answer: it doesn't matter. There are just as many college girls without BFs as ever
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:42 PM
3

TRP is just about basic stuff that will improve your life, particularly your sex life. Finding your passions and mission is ultimately the main important thing for your end game. Is there any TRP doctrine about how to approach old age? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3vxfyj/life_after_30_how_to_be_an_old_guy/
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:41 PM
5

when will it be better? Whenever you stop overthinking everything and actually go do it. Who gives a fuck what season it is it doesn't matter
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:22 PM
4

they have not achieved anything worthy of admiration. Everything they achieve, a man usually already did it or can do it better. It is only called an achievement when a women repeats it. The few things they do achieve by themselves are not things I find admirable No women has achieved anything worthy of admiration? You're just being willfully ignorant. Plenty of women have done amazing things, sure more men have done amazing things, but there's a shitload of women that have changed the world too…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:14 PM
3

so I just shoot her a text that she hung up Why? If there was bad service then you will just look paranoid and if she actually hung up then she definitely already knows she just hung up and you don't need to tell her. It's been a day and I'm here thinking either shit test, bad phones, or she literally is that cold hearted lol... Thoughts? Or maybe the call just dropped but you freaked her out when you tried to call her back a bunch and texted her that she hung up. Who knows man, just forget abou…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:06 PM
1

You're telling me there's not a single girl available for you to meet in real life that would be interested in fucking you? Bullshit
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:20 AM
5

It is possible for nearly everyone in America who isn't already bogged down by something else, much like OP presumably isn't, if they put in the effort required. Not to mention you can work two jobs, or three. Not to mention that doing a job for someone else isn't the only way to make money.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:18 AM
3

lol don't attribute it to me it's a red pill standard
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:14 AM
1

Unless she wants you to commit and you reject her and she wants to retaliate in that way Yeah I actually know a guy who that exact thing happened to, luckily I don't think anything ever came of it. I guess I don't know the whole situation either. Like you said if she isn't drunk and no one is going to find out then you will be fine. Also if she isn't embarrassed of you then it doesn't matter if people find out, and if you're a red pill stud she's less likely to be embarrassed of you. But really …
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:59 AM
1

Exactly, why put up with bitches being dramatic anyway? That's the time to soft next them and teach them not to be dramatic
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:55 AM
1

Yeah as long as you aren't sketchy or something and you've been on some sort of date with the girl you're practically guaranteed to be fine. Drunk college hookups are where you start to have problems
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:51 AM
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I am down 5,000 which is basically my whole bank. At some point you are gonna look back on this and laugh at how big of a deal 5000 dollars was because by then it will be nothing. For now, go be productive. Get a shitty job for a bit (don't have to put it on your resume), pick up random work from craigslist, go get busy at the gym, whatever. And stay busy with your main job search too of course. Try not to dwell on your fuckup, consider it a lesson. You could have lost hundreds of thousands of d…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:47 AM
4

Don't snapchat her so much and go meet other girls. When you have 5 girls in your rotation, individual girls get their volume turned down. You can deal with anything.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:37 AM
1

Maybe. I wouldn't get caught up on it, every fucking girl has a story like that these days. It only matters if they go take their bullshit story to the police but that's incredibly rare
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:35 AM
1

So they're bimonthly, not biweekly. You're better off to talk to her in person if you can wait another two weeks but if she's attracted enough the facebook message could potentially work
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:57 AM
7

There's one way to find out and it's not by asking dudes on reddit
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:56 AM
1

The meetings are bi-weekly and the last one was three weeks ago How was the last one three weeks ago if there are two a week? When's the next meeting
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:54 AM
2

Don't message her on facebook just make sure you talk to her at the next meeting
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:47 AM
2

The scene from Fight Club where Tyler Durden picks up Marla from her apartment is the definition of aloof
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:41 AM
1

If I do LISS or HIIT I lose belly fat. Are those not both cardio
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:30 AM
3

How you use your body can have an effect on where you store fat. Don't forget it's possible for the body to store fat for a few hours, burn fat for a few hours, and give you a net scale loss but increase fat in certain regions. I've never seen anything claiming this and plenty of bodybuilders with great physiques definitely do cardio. Why would cardio cause the fat to be stored all in your belly anyway? Not to mention there are all kinds of different ways to do cardio that use different parts of…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:25 AM
3

Cardio actually makes my belly get fat and hides my abs. burning more calories makes you fat? wat
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:14 AM
2

She says yes, then I ask her if she knows what position I am. If she knows and tells me, I'll say >Oh so you're above me? She'll probably do a cheeky smile cause that's something she would so. Then I say >Not anymore, they'll be a surprise once the holiday finishes. That would be trying waaaay too hard. Please don't do that. Just act normal and let her find out about your new position on her own. If you have to make up some weird plan to qualify yourself to her based off your fancy new position …
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:04 AM
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I'm uncut, which to americans may seem disgusting or somethin Coming from an American, that sounds a lot better than getting your genitals mutilated as a baby. Unfortunately I'm circumcised so I can't offer help but you should not feel bad about being uncircumcised - you should be glad, especially if it's the norm where you're from
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:02 AM
2

Slimming down is all diet and cardio. As far as building muscle, this is a good version of 5x5 that features extra accessory work. Shrugs included
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:54 AM
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One thing I wanted to mention about Tom Brady, he is not into heavy lifting His longevity is about being healthy and not killing your body with excessive gym work. Look at his shirtless photos. He almost doesn't look like an NFL player. I just wanted to throw that out there. The results speak for themselves. But Tom Brady is a quarterback. Try not lifting heavy and being a successful linebacker, runningback, lineman, etc. It won't work. I agree that lifting super heavy might not be the healthies…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:48 AM
2

There isn't enough women to plate here in South Texas where I live and go to university, so I have tinder premium Lmao have you tried meeting girls in real life
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:44 AM
2

Spin plates, always have options on deck
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:38 AM
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So what are we men supposed to do to suppress those hypergamous instincts? Nothing. All you can do is do your best to be the better guy. Girls aren't just gonna throw away a good relationship with a strong masculine boyfriend. Except they might...so don't get married. She's never yours, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:30 AM
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Is this her hamster giving herself plausible deniability? Bingo. She has to make sure you know she has a boyfriend because that way it's obviously not her fault at all for banging you when it happens, it's all your fault because you knew she had a boyfriend and she's perfectly innocent and she just accidentally tripped and fell onto your dick.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:17 AM
2

Hit her up to hang out then bang her with your new and improved penis
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:43 PM
2

Cool your jets and focus on getting laid by an actual girl first
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:32 PM
10

You have to get off the computer and stop posting your autistic questions. Getting laid is not nearly this hard nor this complicated
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:23 PM
3

great question man
/r/askTRP07/02/17 10:40 PM
3

r/redpillmusic
/r/askTRP07/02/17 10:29 PM
2

Sounds like an interesting read, if you find it could you link it to me?
/r/askTRP07/02/17 10:28 PM
1

If you were reading and taking to heart the red pill input I give and the basic red pill input everyone else has given you wouldn't be wasting everyone's time posting your dumbass blue pill stories about going Sherlock Holmes on some whore instead of just nexting her. I gained lots of knowledge This field report shows us that you know nothing
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 10:20 PM
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Yeah I'd add it to the n-count I guess cause your dick was in her. But it wasn't really bad sex it was just sex that she stopped because she wanted to extract commitment from you
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 09:17 PM
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And that's the story of the worst daygame lay I've ever had I think you mean the story of you not really getting laid
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 09:10 PM
5

They love the drama. Like u/dRePe_Thill touched on, if you play this right it's actually only gonna make her a better plate
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:39 PM
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We ended up breaking up because I had to move and we didn't want an LDR. There was no fight, no argument, and we split up on mature and peaceful terms. That's a different case and not what OP or Rollo is talking about. Right in the Iron Rule #7 it says the words failed relationship. Ending an LTR on good terms because you had to move isn't exactly a failed relationship. Rooting through the trash isn't really an analogy that applies when no one put it in the trash in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 08:33 PM
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telling someone with oneitis who wants to get back with their ex "its OK if you just talk to her/fuck her/plate her!", its similar to telling a recovering alcoholic to just have a beer, just one won't hurt, or someone trying to quit smoking to have a cigarette, just one won't hurt, or a heroin addict to have a quick fix, just one won't hurt. Actually laughed out loud at this. This post is 100% accurate. Sadly defeating an oxytocin addiction with logic and reasoning is all but impossible for thes…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 08:29 PM
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Whether she actually did something with the other guy is irrelevant. The trustworthiness of the other guy is irrelevant. This is about the correct dynamic which works and maintaining it. I don't get why so many guys don't understand this. Even in my bluest of blue pill days I thought it was completely retarded for guys to get more upset at the random guy their girlfriend cheated with than the girl who actually had the responsibility to be committed. Yet another reason for everyone to say we're m…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 08:16 PM
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all our visitors make us happy, some when they arrive, some when they leave Except plenty of people, like you, come to the red pill and reject crucial advice then end up doing dumb shit like this. Then they leave when they think the red pill doesn't work, and they make no one happy.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 08:02 PM
7

Don't think I'm a fool. You got all autistic detective on this girl and confronted her about every little thing she did wrong instead of just nexting her like you obviously should have once you found out what was up. Then you came to tell us about it on TRP where we tell everyone to not do what you did at all. I think you're a fool.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:59 PM
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If you want to get her back you have to act like you don't care. If you want to get her back, you have to not try to get her back at all. "She’s not walking out of your life unless you’re crushed. They never walk out if you’re indifferent on the couch. If you go “goodbye, nice talking to you, I love you but you have to live your life” That bitch will not take a step. Trust me." - Patrice O'Neal
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:46 PM
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Careful she might still be fishing for your attention. Report back when she does an oral study on you
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:12 PM
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should I be ok with this, or are my instincts correct in telling me to pay for my own food If she is offering to pay for you and you don't let her it might come off like you're insecure. I'm a cheap unapologetic bastard so if I was in this situation I would definitely let her pay for me. You wanna be the guy that gets rides from the girl and has your meals paid for by her, not the other way around. Chad Thundercock would definitely take the free meals. I bet Tyler Durden would too
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:17 AM
2

You see what you want to see and you don't see what you don't want to see
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:56 AM
3

Lift a lot, be more aggressive, more douchey, more selfish, and more wild. Stop wearing sweaters and button downs all the time, and get a more badass haircut. Above all else just go after what you want in every facet of life instead of being the nice guy and you won't get this shit anymore. Quit acting like Jack and start acting like Tyler Durden. You project beta bux qualities and not alpha fucks right now. This video will offer a lot of insight about this
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:47 AM
2

yeah there's no way to tell what you're saying other than your words when you text so if you say shut the fuck up you're gonna sound really angry
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:20 AM
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Not really a shit test, just the truth. It's not a big deal, laughing it off was the right move. Be glad that she considers making you cum success. Also stop jerking off to porn if you are cause that is likely the cause of the problem
/r/askTRP07/02/17 03:39 AM
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I was so proud of myself cuz i controlled my anger. i texted my gf "stop texting me. Just shut the fuck up" you got proud a little too early champ
/r/askTRP07/02/17 03:24 AM
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it seems like height is the most important trait to women Translation: I haven't had success with women and instead of working on myself I'm gonna blame it all on my height and pretend like their aren't a million short dudes getting tons of pussy
/r/askTRP07/02/17 03:19 AM
2

Extreme blue pillism freakouts at the first sign of disapproval? Probably this, some people do what u/NotExactlyChad mentioned though. I wish more people would leave their questions up because often times there is something for everyone to learn if it's a good question
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:59 AM
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If they get the impression that I am goal-less college wise, career wise, that my only sense is to pursue my passion, artistic or otherwise, they get off on that too! It is almost like they imagine in their head, "This guy will be adventurous" and they want to be a part of that life. But if you are some boring Nice Guy who just wants to get some basic job and rot, rot, rot, rot through life, they will turn to you only as a last resort. You're right. The key is to have a thing. This rational male…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 01:18 AM
1

The problem with doing something like this is your kid would have a really hard time fitting in. Sure the idea of Santa plays a role in the bullshit excuse for overconsumption that is Christmas but I don't think it's that big of a deal if your kid believes in Santa for a bit. It is a very big deal if they don't fit in with their classmates and other peers though
/r/askTRP07/02/17 12:52 AM
1

Just go say hi and start a conversation if you're interested in the girl.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 10:27 PM
1

What does this mean for spinning plates? Should I even be spinning plates with this? It's up to you. I used to get ED from porn and I had one girl that stuck around for quite a while until the problem was fixed and we could start fucking. But it sucks having to deal with it with a new plate and experience that let down all over again
/r/askTRP06/02/17 10:26 PM
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She touches my biceps and chest randomly and says she likes it, but yesterday she was crying at a restaurant we went to for dinner saying she actually doesn't care and doesn't like that I am now getting a treadmill too Translation: You're much sexier now but your increased SMV is making me very anxious of losing you so I'm gonna try to bring you back down to my level She said she was only touching me because she thought since that is what I was doing (working out) she should "play along". It's l…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 10:13 PM
2

Holla at her
/r/askTRP06/02/17 10:06 PM
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If you were getting laid by multiple women on a regular basis, then you wouldn't be so amazed by every girl you see
/r/askTRP06/02/17 06:17 AM
3

"Abundance mentality?" how many 9s and 10s are you plating ...I know the answer ...you are a goof The cold hard truth
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:39 AM
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r/askmrp
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:35 AM
2

Should I hit someone in the face if he spits at me ? If he pushes me ? If he steals something from me ? Honestly other people might disagree but all these things completely warrant a fight. If you're confident in your abilities and that you won't get in legal trouble or they have a knife or something, yes, you should hit someone in the face for these things, except maybe pushing depending on the situation. The problem is you never really know about someone else's abilities and whether they might…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:27 AM
2

Honestly I felt really unwanted, so I got up and left without saying a word. She goes "Why are you angry?", I say "I'm not" and I leave. She could obviously tell you were pissed and pouting about it. You didn't do too bad but you would have been better off to play it cool, leave a few minutes later and say you had stuff to take care of
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:23 AM
3

I wish I could see pictures of all these girls that everyone calls a 9 or 10 on TRP. Somehow I bet they're probably more like my idea of a 6
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:21 AM
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Give her a time and place to meet up and hang out. Then do it.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:05 AM
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I live in the worst city of US for single straight men. It is very rare to see a single attractive woman out there or anywhere at all. PM if you live in the same place and have suggestions. Is this the whole TRP circlejerk about Seattle again? If so please shut the fuck up. You're the reason you're not getting laid, not the city you live in. Unless you live in some town with a population of 16 in Northern Canada you won't convince me otherwise. I came up with these: Bar hopping (I am sober). Bei…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:03 AM
2

But first dates is usually just the meetup point (eg. nice little Italian bar near the beach) and "we'll take it from there" That sounds like a plan to me, I didn't say it had to be super specific. Or that you can't be funny about it too
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:46 AM
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Piano. Girls don't respect losers who get betafied and start to value a woman over their passions that used to be so important to them. Girls respect guys that are winners and they are happy just to be in on a winner's life. Plus, you don't even have to lie
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:37 AM
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"Hi" Don't overthink it. If she already thinks you're cute you don't need to say the perfect thing to entertain her
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:35 AM
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Anyone know a good answer? Something funny maybe? Call me old fashioned but maybe you could actually come up with a plan for what to do? This isn't a shit test, girls just want to go on an actual date if you haven't been out with them before
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:31 AM
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I intend to confront her today again and plain state that she is not to talk to her ex at all. Change of plans: You're gonna read the fucking sidebar and learn about why mate guarding doesn't work and your plan is completely terrible. she told me it was a friend lying about her ex calling her is already enough to warrant a next, but let's not stop there yesterday we were in a theater and she got a call again and talked for a minute She respects you SO LITTLE that she talks to her boyfriend on th…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:22 AM
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Women are a lagging indicator of success. WHEN you are in shape, WHEN you are successful, WHEN you have made yourself excellent in one or more ways, THEN the pussy will flow In the words of Bill Burr: "They don't want a loser, they want a winner. They don't give a fuck which winner; they just stand at the finish line"
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 03:50 AM
2

Crabs in a bucket. He's fat, you're improving and that makes him uncomfortable because it causes him to self reflect on his fattiness. Thus he subconsciously wants to pull you back down in the bucket so he can feel better. Lifting and building a great physique will definitely help bring you higher quality girls. Also losing body fat which is a big part of bodybuilding (cutting) WILL literally make your face look better. Here is a video that really gets into the other benefits of fitness and why …
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:33 PM
2

I love her children Try to be there for those kids. They're gonna have a rough time if your sister is out cheating on her husband and he's super beta
/r/askTRP05/02/17 09:48 PM
1

It takes even more than a year for some guys if they started watching porn at a really young age
/r/askTRP05/02/17 09:43 PM
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I'm on a cut and keto This could definitely be your problem. Notice how 1 week after you got on this diet your ED started? When you're in a deficit, eating no carbs and just eating a bunch of saturated fat and protein it's no wonder your blood isn't flowing well. Your body isn't designed to run like that, keto is mainly for very overweight people or people who suffer from seizures. You should go back to a standard healthy diet that includes lots of good carbs, fruits, and vegetables. It will hel…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 09:39 PM
1

You're overestimating what a top tier body is. Just having some amount of muscle and even the least defined 6 pack is better than at least 95% of guys in America
/r/askTRP05/02/17 04:33 AM
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You're overestimating what a top tier body is. Just having some amount of muscle and even the least defined 6 pack is better than at least 95% of guys in America
/r/askTRP05/02/17 04:33 AM
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if you are able to think about/look at girls in the gym, you could be going harder on your workout. I go into the gym everyday for one purpose, to better myself the best I can. If you're thinking about gaming girls in the gym, you're in there for the wrong reasons. Get out of here with your bullshit holier than thou attitude. You're telling me you never look at girls in between sets? You're full of shit, you just use this as an excuse for never actually approaching them, and you probably don't a…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 07:45 PM
2

Yeah he did a lot of things that were quite shitty
/r/askTRP03/02/17 07:43 PM
1

as long as you ditch the porn completely you will start recovering. Not fapping is ideal but it's not gonna kill your progress or anything
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:22 AM
0

fuck that answer, if you want to ask her out and you're prepared to handle seeing her there afterward if she rejects you go for it. Idk what these guys are so scared of, they think a gym is gonna stop taking your valuable money every month because you asked one girl out or something. As if the girl would even complain as long as you aren't weird about it
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:17 AM
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Yes. And here's a little something for the dumbasses who will say otherwise
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:09 AM
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Dude I know it gets talked about all the time around here because men's rights but false rape claims are very rare. Just because a girl doesn't seem perfectly 100% mentally healthy doesn't mean she's gonna claim rape on you, I really wouldn't worry about it as long as you don't act sketchy.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:07 AM
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You want to sleep with her and not fuck her? You're basically at the same risk of false accusations at that point anyway and that's just gay come on
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:51 AM
1

Other people might disagree but I think it's important to lose your virginity (it will help out your mindset a lot) and it sounds like you're somewhat attracted to this girl at least, go ahead and go for it. Just wear a condom.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:33 AM
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I've given up trying at this point Yet you haven't even seriously tried to get rid of your porn addiction? Get rid of your computer and get a basic cell phone, it's clearly a dire enough situation that it calls for it. If you really need to use a computer you can go to the library. Your manhood, health, and life are more important than owning some technology
/r/askTRP03/02/17 08:42 AM
3

Are you serious? Idk why I'm even entertaining you but yes it's obviously possible and depending on how fat you are you can have a top tier body within less than a year if you stay committed. Notice I didn't say work hard, because you don't even have to work that hard. Just do the math, lift 3 times a week, and stay committed.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 04:40 AM
1

agreed except 2 to 3 is the golden ratio you're looking for, see #5
/r/askTRP03/02/17 04:38 AM
2

I was in Greek Life back in college and I found that during that time, you either had to be in a fraternity to get a lot of the better looking sorority girls or play a sport. Most of these girls were choosy about who they hooked up with. High value girls tend to get with high value guys. Now after graduating college and moving to the big city, I am finding that sorority girls just go wild once they leave the college bubble. They're getting with guys 10 years older, guys that are foreign, and gen…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 03:50 AM
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"They don’t want what they can have." - Patrice O'Neal If you invest in a woman too much she will push away because she knows she has you, and in this case that you're easy to get, and that isn't attractive. Texting for the sake of texting = investment. What u/dRePe_Thill said is also true
/r/askTRP03/02/17 03:46 AM
1

OP: "I am confused on how not texting them works better" You: "Not texting them works better"
/r/askTRP03/02/17 03:43 AM
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She's making it hard to set up anything with the N/C - who likes texting people repeatedly when they don't respond? What Mixed Signals Really Mean
/r/askTRP03/02/17 03:23 AM
1

Looks like your question has been answered, check this article out for more on the subject
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:47 AM
1

You're not really answering the question at all. There is a breaking point for most plates where they will ditch you if you don't commit to them. Could be 1 week could be 15 years, depends on the girl. Around 3 months is typical for a plate to last though but it really depends
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:43 AM
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She just wants to know that she has you. Hits you up to make sure she does then gives you that cunty response. Fuck her, go back to ghosting her
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:31 AM
1

As long as you recognize it you can improve on it
/r/askTRP02/02/17 09:23 PM
1

but I just flipped out You're fucking up dude you need to ground yourself so you stop reacting so much
/r/askTRP02/02/17 08:57 PM
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"They don’t want what they can have." - Patrice O'Neal like u/RedditAdminsSuck_88 said if you invest in a woman too much she will push away because she knows she has you and that isn't attractive. If you ghost her she will start thinking she doesn't have you and thus she will be more likely to want you
/r/askTRP02/02/17 08:54 PM
0

You're being an overemotional pussy. Getting all butthurt that he asked for a source like any reasonable person would do, look at yourself.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 09:31 AM
1

bang her
/r/askTRP02/02/17 08:55 AM
2

RIP u/strongerfaster1
/r/askTRP02/02/17 08:42 AM
2

What's your question
/r/askTRP02/02/17 08:38 AM
1

I imagine they view it similar to the way a guy views a girl who rejected him. Except guys know rejection happens, girls don't expect to ever be rejected so they can't handle it
/r/askTRP02/02/17 08:34 AM
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"They don’t want what they can have. And right now I think she has you." - Patrice O'Neal From now on you ignore her when she texts you, at least for a while. That's your only shot of hanging with her. If a bitch just leaves you on read she doesn't respect you and if she doesn't respect you she's not attracted to you
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:38 AM
1

This isn't really what that post is about. You should read it
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:30 AM
1

Everyone's path is different and it's up to you to seek the other stuff out. Quit trying to make the red pill something other than what it is and just move on
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:28 AM
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But the past three times I've seen her, she talks about how good i look. How much I've changed. Also says that i look just like some singer guy she listens to. ALL SYSTEMS ARE GO Edit: Just noticed the boyfriend part, that makes things a little more difficult. It's quite clear she would for sure be bouncing on your dick if it wasn't for the boyfriend, sounds like she probably still will though. Can't really hurt to make a move
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:25 AM
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Obsessing over the pussy is supposed to be more like a first step in the grand scheme of things. Once you realize from first hand experience that it's not so hard to get and not that special, you move on and focus on bigger things, like the ones you mentioned. Being able to get laid should make self-actualizing much more possible and probable, but you still have to focus and work hard at something other than getting laid
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:21 AM
3

But that post seems to speak to plates and non exclusivity. That post is written by a married dude. And no matter what other dudes say to go out her her, she can't without losing me. If she does, so be in Exactly, but instead of setting overt boundaries like a beta bitch you just act on them. Tell her something like "if you think that's appropriate then go ahead" and watch how she acts. If you tell her she can't go see him all you're gonna do is cause her to potentially sneak around to see him w…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 05:13 AM
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Best you can do is ghost her and see if she hits you up again. At least it sounds like you learned a lesson
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:51 AM
1

Stop being a moralizer that's not what this subreddit is for
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:50 AM
2

theres a redpillmusic subreddit btw you should check it out
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:44 AM
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My gf asked me if she can meet him. I sais absolutely no. You fucked up. Betas mateguard, Alphas disregard. That post will tell you everything you need to know
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:37 AM
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A Bitch Iz A Bitch Under My Thumb Don't Save Her ILL MIND OF HOPSIN 5 Fried Rice
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:17 AM
1

I'm not a hair stylist so I can't really help you out but I also have a weird shaped head and my point is you gotta get a haircut that suits it
/r/askTRP01/02/17 11:27 PM
1

my head is weird So your head is weird which is gonna severely limit your haircut options but you still want us to advise you on what haircut to get without a picture?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 11:06 PM
2

It's only serious if you actually believe it. That applies to agree and amplify too. Is this girl correct or something?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 06:29 AM
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This is easy, go for the fact that she hooked up with you so her standards most be low as fuck if you can't get any pussy but you got hers
/r/askTRP01/02/17 06:25 AM
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she lives hours away and my dumb ass wants to keep talking to her even though we'll probably never see each other in real life again. Looks like you figured this one out for yourself: you're being a dumbass. Dude you literally just kissed some girl and got her snapchat, for all you know she wasn't gonna fuck you, and it sounds like she doesn't like you that much/doesn't care about you cause of the distance if she's taking super long to open your snapchats.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 06:23 AM
3

Then make friends with the ones who want to fuck you or have some self respect and don't do orbiter shit for them
/r/askTRP01/02/17 06:19 AM
1

Lots of kids don't see how unrealistic those bodies are. It's too bad, 99% of the guys kids look up to at the beginning of their bodybuilding career are all fake nattys who are on drugs of some sort and it's confusing because everyone they're learning from is part of the 99% and not telling them that it's impossible to accomplish natty bitching about what a fucking waste my last bulk was, I pulled on my favorite t-shirt and one of the sleeves tore because it wouldn't fit around my bicep, lol. Bi…
/r/askTRP01/02/17 04:03 AM
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Oh yeah 100% body builder that placed nationally That alone made it obvious
/r/askTRP01/02/17 03:56 AM
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Beta orbiter gets nothing he wants while the girl gets everything she wants. A normal friendship looks much more even. If you want to avoid being a beta orbiter, just don't offer a bunch of your resources to a girl unless she's returning the favor. I've also heard of some RP guys saying you should NEVER have female "friends" because they only use you for validation and an emotional crutch. That's bullshit and these guys who were, or still are losers just say that because that's a reflection of t…
/r/askTRP01/02/17 03:52 AM
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Tren hard, eat clen, anavar give up. Test your limits, DBOLish your goals. Idk if you're just joking with this but OP save the drugs for after you've been lifting consistently for at least a few years if you want to get the most benefit, or preferably don't base your self worth so heavily on your physique that you feel the need to take them
/r/askTRP01/02/17 03:46 AM
1

First step: diet To keep it simple, eat at least .8g of protein per pound, preferably more when you're just starting and eat 250-500 calories more than your maintenance level. Your maintenance level is how many calories you need to stay at the same weight, google a TDEE calculator to figure yours out. Naturally since you want to put on weight you need to be in a caloric surplus For your actual workout, since you're just starting: you want something like this that's based around the main compound…
/r/askTRP01/02/17 03:39 AM
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Bar if you're older than 21, park if not. My problem here is I'm under 21 and it's fucking cold so the park isn't really an option but I don't have a better idea than cafe's and shit like you mentioned
/r/askTRP01/02/17 02:38 AM
3

The Medium is the Message
/r/askTRP01/02/17 02:36 AM
4

"Looking for friends" on any sort of online dating platform = looking for casual sex partners. Read the TRP online dating guide
/r/askTRP01/02/17 02:14 AM
1

It is my fault bro. I already know that. Look at this bullshit post. Clearly you don't know that
/r/askTRP01/02/17 01:41 AM
0

great question man
/r/askTRP01/02/17 01:39 AM
1

Quit watching so much porn, champ
/r/askTRP01/02/17 01:35 AM
1

Yeah fuck you, you aren't even short compared to these guys. You're just a pussy. Of course when I tell you about my friends who you would consider more disadvantaged than you getting laid you just deny it instead of accepting that you're a fucking bitch and it's all your fault that you can't get laid
/r/askTRP01/02/17 01:34 AM
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Quit being a fucking pussy. 5'8 is practically average, I have two Indian friends that are 5'3 and 5'4 respectively and do perfectly fine with girls, and they've never heard of the red pill in their life. Like u/Bambam22bam said, you're a loser before you even try with this bullshit attitude
/r/askTRP01/02/17 01:12 AM
2

How can I force her to stop talking to other dudes You've had sex with a girl 3 times and you refer to her as a plate. Why would you try to force her to stop talking to other dudes? You have a problem and it isn't this chick
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:53 PM
1

How much are your lifts? I get the impression you're quite fat and just in denial
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:35 PM
1

I don't feel there's anything needy in my thinking on this. She's a sparring partner not an impossible task. The fact that you're thinking about it this much is incredibly fucking needy. You need to chill out. If you like this girl just ask her out idk why you're getting so autistic about this shit
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:29 PM
2

1000+ is extremely rare even for a 21 year old, like above 5th percentile. 650 is barely below the mean, your test levels are fine. Not sure what's causing your problems but it isn't you test levels
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:28 PM
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http://www.oldtimestrongman.com/strength-articles/iron-henry-rollins
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:15 PM
2

650 is average. As someone who was once 180 and 6'5 before I started lifting, get your ass in the gym. That will help your test levels and life in general if anything will
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:11 PM
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Whatever happens, when you talk to her again, don't talk about the e-mail or your political debate. When she inevitably tries to talk about it just be super aloof and use one word answers. Don't give her any reaction
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:07 PM
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The female alternative is "You'd make the best one night stand" but obviously it doesn't really make sense to say that. If you want to shut girls down with something from their own playbook just hit them with the LJBF
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:05 PM
1

is it wrong to put a woman on a pedestal yes am I trying to justify some beta shit?? yes
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:01 PM
2

We discuss politics and of course, she is emotionally driven and can't actually discuss politics with facts - now she is upset Classic woman Idk what to do here though, I feel like if you ignore her longer it might make you seem butthurt but if you don't then it might make her think acting like a cunt is ok
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:58 PM
3

how to word this in a way she will consider puling this shit on another guy twice. You don't. The most effective and brutal thing you can do is just ghost her. Disappear without a word. She will hear the message much louder and much clearer than she would if you tried to explain yourself like a bitch
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:37 PM
1

Wait a sec I just realized you're 5'10 and 195 lbs...That's very overweight unless you're extremely muscular. Cutting off extra fat should help you with this too
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:16 AM
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for all you know she hasn't even seen the e-mail, I used to almost never check my university e-mail. Hitting her up like that was kinda weird and not a good move but not necessarily a big deal just wait and see
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:09 AM
5

Lift and learn game, it's not that hard
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:53 AM
3

Are you sure you didn't already get one?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:51 AM
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Dude. You're 19 years old, you have all the time in the world to fix this stuff. And all these things are pretty normal for 19 year olds anyway, I was a virgin at 19 too. Almost everything you mentioned here can be fixed
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:20 AM
7

So you just want to hop on gear so you can look like the jacked dudes at your gym? Think about that for a second. I've been peer-pressured by looking all the 20 year old chads my age or even younger than me that clearly juice, it makes me feel worthless. You think the gear is gonna make you feel any less worthless? You need to untie your identity and self worth from this, that's the real problem
/r/askTRP30/01/17 11:10 PM
3

How are you almost certain she's going to cheat on him?
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:17 AM
1

great question man
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:12 AM
1

Honestly I think you did fine. Last time this happened to me I ignored it at first then I just kinda teased her about it, joked that her "boyfriend" would be mad about me even though I knew it was her ex. She actually escalated immediately after that so I'd say it worked well
/r/askTRP30/01/17 07:26 AM
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Just keep your mouth shut about it and you'll be fine. I live in Seattle which is apparently the liberal feminist capital and I have no problems with this even though I make jokes about Trump and quote the pussy grabbing thing when I'm hooking up with girls
/r/askTRP30/01/17 12:28 AM
5

Plenty people who have quit watching porn discuss how they got into much more degenerate stuff because the more porn you watch the more stimulation and dopamine you need since your tolerance gets higher, and after they quit eventually they realized they weren't into all the weird shit they were watching before. Besides, abstaining from porn can't hurt, surely it will improve your life for other reasons too. No reason not to do it.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 11:45 PM
2

You should ask on the fitness sub
/r/askTRP29/01/17 09:28 PM
1

In theory you will get more gains faster if you keep bulking and just cut all at once but is being ballooned up for the time being worth it to you? It's a personal decision, there is no right or wrong here
/r/askTRP29/01/17 09:27 PM
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If you can't get aroused without porn that's exactly the problem. You shouldn't just go jerk off for fun anyway, it's just a tool to use when you get so horny you can't even focus
/r/askTRP29/01/17 01:00 AM
1

hypotricsy lmao
/r/askTRP28/01/17 11:01 PM
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No materials, no artificial stimulation. Just you and your dick
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:54 PM
2

My drive is through the roof so no problem there. This isn't about not having the drive, it's about not having the blood flow necessary. You will feel just as horny but your dick won't be getting hard like you expect it to if you have the blood flow issue which is likely what's going on
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:29 PM
2

There's a lot of things it could be. No one is gonna like this and everyone's going to be triggered but here's some advice from a urologist and some other doctors. Might be worth a try for you
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:25 PM
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look at the massive amount of downvotes on the video, this is obviously not normal
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:19 PM
1

There's a very wide range of caring my friend
/r/askTRP28/01/17 11:12 AM
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The way I had interpreted your description originally, yes. Now you're making it sound like you're a lot more relaxed than your OP mad it seem so maybe she does
/r/askTRP28/01/17 11:07 AM
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Then do the tricep extensions and not skull crushers. You don't need an EZ curl bar for anything on there
/r/askTRP28/01/17 11:05 AM
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That all depends on the situation. You're gonna have to decide for yourself
/r/askTRP28/01/17 11:04 AM
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Make sure to set a frame in your relationship that implies you don't care and you're a fun easy going guy. Once you have done that you can ask about it as long as it seems casual
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:57 AM
1

If she fucked a guy that she liked that's great, if she fucked a guy because he was in the same room that's a next Ok well like I said you're going to have to put on the facade of an easy going dude who doesn't care to find out the difference. Because otherwise you will be wasting way more time on girls who hide their sexual past from you than you would have by playing it cool and letting the truth slide out. And if you're above doing that because you're so morally sound? You and you alone will …
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:54 AM
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I think the leap here is the one where you asked me if I ever made out with a girl before sex and implying that means I have to not have any feelings for her So you'd be ok with a girl who made out with guys they had feelings for the same way you had feelings for those girls you made out with?
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:44 AM
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Thus you are stating that I need to settle down with such a girl and put my dick between my legs and be happy with it. Quite the leap you made there
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:41 AM
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Is that so? Can you find me the part where I said any of that? I'm nice enough to try to help you out but you can't handle the truth so you're attacking me. Look at yourself
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:39 AM
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Good luck with your slut buddy I like keeping some level of moral integrity while still being smart about sexual strategy. The two aren't mutually exclusive Mark my words, you're the one who will end up with a slut in sheep's clothing if you act the way you described. This is basic stuff, how you act is going to affect the way your girl acts if she wants to please you.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:36 AM
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So you simply think no girl has values? And frankly what's the real difference between fucking a random guy or making out with a random guy? It's the exact same thing conceptually just in a lesser form. Not every person on this planet is willing to degrade themselves for instant gratification. That's just retarded. You're so naive buddy. Do you not make out with girls until you're fucking them or something? Get real I don't see how it's morally sound to be dishonest as an assumption that everybo…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:32 AM
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You can either deal with the feelings or move on so as to remain unattached. Personally I think giving up a girl (or anything) that you like because you're scared of getting hurt is no way to go through life. The whole point of life is to feel alive. But asking the girl to be exclusive instead of vice versa is going to set up completely the wrong frame for your relationship, and obviously isn't feasible if you want to spin other plates. Wish I had a better answer for you but all you can really d…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:28 AM
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Isn't it fairly red pill to not want to date sluts? If by dating you mean LTRing, sure. Dating girls that have never made out with someone they didn't have emotional attachment too? That's called not dating anyone, because that girl doesn't exist. How do I do that without actually having to date the slut for months before I find out? And isn't that a bit dishonest? You'll probably figure out what kind of girl she is sooner but that's all you can do. Sure it's dishonest, but so is a woman hiding …
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:21 AM
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( i told her i wanted to make love on staircase, while asking her out) What the fuck man I don't give much of a shit now. Clearly, that must be why you're asking the internet about her. She's not attracted to you. She blocked you on social media. THE MEDIUM IS THE MESSAGE. Christ that needs to be on the asktrp sidebar by now. Not like any of you read it though
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:16 AM
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I've come to assert that I want nothing to do with a girl that's madeout/had sex with/or any other sexual act with somebody she had no level of emotional attachment to. Lmao. Better head over to the MGTOW sub I was thinking that after a few dates and before sex to say I want to have a talk about values and ask her how she feels about sex and if she's had any casual sex but I don't know if this is the best way to go about it. All that's gonna do is alert sluts that they have to lie to you or else…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:12 AM
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I met an amazing woman, and as a thirty year old man thought of her being worth of settling down with. She's just great in every way Lol right that's why you're asking about her on here. Time to read until the part where she's not great as an LTR at all some guy with a ten inch dick PMs it to her and apparently gets her circuits fried. She takes nude pics and sends them to him. There it is! she threatened suicide getting even worse Now after breaking up with her she can't let me cut her out of h…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:05 AM
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boom You can replace tricep extension with skull crushers, and if you want to you can leave out the other accessory work besides that/close grip bench and curls. Not sure what to do about the calves but if you google it I'm sure some crafty people out there have figured something out
/r/askTRP28/01/17 09:55 AM
1

it's in a college town lmao couldn't be further from a commuter campus
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 12:47 AM
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I don't have one particular source but anyone can tell you eating whole foods is the healthiest thing you can do. The way a healthy diet works is as a good symphony of nutrients. If your main source of protein is a weird chemically altered powder (not that I don't use it sometimes but it is not healthy) that can't be good, and on top of that all your protein is coming from one thing with the same amino acid profile and same nutrients. Like I said you should see a healthy diet as a symphony of nu…
/r/askTRP26/01/17 09:36 PM
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what the fuck? how are you only getting 30-40g from whole foods? Even if you ate foods with the lowest protein content possible you would be getting more than that if you're actually eating whole foods and you aren't starving yourself. Relying on protein powder to get 60+% of your protein is very unhealthy
/r/askTRP26/01/17 09:56 AM
1

to be fair I wasn't including social fee but I went to a state school with a very large greek system
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 09:53 AM
1

Depends on the situation. In general, probably about half as common as being mean to not handsome guys (basing that guess off a study about the halo effect)
/r/askTRP25/01/17 11:35 PM
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I never said that you didn't. I wasn't responding to you. I can imagine that those schools are totally different but those are outliers and making a post generalizing all schools based off the rare outliers makes no sense
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 10:37 PM
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Actually I did go to a big state school and I was in a fraternity. Dues were less than 1000 a year and I can guarantee no one gives a fuck how much your parents make
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 07:34 PM
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right, I'm saying that the minimum a girl should do is at least blow you by the 3rd date if not fuck. Or to put it the way you put it, 3 dates is the max amount you can go on without fucking a girl or else she should get nexted
/r/askTRP25/01/17 07:33 PM
1

Ok same here but he probably saw something in you so he knew you wouldn't just shit all over it, I know my friend who showed me the red pill did. And if not then he was just taking a huge risk at having you ostracize him. You're right though there's more to it then just don't show anyone, I've showed a couple friends the red pill and had it work out well but one was already on that path (reading rational male and models) and I know the other agreed a lot with the philosophies already. The point …
/r/askTRP25/01/17 08:18 AM
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Why aren't you doing bench press or rows? If you can't fully function for a day or two after lifting there is something seriously wrong. I am considering removing the compound workouts (dl, squats, ohp) and focusing more on lifting You're considering removing the most important lifts to focus more on lifting...uh what?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 08:09 AM
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Because real life interactions are more valuable than phone conversations
/r/askTRP25/01/17 08:06 AM
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Lol if you're gonna keep dating her just go do it, don't come here and try to convince us that you're making a smart move
/r/askTRP25/01/17 06:11 AM
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Yes I even told her "so you preach anout being traditional and all but here you are, sucking my cock on the 3rd date". Showing a girl that you judge her negatively for putting out to you is a great way to get her to not put out to you, nice one
/r/askTRP25/01/17 06:10 AM
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You're fine. But there's a bigger problem here: She's obsessed with me, she was already blowing me by the 3rd date Getting blown by the third date should be the absolute minimum a girl does for you to not move on, it is not some impressive feat that proves she is obsessed with you. There's plenty of girls out there that will fuck you an hour after you meet them
/r/askTRP25/01/17 06:02 AM
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You clearly want us to tell you that you can work through this so you can rationalize staying with her. We're not going to.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:59 AM
3

is it possible to accept and clearly set a boundary that if crossed again means completely severing contact? All that will do is make her be more sneaky about it
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:57 AM
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This whole comment is the truth
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:56 AM
1

Gotcha. Hopefully someone who has been in this situation can help you
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:54 AM
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I don't know your whole relationship but the TRP move here is to dump her. Any other choice is not congruent with TRP. If you feel like you can't trust this woman, you shouldn't be dating her. It's a tough truth to accept but it's the truth
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:53 AM
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as soon as you meet him Except the girlfriend isn't gonna want OP to meet him and then it will be even more obvious what's going on
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:50 AM
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she's a good girlfriend Good girlfriends don't message their ex. I told her calmly I cannot trust her anymore You can trust good girlfriends.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:48 AM
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its not my problem now You're right that it's not your problem but if you really felt that way then why are you posting here asking what to do?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:46 AM
2

Right? You're at the mercy of game whether you choose to learn about it and get better at it or not. So you might as well learn about it and get better at it
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 05:43 AM
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Well you definitely made things worse by confronting her about it and acknowledging that you were snooping through her phone
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:40 AM
1

You're overreacting. Wouldn't you do the same thing if you were in that scenario? Personally I prioritize giving people in real life my attention more than someone on the phone, sounds like your girlfriend does the same. She immediately apologized too
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:36 AM
1

U right u right, I'm convinced
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:33 AM
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Make sure she understands that you're only doing it because you need to go there and back anyways then
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:21 AM
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they are more fun and understand my humour I enjoy fucking them more Looks like an easy decision. I can't count on them for long term sexytime You shouldn't count on any one woman for long term anything
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:12 AM
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Most houses that are respectable will check to see your parents' salary and what kind of a background you came from before they consider giving you a bid. Lmao what? Clearly you don't actually have any experience with fraternities The bottom line is if you didn't grow up around wealthy upper middle class kids, you won't exactly be in the best position to enjoy the college experience unless you are an athlete. I have seen some kids pull it off but they really put themselves out there and did some…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 05:08 AM
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You already know the answer
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:04 AM
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You think I'm going to try to answer your dumb ass question when you won't even listen to the simple thing I tell you to do?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 04:59 AM
2

Sounds like you would agree with my comment then, if you actually took the time to read it, considering I suggested completely disregarding that idea of morality
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:57 AM
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What did I say about hypergamy? Did you even read my whole comment before replying?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:52 AM
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You were given a chance. I was kind enough to give you another but that clearly isn't enough for you. Click "submit a new post" again and read the bullet points under the stop sign
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 04:49 AM
1

the answer to this isnt in the sidebar. If you actually read through the whole sidebar you would see that it is in fact in the sidebar. Why be a such a dick. You're the one coming here and wasting everyone's time, not me. When you make a post it literally mentions before you post it where to ask questions
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 04:47 AM
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I can tell you're a good guy and you were trying to do a nice thing for him but remember this: No good deed goes unpunished.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:42 AM
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Do people come on here to volunteer their time answering questions from people who respect them so little they can't even take the time to type two sentences out properly instead of using ridiculous exaggerated text speak?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:40 AM
2

When people find out about it and expect free drinks I laugh. I never give them anything it's not theirs to be entitled to. Handled like a true pro. I think making money is a by product of the information you learn here. Yeah maybe I'm just underestimating how important self improvement is when it comes to sexual strategy even if it's not directly related. Some people make the mistake of thinking they need to be rich to get girls though, or that the sheer quality of being rich is important for a…
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:36 AM
1

Remember when you posted this and there was a big sign that said STOP and said please take some time to read the sidebar?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 04:32 AM
1

Why are you even making this comparison? If you have game and aren't scared to approach there are plenty of hot single girls available in bars, hanging out in parks during the day, even in grocery stores
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:31 AM
3

Keep dressing how you want to dress but yeah being quiet about having money is always a good idea unless you want to be someone's beta bux. And since you're here at TRP, obviously you don't want that. Even in general keeping quiet about your money is a good idea, not just with women. People will come out of the woodworks trying to get their hands on a piece. Sorta off topic: I find it funny how often people talk about making more money on TRP. Obviously it's great for personal reasons but other …
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:23 AM
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Trying to red pill him That's where you fucked up. You broke rule number one man. I can only imagine you have barely read TRP if you thought it was a good idea to try to red pill your buddy
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:17 AM
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Do you think I have a shot at getting with her again? Yeah I'm thinking I might have triggered ASD by getting four make outs. Making out isn't gonna trigger ASD I also could have been more assertive with telling her to come back to my place. I could have said. Alright let's go back to my place instead of "come to my place, I can't stay up late, we'll cook dinner." It would have been worse if you were more assertive. You gave her plausible deniability and took the pressure off by saying you could…
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:12 AM
9

See if you can bum some English lessons from the school
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:06 AM
2

my tinder name is an alias and not my real name That's definitely weird, you should fix that because girls are always going to see that as a red flag. Just ignore her for a few days then hit her up to hang out again.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:04 AM
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1) This has nothing to do with TRP 2) This isn't even the place to ask questions that are TRP related. Fuck off
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:59 AM
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Unbelievable. Good on you for dumping your LTR if she's gonna support this shit
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:22 AM
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Jesus fucking christ. That is honestly really sad. The Red Pill saves lives people
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:09 AM
1

Great question man
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:00 AM
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Maybe I am overthinking You are. You don't need some perfect optimal response, she's just sharing her love for cute animals. This isn't a shit test. Say whatever you feel like saying
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:00 AM
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Why do I even care though? I can't figure out why this even bugs me in the least. It's just gross behavior, our brains are hard wired to find girls that do slutty ass shit like this gross. If she fucks people for their services like this it could literally be risky for you, medically speaking.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 02:58 AM
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Was I in the wrong here? From a moral standpoint, yes. Very douchey behavior, obviously you wouldn't let something like that slide if the genders were reversed, right? However, as your experience would suggest...this shit works. she constantly feels like I am hiding shit from her, I can leave her anytime and be totally OK, doesn't feel like I love her Make no mistake: the moment she feels like you're hiding nothing from her, you love her, and you would be crushed if she left you, she will lose a…
/r/askTRP25/01/17 02:54 AM
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It's no biggie. Start reading the sidebar on the main sub and read through rational male best of year one, that will help you a lot more than asking specific questions. Come back here after you have read all that material
/r/askTRP25/01/17 02:49 AM
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we live together Why is your name u/TRPmasterAcc if you can't follow basic TRP advice
/r/askTRP25/01/17 01:31 AM
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Chances are, she just wants to know that she can still have you if she wants to. Act accordingly Edit: To add to this - once she knows she can have you, she won't want you.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 01:28 AM
1

I'm leaning towards just ignore them for now and if this doesn't work out, just text them like nothing happened. I would think that's the best move here, and if they hit you up during your LTR just tell them you're currently in a relationship. I haven't been in this situation though, maybe someone here who has will suggest something else
/r/askTRP25/01/17 01:23 AM
1

It's all about having a balance. Lots of alpha traits with a little bit of beta spliced in here and there. 80/20 or so.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:59 AM
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Lmao. By that man's age even the chumpiest of beta chumps learns better than to orbit. And if he has the balls to cold approach a young chick at a grocery store then drive her home, he isn't the chumpiest of beta chumps anyway
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:54 AM
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You're right and there is the bias from us too since we only see your side of the story but I really can't imagine this not being a sugar daddy/fuck buddy situation. He's 20 years older, she obviously was attracted to him if she let him drive her home right after meeting him, then they met at a bar afterwards but she said it was a coincidence? As if they didn't exchange numbers after that and keep talking. And they just watched movies together? Come on
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:51 AM
2

which is hard when I might just be wrong. You aren't wrong... Re read your post a few times and you will see how painfully obvious it is what's going on.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:42 AM
1

I had one date tell me she was date raped and woke up in a hospital on our first date. Another tell me she has a kid with a guy who's in and out of jail. Nonetheless this kills the attraction when I hear this kind of shit. Red flags go off everywhere in my head and all I hear is RUN! Sounds like it's a good thing you're finding this stuff out because RUN! is the correct reaction
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:40 AM
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I just wanna know if I'm completely crazy for finding this a bit unsettling. You aren't. Sounds like there's a 99.999% chance she is banging him and has banged him before. She once told me how she dated a few guys in X. A few weeks later, she tells me she never really had a date except with me Maybe she meant that she only really had a date with you because when those guys fucked her they didn't go on an actual date. Like u/ramo029 said she can do what she wants but if she meets him the only sel…
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:16 AM
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I tend to avoid pick up theories and all of that nonsense. you're wasting time if you're running game on women you don't even know, this isn't how guys who have beautiful women in their lives do it. So you've never tried it but you're positive that there's no point approaching girls you haven't met because they will never want to become a part of your life? And they surely will reject you because you're a stranger? You're literally advocating that guys wait for girls to magically enter their liv…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 11:52 PM
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